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Only men say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:10 AM
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I've never met a woman who isn't interested in at least one women's sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:10 AM
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Nobody cares if you're short. I see discourse about this NONSTOP. All we ever hear about is short men and how hard it is for them. I hear this every day. Reality is those men are just not likable or attractive, and it has nothing to do with being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:01 AM
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OP is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:17 AM
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The fact nobody here is saying older women are the equivalent of older men proves EVERYBODY knows men and women aren't the same. Older women dating younger men is not the same as older men dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:52 AM
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He's a Brad because of his hook nose and giant forehead. He's 27 so it's probably balding, but I know teenage boys who have that exact hairline so he kind of pulls it off as just a big forehead rather than receding. He looks soft, kind, cute, and baby faced which women love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:45 AM
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No one says it's girl power, but men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:25 AM
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18 year old girls ARE picking 18 year old boys to date. Big age gaps are almost unheard of in real life. When I was 18-20 I preferred boys my age. Now I prefer younger boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:41 AM
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There's other people reading the comments besides you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:26 AM
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Because those women are extremely "experienced" and guilty. Women are shamed to hell for not being virgins, it makes sense these women try to act like virginity is not a good quality actually (those grapes were sour anyway) even if they don't really believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:26 AM
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You respond to the level of threat on you. If you overreact, you are also in the wrong for causing excess damage and continuing the situation when you could have stopped it. If you treat a woman like a man, it's likely you overreacted. I support self defense but many men are downright giddy to be in a fight and take advantage that they are "allowed" to hurt people now. It's even more disturbing than starting a fight. They're not defending themselves, they're elated. Not to mention they specifica…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:19 AM
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It's not sexist or a double standard if it's true, moral, and logical on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:18 AM
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No one else is having? People will not shut up about age gaps as a hot topic right now. Mostly because young women started making a giant stink about it. The drugs point was to say some parents don't care about anything. It's not that they actually think age gaps are good for their daughter, they're just negligent parents in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:06 AM
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This is a discussion forum with over a thousand comments. I'm adding to the conversation. The vast majority of parents don't want their daughter with an older man, point blank. The remaining fraction would side eye it but let their daughter do drugs underage too so that's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:53 AM
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Why would a mom not want her daughter with an older man? You think she's jealous of her own daughter? Why would a dad not want his daughter with an older man either?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:42 AM
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Real answer: Women feel disgust that men are always treated as above them. Being older is yet another way men are above women. Which is why age gaps with an older woman are fine, great even. It slightly improves the vast power imbalance men have over women, but the younger man is still above the older woman. Plus older guys are ugly and young guys are hot. Younger boys sometimes give me a heart attack they're so pretty. I just like them. It's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:40 AM
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That's literally the fantasy answer for women. "Omg I will be the right woman." Cutest thing ever. Just have a pretty face and be cool about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:32 AM
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>Women have power over men when it comes to sex. If a woman goes up to a random single guy and offers him sex, there’s a good chance he will say yes. This isn't power. He always wants sex. She can either agree, or be in danger if he chooses so. She has no power here. "Power" that someone else (the man) gives you (the woman) isn't power. The man has the power. He feels in power too. He feels like he is always at ease, on the hunt, in his element, he controls his world. She feels dehumanized and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:29 AM
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Everyone wants things wanted by other people. Because beauty has objectivity, while tastes can vary. What paintings are the most beautiful and which women are attractive is widely agreed upon by men. Men apply this basic rule to women to justify their promiscuity. Women ideally want a man who has traits that are objectively good, but he's somehow magically not wanted by other women so she doesn't have to deal with jealousy and heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:18 AM
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I noticed the weird ugly dudes usually lose their virginity earlier. Freakishly young, like 13-14.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:13 AM
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Who said he hasn't had women interested in him? If he's not having sex, it's clearly him who's not interested in other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:11 AM
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Of course. Past sexual experience is always a bad thing in a relationship, and paying for it definitely counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:08 AM
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OP asked for lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:50 AM
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Do you honestly believe there is no point in dating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:26 AM
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I didn't say I'm feeling anything. I asked a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:15 AM
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My question was what is the point of dating a man if he will want younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:02 AM
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There's no such thing as old chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:57 AM
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No matter how many times you say it, older women don't care about age gaps. It's younger women who are disgusted by them. I wish older women would start caring though. Everyone should be against older men dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:56 AM
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Good advice, but not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:49 AM
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It is oh no if you want to date girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:50 AM
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An 18 year old boy is significantly more dominant than an 18 year old girl. There's a huge power imbalance there in favor of the boy. Which makes it extra appalling when older men want to date 18 year old girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:00 AM
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What's the point of being with a man if he will want younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:58 AM
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Little kids get armpit hair faster if they're female. That's what "girls mature faster" means. That's all. It's not an excuse for men to be perverts. It doesn't mean children are not mentally children. After age 12, the boys are already much more physically mature than the girls (to the point of being a threat to the girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:58 AM
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You will be laughed at in real life if you try to do this. Girls will relentlessly mock you for being an older creepy guy who wants younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:54 AM
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Men spew their bs about how they are the real oppressed ones outside of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:11 AM
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Men are so privileged it's scary. You don't even know what the world right in front of you is like because you are a man. It is not safe for women to say no to a man. Looking out for your safety is not "punishing" men. I don't want to hear another word about how hard men have it in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:31 AM
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Before we talk about what women "should" do in rejections, men need to stop harassing, stalking, using slurs, injuring, or killing women for rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:12 AM
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No other animal desperately desires one partner, dreams of romance, gets jealous (not the same way humans do or with the same intensity - they're just trying to hold a mate, they don't even care), etc. Humans are the only sincerely monogamous species. For every other species it's just a sexual strategy. For people it's a sexual strategy and a human emotional need. You can go mad without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:39 AM
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Women don't have power over men. Fantasies of women having power over men is men's masturbation material. Older people can sometimes have power over younger people, but men will always have power over women. Her age is not going to save her. Sometimes older is treated as superior to younger, but this only applies to older men. Older men are often treated as so special and dignified and important and worthy. They are the top of society. Women are treated miserably as they age. And men are ALWAYS …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:48 PM
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Sure but this is a fantasy. You can imagine the perfect partner you'd actually be satisifed with. If you want side pieces, that's just admitting you're not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:15 PM
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Are we reading the same thread? 99% of the replies here are from women and men who both want one person for life and be happy and cute and romantic. That's it. It's the most basic human desire ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:10 PM
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If you want that you're not happy with one person, and your entire life will be in shambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:06 PM
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Men are more fertile in their teen as as soon as they can cum than when they hit 30. And men don't have to worry about the dangers of young pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:51 PM
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For some species yes. Monogamy is natural for humans. We are the most monogamous species by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:49 PM
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No response then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:48 PM
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He cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:04 AM
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Pregnancy is more dangerous below age 25 because bone density isn't fully developed. Yet men are attracted to women under 25. It's not biology. 18 year old girls don't look like adults. Any 30 year old who claims that is a fatass liar. And I'm SURE he's not attacted to 17 year olds who look exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:43 AM
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Not every woman is going to love you for who you are, but getting a younger woman guarantees she won't love you for who you are. No exceptions. I straight up don't believe in true love between an older man and younger woman. True love is rare as it is, and it's not going to be in an unbalanced transactional set up with someone who's not even your close peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:06 AM
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Yeah that's why "stage of life" is a dumb argument. By that logic, the man in his 30s wouldn't want the 18 year old because she's too "old" for him. But she's so much younger than him, he still wants her, and he wants her because she's younger. We all know why he wants her, and that's why the age gap is creepy. If she was actually "older" than him (more mature, farther in life, whatever), then he shouldn't want her anymore, right? He wants a younger woman, right? But he does want her, which is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:01 AM
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Yeah I have the opposite experience of the commenter above. I've never met a 23yo who doesn't prefer to be called a girl in real life. It's weird to say "women." Are you really going to be 23, talking to your fellow 23yo friend, like "Ok so yesterday I met this woman and she..." when that woman is also 23? This isn't how people talk in real life. When online, I call myself a woman. Woman doesn't feel age-specific, it feels like specifying gender. But I'd do a double take if someone called me a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:57 AM
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If the men are larger and stronger and more dominant than her (physically, socially, personality - which almost all men are over almost all women), then it's not creepy. Creepy has to actually mean something. Creepy means looming danger. Something is not creepy just because you're imagining it to be creepy if it was gender swapped. People know it's creepy if the man is older, so they just go "oh yeah sure whatever that too" to the question of the woman being older being creepy or not without rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:40 AM
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When humans experience feelings of romance, they want a relationship with that person that doesn't involve anyone else. Monogamy is natural. These emotions are very strong and valid. The reason why is just biology and the way that having one partner is healthy for the couple and their children (and the entire community as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:29 AM
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Obviously getting a woman your age or older doesn't guarantee she doesn't care about you. But getting a younger woman guarantees she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:27 AM
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Young hot guy who is nice to me all to myself > literally any other man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:24 AM
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You're getting used if you enter a relationship with a younger woman. She's not picking you because she actually likes you. It's for your money. She'll be lusting after younger hotter guys while she's with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:23 AM
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Younger women are stopping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:21 AM
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I mean it's really not. We don't have to pretend everything is the same for men and women. Madonna's plastic surgery is creepy, but dating younger men isn't creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah a gap of 1-2 years is equally likely to have either gender older. A large gap is more likely to have the man older. Large gaps are very rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:56 AM
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The person you love not having sex with other people???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:52 AM
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This sub is extremely different than real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:51 AM
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I was expecting you to be short. You're 5'5 lol. That's normal height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:31 AM
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I live in California, dude. r/askfeminists is overrun by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:06 AM
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Virtual women don't count. How many women in real life have said this to you? Every single time a woman in real life is asked if they'd date a guy shorter than them, the answer is always the same: "Yeah I don't care."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:04 AM
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Inexperienced in what? How is experiencing things a masculine trait? Do women not experience things? And young? Are men incapable of being young? What does masculinity mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:02 AM
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For my job I interact with a solid 500+ people per day. I know what people look like. I never see couples where the man is over 6 feet and the woman is under 5'4. That is so ridiculously uncommon. And if that ever happens, the dude is obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:58 AM
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Men aren't valued for virginity by men. Virgin men are valued by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:36 AM
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I'm literally only attracted to short boys but the insecurity and anger I see from men online all the time is so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:36 AM
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I was going to say this is the stupidest thing I've read all day, but I don't believe you actually believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:34 AM
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Virginity is for both genders but it's clearly more masculine. Virginity for women is nothing. Men are usually more immoral and horny, so if he stays a virgin, it's valuable. His virginity is more important than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:34 AM
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Virgin women do not want non-virgin guys, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:32 AM
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The non-virgin would break the virgin even more. It's extremely emotional painful for the one you love to have done your expression of love with other women/men. It would be a mess of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:30 AM
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I prefer short men (above 5'8 max is a huge turn off), but the attitude of whining about women supposedly wanting 6 foot men and not liking short guys is absolutely fucking insufferable. Shut up for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:28 AM
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Not everyone wants to the person they love to have had sex with others. It doesn't make them a bad person. That's a very cruel thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:24 AM
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Would you want to miss out on having one person for life? It's nice to know anti-virgins think people are objects like meals though. Anti-virgins have a very unhealthy view on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:22 AM
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You could have sex a million times with every person in the world, and you'd still be able to imagine something new. Sleeping around isn't a cure for imagination. It makes it worse actually because now you can imagine other people more vividly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:21 AM
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She/he wouldn't. Every study shows virgins are more sexually satisfied in their relationships and less likely to cheat. Anti-virgins have to straight up lie to come up with something to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:19 AM
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Such a ridiculous lack of logic here. Unless you manage to find someone down to the exact millimeter, one partner will ALWAYS be taller. Someone will be stronger, more confident, richer, prettier. One partner will always have these traits differently than the other. You see how this is nothing like virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:16 AM
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Has ANY woman actually told you this, even once? I am very friendly and talk with other women about boys a lot, and wanting a tall guy is something that NEVER comes up. Let alone a 6 foot requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:16 AM
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Women are physically attracted to younger men, but will date men they are not attracted to to get access to what money can buy. Just an example, look at tiktok and tell me which boys are popular. It's never older hunky masculine men. It's the girly baby faced pretty boys who are VERY young. That's what women are visually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:08 AM
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That's what men want. Women want the opposite. No beard, smaller muscles (still athletic but not buff), most people don't care for tattoos, masculine personality doesn't mean anything. I'm speaking in general of course. Some women like beards etc. God lmao no woman wants a receding hairline. This is straight goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:03 AM
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Slightly older men, no. What's the point? Slightly younger makes the most biological sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:59 AM
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There's nothing women hate more than older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:58 AM
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The 22 year old man looks like a 38-44 year old who drinks to much. Why do men age so poorly lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:57 AM
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Women need to stop having sex with men. This is what men think of women they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:00 AM
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Still hit is a WAY worse comeback/insult. I faked it is telling the guy he's bad in bed. It's embarassing for him that someone has to lie to make him feel better about himself. Still hit is like... you two had sex? Yes we know? The sex we were JUST talking about? Where she faked it? Yeah, what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:54 AM
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Don't worry he's just extremely concerned about crime. He wants to make sure every robber, kidnapper, murderer, mugger, shoplifter, and carjacker is innocent and is curious about all that we're doing to protect these people. He pesters people to make sure the victims aren't lying and doesn't let anyone talk about their fears. Oh wait no he only does this to rape victims. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:53 AM
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What do you mean teenagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:54 AM
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It's not insecurity. Normal people are tired of hearing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:23 AM
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No we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:22 AM
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Virgins make better partners. This is proven by every study. What you're describing is a young person who was a virgin by coincidence because they haven't gotten to that point yet, has none of the values or behaviors of a virgin, and someone had sex or a relationship with them and didn't like it because the person was too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:21 AM
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It's actually proven attractive people have less casual sex. You're confusing "more people want to have sex with you" with "you want to have sex with more people." Those are two very different things. Attractive people having less casual sex is common sense if you think about it. They are more confident and don't need to prove themselves/show off/get validation. They can afford to be choosy. They often have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:16 AM
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Women and men are extremely different in certain things. This is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:30 AM
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When I think average person I already think 45-65.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:05 AM
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It's different for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:05 AM
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Everything I said is objectively true. The philosophy of men being divine and worthy of respect was what caused the freeing of the slaves. You can... just read up on this. Listen to abolitionists speak. They didn't give a flying fuck about women of any race. Female slaves are treated unimagineably more brutally than male slaves. Just read what happens to slaves. You have no argument so you're acting obviously flustered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:40 PM
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The reason American Black men were freed was because they were men. White men were getting ideas about men being godly and how you should all be treated with dignity. They rather quickly decided Black men need to be a part of this too. If slaves were just Black women they wouldn't have given a shit. Men have always had more respect for their male enemies than women in their own family. White and Black women continued to be treated as domestic slaves. Female slaves were also raped and given extra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:41 PM
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What other group of people is a threat to your life as much as men are? Women's lives are more important than men's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:38 PM
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Abuse victims can't always leave. Rape victims can't just say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:24 AM
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>You do realize that porn also features scenes were men are subjected to extreme violence by women. So 99.99999% of porn is women being beaten, sexualized, and raped. And then there are a couple porn videos for men who have a fetish. >You do realize that some women have killed and chopped their husbands to pieces. Great way to deal with constant abuse from your husband. >You do realize that some woman prime minister castrated men in the streets. Lol who. >You do realize that some women raped an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:51 AM
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None of those are masculine qualities. You described a bunch of basic human qualities and some overwhelmingly feminine qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:14 AM
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Black men, Arab men, ____ men... I'm noticing a pattern here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:48 AM
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I don't actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:41 AM
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Not discriminating can get you killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:29 AM
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There's no reason to be afraid of Black men and not White men. It's not Black people, it's men. Black women are very unlikely to harm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:19 AM
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I wish. Maybe things could change if it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:11 AM
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You didn't respond to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:11 AM
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White women were property. They didn't benefit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:10 AM
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Hating men isn't even possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:43 AM
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It's not hatred. It's fear, frustration, and pain. Women aren't even capable of hating men. You can pretend to hate them all you want, but if you "hate" them because of misogyny, that's soul-crushing agony at how women are treated. That's fighting for your life. If you want to "hate" men, it has to have nothing to do with hating misogyny. You'd have to be fine with misogyny and violence, and you'd have to torture men in unimaginable ways for no reason whatsoever. And you'd have to do this for hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:32 AM
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Return the energy? Oh please. Men are out there filming gang rape and posting it online, and women "returning" the hate are like "I'm going to stay away from men and go plant a garden instead." It's not about who did it first, although that is a point too. The rare, most hateful, vengeful women (who were victims first, true) have never done anything a millionth as bad to men as what men do to women daily just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:27 AM
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Black men are men. You're significantly more likely to be hurt by a White man than a Black woman, so why on earth would you be racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:24 AM
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Fearing and disliking men is not misandry... wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:21 AM
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Black men got rights in the West before White women did. Your comment makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:21 AM
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The worst thing a woman has ever done to a man is not as bad as what millions of men do to women daily just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:20 AM
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You are wrong. Men who have sex, lots of sex, are married, etc are just as misogynistic as men who don't. Otherwise everything you said is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:20 AM
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Ok what are his masculine qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:17 AM
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I've actually never met a woman in real life who prefers masculine men. At least not that she discussed with me. Feminine men are just so superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:06 AM
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You're seeing what you want to see. Most women openly talk about how they like pretty feminine guys. Most icks women talk about are cringey masculine things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:04 AM
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Honestly, never. He's either too young for it to matter, or after a certain age (like 40?) you assume he's a monk with strong values or just disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:01 AM
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I don't like porn either, but most men do, so they would want to watch porn of the woman they are most attracted to, right? But why not want to watch her with another guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:57 AM
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You don't want to watch your parents because they're you're parents. Why wouldn't you want to watch your partner? Aren't you attracted to him/her? It's just like porn, except you'd want to watch your partner MORE than someone else. Why not watch them with their ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:21 AM
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A video of you and your partner having sex in the past would be awesome though. It's them and another person that's the problem. So the other person is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:00 AM
27

That's ignorance by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 AM
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Men? The only part where you're wrong is you could have just said people. Women too. Everyone would be horrified and depressed if they could see firsthand what their partner did in bed with others. It's really sad that to live a happy life with a nonvirgin, you have to ignore part of them. You should be able to think deeply about every part of the person you love without pain. If any part of them gives you pain unless you brush it off and keep your thoughts shallow, that's a huge problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:57 AM
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Women understand it. As a woman I understand it perfectly. The woman you responded to understands it too. She's koping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:54 AM
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It's not odd for women. I don't know your gender but if you're a man maybe you wouldn't understand how strongly women feel about virgins. It's literally heartwrenching if the guy you like isn't a virgin. Not every woman feels this way especially if it's for a cheap hookup, but if you really like him yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 AM
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There has to be something wrong with a guy who's had sex by 25, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:49 AM
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How many of those women were virgins themselves? I'd bet money it's... zero. If anything women value virginity more than men. I've never comforted or seen a guy cry (or look upset) because the girl he likes isn't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:07 AM
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Literally no one thinks this. I live in USA. It's normal here. People who have a problem with virgins are messed up people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:06 AM
1

Not much compared to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:06 AM
1

Other species are irrelevant. They barely even have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:23 AM
1

The only polygamy in human history was rape. Usually rape of children. Humans are a monogamous species.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:49 AM
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When your first kid is 5, you have a bunch of other babies under 5 years old. Serial monogamy makes zero sense in tribes. Everyone would be related and everything would be incest within a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:58 AM
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Not a single women actually thinks this. Maybe there are a few bitter nonvirgins who lie through their teeth that virginity is an ugly trait so she looks better, but she doesn't actually believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:49 AM
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Being so bothered by virgins they're writing comments on reddit about how gross they think they are is creepy. Why would someone not having sex upset them so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:53 AM
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Because men control the rules, and men aren't hoping for a virgin husband. That's it. Men push the standards they desire on women but are too lazy to apply them to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:51 AM
2

Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:50 AM
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Only men think this, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:50 AM
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Choose Option 2) Virgin man. Didn't even need to read the rest. Ok I read it so I can respond. Option 1 has proven he is not wanted by other women. They dumped him. Statistically Option 2 will be give you more satisfying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:47 AM
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I read that book. Some of it was outstandingly clever, and other stuff was retardedly wrong (like there was one point that no one complains about large age gaps with an older actor and younger actress... when in reality young women won't shut up about how creepy older men are. Idk some points made in the book missed the mark so bad, but other stuff was insightful). One of the most obvious things to me is that humans are monogamous. I don't know how you could honestly argue we're not. Even "seria…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:44 AM
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Not having sex is gross?! You don't understand how calling someone gross for not doing something is clear and obvious pressure to do the thing? In what world is it ok to pressure someone into having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:37 AM
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Because this is what men think of women. Not what women are actually like. To us it sounds like insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:35 AM
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When you are most likely to cheat has nothing to do with how much other people want you. Of course the guy with the ring gets more attention from women. He's a friend. I just explained that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:38 AM
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The way you just stated this instead of explaining why is indicative of you not actually not understanding my logic, but rather just being bothered by me having a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:05 AM
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This is a problem with men being too promiscuous. Men themselves say they will take almost any opportunity they get for sex. We need to show people you can have opportunities and refuse, so attractive virgin men exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:59 AM
2

Examples of women being like "you're a virgin therefore you must be a serial killer" to some guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:41 AM
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I think it's the exact opposite. There are a few women who claim that opinion, but they don't actually care. They're loud about it because they have political motivations for saying so, but if they found a hot virgin guy they'd bag him in two seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:32 AM
2

Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:31 AM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:08 AM
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Men think everything is flirting. (Proven in studies and it's common sense.) Women are friendlier with taken guys because she thinks, "Great! He's taken, so he'll know I'm not flirting. He won't try to make a move on me just because I'm being nice!" Sometimes on top of that, "It's easier to chat with him because he's dating a fellow woman who I'm also comfortable with." Then men be like, "Oh damn she's flirting with me. She's flirting with me because I'm taken." Biggest facepalm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:06 AM
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Why didn't you just tell her "If his ex girlfriend didn't want him, why should you?" That's if she dumped him. If he dumped her, the next gf will probably get dumped too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:54 AM
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Women see a single virgin guy and think "he must be a serial killer!" Who the actual fuck thinks this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:53 AM
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This is straight up the dumbest thing in the world. A man who has had past relationships is the one who is not wanted by women. They dumped him! He's literally undesirable! Or he dumped all them? Which means he's a total fuckboy and he will dump you too? Hello?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:52 AM
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Sorry but can we just disregard comments like "the only reason you want an inexperienced woman is because you are afraid you won't measure up"? It's painstakingly obvious the only people spewing this nonsense are nonvirgins who feel the need to insult virgins to make themselves seem more desirable. You don't actually think wanting a virgin is a bad thing (it's only bad if you're a hypocrite and not a virgin yourself of course), you're just saying that because you're mad they desire something you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:50 AM
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I think it's a larp. Absolutely no one cares if you are a 25+ year old virgin. If someone had a problem with that, I'd assume they are the one with serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:41 AM
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As a woman, disregard the above comment because that's gross as fuck. Stay a virgin, lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:39 AM
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Who the actual fck said that? These are probably trolls. I'm 24 almost 25 and I would ONLY be interested in a virgin man. 25 is so young. Even if you do have your ridiculous point of view against virgins, at least wait until it's a 45 year old virgin or something (which I don't agree with either because virginity is always fine). 25 is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:38 AM
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This comment is lowkey rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:35 AM
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Without trying to get a reddit care message, a non-virgin husband would make me su!c!dal. That's absolutely not the type of physical and emotional violation, lack of intimacy and respect, and pain I want to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:12 AM
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I'd rather stay alone for life than have an experienced man. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:34 AM
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I'm a 5'5 woman. A guy above 5'7ish is a turn off for me. Above 5'10 is a HUGE turn off to the point I won't be attracted to him even if he's gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:25 AM
2

You'd be surprised how women deny this because it's painful to admit misogyny is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:03 PM
2

Women are taught their value is beauty. Women feel good in makeup because society rewards fitting beauty standards. Society does that because men want women to conform and look sexy at all times, even if that is not the woman's intention when she wears it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:58 PM
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Yes but how does that make her feel good when she's wearing makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:42 PM
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You can have even complexion and long lashes naturally, and of course it's biologically true that those are attractive. Men prefer the fake version.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:41 PM
2

That's exactly why having multiple partners instead of one sucks. You are not his exes. Him getting good at anal with his exes when you hate anal makes him suck at sex. His experience with multiple partners makes him a bad partner. >You want a man who has all kinds of sex with lots of people and knows how to adapt to a new patient So you're going to fraction his "abilities" across a ton of women (let's say 10 women), instead of doing it with me? So he's literally one-tenth as good at sex as he c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:35 PM
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The doctor who treats only one patient is infinitely better at treating that patient, knowing exactly what they need, being a match for them, going into more depth with the patient. Your analogy proved the point so perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:27 PM
2

We do not prefer "experienced" men. "Experienced" is a euphemism for he had sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:25 PM
3

It's not self care in the slightest. That's straight up corporate marketing from a trillion dollar business that you fell for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:17 PM
3

Why does it make her feel more beautiful and confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:15 PM
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If you think men prefer naturally beautiful women, try not shaving your legs. Men prefer the fakest, furthest removed from feminine women possible. To be fair, shaving legs is a trend that will die out soon; men used to prefer hair on women. However, makeup is preferred by men across time. I'll believe men like natural women when they start rating pretty makeup-free women as prettier than pretty women with any amount makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:13 PM
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This is the truthful and obvious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:08 PM
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This is false. It's just biology. I am not religious and used dick is vomit-worthy. There's no reason a woman would want to share a man with other women. It only makes sense she would be "selfish" with her man and biologically want him to herself. That is just pure common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:27 AM
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Your comment highlights to me how bizarre the word "inexperienced" is. I was trying to read your comment in a neutral voice but it sounded so alien and forced the way you said "inexperienced." It's a negative connotation to an extremely positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:26 AM
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Yes, I am repulsed by men with any amount of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:24 AM
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Only men think this. Where do you get this idea, porn? To women, this is the stupidest post ever. Most of us are repulsed by "experienced" men. No one wants to be jealous of your ex-girlfriend. Most women just deal with it because virgins guys are so rare it's not a realistic option. I've had so many friends have mental breakdowns because the guy she likes isn't a virgin, but what are they going to do? Get a virgin bf? Lol where?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:22 AM
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Yes of course. Humans have emotions and healthy, adjusted ways of behaving. Men and women with a hoe phase have deep trauma. If you just talk to them, they'll often openly talk about their trauma. This isn't controversial. "I just want to have fun" as if this isn't an omission you think this bizarre, dangerous, emotionless behavior is fun because you have messed up sexual health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:38 PM
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Not in real life. Only online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:36 PM
0

Women's don't care if you're tall. Just have a pretty face, good hair, and an athletic body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:02 AM
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Long hair. Always long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:01 AM
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Personality is obviously more important than looks. There's no point being around a pretty boy if he treats you badly and makes you feel bad. How is this even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:54 AM
1

Are we not allowed to mock the term?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:51 AM
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I work in food service. People are cranky because the lines are long, it's hot, the food is overpriced and messy. I serve hundreds or a thousand people a day easily. This is my third year working. I have a ginormous sample size. I can say with a billion percent confidence that 90% of rude customers are male. Even though (sadly, I honestly admit) I have more patience with men because I've been socialized to see rude men as assertive authority, while women who don't shit sunshine and roses or even…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:41 AM
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I wouldn't shame a girl who likes older guys because I know she probably has emotional trauma lowkey, but even if I wanted to shame I couldn't... there's no one to shame since girls don't like older guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:25 AM
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Both of these things are true. 99% of my friends think older guys are nauseating. I have one friend who went with an older man (she was lonely af, just got out of a breakup, went to online dating, she said she wasn't even visually attracted to this guy, got a free movie and dinner, she said this guy reminds her of her dad and she has a horrible relationship with her dad so um), and he treated her badly, was a manipulative "gentleman," ghosted her. So now ALL of our friends (everyone who she told…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:22 AM
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I'm so confused how you think these things contradict. Of course women love good sex. Most sex with men sucks for women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:15 AM
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This is men making this claim, not ppd women, and it's false. It's the difference in what men vs women consider single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:14 AM
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Both of these things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:13 AM
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I'm a young woman so I can't answer as an older woman, but yes young women are easier to date. More easily manipulated, easier to impress, more willing to do stupid things. Older men don't give a shit if younger women are more attractive. They would just get an attractive older woman then. There are other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:13 AM
2

Where are women not admitting this? Of course looks are extremely important for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:11 AM
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>The average woman in her 40's is also going to find guys in their mid 20's the most (physically) attractive generally. Yeah but women aren't scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:27 PM
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No outrage. Just fear and disgust that you find my age group attractive when you are so old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:56 AM
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I'm not as educated as I could be in relationship dynamics so I can't answer thoroughly for the abuse factor. But I'll throw in that it's a biological knee-jerk reaction. As a 24 year old, I don't personally think guys in their late 20s are going to abuse me, I'm just utterly disgusted by their older age, as harsh as that sounds. I don't have much reason other than an iron-clad ick. They're obviously less attractive than younger guys, but even if he was more attractive, I'd still be turned 100% …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:52 AM
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No I watch women's sports for the sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:37 AM
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This is literally a joke... Gender swaps aren't real. It's not what you'd actually look like or what the lookmatch of you is. They're saying it because it's funny. I wouldn't date myself as a guy because I like thin/light eyebrows on a boy. I have thick dark eyebrows which I love on women. Preferences exist. Nothing to do with needing to lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:05 AM
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Women who don't want to risk their own life during pregnancy because the man's sperm was too old are forced to marry young men. Nobody is shaming young men for wanting young women. It's old men who are disgusting if they want young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:00 AM
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I watch women's sports because I like the sport. I only watch men's sports if the guys are cute, which they never are, so there's no reason to watch men's sports. I always think men who only watch men's sports are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:58 AM
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I'm 24 and I have yet to hear any girl my age even begin to consider money as a factor when being interested in boy. At what age does this become a thing? No one is attracted to money at my age. It's all about his pretty face and if he's fun to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:31 AM
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I don't looksmax myself but I'm also very interestested in the concept. I'm correct. The only reason a 30 year old man would appear "young" is because young guys look really old and they look the same. There's almost no way a 30 year old can genuinely look like a teen. Where 30 year old women easily look like teens if she just has good skin. (Not that it's a desirable thing to look like a teenager.) It's a source of neverending amusing at my job when, for example in the past month all of these h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:06 AM
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I've seen many gaps where the woman is significantly older than the man, but everyone thinks the man is significantly older than her. That's how much older the average man looks than women. In movies (casted by perverted Holywood dudes who always want the man to be older of course), I often see age gaps with the man only 4-7 years older (which is really nothing in terms of changes in changes in aging, because you shouldn't be aging that fast), yet the actor looks straight up geriatric, while the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:19 AM
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A man can take great care of himself, have perfect skin, etc, and even get genetically lucky with his hairline, but if he is 30 he will still look 30. Men age very differently than women. Women are naturally smaller and significantly more neotenous. Men turn manly when they're 30 and there's no stopping it. 30 year old women often look 20 easy regardless of how they take care of themselves because they just have those baby features.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:17 AM
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I'm think 25 for a man is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:49 AM
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I only want to be with a man who I really love. Any man who is not that, regardless of how perfect he is, would be the most repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:43 AM
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Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:40 AM
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The same as unattractive women minus the comments about them being ugly, but plus comments about how being pretty means you're a shallow dumb b*tch or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:40 AM
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As countless women are already doing daily? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:38 AM
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I'm 24 and I'm extremely talkative with many people, so I can definitely have a say on what girls my age think. 30 year old men are not even a thought. 30 year old men are literally nonexistent. He might as well be 60. I can't even fathom any girl my age I've ever met dating a guy who's freaking 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:37 AM
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I agree with everything you said but a 30 year old man and a 23 year old woman is flat out bizarre. When they stand side by side he looks like her uncle at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:32 AM
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I'm a straight woman and I'd choose to make out with an ugly woman over a hot man (who I don't like).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:28 AM
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Pretty woman here. We're treated like absolute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:24 AM
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Men say this but I swear they wouldn't last one day as a woman in any country on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:23 AM
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If you want dating advice, look to someone who has had one relationship and is still in that relationship. Obviously don't listen to someone who has had previous relationshipS and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:13 AM
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>misandry exists and is a terrible form of bigotry Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:44 AM
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I'm glad you have one anedcote that debunks the thousands of girls I've gossiped about boys with who literally never mention height as an attractive feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:50 AM
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Ask who what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:42 AM
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Aren't fraternities already selecting for a certain type of boy anyway? I'm not susprised they hook up a lot but most boys aren't frat boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:36 AM
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You are a rare exception then. Most people do not hook up whatsoever. And out of the people who do, having 20+ is incredibly rare. I knew one guy who hooked up with so many girls he needed therapy and he only hooked up with like 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:08 AM
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Hooking up to look for a relationship is way different than hooking up with the intention of leaving them right after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:53 AM
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That makes more sense because you meet a bunch of people at parties. But I think the statistic was stating hookups are rare in general. People are more likely to start a relationship with someone they met at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:20 AM
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On dating apps sure. In real life it's never even mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:47 AM
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Isn't this statistic outdated? Most college students are not having hookups at parties. Maybe 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:09 AM
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I like short, lean, cute (not handsome) dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:06 AM
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Someone not being interested on a dating app because you're not their preference and quickly moving on is not obsessing. You're still thinking about it x amount of time later. You shouldn't care what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:04 AM
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You're the one obsessing over it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:54 AM
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Men care about men's height infinitely more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:28 AM
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I can tell you firsthand young women are utterly obsessed with younger men. The amount of attention a young cute pretty boy will get in real life is unmatched by even mega celebrities. I've been around plenty of celebrities and they're often straight up ignored in real life. I've never seen any male get encircled and fawned over as much as young hot boys. I can't fathom where you heard that women are saying ew to them. Women are putty in their hands. I'm friends with many younger boys and older …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:46 AM
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It is very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:54 AM
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So I can't touch grass and have an instagram account at the same time? I said on the internet because I don't even talk to 30 year old men in real life, let alone care about their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:13 AM
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You said this in such a biased way I'm having trouble even understanding what you're trying to get across. Young guys don't complain. They adore me. It's older men on the internet calling me a mOnStEr and I "should burn" for thinking younger guys are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:09 AM
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Women are very attracted to younger men. Women are also deeply insecure (understandably so) with how much pressure there is on women to be young, small, and dainty. A younger guy would highlight how oooold she is and make her feel awkward. It's about her and how she is afraid she will be perceived, nothing wrong with the guy. It's just social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:40 AM
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Women having "more opportunities" to beautify themselves is a bad thing for women. It creates stricter standards, men value women based off looks, beauty is painful (surgery is hellish, you can't even rub your eyes with makeup on, shaving sucks, etc etc etc), artificial beauty is unhealthy, women are pressured into being something they're not, eating disorders, spending half their paycheck on meaningless products. Women are judged so much more harshly than men, socially. Be honest with yourself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:08 AM
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I just don't see this obsession with height in real life. It's a dating app thing. The most popular-with-women guy I know is 5'6, and on top of that he has a twin brother who's like 6'0. The shorter one has a prettier, more feminine face, so women go for him. Beauty standards for women are very strict. Guys being horny for everything doesn't help women. Many women can't even go outside without a cakeface of makeup and freshly shaved legs without being insulted as nasty and subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:17 PM
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No. Everyone uses people for resources. Raping someone (by coercion, manipulation) is not remotely comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:09 PM
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I wouldn't date a man who wasn't a virgin. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:08 PM
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Bro WHERE are these women who date older men?! I hear men online claim they are sometimes dating younger women, but where are these women??? I'm 24, I'm the most extremely socially person ever. I talk to literally everyone. I've never met a girl my age who thinks 30 year old guys are attractive. Is it a different country or something? I'm from the US. Unless these men are lying or stretching the truth, I'm so confused about the disconnect between reddit and real life. If I asked any friend if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:40 PM
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They might have sex with a larger number of women because they are pushy and consistent at pestering women into sex, but they get WAY less sex. A guy who has one girlfriend/wife is getting a million times more sex than a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:24 PM
1

A man who cares most about where to put his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:22 PM
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Your title just said lonely and frustrated, not rejected, which I agree can really mess a person up. The person described in the title sounds sad, not angry. People with a lot of relationships are often infinitely more bitter though. I'd easily take the bitter single person over the bitter broken up perosn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:04 AM
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Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:02 AM
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Agree but you should have said, "Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their early 20s." The insistence that the man has to be older is bizzare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:00 AM
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Can confirm. I'm 24. Not a single soul I've ever met (girls my age and even a few years older) thinks 30 year old men are attractive. Girls a little older than me stay very tightly around boys their age or younger, because any older than them the guys start looking rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:57 AM
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Literally none of these things give me (or 99% of other women) the ick. The ick is for older men. Most of guys' whining about "why don't women like thissss" is that the man is too old for her. "B-but why do women think it's creepy when men flirt..." He's old. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:53 AM
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Shawn obviously lmao. Although I like the name Thad. I'll take Shawn and call him Thad. What even is this question? Gorgeous ideal man but he barely cries? (2 times a month is not a lot bruh.) Or a hideous mutant? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:47 AM
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This. Men who have a lot of relationships are f*cking creepy. They're so aggressive and have this dead stare and are really quick to act like an angry douche. These men don't seem loved at all. Their mom probably blew them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:45 AM
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If the baggage was actually caused by the loneliness of being single (and not by other things) wouldn't it legit get fixed as soon as they're not single anymore? It sounds like you're saying the problem isn't actually romantic loneliness then, but something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:43 AM
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This. I'm literally the most social happy person with the best family and friends. I'm really good at communicating and everything. Never held hands with a boy. I'll do it when I find one I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:38 AM
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I'd have to pick the lonely and frustrated one. I don't morally agree with promiscuity. However it doesn't help as much if they were lonely and frustrated because they were a coomer. I don't want a coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:36 AM
2

What are you confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:25 AM
2

"bro what"? You want me to answer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:55 AM
1

I need help because I think used men are disgusting. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:05 AM
1

We're humans, not fish. Sleeping around is unnatural for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:05 AM
1

True, it's both for me. I love the feeling of having only one person. And being young together is a great experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:30 AM
1

Whatever makes your dirty dildo feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 AM
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Yeah, that's all that matters or even all that makes sense. You can only be good at pleasing one person. If you're trying to please multiple people, you suck that much worse at each person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:06 AM
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Over 100 women used you and discarded you for sex. They think you are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:04 AM
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Everything can be a concern, anxiety can creep into anything. But studies show this is not a reasonable concern. Virgins have no desire to be with anyone else. It's the happiest life to be with one person, and they are the most likely to say "YUCK" when asked if they'd ever be curious about another partner. A man or woman who had lots of past partners would obviously be more curious to replicate the highlight of their past, or to see if they could do better, or since they've already slept around…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:52 PM
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Studies show that actually is a concern with people who have had 2 partners (1 past, 1 current). The divorce risk is actually less for people who have had 3 partners (2 previous). 2 is the saddest number of partners to have. It was so close to a nice life with one person. It definitely fucks with your head. But studies show 3 partners is less of a divorce/instability risk than 4+. And 0 previous partners (1 person for life) is the best statistically (and obviously emotionally the best). People w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:44 PM
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The exact opposite. You need to practice with the same partner to be good at sex. That's the only way to know what to do and please this person. Doing it with different partners will make you horrific at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:40 PM
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I'm not trolling. I literally don't have any friends who are dating a guy in an older grade in school. Every single one is dating a guy their own grade or younger grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:20 PM
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I never said anything about lust. I don't want sex, teenage boys are just by far the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:19 PM
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I don't know how you can say older men is natural with a straight face but ok. Older man is objectively the most unnatural thing in the universe. Have you ever wondered why there's so much commotion, dissent, demeaning conversation, and everyone is bothered about it? It's absolutely unnatural. Younger boys are very ready to reproduce (physically and emotionally) while the girls are still in wicked danger of dying from pregnancy at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:42 AM
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Older guy is a turn off though. Even if he has everything else perfect, the age is an instant turn off. What are men protecting us from? Other men? Women don't need protection. They need aggressive "masculine" men to leave them alone. Caring about looks in a man is much more natural. Caring about a man's youth is a given even by your standards, because younger guys are much stronger and better able to provide, protect, and lead. In nature, a 20-25 year old man would obliterate a 30-35 year old m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:37 AM
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It's not contrary to nature. And every single women I know likes younger guys. > the more mature a man is the younger he wants Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:36 AM
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I guess I need a guy below 20 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:35 AM
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No it's not. Humans evolved for the woman to be older than the man. Dominant aggressive men wanted the opposite so they shoved it onto everybody else. A woman wanting a younger man is the most natural thing in the world. It's healthier for everyone involved. For purpose of this debate sub, I swear I'm not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:35 AM
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Or maybe I'm a normal person who finds younger boys more attractive and fun to be with? Can you deal with that? Why the actual fuck would I like older guys? Just ew. >immature, or scared and looks for someone she can control. Great to know this is what men who date younger women are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:32 AM
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Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:55 AM
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On the contrary, I'm extremely social.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:55 AM
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What part of what I said is confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:54 AM
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Women date men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:54 AM
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The vast majority of men in their 30s are living paycheck to paycheck. We need to stop focusing on this as a main factor. It ignores the economy, and it ignores biological reality too (saving up money and getting a career is a social construct; in the real world, young (stronger) men would have more wealth). It also ignores that the vast majority of women would rather be with a man they desire than a man who has money. A fun young hot guy who she gets along with and has a great time with is so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:33 AM
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It's just reality. I'm extremely social, I can expand the social sphere to tens of thousands of people if I'm talking about friends of friends of friends who I was told stories about. And yeah I've never seen a single case in my entire life of a girl dating an older guy. I'm going to go out on a limb and say it's very rare. I just can't change my reality because someone on reddit said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:19 AM
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No, women are literally living in fear. You as a man would not know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:15 AM
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I'm a 24 year old woman and 16 year old guys are hottest (legal in my state don't @ me). You're joking if you think wrinkle-face 30 year old shrivelling men is going to beat a teenage boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:03 AM
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I really don't know why we keep playing both sides with this. Men and women are literally not the same, so it's not the same for men/women to date older/younger. My view is men are dominant already because of their gender; being older exasperates that dominance, exasperates icky macho attitudes, and is unattractive to me, plus older men just look so bad. Older woman with younger man is hotter and more appealing; he really does not lose any power as a man by being younger, but at least we can pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:00 AM
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Good thing it's 16 in my state because I find 16 year old boys the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:50 AM
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This is so fake. 18-20 year old girls don't date anyone older than college age. Let alone 30 year olds. No one believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:49 AM
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14 and 17 are in high school together. You often can't tell the difference if the girl is older. If the guy is older it's weird because he is so dominant. 18 and 23 are different stages. Is the younger one in high school... college? And the older is out of college? Where are they even hanging out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:47 AM
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Guys are bald by 27 lmao wtf are you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:42 AM
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As a 24 year old woman, I'd rather date an 18 year old guy than a rich 30 year old guy. In fact I'd rather shoot myself than date an older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:42 AM
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Most women wants virgins. It would take a truly mentally ill woman to be like, "That man I love? Yeah I WANT his dick to have been inside other women."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:39 AM
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This has nothing to do with virginity. What you're saying is people who are trying to get married and fail by age X are the bullet points you listed. If you're judging people by being a virgin by age X, but they are waiting until marriage, then you're not judging them for virginity. You're judging them for not being married by a certain age, so what age is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:37 AM
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25 is ridiculously young. Non-virgins by age 25 often just completely wasted it and damaged their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:37 AM
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Men constantly brag about how they never worry about walking out at night in attempt to mock women. You are in the extreme minority of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:45 AM
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Thicker skin causes men to age worse. Thicker skin causes deep wrinkles which is why men's faces look like they're folding on half, while women have cute little crows feet when they smile. Men are saggier than women. Even the men who "aged well" are terrible saggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:04 PM
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What does that have to do with dating. Are you all gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:01 PM
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Men think women's struggles are nonsense because men can't understand them even when we explain them. It doesn't matter if you understand or not that women have a fear of being raped. Your lack of understanding means absolutely nothing to reality that this is what women experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:24 AM
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I didn't say you said half. I said that. If people have fear of dying, why do they go outside all the time? You're not making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:02 AM
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I get seriously confused when people claim women don't like sports. Every single girl I know loves sports. Literally every single one I've ever met in my entire life. I remember one friend who was a very theater/nerdy/writer type, I assumed she didn't like sports, then after years of knowing her, she brought up that she was a competitive goalkeeper in soccer for 10+ years. Many are forced to drop out and they are sad about it. Periods, breast pain, sexualization. Most girls can't even play a spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:53 AM
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I'm so excited for this World Cup 2023. Australia is a cool location.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:50 AM
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Bruh no. Every woman likes sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:50 AM
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That's not how it works. High doesn't mean half of women are raped every time they date. It's high enough for every single woman on the planet to have a rational fear of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:41 AM
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Which one? Not everyone will be raped/murdered, and not everyone feels deeply intimate about their body, but many people do. These are severe issues that effect women more than men. I can't think of anything else in dating that is as serious as these.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:27 AM
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Don't have to be worry about being raped and murdered. Generally don't have to worry about being used for sex, which for some people might just being heartbreaking and suck as a waste of time, but for other people can be severely violating and genuinely traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:16 AM
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Men staying fertile longer is a disadvantage. Those chemicals still going through their body at an old age offers no benefit and wears out their body faster, shortening their lifespan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:15 AM
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If you're desperately searching for a wonderful husband/wife and you want a large family, yeah it's kind of old. Healthy women can have kids until menopause (mid 50s) though (let's say 45 to be safe). I don't recommend waiting for kids until that age, but it's perfectly doable, especially in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:40 AM
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Yup. But in Hollywood it's like 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:32 AM
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This idiotic way of thinking needs to stop. It's obsessing over a tiny spot in little kids' lives that has nothing to do with anything. Little girls and boys enter puberty at slightly different times when they are around 10 years old. Shortly after that, boys totally caught up. That stuff is about armpit hair and growth spurts. It doesn't matter for attraction. The reason this happens is because for girls puberty is a longer, more complicated process. Which means boys reach the END sooner than g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:31 AM
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Hate to break it to you but your value is on the bottom of the Mariana Trench.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:56 AM
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Your favorite actor gets a botox appointment every season. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:41 AM
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And most celebrities, including men, are as fake as Kim Kardashian, they just hide it better. It's easy to pretend men don't age like crap when everyone can get a hair transplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:03 AM
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These aren't heartthrobs lmao. These are actors. Magazines push them as heartthrobs to make money. Men are in control of the industry. They are all actors that are more popular with men than women (except Cumberbatch, who is liked for being quirky, not for being beautiful). They are famous for their movies. Most importantly... Every single one of those men look objectively better when they were younger. You keep picking famous dudes who get attention for being in the movie industry for a long ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:02 AM
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Bro. Where have you been. Early 20s men do have the largest female fanbase. They always have. NO ONE giggles about Chris Evans. He looks like shit. He's old. He's boring. He's wrinkly. He is OBJECTIVELY declined. His loss of facial fat. The sagging eyesacks. His giant forehead from balding. His visibly thin skin. Yikes. You can say some women like him for his fame and money, but you are NOT TALKING ABOUT PHYSICAL BEAUTY. His girlfriend likes his stardom and maybe his personality if he's lucky (d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:56 AM
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I notice the prettiest women peak older. There has never been a "most gorgeous woman of all time" who was... 25. It's way too young. The peak of female beauty is 30s and 40s. Not saying all women achieve that, because most people live unhealthy lifestyles, but the prettiest women will always be older. A gorgeous 35 year old woman would mog a gorgeous 25 year old woman so hard it wouldn't even be funny. The 25 year old woman would look plain, cutesy, and blank in comparison. She has a missing fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:42 AM
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30 is an absolute wall for men. 25+ is really hard on men too. Men are so much more objectively beautiful (just based on looks) before 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:40 AM
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Why do you keep putting the men as older than the women? I think it's absolutely objective that younger men look better. It's pretty well agreed upon that the only reason an older man would be attractive is status, wealth, power, etc, NOT looks. Look at pictures of pure male beauty in art for all of history. I see plenty of Aphrodites who look like 30 year old women, but the men are all significantly younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:38 AM
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It's at least the other way around. I don't quite agree with your numbers, but men's peak would be 20-24. Women's 25-29. Women get hot. The look of an older pretty woman is just nicer and more solid than the blank, empty look of a younger pretty woman. Men just decline so terribly, they look entirely different from what they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:34 AM
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Only 7 year old children and weirdo redpillers think 35 is old. What is it? Are they just terrified of death? 35 is so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:30 AM
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This is literally just your opinion. Men who sleep around are so low value I don't even want to hang around them as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:24 AM
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I agree with what you said except this part: >male looks peak between 35-45. This is utterly delusional. Men are truly unattractive at this age. Even the extremely cherrypicked one in a million actor you're thinking of has severely declined by this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:23 AM
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Anything over 1 partner (0 previous) for a man is too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:19 AM
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Tell me why you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:42 AM
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Why have women been talking shit? All I see is criticism of and extreme hatred of women no matter how innocent they are. You must live in another reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:25 AM
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And why do you think women say that... Women are waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:10 AM
4

This is a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:31 AM
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Women are starting to realize how much men hate them. I never saw this before, but now normie girls and women are constantly like "wtf, what's with the misogyny" every time they see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:09 PM
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Me. I'm glad I got into TRP so young, so I could get out of it so quickly, while I'm still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:21 PM
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Because men spoke their ideas. Most things you hear in culture are a man's perspective. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:18 PM
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There's more 20-21 year old women dating 18-19 year old men though. At least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:10 PM
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Depends on body. If you're buff and short it's still fine but you'd look short. Having a pretty boy body and being 5'5-5'7 is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:02 AM
1

But how young should he be if I don't want baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:35 AM
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How young do I need to go to find a guy without baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:22 AM
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Because you're forcing it on me like I'm supposed to care. It has nothing to do with this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:51 AM
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Not the 19 year old women he's dating. He dates promiscuous women. I love how the new "wall" is 25. The "wall" is absolutely meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:50 AM
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I do not care about supposed infantalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:25 AM
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Which is why Leo only dates promiscuous women... ??? Does not compute, beep beep ???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:24 AM
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We're not talking about her. We're talking about Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:23 AM
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Yes. I don't give a fuck about people's "choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:35 AM
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I don't give a flying fuck about any person's "agency" to date whoever they want. The younger person is never see as the problem. She's 19. Why is this not obvious to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:18 AM
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Tell me why he is dating a 19 year old girl and I will tell you if I find something wrong in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:16 AM
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You're using two very different definitions of choice. First you say woman's choice to mean a woman's freedom to do what she wants. I don't give a single shit about people "doing whatever they want." Then you say a man's choice to mean his immoral actions were technically his choice. That I care about very much. You're saying I can't criticize anything a man does because his action was his choice. I don't give a shit about a man's choice/freedom to do whatever he feels like. I care about his mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:12 AM
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I don't care about choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:06 AM
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I don't think about her chocies at all. I don't care. We're talking about Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:03 AM
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No one is criticizing old men for dating young women because of the women's choices (that doesn't even make sense). It's the man's choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:00 AM
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Yeah, I also feel like these relationships are fake for a business deal. Not many young women would actually touch old Leo even if it gave them massive clout. Leo is probably gay and these influencers pretend to be his gf so they get the clout without having to have sex with him and he gets to pretend to be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:54 AM
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This is a stupid take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:51 AM
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Nobody is infantalizing Leonardo DiCaprio by calling him disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:51 AM
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Literally everyone complains about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:50 AM
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>not all women The question is what woman? Who is saying this? You listed opposing preferences because they come from different women. It's like complaining "but guys say they like blondes but then guys say they like brunettes, noo what do men want." If something is coming from the same person, they probably have an obvious reason for feeling differently at different times, or for wanting in between so they criticize both sides. I'd have to hear their explanation. Until I see an actual example o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:09 AM
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How??? Older women/younger men is literally the OPPOSITE of younger women/older men. I support older women/younger men 1000%. It would be extremely hypocritical of me if I was against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:21 AM
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Men have too much power over women already, and an age gap where the man is older exasperates that power. Men want younger women for dehumanizing reasons (which men freely admit, that is not my assumption).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:39 PM
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It's not bitter to say older men who want younger women are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:37 PM
1

Why do you think that? What's a negative assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:54 AM
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People can be against both age gaps and drugs...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:11 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:10 AM
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Not an argument. Being born is a premature death risk, that doesn't mean you cross the highway blind. Do thinks that help you, such as getting a woman as close to your age as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:14 AM
1

Women absolutely do "get" men. We talk about men like we "got" them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:12 AM
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Women who saved their virginity until their 20s have absolutely no interest in older men. A girl who lost her virginity at 14 would be your candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:11 AM
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I don't have a problem with 18-25yo getting married... as long as they're high school sweethearts. Anything other than that is ridiculous. Men pretend to be ok with age gaps, but if a 30yo man said your 18-25yo daughter was ideal, dads would be running out with a shotgun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:10 AM
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The only women 20-25 that are getting married are doing it with boys they've been dating since they were both 18. A woman would have to be really stupid to marry a 30 year old man in her early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:07 AM
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4 year gap is cool if you're friends, but for marriage, anything above 2 years is a divorce risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:05 AM
1

A 30 year old woman with a 25-26 year old man is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:04 AM
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I want a woman who knows what she’s doing and has some moves. Cuckold fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:03 AM
2

50 is old in terms of fertility for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:01 AM
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When he's old, ugly, and his sperm will give his kid a genetic disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:00 AM
2

Agree. Men should stop selling makeup to women and stop rewarding women for wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:58 AM
1

Ooh this is so wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:52 AM
2

Yup, same with men. I couldn't stand dating a non-virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:51 AM
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Celebrity women do. Self made rich women are often single though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:05 AM
0

Have fun with the schizo baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:03 AM
1

I can understand that, but that proves wanting an older man is a choice of desperation. When you are free (ie. have money) everyone wants the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:03 AM
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I'd be weirded out if a 24 year old boy I knew had his own house. That's not attractive, that's like ew stop being so lonely and mature lol. Renting with roomates is fine during college. But TRP seems to be saying house, golden retriever, career, being an independent old man is ideal... and yeah no that's super weird and unattractive for women my age (mid 20s). Girls just want to have fun, literally. I'd take the hot broke young guy over the stable 28 year old any day. Is going after older men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:51 AM
1

Most guys 21-24 live with parents and have way more money to spend on their girlfriend than 25-32 year olds who are actually trying to be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:37 AM
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At what age do women start caring about career? I've never yet seen a woman consider it whatsoever when choosing a guy she likes. It's still about is he cute, is he fun, etc. I'm 24 and this includes my older friends. Men wish women cared about career because it's something men can control. But I really don't think women care about that until at least 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:36 AM
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Waiting until you're 40 to have kids is not even close to natural for a man. Especially since there's no birth control in nature, and that would mean he'd have to be celibate until 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:32 AM
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Early 20s boys very often live with parents. The hot boys 18-24 have always been raining money (where I live at least). It's the ideal boyfriend for a girl his same age. This TRP talk about girls wanting older guys for money is completely alien to me. Younger guys literally have more to spend on a girl. Most Americans once they're an adult with real responsibilities are living paycheck to paycheck. If a young guy has a job a few hours a week, he has a ton of money to spend since he has no bills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:26 AM
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So younger than 21 is the ideal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:23 AM
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A single guy who's that old gives depressed divorced vibes though. A rich successful 40 year old man with social clout seems like there's something wrong with him if he didn't buckle down a hot wife 15 years ago. 21-25 is the ideal man but most people don't get married that young so you just can't usually have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:19 AM
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When I think of a man 28-34 he's a boring, balding, has nasolabial folds and way more wrinkles than he should. I'm only 24 and even I think that. I don't think that age is considered attractive to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:17 AM
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21-25 men are fun. 30 year old men are boring to younger women. Women like bad boys and that persona can only be pulled off when you're young, or else you look silly. By bad boy I mean those sexy moody sulky edgy babes in movies, not like... robbers and credit card thieves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:08 AM
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Men are balding by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:05 AM
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I know multiple high school boys dating women 22-24. Women are sensitive to being called pedos but it's not uncommon by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:04 AM
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I said something reasonable and mild yet you chimped out. You are clearly porn addicted. You didn't even deny it. You don't speak like a human being. You speak like a porn advertisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:02 AM
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You sound really defensive and it's concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:47 AM
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I wasn't talking about OP of the post's question about the bar being high. I was responding to OP of this thread's comment... Sex with a bunch of random people will not make you better (if anything it will make you worse) at having sex with your partner, because everyone is so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:33 AM
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Unless your partner's penis is magically changing sizes, your ability to do it with different sizes is useless. And yikes this sounds really porn-addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:31 AM
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Exactly. Non-virgin men are usually like that. So arrogant because they pathetically believe having sex makes them cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:24 AM
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It definitely is. Try having sex with a non-virgin man who keeps doing something ridiculous because "other women liked it."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:19 AM
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>gets better at having sex with your ex >becomes absolutely abysmal at having sex with your new partner who has different preferences Better just to save it for your partner and not teach yourself the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:29 AM
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Men and women who have lots of sexual partners get jaded and uninterested. I knew a guy who was only 15 at the time and he had so much casual sex he said he was bored of looking at naked thong ass at the beach. It just gets boring when you do it with a bunch of different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:28 AM
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Older women retain neotenous features while men who used to be neotenous almost always lose it. When women want feminine they don't mean lgbt feminine, they mean pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:28 AM
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I don't think the twink obsession is new. I'm well aware young men have been the most attractive for all of history. People usually don't realize how young celebrities were. Elvis's height of fame was around 22 for example. Harry Styles is significantly less feminine than he used to be. He's barely hanging on because of his skull shape, but he's starting to look like a rat. Sexiest Man Alive is decided by a hodgepodge of wine-swirling, grey-haired, millionaire old men and one gay dude. It has ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:26 PM
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25 no. That's almost my age (24) and masculine men are so out of fashion. Twinky guys are more popular with my peer group now than when we were 18. 35-40 year old women sure. I don't think feminine men in their 30s even exist, they all get so much older and rough looking by that age. Women that age don't have much of a choice. 40 year old women still say young Zac Efron is hot but they wouldn't go after him in real life because of the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:09 AM
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Conservatives are freaked out by them too and often use them as a way to attack liberals for being degenerate. Many Christians/conservatives say it's not trad for men to push off marriage and they should be married young. Some conservative men defend age gaps with their life but they're an extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:28 PM
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I agree a little older than 15 is more fertile, but there's not much wrong with a 15 year old boy as he can do the job fine. On the other hand, a 15 year old girl can die. There's so much history of men acting like little girls are ready to get married off, I wonder if they're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:53 AM
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I have noticed that. There's a huge twink obsession in the gay community. Straight women adopted the word twink to describe feminine young guys they are attracted to too. Women are nurturing so wouldn't they be happy with a younger guy? Girls think it's the cutest thing ever when the guy they like is even 1 month younger. I definitely think women like youth, because why wouldn't they. I see nothing masculine about wanting to be with a cute young woman. Wanting a rough dominant Amazonian wife see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:31 AM
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20yo boy and 15yo girl is scary every time you see it. It's obvious. There's such an imbalance. They seem so different. But I know multiple 7 year gaps (16-17yo boys, legal here) with older girls, and I wouldn't be able to tell. I'd think it was normal if I didn't question the number because I hate it the other way around. I'm sure human nature is at play. 16 year old boys are perfectly capable of impregnating. Donating a sperm is nothing to them, easy, safe, and not scary like pregnancy for gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:11 AM
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I think what you're saying has to do with school environment. Someone being in your class is the easiest way to see who they are (pretty well actually) without talking to them. I'm not sure what would happen if adults went to school too. I imagine it happening less, adults seem less romantic, but I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:07 AM
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Men who date younger women are demons who deserve to be in jail. Getting dried out for money is just minor karma. He deserves so much worse. That has nothing to do with this converstion though. You said I should be as disgusted by a woman using someone for money as by a man being a sexual pervert. Those two things are not even slightly the same. If you think they are, explain your opinion. You have failed to even attempt to explain your opinion, and you're just repeating exactly what I said, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:56 AM
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Can you explain to me why you think this? Why is using someone for money ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:44 AM
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I'm more concerned about the sexual perversion of the man than the desire for money of the woman. It's not remotely comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:40 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:51 AM
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This, except not quite. 0-1 years is much preferred over 2-5 years. (1 year isn't even different, that's just calendar space, since you probably won't have the same exact birthday.) Most people just want someone like them to feel close to. If not same age, I suspect women naturally prefer slightly younger men (who wouldn't, biologically they're stronger, prettier, healthier, and they fit perfectly into women's caring instinct that would attach her to this man), but men have more dominance so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:51 AM
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And not even that. We desire men our same age. A little older or a little younger is just coincidence in your peer group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:47 AM
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Definitely this. I knew so many high school senior girls hooking up with high school freshman. (Not to be confused with college freshman.) People are getting their ideas on age gaps from Hollywood, I swear. It is incredibly common for girls to date younger guys. Basically every girl I know has done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:45 AM
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Men always claim that the 45 year old man is irresistible to 21 year olds And I can't think of anything more delusional. We can just point at those men and laugh at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:43 AM
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Or a few years younger. Women dating men a little younger is extremely common. Many women gush about how sweet it is and how much they love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:41 AM
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Where the heck do you live because I've lived on the east and west coasts of the United States and girls under 25 dating 30+ men is legitimately unheard of. Redditors are a ton looser about age gaps. I notice the big gaps are likely to be some polygamous reddit weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:36 AM
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Where I'm from, older man straight up means 2 years older. Most young adult women are dating men same age, or 1 year younger or older. 4-5 years would be, "Whoa, he's WAY older."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:34 AM
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I'm not even going to start on how delusional it is that you think a 30 year old woman is old. That's SO young. But I'm even younger, early 20s. What do you say to me? I'm sickened by men who date younger women. Am I aged out too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:31 AM
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Women in their 20s all the way down to girls in high school are the MOST vocal about the fact that men who date younger women are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:30 AM
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Never heard a woman say this in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:29 AM
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This is just wrong. Younger women are the ones telling men not to date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:28 AM
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Hideous 21 year old guys look better than "hot" 50 year old guys. Hard to ignore his face sagging off and how he looks like your dad. Tons of pretty girls have ugly bfs their same age. They take them over older "hotter" guys any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:18 AM
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Male sex symbols and female sex symbols are the same age. Tons of older women are sex symbols. And male sex symbols are usually male gaze, they look like men from deodorant and wristwatch ads. Men are the ones drooling over a 55 year old woman if she has big boobs, while women's obsession lies with such young guys. I see so many adult women flustered over teen River Phoenix.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:14 AM
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And at that point you know she's just using you. I think 10 years is pushing it. 5 max and then I get suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:09 AM
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Naturally, old men would have no wealth because it got stolen by younger, stronger, faster men. Athletic ability declines after age 25. Older men wouldn't be able to obtain or defend resources against any younger man who wants it for himself. Men 25 and under would be getting all the women, leaving older men resource-less, visibly weak, and unattractive. Watch pro men's sports to see how dramatic the loss of athletic ability is (even in the most fit, healthy men in the world) when they hit their…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:07 AM
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Women do not naturally desire older men; they are forced to settle for them; and have a strong preference for men their own age. This is pure common sense. Anyone who denies this is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:48 AM
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This, but with the terfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:41 AM
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Sometimes people's head just don't match their body lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:20 PM
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I think it would look weird if girly pretty boys got big muscles, because then they'd be neither feminine or masculine, just a Frankenstein piece of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:25 AM
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