| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What can I do differently? [f] | jehovahstones | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 11:53 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]I guess this is the answer I was hoping not to hear but needed to confirm. I think you're pretty right. What a bummer. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:40 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]We only ever talked at work, everyone else I work with is much older and very conservative so I really appreciated his presence there and I thought he felt the same. If I wanted attention I would post pictures of my butthole to gonewild. I wanted an answer from a self aware group of men whom I respect and agree with, so I came to asktrp. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]This is really great to read, and helps me to understand a lot better where he's coming from. Thank you for putting so much thought into it and articulating it so well. I know his feelings are not my responsibility but it doesn't stop me from caring about them. He's such a nice person, and I can imagine that this has probably happened to him before. I know rejection really hurts and I don't want him to lose any self esteem or confidence from my personal preference and it bothers me more than I c… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]Should I have established that sooner? I guess I feel like he wasted all that time driving me home on those days because he thought I was interested... if he knew beforehand that I wasnt, he wouldn't have wasted time and we wouldn't be in this situation now, maybe we'd even still be cool. Is there something I can say in the beginning that doesn't come off as narcissistic or self absorbed or presumptuous, before he ever made a move or hinted at interest, like "if you're offering me a ride because… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]I guess it's just hard to distinguish genuine kindness from kindness with an ulterior motive. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]I've really never had someone I considered a friend be so angry and refuse to talk to me because I rejected him. I always thought it was because I handled it better, but apparently not. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:11 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]I wanted an answer from men, specifically men who could relate to this guy. I can't relate to what he's clearly feeling, and honestly, I don't think most women could either. I didn't want canned "you did fine, he's an asshole" answers that women (at least the ones I know) tend to give. I genuinely want to know from you guys what I should do in situations like this to avoid conflict or hurt feelings. Also, TIL red pill for women is a thing. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What can I do differently? [f]I honestly thought he was gay. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 05:06 AM |
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