jeniiiiiblue Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Lack of support from family and friends	RANT	jeniiiiiblue	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 03:00 AM
1	Tabitha brown	DISCUSSION	jeniiiiiblue	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/21 01:22 AM
1	children and family	How-To High Value	jeniiiiiblue	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 04:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	We don’t want love as much as we think we do My friend a couple year ago called me my love and I have never felt more loved then by her . We’re not attracted sexually at all to eachother or feel anthing other than great love of friendship .she validates me loves me and always makes me feel special. I almost pushed her away when I got into a relationship but now I’m out of it and can truly say she’s is one of my true life loves . Love her so much	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 01:05 AM
32	Reality is often disappointing... Yes i hear you I’m like that to although i love my career a main goal was to find a hvm man and marry not because I was told to but because having a relationship with a hvm is something I desired . I’ve had 2 relationship in my life and they have sucked but I have learned so much from them moving forward although I still have this dream and desire for that part of my life I also am realistic now and am okay with the idea that I may never have that if its not with a hvm .i do get sad sometimes be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 02:03 AM
15	Family court is biased against mothers, not fathers. TRIGGER WARNING, pedophilia and domestic violence Thank you for this my ex raped me post partum ans when I left him months later he served me with court custody papers . I was told what happened to me would not matter in a court of custody by a victims advocate and that a court would not entertain my future fears of potential abuse of my daughter because nothing has happened yet This post gave me the courage to text my lawyer And tell her about the rape and tell her my concerns and for her to help me fight for sole custody . Thank you OP	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 02:38 AM
11	Are you doing the Pickme Backslide? Yes u hit me right in the head . I saw my ex 2 weeks ago while I was driving and my jaw dropped . When we broke up ( well him telling me he was going to say yes to fuck Other people avd not commit after he strung me along and lied about who he was to date me !)he was living in another her state . When we started dating we were in the sane state he moved and I know he has parents who live in the sane city but forgot exactly where . Well 4 years later I went down a street I’ve been down plenty of …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 05:08 AM
4	Remember ladies - if he doesn’t respond to your text within a reasonable amount of time he’s not excited about you. This is so true I’m going through a hard time in life and I recently saw my first ex boyfriend who I always had feeling for but he wasn’t open to commitment when I meet and instead of being strung along I made an exit . He would never text consistently and it would cause me so much anxiety. In return I would do it back but found myself feeling dumb for engaging with someone who I had to wait to text to show him a lesson. Apart of me also feels like he did it as a form of control and punishment c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 06:06 AM
3	Ladies, what are your physical preferences? Love this post ! Above 6 feet Fit Nice jawline Full hair Vein on arms , a lot 😂 Good girth 8 inches or more Deep voice Noticeable Adam’s apple Freckles Nice teeth Smells good No hair on chest but u do like pubic hair gives me man vibes don’t like the porn shave look	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/21 12:36 AM
16	Ladies, what are your physical preferences? I love the v gets me weak 😂😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/21 12:32 AM
11	Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assault Same . But he was always pushy but said whatever i wanted to hear . I have a history of child SA and while we were togther he would touch my vagina felt him once while I woke and put his finger in my butt . I would wake up and it would feel raw . He would give me butt rubs to help me sleep then would take advantage of me knowing my history I caught him 2x and the first time told him not to do it again and how I would wake up terrified and frozen . woke up again to him rubbing me and my but was s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 01:37 AM
77	"I want to leave, but we have kids." Thank you for this post I left my child’s father 3 months ago as and the only strength I had at thst point was her . I did it for her . There are many times where I question if what I did was for the best the this post helps . I hope one day she will understand why I made the decision and always remember to never let anyone take advantage of you no matter how tough of a situation you in always choose you .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 01:27 AM
10	Opinions on surrogacy? Well said 🙌🏾🙌🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 05:22 AM
5	The Road to Recovery from the book Women who love too much. I don’t think women love to much for a successful relationship to work there need to be a willingness to love And some vulnerability I think the problem is boundaries and when people show us who they are we don’t believe them . When they have shortcoming we think we can change them or we are willing to wait when we should just accept that’s who they are And leave . The idea of women who love too much doesn’t sit well with me it gives off the idea of some powerlessness or the inability to have bo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 02:16 AM
17	Stop worrying about 🍆, invest in yourself and the sisterhood. The Queendom will follow, sis 👸🏻 I know but it’s not the same as human intimacy during sex . But I’d rather have no sex then with a lvm that just causes more stress in life .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 01:52 AM
22	Sexual coercion that I didn’t even recognize. I hear you . I would go over to my ex house when we were together Abd he lived with his mom . He would have to leave the door cracked open based on his moms rule ( that was a red flag I didn’t see !) Abd he would always try to have sex and when I didn’t want to he would get mad . Manipulating and coercion. Now I can see but any man who doesn’t respect boundaries is a no .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 02:55 AM
5	Can we please stop praising fathers just for "trying" I let my child’s father know he does bare minimum all the time . He watches her , pays for anything she need Abd half of my mortgage ( I do parttime so I can spend time with her ) And that’s bare minimum I do the same he does plus more because I’m primary caregiver . So no u get no praise for doing what u need to do . Mind u I left this man cause he cheated twice and let him know off the bat I’m keeping my daughter period and I make the decisions if u don’t like it serve me papers he has yet too…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/21 12:37 AM
59	Do men use filters on their faces for their pictures on OLD apps?? I would just recommend getting off of tinder I don’t think ur chances of finding a decent HV person in general are high. As tempting as it is the site is a set up for failure for women . I recommend joining clubs , volunteering , things of that nature as spots . Just want to save u time and heartbreak	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 05:20 AM
40	What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you? My acné , i had a huge flair up months after I gave birth worst in my life I would cry sometimes . We weren’t on good terms one day and I was looking at him angry while at the park and he said idk why ur looking at me like that when u have that alluding to the pimple . I said I know I have a pimple and played it off as I didn’t care but it crushed my self esteem at the time . I told him weeks later to “ communicate” that it was very hurtful and he admitted he was trying to hurt my feeling . And …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:07 AM
5	STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MEN Okay I never like to attack women but this lady is a coward Avd shouldn’t have a baby , like someone take this baby. 5 times!! And she only 9 months ! Avd she keeps letting him watch her .And she is concerned about how to approach him! What world we live in . When it comes to kids u need to step the fuck up . What Bs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 03:00 AM
19	He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡 99.9 percent of all these types of post are due to women not valuing themselves or thinking they can have and ask for what they want . Ladies really invest time in loving urself before u get into relationships. Therefore you will be ready to walk away at the first sign of disrespect. Coming from someone who didn’t And has suffered greatly because of it .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 02:48 AM
54	Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HV Women need to stop being scared of the materialistic label . I did that my early 20s and ended up dating broke dusties . I’m 26 now and never again . Who cares if u want a 3000 purse Avd he can afford it he should get it for u . What does he offer to the table . No way in hell you should be with Someone if there not improving ur life in all aspects . It just tires me when they are scared to be labeled gold digger or materialistic as if men bring something to the table . And the age gape it’s def…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 08:08 PM
66	Ethan Klein: when men like this are considered good husbands Exactly when I heard him say he watches porn I was over their relationship that is a mess and sad because his wife is beautiful and successful but it’s clear to see she has low self esteem .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 04:39 PM
3	If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills. Child support point Blank	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 05:52 PM
9	Something about this is utterly horrifying to me Exactly I can’t get over this part who cares about them they are adults these children need new place by ASAP !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 01:33 AM
25	Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens? I did but I decided to go I wasn’t asked and I could tell he wasn’t happy when I got the ticket but I kept giving him excuses of being busy and stressed. I paid for the ticket like a clown . And I bought us food like a clown 🤡 when I needed contact solution he didn’t even offer to buy it but the next day bought something for the bathroom so he had money . Almost no food in the fridge I was there for 3 days so I pretty much ate half a meal a day . When I was hungry the two times I bought us pizza…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 05:04 AM
43	The bottom line: allowing men of any skin color to shit on your sisters? Its bullshit. Tone deaf , I’m assuming a poc did not make this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 05:48 PM
3	This is another level of depravity... That’s very insensitive because that’s what u want to do doesn’t mean that what she wants to do and if they are married he has a commitment to her .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 05:12 PM
2	As a woman whose never given birth I agree it’s so sad to see post about it or women talk about that . I almost died after giving birth and my daughter just turned one recently . I still have weight to lose before I reach my pregnancy weight but I’m not hard on myself and Also I want to do it for me to feel comfortable in my own skin . He has been very supportive and loves me body probably more now cause of the extra chunk 😂. But never has he ever said anything to put me down ans he respects and understand to the extent he can wh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 03:49 AM
5	Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄 Wow my heart goes out to her what a piece of shit human being the level of selfishness is insane . I can’t imagine how she felt hearing that ! After I gave birth I was beyond insecure and it would of broke me to hear my partner say thst . He was so supportive Avd would always remind me I had a bsby Avd my new body was beautiful. It’s sad to read she gave him an entire baby and beyond being un supportive he’s a complete jerk . That’s someone you can grow with	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 10:18 PM
70	Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support. I have a career as a nurse getting paid very well I recently left my job to be a stay at home mom with my daughter while he works . I feel very blessed to be able to stay at home because for me I wanted to watch my daughter grow her first couple years and with the way the world is i don’t want to put her at risk . I know I can go back to my career when I’m ready but I think many women do want to stay home at least for a bit after having a baby but don’t have the option because they bring in most…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 09:04 PM
1	What a HVM looks like in a long distance relationship (necessary due to college and church obligations); these are ON TOP of being able to text, video call, etc. Awww so beautiful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:08 PM
2	Some tips from you experienced ladies ! No I appreciate the honesty thanks , just feel like it’s kinda over for me cause I don’t see a HVM dating a person with a kid so feel like I can either try to work this one out or be single	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 09:19 PM