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jeeohnjones/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 10:48 AM
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she eventually needs to learn not to Talk to me that way She's talking to you the exact way you deserve to be talked to.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 04:46 AM
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Men thrive with criticism (eg military) Girls thrive with compliments and encouragement. All your daughter is hearing from your wife is "you're shit". Does your wife compliment your daughter's successes? Is she able to change how she views the world to start seeing the positives, and give praise and encouragement? It is hard work to start noticing good behaviour vs only speaking against bad behaviour. Eg "stop being a brat" vs "thank you for sitting so quietly that's very nice"
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 07:56 AM
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or "I see you are no longer playing my game"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 10:35 AM
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Get her a gift for putting up with you.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 07:32 AM
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the shit around the house time with guys doing that shit done some family shit Is your life shit? What DO you like about your life? What do you want your life to look like where you'd enjoy it? Tell her to put her fucking phone down and do her chores.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 10:50 PM
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I dunno, some details might be important. No need to list them for us, but what were they about in general. Those are the things you might want to improve about yourself first. Or translate them into what an unhappy wife really means by this comment and fix that. Hell just fix all of yourself.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 03:33 AM
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Does she do any of the incredibly simple self-care things that depressed people often miss. Depression and poor self-care are hand in hand (each one leads to the other.. no sunlight -> depressed -> doesnt go outside) Healthy bodyweight, drink water, eat vegetables, get sunlight, go for a walk/do any kind of exercise, have a proper circadian rhythm, get good natural sleep, not looking at her phone 20 hours a day, brush her hair, clean clothes, clean sheets, some kind of purpose in life. Not doing…
/r/askMRP14/08/16 03:25 AM
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A shitty man removing his presence and attention is a relief to wives. "stop touching me, get off me, leave me alone, oh thank god" A valuable man who isnt seen as a gross, grabby creeper by the wife, who removes his presence and doesnt give her attention, yes this is a punishment. Step 1, be attractive. then your absence means something.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 10:30 AM
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You're a bore. Not interesting, exciting or valuable when you're around. Not perceptive enough to stfu or leave.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 07:51 AM
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Afraid of the dark? Afraid of open spaces? Afraid of clowns in the sewer? Hates being made to walk home in high heels?
/r/askMRP11/08/16 03:31 AM
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My girl made the mistake of saying "Do you have to turn everything into a song and dance?" I frequently fling my arms wide and warble rediculous things... "I'M THE WORST DISHWASHER IN THE WOOOOOORLD" /bow then snap her with the tea-towel.
/r/askMRP06/08/16 03:44 AM
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Lead her to fun, help her find her passion, do something together as a team where she's relying on you and you get a chance to show her how awesome you are at that activity. enthusiam is contagious. What stuff do you do together?
/r/askMRP06/08/16 03:04 AM
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Is her affect flat all the time? Does she ever laugh so hard she has tears in her eyes, get steaming mad, or start sniffling at sad movies? Either depression, or some people just have a smaller range of expressed emotions.. eg people who can laugh hysterically go to 10, she only giggles at 5 max.
/r/askMRP06/08/16 02:52 AM
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Are you gaming her throughout the day? How's your foreplay, your all-day-play? Are you kissing her in the morning and grabbing her ass in the afternoon? Or are you grabbing her tit cold at 9pm and expecting her to be ready to go Maybe it's not a no, just a 'not ready yet'
/r/askMRP30/07/16 05:49 AM
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That's good then. saw the edit. I think we all jumped on her behaviour because it's just so different from the typical "wife annoyed by slow decline to fat/lazy/boring husband" which is withdrawing, rejecting, excuses, avoiding.. and eventually either screaming/crying from anxiety at being trapped.. or the emotional affair with Joe from the office. Which mostly can be fixed by undoing fat/lazy/boring. Is night-drinking a typical reponse.. I dunno
/r/askMRP22/07/16 01:54 PM
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There are about 4 issues here. The dampened libido itself, from the chemicals or the cyst. She doesnt want sex with you or anyone. (very different to women who just dont want their husbands in particular). The additional dampening of any desire to want to fix the problem. an ex described the sensation of being on the pill as "It's like being wrapped in a 3 inch yoga mat from the neck down. You touch me and it does nothing. You smile at me in the way that used to turn me on, and I dont feel a dam…
/r/askMRP22/07/16 12:54 PM
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Seems you're thinking "If I turn into the guy I was, she'll turn into the woman she was" She can't anymore, the old fun sexy wife is long gone. You have mentally ill wife who needs professional help. Her behaviour is not normal and does not have to be tolerated. Save yourself and your kid first.
/r/askMRP22/07/16 12:30 AM
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Bribe him with a new car.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 03:22 PM
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If you're laughing at something in an "own your shit" manner - you drop something "ha ha such a butterfingers" it's fine. If you're bringing up negative things that no-one saw, no-one cares about, no-one needs to know. "lol squeezed a pimple and it hit the mirror I'm so gross ha ha ha I'm so alone : ("
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:27 AM
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should I be feeling No. Lifting, reading, improving yourself. Just like everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 08:08 AM
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Sheepdogs are good guys, white knights are Nice guys....
/r/askMRP20/07/16 09:13 PM
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Is this a bizarre troll post with "lets paste this story but with the genders reversed, see how they react" Anyway.. applying red pill is (kinda) supposed to get the thing you want. men apply it to get sex, women apply it to get commitment. She's already got the commitment and doesnt have to have sex with your pathetic ass, bravo to her. edit: You should make several trusted male friends, and start a daily journal, backed up to the cloud. So the police at least have a place to start when she get…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 09:17 AM
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but then the advice to this man is Yes but have you communicated clearly "I talked her pants off" - said no man ever
/r/askMRP20/07/16 02:36 AM
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Because they can only see "the problem" as "no sex" or worse "wife is the problem" "if we could just have sex then the relationship would be fixed!" The only success stories coming from DB start with the words " I finally left "
/r/askMRP20/07/16 02:33 AM
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It's like every 3rd post there is a sad man with the exact same lines. "sex was good at the start.. now she's spending more time on Facebook than with me.. she always has excuses not to have sex...". Try sending a PM with stuff like "hey this sounds just like me" /repeat the phrases "TRP is caustic advice, for college kids, try Married Red Pill for sensible advice from the older married men just like us" etc "if you dont want to read the forums, at least check out the recommended books, they rea…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 01:38 AM
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people are so consumed by their own selfish resentful bullshit I guess I'll take that money I had set aside and get the child support reduced. people are so consumed by their own selfish resentful bullshit ... get it? She'll be 18 here in less than 2 months. She's an adult now no she's not. prefrontal cortex not developed etc etc. children literally cannot make rational decisions. Stop expecting her to. You're the adult, start acting like one. Sorry kid, but its grow up time.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 08:05 AM
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I am marrying my woman of my dreams. You need better dreams.
/r/askMRP18/07/16 09:56 PM
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I vagued out halfway through the paragraph. "When you act pleasantly I'll listen" is fine. Introducing logic during emotional tirade = abuse apparently.
/r/askMRP18/07/16 06:00 PM
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Not enough of a thrilling reaction from you, for probably the truth. 'mentions it twice' - "Hey, hey. Did you hear me the 1st time? pls respond." She ups the story for more oohs and aahs to her friends. If you bring it up again, she'll finally get 'the reaction' she was looking for. If she brings anything like this up again, use it to say "yep, because you're so hot babe" (no sarcasm) and grab her ass etc etc. She knows damn well she's 'putting herself in situations' but apparently to get a reac…
/r/askMRP18/07/16 07:39 AM
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ooh tough one. The point of passive dread is to make her subconsciously come to the conclusion that you have other options. You blew that up with the proven ability to get another female. Overdoing the comfort - "Yes babe, I'm 100% yours" will make her lose attraction, it's anti-dread. Dread via leaving the house and being mysterious will just cause infidelity-anxiety and bad results. I guess the last option is just ignore her when she's being a shrew. Gaze off into the distance. Make it clear y…
/r/askMRP18/07/16 06:26 AM
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She glows after she has been with him. because she just got railed. know a number of divorced women, and never has she particularly cared yes... she doesnt believe you could attract them, and she doesnt find you attractive. Are there warning bells? Yes they were her screaming orgasms as she yelled his name. It was a while ago.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 10:24 AM
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Providing is a good beta trait. Just being an ATM with no alpha traits is why 'beta' gets sneered at. Alpha-Bux is the most desirable to women.
/r/askMRP06/07/16 10:22 PM
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But I just spent 2 minutes diagnosing all my ex's with BPD so I can continue being a fat weaksauce piece of shit and go looking for my unicorn who wont 'bait and switch' me with her 'low libido' and her 'crazy' :(
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 09:29 PM
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You've answered your own questions. You're saying one thing and doing the opposite. being irresponsible fun guy while she's doing the serious business of growing a human. More comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 04:21 PM
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Staying and arguing is just punching yourself in the nuts.
/r/askMRP01/07/16 03:20 PM
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My mum would do that. Every evening I'd wander into the kitchen and open the fridge to get the dog food. EVERY EVENING. She'd say "feed the dog". It's just the thing on her mind and she's just vaguely paying attention while doing whatever else. Short of screaming at her.... I just let her run with it. Whatever. Doesnt matter. Maybe your SO just has x task on her mind. She doesnt know you're -about- to do it. She's not looking at you while you're doing it is she? She's not standing over you waggi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 10:13 AM
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"Here are some boundaries, dont cross them" "Ok babe" ( ha ha ha lol no ) "Oh you crossed some boundaries. Do you promise to never do that again?" "Ok babe" (ha ha ha lol no) "I'm super serious this time" weak. You're both just saying words. You're both lying.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 01:19 PM
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I doubt the songs actually get through to anyone who needs it. Just makes the fedoras smirk that she's not happy, stroke their neckbeards and say "I'd never treat you like that m'lady, I'd do the cooking for you!"
/r/askMRP27/06/16 07:18 AM
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So from your OYS would it be fair to say that you've never been in charge? You've never been a masculine man and she's never been a feminine woman. She's never been able to relax and feel safe, secure, comforted and protected by your presence. She's always had to be "on" and in charge, and it causes nothing but anxiety and resentment. It's not shit tests. She's not checking you for fitness. You've been failing that 100% the entire time. It's not comfort. She's not checking if you like her. She's…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/16 07:11 AM
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The way women who dont physically desire their husbands get turned off, and begrudgingly give them starfish sex. You emotionally turned him off and he's begrudgingly masturbating in you. You say "but I'm so pretty, I dont understand" the same way a guy says "but I'm so nice, I dont understand"
/r/askMRP23/06/16 07:38 PM
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I'm sleeping in the same bed but on opposite sides of the bed with pillows in the middle. Nothing is happening and no touching is happening either. yeah man. if you sulk hard enough she'll "wise up" and come crawling into your pillow fort. Lololool
/r/askMRP23/06/16 06:01 AM
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Assuming 4 things *shit tests are for fitness - are you worth breeding with/will you end up killing me+our kids, or comfort - do you love me, will you stick around after you get me up the duff *once someone dislikes you, everything you do is annoying, once someone likes you, just about everything you do is amazing *people are generally nice, and are acting based on testing you or liking/disliking you or the whim of the moment. are women really straight-up bitches for no reason? why did you marry…
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:14 AM
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The Hamster Whisperer
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:58 AM
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well, own it here I mean. this was more about power or is it that 'he's thoughtless, careless, and just killed all the neighbourhood kids who have a peanut allergy because he cant be trusted to read a label'
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:53 AM
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I know I haven’t done anything wrong At least own it that you didnt read the label. edit - arr i read it in the wrong order, i see it now, didnt do anything wrong afterwards
/r/askMRP31/05/16 12:25 AM
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I don't think all women consciously know about their inclinations to betafy their partner, their wishes to branch swing and upgrade, but probably have more solid thoughts about their AF/BB strategy. “marrying this nice guy to settle down and get taken care of, because I'm sick of the bad boys” is said commonly and openly enough. There are strong Alpha women who don't want to submit to a man, or haven't found the right one, and their long term relationships aren't fully happy. They're always vagu…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 12:08 AM
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Instead of just 1 way of 'not spending time joined at the hip' (which is you up and leaving) there are 2 other ways. You+baby go away together. Take it for an afternoon at the park. Tell wife to just have a nap. You+wife go away together. You seem to have more than enough friends who have spare time to baby sit for an afternoon for you. Go somewhere with no TV shows to talk about. Be husband and wife again, not daddy+mommy. Edit : According to my calculations.. the time you've been stuck at home…
/r/askMRP22/05/16 10:30 PM
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What is it about being home that is frustrating / makes you not happy, and dont you think she's feeling the same?
/r/askMRP22/05/16 09:57 PM
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Dread inspires positive feelings and behaviour from women. Is she proud of you, for being an awesome, attractive, fit, well-dressed and groomed, not socially-awkward husband, one she can rely on, one with an awesome frame; she can lean her head on your shoulder after a rough day, knowing you've got it all under control? Is she proud of herself for "picking" such an awesome husband? Is she relaxed and happy, pleased to do little extra things for you - notes in your lunchbox, tilting her head to t…
/r/askMRP22/05/16 09:24 PM
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It's more like.. if you're browsing for a wife and intend to have children, don't bother getting a girl who's in college racking up debt. Women's SMV aren't increased by possessing a degree of any kind. It's a waste of 4 years, a ton of money and the likelihood of frat-carousel is high. Yes, being intelligent is a good quality to have. But you have to balance that with how absolutely boring being a SAHM can be. Endless dishes and laundry and cleaning can be mind-numbing. The chance for creativit…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 10:58 PM
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Any dread at this point I feel wouldnt be good. You dont even know what the levels of dread are, GO LIFT AND READ, FUCK.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 09:32 AM
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It was fine until the last 4 words. Then the music started up in my head and I forgot everything.
/r/askMRP08/05/16 11:22 AM
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“we should talk about what to do then” She is asking you what to do! She is asking you to lead! You did not.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 10:41 AM
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That's some next level contempt. She doesnt view anything you've done recently in a positive way. What sort of comments have you been getting? "You're an asshole, you dont love me anymore, are you cheating?"
/r/askMRP06/05/16 10:55 AM
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"you need to be nice to me" "Because you're my little beta orbiter" tease me by flashing boobs, denies me in the initiation. "Because I enjoy the validation of being found desirable, I just don't want to actually have sex with you because you're gross and creepy. Dont touch me. Just tell me I'm pretty. OK you can fuck off now. Thank God I pulled a new excuse not to have sex with you, out of my ass. You're a stranger. LOL"
/r/askMRP04/05/16 04:25 PM
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I'm not sure if I'm misunderstanding, or you are... It's commitment, not companionship. Women try to get commitment. She got you to agree to be exclusive and monogomous, with her, and her alone. You protect and provide for her only. Tingles are generated when she can come to the shocking conclusion that she -might not- have your commitment.. that you are desirable to other females.. and that you can leave her and pick up a replacement at any time. Sahara-vaj is generated by letting her know you …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 04:01 PM
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"I dont care where you are" Correct response is to make yourself someone you give a shit about. Should take 6+ months.
/r/askMRP02/05/16 02:02 PM
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am I applying too much dread? You're not applying dread. You're applying something, it's sure as shit not dread. Dread is supposed to inspire pride, smugness, happiness, gloating, not pure fucking terror.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 01:27 PM
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Her: If you get home earlier tonight then you can grab the bills to keep in your office. Her: You think you will work late? She took it right back to the beginning. According to her, absolutely nothing happened in the middle.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 06:46 PM
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good grief. It was a moving scene which reminded me of the utter sadness and desperation from some men on deadbedrooms. I stopped reading there weeks ago, it only induces melancholy. That the same 3 bullshit options are parroted - Divorce, (attempt to) Cheat, or Suffer. Like 'fix it' isnt even an option mmhmmm.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 05:10 PM
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Your SMV compared to hers doesnt matter if she never sees it. Does she see other women eyeing you, flirting with you? Do you do manly shit like chopping wood or mowing the lawn with your shirt off so the neighbours can swoon? It's MARKET value, not "in your head" value.
/r/askMRP23/04/16 08:43 AM
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my sex validation drive has significantly diminished Mind blown. Everyone who has ever said "No it's not about the sex, I crave the intimacy"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 05:32 AM
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Maybe she's re-evaluating her entire life, existance and purpose. Has she always had the upper hand with sex? Now she doesnt know what the hell to do beyond possessing a vajay. What other things does she do in life? Job? Household tasks that are hers alone? Friends? Creative hobbies? Does she have any identity beyond being your wife?
/r/askMRP19/04/16 02:18 AM
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Is that a fitness test? "Did I marry the right guy? Is he still in charge? ok he is, good"
/r/askMRP18/04/16 03:35 AM
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From reading several posts.. it seems there are 2 types of newbies who get the "my wife says I'm being an asshole" "Look at me, I'm the captain now" which results in "lol you're not the captain, stop being an asshole" "Shut up woman, I'm being stoic" which results in "what the tittyshits is going on here" Good stoic : She has a bad day at work, you enfold her in your strong, manly, capable arms and kiss her on the forehead. Bad stoic : You're the one causing her tantrums and you turn your back o…
/r/askMRP17/04/16 05:22 PM
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Does your stoic face look like >:( or like :D Need some amused mastery, A&A and tiny comfort / "I'm not cheating on you I'm working on improving myself and our relationship do you want to come along or nah" in there. You're going to live for what.. another 50 years.. and you're giving up after 3 days. cool.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 04:34 PM
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Women seem to have some innate drive to dominate men if they can. They're anxious if no-one's in charge.. if things arent under control. "I'm tired of having to think of everything for you as well" "If you wont do it, get out of the way, I'll do it" and then they hate you for it.
/r/askMRP17/04/16 03:25 PM
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She's a lovely lady.
/r/askMRP16/04/16 04:23 AM
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I came across your mom.
/r/askMRP16/04/16 01:43 AM
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This one is right on the front page. Read the books, read the sidebar, read the mrp sidebar.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 03:30 AM
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What are we counting as slut nowdays. Rolling from 1 guy to the next in quick sucession, having no identity other than "being part of a couple" or "having a guy". A year between guys? hmm. Anyway. She lied, her n is apparently unacceptable, and you cant handle it. Next. vet better and earlier. The only way to lower the risk of not being cheated on is all on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP13/04/16 03:58 PM
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You seem inexperienced..possibly date or plate at least 10 more women to get a more accurate idea of the women in your area. If 1000 women around you are also exactly like the women you just described but have n=1, your anger might be justified. If they're all crazy hooker meth-addict landwhales, or even average, mildly flawed women, probably not. You need to grasp what AWALT means. No-one is going to be the perfect, unrealistic woman you seem to have a fantasy about. Unless you hang out outside…
/r/askMRP13/04/16 01:51 PM
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The thing is, now i cant stop thinking about i dont wanna marry a whore I also dont want a reformed slut You've hamstered your way into a pretty hateful opinion. Go read some worse FR about BPD, disrespectful, withholding, nagging, violent, vapid, entitled, whiny, useless bitches. Then calm down.
/r/askMRP13/04/16 01:24 PM
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So you found a unicorn but you want one with slightly MORE glitter on her tail and hooves and a slightly brighter rainbow on her ass. OK good luck with your search. Edit: She lied, you snooped. She sounded like a decent woman, but she didnt meet your arbitrary expectations. If you wanted "20" but she had "21" same result. Next her, she'll probably be a great wife to the next guy, but the trust is already broken and you'll hold this over her head.
/r/askMRP13/04/16 03:00 AM
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Hmm... more like... everyone knows they're overweight and they're all there to cuddle and complain and sit around commiserating. "Oh my gosh, being overweight is soooo hard, i'm sooooo sad" "yes me toooooo" But they're not allowed to talk about this horrible site about "calories" because it's the devil's work.
/r/askMRP09/04/16 12:29 AM
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I think, as most people do when finding a new group of people to talk to.. they browse the sub for a while and get sucked into the lingo. "High libido male" oh that's me ok .. "Low libido female" ok yeah that's my wife. Low libido bad. blame wife. circle jerk. blinders on.
/r/askMRP07/04/16 08:40 AM
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I posted some things I'd noticed happening in my ex long term relationships. They were saying the exact same phrases over and over.. hundreds of men. "been together a while, sex tapers off, she's tired, she's not interested, i'm doing more and more" etc etc. Rule #2 prevents actual, helpful advice. So the entire sub is pointless. "Don't respond to someone opening up about having a DB with the assumption that they 'deserve' their deadbedroom." It's like being a weightloss forum and Rule #1 is "Do…
/r/askMRP07/04/16 02:53 AM
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