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| 4 | LTR wants me to text her sometimes at nightIf she leaves you because you werent texting her enough... Thats not the cause | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | I realised everything I do i do because of my ex what should I do*should have | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Writing down your ideal selfHow successful is it for you? Would you say that you can't live without that technique? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Writing down your ideal selfLike a journal? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Is Monk Mode is severely underrated and not discussed enough?Thanks, I keep forgetting that women do want to feel things and I don't focus on that enough. Like I've mentioned before, my biggest issue is physical escalation. I know all the theory but I am too shy to do anything about it, which poses a question: what's the reason for that? I am a porn addict (recovering) and I sometimes relapse, so it's hard for me to build a strong momentum where I could crave real life women really hard. I've been thinking that because I don't crave for that feeling, it c… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is Monk Mode is severely underrated and not discussed enough?Let's say your every date ends with a hug, can you really identify the problem? And I am asking you, yourself. Some people would say that the problem is not escalating enough. My counterpoint is that women don't have to necessarily act like they are on a date, they just want to spend their time talking, having a drink and go home because that's a better way to spend their time. So is the problem going on a date with women who don't showcase strong IOI? Or is the problem you not being physically … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Monk Mode is severely underrated and not discussed enough?I can't even tell what's my problem. There's no feedback system that can tell me anything after a date. Was my game weak? Am I too ugly? Is my personality a problem? Do I talk about improper stuff? I know I won't be a millionaire a year from now out of nowhere but I could focus everything into getting rich and that would solve all of my problems, that's why Monk Mode is worth it. Why should I overthink the reasons why I am constantly failing when I can work on one thing and go beyond all of thos… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Is Monk Mode is severely underrated and not discussed enough?I can't speak for everyone and there might be lads out there who are lacking game and that's the only thing that's blocking them but honestly I've been on some amount of dates myself and they always go the same way. It's a time waster to go on dates at this point, and don't get me wrong, I consider myself as a person who can learn from their mistakes, so I am improving somewhat from all the encounters. But I can still see an invisible wall, like I am just not attractive enough and the only valid… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is interested in you but no physical IOIIs not being able to sexualize situation more of a mental block? I am aware of DiCarlo escalation ladder but I just... can't think of any good moment to touch her the way it wouldn't look forced, that's my problem. And if it goes south, the whole encounter becomes instantly awkward and it's hard to enjoy the conversation when I am plain naked. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is interested in you but no physical IOIDo you think I should get another date with the same person, and try again? Or is it ruined and I am cemented in her mind as a guy who just talks | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 10:37 AM |
| 9 | Friendzoned. Went No Contact. She texted me asking how I was doing? What now?Don't bother, you got friendzoned. Getting back to such people is like picking through trash to find a half-eaten subway sandwich that won't fill your stomach and also will make you sick. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:00 AM |
| 19 | Making my move makes me feel cringe/awkwardNo, I meant in a way that she starts touching you, bringing her face close to yours etc., that seems nice. If you want to proceed, it's on you. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 10:00 AM |
| 15 | Making my move makes me feel cringe/awkwardThink of it like this, do you want the woman to be making the moves? That doesn't seem like a bad thing at all, the opposite, it would signal that she is more interested than you are, which is even better. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Dumb girl says no sex until marriageI did some research and it turns out she was a complete fucking slut about six months ago Then she says she doesn’t send nudes, won’t kiss, and won’t have sex until marriage because she’s not “willing to compromise her religion” You should be mad at yourself for being such a shmuck that even a slut won't kiss you | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I read "The Married Man's Sex Life" and I tried saying no to what I thought was a "fitness test". It backfiredThis is pretty funny, not gonna lie. Keep telling her "no" to everything and see what happens, tell us in a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:09 AM |
| 2 | How to reach abundance mentality if youve always been single?Personally I don't believe too much into "fake it till you make it" because most people can't act like they have it all. It takes socially competent individuals to be able to persuade others and by that point you might as well be moderately successful anyway. The best course of action is to work on achieving things, simultaneously (for example lifting, learning new skills, buying better clothes etc.). You can do a lot of stuff at the same time and with that comes a huge boost to your morale. You… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Red pillIf you are new to red pill, chances are you are considered as a shmuck to some degree in your circle of friends. Also it's easy to act in a condescending manner because you feel like you finally figured it all out, you see the matrix and all that stuff. But the truth is you have to internalize core ideas through experience and you shouldn't talk about that with anyone. The most you should talk about is that you are working on improving yourself and leave it at that, if you really internalize thi… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Losing argument and controlling frame?I think self-awareness is crucial when it comes to frame. Even when you know your frame is not really good yet, you don't have to necessarily agree with anyone pointing that out, it's an admission of guilt of some sort. In other words, knowing that you're weak doesn't mean you have to talk about being weak. Just know that you are working on yourself and act like you are strong already, that's a better frame to have I think. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:29 AM |
| 7 | Do girls ever go cold on guys because they realised the guy is a fuckboy?Women want you to commit so if you let her now that sex is literally the only thing you keep her for, then she is going to resent that in some way. But there are probably some women who would gladly keep you as a fucktoy so I guess it depends. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Do girls ever go cold on guys because they realised the guy is a fuckboy?Depends, if she thinks you are easy and have no standards, then her attraction level towards you may get lower. But if you have the "fuckboy" vibe, meaning you can attract pretty women on a daily basis, then your value increases. I would say if you are successful with women, they respect it more than they despise it. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Punishment for cheating girlfriendWhy would you keep such people in your life at all? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:04 AM |
| 14 | How should men in their 20s plan the direction of their life?Ask yourself questions "what do I want to do?", "where do I want to go?", "what kind of people do I want to be in touch with?" This is the most important thing in the beginning and you have to do a lot of introspection about that. Think about your current situation. Assess your assets, skills. Compare your current situation with your desired one, and start planning out your way to get there. Planning doesn't have to be very deliberate but it has to be concise, something you can follow without ov… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 05:46 AM |
| 6 | What do you do when someone destroys your possession by accident?Shit happens with everyone, the question is what do you do after that | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel like you arecrumbling under pressure because you can't see a way out?or because it wasn't meant to be Never think that way. Never. Never even consider it. The moment you accept (sub)consciously that way of thinking, it's over. You'll find other excuses to not pursue your goals and you'll go on a road of regrets. All the expectations of yourself aren't realized, and you feel like all you doing is failing and hitting a wall every single day I feel that way these days, I have some bursts of motivation, work a little on stuff, get a little more educated then go back … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 12:45 PM |
| 6 | What would be the most socially aware and strategic way to address paying on the first date?Would you rather be a guy who doesn't pay for others while still having sex on the first or second date? Or would you rather be a guy who pays for other people's stuff because you were conditioned to do so? You think they are turned off by you not paying for them? No, if they are turned off, they are turned off because a low to medium quality man hasn't paid for their shit which is disappointing. It's absurd to think that Chad has any problems with this, you even hear stories where women pay for… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you know how to set boundaries?It's not possible to walk away from every relationship or friendship when it comes to disrespect right It is possible. Why would you ever want to feel not respected exactly? What I'm struggling with is to make sure, when you withdraw attention or don't say anything back or don't talk back (like your girl is yelling at you and you don't talk back), how do you ensure they don't see this as nice-guy behavior and you're not treated like a doormat? Withdrawing is never being a doormat, because it sho… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 5 | I refuse to fuck anymore girls that I don't consider attractive, but I'm having way less sex now. Is this the wrong approach?This mentality is leading to me masturbating more to keep my mind sharp, to be able to focus on the tasks to be done, to not think about sex 24/7. I do watch porn as well which I hate, but not enough to fuck girls that I'm simply not attracted to. I still don't get how people can think that you keep your mind "sharp" by masturbating. Literally the opposite happens. Your brain shrinks from that, I think something is really wrong with how we are conditioned sexually these days. You thinking about … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 18 | 4 dates no sex, should I break it off?She doesn't find you attractive if she doesn't want to have sex with you man. It literally doesn't matter what people say. Words mean nothing if actions don't reflect them. Do you know what a woman does when she's dating an attractive guy? She wants to have sex with him. That's the attraction. NEVER believe just words. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 10:55 AM |
| 13 | 4 dates no sex, should I break it off?Yes, you should break it off with her. It seems like you are her puppy that gives her that needed attention and companionship. If she doesn't want sex, then she doesn't see you that way, which means you are not high value to her. There is no other way to put it. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 10:46 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with past friendships/peopleWell then, you have to play along, you can always tell them that you are a different person and you don't like thinking about the past, it is up to you. Still I would be careful being too attached, it's not like you can't find other genuine people in your life with whom you can have amazing memories. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 04:03 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with past friendships/peopleThere is nothing you can really do except getting rid of such relationships. Some people will catch up to your improved personality and won't bother with bringing up your past but it's less than likely to happen. It's better to just move on and look for new relationships. That sounds harsh because you are probably still attached but there is no solution to this without pain. Also realize that oneitis isn't exclusive to women, it's also related to other relationships as well, friends and so on. Y… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What is more important in the long run?I can choose to be more attractive, what is the limit? I don't know. I am not even sure how people judge me on the scale. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 22 | What is it like being cheated on? Any stories?Never get attached and assume they might cheat on you, that way you can quickly move on to someone else. Having options is essential. You can also cheat to alleviate the pain but that's up to you. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else think not jacking off is just crazy?It's "normal" and "healthy" because you were conditioned to think so. The same people who produce porn are the same people who pay for scientific studies that "prove" porn isn't that harmful or if they are smarter, will talk about how masturbation is good. Masturbation rarely goes without porn, so being addicted with one thing leads to being addicted to another. Also the fun factor, doing drugs is fun too but no self respecting person would do them. Masturbation is natural in a sense that it has… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else think not jacking off is just crazy?It's not when you jack off, it's what triggers you jacking off. The problem is not fixed, the problem exists because you keep doing this, go on nofap for a month and you'll see what I am talking about. You will feel badly for a period of time but after that it will be much better. Like any other addiction, it creates a problem then necessitates an act to solve that problem short term, while in truth it makes it worse over time. Do you want to be a slave to your own vices? Men don't have to jack … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else think not jacking off is just crazy?You have to understand that you are addicted and you are viewing it through the lens of an addicted person. If someone is not addicted, he won't feel the anger or the anxiety that comes with this, he will be occupied with other stuff. Masturbation is for losers with no willpower and self control. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situationWell you can't have children with plates so you have to settle at some point. If you want children that is. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is feeling inferior normal?Stop thinking in terms of "I am better or worse than someone". That's very crass thinking. You are you. Someone may be more knowledgeable in something but there are no metrics to say that someone is "better or worse" and people should know better that we are far too complex to be judged that way. Just learn and do something good for yourself each day and you will improve. That's the important part. Improvement. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity. Thank you TheRedPillI have a couple of questions. How old was she? What research did you make beforehand? How would you rate her on the scale 1/10? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 11:05 PM |
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