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You're foolish to think the Bible makes weak men lol. The Bible makes mature and emotionally secure men who can handle anything that's thrown at them. Turn the other cheek basically means in that scenario "don't be petty and pout", it doesn't mean "if somebody is killing your people, let them chop off your head." You need to look into the "just war" thesis in this case. Christ doesn't want us to sit around and be killed like lemmings because then he'll have no church on earth. Strong men don't g…
/r/RPChristians03/12/20 11:32 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/RPChristians09/09/20 12:13 AM
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Choose to pick this up or put it down, but my best "self help book" is the bible; matthew, john, romans, corinthians. I'm a sinner because I'm a fornicator. But make of that what you will.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:37 PM
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I used to be negative and complain until 2 of my best friends AND EVEN MY BARBER pointed it out. I used to think being "cool" was "i don't give a fuck, i don't need anybody else, i could kick ass all alone." The key is positivity. Making people happy, being social, improving, growing, leaning. That's INFINITELY more attractive than thinking you're so cool (and end up being envious and spiteful). The main reason I used to act like that (and most people do) is because it's a defense mechanism beca…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 06:36 PM
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Yeah I told him I was posting his situation to TRP so he'd get some sense talked into him, while we were sitting next to each other on the couch lol.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 04:09 AM
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Hey I'm a christian so I'm all about this comment, take my upvote
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 07:44 PM
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Guys voluntarily cucking themselves left and right over here in 2018 NYC that's for damn sure
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 07:15 PM
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Exactly. People need to be introspective, acknowledge their flaws, identify the root causes, come to peace with them, and subsequently grow. There are two paths in life: you can constantly improve and grow, change, and really become someone great. Or you can stagnate. Become complacent. Let life punch you in the face and have your solution be: "i'm just gonna keep taking it until my face loses it's feeling permanently, then it won't hurt anymore." Sadly, there are a lot of these men. That all be…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 04:58 PM
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For sure man, it's a positive feedback loop.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 04:52 PM
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You'll find that's how everything in life is. "I don't like football" meets people who like it and starts watching it "I love football!!" ... "ehh I don't get the Grateful Dead at all" goes to a concert "I can't stop listening to the dead!!" Basically, don't rule anything out. Don't be like "this certain activity or hobbie is whack and I'd never get get those people or enjoy it." People just need things broken down to them to "get" them sometimes. There are so many things in life, we can't all h…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 05:16 PM
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The key is frame. Like I said, my buddy has crushed it on multiple tinder dates explaining how he takes apart electrical transformers and drains oil out of them for a living. But he cares about it, and he has legitimate reasons why and he's passionate. And passion is infectious. You can pull them into your frame and help them "get it." I'm gonna be honest, video games might be a hard one. I personally don't look upon video games too idyllically because I think they're distractions from living an…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:17 PM
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Full disclosure: On the rare occasion that I do watch TV, I often watch shark tank
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 08:38 PM
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Hahahah agree 100% bro. It may seem like "how do you have time for shit!?" The key is when getting home from work, don't lay down! Don't watch TV! Don't relax! Just keep going. Keep going. There's plenty of time. People try to squeeze in 3-4 hours of shark tank every night yeah you aren't gonna have shit time to do anything else.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 05:18 PM
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I dig it man, I like to picture it like I have a complete life and I'm letting her sit in the passenger seat for the ride. But it's my show. So yeah if I gotta go run an errand or whatever, she can come, but you gotta make sure you'd run that errand the EXACT SAME WAY you would as if she weren't there.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:41 PM
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I'm also of the opinion that you can socialize your way out of social anxiety and to an extent depression as well. You ever hear of that "Rat Park" study on addiction? They showed that drug addiction and depression in the mice came from being socially isolated. We're social animals, it doesn't matter how introverted people think they are, we're all the same species, and we're alive today because we're social animals and worked together in groups. Inviting new people (people I've only met once or…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 12:59 PM
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The last thing you wanna do is doubt that people will come, people can sense that doubt and they'll bail. Like I said, most people don't have shit to do a lot of the time and are looking for fun stuff. As long as your plans seem fun enough you'll peel off hopefully at least 2 of them. And then go for it, then next club or whatever time you see all of them, all 3 of you can talk about how much fun you had, they'll get jealous and hop on the bandwagon. I think asking in person when you see them is…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:33 PM
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I generally will shoot to sleep around 1130pm (fucking seinfeld always keeps me up later than I want) but sometimes I'll sleep at midnight-6AM. Sometimes I sleep in to 630AM. But yeah, that's always been good enough for me, I'm just lucky I guess. I'm 27 too so it's not like i'm 18 and can pull all nighters no problem. I find that if I don't stop, and sort of just keep going, don't try to take breaks and shit throughout the day, I can just keep going. Also, a major key is I drink this shit calle…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:29 PM
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I personally hate tinder, I like his "picking them up at dunkin donuts" or wherever to be the best method. I found my HB9 18year old "through tinder" (we didn't match), I added her on instagram and took it from there. I find it to be much more difficult going this route. I think if you crack some good jokes and come off sexy when you meet a hot 18-20 year old out in public, they're so surprised because they don't have it happen to them often, that they're turned on by the uniqueness of the situa…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:27 PM
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I find that it's pretty important to be up to date on younger culture. Not to the extent that I'm dying my hair pink and listening to Lil Yachty on the daily. But it's important to be able to talk like them, know their stupid ass lingo so you don't come off as out of touch. Also you need to be able to make relevant pop culture references. Otherwise you're gonna just be boxed in as the older man who is on the periphery who maybe gets laid once in a while but that's it. And hey if that's your goal…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:23 PM
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Yeah man I've been there before. If you'd like to chill with them outside of the clubs and hobbies, suggest going straight to drinks after or something. Maybe hit them up on the weekend with something fun to do, say you're gonna invite a few of them. This person I learned a lot of social skills from, she brought out like 5-6 of her coworkers after work to happy hour then they got sauced and all went to one of those korean karaoke rooms and it was a blast. Something that's low pressure where you …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:10 PM
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You're totally right, it isn't the only way. But yeah it isn't too effective being on the periphery when you're an adult (I'm 27, maybe should've indicated that), because your chances of meeting somebody worth plating are pretty severely diminished, and I've found like I said I can only plate red-flag sort of women when I'm the bad boy on the periphery. But hey, to each their own. About the social anxiety - I used to have it bad. Like terribly fucking awful bad. I was put on lexapro, and xanax, …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:07 PM
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I'm not saying don't be yourself. I'm saying get positive productive hobbies. Who you think you are could be just who you've been for the past couple of decades, but you may be fooling yourself. You may just be trapped in a rut. Also... For me, personally, I haven't met too many HB8+ through getting stoned and playing video games? Whatever works for you though man. If you don't desire to get out and be more social and whatever then don't, but the larger a social life and more connections you hav…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:45 AM
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Whats sleep? Really though, about 6hrs
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:41 AM
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This one's funny.. spotted her on tinder then Instagram then then facetiming then hanging out. She was some really cute chick that I knew inevitably matched with whoever the fuck she wanted to on dating apps (my profile isn't too effective, I've noticed) so I figured I'd add her Instagram and try to squeeze some jokes in and get my foot in the door. One day she posted something saying like "somebody let me live in your apartment in (city I live in) I'll love you forever." And I just said "me." S…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:46 PM
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I'm almost 28 and my gf is 18. My friends think and other people think it's kindof weird, sometimes I field jokes about how she can't get into bars lol. But I brush em off and as long as I'm having fun, the sex is great and I don't give a fuck what anybody else thinks, then who cares right? As long as you don't care and you don't let anybody's dumb opinions get to you, then they'll stop caring and judging and accept your frame, I've found. Keep on keepin on bud! 40 dating 19 hahah that's a jackp…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:29 PM
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The term "plow horse" yesterday made me laugh pretty hard. But no, I'm not saying work your ass off for fruitless blind endeavors. I'm saying learn how to make the adjustments in yourself needed to change your bad habits into good habits. The plow horse doesn't see that his habits are the wrong ones, that he toils away not seeing the lack of rain is out of his control. I'm advocating going out and gaining experience so you can adapt to whatever life throws at you, like when the rain doesn't come…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 03:57 PM
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Most of the time I'm able to diffuse pissy attitudes with humor. Making her feel in her head like she's acting like a child and I'm daddy. Rise above her pissy-ness. You wanna be a disgruntled child? Fine, aint gonna ruin my day OR my good time. She can live in her own depressed little world and let her personal cloud soak her little clothes.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:44 PM
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Friendzone her for friend access wooo my fave tactic
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:31 PM
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Talking about high school like the glory days haha. I'm 27 and I tell people all the time I feel like I'm still on the upswing. How can your glory days end at 18 when you still have (ideally) 60-70 years of life left? Hello misery. Also I'd never let a woman peg me. My gf would never even have the gall to ask me about a threesome in another man, she'd be terrified I'd put her in her place. Hopefully he crashes and burns bad and learns a thing or two.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:50 PM
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Don't outsource your happiness! Fuck yeah. We need to love ourselves before we expect others to love us. And, in regard to your point #2, when I went through alcoholics anonymous, I learned a very very valuable little prayer that has chilled me out just like you're saying up here. It's this: "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The courage to change the things I can. And the wisdom to know the difference." That one has always worked me wonders. Keep on brotha, you'll…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:41 PM
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The easiest way to get out of your habits is identify your unhealthy ones and change them. It's not going to be easy. It's not going to be comfortable. You need to force yourself to do shit you don't want to do in order to change your habits. Weed, for me, is a nuisance. Drugs are a crutch that people use because they A. don't have fulfilling activities throughout the day, B. use it "socially" to connect with people (other stoners) because they lack social skills to develop TRUE bonds, or C. To …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 08:33 PM
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I'm not a doctor, sir. Depends on your weight, your current levels, etc. I'd highly recommend getting bloodwork done (for a multitude of reasons) and working with your doctor. I don't take multivitamins, I only take this one, and it was a dosage recommended by my doctor. I believe it was like 2000 twice a day. Don't quote me on that though, the bottle is in my bathroom at home I'm not sure lol. You'd be better off doing research online or consulting a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 08:24 PM
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Lol, you know I loves me some capitalization overuse!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 08:00 PM
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Yup, I'm trying to make sure everyone in this thread doesn't just start loading up without consulting with their doctor. Tried to emphasize the need to get blood work done and do things carefully. I think I'm gonna edit the post.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:53 PM
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Hey man yeah I take this one: https://www.cvs.com/shop/cvs-health-vitamin-d-softgels-5000iu-100ct-prodid-1010704?skuId=717911 twice a day. Those that you showed me once a day would be fine I think. You should consult with your doctor though. Especially because you've already found out (I assume through him?) that you're deficient.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:52 PM
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Hey man I'm right there with you on pretty much everything. Wake up at 6am get home at 6pm. It's about an hour commute each way. Gym about 1.5hrs 3-4 times a week. Also I'm a music producer/songwriter that I'll often do from 8pm-midnight/1am a few days a week. Let me tell you, it IS possible to get and maintain a new group of friends (and add to it) as long as it's a priority in your life. I speak to all of them often, even if it's just a text to see how my homies are doing, and we hang out ever…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:23 PM
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Ok well, what time do you get up and what time do you get home? Also, you need to try and make new friends that live near you man. I have friends that live an hour away too, from where I used to live before I moved. Now I have friends that are 5 mins away.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:01 PM
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Hey I feel ya on that brotha, I went through a complete life collapse because of drug addiction: fucked up family and friend relationships, lost job, became epileptic, probation, the list goes on and on. BUT in order to recover I needed to get to the root of all my problems, why i started using in the first place. And because of the drug addiction showing me the light, it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I've improved in every single aspect of my life. Hope all is well with you too b…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:52 PM
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Yup. The breakfast isn't the end of the fuckin world. You could still have skated through it, whatever. But meeting up again the same day? Are you like... WHAT!? What were you thinking? That's like middle school crush status my mans. It's alright though, you learn and grow, don't do that shit again. Onward!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:49 PM
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Ok I mean, if you don't speak to anybody ever then you should probably start, in my opinion. Being socially isolated makes literally everything else in your life more difficult. Social connections help you get a job, they help you find fun things to do (and get invited to them), they help you meet new women, they help you generally just have more fun in life. At least for me the "I'm a strong man and can take on this world all by myself" mentality never worked (not saying for sure that's what yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:36 PM
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I agree with your bottom paragraph there. Get into shape, love yourself, FIX YOURSELF before trying to bring women into your life. It's awful, I feel terrible for you that you can't see your kid and it almost would lead you to voluntarily be cucked just for the sake of you being able to see your kid. But if she's a piece of shit then yeah, you have to do what you did. It's great that you know it's a horrible idea, that you're not trusting her, and that you think she's got some bullshit up her sl…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:29 PM
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Check the bottom of my post. I'm not recommending just everybody take it for the hell of it. I'm saying get your blood work done, make sure you are/aren't deficient, and improve your health. After getting blood work, your certified doctor will give you medical advice based on science.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:23 PM
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No, read the bottom of my post. Don't just take vitamins and minerals because "they're all good for me right!?!" That's not the right way to do shit. You'll only notice a difference if you're deficient. It seems like you AREN'T deficient. Just like if you're skinny as fuck and not getting enough calories, then you need to intake more calories. But if you're already getting enough, then you're going to do the wrong thing by taking more.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:19 PM
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Giving into your basic human instincts and fucking a rubber doll is exactly that, being a slave to your emotion and hormones. TRP is about frame, it's about being a real fucking man and sucking in every woman and friend in an irresistible hurricane of attractiveness. Fucking rubber is giving in and giving up. It's the polar opposite. I'm not trying to brag or act like I'm so great or anything because I'm the first person to tell you I'm not perfect, but I don't even really jerk off anymore, ever…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:17 PM
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Well I guess if you're gonna bulk up then just go at it head first and bulk up. A well built bald guy can 100% still be sexy. Look at The Rock, or Jason Statham, or Vin Diesel or Andre Agassi.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:45 PM
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I said "in the beginning us beta fucks need all the help we can get." In the beginning of TRP, those people tend to be beta who need all the help they can get, no? It's just humorous I don't get what's so offensive lol, it's like when R. Lee Ermey calls male troops a bunch of skirt wearing ladies. It's just a joke.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:42 PM
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It's insane dude. Like I said, I was blown away by the quality of life increase. I didn't want to get THAT into it and act like it's some miracle cure all snake oil shit but yeah.. I hope that this post nudged some people to get bloodwork done and possibly supplement with VitD and feel just as good as we do brotha.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:37 PM
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This made me LOL. Is this really true? How old were you when you started taking it?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:34 PM
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Ahh sorry to hear that man. What's the treatment for that?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:33 PM
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Hey whatever works for you man, all that matters is you're feeling better, less sedentary, and more intense at the gym. Keep on
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:33 PM
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Yup, light and energy are the genesis of all life
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:32 PM
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Gotta look into K2 supplementing, thanks for the heads up
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:31 PM
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Yeah man, the change was large enough to motivate me to make this post lol
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:31 PM
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Yeah, after years of drug usage, family wrecking, friend losing, crime committing, probation serving, beta-bucking, and rock bottom hitting, I finally learned my lesson. I finally learned why for the previous 25-26 years I felt the way I did, and acted the way I did, and turned to drugs in the first place. Best thing that ever happened to me, wouldn't change it for the world.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:24 PM
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I don't really drink milk, especially 2 cups on a daily basis. I consume about the amount that I put in my coffee when I drink it and that's about it lol. I'm more of a water/iced tea kindof guy. But hey, good on you man, how ever you get your nutrients.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:20 PM
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Weird wild stuff. I wonder how much of that could possibly be placebo? Not saying your lying, but sometimes it's hard to tell, I was unsure if my improvements were placebo or not for a while. Until I tried starting then stopping a few times and noticed an immediate difference. I'll look into the zinc and iron too, I'm probably deficient because I eat garbage food and in insufficient amounts too. I really need to improve my diet to start showing my gym gains more.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:19 PM
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Then you are superior to me. Obviously.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:17 PM
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Yeah I know, the processed food and sugar especially are def my next targets. Really hard to make the change all at once and I'm still getting adjusted to gym 3-4 times a week + no soda lol. Can't take too much at one time. I'll check out the natru-path tho, thanks for the heads up. I used to not believe in a lot of that shit but I've since found sometimes they really know their shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:17 PM
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My doctor recommended me 2 D3 pills (forget the exact dosage) per day. We'll see down the road, he didn't say to lower my dosage, but I plan on getting blood work done every year from here on out. Ever since I got sober, my health is numero uno.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:15 PM
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Haha, yeah it worked out man. I'm making even more than that now. I've found with hard work, making the right choices, surrounding myself with the right people, and being optimistic generally all leads me where I want to go in life. Even "setbacks" are growth opportunities. Re-examine, re-tool, re-execute.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:13 PM
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I started a new job years ago that bumped my pay up from $60k to $80k but they wanted me to work 10pm-6am shifts 6 days a week. I dropped that shit like a rock. Goodbye social life. Goodbye sanity. There's a reason they offer that much.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:40 PM
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Consult with your doctor. Don't just take blanket multivitamins for the hell of it. Get testing if you show symptoms of things being "off."
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:38 PM
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If you're getting a blood test, a doctor is going to give you recommendations. I don't think recommending to people they get a blood test and fix their health issues is such an injurious post.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:34 PM
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I agree - it really is lol. Our bodies synthesize it from cholesterol when exposed to sunlight. Our bodies are really beautiful insane things man.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:22 PM
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Actual quote from my post "Get a blood test, make sure you aren't deficient in shit anything. Taking vitamins and minerals just "because they're good for me RIGHT!?" is dumb as hell. Find out for sure. Fix your shit. Fix yourself. Grow and improve" I explicitly said don't just take it to take it. I'm just saying if you show some of these symptoms you could possibly be suffering from this and it really sucks to be deficient in it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:15 PM
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Haha I'm not trying to shame people, wasn't my intention, was just making a joke - slightly self deprecating. I actually don't consider myself beta at all. Maybe it's a habit from my alcoholics anonymous days.... who knows.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:13 PM
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If I could do my job at an outdoors desk standing up, my quality of life would increase and hundred-fold.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:11 PM
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You might be better off, really not entirely sure. Like I said at the bottom, best way to know for sure is just get your bloodwork done at the doctor. You should anyway, it'll tell you how your cholesterol is, blood glucose, white blood cell count, fat levels, vitamin deficiencies, possibly indicate cancer. Definitely a thing worth checking out especially if you're noticing you're a little "off."
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:09 PM
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Thanks for the vocab coaching, but I don't want it, let me stay internet ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 03:07 PM
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Every study of course needs to be taken with a grain of salt, they often don't apply to EVERY person. That's why I included my personal anecdote as well. A lot of evolutionary scientists conclude that Northern Europeans skin makeup and ability to digest milk were shaped literally by the need for better Vitamin D absorption. Source: http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/04/how-europeans-evolved-white-skin
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:29 PM
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Between your mentions of guns, steak, masturbation and pegging I can see that everything you said seems pretty damn accurate. You I dig. Keep on
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:17 PM
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Quick question with zero judgement implied..... are you a 50-60 year old woman browsing TRP?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:53 PM
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Your single testimony isn't blanket scientific proof. I provided scientific studies. They're in the sources, they're referenced. If you choose to ignore them, do your own thing man.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:43 PM
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You should've been running the conversation, butting in, making jokes about their girl talk, calling shit on them.. making her friend want to fuck you so your girl get's closer when they talk about you when you aren't around. You didn't beat her shit test, you made her feel bad for you a little bit and you're an orbiter man. NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:40 PM
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Joe Walsh's (singer from the Eagles) song "Life's Been Good" is the fucking shit. One of my faves of all time.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:16 PM
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I just wanted to chime in and say I love how his name is Billy. It feels like I'm reading some government supplied pamphlet. "THIS IS BETA-BILLY. DON'T BE LIKE BETA-BILLY." Anyway, good for you, stick it to em.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:04 PM
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Yo you're a pussy. Sorry to put it so bluntly. But she should've been gone months/years ago, you have not swallowed TRP. "I swallowed the red pill but I tell her I still won't break up with her." AKA YOU HAVE NOT SWALLOWED THE RED PILL. If my girl was texting an ex she'd be OUT THE FUCKING DOOR. Dude you can't be like "HEY DON'T DO THAT IT HURTS ME! :(" You need to say "I can easily find somebody else, if you want to text somebody else - you're done. Period." Control her like a dog on a fucking …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:54 PM
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How in the fuck could having female friends be frowned upon? I go out every weekend with 5-10 attractive women and like 1-2 dudes and most of them wanna fuck me. It def keeps a woman on her toes like "fuck this guy would have zero problem replacing me tomorrow if I left today." I have one friend who makes plans with like dozens and dozens of people all the time, she's always pulling in new female friends, trying to hook me up with them, etc. It gives me validation ("oh well if 10 women want to s…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 03:56 PM
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No it's not.. #1. Everyone can be loved, I mean unless you're like a highly contagious leper. #2. The need to induce fear in other people is often a defense mechanism caused by an underlying dislike of self/traits, or difficulty reconciling with past traumatic events.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:30 AM
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Death in the family is rough as it gets. My apologies for your loss. Grieving is totally acceptable and needed. May I suggest just giving her enough to still remember you exist without having to try and chill with her and potentially show her your weakened grieving state? Either way, as I'm sure you know, this "beta backslide" is all in your head, and it ends the day you decide it ends. Because you know how you got into red pilled mode before, correct? I wish you the best in your emotional recov…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:43 PM
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I don't understand fully how your "seasonal depression" could be to blame for this. You've been with her for 5 years, no? So what about the 4 prior years of seasons you experienced with her? Something about this time is different. What is it? What happened to throw you off your game? Job issues? Social issues? Give up on the gym? Not any hobbies/passions? Why is THIS "seasonal depression" any worse than the previous ones?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:53 PM
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Are you drinking heavily like that other waiter was? Are you making the RIGHT choices in life? (you know what the right choices are deep down) Are you taking steps EVERY DAY to institute positive change? Change is not comfortable. Breaking habits is VERY uncomfortable. Especially breaking bad social habits. Be fun, be positive. People want to be around fun, happy, positive people that put out good energy. That is what's attractive. Put out good positive energy to people (who deserve it, which mo…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:16 PM
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That's the thing - women today kind of believe that equality is behaving just as shitty as they perceive men to behave Wow, aint that the damn truth.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 03:12 PM
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Change your habits, change your path. The only thing you're tied to is yourself; no loyalty to a boss, a job, a landlord, a woman.. only yourself. Don't let your loyalties be a dead weight. Make a new plan. Plan out a better you and execute. Step by step. It doesn't all come at once. Took me years. First I got the job, then a few years later my car, then a while after that I developed my social skills, built a group of friends, after that I really got my gym shit together, my band, my songwriter…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 02:16 PM
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You're right about the whole insight providing thing. Most people just "do" and don't analyze their motivations, look back to see what they could've done differently and improved. These are valuable skills that introverts can use to quickly make fixes and change the things we don't like about ourselves. It took me a few years to figure out how to be social, how to be friendly, make people happy, give/receive compliments well, stay away from negativity and complaining, etc. But after I got the ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:21 PM
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As has been said here before, but definitely deserves being reiterated, do NOT get in the habit of using a benzo as a crutch for social anxiety. I used it to help with my anxiety for years and did it help? Of fuckin course it did. But it also sent me down an uncontrollable path of drug addiction, criminal activity, and EPILEPSY. I had a seizure while driving and I totaled my car and I really should be dead. Benzos are nothing to fuck around with. And after I've been sober for almost 4 years from…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:21 PM
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Yeah I agree with this, I tell people this all the time but in a different way. Excitement and nervousness/anxiety are the same emotion, the only difference is one is reinforced with positivity and the other is negative. I believe the big way to turn nervousness into excitement is confidence. Telling yourself over and over "this is excitement I'm feeling, not anxiousness" in a situation can totally change the way your conscious mind is interpreting your subconscious emotions. It works!... At lea…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:24 PM
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There's so much truth to this. So many weekends I'll go out, the night doesn't pan out too well, and me and my buddy will be like "meh might as well leave and smoke a joint." Or we'll just smoke all day on a weekend and do nothing. I think the major problems are it takes away from my ability to hold conversations with people. I'm always used to talking to dopey stoners about stoner shit, and I'm not going and experiencing shit in life that I can bring up in conversation with people. Or even if I…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:29 PM
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Thanks for this OP, I've been thinking about kicking the weed habit for these exact reasons. Always beneficial to see someone on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:25 PM
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