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Women slut shame just as much, maybe even more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:55 PM
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Yes men have a natural urge to do things to win over women, but women also have a natural urge to need certain things in relationships. Women cheat and leave relationships if the man isn't making her feel special, so again, I don't see how the problem starts with men if women will literally leave you if you don't treat them a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:39 PM
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I don't see how the problem starts with men when women have a deep desire to be treated a certain way? If anything, both sexes evolved to compliment each other, so we're both equally responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:31 PM
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Yeah, that's the point- if a guy doesn't treat you special, it probably means he thinks you're not worth it, so naturally women SHOULD care if guys treat them special
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:27 PM
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Well, I'm saying that women DO want to be treated special, as you seemed to blame it all on the men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:24 PM
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I've seen women cry because they realized they've never had a man buy them a gift/do something special for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:16 PM
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do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:52 PM
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he could try something natural like st. john's wort if he's worried about antidepressant side effects, that would be the absolute least he could do. im sorry you had to go through all this, he was never going to change unless he got help
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 05:57 PM
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it definitely sounds like his brain is fucked up. im guessing any meds he's been on haven't helped?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 05:31 PM
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what happened to you to make you that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:09 PM
4

has he ever tried going on meds? it sounds like he has no motivation to do anything in life at all
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 04:39 PM
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"a quality man has no standards" lol, if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:27 PM
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women have no idea how to vet men, they assume that sexual interest=overall interest, which results in them getting played and pumped and dumped over and over again, while simultaneously scoffing at their grandma's idea of actually valuing yourself and waiting until marriage. its sad, really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:50 PM
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a man who gets with a prostitute is settling, and he most likely has no respect for himself, so the relationship already is extremely likely to be less than perfect. countless times, ive heard women cry about how no man wants her because of unfortunate choices shes made in the past. it definitely WILL ruin your life in some sense. you still havent explained how it makes sense to morph your life around a word you were called
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:37 PM
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its destroying their life because its going to be very hard for them to actually find a quality man who is willing to spend his life with her and love her, so she'll just end up old and alone. i still dont get why anyone would think its reasonable to revolve their life around that mean word that someone called them that one time. if someone called me a whore i would just laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:25 PM
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why would you destroy your life because someone called you a mean word? that makes no sense, if someone called you a crackhead would you go out and do crack?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:36 PM
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yes, when a guy hooks up with a random girl he usually just wants to cum and then dip out. not sure why youre confused
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:48 PM
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I don't know if I could like a guy after witnessing him have repeated autistic meltdowns
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:11 AM
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Sex isn't supposed to be easy to obtain, women are far more reserved with their sexuality than men are. most women simply don't want to have sex unless there's some kind of relationship in it for them, because otherwise you're basically just some guys masturbatory tool to be used and discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:36 AM
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Why not just have sex with men who respect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:28 AM
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You can't think of any differences that have occurred since 1910 and 2023? Women's right to vote, women in the workforce, birth control, all waves of feminism, technological advances, etc? You can't possibly honestly believe the words you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:20 AM
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are you just arguing semantics in an attempt to look smart? you seem like youre being purposely disingenuous for no reason. obviously you know that society has changed drastically since the 1910s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:57 PM
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no reply, fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:39 PM
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what did he comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:00 PM
3

he never claimed in the OP that men were victims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:55 PM
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huh? what are you getting for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:52 PM
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what do you believe would be so horrible about being the opposite sex? are the women in your life just under your foot or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:35 PM
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what makes you feel like a perpetual victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:19 PM
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this is a post about WW1...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:02 AM
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there is tons of footage of WW1 and pictures of dead soldiers on the battlefield... and you dont really need to be an expert to know that people kill each other in wars? what even is the point in this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:41 PM
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lol have you ever heard of a white feather girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:33 PM
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are you under the impression that every woman is against war always, and that every man is for war always?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:52 PM
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there were tons of women who were against the suffragette movement. there were a lot of reasons to be against women voting, and they didnt all include "idk i just hate women"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:17 PM
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so... what do you do when an enemy invades you? bend over and let them fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:02 PM
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bruh her stomach is hanging down. she is very clearly not a healthy weight, are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:53 PM
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are we looking at the same person? shes clearly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:27 PM
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D is thin to you? how obese are you to think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:36 PM
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what is this even supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:46 PM
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...and men arent obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:42 PM
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I don't like older men either but I'm not going to say young women shouldn't be allowed to get with who they want. If a 20 yr old doesn't like 30 yr olds then don't get with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:06 AM
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It's not a "conservative religious thing," a lot of people have it done simply because it's the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:27 AM
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Honestly a very liberal man might actually be less safe than a normal conservative man. Women think they are more trustworthy because they are less masculine, but those are the slimes you have to watch out for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:19 AM
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What is she supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:28 AM
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I was only commenting on the first panel. Obviously a girl shouldn't enjoy being groped...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:25 AM
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Get with a woman who you actually like, and if you don't like her enough to defend her, don't be surprised when you get cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:02 AM
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yes... women are typically the primary child caretaker, and that's how it should be. there is very clear evidence that women enjoy caretaking more and care more about the cleanliness and aesthetic of their home environment. cooking isn't gendered, though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:31 PM
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i never said he should immediately go in for a punch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:41 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:22 PM
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men sacrifice themselves in the form of protection and women sacrifice themselves in the form of childbirth.. why would a woman give herself to a man and have his child if he is too terrified of other males to ever protect her in any meaningful way? a dog is more useful at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:20 PM
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a mans role is literally to protect and defend. this is how its always been in every culture since the beginning of humanity. of course a woman wants a man to defend her, and a man who refuses to defend her will be unattractive to women. dont know why youre upset at these facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:10 PM
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lol do you hide in the closet when you hear a sound in the night and make your girl go check on it? whats the point in a man if he refuses to protect and defend his woman? i guess this is why women get dogs instead of husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:02 PM
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yeah, if you just stand there and do nothing while your girl is getting groped she might not like that very much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:54 PM
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what is there to be suspicious of? the art is very simple and straight forward...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:48 PM
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does it look like theyre all into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:40 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:23 AM
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you are clearly very hurt and bitter. what happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:40 PM
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not at all. myron attempts to convince women that their "high value" man cheating is inevitable and that, in fact, the woman should be grateful that he even picked her in the first place. huge 'im a king" mentality from a broken man who's had his heart shattered by women
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:31 PM
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daddy having a bunch of mistresses doesnt sound like a very traditional nuclear family to me. that sounds like the promotion of women being opinionless slaves and men being kings who can do whatever they want
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:23 PM
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doesnt myron promote "polyamory" for men but monogamy for women? i have seen him say that women who are cheated on shouldnt get mad and should just expect it
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:04 PM
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i would recommend to actually have a guy marry you before reproducing with him. that usually means he is actually serious about you and starting a family with you. if he still abandons his family after that, then he just sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:18 PM
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because a good masculine role model sets a good example for a girl's future relationships with men as well as a boy's future masculinity. it is well documented that fatherless boys are more likely to be criminals and fatherless girls are more likely promiscuous. mothers and fathers typically parent in different ways. an ideal household is one with a quality mother and father.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:15 PM
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yes, children need good influences... and that includes from their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:06 PM
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the blame is on everyone. generally women shouldn't be having children out of wedlock with loser guys whom they know will not make good fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:03 PM
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nobody is saying children dont need good influences. the problem is you singling out fathers and pretending that children dont need fathers- this implies to me that you think fathers, in general, are no good for their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:54 PM
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Do you assume that all fathers are horrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:30 PM
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They put the blame on the mother because there's an assumption that she chose to be a single mom, leaving her child without a father. That doesn't mean that mothers are obsolete. I've never heard anyone say that kids need horrible fathers in their lives. The fact remains that kids are far better off in general when there is a father present. Yeah, kids are better off without a father if he is horrible and abusive... But that's not what most people mean when they say "kids need a father"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:29 PM
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this is like pointing out 2 crackhead parents who neglect their children and saying, "see! children don't NEED families! they'd be better off on their own, just look at those parents!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:59 PM
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nobody argues that kids don't need their mothers. the existence of a few horrible mothers that make their children's lives worse does not negate the fact that children still need their mothers! same as with fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:54 PM
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i think you probably think this because you dont know what its like to be a man. when i found out men can jerk off to normal, nonsexualized pictures of women, i was shocked. i dont really get why you think men tugging their wieners to women is socialized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:32 PM
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ive seen transmen talk about going on T and how they have to teach themselves how to not be creepy because they have such strong urges just from seeing a pretty woman. the only reason people say women are as visual as men is because they have no idea what life as the other sex is like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:32 PM
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i can appreciate a masculine man like that, but i feel the appreciation has more to do with his personality, power, and status rather than just his physical body. just judging by physicality, women offer more to the eye with their soft and delicate beauty (at least in my opinion)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:55 PM
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huh? ok i guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:45 PM
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im (mostly straight) female
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:39 PM
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i dont think womens faces are a "hot thing now," that implies that women are only beautiful during short periods of time? i find women more beautiful because they are soft, feminine, beautiful, their bodies were practically made to be desirable- soft, smooth skin, curvaceous, delicate. men are more harsh and have more awkward bodies that are more suited for athleticism rather than aesthetic appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:29 PM
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women and its not even close. i find it hard to believe anyone thinks male bodies are more aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:36 PM
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looking hot is only a lot of effort if youre ugly or mid to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:15 PM
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there is no way in the fiery pits of hell that she is even close to 160 at 5'11. not even a little bit possible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:09 PM
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It seems something has happened to you that has made you incapable of love (heart broken??) But fortunately, most men do want to find a partner that they can love for the long-run, and possibly raise a family with. Sure incels want sex, but they also want a woman to look up to them and love and respect them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:53 AM
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My guy I never said that women who are into these guys aren't a fringe group. You were claiming that the interest those girls have in pretty boys isn't a "real" attraction and that there's nothing sexual about a girl being obsessed with a BTS member... Which is obviously wrong and a frankly bizarre thing to think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:53 PM
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"porn is not sexual, its just teehee fantasy" huh?? there is a new netflix show out right now about a white girl going to korea to get with a pretty kpop looking guy. clearly there are some women who like this type of man, and they are usually on the younger side, because younger girls like guys who also are (or look) young, but it still is very obviously sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:50 PM
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im not a fan of bts type guys but to say that the interest that women have in them is not sexual at all is frankly bizarre, its obvious youre not a girl. look up "bts nsfw" or "bts fanfic" and you will see a lot of truly obscene stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:55 PM
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it is social expectations but that doesnt mean that anyone is forcing them to do it. if theyre claiming they have no choice then theyre being dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:50 PM
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there is nothing toxic about people having standards and preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:28 PM
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is it gender policing for men to want beautiful girls with low body counts? why dont guys want ugly girls? there are tons of ugly girls out there who acknowledge that their chances of finding love is extremely low. perhaps men should drop all of their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:05 PM
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gender policing? how is it policing if no woman is enforcing it directly? no one is forcing you to change your personality in order to have sex with women. what about when men pick on other men whom they deem to be easy targets? is that not gender policing to you? men have standards for women, too, and will typically treat their woman according to how much he values her (and her value typically corresponds to how beautiful she is or how many people shes slept with in the past) so all this finger…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:47 PM
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what is toxic about a woman not wanting a relationship with a twinky feminine guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:06 PM
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huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:14 PM
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"your lived experience is wrong, woman bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:41 PM
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women actually tend to have lower self-esteem than men. when women rate themselves as a 10/10, it's actually a coping mechanism, because they've decided to just accept themselves rather than live with self-hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:18 PM
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Being aware of the potential for others to cause you harm isn't really making assumptions, that's like saying you're assuming someone is going to rob you because you lock your car. What, do you not trust me with your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:57 AM
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Men typically have greater spatial awareness than women, which can result in men sometimes outperforming women in some STEM fields, but there is no average IQ difference between men and women that would make their performance in STEM astronomically different. I don't know what this has to do with anything, though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:11 AM
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You are quite literally not providing any argument at all, rather just attempting to make me look stupid...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:48 AM
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Lol I'm sure commenting that makes you feel very smart!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:45 AM
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It's funny that you think you're making a point here. Why would I be afraid of my boyfriend, who is bigger and stronger than me, when I personally know him and know that he would protect me rather than harm me? If I didn't know him at all, I would be wary of him potentially being a threat, but the fact that I DO know him means that I can trust him. And how would a woman go about finding a man who is NOT bigger and stronger? That must be extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:12 AM
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makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:54 AM
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if youre giving women "death stares" you are purposely being intimidating, and then accusing the world of hating men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:27 AM
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you want women to control their emotions but you cant even control yours. a woman being wary doesnt affect you in any way except hurting your feelings. maybe you should be the one who controls your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:13 AM
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honestly it sounds like you should be the one getting therapy, as it seems like youre very bitter and have anger towards women. most normal men understand that being alone with a strange woman can make her uncomfortable, but i guess youre just real sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:02 AM
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jesus dude lol. do you think you would maybe not want to be in a room alone with a gigantic orc man who wanted to fuck you? women naturally feel higher levels of anxiety and fear than men. youre mad at women for being female. you should just relax and accept that women are naturally vulnerable and try not to take it too personally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:55 PM
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you shouldnt hold women to the same standard because men are not women. women are incapable of defending themselves against men and it just so happens that men are women's biggest threat, so im not sure why a complete stranger not trusting you hurts you so much. and men quite literally are more intimidating... you have deeper voices, broader shoulders, bigger muscles, taller in height, more dominant, etc. these things make you more intimidating than women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:47 PM
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i dont understand why men get upset at this. dont you know that youre bigger, stronger, and more intimidating naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:30 PM
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poor dad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:30 PM
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the treatment youre describing that you receive sounds more like the result of being very not good looking rather than simply for not wearing makeup. not trying to be mean but most women are not treated as subhuman for not wearing makeup. either that or youre mistaking "not receiving special treatment" as being treated as subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:56 PM
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and nothing? have you ever come across a girl that you felt a genuine connection with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:47 AM
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have you tried being more like yourself but just mixing in some "PUA" tactics, like teasing? i would recommend just trying your best to not be a simp and to treat a girl like a person rather than an angel. i know it seems obvious but ive been surprised by men who seemingly can only be on the extreme side of "asshole" or "simp" and dont know how to implement a middle ground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:43 AM
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what you described doesnt really sound like an "asshole" to me, i assume when you say "putting her down" you mean teasing? when you act cool and unfazed by women, you are making yourself out to be an individual rather than someone who is dependent on pussy. making yourself out to be desperate in any capacity is a pretty big mood killer, it signals that you're not good enough for a partner so you have to try hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:31 AM
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Who is insulting you and for what? Is it in a playful manner or do they actually dislike you? Do they treat other men that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:55 AM
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What do they do to you that's negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:44 AM
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where do you live and work that you feel the need to wear makeup in order to be left alone? that is very odd. i myself have never been bothered for not wearing makeup, in fact excessive makeup feels like it would attract more attention rather than detract
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:28 AM
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OPs disgust response seems too strong for it to simply be a case of being immature. she should probably seek therapy to see if that can help her out at all
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:00 PM
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Did she ever tell you why she cheated? Was she combative/prone to drama during the relationship? I honestly think that this approach of "multiple partners until marriage" is going to lead to a drastically decreased chance of a happy relationship with a respectable and lovable partner. You already said that this approach (talking to your ex) lead to you getting with a crazy woman who just ended up cheating anyway. A woman who is respectable and feels like a true partner is less likely to put up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:39 AM
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You know how guys often complain about women who go for assholes? You're the male version of that. You have a thing for crazy girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:30 AM
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This isn't even remotely how women work, the most common reasons why women cheat are falling out of love or not receiving enough love/attention from their partner. If a woman is in a loving relationship with all of her emotional needs met, she is extremely unlikely to cheat (unless she's mentally fucked up) "Cheat first so I can't get hurt" is a coping mechanism by people who have been hurt in the past. If you have multiple partners and don't get too close to one, then you never give a woman the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:56 AM
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The absolute irony of this comment, as if you didn't make this entire post in the first place as a cope for getting burned by girls in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:34 AM
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youre going to make such an inflammatory claim as that and then refuse to elaborate? why make a claim if you dont actually have any proof of it being real?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:00 PM
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huh??? my original comment was "what games contain men wearing traditional suits of armor while the women wear bikini armor? Ive only seen that in cartoonish mobile game ads" the entire time, all ive wanted was someone to give me an example of what the original commenter was talking about. what is wrong with that? you have failed to give me examples so you attack me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:31 PM
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its a requirement that my character is good-looking. i dont want to look at something ugly on my screen, and neither do most women. its almost always men with the ugly character
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:02 PM
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the existence of an armor bikini doesnt prove sexism if everyone in the game is dressed wacky and revealing. a lot of those games have revealing and unrealistically dressed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:00 PM
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i assumed the one i asked the question to would be the one responding to me. theres still no reason to be upset, i havent disrespected you. your link still doesnt answer my question, so it makes since for me to ask you to actually answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:49 PM
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you were complaining about how women wear unrealistic clothes in video games while men don't, i just simply wanted an example. i dont know why youre getting upset. "The men get to wear armour and protective gear in battle games but the women have to wear skin tight bikinis" your words, you made a claim, i just wanted an example of the thing that youre criticizng. no reason to get upset
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:43 PM
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so i have to go through each and every one of them, research them, to determine which one fits your criteria, when you're the one who made the claim in the first place? did you not have any franchises in mind when you made your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:31 PM
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the irony is that a lot of women who play games love to dress slutty. every woman ive seen who plays mmos always has a scantily clad character
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:08 PM
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most of these are from media where the men also wear goofy/revealing outfits... can you give me a specific example of a game where the men are completely dressed in a realistic suit while the women are barely wearing anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:04 PM
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what games contain men wearing traditional suits of armor while the women wear bikini armor? Ive only seen that in cartoonish mobile game ads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:48 PM
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Women, who are physically weak, having a natural predisposition to feeling vulnerable is as natural as anything. There is an insane power difference between males and females to the point that women are physically at the mercy of men at all times. The percent of men who are rapists IS small, but the fact that men are in the sexually dominant role and possess superior physicality over women means that women should be weary so not to put themselves in unfortunate circumstances. It's just like with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:24 AM
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No, my point was more "I don't think these women actually hate men" not "it's ok for them to hate men because of their experiences" I don't think it's ok to hate anyone. From my experience reading stuff feminists say, I don't really get hatred from it. But maybe I just don't spend enough time on Twitter? I wouldn't agree with them negatively impacting the lives of innocent men, but if they are just in their echo-chamber talking about how the patriarchy makes them sad, that doesn't really hurt an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:10 AM
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They just want someone to validate their emotions/comfort them. It makes them feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:54 AM
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Well, women place more value on who they let inside them than men place on who they let on them. Sex, for a lot of women, is a bonding experience, despite if you're in a relationship or not, and having a man make a move on her and initiate sex suggests to her that he likes her. She wouldn't have had sex with him if she thought he didn't like her. So, she feels betrayed, because she thought he was taking the relationship to the next level, but it turns out he wasn't. She is basically hurt because…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:45 AM
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Women feel "tricked" because they often view sex as a bonding activity as well as a relationship milestone, which naturally makes her feel betrayed when she's thrown away like week old spaghetti
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:12 AM
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Yeah, men seeing women hate men radicalizes men and women seeing men hate women radicalizes women. I feel this whole "gender war" is just built off of misunderstanding the other sex. It's not normal for men and women to be at war
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:58 AM
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I've seen a lot of feminists talks and, though their views are often skewed and sometimes objectively false, I don't think their goal is to hate men. Feminists often have a "us vs. them" mentality because they view themselves as victimized by men, usually because they actually have been victimized. Women who have such negative views towards men have those views out of experience- they rarely have good relationships and experiences with men, and so have come to the conclusion that men truly do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:22 AM
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I honestly don't think men should be offended by "all men are potential rapists" unless the finger is being specifically pointed at you, because it's just good advice. Women are physically weak and very vulnerable around men, and I don't think men realize how vulnerable women often feel. Fathers are the first people to tell their daughters to be wary of men. You probably wouldn't want your daughter to walk alone at night or be in a room alone with a strange man, yet you'd probably be more lenien…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:57 AM
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Well, just because you're not romantically attracted to someone, doesn't mean you can't still find them physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:29 AM
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I'm actually also a woman, and I'm just talking purely based off of physical attraction. Some guys are more attractive at 18 than they are when older- I can tell with my eyes when a person is physically attractive, and physically attractive is often synonymous with youth. I see women all the time claiming that objectively ugly women are beautiful (like obese women), and I just don't get it at all lol. Are they lying or are they telling the truth about how they feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:24 AM
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I don't understand why women are often perplexed by the idea that men are attracted to young women. Like, can't you just look at a young woman and tell that she's better looking than an old one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:13 AM
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Im a misogynist for not blindly disregarding all scientific studies regarding male and female brain and behaviors and how they may differ? Would you consider me a man-hater for saying that men are more aggressive and violent than women? Why do you consider me a misogynist for saying that women tend to be more emotional and neurotic, when it's statistically true? I'm a woman and I don't find it negative, it just is. Women DO experience higher rates of bipolar II, mixed mania, and depression. Test…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:13 PM
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Fascinating, he never said only women can be emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:02 PM
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What is he not right about, in your expert opinion. Keep in mind that he teaches psychology at university and has done so for years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:03 PM
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"the point" in it is that he's a psychologist and studies it..?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:35 PM
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lol calling an obese woman "not beautiful" does not equal "hating women"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:36 AM
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i once saw a young woman ask if she was supposed to have sex with a guy before the first date. baffling stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:09 PM
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crazy how people always calls him "sexist," "homophobic," etc. but never actually explain how
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:08 PM
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i think youre confused. saying that children are statistically better off with a mom and dad is not anti-gay, saying that children give one's life meaning is not anti-childless, saying that there are adolescents who fall for trans ideology and end up making big mistakes is not anti-trans. please give citations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:03 PM
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what views of his are morally reprehensible? he's smart enough to teach psychology at esteemed universities, and you can look up clips of his classes. it would be one thing if he was teaching one thing at university and something completely contradictory in his books, but he doesnt. hes clearly not espousing "dumb things" when hes been teaching the same shit at universities for years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:00 PM
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women tend to exhibit higher levels of emotionality and neuroticism than men on a day-to-day basis. women suffer far more from mood disorders like mania than men. statistically, you could say that its feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:45 PM
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i dont have a twitter, who has he punched down?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:40 PM
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where does he advocate for mistreating people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:39 PM
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ok, but the "dumb things" they talk about are not surgery related. if they talked about surgery, they would be saying accurate things. JP mostly talks about psychology and it seems most people hate him because of his teachings regarding psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:28 PM
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so a psychologist should not be allowed to provide therapy if the psychologist in question does not 100% abide by his own advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:52 PM
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he uses the word "feminine" when describing attributes that are typically female. i dont understand why you think its disparaging
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:50 PM
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should a doctor be barred from practicing if he eats a big mac? why does it matter if he practices what he preaches, especially since hes mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:31 PM
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ive only watched his psychology-related content
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:28 PM
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nowhere has he ever hated on women. he is a psychologist who studies male and female psychology. pointing out the temperament differences between men and women is not misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:24 PM
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hes informed enough about psychology to have been teaching it at universities for decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:15 PM
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no its not. hes crying over men who are lonely and mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:13 PM
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nobody said they are entitled to anything. JP certainly has never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:04 PM
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i dont think JP is crying for people who attack women. not every guy whos a loser is a violent freak
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:01 PM
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who has he punched down on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:57 PM
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i dont think JP has ever insisted that these men are "marginalized" by some greater power. he simply acknowledges that some men are mentally ill and anti-social, which leaves them alone in the world. men do not typically have inherent value, so these men are practically worthless to the world. JP is a mentally ill man and he just had a moment of empathy for younger men who are lost
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:54 PM
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ok, so its ok to mock a man for crying as long as hes mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:45 PM
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...so your entire case relies upon the fact that he called them "marginalized?" doesnt marginalize just mean to treat someone as insignificant? can you come up with a better argument for why JP should be ridiculed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:43 PM
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why is crying a reason to shit on someone at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:30 PM
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JP is a psychologist, and through his studies, he has learned that men tend to be better off when they do certain things and act in a certain way. remember, he is a PSYCHOLOGIST, not a member of some extremist group. PSYCHOLOGIST. on another note, he is quite literally severely mentally ill, which is likely the reason why he cries so much. mocking a depressed man for being depressed is kind of fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:29 PM
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JP himself has talked about how "feminine" he is, he 100% acknowledges that hes not a "manly alpha male." it also seems that youve chosen to misunderstand everything he says
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:15 PM
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JP is a psychologist with high levels of empathy, why is it wrong for him to feel empathy for people who are mentally fucked up and lead shitty lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:54 PM
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i mean, if they see nothing wrong with crying, why would they make fun of a guy for crying just because they dont like him? and btw ive seen both genders mock JP for crying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:34 PM
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You're right, everyone is getting shittier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:09 AM
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I specifically mentioned how MODERN DAY men would perform. Testosterone is lowering because of plastics, lifestyle and diet. A person who is constantly surrounded by phthalates, is obese and dormant is going to have lower T. Modern men are pathetic because there is hardly any need for masculinity in a society that is safe and rich. Men who live in poor areas tend to be much more masculine. If you always have everything handed to you, there's no need for struggle, no need to prove yourself, you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:07 AM
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Fascinating. And what would these men do during the vast majority of the time when there is no war? How are these low-T anti-social men going to win a war in the first place? Is rape the only way you can reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:54 AM
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i was not raised to "shut up and look pretty," where in the hell do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:56 PM
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marital rape most definitely is a thing in every state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:10 PM
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honest question, is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:41 PM
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youve come to the conclusion that men and women are the same because women can do math? did you used to think that women couldnt do math or were incapable of programming?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:29 PM
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yes, but IF they acted the same way, theyd be fucked. i think the quality of men lowering has more to do with the fact that we live in a rich and cozy country than anything else. testosterone has been going down for decades and men are becoming more and more anti-social because of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:50 PM
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men in the past who act like modern day virgin men wouldnt have gotten any pussy, either. the problem is that the quality of men is going down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:33 PM
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why do you think adult women are incapable of consent? why is it wrong for a guy to go for younger girls or a girl to go for rich guys if that is what they want? theyre not hurting anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:04 PM
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Ah, so these poor victims are incapable of consent, being tricked by succubi and all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:20 PM
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No amount of evidence will convince a guy who's already determined that women are the source of all evil
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:13 PM
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i dont really understand your point, just because violence is illegal doesnt mean it doesnt happen? and men being violent wasnt really my point to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:19 PM
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what do you mean only institutions have a claim on violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:00 PM
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no, nobody is saying that men should "lead society exclusively," throughout history and cultures there have always been powerful women with influence. but we cant ignore the fact that men are a certain way and women are a certain way, and if we are this way based on biological reality, then its impossible to change. if im scared of men because they are physically dominating then that will never change unless they become physically weak and submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:51 PM
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i dont think the nature explanation is a justification as much as it is an explanation. have you ever seen how a woman reacts when a man raises his voice? she perceives it as a potential threat and will often become wary or fearful. men do not typically cower in fear when another man becomes dominating, but women often do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:43 PM
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im not attacking men. i was agreeing with you. i pointed out that we cant condition men to not be aggressive because the commenter claimed that we already had
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:18 PM
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why would anyone attempt to adjust their own biology if its not hurting anyone? what exactly would be the point in going against your own nature? because it hurts some peoples feelings for someone to have preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:27 PM
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we havent conditioned men to be less aggressive... they still commit the vast majority of crime. we cant "condition" men to be less aggressive unless we stifle their hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:13 PM
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anyone who thinks their problems are anyone else's fault other than their own needs to stop whining and take accountability for themselves. i dont understand why you expect women to put up with men who hate women. i wouldnt talk to a man about how horrible men are and expect him to care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:55 PM
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how is it that a woman doesnt lose anything by sleeping with a man quickly, yet there are tons of guys on this subreddit who claim that a woman who does that is practically unlovable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:31 PM
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im talking about her comment. she gives a scenario in which a man used to be a simp but now decides to treat the new girl differently and not give her the special treatment he gave women before. i never said i expect anything out of a man on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:29 PM
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in the scenario they gave, the man is literally "withholding" special treatment from the new girl, which he easily gave out to the other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:13 PM
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i dont understand your point... its still true that men remarry quicker than women, which is the point of this post, and you havent really given a good reason for that other than blaming the women who marry the male widows, but what about the agency of the male widow? why does he choose to remarry and not his female counterpart?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:39 PM
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having a pet scratches the itch of wanting a child (its a cute thing that's dependent on you) without the responsibility of an actual child
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:26 PM
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You keep saying that you fear being recorded with your wife, so it sure seems like you relate. Why else would you be defending this guy so much if it wasn't personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:34 PM
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Why do you fear the thought of your arguments with your wife being recorded? Do you act like crowder?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:31 PM
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Do you relate to crowder?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:19 PM
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I seriously do not understand your argument. The confrontation just so happened to be caught by their security camera. What exactly is wrong with that? Is that your entire point, that the abusive behavior shouldn't have been recorded? What about the actual content of the video? What are your thoughts on berating your pregnant wife and threatening her? "Fucking watch it!" You think that's acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:12 AM
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So... What do you have to say about the fact that Steven is the very clear antagonist in the video while the pregnant wife jus stands there and takes it? Nothing? Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:09 AM
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You can't be TRP if you condemn a man for berating his pregnant wife on camera? What kind of opinion is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:58 AM
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She quite literally does no wrong in the video and he is the only antagonistic one, berating her for the entire time while she's heavily pregnant. The situation is pretty black and white...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:54 AM
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did you just respond to my comment to rant about how much you dislike feminist thought? What kind of argument is "because they can"? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:14 AM
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your argument doesnt actually disprove the "feminist" argument at all. the male widower still chose to remarry quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:51 PM
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thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:01 PM
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thats weird, ive been under the impression that young adults and teenagers are becoming less liberal than millennials, especially in europe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:38 PM
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im pretty sure young people are becoming less liberal, thats why this whole RP stuff is getting popular in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:57 PM
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i dont understand why people say this. i think theyre just referencing fashion, because fashion is constantly evolving, and apparently some people think fashionable is the same as "attractive." a person who was beautiful in the 1920s is still beautiful to us today, they just have different fashion. we also have greek and roman statues from hundreds & thousands of years ago that were considered attractive and still are very much considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:40 PM
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people have been getting fatter and lazier for decades, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:31 PM
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Never get with a RP man
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 03:49 AM
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It's extremely obvious you've never had a real or healthy relationship. Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:50 AM
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I think the quality of a relationship depends more on how much energy a man puts in rather than the woman, because men tend to be the active parties in relationships and women tend to need more emotional maintenance than men. Theoretically, a relationship in which the man loves more should be better than the other way around because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:58 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:51 AM
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We get it, you have it so bad and people should feel sorry for you. Do you feel better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:39 AM
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our brains are more similar amongst one another than they are different, which is why we act like humans and not other animals. is it not true that everything that we are is just our brains? the person you are and the way you act is only that way because of the structure of your brain. EVERYTHING you do, you do it because of your biology. the only reason why youre responding to me right now is because your brain wants you to prove me wrong, so you can feel superior. every action you do is ultima…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:43 PM
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Do psychologists have to learn a new field of psychology in order to treat people from different cultures? Will a psychologist's tactics not work on a person from a different culture? Do we not all have the same human brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:17 PM
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Human psychology is the same everywhere. We're all human. Any human culture is created AROUND our biology, not in spite of it. Where do you think cultures come from? Everything we do is centered around sex and reproduction, as is our cultures. Cultures are not isolating people away from non-familial interactions. The structure of big cities kills community, not culture. Relationships outside of families are not "de-valued" a person who is involved in his/her community is usually a person who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:50 PM
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Not really. People really are the same everywhere. It's just circumstances that make us act differently. Most people are capable of doing horrific things if the circumstance is right. I don't see how one can accept that animals have their own nature but somehow humans are exempt from having their own nature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:43 PM
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i said "most apes" are you serious? come on. at least read what i said. and i never said we should "aim to mirror chimps," it would be really helpful if you could at least read what i said and come up with a logical response
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:28 PM
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who is they? do you realize that the point of any animal behavior is to pass on genes? "patriarchies" occur naturally in the animal kingdom. chimps and most other apes are "patriarchal" just like humans. Human males are more dominant, status-seeking, and competitive than females, making them more likely to be leaders, which is why our society naturally has more males in positions of power
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:16 PM
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I guess you consider yourself exempt from human psychology? Are you a floating cloud instead of a biological being that is wired a certain way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:02 AM
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"After losing dozens of jobs, I am sick of this shit" LOL
/r/MensRights17/04/23 01:22 AM
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What does this have to do with "mental ages?" If every adult is the "mental age" of 14, doesn't that mean that they're actually just the mental age of their age? Being the mental age of 20 or 25 doesn't exist because everyone deep down is apparently 14. Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:21 PM
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i literally am a woman. i dont understand what women mean when they say they have to do so many things to be attractive. like, what exactly are all these things you're doing in order to be attractive? i dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:14 PM
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simply no. a woman is attractive if she's attractive. she doesnt need the newest fashions to be sexually appealing, i think you are projecting. if a woman is naturally beautiful, then she is sexually appealing. i think its strange how you seem to believe natural beauty doesnt exist. most men would rather have a natural beauty rather than someone who needs all of these frivolous things to look decent. men would prefer women without clothes, so idk why you think they need high fashion to be appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:23 PM
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i agree. i find both using people for money and using for sex to be in bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:03 PM
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so we agree that theyre similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:57 PM
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Of course you would rather be used for sex. You're a man. I would much rather be used for money. I thought people in this sub knew that men and women are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:24 PM
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How is it possible to use a man for his resources when he consents to doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:10 PM
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This isn't true. Do you think every woman who lived before 100 years ago was considered gross and unattractive? I don't think you realize the wide variety of women that men like. Men don't just like women who live in the gym, wear mountains of makeup and have impeccable style. A woman who doesn't do those things can definitely still be considered attractive to men (if she's pretty) but makeup doesn't make you pretty. Natural beauty exists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:07 PM
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It's not "paying for a date," it's throwing money at women while getting nothing in return. If a guy does that for a bunch of different women and gets nothing, I'll probably assume he sucks since he's a desperate simp for doing that in the first place and none of those women wanted him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:02 PM
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i cant even fathom how somebody could deny evolved behaviors. it makes absolutely no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:02 PM
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you literally can come to a conclusion that a specific behavior is biological by examining people. if every group of humans from varying different places in the world exhibits similar behaviors, then it stands to reason that those behaviors are specifically biological, since those cultures are not related. we know for a fact that animals exhibit specific behaviors based on their innate instincts, why do you think it's impossible for the same to be true for humans? does a buck fight other bucks d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:18 PM
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evolutionary psychology literally is a field of science. you can determine if a behavior is biological rather than cultural by analyzing different cultures around the world. there are similar behaviors and thought-processes that are linked between all of humankind, just like there are among any other animal species. these are evolved behaviors. i dont know how you can believe in evolution but not the idea of evolved behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:30 PM
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Did you just say evolutionary psychology is pseudoscience? I guess you don't believe in evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:21 PM
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i think women "protect" younger women from men for the same reason that fathers protect their daughters. a father is terrified of his daughter being used for her sexuality, because he has first-hand experience of what its like to be a young male. for older women, they have experience of what its like to be played by men, or have seen it happen, and are therefore wary of men just like a father is. the goal is ultimately to "protect" and guard female sexuality, because it is objectively more impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:18 AM
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there is no switch in the brain that turns a person into a rational human being at 25 years. the brain is always changing with age, no matter how old you are. 25 is also the age when a body typically starts to degrade, does that mean people over 25 shouldnt be able to make decisions for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:49 PM
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keeping your adult child in your home is something that people usually do because they value family, they want to keep their family around they are too poor to afford multiple homes. thus, one home for the whole family it doesnt have anything to do with them viewing them as "children," in fact in poorer countries children typically grow up and mature faster, having to provide for their family at younger ages and marry young. a lot of responsibilities are placed onto poor people at young ages bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:15 PM
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the "age of adulthood" has been increasing in people's minds simply because we live in a cozy first world country. people are allowed to be children for as long as they want now, so there is nothing forcing us to be mature or responsible adults. the idea that one is only an "adult" when they hit their mid 20s is an incredibly recent idea that is only allowed to occur in the first place because people are too comfortable. the reason why this idea is more pronounced with females is because females…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:00 PM
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i would argue that the analogy is actually a pretty good one, because sex is a commodity that men want from women while resources are commodities that women want from men. sex is fundamentally an unequal act because women, being female, risk pregnancy as well as being devalued. i know youre not supposed to say it, but having casual sex as a woman is devaluing. you will have less options for a quality mate. sex has no negative impacts on a man, but potentially drastic implications for a woman. wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:20 PM
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how exactly do you "trick" a man into paying for a date? he should just know that shes not interested and has a boyfriend at home waiting for the leftovers. he technically consented to paying so that means the woman did nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:47 PM
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Not to "diminish the actions of those men" but this story doesn't really have anything to do with the idea of a man being a protector and provider. This story is more relevant if you wanted to make a case for why men are needed in society. When people talk about men being protectors they're referencing men protecting their female partners from harm, not random men taking charge in an unrelated incident
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:33 AM
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honestly not really. when surveyed, almost no woman would be willing to have sex with a random man but almost every man would be willing to have sex with a random woman. a lot of the "casual" sex women have is not really casual, it's more of a way for a woman to increase the odds of a romantic relationship. obviously this doesnt work a lot of the time, leaving women feeling used and overall bad. there has been a lot of uproar as of late by women who hate hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:44 AM
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lol this guy thinks women want meaningless sex with strange men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:29 AM
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lol huh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:54 PM
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where did you say that you were specifically talking about emotions that result in death?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:11 PM
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theres no semantics game, women literally are more emotional than men, and men typically understand that when a man IS emotional, bad things can happen. men call women "emotional" not because women act out violently, but because their emotions control the average woman more than they control the average man. nobody is going to argue with you that men are more aggressive and violent, but i dont see why you think men being more violent means they are more emotional. a lot of violence is committed …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:41 PM
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men cheat because they desire variation, because they are attracted to all kinds of different types of women. they ultimately cheat with the uglier woman because he wants to try her out. his sexuality is still focused on her and her physical looks. men who send nudes are not necessarily looking for a compliment. they may do it for different reasons, such as to make the woman react in a certain way. some men get off on making women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:05 PM
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its not a matter of opinion. women statistically experience more intense positive and negative emotions in any given day than men do. women are far more likely to develop mood disorders such as depression than men are. yes, of course anger is a more dangerous emotion... men are more dangerous than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:58 PM
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men are not more emotional than women, they just express their emotions differently. when a man is emotional, he is more likely to express it as anger and men in general are more aggressive and violent than women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:44 PM
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lol i was just saying i agree with you and wanted to provide some further insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:27 PM
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female sexuality is much more focused on the self, while for men, sexuality is focused almost entirely on the other individual. this is why women get more out of attention and dont necessarily "need" sex, because male and female sexuality is fundamentally different. a woman will get excited about wearing lingerie and being sexy but a man will not have the same sexual excitement about his own body. even when women have sex, a part of what makes sex desirable is a feeling of being desired. an inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:22 PM
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what if i told you that married women are statistically happier and more fulfilled than their single counterparts? im sorry to say that people dont marry because of disney movies. from my experience as a young women, things are quite literally the opposite now. women arent taught to be wives, they are taught to be independent and focus on their career, until that woman later realizes she wants a family, and for a lot of women once she realizes that, its already too late. no woman wants to be alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:35 PM
1

were you brainwashed by the patriarchy to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:00 PM
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hes not wrong, if what youre saying is true about yourself then youre kind of a defect and abnormal. every creature on this planet evolved around reproduction, thats why we are here in the first place. if your father didnt want to bang your mother then you wouldnt be here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:18 PM
1

Are you a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:20 PM
2

i seriously doubt those 2 are overweight. they look fit and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:54 PM
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youre right, some people may be genetically predisposed to food addiction or have stronger hunger cues but nobody is born obese and everybody has the ability to lose weight. some people just really do not want to take responsibility for their actions and its wild
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:12 PM
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what health conditions cause your body to magically produce energy? if you do not eat enough calories for your body to function, then your body is forced to pull energy from our fat reserves. some people may have a harder time to lose weight but they still very much can lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:53 PM
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i mean... ultimately the reason why anyone would be overweight is because they eat too much. the fat on your body doesnt just accumulate out of thin air. its because of excess calories
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:44 PM
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after 50 guys, how has she not gotten the memo yet that these guys dont want her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:40 PM
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are you going to acknowledge the fact that gay men have the most sex? what about the fact that male animals are the ones who go out looking for sex? ive never heard of a doe fighting other does for sex. its the buck that is in competition with other males and his sole purpose is to have sex and reproduce. it has nothing to do with culture, this is how humanity and other animals are naturally. this is honestly basic biology
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:44 PM
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i dont understand your comment. i didnt say women have to give up birth control in order to have the sexual power that the OP is talking about. the point is that men and women are biologically different because of the way we evolved, and our modern lifestyles dont really change that. men still have the biological urge to spread seed and women still have the biological urge to find a valuable man that will stick around to care for her and her offspring. sex for males and females is just objective…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:26 PM
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...yes, men do want more sex than women no matter how good the sex is. men are pumped with testosterone and have seminal fluid that needs to be dispensed. they have a real need to get sex out of their system that women do not. gay men have sex far more than straight people and straight people have sex more than lesbians. most men believe that putting in effort is worth it to get sex. if you dont, no one is forcing you to do so. but men typically put forth time and effort because getting sex is w…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:17 PM
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lol sex is biologically inconsequential. we did not evolve with child support or birth control, that is why men and women are built the way they are and men are much more free with their sperm than women are with their bodies. when a female allows a male to mate with her, he is allowing him to dominate and potentially impregnate her. that is why females are universally much pickier with who they mate with
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:01 PM
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statistically, the majority of men want sex far more than the majority of women. a lot of women who have abnormally high libidos have them because of past trauma. the most promiscuous women often act out that way because of past trauma or fatherlessness. some women even do it because they think they deserve the pain of being used. a lot of women nowadays even believe that you must have sex with a man in order to get him to love you, which is a big reason why some women have sex with so many guys…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:52 PM
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i never said women dont enjoy sex. in fact, women may even have the capacity to enjoy sex more than men. but it is factual that men WANT sex far more. gay men have by far the most sex out of any demographic, while lesbians have the least. males are almost always more promiscuous than females because sex for males is pretty inconsequential
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:41 PM
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arent you just proving mine and the OPs point? men want sex far more than women, women are happier with less sex than men are. with casual sex, men put in less work to get laid, but when sex is harder to get, men put in much more work for sex. that article doesnt say men are dissatisfied with sex, it says they want more of it
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:27 PM
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sex is not a mutually beneficial transaction. men want sex far more than women do so it can never be an equal exchange. ive seen countless women realize that casual sex leaves them feeling used and worthless. its abnormal for a woman to let random guys fuck her. the devaluing of sex is objectively bad for everyone because women are expected to perform sexually without commitment and the standard for men goes down the drain, resulting in lower quality men
/r/MensRights28/03/23 05:51 PM
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Is that why guys here are taking this tragedy and twisting it to somehow victimize men? Lol come on. Dudes here are obsessed with being a victim, in their minds men are always the victim and women are always evil
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:24 PM
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Guys in this sub fucking love when news comes out that a woman did something bad. It proves to them that their hatred of women is justified. Their mommies must have abused them when they were young and they're dedicated to taking their hatred for their moms out on all women
/r/MensRights28/03/23 05:12 AM
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...what? A possible explanation for a suspects behavior is not a scapegoat, and the speculating about possible mistreatment of the perp has always been done with male shooters. "He's a lone wolf" "he was bullied, he snapped" Jesus Christ have some common sense. 98% of all mass shootings done in the past several decades have been male. Only about 5 or 6 have been female. There is not some kind of universal conspiracy to make men look bad by covering up female shooters. Men just do more shootings.…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 05:05 AM
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how do you scapegoat a mass shooting? theyre high profile, just look them up
/r/MensRights27/03/23 11:48 PM
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not 100%, just 99%
/r/MensRights27/03/23 11:09 PM
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i think a lot of women have bad experiences with guys in which they're used for sex or the guy is only talking to her in the hopes of sex. especially with dating, a lot of women can become disillusioned when men keep leaving them after they fuck. i honestly dont think the culture tells girls that "guys only want sex," i think thats something that women learn after interacting with men. the whole "guys only want sex" thing is something that was taught much more in the past, now its "men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:15 PM
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That has nothing to do with culture, it's 100% true that men want sex more than women in any given culture. Men have more testosterone which boosts their sex drive. When men and women are surveyed, most men say they would be willing to have sex with a complete stranger, whereas almost no woman would be willing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:55 PM
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i completely agree. the burden of initiation is on the man because he wants to have sex. women generally dont want to have sex with strangers, so men will always be the primary pursuers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:25 PM
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it would be naive to assume we are unlike our animal cousins. we are evolved beings just like any other creature
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:19 PM
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In what culture is it NOT assumed the man will initiate? Men are generally just more active and dominant while women are just naturally more passive. There's no culture that's forcing women to be this way, it's how they naturally are. In fact this is how tons of other mammals mate. It's always on the male to initiate and prove himself worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:45 PM
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youre telling me that the vast majority of women pretend to be friends with men in order to extract services, instead of just hanging around them because they enjoy the company... why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:48 PM
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But what are women using their friends for? Why are they pretending to be friends with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:01 PM
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what do you mean? what are women using their friends for? sounds like another projection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:30 PM
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you are a male who is projecting. women can have tons of platonic friends and not want to fuck a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:48 PM
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how do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:46 PM
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ok that makes more sense. no woman wants to feel like a man is obsessed with her. desperate is one of the worst things a guy can be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:31 AM
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...youve never had a relationship BEFORE sex? i dont think thats how most people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:28 AM
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so you dont actually see the type of guy that women like as an asshole? when you reference "women like assholes" you just mean normal guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:19 AM
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did you know that historically it has always been the man who initiates courtships? the man is the one who shows interest in a woman and initiates. women are generally passive and men more assertive and active
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:16 AM
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thats called hybristophilia and it primarily affects women who have suffered abuse in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:13 AM
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why does a strong man who doesnt take shit = asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:11 AM
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w...what? are you also under the impression that its "feminine" to propose, too? usually, the person who initiates things in the relationship is the masculine one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:42 AM
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every society outside of those in western cultures knows this and bases their culture around it, yet youre being downvoted by people who hate feminism even though they agree with it by downvoting you
/r/MensRights21/03/23 02:54 AM
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if monogamy is not natural then why does jealousy exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:35 AM
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either you dont actually love your woman as much as you think or youre a reckless loser with no self control. either way it reflects badly on you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:30 AM
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Are you saying that if a couple planned for a baby and the woman was pregnant, but the man decided he didn't want it anymore, then he should be able to make her terminate?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:48 AM
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Do you think that unused embryos sit in labs for thousands of years? Lol, if they're not used they're eventually thrown out. As in, killed
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:45 AM
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probably not since that would involve a third party... do you think that men should dictate whether women have abortions or not? because thats what this would be. they also had a contract about the embryo from before they divorced regarding its "property" status, so the court is going off of that contract
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:21 AM
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if its not going to be used then its going to be killed. and he already did consent to making a baby, thats why an embryo exists
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:05 AM
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so... should they just kill it since he doesnt want it anymore? i thought this baby was a life?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 02:54 AM
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but... he chose to create the embryo...?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 02:39 AM
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but he chose to create the embryo in the first place and they had a contract about the embryo being property from before the divorce...
/r/MensRights19/03/23 02:37 AM
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what does this have to do with mens rights...
/r/MensRights18/03/23 10:31 PM
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LOL im not a feminist, and all relationships with power imbalances are not rape. if that were true then everything would be rape. there are even relationships in the female ward that are not rape. jesus christ victim complex lol
/r/MensRights16/03/23 10:49 PM
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women covered their hair and only left the home with male allies for safety, not to keep them shy and timid. a very rich woman or any woman going out into the world alone would make her extremely vulnerable, so she has male protectors. this doesnt insinuate anything about the womans personality. a woman can be a very outgoing social butterfly and still live under these rules. women of all social classes have male relatives and male lovers for protection. historically, a mans job has always been …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:56 PM
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yeah im sure those helpless prisoners were held down by the big strong women lmao. those poor guys having sex with women instead of the usual cellmate!
/r/MensRights16/03/23 07:46 PM
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murder means intent to kill. it is harder to prove than manslaughter so a lot of cases get manslaughter convictions rather than murder
/r/MensRights16/03/23 07:36 PM
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historically when and where are you talking about? powerful women have been very good at talking to people and making connections and allies for how many hundreds, thousands of years? why would a shy woman be reserved to the 1% of men? that makes no sense to me. anyone man could quite easily take a woman's purse at any time. men are much stronger than women, thats why we have the whole "men protect women" idea. a woman fighting usually wont stop whatever it is a man decides to do with her. now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:12 PM
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well, yeah. women are attracted to men who are capable. men are valued in general by what they can do or provide, women less so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:30 PM
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usually from what ive seen rich men's wives are more on the outgoing side. why do you think that shy, feminine women are not viable partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 PM
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I'm sorry I shouldn't have overreacted like that. But I'm going to be real, the guys who you point out as "suitors" are not actual relationship candidates. Most guys on tinder say they are looking for a hookup, while women say looking for relationship. Guys who approach women online are typically not looking for a relationship. If a woman gets 50 guys trying to sleep with her and a man gets 1 or 2 women who are interested in him, is the woman here REALLY better off? Sure men would love to have 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:02 AM
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These internet dwelling guys think every woman is handed life on a silver platter as well as a plethora of chads lined up to be picked. They have created an alternate reality in their heads and they're mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:49 AM
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So now every woman is an Instagram model with a line of chads waiting to wife them up? Lmao this is laughable. That is not the average woman. Get off the internet please
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:44 AM
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Both men and women are attracted to dark triad traits. Some men will specifically go for crazy girls because they find them attractive. Have you never heard any guy talk about how crazy girls are hot, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:28 AM
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Did... Your kid die?
/r/MensRights16/03/23 02:21 AM
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Ah that makes sense. Men who are disillusioned because of tinder. Of course women are going to be bombarded with suitors on tinder since it's primarily used for hookups. Men on here need to realize that the majority of women are not the e-girls you see searching for attention online. Go out into the real world and meet someone normal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:10 AM
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Men don't choose who they wife up? I thought it was "men are the gatekeepers to relationships" and now apparently men are being forced to wife horrible women because every man is apparently a pathetic chud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:43 AM
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Holy shit LOL
/r/MensRights15/03/23 02:06 PM
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So rape is no big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:09 PM
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No, that's not what I said. I said if sex is so meaningless why would a girl care if a random guy fucked her in her sleep? She never experienced it so shouldn't it not matter? Or maybe it does matter because sex is a very intimate act and she doesn't want random losers in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:48 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:37 PM
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This is such a weird take. If it's not a big deal, then why do we care about rape? If it's no big deal, why not just let any random loser cum in you? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:30 PM
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Uhhh.. you said having sex with strangers was cool, so do you not enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:08 PM
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High libido and promiscuity in females is linked with past trauma. Promiscuity is also directly linked with mental health problems like depression. whenever I see highly promiscuous women I always think "so what happened to her to make her like that?" And then eventually I will hear her talk about her traumatic experiences. Other women, usually on the younger side, are naive and confused as to how sex works. They think having sex is how you hook a man, or they like the attention that men give wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:06 PM
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Casual sex has a tendency to make women feel like shit. Do you really enjoy being used for your body and then being told to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:58 PM
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I do not do casual sex, but I've heard enough stories from women complaining about it. "ugh, he only lasted 2 minutes!" That's not because he couldn't help himself. He wanted to pump as soon as possible and gtfo. Men often use casual hookups as a masturbatory tool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:33 PM
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Man... If only you knew how those guys talked about you to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:29 PM
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Casual hookup men do not usually take the time and effort to make sure the girl is enjoying herself. He wants to pump and dump. There are countless stories of girls complaining about how shitty casual hookups are for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:20 PM
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idk, there are whole reality tv shows (maury) dedicated to guys finding out paternity. a lot of them had been raising their kids for years before finding out the kids werent theirs. it still happens a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:38 PM
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This is a reason why I think modern dating is so fucked up nowadays. The amount of effort men put into relationships is equivalent to how much he cares about the girl, and I've seen countless cases of women not being treated right, and a lot of times they don't even realize it! Men have a natural desire to protect and provide for women they love, but there is an epidemic of men exclaiming how they're unwilling to protect or defend their girlfriends or even simply pay for a date. If a man treats …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:25 PM
1

Pretty much every city has a higher crime rate than rural towns. The safest place you can be is actually in the countryside
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:39 PM
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If anything you should feel unsafe in cities, not rural towns
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:57 AM
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this is what men on here dont understand about women. we DO want men, but we only want men who truly want us. we dont want men who will ghost us after sex, who will walk out of our lives after 10 years, who are uncaring, unromantic, manipulative, and so on. women dont want to settle for "good enough," we want a man who is going to be a life partner. the weeding out of bad men as a woman can be a hectic process and for some women it's enough to be done with dating for good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:11 PM
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Do you think women are constantly surrounded by creepy simps? And if so why do you think they would like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:41 PM
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ok, then tell me how many times it's happened to you or give me statistics on how often it happens
/r/MensRights09/03/23 05:17 PM
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ive seen women express preferences but have never seen one actually break up with a guy for not having the desired look. i agree men are often scrutinized for their preferences and women less so but i feel like most people would still think its ridiculous if a girl broke up with a guy for that reason and ive personally never seen it happen
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:42 PM
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When does that happen? Ive never heard that. And I bet most people would think that's ridiculous, no?
/r/MensRights08/03/23 08:36 PM
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Where's the double standard? Wouldn't you think it ridiculous if a woman broke up with a nice man because his dick looked a little funny
/r/MensRights08/03/23 08:10 PM
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Most women are not genuinely ugly but some are. Are for those women they are truly fucked, worse off than a man of similar ugliness. Ugly women who do manage to find relationships will be treated worse than their becky and stacy counterparts because men do not value ugly women. He will be holding out for a more attractive partner for the whole relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:57 PM
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How is having sex with a man getting your foot through the door? Men will have sex with anything that's willing. If you are an ugly woman you're only good for sex and even then he doesn't want to look at you for a second longer than he has to. I think most men are incapable of loving an ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:50 PM
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Women do not actually want "No strings attached sex" nearly as much as our culture would have us believe. Have you ever heard women talk about their casual sex experiences and "situationships?" it ends up making them feel like complete shit. Women want to have sex with men they like, men want to have sex with anyone. No woman has sex with men she doesn't like unless she's using it as a form of self-harm. An ugly, unlovable woman giving sex to a man who doesn't care about her is going to leave he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:41 PM
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Not the same at all. I think a more equivalent situation would be if a woman only valued a man for his money. Women and men view sex differently, women want to have sex with men she admires and loves. She does not want to be used up and thrown to the side, that is dehumanizing. Femcels actually do NOT have it better than incels because they do not want just sex, a man's sexual interest in a woman is literally worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:32 PM
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Is a "butterface" woman getting men to fuck her but not commit actually a win, though? I think many women would consider that even worse than getting no attention. No woman wants to be used by a guy who couldn't care less about her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:52 PM
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Tinder does not "show women's true nature" because there is quite literally nothing to go off of other than a man's looks, so of course women are going to choose the most physically attractive man. The thing is, even the sexiest man in the world has to have an attractive personality. If he cries all the time and is high maintenance a woman is going to lose attraction. There are so many ways that a man can lose and gain a woman's attraction, and looks is just one small thing out of many. Ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:26 AM
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I honestly don't believe that you only see genetic gods picking up girls. Guys actually have to TRY to pick up girls, it's a learning process that men will practice for years. There are ugly and short guys that get girls by being interesting and knowing how to talk to them. It has been accepted since the dawn of humanity that women like interesting and impressive men, and now all of the sudden with the invention of tinder women only care about the angle of your jaw? Lmao. No. A lot of men are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:17 AM
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That makes sense, but it's always seemed to me like it hits women harder. I don't know, I've seen some women get with pretty horrendous looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:01 PM
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It's only bad if you're an internet-dweller with no social skills or experience with women. The guys who complain about chads are mostly on the internet all day and likely relying on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:53 PM
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Yes, most men aren't much to look at. That's why men are supposed to attract women with their personalities instead of standing around looking pretty. Generally once a woman starts to like a guy, he will be more physically attractive to her than when she first saw him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:36 PM
2

Don't let every little thing you see on the internet affect you so much. You will be happier
/r/MensRights28/02/23 11:46 AM
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Well, it seems we have very different experiences. My fiance definitely doesn't treat me like a slave, I would not tolerate that and I'm not sure why other women do. Some men are also mistreated and manipulated by their partners and I would tell them to simply pick a different one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:07 PM
1

So did your father stay at home and throw beer bottles at your mom? In my perspective, my father did most of the work while sticking by my mom. He has taken care of his wife and children without a complaint. He has never asked for divorce even though their relationship is often rocky. He has a duty to her. I don't know why you have these views but they're not based on reality. Different men have different levels of responsibility and morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:57 PM
2

This is sad. Has your father never expressed respect or admiration to your mother? Most men very much want love and long-term commitment, but a lot of men do not find a woman who is worth having that with. I often see men who have had a lot of meaningless sex say that it makes them feel unfulfilled and they would like to just have a loving partner. Men prefer to have sex with a loving partner, it is more fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:45 PM
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Have you ever heard of wife goggles? Men may feel lust for other women but he will view his wife as the most beautiful woman in the world. A man will stay faithful to his wife out of duty and respect to her. Women just need to find a man who has self control and a strong sense of responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:55 PM
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I think the majority of women still want to be married, so could it be that men are simply gatekeeping marriage? Nowadays men can have all the benefits of marriage without the legal responsibility, so there's just not much incentive to pop the question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:33 PM
1

lol that's also bad, but their poor decisions don't make your lack of responsibility any less sad. You're all sad
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:00 PM
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Lol you're a genius. I said women are vulnerable without the legal protections of marriage like alimony. Without these protections women would largely be at the mercy of their partners, especially when children come into the mix. Marriage exists to give women stability since women are so often dependent on their husbands. And don't even tell me that women don't have to be dependent, because most men actually WANT their wife or partner to be dependent on him. Men like it when they make more money…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:52 PM
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responsibility bad
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:21 PM
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Women are by far the more vulnerable party in a marriage, that is why things like alimony exist. A woman sacrifices her career for her family while the man continues working and climbing the corporate ladder, gaining more and more income. When a divorce happens, he will continue to have his income and she will have no income. She will have to go to school for years in order to build credentials to get a job to live off of. Alimony does not actually last for the lifetime of the woman lol, maybe a…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:18 PM
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This post is literally calling men "slaves" because they work jobs. Get real. You are just as dramatic as the feminists you complain about
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:57 PM
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So the man gets the benefits of having a homemaker and a child caretaker. He is saving tons of time and money by having his wife doing these things. She is wasting her career building potential by staying home and doing these things for her husband. Once she is on her own, she has wasted all those years and now must start completely over. Is it fair to throw her out on the street? Are you also saying that the traditional family unit should be crumpled up and thrown out if that is your stance? Is…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:54 PM
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The vast majority of divorce settlements do not include alimony and alimony is not allocated based on sex. If a woman decides to forfeit her career in order to take care of the house and children, and then they suddenly divorce, what should happen in your bright mind? Should the mother of his child be forced out on the street?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:48 PM
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This sub isn't much different from the feminist subs, ironically. Full of victim complex all around
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:33 PM
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Yes but surveys exist to collect data. They ask men if they've ever been sexually assaulted. In these surveys the vast majority of people who say they've been assaulted are women and they report male perpetrators. Please give proof to your assertion.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:04 PM
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What about statistics that don't just count people in prisons? All surveys indicate that women are much more likely to be sexually assaulted and the majority of perpetrators are male. Please show me any kind of evidence that women are out here committing a ton of rapes against men, please.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:52 PM
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Yes, men are far more likely to be outwardly aggressive and violent. The majority of violent crimes are committed by men. Unless you're saying these statistics are rigged? What about all those other mammalian species in which the males are more aggressive?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:08 PM
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Size and strength plays a big role but there are of course other variables, like our natural evolved instinct to be more caring toward women. Personally I do not think that a man beating up another man half his size is an achievement, but I guess a lot of the views and behaviors we as people exhibit is largely based on our biology. Males in every species are naturally rivals with each other, so males are on this level playing field of rivalry, and male-on-male fights are seen as fair game despit…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:12 AM
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Men can have male-only trains, I don't see why they couldn't and I don't think most people would care, I think both sexes should be able to have spaces where they can be around those of the same sex. It seems like you're mad because "why women get this and men don't?" Female-only trains don't exist to spite men, it's for utilitarian purposes. Women are vulnerable because they have smaller, weaker bodies and are objects of sexual desire, while men are more likely to be aggressive and violent. So,…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:30 AM
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Female-only trains were implemented in the first place in those countries because sexual assault was rampant and often unpunished. I don't see what the point in an all-male train would be when women sexually assaulting men on trains is unheard of. Your analogy about black people is also flawed because the people committing crime in that demographic are still male.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 01:44 AM
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I have literally never heard a man say that he cares about a woman's career, and have only ever seen men say that they do not care at all. If a man does care, it's because of what that says about her as a person, and not for the value she can provide with it. For the majority of households, the man earns more than the women and therefore he pays more. My fiance has always paid for the rent and dates and he does not care how much money I make. I'm not sure why you think that this arrangement is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:47 PM
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Yes, if a woman asks him to pay for everything he will probably say no because she's showing that she's entitled to his money. He has to be the one who offers to pay because men like women who are modest and he doesn't want to feel like a sucker. But if a man truly likes you he will offer to pay for that date and not nickel and dime you the whole relationship because he has a natural urge to care and provide for his lover. Men largely do not have preferences for women who make a lot of money, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:26 PM
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Men have a natural instinct to provide for women they like. If he refuses to provide for you then he probably doesn't think you're worth it or he has hang ups about being taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:44 PM
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This is ridiculous. You are expecting women to bare all of the burden. A man doesn't get pregnant, a man doesn't breastfeed, someone has to do a majority of the cooking, cleaning, and child rearing. You can't have 2 people working full time while also taking care of the house and kids, you would have to hire a babysitter. Women spend the majority of their time with their children, especially very young children. Women are better suited for taking care of small children than men are because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:38 PM
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Testosterone can increase aggression but not necessarily anger. Men and women experience similar amounts of anger, but men are more outwardly aggressive with their anger. In an evolutionary sense our emotions, especially womens' emotions really are for other people. Women express more emotion because they are more vulnerable and rely heavily on other people. People are more likely to feel bad for a woman who is sad or in distress than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:24 PM
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I think stoicism for women is often impossible to obtain. Women are often more expressive than men and are far more likely to cry. There is also no logical reason for women to be stoic because when a woman expresses sadness or a negative emotion, it triggers others to feel bad for her. When a man does the same thing, people may see him in a negative way. Men can just pick up stoicism easier and they have more to gain from it socially. I have seen transmen go on T say that it made them feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:42 PM
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How is a woman supposed to take care of herself while she's pregnant? How is she supposed to work while she's taking care of small children? Most importantly, WHY would women have children with men that offer absolutely no stability to her? You're telling me that women should give children to men, the biggest thing that a woman could ever give to a man, and get absolutely nothing in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:53 PM
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For some reason, our culture dictates that "feminine" traits are lesser and women should strive to act as male as possible. There is a very good reason why we have heightened emotions in the first place, it's because they're telling us that we have certain needs that have to be met. Women do have the capacity to be just as logical as men of course, but I think it would help if women were more self aware of their femaleness and acknowledged that they do indeed tend to have heightened emotions. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:18 PM
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Testosterone is good at regulating mood so men tend to have a more stable and often positive mood than women. Women are quite literally more emotional than men in that they experience more highs and lows in a day than men do, with women experiencing more intense emotions on average than men. This is evident when we consider that women are far more likely to develop mood disorders like depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:07 PM
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I think the answer should be more "men should get better at picking their partners" rather than "let men have no responsibility for the mother of their children"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:09 PM
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It's hilarious to me how feminism puts down women who don't engage in groupthink. If you have a differing opinion, it's because internalized misogyny, so either way you cannot truly have free thought. It's of course impossible for women to have their own thoughts, which is ironically misogynistic
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:25 AM
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I'm not sure where to find an article on it but it was in a book called Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:42 AM
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Respect is a man's currency and love is a woman's. There was a study where most men said they would rather be respected and unloved, and women said they would rather be disrespected but loved. For men, being respected gives him a meaning to his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:42 PM
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Definitely not normal female competitive behavior. Definitely caused by patriarchy and internalized misogyny because men bad.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 04:28 PM
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Pretty girls. Guys who have ugly girlfriends usually have incredibly unattractive personalities. You are projecting your own preferences by assuming that women care more about looks than personality. Personality can drastically change a woman's perception of a man, but a man will never be more attracted to an ugly girl because she has a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:48 PM
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The lust for violent men is associated with abuse and trauma in the woman's past. It is not normal and represents a small percentage of people. Most women are attracted to men with the CAPABILITY for violence in the case of self-defense but are generally even-tempered and honorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:11 PM
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This statement is so incredibly laughable. It's no wonder western men can't find any women to be with, they think you have to have a square jaw instead of an actual attractive personality in order to get women. I've literally seen guys with extreme deformities get girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:33 PM
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Do you ever get tired of whining?
/r/MensRights18/02/23 05:42 AM
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I agree it takes time and effort to please women, but generally it is very easy to please a man. Women tend to much prefer sex with men they're in relationships with because he will take the time to understand her body and try to please her, while men mostly just need a woman to be enthusiastic about sex in order to enjoy it. Pleasing women is definitely more complicated than pleasing guys. I think the reason why guys may be bad at sex is because the woman either isn't communicating what she lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:03 PM
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Most men are perfectly happy to teach their girlfriends what he likes. It's not exactly rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:08 PM
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Nope, you should never settle for guys who aren't fulfilling your needs! Sometimes people are genuinely not made for each, and sometimes guys just neglect their girlfriends and her needs. A lot of guys stop giving their girlfriends attention because he's settled into the idea that she's his anyway so he doesn't need to try anymore. This obviously starts to make the women feel bad and unfulfilled. If you don't feel fulfilled, the natural thing to do is to talk about it, and if things don't get be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:04 PM
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It's insane how so many women think men want a porn star on their dick. People act like you can't explore sexuality with your partner, it has to be with the whole neighborhood for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:44 PM
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This is why the man has to keep up with his partner's needs. If she feels emotionally and sexually fulfilled by him then her eyes will never wander to other guys. That's why when women cheat, the reason is usually "he didn't give me enough attention"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:37 PM
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What are you even talking about with "punch down?" It seems like you've had some unsavory experiences with men and are using that experience to project that onto every other man. My video is literally just a FTM person talking about how testosterone changed him. It is really informative to the reality that men live. If you have no empathy for men and do not care about their lived experiences, why are you even here arguing with me? Just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:05 AM
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Do you not realize that women ALSO have performative behaviors with other women? All of the "wow, your shoes are so cute!" "you're so hot, you go girl!" This is performative behavior that is adapted in order to gain favor with other women. Men HAVE to behave in certain ways when around other men, and that is how it is in any given human civilization. Not socialization, biology. What does the boy do when he's being bullied by his male classmates? Does he lay down and cry, or does he stand up for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:51 PM
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Nobody says that anger is the only emotion men can express, they are just less emotional than women. If you've ever heard a female to male transgender talk about their experiences, they note that taking testosterone blocks some of their emotions and makes it physically harder to cry. So, masculinity is not socialized like women think. The things that women think of as "male culture" is actually just male biology, so no, women do not understand men at all. There is not some kind of evil patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:16 PM
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No they don't. A lot of women are under the impression that all of the differences in men are socialized and that they should be de-socialized because being a man is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:48 PM
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These comments are weird and feel like cope. If a guy did this to me, it would definitely make me feel like shit. One girl is worth gifts but for some reason I'm not? The point isn't the material gifts, it's the thought and effort he put into the other girl that he does not put into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:35 PM
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Women do not understand men because they generally do not have to. In order for a man to get a woman, he has to have a general understanding of what women like and what he needs to do to get and keep her attention. A lot of women are under the impression that men are exactly the same as women, but are socialized to be domineering macho types who love to put down women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:35 PM
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You said society tells us that sex damages women. It's not society, it's biology. https://www.clinicaladvisor.com/home/topics/hiv-aids-information-center/sexually-risky-behavior-more-common-in-women-with-mental-disorders-than-in-men/ https://www.psypost.org/2022/04/casual-sex-generally-leads-to-more-positive-emotional-outcomes-for-men-than-for-women-study-finds-62910 Casual sex does far more harm to women than good. Women are disproportionately negatively affected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:07 AM
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Women who have sex with random men have literally described it as self harm. You will never hear a man describe casual sex as self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:45 AM
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Promiscuity in women is associated with past trauma, and women who engage in hookup culture are prone to experiencing negative emotions due to the casual sex, including regret, anxiety, and depression. Women who have a lot of casual sex lose the ability to bond with her future partner through sex. Casual sex quite literally damages women. Most women end up regretting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:38 AM
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Society didn't decide that, most cultures around the world feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:25 AM
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I have seen plenty of women who dress and act provocatively complain about being viewed as a sex object, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:56 PM
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I mean, you don't have to be a porn star or model to sexualize yourself. There are tons of everyday women who think it's normal to lead with their sexuality, posting provocative pictures online and dressing slutty. As a result, they gain less respect from men and more sexual attraction. A lot of women just seem to think that in order to get a guy to like you, you have to be slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:54 AM
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There is quite literally no bond like a parent and child. It is a bond that you can't have with anyone else. If you ask a woman why she wants kids, she will probably bring up the idea of family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:25 PM
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Women are generally very social creatures and are people-oriented. Being very vulnerable, it's important for women to surround themselves with people who love them, and we do this by creating families. Children will always be beneficial to women, because women are people-oriented, and therefore crave close relationships with people. Women actually report feeling lonely more than men, despite the fact that women have more friends and social networks than men, so women must have greater social nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:44 PM
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Have you ever thought WHY your sister and you get told very different things? It is true that male's of every species want to have sex with as many females as possible, while females of any species want to have sex with the best male, simply because females are the ones who are burdened with childbirth. A man has nothing to lose when he has sex, so the responsibility is naturally put on the woman. Your parents warn your sister about men because they WILL try to have sex with her, they WILL try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:47 AM
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The problem is that when a woman acts sexually and provocatively, she is attracting a specific type of man that is going to view her as a sex object, someone who is basically only good for sex. People view you based on how you present yourself, and if you leave a bunch of meat outside, you can't be mad when the scavengers come to eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:04 AM
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Our legal system is set up in a way to favor women and mothers, because they are naturally put in a vulnerable position of having to care for children instead of work. A man's money is legally his wife's, he has no choice but to allow her to use his money. Most men are more than happy to provide for his family, in fact it is probably one of the only things that gives him worth. A man works 40+ hours every week, and most men even come home only to do more chores(household and childcare) it is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:01 PM
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What makes housework 'unpaid labor" when you have a legal right to your husband's money, and he provides for you and the children? Most of the money a man makes goes directly to his family. He's not pocketing change. And in a divorce, he legally has to give his wife half of his belongings. What is unpaid about being a wife and mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:17 PM
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You are making a big assumption that men do nothing and women do everything. Each sex has their own role that provides something, and men are supposed to put a lot of effort into their job and family in order to keep things together. In an ideal situation, a woman is taken care of by her husband, being able to spend his money as she pleases, in exchange for her doing household and childcare chores. She's not just used as a slave. It's a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:48 PM
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I don't think people understand that HE SAID he would change. It's not unreasonable for her to hold him to his word. He's putting his child in danger and she definitely shouldn't try to appease him. He is an addict and she needs to hold him to high standard now that there's a child in the picture
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 01:11 AM
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Because he said he would change, he's actively putting his child in danger and doesn't seem to care. One should put their child above the comfort of their spouse, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 01:02 AM
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But the problem isn't that she dislikes his smoking, it's that he is posing a danger to his child. She should definitely not apologize for trying to keep her baby safe, and he should be willing, as a father, to do what he needs to keep his child safe. She should NOT accept him giving the child third-hand smoke to appease him. She SHOULD tell him to change his clothes after smoking. I think the only thing that can help this marriage is counseling and therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/23 09:10 PM
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