jem1173 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Billy's Guide to Neg Hits Good lord this is stupid. I can see through a neg a mile away and all it does is tell me the person is insecure, manipulative and rude. Like most women, I want someone who treats me well and make me laugh. Negging is not the way to demonstrate either of those qualities. To prove you’re an equal, demonstrate that you’re a man who’s aware and “gets it.” Don’t take a “jab” at her—engage her in people watching and speculating about those around you. The perfect example is the movie Gone Girl where B…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 10:52 PM
69	Men use the evolutionary psychology argument as a tool to prevent societal change There’s new evidence that shows between 30-50% of prehistoric hunters WERE WOMEN. And you don’t see us behaving badly. So all that evolutionary garbage they spew is just that—utter nonsense + trash. ETA: link for the National Geographic article talking about this - https://www.google.com/amp/s/api.nationalgeographic.com/distribution/public/amp/science/article/prehistoric-female-hunter-discovery-upends-gender-role-assumptions ETA2: no joke, some lurker messaged me a death threat for posting this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 08:57 PM
34	Another scrote exploiting a teenager. So sickening. What makes it so shitty is that her wants and needs are nowhere in there. No one is telling this man anything like this, not even close. Could not be more tired of it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 01:06 AM
3	Psychologist Scrote She ages, gains weight, maybe loses interest in sex. ... and her husband is what, the same age and pant size as their wedding day?? This is absolutely unbelievable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/21 05:43 AM
12	PSA to the kinky pick-mes. It disgusts me when your partner asks/expects you to do something painful and humiliating... but if you asked them to try the exact same thing their eyes would bug out of their head. I’ve yet to meet a man who doesn’t shudder at the thought of experiencing pain during sex themselves but won’t hesitate to ask for their fave porn sex act.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 03:26 AM
101	A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments) That’s what happens when society coddles and caters to you at every turn. You become entitled and don’t know how to deal when things don’t go your way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 01:21 AM
1	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. There’s a big difference between being kind and having poor boundaries. Being kind also means being kind to yourself first and not allowing others to take advantage of you. It’s not unkind to say no when appropriate and maintain respectable boundaries, especially if you’re polite but firm when enforcing them. Being kind is about being polite, respectful to all and not just those who can do something for you, being helpful when you can and mindful of others feelings in the way you act and speak. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 04:33 PM
2	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. But that’s what I’m trying to say. Even if you did what it is y’all are suggesting, most marriages aren’t happy and don’t work anyway. Back in the day, til death do us part meant until 35 years old or so. Now it means 70s-80s. A marriage working out for that long, given how much people change as they age and grow, is pretty rare. I’m just not convinced that following the models presented here will end up in a happier marriage long-term. Too many variables, IMO. So for women, I’m not convinced it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 04:07 PM
1	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. You’re right being “nice” doesn’t work. The men who actually get somewhere are those that are kind. You see, most of these self-proclaimed “nice guys” aren’t actually all that nice. And you see it in how hatefully they respond when turned down. They put it on a “nice” act to hook women, but they’re often not actually great people underneath. They’re often dismissive and disrespectful to women they aren’t sexually interested in. Truly kind men are different. They’re kind, period. And they don’t c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:47 AM
1	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. Half of marriages end in divorce. That’s the reality so frequently ignored in this sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:32 AM
0	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:30 AM
2	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. Agreed. This subreddit is clearly not for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:27 AM
2	“Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases. By their mid to late thirties, lots of eligible men are newly divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 06:25 AM
–	What’s more difficult? A man becoming “high value” or a woman becoming “high value” A woman capable of climbing the ladder to that degree will have frozen her eggs. There are many ways to maintain fertility, if you’re smart enough to plan ahead and can afford it. Not to mention, you’ve said high value men don’t care about education and intelligence. Just femininity and fertility. Well, if you really want your children to turn out well, you’d be wise to choose a smart, successful partner. Doesn’t matter how nurturing your wife is if she’s pretty (but not intelligent) and passes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/21 04:39 AM
1	Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked? For me, it’s how unbalanced it is. Like you said, the assumption is that women will be submissive, period. I wouldn’t be for the violence even if it was 50/50 women being sexually dominant. But HOW can you make any argument that it’s healthy when it is women, and only women, that are expected to endure pain and be denied pleasure? It’s so obvious yet no one talks about it, I feel like that kid in The Emperor’s New Clothes with anyone not into FDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/21 01:40 AM
71	This man got up & left the date as soon as the bill came... and she still decided to be his girlfriend after that She said in a later TikTok she’d just gotten out of a gaslighting, manipulative relationship when they had their date so... the bar was likely pretty low. Sad really 😔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 10:25 PM
9	Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked? Thank GOD. Such a relief these ideas are being discussed mainstream. The pendulum is finally swinging the other way and hopefully, we land in a healthy, middle ground.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 09:25 PM
18	Gaslighting me by telling me not being comfortable with sex talk with a stranger is “unhealthy” 🤢 Analysis in the comments Couldn’t have said it better. Trust and intimacy is absolutely earned. It’s just called having boundaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 08:47 PM
74	Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex? Because porn has trained them to think that sex is something you do to, not with, women. Because the women in porn never look like they enjoy it, so they think that’s normal. This is why I don’t do anything in the bedroom my partner won’t do first. And even then, that’s not a guarantee I’m doing it. But to even have the right to ask, he better have tried it himself already. An ex partner actually asked to throat f**k me. And I said sure, as long as I get to buy a strap on and do it to you for ro…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 06:15 PM
21	Just saw this on Tiktok and SO MANY GIRLS IN THE COMMENTS ARE AGREEING IM SO HAPPY!! The message is finally spreading. 🥳🥳🥳 The difference between an LVM and HVM: Few months ago, (33M) LVM takes me to the park and brings wine. First date, casual drinks, no problem. Well, he tried to get sexual right away, offering a massage at his place (wink, wink). He walked me home later, then got annoyed I didn’t invite him up. Second date, he proposes Netflix and chill with heavy sexual innuendo. I declined, saying I’d prefer a date out and about. His response? To grumble that “Nothing is good enough for me” as if I’m horrible f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 05:11 AM
5	Big thanks to this sub, and the issue with other dating subs Yeah, a day a study that for men, “bad sex” is when they don’t orgasm. For women, “good sex” is when it doesn’t hurt. When I think about that it makes me absolutely HATE IT here. (Our society, not this sub)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 06:38 PM
115	"A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex" Let’s break this down real quick. He says, “it’s arrogant and egotistical to think that your sex is so valuable that you think he’s just going to wait around and beg for it.” Here’s what he’s missing: it’s not my sex that’s “so valuable” it’s me. Yes, me. A human being. I have value. And yes, an HVM will wait if there’s a connection. You don’t find that every day and he knows that. He won’t be “waiting around and begging” for sex as if he’s some empty-brained fool with nothing better to think ab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 02:20 AM
4	Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting. As a parentified child, this is such a fear of mine. I tell my therapist all the time that all I want is a true partner: someone capable who doesn’t have to be told to help, that I can trust to execute said tasks well. If he says he’s got it, I know he’s got it and I don’t have to worry. The sad thing is, I’m honestly doubting I’ll find that, some days. You won’t catch me settling! But it’s sad women are expected to do so much and men so little that this is my worry in 2021.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 08:50 AM
59	How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw? Thank you for saying this. All of your points are right on, but for me the sexual one is really hitting close to home. I’m the equal of every man I meet in and out of the bedroom. I will not being humiliated, degraded, choked, slapped, none of it. And the number of men who “surprise” choke you during a makeout on date 2 is wild. They aren’t even asking permission anymore. And if I put my foot down, then I get shamed for being “boring”. When you KNOW that if society decided men had to get pegged …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 04:51 AM
36	Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results. A bunch of the women I matched with were wannabe influencers who tried to get me to add them on IG then ghosted	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 04:31 AM
5	Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it! One dinner honestly isn’t that expensive. And if it is for him, sounds like an LVM to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 02:09 AM
28	Why women keep "losing". Talk about verbal and emotional abuse, and what it looks like. Most schools only cover physical. Talk a lot about what she does and does not deserve in a relationship, what red flags are and looks like. Build up her self-esteem. Let her know that there are plenty of fish in the sea if she’s being treated poorly. Praise her often for being strong and decisive when she shows that behavior. Let her know it’s ok to be strong and decisive! Addition to this (edit here) talk about boundaries and standa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 02:19 PM
1	Aloofness is not a punishment. It’s very interesting that I, a woman, have given you my perspective on what women want and you, a man, think you know better. And your comments about women are hateful. The fact that you call your hate “realistic” makes it even more clear that you have an extremely low opinion of the entire gender. Very, very troubling. I’m suddenly not surprised you’re having the issues you’re having. Best of luck.	/r/seduction	18/12/20 12:10 AM
2	Aloofness is not a punishment. Sure, some. Of course there are shitty folks out there, men and women who’d do that. But it’s not MOST women and certainly not ALL women and that’s where I find this troubling.	/r/seduction	12/12/20 03:04 PM
3	Aloofness is not a punishment. I strongly disagree. Most women are like most men – decent folks who aren’t perfect, but wake up every day and try their best. Sure, some women are shitty. But some men are shitty too. The fact that you’re making these generalizations about women and seem to have a lot of anger towards them is very troubling. Moving on: the bedroom being dead usually isn’t the woman OR the man’s fault. It’s simply due to the fact that life is hard. Working full-time while raising kids and managing your household…	/r/seduction	11/12/20 06:03 PM
1	The Truth About Depression & Negative Momentum States I’d recommend therapy. It’s funny the proven solution is the one y’all avoid. And then wonder why men’s suicide rates are so high. Sometimes it’s not all about gratitude and a shower, coming from someone who successfully manages clinical depression. I’ll add, sleep, exercise, and a healthy diet are all key factors in managing your mood BUT I’d put therapy at 50% of the solution. It helps you see big picture patterns of behavior that are holding you back, that you didn’t even realize you were doi…	/r/seduction	11/12/20 08:05 AM
9	Aloofness is not a punishment. As a woman, no no no NO no. This is all wrong. There is no such thing as ugly male emotions. Obviously both sexes don’t want someone dramatic. But showing a healthy amount of emotion when it’s appropriate and feels right is just fine. If you’re married and the bedroom is dead, paying LESS attention to your wife is the worst thing you can do. The best thing, actually, is to plan a hot date. Send the kids to the grandparents for the night. Get things in a sexy mind space. Creating even more distan…	/r/seduction	11/12/20 08:03 AM
2	Instagram I’m just going to be honest... she’s not playing games with you. She probably has a boyfriend or you’re just not her type. Her changing the profile pic probably had nothing to do with you. You’re assuming it did with zero proof. When I change my profile pic, I usually try a few out to see which I like best. I’m not doing it to get anyone’s attention. And most people are on IG a lot, even if they aren’t big posters. Especially now with COVID. She probably got the notification, saw the message, an…	/r/seduction	11/12/20 07:53 AM