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jefflac84/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 09:25 PM
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Hey Good luck was in the same position 3 years ago, this group help me me a lot. Im sure you will be fine. I was the same age ,same circumstances.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/26 11:51 AM
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Update finally moved out got my own place, couldn't be happier, I feel free, peaceful and finally in control. Nothing else matter apart from my son, job, my new house, and pursuing financial freedom. Stay strong my brothers.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 11:00 PM
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And move out ASAP
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 04:43 PM
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Same with me, just be strong and think about starting over. Be calm, do more BJJ, do some yoga, probably pick a new hobby like ballroom, salsa.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 04:42 PM
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Thanks for all your support, just an update not sure if I am better place but I have learned to accept my current situation we are separating amicably, I am moving to a new place 50-50 split with childcare, I am also taking accountability as I know I wasnt a perfect partner and I could have been better. We could have been better. To the guys in similar spot we will be ok, sometimes you have to tear what seems to be working to build a new one (not sure if better but a new life).
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 03:11 PM
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Amen my brother sounds messed up but exactly what I'm going to teach my son
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 04:28 PM
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Thanks for the kind words of encouragement, you are younger than me but you seem to be more mature than I am. I was looking at tinder, bumble to see whats out there and to show my soon to be ex wife that I can move on as quickly as she can. But like you said I need to heal and to work on myself and focus on what matters most to me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 09:58 PM
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thanks for all the kind words and advise
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 01:56 PM
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My "flaw" is working too hard to provide a better life for us and her reason for cheating is I am never around so forgive me for being a bad husband.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 08:47 AM
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Fuck no her sister looks like a cow
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 08:45 AM
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Thanks listening to the audio now alpha by Richard cooper never realise how being married to my toxic wife made me lose myself definitely turned to a beta working my way back starting now.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 08:32 AM
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Thanks not really sure if I would want to be in a relationship again, probably just some casual stuff. My main goal now is to provide for my son, raise him to be better than me and pursuing my career, business, passion and being more close to my brother, mom and dad.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 08:31 AM
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Will be my number one focus from now on my boy, career and reconnecting with friends and family
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 10:58 PM
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No way I'm staying with a cheater even though I must admit I still love or still have feelings for my soon to be ex wife will never let myself beg and be degraded after being cheated and betrayed.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 10:56 PM
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It will be hard but I guess we have to rebuild and restart our life again no matter how old we are, we owe it not only for our kids but for ourselves to rebuild our life sooner rather than later.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 10:54 PM
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Feels the same way as you do. It will be really hard to move on but for the sake of my boy and my dignity I have to. Hope we can find ourselves in a better place soon.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 10:51 PM
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Probably what I would do, can't see myself being in a relationship anytime soon, it's gonna be a hell for the foreseeable months but will do the best for me and my boy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 10:47 PM
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