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so... i lived in nyc for a while so asking to meet in union square would probably make it seem like a date. if i had this idea in my head and showed up to see 999 other men i'd be pissed too because wtf? She also claimed to be victimized due to this event she literally manipulated 1000 men, making them think they were going on a date, or meeting exclusively in public, yet the men are the ones who are wrong in this situation. i'm 100% certain that if they knew just one other man was showing up, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:34 PM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:24 PM
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while i do think they are of different levels. feigning interest in a man when you're just using him for food is also, NOT equally, manipulative and shitty behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:16 PM
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op can correct me if i'm wrong, but in another comment they said it is: any time the man bails after sex it’s considered a P&D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:09 PM
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i guess you'd be able to. but remember trends change and so more so than others, so the "rules" would change as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:07 PM
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this question is subjective. i’m sure most people, both attractive and unattractive, think they’re having the best sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:42 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:08 PM
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similarly to this, the first piece of advice my mom gave me was "don't trust these hoes"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:18 PM
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according to her...maybe 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:01 PM
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that could also just be a sign that he likes dogs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:37 PM
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wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:07 PM
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oh wow, i feel dumb. thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:21 PM
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someone on this thread just linked a post from there and the op picked apart a guy trying to do something nice for his gf. is this how it usually is on that sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:20 PM
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what’s MR?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:17 PM
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i hope not everyone there is like this… he tried doing something nice for his gf and she tore him apart for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:15 PM
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i don’t really have an opinion on them bc from what i know, i haven’t met someone like that in real life and if i did, their ideas didn’t effect me. i think it’s nice they have a space where they can talk and support each other though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:07 PM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:01 PM
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this is hilarious. i don’t think i’ve seen it, personally, yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:56 PM
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not trying to annoy you, i just wanna know. how does radical feminism translate to your dating life? like what do you look for in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:51 PM
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i"m in the us and i haven't heard this in a while, but in middle school/early high school (i'm 22 now, so 8-10 years ago) i would hear other guys say "the bigger the hoop, the bigger the hoe"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:41 PM
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if i cum in a woman, she'll most likely get pregnant. if i don't cum in her, she won't get pregnant. see my point? up until the point of me cumming in her, i have 100% power in whether or not she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:54 PM
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i control where i cum. if i don't cum in her, there's no pregnancy. (sorry for the late response)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:51 PM
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i control where i cum. if i don't cum in her, no pregnancy. (sorry for the late response)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:51 PM
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i did't say that? i said if she told you and you chose to believe. you say she didn't tell you which makes her a liar and manipulator. this could never be your fault dude. (sorry for the late response)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:46 PM
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she can wanna get pregnant all day. if i do what i have to do to prevent it, she won’t. get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:51 AM
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that’s facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:46 PM
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second part of post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:46 PM
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yessir. simply put
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:45 PM
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not really bc some states are per/prosecuting people who travel state lines to get abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:45 PM
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nobody said anything about menstrual cycles but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:44 PM
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wym
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:32 PM
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15% isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:14 PM
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Women ultimately choose who they have sex with yes and i choose who i cum in, right? if i choose to not wear a condom, pull out, or get a vasectomy, whose fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:10 PM
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although it does work 100% of the time, it is very effective. but of course there are slip ups, ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:07 PM
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idk about the entire process. but precum does come out, and highly unlikely to get pregnant from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:04 PM
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what's fake? and no it's not contraception, but somewhat preventative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:00 PM
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yessirrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:59 PM
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eh. maybe women do "flex" their experiences more, but i'd say men flex their belongings/collectibles more. your travel example was a good one for women, but let's say for men they may want to show off their video game collection, cars, etc. but i really am not sure if flex is the right word here, most of the time it's just wanting to share their experience(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:22 PM
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i honestly don't think much would change with the dating scene, maybe more taken individuals would get caught cheating lol. i think a lot of women would give it a shot, whether they'd continue with it or not is another discussion (idk). i don't think it would affect men that much really, more would definitely give it a shot, but again whether they'd continue it or not is another discussion (again, idk). the customers who already do this would definitely do it more often. the online dating scene …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:22 PM
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okay. i wish you well brucey. have a nice day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:18 PM
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while i don't necessarily think you're wrong, i don't know if you're right either, and here's why: both men and women are horny a lot, i'd just say men are horny more often. for a lot of men, as long as a woman has a nice body they'd be willing to have sex with her and are also willing to do more things to cure the horniness curse lol. women on the other hand are horny a lot but it's often more so towards a specific person. for example, let's say we have a man and a woman on tinder, both of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:03 PM
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You have female friends for companionship only yes i have them for companionship. i'm not looking for it because i have it. you just said it. now leave me alone lol you just repeated what i've been saying but i'm the one who's lost, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:59 PM
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bruce please leave me alone 😂 because i literally just said how EYEEE look at it is i already have the companionship because we're already friends. i honestly don't know what you don't get about what i'm saying unless you're just purposely being a dickhead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:49 PM
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i'm literally telling you what i meant by what i said and you're telling me i'm saying something else. that's literally arguing with me over the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:08 PM
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if you REALLY feel the need to argue with me about this for two days, you may have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:45 AM
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okay brucey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:44 AM
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okay then we’re kind of saying the same thing just in different ways. you say that i’m seeking it from them and i say i already have it because we are friends. i was thinking you meant i was actively looking for new friendship from women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:28 PM
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all of my points still stand bruh, i’m not walking anything back lol. companionship is what i get from friendship with women, does NOT mean i’m currently looking for that. don’t know how you even got there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:01 PM
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yes, and i never said i was looking for it. it’s not my fault you lack basic comprehension skills
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:31 PM
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i have my companionship. i never said i was looking for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:18 PM
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and like i said earlier, it’s a horrible analogy. i know you read that, so i know that you know that i know what an analogy is :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:17 PM
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he never said $1M. you did, go argue with ya motha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:56 PM
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it was never about 1 million dollars, you made it about that. and that’s just it, he’s better ON PAPER, just when you look at that. but when you actually analyze the two, he is indeed not the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:53 PM
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it’s not. looking better, being taller, and having more money is all superficial (surface level shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:40 PM
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that’s a horrible analogy. it would be better to use one that better represents his statement. one looks good and is a cocky piece of shit who thinks he deserves sex because of superficial things. the other is decent looking and makes her feel good about herself and makes her want to give herself to him. is that better for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:25 PM
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but he’s phrasing it as if when a woman sleeps w him because he has these features, makes her not idiotic. so she’s dumb for having sex w someone who woes her with words but not dumb for having sex w someone because he’s smarter, taller, “more attractive,” and has more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:51 PM
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for 🌟friendship🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:33 AM
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she’s an idiotic for getting her rocks off because it wasn’t with you???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:30 AM
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or to just be friends. that’s always an option
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:21 AM
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that’s literally all it is. comfortability, but you have mad people under here saying “oh don’t be an orbiter” “you want me to be an emotional tampon?!” none of that is the same as what i’m saying but okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:21 AM
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i really don’t know how not being a dick and someone who’s cool to be around equates to being an orbiter. y’all must be really messed up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:20 AM
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getting them, and keeping (holding down) them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:19 AM
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why is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:16 AM
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well, almost all of my closest woman friends i’ve met right before i moved states and we’re still great friends so, yeah. nothing evaporated yet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:15 AM
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if being understanding and not judgmental is being a nice guy then okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:51 AM
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yes, but this is usually the basis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:50 AM
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i understand how it may look but all you had to do was look at the comment above mine to see it wasn't my words, but his
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:23 PM
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you get friendzoned a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:13 PM
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he's HELLA immature. he literally tried quoting me with words i never even said!! on this app or not. and has the nerve to call woman fatty like that shit is cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:12 PM
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here we go with this chad shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:10 PM
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that's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:02 PM
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I think what online dating did to unattractive people is show them what’s out there and for some made them think they were available to them but they aren’t mhm. i haven't seen you tell a lie yet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:54 PM
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what joke are you talking about? because i said HIM calling women fatty is the corniest shit i ever heard?? you might be the first person on this thread to have pissed me off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:45 PM
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but my girlfriend and woman friends call me acute-y ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:36 PM
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please read again so you can see that the other guy said that and i was quoting what he said. like wtf are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:29 PM
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his words, not mine. never called a woman fatty, never will. idk why you're saying this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:21 PM
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of course there are. but the example you gave was one of someone who's career has them busy most of the time so they can't maintain these friendships. and i tell by the reasoning, is it not maintained because the man is gone a lot or because he's a piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:20 PM
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So you're saying if I GaIn SoMe hUmILitY and aim lower, and go for a fatty.. Oh, yeah, I can see your point now. I won't have a problem with holding down a fatty in a relationship, because she will hold herself down. because of her weight. because she is fat. lol, get it? this is by far one of the corniest things i have ever read in my life. i literally didn't say anything about gaining humility, aiming lower, or getting a fat woman. carry yo ass w that shit man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:14 PM
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yes, as i have said in other comments. not having woman friends does not equate to not being able to make/have them. you literally gave lifestyle reasonings as to why they don't have, them nothing to do with their personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:12 PM
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lmbo, i don’t have trouble with either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:58 PM
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company/genuine friendship without expectations outside of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:53 PM
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wym
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:52 PM
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ahh i see. i was wondering because i sometimes see situations like that in the relationship advice subs. i've been in one of those situations before as well, except my gf was bi and she had caught feelings for another girl (we were kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:09 PM
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yeah see, it's not that you can't. it's just that you don't want to, and your reasoning for that is 100% understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:07 PM
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yeah, if you're in the friendzone it usually means you're fucked and not getting out. you just gotta learn how much to give
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:06 PM
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i interact with all of my friends differently to some extent. if i have a friend with benefits and a strictly platonic woman friend, they are both friendships, yes? you can acknowledge feelings and move with intent to get into a relationship but until y'all get together, it's friendship of some sort
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:05 PM
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well i'm in a relationship so, whatever you're on really doesn't matter. and no, i didn't. i can definitely talk to a girl for promiscuous reasons, it not work out and us just be friends after. so the reason we became friends is because i tried my hand and it didn't work out. i think mr. brucey is a dope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:03 PM
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this may be one of the guys (i know a few of them personally) who thinks just because a woman says hi to you or looks at you means she wants to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:59 PM
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have you actually had this happen to you before? just wanna know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:55 PM
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okay mr. brucey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:53 PM
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A lot of guys here do not have humility. They decide what they deem as who they deserve and get angry if she doesn’t feel the same and blame it on standards instead of simply accepting they have to aim lower. faaaaaaaaaaaacts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:53 PM
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ehh, i don't know if i'd say liability. the women friends i have and had, i never saw as that because we always wanted the same things from each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:51 PM
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it's the ability to make and keep them as friends. not whether you had them or not. i'm sure you haven't because you haven't tried or tried to maintain it, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:49 PM
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exactly! knowing your value is all it comes down to. if you know what you give is gonna have you be the open eared chauffer who also buys food then do that. but if not, hold some of that value to yourself and give it when the two of you are ready
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:44 PM
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it honestly just depends on how much of yourself you give. i used to always get friendzoned because this is genuinely how i am, but when i held it back a little bit, it stopped happening as much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:39 PM
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i used to have this problem too! what i did to stop it was to stop giving so much of myself and stop making myself too available. like i wouldn't always let them tell me about their problems, i wouldn't tell too much about myself early in the friendship. this has helped as i'm now the one putting women in the friendzone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:38 PM
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you can say the same thing to two different people in two different tones. one person would take it in a friendly way, the other may take it in a romantic way. the intention behind it makes a load of a difference because it can change the tone in which it is said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:28 PM
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having no woman friends does not equal not being able to be friends with women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:24 PM
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yes, again, after the friendship is established. i see you ignored that though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:22 PM
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without *romantic* intent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:22 PM
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it doesn't mean anything to YOU. most people i've met can easily make the distinction when the word friendly is added
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:11 PM
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where did i say i'm friends with them strictly for companionship reasons? i did state what we do for each other when the friendship is established, but where did i say what you're claiming?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:08 PM
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no, you're just not listening to what i'm saying. putting the word friendly in front of it removes any romantic connotation but you don't wanna fucking listen to that. and it's not playing with anything if i'm being straight up about it. my partner listens, you do not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:01 PM
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But if your insecurities are overwhelming and damaging to a person, or they are only with you because of something outside of who you are, they might leave you which means you're broken up with because you're insecure My girlfriend trying to force monogamy onto me after I’ve already agreed to be faithful and taken steps to secure her= unhealthy insecurities and i wouldn't really say that makes her insecure, just not a lifestyle she wants to be living. it can also be kind of manipulative if you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:57 PM
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so while y'all were just fucking, it was friends with benefits (which is friendship). unless you're gonna sit here and tell me y'all fucked one time and got together
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:55 PM
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i added friendly in front of both of those words to show what context i was using, you chose to ignore it. if me and any of my women friends go out somewhere to spend time w each other, they themselves would call it a friend date. yeah, me and guy friends don't call them dates when with each other but that's legit what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:53 PM
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so because y'all fucked means y'all were in a relationship? maybe she just wanted to fuck too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:49 PM
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that's not outside the point of discussion, it's a direct counter to what you said. i said being insecure can get you broken up with, you said if that person doesn't really like you, and i gave a direct counter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:45 PM
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joking with each other is considered flirting. if that's a problem then you may be the problem. you don't call it a date, but that's what it is. if i go out to eat or bowling with a woman, friend or girlfriend, it's a date. but if i do it with a man, it's not? fuck outta here and i act the same with all my friends, whether they're man or woman. thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:43 PM
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you can be in a relationship with someone and be unbearingly insecure, which can be the cause you're broken up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:40 PM
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i respect that. me personally, i would only stop myself from hanging with another woman if she had other intentions than being a platonic friend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:38 PM
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i feel you. usually with men you get to be more yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:35 PM
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it's possible to flirt without romantic intent (i.e., friendly flirting)... if me and a friend go get lunch and keep it at that, it's a friend date... and just because i've had sexual interest in them doesn't mean i'd ever act on it (especially in a relationship) or that my partner would even know. so no, i did not "deliberately" say that the relationships are basically the same. it's how you act, not the words you use
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:33 PM
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and being insecure or unconfident can get you broken up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:27 PM
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I don’t hang out with women 1 on 1 at all when I’m in a relationship. It’s just easier to have women acquaintances then friends because you don't trust them or yourself? or are you trying to keep your partner comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:26 PM
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no sir mr. bruce, i am not. how'd you come to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:24 PM
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so you think they're are saying it with 100% confidence but you don't have 100% confidence that they're gonna stand on what they say. so again, why get into a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:22 PM
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sigma male, whoop whoop. lol but i feel you, if i can't relate to someone with anything, or if we don't have similar interests in activities or whatever, it can really feel like i'm forcing every conversation with them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:18 PM
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but to ask someone to not have friends of the opposite gender is literally not trusting the person, whom you're in a relationship, to even truly like or love you. if this is the case, you just stay single, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:16 PM
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LMBO, why you doing this to me breh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:14 PM
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Well, a platonic friendship is vastly different from a fwb despite "only" having the sex in it on top. i can agree w this because usually one person between the two has feelings for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:13 PM
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so why get into a relationship if you're not gonna trust them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:13 PM
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ahhh, i'm gonna be honest. me and my women friends don't do anything for each other besides provide company and a listening ear. that's really not much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:11 PM
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you're basically saying you don't trust your partner around other women. if that's the case, just leave them and work on your jealousy/insecurity issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:05 PM
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why not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:01 PM
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oh wow lol. this is facts though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:01 PM
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any kind of friendship, platonic, friends with benefits, etc. and i'm necessarily saying one needs to do the same things to get into both, but the traits/characteristics are needed. obviously you would be more hard pressed if you were trying to get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:00 PM
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well in that case, every relationship, friendship or not, starts out as acquaintances
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:53 PM
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what is friends with benefits? a friend that i have and we fuck each other. it literally has all the same aspects of a regular friendship except we have sex. but to answer your questions. Do you flirt with your friends? Do you have sexual interest in your friend? Do you take your friends out on dates? Do you hold your friends hand? Friendly flirting, yes. Sexual interest, sometimes. We sometimes go on friend dates, yes. And no, i do not hold their hands. hopefully that works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:49 PM
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"Do you know Daphne?" "No, I'm afraid we're not acquainted." it says right there that they're not acquaintances because they don't know each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:45 PM
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okay so answer this, if you're in this "early relationship" and she tells you she doesn't wanna talk anymore because she doesn't think it'll work, did she break up with you? or is it just an ended friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:42 PM
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bro what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:39 PM
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you go on dates with acquaintances? an acquaintance is someone you barely know and don't really care to know more about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:38 PM
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do you mean the women you're friends with or in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:36 PM
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before y'all get into a relationship it's literally a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:36 PM
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i understand what you're saying but that's not necessarily what i'm arguing. you're coming at it from the outlying woman's standpoint while i'm looking through a general view on men interacting with women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:33 PM
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so you agree. y'all started as friends first. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:29 PM
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show me where it was moved
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:26 PM
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so, you walked up to them and was like "wanna be my girlfriend?" without getting to know them? if you say yes, you a damn lie. any stage of the relationship before getting together is literally friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:23 PM
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your first two sentences are irrelevant to what i said in the post. and it's specifically having woman friends. you can be a complete shit person and have as many male friends as you want, but MOST women are not gonna be your friend if you're shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:22 PM
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so you just got straight into relationships with every one of them? it never started out as a just friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:19 PM
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