jenj11 Archive

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1	Friends with no girls I’m going to assume you’re in college ? It can be scary to meet girls and people in general but the best / easiest thing to help is common interest and like ‘safe spaces’, try joining a club that has girls in it you’ll have events and meetings where you’ll basically be forced to speak to women ? Or you could make it a priority and use sheer numbers, go outside and do stuff and everytime you run into a girl or stand next to a girl chat to them, doesn’t have to be a huge conversation but just make…	/r/seduction	04/11/21 03:01 PM
2	Is it possible that I’ll be more successful in real life than on tinder(18m)? Maybe your arrogance is why you have trouble with women, they can figure out your intelligence you don’t need to show off ur GPA 😂 My girlfriend is in med school, was the valedictorian with a 4.0 GPA. That attracts me to her a lot but because she doesn’t show it off she just says sentences and I’m like dang u smart. You can’t really change ur face so just change your body and ur attitude	/r/seduction	24/07/21 09:07 PM
5	Is it possible that I’ll be more successful in real life than on tinder(18m)? No lol. Go to a AP science class and see how many people in there are dating the smoking hot girls 😂 intelligence is important but confidence is the most important characteristic by far, also you have to be intelligent to be truly confident anyways lol they go hand in hand	/r/seduction	24/07/21 08:19 AM
2	Is it possible that I’ll be more successful in real life than on tinder(18m)? Tinders shit, the #1 thing women are attracted to is confidence and you confidence doesn’t show over tinder. Yes try is person, idk about a bar I’ve personally never picked a girl up at a bar but if that’s what u want go for it, I just use random places to meet women like grocery stores, hobbies, camp site etc	/r/seduction	24/07/21 04:36 AM
1	Girl said I looked like a marine… Idk, when I am single I hit on every girl that gives me a compliment and it’s never failed :) I just feel like it’s how you carry / present yourself is the most important thing, but I guess OP would have to learn to be flirty and confident to have a 100% success rate but I agree he should defo shoot his shot	/r/seduction	21/07/21 09:10 PM
2	How to seduce your cousin? You also have a BF ? You gonna cheat on ur bf with ur cousin 😂	/r/seduction	21/07/21 03:48 PM
0	Girl said I looked like a marine… Girls are attracted to ‘intimidating/ scary / strong men’ anyone saying that is gonna be Atleast a little attracted and with confidence any girl will be attracted so I just assume every girl is attracted to me until they reject or make it clear they’re not interested in me	/r/seduction	21/07/21 03:17 PM
1	Girl said I looked like a marine… Flirt with her a bit then ask her my dude :) worse she can say is no or make a excuse then just say to her “sorry, don’t worry about it take it as a compliment” and just act normal with her after :)	/r/seduction	21/07/21 03:15 PM
3	Girl said I looked like a marine… You are a bit of a idiot if you don’t know that she is physically attracted to you	/r/seduction	21/07/21 03:02 PM
8	Need advice I’m at my limit. - 19yr virgin. Stop focusing on being a virgin and focus more on making yourself a better person, go gym etc you’re already in school and work so that’s great. Maybe try a hobby ? I meet a lot of girls threw rock climbing at gyms or even camping 😁😁 when you talk to a girl just talk about whatever random shit comes up and then after you’ve chatted to her a bit you can share some Deep experiences or ask deep questions not just the normal ones	/r/seduction	19/07/21 04:29 PM
1	Talking to girls as with the boys 7	/r/seduction	16/07/21 11:03 PM
7	I just can't seem to understand what he meant or wants Dude I looked at your profile and you been asking the same question for 230 days that’s nearly a year one of you grow a pair and take it to the next level jezuz 😂	/r/seduction	16/07/21 11:13 AM
1	I just can't seem to understand what he meant or wants Sounds like he wants to take it to the next level just ask him :)	/r/seduction	16/07/21 11:11 AM
1	Did I kiss her too early? Yeah agree with the other dude you was to slow do a few test touches on the arm maybe hold her hand first then it’s time to kiss, you know she is okay with being psychical if she let you hold her hand… unless you’re in 8th grade then maybe she just wanted to hold hands but anyone that’s sexually active if they hold hands they’re probably hinting they want you to be physical with them , doesn’t mean it’s lost forever but if you like someone do it on the first date, second date MAX if there is no …	/r/seduction	15/07/21 08:37 PM
3	Talking to girls as with the boys Yep don’t put the pussy on a pedestal, act unphased at their shit tests and have no filter when speaking to them wanna crack a joke about needing a shit, wow that girl over there is gorgeous, burp and blow it in the wind like you would with the guys 😂 girls like being treated like a friend and you being weird it shows confidence and you don’t give a fuck :) I recently met my girlfriend group of ‘girl’ friends for the first time and after she dropped them all home she said they was shocked at me …	/r/seduction	15/07/21 04:22 PM
1	Am I good enough for her? Exactly dude stop chasing it because I bet if you ever met him he would be on your level or maybe even below, I have dated 11 girls and maybe half of them spoke about their ex’s Ofcourse I was jealous… everytime I ended up meeting there boyfriends without fail they was literally retards in some way 😂 literally one of my ex’s was like oh you shouldn’t park on my drive because last time my ex saw a guy parked on my drive he knocked on my door and started a fight with the guy that was here visiting…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 09:54 PM
1	Am I good enough for her? Yeah it would plague anyone’s thoughts in your situation but if you’re not a bad guy then you can’t pretend to be one, you can be interesting in your own way and if she doesn’t see that then she’s not for you my dude. Also girls make ex’s sound completely different then they are lol, I’ve had previous experience obsessing over one of my previous girlfriends ex boyfriends she use to casually mention how he use to drive her crazy and even mentioned he was good in bed and had a huge PP… now days I …	/r/seduction	13/07/21 04:45 PM
3	Am I good enough for her? She sounds like a meh girl who wants to act like a bad bitch lol this is the type of girl for a one night stand and she gets attached to you I wouldn’t go chasing her but if you want to then don’t change who you are have a back bone this doesn’t mean be the ‘ bad guy who puts her in her place’ that she wants because that’s a myth but just don’t be a fricken yes boy you’re so perfect and out of my league simp. You view yourself as a 7 out of 10 …. In my books 7 out of 10 is average you should thi…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 04:14 PM
12	Guys what is a massive turn off from girls? Girls or people who think they know everything …. To materialistic Not being able to hold a conversation or acting the slightest bit interested in me One word replies Extreme feminist or minority victim mindsets When they can’t just agree to disagree but have to be right lol there is quite a few mainly just don’t be a argumentative asshole and be kinda semi interesting and you’ll be fine 😂	/r/seduction	13/07/21 02:56 PM
4	How do you prevent yourself from being nervous around extremely attractive people? If he is shy it’s just you both being shy and not wanting to talk first ? 😅 just message him more often don’t hound him but there is nothing wrong with you texting hey how was your day or spontaneously, hey you free this afternoon to go bowl ? And only way I found to get less nervous with talking to attractive people is either don’t think of them as attractive just pretend they’re your normal friend or talk to more people in general	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:24 PM
1	My "good looks" are my worst feature That may be in your head then you need to change how you’re feeling towards approaches because anyone can have a conversation with a random girl just get into a loose frame of mind don’t matter if you get blown off a couple of times go to the grocery store find a woman staring at something like the fruit section and be like yeah fucking hard to choose your 5 a day isn’t it, and then just make some other random fucking conversation up with your intelligence I shouldn’t be that hard to string a fe…	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:44 PM
2	My "good looks" are my worst feature Hahaha this was a good read but idk I think you’re overthinking it or maybe you know you’re attractive but trying to hard to show girls your worth ? Like let the girls find out about you and don’t be eager to tell them the cool things about you, you’re doing great by the sounds of it just try to approach more woman and try different conversations with them and see what works I use a lot of self deprecation and sarcasm jokes also have ADHD with your conversation and speak about the most random of…	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:05 PM
2	Where to find gold diggers? Fair enough but you might find one of the new hobbies interesting you know, I can just see trying to basically put for someone to be your girlfriend and you not have any interests together being a slippery slope to the girl being a bitch and you being unhappy my dude , if you already find youreself attractive that is great women find men attractive who like themselves so just go speak to more women , the more you speak to the better you’ll get and you’ll definitely find a date soon if you go out…	/r/seduction	12/07/21 03:56 PM
5	Where to find gold diggers? You make money that is one pillar of attractiveness I believe there is 3 pillars of attractiveness and the other two are fitness/gym and social confidence from experiences. Use you’re money to get these and women will come way easier. Get a personal trainer or do 1 on 1 private martial arts classes, do 3 sessions a week for 6 months and you’ll be a new man! Psychically and mentally, then for the experiences they don’t have to be sexual although sexual experience does give you confidence but even…	/r/seduction	12/07/21 03:25 PM
1	22M virgin contemplating suicide. I feel maybe he could just be a bit anti social / angry that he is a virgin still ( even though it isn’t a bad thing )	/r/seduction	12/07/21 12:20 PM
1	22M virgin contemplating suicide. That’s just weird no it isn’t only like 25% of my friend had sex before the age of 18 the average age for a boy to loose his virginity is 18.75 and that’s average that means 50% of men loose there virginity after 19 you’re literally average …. Everyone is in there own time line	/r/seduction	12/07/21 12:19 PM
1	Tips on how to initiate sexual intimacy Just speak seductively to the guy or run ur hand over his pants etc	/r/seduction	12/07/21 01:58 AM
1	What is your priority order? Happiness> hobbies> girls & sex > early retirement / invest money	/r/seduction	06/07/21 09:19 PM
1	How to not be awkward? I start convos on anything about the situation then you can take it anywhere, like if a girl completed me on my shirt I’d be like thanks it’s from the allsaints outlet in **** you ever been there ? , no you haven’t been? Dang… that’s why your outfit is trash, I’m only joking but you should definitely go what you doing on Saturday I could show you around there or you can do adhd route which I also like, I probably would’ve responded with thanks my high school business teacher told me it’s not abo…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 01:39 PM
1	What’s the best approach when meeting a woman in public? Also to the how to ask there age/ if they’re single, I normally don’t care about age aslong as they’re hot, and for the single if they give you their number it doesn’t matter 😂 but you can just drop a question or sentence that she will respond to with if she has one, like dang you’re so smart you’re boyfriend must love that about you 😂 she will either say ‘ yah he does’ or ‘what I don’t have a boyfriend ?’ Then you can either ignore that and go on to another subject or just straight up be like ‘…	/r/seduction	04/07/21 01:45 AM
2	What’s the best approach when meeting a woman in public? I chat shit about whatever I see, they at the pool ? I just say , yo is it cold? They on the bus, I just be like shit did u see that dog that we just drove past They waiting in McDonald’s next to you waiting to pick up there order? Omfg they do pokemon cards in kids meals now ?!? Yo what’s ur fav pokemon Literally my random shit chatting has never failed 😂	/r/seduction	04/07/21 01:42 AM
1	Netflix and Chill Hahaha I don’t know how people speak to each other where you are from, but I have 2 different ways of asking a girl out. The first is just straight forward say something like wanna hang out Wednesday night ? We can have a games night and then watch a movie or something, the other way is I just say like hey you doing anything Wednesday night at like 6pm is she says no I will say okay be ready for 6pm I will pick you up and we can hang out.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:50 PM
6	Netflix and Chill You just ask if she wants to hang out, make it more fun then Netflix and chill for a first date my go to plan is either mario carts on wii or ask if she wants to have some sort of game night. Like I have a jenga set which I wrote truth or dares on so you play jenga then when u pull a block it may say “ when was the last time you cried” or “how many people have you kissed” or “ most embarrassing memory” stuff like that :) and you Netflix and chill by just watching a movie make some funny comments…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 01:17 PM