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Use something like an Securities-Based Line of Credit (SBLOC) loan and put it in a HYSA to smooth things out until you can self fund it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 08:57 PM
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Stay off the apps. Meet people in person, join an adult sports league, church, volunteer, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 08:06 PM
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So if you search this sub you will see most people recommend to not move out of the house. Can you move back in?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 08:19 PM
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Can she take my out a second mortgage to buy you out? Can you come to an agreement on alimony reduction to reduce your equity share? Combine that with a partial 401k reduction on her part? The good thing is that you two are amicable, do everything you can to keep it that way!
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 08:09 PM
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Adult sports league.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 05:31 PM
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Let it go, my dude. You are thinking with your emotions right now. Coach's wife is going to find out if it's serious, or more likely, the coach is going to break up with your ex, and you want to be clear of that blast wave. Be there for your kid if/when that happens. You don't want your ex poisoning your kid's relationship with you because she thinks you were involved in her breakup.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/26 05:03 PM
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Check your capital gains tax implications if you think you may want to sell in the future. From the IRS: ... you can exclude up to $250,000 of your profit from your taxes (or up to $500,000 for married couples filing jointly)
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 06:06 PM
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r/Bogleheads
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 05:51 PM
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I am not in New Jersey, but here are the guidelines: https://quickcalc.njchildsupport.gov/Documents/NJ_Child_Support_Guidelines.pdf Could you talk to a new lawyer for at least a consultation?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 05:27 PM
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r/Bogleheads
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 06:12 PM
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It is a hard position to be in. Therapy could help even if you're heading for a divorce; it could make it less contentious and give you a space to talk. If your current conversations involve a lot of "You" statements, i.e., "You never do this" or "You always do that," that are full of absolutes, then it could give you a space to talk and work things out. The more you can work things out yourselves, the less you will pay lawyers. Would separating but living in the same house help? Do you want to …
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 06:31 PM
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You will keep what you had pre-marriage, and split everything earned during the marriage. If you earn more than she does, you will likely owe spousal support during the divorce process and for a year after the divorce is complete. The best thing you can do is not drag it out, spending money on lawyers. Most states are "No Fault," meaning the reason for the divorce, unless it is domestic violence, plays no part in the settlement.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 08:15 PM
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An uncontested divorce means you both agree to all the terms of the divorce up front, i.e., how you will split joint property and debts, and how much spousal support she will receive. But she may be talking about a DIY divorce where you file all the paperwork yourselves.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 09:46 PM
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You will not go into foreclosure because you miss a payment or two. At the end of the day you are still married and have joint income and joint assets. You make more so you will very likely owe some support to her. Talk to to a real estate agent and your stbx about putting it up for sale.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 09:53 PM
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If your wife is abusing the kids, seek a Temporary Restraining Order.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 06:16 PM
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Correct, they have a physical shade that you close on the front to disable them. They stay powered on, so when you open the shade, they work instantly. There are other comments explaining how to find them if you think they are elsewhere.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 09:31 PM
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You have already talked to her about it, and she said they are disabled and put away.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 09:08 PM
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She has security cameras in her room. Are they anywhere else?
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 04:29 PM
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Ring cameras don't have local storage. Turning off the Internet or blocking them through your router prevents them from recording. She could have just put them in her room. Why not just ask her? If you want to find them, wait until dark, shut off all the lights and use your phone's camera to scan around the house. The IR lights from the Ring will be visible on the cell phone camera app.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 09:25 PM
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I am not a lawyer, but that is likely considered "co-mingled" at this point. If she had kept that money in a separate private account, that would have been a different story.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 05:19 PM
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Adult coed sports league.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 09:45 PM
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This is your main issue, if for example, your friend drives your car once in a while, your insurance still covers that just as if you are driving. Insurance companies will very likely put up a fight if you leave dependents off the policy, even if they are not "frequent" drivers. If your dependent child is driving your car, even once in a while, you should have them on your plan.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 09:03 PM
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Join an adult sports league.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 08:35 PM
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