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Others have made good comments but I want to focus on your AA pissing her off... It's a comfort test if it's about her. It's a shit test if it's about anything else. AA when it's about her is some dumb shit and no wonder she gets pissed off. You're not failing shit tests you're spectacularly failing comfort tests.
/r/askMRP18/10/21 10:14 AM
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This was a really insightful talk thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 02:45 PM
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This really does sound like a bunch of excuses. Really, what is so difficult about game? Yeah it takes practice but if you have a solid frame it's no where near as hard as you make out. Honestly, sorting out your frame is harder and that's what he did. Bizarre you think quitting addictions and making major life style changes is the easy bit.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 05:36 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. I am also 30 and single. Yeah I got friends with kids but I wouldn't trade places with them for the world. You are in one of the luckiest and most fortuitous positions possible because anything is possible. As for what's missing, nothing. By asking the question you presume there's an answer. Just do you. Do hobbies you like, workout, keep following your mission.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 10:50 AM
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I agree with this post. I've heard people stop aging mentally from when they experience their trauma. This feels true. If you don't move past it you don't grow. Is the book you recommended along the same lines as this post?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 12:57 AM
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This hits close to home for me as I was like this for many years. I wanted to be as helpful as I could. It comes from weak boundaries and needing the approval of others. I could go circles round other people so it felt good to help them. Don't fucking do it. At best it becomes expected of you, and other staff get lazy - at worst you're completely taken for granted. Go home on time. If someone messages you, and they're being fucking lazy say "OK what did you do first?" they'll get the hint. If ot…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:42 PM
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Bro what the fuck. Why are you asking her repeatedly about stuff she is hiding. Why are you snooping on her phone. That's some weak frame beta shit. You will never know a girls true past. You obviously don't trust her but decided to LTR her anyway. How can you demote her but also string along the relationship by lying to her? Just dump her and go find some new plates.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:42 AM
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You can't go from oneitis, over analysing and anxiety to abundance and solid frame in a month. You are in denial.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:48 AM
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I read a few. The titles paint you in a better light than the content. There's some serious cognitive dissonance. You say you can get other girls but your other posts paint a clear picture of scarcity and fear. It's a tough life. I'm sure you've been thru some shit. But you really need to go back to the basics.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:32 AM
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It's abundantly clear from your other recent posts you don't understand. You cannot learn what you think you already know. Start from scratch.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:08 AM
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By having a rock solid foundation. It doesn't sound like you swallowed the pill. EDIT: Holy shit reading your other posts are painful. Why do you even post here if you aren't paying attention to the material.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:04 AM
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Yes, for sure. It's normal to feel lonely from time to time.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:00 AM
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You have major oneitis for this girl. She is using you for attention. You are simping all over the place for her. Never talk to her again. Focus on yourself and other women. Respect yourself and what you want more.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:57 AM
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Late 20s spooke? Hahaha there is no such thing. Some women won't date older guys. Plenty will tho. Absolutely nothing changes.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:53 AM
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If you wore a condom and it didn't break you're all good son. Don't sweat it just keep wrapping your pecker.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:50 AM
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I swear the comments here get worse everyday. Please ignore the 'demote if she does it again' bullshit. Her asking means she is WAY beyond the line. Why? Because she didn't disqualify the other guy BY HERSELF. You never mate guard (or gate keep as you called it) because your girl does it for you. If she doesn't, she ain't your girl. What's shawty gonna do when you aren't around to ask? If you were Brad Pitt would she risk her relationship to hang around other guys? What's going thru this other g…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:48 AM
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Its not a zero sum game. Its not all winners and losers.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 04:09 PM
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It's pretty clear from the way you talk you don't value yourself very highly. It's ok to be you.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 01:13 PM
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Burden of proof fallacy is a logical fallacy where you say others should provide proof without providing any of your own. Perhaps try to prove your own statements. It's somewhat disturbing you describe is as a tool to create false confidence. You've missed the point entirely. I'm not sure what happened to you to think of yourself so lowly. You are the prize. It means a woman would be lucky to have you. You offer a great deal. It's not a trick. If you don't love yourself you have no hope in this …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 01:11 PM
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You really need to internalise that you are the prize. Don't put women on pedestals, you force them to look down on you.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 07:08 AM
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It's totally fine to want a family and children. There is a married redpill subreddit too. Your life should be centered on your beliefs and principles. Centering it on work means your life goes upside down when you get fired. Centering it on finances means your lose your shit if your investments go down. Centering it on your wife and family is an equal recipe for disaster. What kind of father do you want to be? What kind of husband do you want to be? You didn't mention this, only external 'objec…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:42 AM
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Isn't I have a boyfriend a classic shit test a lot of the time?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 07:58 AM
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At best yeah pretty much. Women can get pretty brutal tho and know exactly where to stab and twist. Women aren't necessarily aware of it themselves but if they can bring you down then anyone can bring you down. If she does her best to fuck with your frame and it rolls off you then you're someone worthy. Never let your guard down.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 08:27 AM
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There's a lot of red flags here. Why are you married at 25 when you're not 100% what a shit test is. I hope you vetted this girl... https://web.archive.org/web/20111018201257/http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them Check out that link. The correct way to respond to shit tests is to treat them as seriously as they deserve. Which is not at all. Holding frame is good, amused mastery is better.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 05:22 AM
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I agree with this. If she's your girlfriend and she does that you gotta end the relationship. This kinda IDGAF response is fine for a plate but for a GF you should have boundaries.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:39 PM
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Not sure what you're looking for. If you don't want to wait then don't wait. Plenty of fish in the sea and all that. Some of the replies in your unpopular opinion post are hilarious. Seems like guys have resigned themselves to accepting this outcome no matter what and will hamster their justifications. Its ok to want sex and want a person who shares your values on sex...
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:39 PM
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Sounds like you lost frame so now she's throwing you some hard shit tests. If a girl said I'm oppressing her I'd laugh and say "I got some chains and shackles ready at home". Hold frame, amused mastery. Go read the sidebar son, this is some basic stuff and sounds like you're a long way off being able to hold frame in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:17 AM
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Focus on what you can control. The rest of the noise is a total waste of energy. A program to help non-majority people's find work is not you being discriminated against. I understand what you're saying. You are not able to access ALL the services you pay for, but it's nonsense. If anything you come across as entitled. It's like being mad because your taxes pay for free school meals but "I don't get free meals!". Have your own principles. Apply them in situations you encounter where you have con…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:11 AM
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Women are the byproduct of a good life not the goal. If you're prioritising yourself, improving and following your purpose women will naturally want to be part of your life. Your first goal is abundance. You need to spin a few plates just so you have the ability to say no and not put up with bullshit. I say this because it reads like you're still clinging onto your BP ideals. Is it possible? Yes. Is it a good idea? To the right person, of course. Should you be aiming for it? Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:51 AM
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There is no way for you to know if she is telling the truth. This is why we say pay attention to her actions not her words. There are other red flags, and you should have red flags of your own. Have your own standards for what you're willing and unwilling to accept. There's more to red flags than how many other people you think she's slept with. Other red flags would be lying/gas lighting, hanging out with other men alone, girls nights out or girl only holidays, how she is with money, how you se…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:44 AM
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Is it possible... Yes. AWALT is like a gun. You should always assume the gun is loaded. If I check a gun and make sure it's not loaded, and then I pass it to you, you should also make sure it's not loaded even tho you saw me do it already. Neither of us should ever point it at any body even when we both know it's not loaded. You're just safer assuming she's like that for other guys, and in the end you can never be certain anyway. Just gotta accept that.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:24 AM
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If she is meeting you and you're alone together that's definitely not low interest. You're a certain kind of special if you need that pointing out 😂. Get her back to yours as it's waaay easier than trying to shag in car.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:18 AM
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Always assume attraction. Never say no for her and never disqualify your self. You've leveled up. Enjoy your new found success and stop worrying.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:16 AM
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If you're going to ask people to read your whole post then at a minimum format it... If you have girls begging you to fuck them then fuck them. If word gets around this is an advantage. It's social proof for other girls, makes your intentions clear without you telling them straight up and you'll be surprised how little this puts women off. Women always want the guy everyone else wants. They want to know what's so special and what is she missing out on? If it puts someone off that's fine too. Mea…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:21 AM
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Cmon it's not rocket science. How will it make the girl feel? Will saying that make her feel sexy? She opens up about her sexual desires and is rejected, how she gonna feel??
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:10 PM
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You can turn around a bad impression as you say. Making girls mad then showing them love is a killer as they love the roller coaster, just watch Patrice O'Neil. But once she sees you as beta or weak it kills their emotions. You just won't ever win against someone she has never seen as a beta.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:10 PM
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You definitely fucked up. You asked her what she wanted and you flat out rejected her implying her pussy was nasty 😂. Course she is gonna feel like shit after that. Girls ain't gonna open up if you make them feel shame for their sexual desires, and honestly this is pretty normal to want.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:06 PM
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It just be like that. Emotions can change minute to minute and that's what you're seeing here. She loves her sister but they can piss each other off from time to time. I always feel closer to my sibling after we have an argument because we've got whatever we were holding onto out our system.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 01:33 PM
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Women want men that don't need them. If she says she wants someone else and you're still pursuing you are sending all the wrong messages. You're saying you don't have other options and that you're willing to put up with disrespect. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Repeat it with me, YOU ARE THE PRIZE. She earns you, you don't "win the mate". You have to go read the side bar son.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:49 PM
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Hard to advise as only you really know the full picture. Personally I would ignore her messages or calls. I don't care. I'm doing better and more important things with my time. Also known as hard next. Usually this is enough to kick their hamster 🐹 into high gear. "Why isn't he replying? Did I do something wrong? Is he mad?". Often you get more from these girls now than you ever did when you were a beta. It's important you don't get yourself reeled back in as an orbiter. When you see her in clas…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:17 AM
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Definitely need to read the sidebar. It's good you recognise you made a mistake but your understanding of the basics is missing. Women's currency is attention. Men's currency is sex. You gave up immense amounts of attention for free. All she had to do was message you and you were more than happy to give her exactly what she wanted. Gave her all the validation she wanted. More than likely there is another guy who is giving her tingles so she doesn't need you anymore. When other guy doesn't work o…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:14 AM
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Women will always shit test you. They know what to say to really stab and twist until they get a reaction out of you. As soon as you react, enter their frame, you've lost. A common piece of advice to treat women like your bratty sister when they shit test you. Which means you treat them like a child. You don't take anything they say seriously because she's a bratty kid. You literally have a bratty sister. Work on your frame, don't enter hers, don't take her seriously she is just a kid saying kid…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:09 AM
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Your title and post don't align. Like the other commentator said how does having a shower, wearing contacts and going for a walk lead to a divorce conversation. You very obviously want to divorce this person and made no secret of it to her. All this non-sense about "sparring partner" screams scarcity mindset, and seems like you tackled that by doing day game. If you want to stay in the marriage is something you should have figured out BEFORE getting married via vetting. I'm not sure you've even …
/r/askMRP16/05/21 08:04 AM
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Petty 100%. That you're asking if you passed the shit test shows you really don't understand shit tests. Unless you've had erection problems in the past I'd be pretty happy with that one as she's implying sex later. Tone and context matter tho. Agree and amplify to the point of absurdity. Harder than steel baby. Some shit like that.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:44 PM
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You're acting like beta Billy here. You dropped your GF because she told you to. It sounds like you've given this girl significant attention without ever escalating. Inviting her was a step in the right direction but her ASD kicked in because it's so obvious you're gonna fuck and you dropped the ball big time and lost your frame. Pay attention to what they do, not what they say. You did not friend zone this girl. She's playing you and when you hit a little ASD lost your frame. "I don't want that…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:52 AM
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Some chicks always gonna flake. If you're successful don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:30 AM
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Pay attention to their actions not what they say. They send nudes, you talk horny, they talk the talk then ghost. She sends an unsolicited nude and I'll point out she needs to clean her room. Every other fucker is going nanas for the tatas. Get that hamster 🐹 running "what's different about him?".
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:35 AM
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Neither ASD or LMR you are just proving to them you can be enticed and controlled with nudes. Some warming up is good but you should only really be texting for logistics not this other bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:09 AM
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This isn't a burned bridge. You're IDGAF and clearly communicating she crossed a line. Also known as NEXT. Forget burned bridges just NEXT these chicks. She will be back, and want you even more. Remember to pay attention to actions, not words.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:44 AM
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If she rejects the escalation stay at the level she is comfortable with and then try again after awhile. You should repeat this until she causes a hard stop. It's the emotion/energy you put out. You should withdraw attention. If she has put the brakes on hard, you say ok, and then do whatever the fuck you want. If I can't fuck I'm gonna go on my phone. Or watch TV. Have a good time just don't give her 100% of your attention anymore. There is nothing wrong with being interested in sex. She'll be …
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:42 PM
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Not sure why you're posting in the married TRP, you will get more appropriate responses in asktrp. RedRovers comment is bang on. That you are financially secure and single, most guys would kill for that, at 33 it's even better. If you focus on the bad that's what you'll see. Some men NEVER become TRP aware and you could have married that girl and be stuck with a kid. It can always be worse. When you talk to yourself you can do it in 2 ways, fight or flight "I'm such a fucking idiot for wasting m…
/r/askMRP02/04/21 10:30 AM
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Wrong mentality. Move onto the next girl. You should act like you're going to have sex. Escalate and if you hit LMR de-escalate, go back to the last base and stay there a little longer to build comfort and escalate again in awhile. If it's a clear no, you act like an amused master. Doesn't matter if she says no you get laid all the time. Drives girls crazy when you're nonchalant about it because it implies you're very high value. Often girls show IOIs or escalate again. If she says no and it's a…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:03 AM
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Personally I feel like setting boundaries using number of people slept with is stupid. There is absolutely no way to know if someone is telling the truth. It is impossible to know. Different strokes for different folks. I don't really care how many partners someone's had long as they're healthy. If I can't tell how many people someone's slept with, does it even really matter? If there's red flags or they cross boundaries you should drop them for the red flags and boundaries. Not because their nu…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:20 PM
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It's porn. It's better and more accessible than ever before. It's like that episode of Futurama where Fry gets a sex robot.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:22 AM
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You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. Alpha widow is a girl that has had at least 1 relationship with an alpha. That relationship was long enough for her to set some expectations of the man she thinks she deserves. She's a widow because she can never move past the ideal of that man. If anything they are to be avoided because they set unrealistic expectations and are very disloyal. They keep branch swinging till they find a man that meets their standards (whic…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:23 AM
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What is going on? You are living in your wife's frame. You simply do not have the right mindset. This is why all the comments are raging at you with OYS. You are other centric, even in your approach to redpill. It doesn't matter what she wants. What do you want? You really should have been asking yourself that before you got married and you definitely need to ask yourself that now. You create the world you want; you create your frame. She chooses if she'll be part of that or not. You want a maid…
/r/askMRP27/03/21 09:10 AM
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Two of my lifetime school friends are transitioning to women. We were always friends with groups of girls. Both of them like women. None of us fit the mould of men where we grew up. They both don't have a strong male role model in their lives. Both were predominantly raised by their Mothers. They both moved to the cities where they went to University and this was encouraged by University groups and peers. They went to different cities even. I respect it's their life and choice. I won't not be fr…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:35 AM
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Some shockingly unhelpful comments. Really you should find the someone who passes vetting first. If you're single you're not at a crossroads you're just open to the idea. You should really be thinking about what kind of woman you want to marry / be mother to your kids. First and foremost they should be behind you and your mission in life. That the only thing you've said is she could be a virgin seems like a gross misalignment of priorities (how would you even know she is telling the truth?).
/r/askMRP15/03/21 10:26 PM
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Twice a day is definitely too much. There are lots of different approaches. Total nofap I dislike personally. 2 weeks of non stop horny followed by flatline of any arousal for months. Reducing pornography consumption is a big deal. Jack off once a week to your imagination will prolly fix your ED too. Or just start with, y'know, once every three days. Not rocket science.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:17 PM
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Develop a meditation habit. Helps break negative thought patterns and is especially helpful for being able to perceive your own ego better.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:11 PM
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The devil is in the details brother. Women are creatures of emotion. They are almost psychic in the way they can pick up on and mirror your emotions. If you feel like conversations are boring, if you feel like you have nothing to say - then this is exactly what the woman feels. Meditation and NoFap are tools to balance your own emotions. But if there are other things in your life that are out of balance it's going to carry over into game. That's why redpills first mission is to work on yourself.…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:15 AM
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Good stuff brother. Let me know if it's not giving you the results you're after.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 08:22 AM
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Meditate and don't touch your pecker for 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:59 AM
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I took a look at his comment history and there's a baffling lack of self awareness. Honestly his take away point is we have all the tools we need to succeed but he's a fat fuck constantly getting banned?? He has a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/21 06:40 AM
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??? I haven't spent any money. "Absolutely no way anyone can improve or have a discussion about a toolbox that's less than 15 years old and anyone who tries is trying to take my money" - that's what you sound like.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 11:20 PM
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You wouldn't be where you are today without the posts of people having a crack at explaining the murky details of male dating strategy. I haven't parted with any money. You're the one with your panties in a twist?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 10:05 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. More accessible means more redpill!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 02:51 PM
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This is a great write up. Would love to see this archived or added to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 01:36 PM
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This girl sounds unstable. You should look at old posts about BPD.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:34 AM
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There is no fucking way people actually use hinge. You pay to send the best profiles messages. No one truly RedPill would pay to approach.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:58 PM
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Firstly I want to say no one here will truly understand the hell you've been through. There is no advice we can give here that will make it any better. You've been dealt an incredibly bad hand. Secondly I very strongly suggest you start meditating and make this part of your daily routine. It's a way to help better manage your anxiety and mental health issues. Thirdly I very strongly suggest you start exercising. Consistency here is most important. So start small, and keep building on it. Weights…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:50 PM
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This is a perfectly normal part of nofap called flatline. Can look it up. Your body knows you're not going to wank so you won't feel urges. This can be pretty concerning so I can understand why you feel like your junk won't work. Remember you are just an animal. Having sex is part of our nature. When hottie touches your dick or gets naked you'll be just fine. If you stress about it you might make it worse so try to carry on the same confidence that got you here in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:39 AM
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I should have escalated a lot more. There's so many times I look back now and women were giving me chances to sleep with them over and over and I was just too dumb to realise. I wish I knew it's ok to say nothing sometimes when I was younger. I wanted women to understand how I felt so I told them. Fucking stupid. Saying nothing at all tells them everything they need to know without losing attraction.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 04:18 PM
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In a thought loop and want to be present? Meditate. Download HeadSpace and do the basics course if you've never done it before. If you persevere and make it a habit I guarantee you'll overcome your bad thought loops. Meditations goal is to be mindful in the moment. Exactly what you're describing. Let me know if you need any help.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:54 AM
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No worries brother. I'm lol'ing at the gay blue pilled mind. You are biologically programmed to instinctively protect and look after women like that. It's the same instinct women feel to serve and obey a man. This is why the feminists are so loud. This is their natural impulse. It's a hard impulse to fight, and why the highs are God damned electric.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:29 PM
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It's a rollercoaster. The ups are a fucking blast but the downs... Oh the downs... Men have betas. Women have BPD, and they can be really good at hiding it. It's a good thing you realise now and not after having a baby or getting married. Up to you what you want to do brother but tread carefully BPD girls are the ones that key your car.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:32 PM
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Sounds like all you know is Dark Triad. You're manipulating her to be your perfect pet. Tantrums sounds like BPD, aka women you don't stick your dick in. You vet for red flags before LTR. Does her reality change with her moods? When she feels disappointment does her world fall apart? Does she need to be included in all aspects of your life? Does she fear abandonment? Read this and see if you spot any similarities. Don't believe a woman's reported N count. They will tell you what you want to hear…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:20 AM
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Women never know what they want.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:50 AM
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Looking at some of your other posts he is what you're after. He has a beginner's series where he goes through the fundamentals. Explains why etc.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:44 AM
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Exactly, it's their programming. If she's telling you these stories she's testing you / playing games. Treat them like games. She'll say what she really thinks with her actions. Good luck my friend and remember women don't even know what they want and can totally ignore logic in favour of their feelings.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:29 AM
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I wouldn't sweat what you said. How you said it is what matters. It sounds good but it sounds like you do feel some sting of insecurity which means you're not completely in the right head space. It's natural tho. She did not snitch on her self. Whether she knows it or not she told you to gauge your reaction. The medium IS the message. If a woman wants to cheat she will do it. Nothing you can do will stop it or guarantee you'll even know. Watch this it's a clip from Mad Men. Megan is trying to ge…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:05 AM
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Women will tell you stories like these. They're like insecurity shit tests. You shouldn't give a fuck, and agree and amplify. "Take my car keys and go chase that guy!" while IDGAF and I can go back to spinning plates. If a woman wants to branch swing to another guy she'll do it. You can't change her mind so don't even try. This is why outcome independence, having multiple options, and prioritising yourself are so important. You are the prize. This is your attitude when she's trying to make you j…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:18 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you've gone through hardship. I can understand why you feel hopeless. Everybody has felt like this at one time or another in their lives; it's natural. What is it you want to do? I have two quotes that help me when I feel like this: Stick with the situation at hand, and ask, ‘Why is this so unbearable? Why can’t I endure it?’ You’ll be embarrassed to answer.” Anything outside of this moment... Is imagination. Anxiety of failure and hopelessness is normal. The only thing you tru…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:33 AM
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You can pursue anything you want in life. The decision is yours. The only cost is you must accept that it might not go as well as you planned. If you don't pursue anything you'll stay right where you are. Now that is a sad bastard. Yes you'll fall off the wagon and lose sight of your goals. Life is a continuous journey of rediscovery. You'll excel, you'll forget, you'll fail. The most important thing is to try again.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:46 PM
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Wow there really are some terrible comments here. First up, I think we can all understand how you feel. It's a natural part of 'swallowing the pill'. At 16 you should be out there enjoying life and making mistakes. It's good that you've learnt some hard truths early. Some guys get divorced and still don't grasp this shit. If no one makes you feel love then that's just how it is. Keep prioritising yourself but give yourself a bit of freedom to make and learn from your own mistakes. Some day you'l…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 01:43 PM
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I'd watch it if it were shorter.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 08:52 AM
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How you see the problem is the problem. How do you look at these things and go "I have to have a good life before they arrive", you should be having a good life anyway. Even when they arrive they will become part of a normal life. I have no idea how far away they are. In my lifetime I've certainly seen these things on the rise. I work in technology and I can't overstate how much other change is going on that will dramatically affect the world. This year with COVID has advanced remote working (te…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:37 AM
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Brilliant comment.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:23 AM
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Let me introduce you to AWALT my friend. It means All Women Are Like That. If I have a gun, I would make sure the safety is on and it's not loaded. If I gave you the gun, even tho you've just seen me do it you'd also check the safety is on and make sure it's not loaded. Neither of us would point it at a person even when I KNOW it's not loaded and the safety is on. This is because the worst case scenario isn't worth taking any risk. This is AWALT. If she says 9 people, that's you taking somebody …
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:13 AM
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There's a couple ground rules. Never tell a woman you're not seeing anyone else. As a man you can never be the one to escalate the relationship status. Never tell a woman your sexual or relationship past. Mystery is catnip to women and you must do all you can to preserve it. The truth is she's already lies to you once about where she was. She told you assignment and really it was a date. She says she wasn't interested but she's already demonstrated she isn't trust worthy and she doesn't think sh…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:35 AM
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I tried a number of different things but feel like fucking around trying to prevent my hair loss only accelerated it. There comes a point where you must accept your situation. Shave your head. I remember looking in the mirror before going out and realising I never have to worry about my hairstyle ever again. Depending how bad your hair loss is shaved head looks better than baby's bottom smooth bald. The less pronounced the hair loss the longer you can let it grow out before shaving again.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:14 AM
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I actually believe in God. Paradise Lost is about losing your religion from the perspective of Lucifer. God is a transcendent authority. All the angels believe by following God, to live in service to him is "truth", that there can be nothing else. It is their purpose. Lucifer says, if all we've ever known is God and devoting ourselves in service to him, how do we know he's right? He makes some good points. So he gets the angels to rebel. By rejecting God, rejecting the truth is the best way to l…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 09:41 AM
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I would say there's a difference between belief in God and being religious. I am not religious but after TRP I believe in God more than ever. God for me is truth and purpose. That if you aim for something higher, that you live you life in service to yourself and others brings meaning and joy. Really this is what redpill asks of men. To invest in themselves, to commit to the higher purposes of fixing your problems be it losing weight, working out, or being confident having solid frame. Coming to …
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:46 AM
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What plans did you make Monday? Did you say a time and a place? If not the mistake is yours. No definitely don't overtly tell her it bothered you. It's no big deal to you because you get bitches all the time. If you did say a time and a place and she flaked you should ghost her.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:29 AM
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Fighting is not the answer. You must be able to fight, but it is not the answer. Like a woman is capable of Hypergamy, Men are capable of escalating any situation to violence. In those situations you must be able to defend yourself. You know when you need to defend yourself if you're able to fight. Be responsible. Responsible is to be Response-Able. You can choose your response to these situations. If your girl started snogging a guy, you ghost the bitch. She is dead to you, you do not need her.…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:24 PM
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Redpill is not dominating others fool. Its about opening your eyes and bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:10 PM
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This. All the other advice in this thread is shit. Fighting over him doing dumb shit == you've lost your frame.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:04 PM
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It's down to whether you can get him to read anything else. If somebody has chosen to read something IMO that should be encouraged. It's much easier to convince someone who just read a book to read another than to say to someone who doesn't normally read "your choice is lame". I was not impressed with the book. It's catchy and easy to read but it's take away points get worn out very early into it. Better alternatives. No More Mr Nice Guy or Rational Male would be my picks.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:42 AM
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Sit down and take a moment. Think about your anxiety. Try and look for it in your body. See if you can find it. Can you find it in your chest, or your head? The answer is you can't find it. Anxiety doesn't live in any part of you. So if it doesn't exist within my body why can't I just get rid of it? The answer again is you can, it's not easy but there's nothing stopping you. In a nutshell this is anxiety and ego. Ego is your self identity, your state of mind or your 'values' but they are only as…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:55 AM
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You're always better off making her escalate the relationship status. At a certain point if she really likes you she'll ask to make it official.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:25 PM
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Do what you feel is right. Just remember to follow your purpose and don't get caught up in her frame. If it all blows up come back here to figure it out.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:51 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to be redpilled? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:48 PM
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I've had it fade over less. Best of luck brother.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:33 PM
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Honestly you failed multiple shit tests. If you are defending yourself, you are in her frame. You walked right into her frame and now she will very likely lose attraction and respect for you.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:08 PM
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AWALT is the same as "Treat all guns like they are loaded" I can have a gun, check safety is on, verify it's not loaded and pass it to you, you should also check safety is on and verify it's not loaded and you STILL shouldn't point that shit at a person. Same for AWALT. None of this "brutally focusing on yourself" stuff. Just understand that any woman at any time can branch swing or cheat. Personally I don't care about a girl's sexual history. They'll never tell you the truth anyway. It's up to …
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:17 PM
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It's a way of filtering for women who will work for your attention. If you have very high SMV and come across as high value it'll work. It is a risk tho. You can lose out on options.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:52 AM
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I don't understand why you sabotaged him when you admit you're not interested in the girl. You seem to think you were disrespected but you call this girl a slut. What do you think she's doing when you're not around? This is some dramatic mate guarding.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:45 AM
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Change jobs. Seriously. This is very obviously consuming you. The amount you think about this woman and her actions is grossly disproportionate to her actual importance in your life. You cannot change this woman. You cannot control this woman. You cannot change the things she has said or done. You must accept the situation you're in. What you can control is your response. Responsibility comes from RESPONSE-ABLE. So choose your response. Are you going to be the person to get dragged down and into…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:07 PM
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Did you edit your original post? Could have sworn is mentioned livestream and texting... The medium is the message. If you are being overtly sexual and girls are exiting then you're doing something wrong. It's good to show intent but you have to recognise green lights she's going to give you for you to proceed. Your first few hurdles are 1. Vibing, 2. Get her number, 3. Get a date, 4. Isolate then escalate physically. Personally, I wouldn't say any of the lines you did they come across mega thir…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:55 AM
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This should be obvious but you can't 'escalate sexually' over text, video chat or phone call. Whatever you've read for escalation is meant for IN PERSON. Somebody like yourself should only text for logistics save the escalations for meetups. Right now you're communicating to these girls you have no options and you're thirsty AF. What you want to do at this stage is SHOW INTENT which you do COVERTLY not OVERTLY as you are. A covert way to show intent is to invite her out for a drink / coffee.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:21 AM
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AWALT is the same as "Treat all guns like they are loaded" I can have a gun, check safety is on, verify it's not loaded and pass it to you, you should also check safety is on and verify it's not loaded and you STILL shouldn't point that shit at a person. Same for AWALT. Women can behave exactly like your dream unicorn would with seemingly no red flags at all. Even so you should never assume she isn't hypergamous.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:13 AM
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Absolutely never make them guess, and definitely never say a number! Ideally you don't answer it. You can ignore the question entirely, by either not responding or changing topics. Requires solid frame control. Or you could A&A, answer her like you would a bratty little sister "Oh I lost count at a million" "No one I'm a virgin" delivered like it amuses you Your goal is to give her no data to anchor the estimate. She will always assume it's more than what it really is "why else wouldn't he tell …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:56 PM
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There's a significant amount of frameworks and tools, and the context of what you're selling and who to matters. Your question is best answered by Sales courses or learning resources. If you want a quick example can look at MEDDPIC but really depends on context.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:47 PM
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It's part of a sales tool kit, you're right there. Keep in mind that there are many other tools in the tool kit. Trump is a good example of a business person that heavily uses dominant frame control in business.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:47 PM
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I would say so. Women very quickly connect the dots and your actions speak louder than any words will. Apply common sense though. It can be easy to confuse this and a comfort test.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:44 PM
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A very fair point. I define optimal as "maximising number of potential partners". If you define optimal as "partner/plate clearly understands boundaries in black and white". There's nothing wrong with this, some women will like that. In my opinion, only the ones who communicate OVERTLY themselves will appreciate it. Again nothing wrong with this if you only want women who communicate like men. I would simply recommend doing it in a COVERT style because it's generally more effective with a broade…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:42 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #2 "NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you've slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover." Women communicate COVERTLY; Men communicate OVERTLY. You are OVERTLY communicating you have little experience. Remember mystery == attraction. Think about it another way. What are you even gaining by telling them this?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 07:50 AM
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Women communicate COVERTLY; Men communicate OVERTLY. If you're honest and direct you're OVERTLY communicating. In women world you're now losing, and likely to lose attraction. There's women that will be ok with that, but be aware its not optimal. An example of COVERTLY communicating this is by ignoring it.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:46 PM
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Like the others have said it's a shit test. If your reaction is anything less than "soft as silk baby" then you've failed. Believe in yourself and don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:38 PM
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I understand the question but I think it's the wrong question. This sounds like Fear Of Missing Out. Really you should be asking yourself "What do I want?". If you want to socialise more you gotta use your brain. Join any club (maybe virtually), ask your friends what they're doing and say YES when people invite you to things. My advice is concentrate on getting the highest grade you can and getting an internship/placement/entry level job in the field you're interested in. Live your best life man…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 11:38 AM
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You've described the purpose of meditation. To be mindful. A regular meditation practice will enable you to be mindful and avoid undesirable thought patterns. Don't take my word for it, download Headspace and do the free 10 minute session. Then see if you feel closer to your goal. I meditate 30 minutes everyday and have been for around a year now. To me it's a blessing and what I find the most helpful for what you're after.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:03 PM
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I'm sure it's happened to all of us before. Abundance is the crux of outcome independence so it sounds like you're on track. Don't beat yourself up and learn from it. ​ Remind yourself in the moment "I'm here to have fun" and when it feels like the juice ain't worth the squeeze withdraw attention. Shit doesn't phase you because you got options.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 02:50 PM
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I don't think this is a problem with LMR. I think this is a problem with outcome independence. If she is a boring or annoying girl it shouldn't affect you. You have your own frame where you choose to have a good time, and pursue the activities and conversations that are fun for you. If it's impossible to have a good time with this girl you should have ended the date. Women can sense your emotions. If you're not having a good time and hanging on for the chance of sex you're not in control of your…
/r/askTRP04/10/20 08:44 AM
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When giving feedback to colleagues if you want it to land you need to follow a framework. I use Situation, Behaviour, Impact. Your goal is to stick to the facts and not give any room for misinterpretation. Situation Describe the scenario that requires an action. E.g. when you need to give a presentation Behaviour Describe the behaviour that leads us to a problem. E.g. if you do not rehearse your presentation Impact What's the true result of the behaviour? Must no go outside of the situation you …
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:06 AM
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A lot better than my impression TBH.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 04:34 PM
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I think you need to read the side bar. There's so many things wrong with this post. If you want to sleep with her you should only be discussing logistics with her. It sounds like you're still a simp and giving this girl a lot of attention for nothing. Other guys wanting to fuck is a shit test. Which you likely failed given you're already being a beta. There is no way you should entertain going on holiday with this girl that should be very obvious. That is her frame. I can't see your frame anywhe…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:49 PM
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Focus on what is within your control. Accept that you alone cannot turn the tide for the ideas you are opposed to. Decide what's worth your energy too. Are these ideas circulating school, friends, work? Juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:43 AM
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You've made up your mind then. What are you waiting for? Encouragement? Your decision; your responsibility. You should cut contact with her after breaking up. There is 0 possibility she will become someone you want to stay with. She has already had years to do this. Nor should this be an idea you entertain. The medium is the message. No contact and let both of you move on.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:27 AM
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You sound like you want permission from strangers on the internet. Your post reads like you've already made your mind up. If you think you can do better out your money where your mouth is. Leave her and go do better. Is it easy to walk away from a 4 year relationship? Nope. Nor should it be. Will you regret it? Maybe. That's on you to live with. Stop wasting this girls time if you think you can do better. If you're afraid you can't then you're not red pill and that's scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:42 PM
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I cheated on her repeatedly. Really what I wanted was to spin plates but I thought that I had to be in a relationship to get what I wanted. Scarcity mindset really. To be honest I didn't even realise spinning plates was an option. I was such a fucking hypocrite and so out of touch with my own true nature before RedPill. I am so much more upfront and honest with women now.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:22 PM
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It would be useful to know what your goals are. But books I can always recommend are: 7 Habits for Highly Effective People Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Atomic Habits
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:04 AM
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Journaling is great. Write down your goals, progress you make towards your goal, and 5 things you're grateful for everyday. I can't recommend meditation enough. The tranquility it brings is life changing, even just 10 mins everyday is enough. I'm a fan of Keep It Simple Stupid. Will Smith said there is no problem you can't overcome by running and reading. If you're interested in reading I suggest Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, 7 Habits for Highly Effective People and Atomic Habits.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:53 AM
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