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I'll call you on this. Show me a page from Cosmo's website where half the articles have some reference to or are about training men. I don't like Cosmo, but you're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/14 09:07 PM
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Oh right, and exponential population growth is sustainable. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 06:46 PM
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I completely disagree with almost all of this. There are plenty of human beings in the world. We could decrease by a few billion due to declined birth rates and I'd be 100% fine with that. I'm grateful for feminism because I can vote, work in a male-dominated field (computer technology), get as much education as any man, and use birth control to not have children. I can also wear dresses and makeup, or jeans and none; and my male partner can work in a creative field, and know how to sew and cook…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 05:55 PM
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I'm going to second/third all these other people and say that I despise the red pill, but I completely believe there's such a thing as "mental gender" or "innate gender". If it weren't true, this poor man wouldn't have had such a rough time of it (or trans people for that matter). TERFs (Trans-exclusionary radical feminists) tend to talk of gender as "performative" but it makes me absolutely crazy and I think they are as bad as red pill types. I am a member of a feminist organization, and a coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 04:39 PM
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Or maybe it's an experience that some women have and feel the need to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:09 PM
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If you have a mutually supportive relationship, I'd think you both would want to work together in whatever way makes sense. The details are up to you. It's meaningless to base your own method of living around what works for other people. You both have to do what works for you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 10:39 PM
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You can do things however it works for the two of you. In my situation, I work a lot more hours outside the home because my husband runs his business from home. So he will generally do more chores like laundry or cooking dinner before I get home so that we have more time together. Then on days I am home early, or weekends, I will often take my turn. It just makes more sense for us this way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 07:13 PM
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In my day to day life in general, I honestly cannot recall the last time a woman attacked me, threatened me, grabbed me, or even simply called me a name. It doesn't happen. But while I have never been raped or violently attacked, I have been groped by a stranger walking by, followed on the street, had a man attempt to break down my door (a stranger), been called names, been cursed at, had sexual comments yelled at me, been made to feel uncomfortable in an elevator by a man acting inappropriately…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 04:35 AM
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When I walk down the street (I live in a big city), based on my experiences of years of living here, there is a 0% chance of a woman harassing me. It has never happened. However, more days than not, some man will at least make a comment, and sometimes that has escalated.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 02:58 AM
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From my dictionary: feminism |ˈfeməˌnizəm| noun the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men I believe in that. I don't even think I could CHOOSE not to believe it, it seems so obvious and right to me.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 04:51 AM
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Well, I'm not in the Seattle area, and the crowds I'm part of tend to skew young, mid 20s to mid 30s. And my experience does not match yours. I'm sorry if you are meeting such crappy people. And yes, I am aware men face double standards too. It's not a new concept, for people of any gender. Unfortunately our society is heaped to the top with double standards. It's very unfair, to us all.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 04:41 AM
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Okay. You stop identifying as a man then, because some men have done some nasty things and said some awful things.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 04:39 AM
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To pick just a couple items: "I've been trained since a young age to hate men" —No. My parents are traditional gender, the-woman-submits-to-the-man, religious conservative people, and so was the entire community where I was raised. We had no TV or radio or newspapers in our house, so media didn't really come into it either, at least not until I was older and could access it outside the home on my own. "I feel empowered when I see other women telling men to 'shut the fuck up', to 'take a seat and…
/r/MensRights09/06/14 10:05 PM
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Fair enough. And to be honest, I tend to shy away from posting things like that campaign myself, because overwhelmingly the men I know (thank god) DO respect when I say no, and don't grope me out of the blue, etc. And I think that should be highlighted more than it is. But at the same time, I do want there to be a space for women (and men and people in general) to share their stories and bring these things to light.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 10:02 PM
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It's kind of you to make all kinds of ignorant assertions about me, someone you know nearly nothing about.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 09:45 PM
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Thanks for the link on the 'weak man' fallacy. I hadn't run across that one. I can see why you take some issue with the campaign on those grounds. However, it is true that most women I know, including myself, have had experiences of being harassed, followed, threatened, groped, etc, by men. Don't you think there's value in bringing awareness to that? How would you recommend women talk about these stories without making "the good men" feel like they are being blamed (especially in a limited space…
/r/MensRights09/06/14 09:37 PM
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I don't like Jezebel either; they used to be more okay if I recall, but now are hypocrites on a whole host of subjects. For another example, you can find all kinds of body-shaming and celebrity-shaming (about their bodies or looks) articles along with the articles complaining about how the media pushes an unrealistic and unfair idea of beauty on women. People don't even agree on what 'third-wave feminism' is exactly, not even feminists, so you really can pick it apart however you want and can pr…
/r/MensRights09/06/14 09:09 PM
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I agree with you that the shrill yelling from both sides is getting us nowhere. As far as what you said, I don't think sociopaths are really where the average person should be concentrating their effort. Yes, we need better mental health services and everyone should be better educated on what to do about those people, and what the warning signs are. But I think the average person would get a lot further (and I include myself in this) if we spent less time thinking about what everyone else does w…
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:30 PM
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Thanks for writing a measured and thoughtful reply. I can't speak for anyone except myself with my experience, so to give you a little background, I have been involved in several groups that one could reasonably label 'feminist', including a political group (nonpartisan) whose sole purpose was to get more women elected to government. I am also somewhat active in the LGBTQ community and a little bit in the general sex-positive community (kink, polyamory, etc). Most people in those circles who I'v…
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:45 PM
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I identify as a feminist, and I don't think male sexuality is bad. Nor, I think, do most feminists, especially third-wave feminists which is the current wave.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 05:05 PM
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What's the typical reaction when they first learn that you're in an open relationship? I'm not sure what I would think. I'd probably think you were incredibly sketchy. Then again, open relationships aren't normal where I'm from, or at least they aren't talked about much at all. The reaction is generally positive. Some people are surprised, some are curious, some people's minds explode. It's not super common where I am, but I'd say the majority of people have at least heard of the concept. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 05:14 AM
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How do you go about actually expressing your desires to these other men? I'm curious how forward you are. It really depends on how interested I am in them. I'm not frantically looking to date more people; I really am very happy where I am, just letting life develop as it may. But if/when I see an interesting person on okcupid, or I get a crush on a friend, I will message that person or flirt a little bit with my friend, and see where it goes. I always mention as soon as possible that I'm in an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 02:35 AM
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I don't like this. I don't dislike you, I just wouldn't be for this type of relationship. It would defeat the purpose in my opinion. If it were to turn out that your husband wanted a closed marriage, would you do it? If only for a time? Nonmonogamy is not for everyone, and I'd never say it was. For me personally, it is the only way I would be in a relationship. I have never been in a monogamous relationship or made a monogamous commitment. I require autonomy when it comes to loving/being attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 01:38 AM
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Yes, intelligence is the most sexually desirable trait to me. I get actively turned off to a hot person when stupid things come out of their mouth. Conversely, there have been people I was not instantly attracted to, who I later found very attractive after talking to them and discovering they were intelligent, well read/well educated, could think critically, and were good communicators. I couldn't date someone who used 'lol' a lot and watched reality TV constantly, for example. "So you can't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/14 04:42 PM
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Intelligence. Nonmonogamous/willing to be in a nonmonogamous relationship. A kind heart. Attraction/sexual compatibility. Shared goals/beliefs. A love of adventure. I wouldn't want a long-term serious partner who didn't hit all six points, and a lack of the first four at least would eliminate someone immediately from being a potential partner. 5 and 6 have more leeway. I am happily married to a man who blows all six out of the water. Given the second item, as you might guess, I am open to and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/14 09:46 PM
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When we met I was involved with two other people and he knew that. I told him several times that I didn't care if he dated or slept with other people, as long as he told me about it. As it became clear we were very very serious about each other, we talked about it in depth and examined how we felt about it and what being open would mean for us. He hadn't considered being in an open relationship before, but that was mostly because he had never been exposed to the idea beyond hearing about swinger…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 03:17 PM
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I am strictly nonmonogamous and polyamorous. I have never been in a closed relationship and I never will be. At the same time I'm not really into casual sex, and I much prefer to feel an emotional and intellectual connection with someone before I sleep with them. I am in an incredibly happy relationship with the love of my life. We have been open since the beginning and have had 0 issues, and we got married last year. We've had a few threesomes and foursomes. We dated another couple (two women) …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 05:21 AM
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You seriously think every single man wants to fuck every single female friend of his?? We're both attractive people, but he's not my physical type and I'm not his. He has a very specific type of woman he's into, and I don't match it. There's just no chemistry between us. He and I have discussed it in depth and we both agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 06:26 AM
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I said them wanting to experiment. You may want to read more carefully. I was in a multiyear relationship with a woman; we lived together and I loved her very much. I'm pretty sure I know my own sexuality better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 02:44 AM
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He does not want to bang me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 02:42 AM
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I'm positive there's selection bias. I'm willing to believe many men (the majority) would sleep with 70-80% of their female friends, especially given the right circumstances. More or less, depending on how picky the guy is and how wide a range of female friends he has. But I don't think that proves anything whatsoever. We are friends with people we like. Assuming they are in the general realm of reasonably attractive, it seems likely we would be more open to sex with them than some random person…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 05:50 AM
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Some would, some wouldn't. The guy friend I mentioned above almost definitely wouldn't. He's just not into me, and that's fine. You're trying to say that most men would take (or won't turn down) sex with most women, while women are more picky. That may be partly true--studies have shown that women have fewer orgasms during casual sex than they do in committed relationships, so there's both more danger and less reward for women having casual sex than there is for men. (Assuming we are talking onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 05:01 AM
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Well, obviously they can. I've got a lot of guy friends (and a lot of girl friends too). I would say the majority of them, one of us had at least a small crush on the other at some point, but there are a few where that never happened. One of my oldest and closest friends is a straight guy (I'm a bi woman). We've known each other through multiple periods where we were both single as well as multiple relationships for each of us. We've gone on trips together, we've lived together, and we've slept …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 04:36 AM
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I recently got married to the love of my life. We've been together a year and a half. He is the most wonderful person I've ever known and we are sickeningly ridiculously in love. We are in our mid/later 20s and don't plan on having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/14 04:45 AM
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You're welcome. I've been in only open relationships since I started dating. It is not for everyone but for me it's the only way.
/r/askTRP19/12/13 09:09 PM
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Cheating is breaking the agreed-upon rules of a relationship. If you're not breaking your relationship's rules, then it's just your particular relationship situation or style. If you need vocabulary for it: ethical nonmonogamy, open relationship, non-exclusive. There's also polyamory, swinging, and other types, but I find 'open relationship' to be the most widely accurate.
/r/askTRP19/12/13 08:55 PM
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How is it cheating if she's okay with it?
/r/askTRP18/12/13 06:12 AM
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Give me a break. That's only true if women don't put in the work to develop themselves. Same's true of men. Male or female, if you get by primarily on your looks/physique, then your value will decline as you age. On the other hand, if you put in the effort to become an awesome person/woman/man (in whatever way that happens to be for you—maybe becoming a great wife and cook and household manager, maybe by developing skills and interests and a career, whatever), then your value will increase over …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/13 03:39 AM
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That doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/13 07:34 AM
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