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| 0 | Why am I being compared to a mentally ill, narcissistic, racist, misogynist, sociopathic serial killer?Okay... so anytime someone spouts views, some -- but not all -- of which happen to overlap with feminist views, they are a feminist? You sure that none of Elliot Rodger's views overlap with MRA views? | /r/MensRights | 28/05/14 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Why am I being compared to a mentally ill, narcissistic, racist, misogynist, sociopathic serial killer?Let me ask you this: If a woman went on a rampage, killing/injuring a dozen people, while ranting about how men are evil and just rape women, would you not call her a feminist? | /r/MensRights | 28/05/14 02:20 AM |
| 2 | If a feminist on Reddit tells you that feminism is inclusive and not merely a woman-centric movement, show them this. Speaks for itself.No, it's not. Just because some feminists do that doesn't mean that's what feminism is about. Some MRAs are also about misogyny, self-victimizations and lunacy. Who, then, do you think should take up the cause of women's rights if not feminists? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | She sent him to jail for rape; now they’re friendsYou, sir, are an idiot. So focused in your "THE WORLD HATES MEN" reasoning that you can't see any other perspective. Even the fact that you jump to sexism over racism is telling. Of course she should be worried. You seriously wouldn't be worried? At all? He'd had minor scrapes with the law previously, so he wasn't exactly totally innocent. [OBVIOUSLY he didn't deserve what happened to him. But I'll bet that factored into her fear.] He's likely FAR stronger than her. If he chooses to attack, she'… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Almost lost my job, asexuality saved it.Well, no it doesn't first of all. An asexual person can be gay or straight. But second, see AlbrechtVonRoon's point above. Men in prison sometimes rape other men. Does that mean they are gay? No. For that matter, there are all sorts of ways you can harass people right? I saw a friend bullying/harassing another male friend (both were straight) in a way that would absolutely be called sexually harassment if it were opposite gender (pulling down the victim's towel when coming out of the shower, exp… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 08:16 PM |
| 2 | If a feminist on Reddit tells you that feminism is inclusive and not merely a woman-centric movement, show them this. Speaks for itself.feminism is by itself damaging to males, and its very existence is a men's rights issue. Feminism must end. Really. Okay, so, question for you. Do you think there are zero women's rights issues in the world? Because there are certainly some fucked up anti-women stuff that happens in developing nations. What about in the US? Are there any women's rights issues? Perhaps attempts by republicans to restrict abortion rights? What about some universities which brush off rape claims if made against an … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 08:00 PM |
| 0 | 'Push' by Matchbox Twenty- Feminists outraged by song until Rob Thomas says that it's about men being abused in relationships.Seems like it from the fact that the other things are preceded with "she said..." To clarify: I meant that the "I wanna push you around" is clearly the singer talking, and the singer happens to be male. The point is this: If you assume that the singer of the song is the victim instead of the abuser, then it doesn't just change the gender of the victim. It also changes the actual "story." Lines are now attributed to the victim instead of the bully. It's a different thing. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Almost lost my job, asexuality saved it.Because sexual harassment isn't necessarily motivated by an actual direct pursuit of sex. I mean, when a boss sexually harasses his secretary, does he really think that this is the best strategy for some sex? I understand you probably wouldn't have sex (depending on how extreme your asexuality is). But I don't think that means that asexual person wouldn't sexually harass someone. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Almost lost my job, asexuality saved it.Potentially stupid question, but how does asexuality imply that you wouldn't sexually harass someone? | /r/MensRights | 12/05/14 06:13 AM |
| -1 | 'Push' by Matchbox Twenty- Feminists outraged by song until Rob Thomas says that it's about men being abused in relationships.As far as I can tell, this story was just made up. Here are the original sources: http://legacy.library.ucsf.edu/documentStore/m/u/v/muv61c00/Smuv61c00.pdf http://www.ew.com/ew/article/0,,289309,00.html First, where does it say anything about "feminists"? The original source I mean -- the one that wikipedia used. Second, it's not about physical abuse, as you seem to imply. It's about shitty, manipulative relationship. Third, where is this story even coming from? Is there anything to back this cl… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/14 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesNo, I really don't think I missed anything in the article. Where does it say ANYTHING about women not wanting to wash their underwear in front of men? I've never heard of this being a concern for women and I don't even really know how it would be. It's not like someone can really see what you're washing. You just pulled this theory out of your ass. Sure, the women didn't have to wash the men's clothing, but apparently that's what actually ended up happening. What exactly are you disagreeing with… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/14 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesYes, he was saying that women should protest it. He also implied that women wouldn't want to protest this rule. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What possible message could this send other than, "Don't be a dad."Your lady wasn't. That's nice. But clearly, there was a point in time when your lady left the house before she was 100% good as new, right? I'll bet she could have used less walking if she did need to leave the house. Many people I know with c sections were out walking around within a week. Also, remember that there are a ton of single mothers in the world who don't have the luxury of a husband to take care of them. What on earth do you think those women do? Just never buy things? You don't need… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/14 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesYes, I did read the article. Did you? Nowhere in it did it say that they didn't want to wash their underwear in front of men. It said that it was done to allow women to wash their underwear. As I have never heard a woman say that she doesn't want to wash her underwear in front of men (it's not like you are broadcasting what you're washing), it was probably that women didn't want to send their underwear offsite because it's delicate and would get ruined. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/14 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesBut this is actually anti women. Did you miss the part where women were expected to do the man's laundry? You know, it is possible for something to be sexist against both women and men. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 09:36 PM |
| -1 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesYou bizarrely thought that women fighting for equality would actually want this rule. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 08:21 PM |
| 2 | What possible message could this send other than, "Don't be a dad."Actually, it does. Note that it says "new mom" not just "mom." Moms with young kids also have strollers, diaper bags, etc. New mom specifically refers to "women who have just given birth." If they only mean "you're going to be lugging things around, so here's a nice parking spot, then they wouldn't have said "new mom." | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 08:01 PM |
| 0 | What possible message could this send other than, "Don't be a dad."Wait, the newborn is grabbing stuff? You don't need a parking spot. You have a superbaby! | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | What possible message could this send other than, "Don't be a dad."It sends the message that new moms, and not new dads, might have reasons why they can't walk far. Note that it says "new *moms" not just "moms." With the exception of adoptive mothers, every new mom is recovering from a major medical event, either a c-section or a vaginal birth. For some women, this is an easy recovery. For others, it's not. Many have trouble walking long distances for weeks. New dads do not have this problem. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 07:40 PM |
| 1 | What possible message could this send other than, "Don't be a dad."It WILDLY depends on the c-section. Some women are up and walking around from a c section within days (although slowly). Some take 6+ weeks to recover. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesNo, not really. First, not all women wash their underwear on delicate. Second, most wash services that I've seen don't really respect how to wash clothing. Do you think they look at all the instructions and separate your clothing into 10 different washes? | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Victim Blaming - Why isn't the victim partially at fault?There are two reasons it's bad to say that it's the victim's fault, even partially. (1) It's misleading. When you give some blame to the victim, it implies that you're removing some blame from the rapist. Now, the victim might have shown poor judgement, but he/she didn't willingly partake in the rape, by definition. The rape is still entirely the rapist's fault. (2) It's detrimental to preventing rape. Victims already blame themselves and already feel ashamed. When you add extra blame, you furth… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesI think it's more about the delicateness. There is a service to send out your clothes to be washed. Many women wash their underwear on a delicate cycle, and thus don't wash a service to handle this. Men don't have this issue. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Students at Spanish college fight ban on men using washing machinesWait, really? You think this is a rule that women will support? "they are told to find female friends to do it instead" Dude, seriously, get over your ridiculous anti-women shit. This is a terrible rule for women and men. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm collecting examples of Feminist hatred that don't seem Men's Rights related on /r/FightingFeminism. Please feel free to contribute.I've already said I'm opposed to male circumcision too. Calm down and think things through. We BOTH agree that male circumcision is bad. Does male circumcision cause equivalent short and long term consequences as female circumcision? THIS is where we disagree. We disagree on factual grounds. And yet, rather than introducing studies or data to prove me wrong, you're just cursing at me. Not helpful to your cause. If female circumcision and male circumcision are equivalently wrong, then of course I… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/14 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm collecting examples of Feminist hatred that don't seem Men's Rights related on /r/FightingFeminism. Please feel free to contribute.Dude, chill. Telling someone to fuck off really doesn't help your point. Stop getting so damn emotional. It's amazing to me that you don't think someone who was attempting to lead a mass murder is "a wrong doer." Feminism is not opposed to MGM, feminism does not give a shit about MGM, and if it does, it's only because advocacy against it threatens their victim narrative. False. Here's a feministing article about it. Notice how virtually all the comments are opposed to male circumcision. http://f… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/14 06:12 PM |
| 0 | I'm collecting examples of Feminist hatred that don't seem Men's Rights related on /r/FightingFeminism. Please feel free to contribute.And would you take a guess what political ideology routinely teaches that men are rape machines waiting to rape. Radical (not mainstream) feminism. He was angry, you're damn right he was, he had every goddamn reason and right to be too, his life had been wrecked by a corrupt system that has been carefully put into place over decades by feminists, and you have the gall to hold him up as some kind of wrong-doer. Wow. Didn't actually expect you to defend this guy. First of all, this guy hit 4 year … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 06:28 AM |
| -2 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"No, her intent is not meaningless. Of course it's not. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 03:32 AM |
| -4 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"She's framing prison rape as a problem with masculinity. No. She's saying that rapists see victims as more feminine. She's not saying that the problem is masculinity. They don't become women, they become "failed men". Making them take on a woman's role isn't a way of making them women but a way of rubbing their nose in the fact that they've failed to be men. Okay. So they become failed men and take on women's roles. But, if one were to say that the survivor becomes feminized in the rapist's eyes… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 03:17 AM |
| -4 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"She actually never uses the term rape culture, and rape culture is about a culture that normalizes and condones rape. It's not specifically about men sexually subjugating women. That might sometimes contribute to it, but it's not specifically about that. You do understand, at the very least, that she is trying to help men? You can recognize that, right? Men, in her cosmology, create a hierarchy of masculinity that encourages them to subjugate women and other men to get "man points." She's painti… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"We see very similar dynamics and that means that our work is the same battle against sexual abuse and oppression that groups are fighting on the other side as well. Her job is to help stop prison rates. Obviously she is trying to stop prison rapes. You're so focused on your own victimization that you can't even seen your allies. You can't see any woman -- especially someone who, god forbid, might also support women's rights -- as actually supporting you. You must find a way tear them down for sa… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 01:03 AM |
| -6 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"Well, considering that in society rape isn't really that gendered at all, it's not a predominantly female victim / male perpetrator phenomena; When you include prison as a component of society there are actually more men being victims than females. False. First of all, there are more female victims than male victims, even when you consider prison rape. Second, when you exclude prison rape (which is what she meant by "in society"), rape is largely (though not exclusively) male-on-female. Furtherm… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 12:49 AM |
| 0 | I'm collecting examples of Feminist hatred that don't seem Men's Rights related on /r/FightingFeminism. Please feel free to contribute.I guess NOW, VAWA, and the countless feminist academic groups and organizations aren't "mainstream". Actually, a lot of feminists dislike NOW. Not sure about VAWA. E.G. Men who were taught by their mothers they're evil little rapists waiting to hurt women, then grow up and end up in an abusive relationship. For every boy who's taught something like this, a girl is taught that her job is to submit to her husband. Heck, multiple girls are taught this. The general consensus was that people were hap… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 12:38 AM |
| -6 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"I actually don't know what the statistics show, but I do think it's interesting how MRAs will say all sorts of things about what the statistics show -- directly conflicting with each other. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/14 12:28 AM |
| -2 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"No. On the contrary, she's saying: hey, you know that compassion you have for female victims? Go direct it towards male victims too. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Female Teach Who Raped Boy Wont Face Jail TimeThe courts often release people who are seriously ill, because they don't have the capacity to care for them. Would you prefer that they withheld medical treatment from prisoners? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 11:16 PM |
| -3 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"Not. Even. Close. It is focused on males, as prisons are disproportionately male. And, if anything, it's trying to build compassion for survivors by relating it to female rape, something which generally has more sympathy in society. Read the whole quote, not the highly misleading headline that stripped out pretty important words. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"She's not saying that she considers them to be women. She's saying that they're considered to be like women, to the other prisons. For example, if I were to say, "Having studied rape in India, we see that women who are raped are considered to be inherently flawed -- damaged goods." Should feminists flip their shit about that? (And MRAs, presuming that they care about female rape?) No, of course not. This is about the view in society, not by me. OF COURSE the view is offensive to victims. It's th… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 10:30 PM |
| -2 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"Her job is to stop prison rape. Isn't it pretty damn obvious that she opposes it? Seriously. Stop trying to twist shit around to be opposed to you. You have enough valid things to fight over. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 10:06 PM |
| -7 | Feminist logic: Rape in male prisons is "... perpetrated by men with women as the survivors" because "once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman"You left out some key words there. We see that the sexual abuse that occurs between inmates in a male prison is a mirror image of the sexual abuse that occurs in the community, perpetrated by men with women as the survivors. We see that once you have been raped in prison you have technically been considered a woman. She's not saying that rape in prison in perpetrated by men with women as the survivors. She's saying it mirrors the male-on-female rape that you see in the real world. YOU FUCKING ID… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 09:52 PM |
| 1 | GitHub engineer claims she was intimidated by another female, quits alleging gender harassmentSo you just meant your comment as a "hula hooping resulted in a situation that in which she was uncomfortable, although hula hooping was not in fact the reason for her discomfort." Okay. Consider, in the future, that when you say "X felt Y because of Z", it implies that Z was the immediate cause of Y -- the core thing that gave rise to Y. For example, "themanshow is frustrated because I disagree with him." This statement implies that the thing you're frustrated about is my disagreeing with you. … | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm collecting examples of Feminist hatred that don't seem Men's Rights related on /r/FightingFeminism. Please feel free to contribute."Mainstream" feminism is popular feminism, the same rhetoric and ideas put for by "radicals" aka the influential feminists, the ones who matter. Uh. Mainsteam is not the same thing as radical , pretty much by definition. Their ideas are not the same. In fact, mainstream feminism is opposed to radical feminism. how feminism has hurt men and opposed the MRM. Of course feminism is opposed to the MRM. Have you seen the crazy shit some people write on here? Just in a brief scan, I saw people thinking… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 04:50 PM |
| 0 | GitHub engineer claims she was intimidated by another female, quits alleging gender harassmentIt has nothing to do with who is wrong. You're just reading the article blatantly incorrectly. Your comment says: ... because other women chose to hula hoop She was not uncomfortable with the hula hooping, which is what you imply. She was uncomfortable with the reaction to the hula hooping. You can argue that she's crazy for feeling that way, but at least be correct about what you're saying. Sure, theoretically, you could argue that her feeling uncomfortable did result from people hula hooping i… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I am having a discussion about an article on why women should be scared of men. Would like some opinions.Yeah, it's unfair to men. I agree. What's the solution though? Telling women to not be on guard is unfair to them. Women have little means of defending themselves physically. Men are so much stronger. Most men are good and wouldn't attack a woman. Most. The vast majority. But not all. There are enough rapists out there for women to be legitimately concerns. The odds of a random attack are low, yes, but the costs are so high. Mix in the real, but low, threat of rape/attacks with little reminders … | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 06:49 AM |
| 1 | My college offers cheaper costs for the female-only automotive course than the mixed-gender courseI suspect what happened was more like: (1) Someone noticed that the classes were male dominated and wanted to diversify. It's hard to just add more women to a class. Women have a tendency to think "I can't do this/it's not for me." (2) Making a class specifically for women is a pretty effective way of getting more women. It makes women say, "hey, maybe this IS for me." (3) That can easily turn into dumbing down the class. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 06:34 AM |
| -1 | GitHub engineer claims she was intimidated by another female, quits alleging gender harassmentOh, come on, you're willfully misinterpreting the article. She had a problem with the ogling, not the hula hooping. Two women, one of whom I work with and adore, and a friend of hers were hula hooping to some music. I didn’t have a problem with this. What I did have a problem with is the line of men sitting on one bench facing the hoopers and gawking at them. It looked like something out of a strip club. When I brought this up to male coworkers, they didn’t see a problem with it. But for me it f… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 06:24 AM |
| 1 | GitHub engineer claims she was intimidated by another female, quits alleging gender harassmentShe wrote code of some sort (she references builds and check ins). That usually qualifies as an engineer at startups. For those who forget, this is the same company that removed a rug because it said "United Meritocracy of Github" and meritocracy is sexist. (source) edit: I forgot to mention that she (Julie Ann Horvath) was specifically one of the people pushing for the rug removal. Highly misleading comment. Read your own source. First, she was pushing for the rug removal because she and the co… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 06:08 AM |
| 1 | My college offers cheaper costs for the female-only automotive course than the mixed-gender courseAdditionally, as you suggested earlier, there's an intimidation factor. It's difficult to be the only woman in a class of men or the only man in a class of women. It makes it more difficult to ask questions because you can feel like you're speaking for your whole gender (not to mention you're sort of in the spotlight), plus people assume that you're incompetent. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 05:44 AM |
| 0 | I am having a discussion about an article on why women should be scared of men. Would like some opinions.Men can talk to an attractive woman in the hopes of sleeping with her. However, when a man does, he should also understand that she might be a bit scared. Is he a good guy? Or might he attack her? Should a woman lower her guard because, by not doing so, she might unfairly push some guys away? | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 05:25 AM |
| 1 | More than 120,000 men in Texas who aren't the biological fathers still on the hook for back child support.Leaving the hospital with the wrong baby means that your biological baby is out there still. It's not really comparable. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 05:13 AM |
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