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You are welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/18 03:00 AM
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I may feel alone but I know I am not. He did not walk out completely. We are still friends above all else. He just wants me to focus on me and do what is best for me. If it is meant to be it will happen.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 07:25 PM
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Thanks. He ended up picking me up to go drive and talk. He felt it was best we seperate from each others residences for the time being. Over all it went well. I'm still so sad that I forced away the man I love but I truly think if I work on myself then maybe i could prove that i am the person he saw all along.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 11:53 AM
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I already made a list of things I'd like to discuss. I am not going to beg for him back but I do have an alternative to discuss. If he doesn't like it then I will move on. It's all I can do.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 12:24 AM
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That means more than you could possibly know. Sometimes you read exactly what you need to hear and that is what I needed to hear today.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 09:16 PM
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I apologize for taking so long to reply to these. I took the time and checked myself into a mental hospital for a few days. I only wanted to stay one but ended up having to stay three. In those days I did a lot of self reflecting on everything that has led to this. I know that a majority of the issues made were mine and mine alone. The biggest one being I was not honest with him about the depression that was creeping in. Instead I'd just say I'd fix it or work on it but everything became to much…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 09:15 PM
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It hurts to lose the love of your life. Even more so when you cause it by being a hard head. I'm sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 02:22 AM
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I've never thought of anything he has expressed as whining. I've been suffering with depression for months but was to stubborn to speak up about it. Thus I came off as unhappy and complacent in my life. Everything was draining me but I didn't want to say that. That miniscule tasks took all my energy. But because I waited all of these things sound like excuses.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 02:21 AM
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Funny enough my boyfriend dresses me better than he dresses himself. He normally wears chino shorts, a plain t shirt and Van's. Myself, he normally dresses in a dress if it is a decent place but mostly just flowy and feminine things.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/18 01:46 AM
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I always ask my boyfriend's opinion. I'd much rather his honestly than going out looking stupid. My style has changed a lot to reflect more of what he likes.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 03:08 AM
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I think we are good at keeping each other accountable. We've both been. Working really hard on getting into better shape. I take care of meals and he motivates us to get up and get moving. I'm in the best shape I've been thanks to him and it's only getting better!!!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 06:08 PM
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I'm thankful firstly for my partner for introducing me to RP. Had it not been for this place I feel our relationship may have ended before it truly began. I have grown a lot as a person. I've realised my worth and over all have grown leaps and bounds in a year. I'm more excited for the future than I ever have been.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 04:10 AM
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I have always wanted to try roller derby. I almost did about 5 years ago but I was moving away from the area. I was kinda bummed about it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 01:47 AM
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I'm taking my first pole class tomorrow!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 09:34 PM
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I've already started. I'm finding myself again.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 06:34 PM
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I feel as women, for most of us, the want and need to keep a tidy home is just kind of ingrained in us. Something about having a clean home helps me have a clear mine and in turn makes me a better and more enjoyable to be around partner.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:17 PM
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I am not a SAHW but I do still feel the chores around the house are my duty. Our schedules are a little odd so there are some days where he is home most of the day and will clean up around the house. I always thank him for this because like I said I feel it is my duty. But in reality it is different in each relationship. Expectations should be laid out plainly as to not cause confusion. But on that note I agree with you. If you are a SAHW and you have no job at all then yes the home should be en…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 10:22 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if my age or more so the age I look is what holds people back from approaching me. I'm almost 28 years old but most people peg me as around 20 years old. And while living in a college town it definitely probably makes most women my age just assume I'm a party person. But if I have learned anything at all from all of your guys advice it is to just put myself out there. I have nothing to lose in trying new things and meeting new people. And unfortunately no doggie until we move …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 11:40 PM
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Femininity is something I'm really trying to find in myself. I have a feminine side but I want to exude feminity on a daily basis. I definitely think that I'm going to give pole a shot. Thank you so much!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 10:21 PM
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How do you like pole dancing classes? I've always had that in the back of my mind. I want to do it for exercise as well as building confidence. There aren't to many women that go to my gym. But I'm also a big late night gym person. So may be there are more than I know. I'm 27 so living in a college town isn't terrible. Just depends on if I can find groups who want to do more than party all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 09:40 PM
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Thank you so much. Reading that actually gave me a much better understanding of what I think he is going through with me. He has definitely molded me into a better version of myself. I definitely welcomed it with open arms. But I have hit a speed bump that I'm trying to get past. He has helped me so much in finding myself that I think I lost who I am without him. I need to get back to that place and find me again while still holding to the standards he has set for me. We vetted each other for a …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 05:20 PM
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I have not checked out that thread but I will now. Thank you. I have done a couple things. I tried yoga. Realised I didn't really like it. I think I prefer more active things rather than super Zen. He has been away this weekend and I have focused on myself a bit more. I went to the beach by myself which I never do. I purged my place of a bunch of junk. I'm not really sure where to look for meet ups. But I'm sure they aren't very hard to find if I actually look.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 03:51 PM
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I'm not sure how to respond to that. He isn't one sided. I know plenty. He isn't manipulative he just knows from past relationships what he is looking for. I can't be mad about that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 03:47 PM
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Thank you so much. I'm definitely going to look into that. I need to step out of my comfort zone. I don't really let to many people tell me how to live my life. I know what I need and that is something no one can tell you. No one knows what truly makes you happy but yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 03:13 PM
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I'm not waiting around for him. We are currently in a relationship. He doesn't lie and is very reliable. He is the epitome of a Captain. I have just been a pretty shitty first mate as of lately. I know what he needs and wants from me. I think for the most part I do a lot of what he asks. But I really need to work on not second guessing his decisions. I know how thorough he is in his thought process so I am not sure why I do. I'm not a big runner but I would like to find some women who enjoy hiki…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 02:23 PM
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Last year my Captain and myself really started focusing on weightloss. I never really considered it to be for him but it was because of him that I felt motivated to do it. Who doesn't want to be a piece of eye candy while walking with their man. While he never asked me to lose weight or change my appearance it really just came naturally when I saw how much he focused on him. I didn't want to be left looking like a blob next to my sexy man. But basically what I am saying is do it for yourself. Do…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 02:32 AM
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Thank you. I think I actually need to work on my security. It may be big part of the issue more so than she actually is.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 08:14 PM
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I trust him completely. It's kind of cliche but it is more of I do not trust her. He is the type of man that will not cheat. If he wanted someone else he would not be with me. Unfortunately I don't think she will ever move on unless he tells her that he sees no reason to keep communicating with her. And my greatest fear is he will not do that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 01:37 PM
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I'm a little scared to make a statement like that. He is very much an independent man. If he feels as though I have doubts he will take that as me not trusting him and be right out the door. I have to figure out how to approach things in a certain manner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 11:08 AM
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I have done a lot of things for my Captain that I may have not done had he not asked. I have never outright said that I wish they would stop talking. But I have told him I don't think it is wise that they do so. I will find a good time to sit down and talk to him very soon. I guess I will know where I truly stand based on how he reacts.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 10:53 AM
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I truly don't see them getting back together. He initiated the divorce after years of her disregarding his wants and needs. I'm just confused why he feels the need to have any sort of relationship with her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:07 AM
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They do not. And that is the big reason it annoys me. They have nothing tying them together. She just tried to little to late.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:00 AM
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I understand where you are coming from. Loyalty is something I will never stray from. I cannot stand army wives that cheat on their husbands. I knew what I was getting into from the get go. A year is a long time yes but it is nothing in the grand scheme of spending my life with him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 02:18 AM
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Yes and no. Something tickles my fancy about surprising him with pictures. Even more so if they are professionally done.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:12 AM
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He is going to be 8,100 miles away. Going with him isn't an option because it is for a job and he will not have his own living accommodations. We are committed to each other. The purpose of the job is for him to get financially set up for a home and children within the next few years as well as personal growth for myself. I will probably only see him one time during the year at hopefully around the 6th month mark.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 08:14 PM
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Unfortunately right now we live in an apartment and aren't planning on a dog til we have a house. It's no fun for dogs in apartments :(
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 08:22 PM
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I actually have a full time management position at a hair salon. As well as actually doing hair myself and I'm currently in school for real estate.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 06:20 PM
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Thank you for going so in depth. A lot of these things you mentioned wouldn't have even crossed my mind. I love the one year planner idea. It would be nice to see a list of things that could keep me busy. As well as hold me accountable for actually doing those things.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 11:09 AM
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I have always wanted to do a boudoir shoot. I think I just found the perfect reason!! Thanks for the idea :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 11:07 AM
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I plan on getting into meal prepping. I think it will help me not resort to eating a bunch of junk because I am terrible at cooking for one person. I've always wanted to try rock climbing so maybe now is the time to give that a go. I enjoy exercise that doubles as having fun. Crafting is something I already do but I would like to pick up one specific one that I can focus on and get really good at. Thank you for all the suggestions. They are great :) and as for books I'm slowly working through th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 01:48 AM
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Is it possible to ask the cards if they see children in my near future?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 05:53 PM
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Absolutely no one is perfect but my Captain falls pretty damn close. Our relationships works well because we each succeed where the other may fall short. And neither of us are scared to admit our short comings.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 04:57 AM
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I personally keep acrylics on because of my job. But I keep them relatively short and pretty neutral in color. Right now they look like this. https://imgur.com/a/7Fj9HfZ
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 04:19 AM
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No significant amount of money. Never more than 50 to 60 dollars. But yes i guess having a problem receiving gracefully is the perfect way to put it. I already do things like that already. Our dynamic works quite well. If people didn't know better they'd probably think we had been together for years. I just have little things I have to accept in order for our relationship to run as smooth as possible. Thank you for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 02:18 PM
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I have no issue supporting myself but he has helped me in situations where i was short but never lets me pay back what he has loaned me. Though it may be a new relationship we are not new to each other. We have know eachother for years so I'm not worried about asking for help. I more so don't know how to accept it when he gives it and expects nothing in return. I'm left feeling like I owe something even though he insists I do not.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 03:47 AM
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