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My ex MIL almost started a physical altercation in a parking lot this last weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 04:07 PM
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I agree this is the how I would have responded. "You let me know what works good for you." Ball is in her court, entirely up to her to keep you informed. If she never let's you know, good. If she shares her availability, good, make plans.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 02:00 PM
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This is my current motto in letting anyone new into my life. You better have something to add to my life. I don't give in to fears of abandonment or rejection anymore. Because I have complete control over my own peace and I know it. Your presence has to be better than my solitude. Because my peace is your competition, not another person.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 03:59 AM
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Good things to mention. Showing yourself grace. Showing gratitude. Focusing on yourself, to build your future. Having time to relax. Create a life that you want. Creating a life you want for your kids, if you have them. Peace and quiet.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 01:13 PM
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I feel the same right now. I'm sorry you didn't get a real 50/50. I'm a week away from finding out the judge will allow my stbxw and 3 year old daughter to move while I'm deployed for 1 year. Without her having a job, without a clear plan on where she's living. Taking half the value of my land, home and retirement. This shit is brutal. Look forward to becoming a better person for yourself and your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:35 AM
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Sent Dm
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 02:16 PM
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Sorry, county. Not country
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 01:57 PM
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How long ago was this and what country?
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 01:50 PM
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No. If in your agreement with her, (I'd guess you're responsible your debts and she's responsible for hers,) and she wants you to now pay hers, just say no. If she wants do renegotiate for you to pay hers, it's on her and her lawyer to bring that up to the court. And then to the judge to make a decision after your STBXW lawyer can articulate why you should. Just say no thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 12:23 AM
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Record anyways. Even if it's just a voice recorder. After any incident, when you get home. Transcribe the conversation to paper. Include the time, place, occasion and what was said. If it's questioned later on, claim that it was based on memory.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 03:33 PM
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https://youtu.be/TJ5U37MkA2E?si=e0oeDCbVjHzznIzC
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 06:35 PM
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What would the protective order be to stay in the marital home and prevent eviction?
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 01:18 PM
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OK, thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 04:22 PM
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Yes I understand the current situation about the status quo. Intend on documenting life with my daughter dating back a year. She's 2.5 years old currently, enrolled in day care. Yes, my wife is primary in taking care of my daughter as my STBXW primarily works from home with her parents living in the same home. I cannot work remotely. I also stay work at 6am. My lawyer says the request for temp orders should be happening next week. Also, thank you for asking questions and filling me in.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 04:08 PM
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I'm sorry I'm having such a hard time articulating what I'm trying to say. Waiting months, because I didn't know divorce was imminent until I got back home in February. Finding a lawyer, finding a different lawyer. Collecting all the important information to submit to my lawyer. Initial filing should be early next week. With requests for temporary visitation orders. She's 16 miles away from the home. 45 minute drive from home, 30 minute drive from work. Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday I d…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 03:33 PM
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I have a lawyer, submitted all the paperwork for initially filing for divorce. Why is it an emergency now? Because I haven't been able to make it a priority with limited time between treatment, military duties and more treatment, work and simply trying to exist. Temporary orders for visitation is already in order with the initial filing. This is all new to me. Getting quality information about structuring priorities and having the support is hard to navigate.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:25 PM
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Slight variation to this post. What if she moves out and takes our child with her? I've been busy with in patient treatment since January, out patient treatment starting in February, military training in March, continuing out patient treatment in April. She moved in with her parents and completely walked away from the house, the dogs. Won't bring my daughter or meet me halfway.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 01:24 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experiences. I know I'll be different after and this will be painful during.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 08:31 PM
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https://www.planaformen.com/
/r/MensRights23/04/24 03:09 PM
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Sorry I don't have much to add right now. I'm in almost the exact same boat. Just dropped all the paperwork to my lawyer today. Was hoping it would be a relief. Except for everyone telling me this is one of the hardest things to do in life. I feel like I'm walking into what my best guess a fire fight feels like. But, I have to do it. Just going things will be better in the future, undefined how long that will be. Just know you're not alone. I'm expecting her to make this as painful as possible. …
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 11:11 PM
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