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| 2 | The Manlet Propaganda of Tall GirlSorry - Somehow I missed this until now, my tall friend. Have you tried just laughing, patting them on the head and saying “awwww is someone mad?” If you don’t want to touch them (understandable), skip the head patting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | The Manlet Propaganda of Tall GirlBelgian, my friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 371 | The Manlet Propaganda of Tall GirlLove this. Your commentary is spot on. I am 6’4” and just turned 40 and still CONSTANTLY negged about it. The only thing that has changed is that I’ve gotten feistier in my responses on account of my ever-growing confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 15 | The truth about "the wall"Get it, boo!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 192 | The truth about "the wall"Ladies just wait until you hit your 40s! So far, sooooooo good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 52 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..We need to print and hand out shirts with WHY ARE MEN. Full stop. Brilliant. Couldn’t say it better myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 14 | Do you talk to your therapist about FDS?Makes a hell of a lot of sense. Thank you for what you do xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 94 | Do you talk to your therapist about FDS?My therapist does the same. I adore her and we align on most everything else, but she often implies I am too picky with men. I wonder if perhaps she is married to a LVM and it cuts a little too close to home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:21 PM |
| 6 | new to Reddit, and there needs to be more feminist subs, so what happens?What is Spinster? I tried searching for it but could only find references to the movie and a book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?100% committed that line to memory so I can use it. Thank you, Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:48 AM |
| 6 | "You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there.I’m loving the sound of this. BRAVA!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 73 | Boundaries vs. Control.Say it loud for the ones in the back: “…for boundaries to be effective, it must be you who acts to protect them.” Love this. Thanks for the reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:01 AM |
| 7 | Iliza Schlessinger is once again, right on the money.Just watched this tonight. Sad how so many of us have a similar story of some lying schmuck disrupting our lives. I walked away from mine relatively unscathed but I know others are not so lucky. It’s a good learning experience but boy does it mess with your head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:46 AM |
| 7 | How I Have Leveled Up One Year Since Leaving My Abusive Ex-HusbandYes, Queen!!! BRAVA xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:55 AM |
| 90 | Bought myself my own ring cause I was tired of waiting around for someone else to do it.Congratulations on marrying a queen!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 66 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢And Over 800,000 followers - disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 18 | We can’t even go to the doctor in peace. There are lvms everywhere, OP did the right thing.Good for you. I was raised thinking this kind of behaviour was what guys did when they were really into you. Like, oh man how romantic that he went to those lengths to get my number. He could’ve been fired so that means he must be really into me. Yeah into my ass, perhaps. This happened to me 15 or so years ago at a physical therapist’s office and I never reported it because my friends said all the above things. Shame on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 52 | Happy Galentine’s Day, Queens! Besties over testes 🥂“Besties over testes” - omg about to get that tattooed across my chest. Love it so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 19 | My journey w/ FDS that might be useful for women lurking here (idk if irrelevant but)You. Are. A. Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 01:30 AM |
| 72 | Woman dumps her partner of 13 years after finding out he watches porn. Comments tell her she’s overreacting. Ladies, you do not have to accept porn in your relationships!True. But never too late to turn things around! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:34 PM |
| 47 | Woman dumps her partner of 13 years after finding out he watches porn. Comments tell her she’s overreacting. Ladies, you do not have to accept porn in your relationships!Love this explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.Really proud of you, boo. I’m about to turn 39 and am also only just starting to live the true FDS life. I’ve been thinking about it for a long time, but putting it into action is - as we all know - another thing. I’m finding the quicker I am to put myself first, the easier and more natural it becomes. You got this xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 25 | The 6 month mark100% this! Thanks for pointing it out! It’s not just our romantic partners who should treat us like gold, it’s EVERYONE in our lives. I have had this happen with friends too. I’ve learnt to be very selective, even if that means I get to spend more time with me, myself and my cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:29 AM |
| 102 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Yes yessssss - you’ll fit in here just fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 30 | Objectification and Physical CategorizationFunnily enough I did not understand this until way in my 30s - d’oh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 19 | Objectification and Physical CategorizationAh thank you, love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 130 | Objectification and Physical CategorizationWas asked out by a really fit guy the other day at my gym. He was so arrogant. I told him I wasn’t currently open to dating. He kept pressuring me, asking me why and then what my type was, etc. It gave me so much pleasure to tell him that I prefer dad bods. He couldn’t believe it. I’ve seen him a few times since (at the gym), and he has brought it up in disbelief every single time. But it’s ok when they do it to us hmmm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:47 PM |
| 77 | "Trust me, you have all the equipment... you just need to read the manual"“I’m taking the dawgggg, dumbass” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 17 | Shout out to Ellen Pao, CEO of Reddit in 2014, first leader to ban revenge porn and unauthorized nude photos. Ellen Pao sued venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins for gender discrimination, and calls out companies like Pinterest for sexism in the workplace. Round of applause for an all around queen.Ordering her book now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 371 | From my time online dating. . .+10 points for such a creative response. +another 10 because I shall steal it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 8 | Stop constantly trying to prove your worth thinking it will get a LVM to change their actions. They are hoping to devalue you so you don't realize how valuable you really are. If you want to fly higher, you are going to have to give up what is weighing you down so you arrive to your chosen path. <3Amen, my sweet sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:21 AM |
| 79 | Stop constantly trying to prove your worth thinking it will get a LVM to change their actions. They are hoping to devalue you so you don't realize how valuable you really are. If you want to fly higher, you are going to have to give up what is weighing you down so you arrive to your chosen path. <3Or you’ll be completely satisfied on your own. I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Told him I'm spending the day at the beachExactly! ReLaX cAn’T yOu TaKe A jOkE?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 35 | Told him I'm spending the day at the beachUgh the “haha” before that last answer made me barf in my own mouth a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 104 | “Uh, hi? Are you ignoring me?” Yes, yes she is.“Fermented omelet of a conscience” lmaoooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:03 AM |
| 10 | No pictures of himself and a copypasta beating around the bush about what sounds like some kind of sex cult thing, lovelyBarf!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020i hope one day i get to use your line "did you really think I'd fuck you for a pizza?" - well i don't hope, actually. But you get my drift. Flippin fantastic, queen xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is EstablishedGirl THIS. if it were easy, this sub would be empty. Of course it’s no big thing to keep in line when we’re dealing with LVMs - it’s how we behave with who we perceive to be HVMs. That’s when it gets tricky and - as you say - an absolute must to be on guard. Instead of texting your HVM, come to this sub and reread all of its resources. That’s what I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | STAY WOKE, ladies. Unless you’re The One to him, men have no problem stringing you along and playing mental gymnastics. Also, no answer is also an answer.Screenshotting this so I can keep it handy next time I’m trying to convince myself he does like me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:36 PM |
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