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Brother, this is one is a wrap. It's done. The early you accept it the better you can start the divorce and recovery plan. You can not salvage this. One person wanting to work on a relationship is not a recipe for success. I wish you all the strength you need.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 06:32 AM
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Ola. This is in all major cities like Rio and SP. I remember I was in Rio earlier in the year and on tinder the women after sime back and forth will quote a price to come see you. It's all p4p world over these days, either short term or long term as in relationships. There was a video and some cases of women here in the US saying you have to send them money before they will even talk to you. In other words, pay to get ahead of the pile of men messaging her, of course results not guaranteed, 😆😂. …
/r/MensRights18/11/25 06:41 AM
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Thanks for the reply. That's one I am leaning towards but both are still relatively close.
/r/seduction13/05/25 11:14 AM
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Just read the earlier comment. You are from Bratislava. That is Slovakia right? Yeah that should be really close to the target cities. It is said Bratislava is slower/smaller(?) compared to prague and Budapest . In the past, I once planned to explore those cities and a couple in Poland. Ok, I will send you a dm.
/r/seduction12/05/25 11:00 PM
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Hahaha. You got me there 😆😂. I thought you meant actual "game" hunting, as on animals in the forest. But I guess there isn't much difference in a way apart from killing the animals. What month are you looking to be out there, btw.
/r/seduction12/05/25 09:03 PM
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Which of the two cities you recommend more if you had to pick just one? What time of year you went to Budapest? Thanks
/r/seduction12/05/25 05:53 PM
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What kind of animals you hunt? Earlier today, I was just looking a tickets to vienna (for a conf) and then later Budapest for short vacation.
/r/seduction12/05/25 05:52 PM
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And they'd recount those events in detail that will shock you. Things you thought were resolved at the time, your discussed and they said it's ok, no big deal and you considered it resolved.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 01:20 PM
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Wow, reading the last part of your comment, essentially going after half when judge said no. What happened that things ended so quickly ? Where there some things you didn't see or that cropped up after signing the papers? Genuine questions for others to learn. Thx I wish you strength on all this
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 05:34 AM
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Decapitated by who? The mother?, men that is insane.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 02:09 PM
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It's a wrap. We have to pack it in if this is what we have to deal with now. I wonder who started this male vs female war. Over the last decade, videos on YouTube have been inceeasing male vs female, one group ain't shit, etc. Where is all this leading to. Each will now mate with aliens (extraterrestrials) or what? Going on YouTube and social media, it's"men ain't shit" videos all day. I mean, what the hell. How does any of this make sense. Genuinely curious what has been driving these trend say…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 05:09 PM
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They had is in the first half, I am not going to lie. Lovely. Honda's are reliable. Happy you got yours back.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 05:41 PM
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What addiction? Drugs? Alcohol?
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 04:30 AM
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Don't post on social media, nothing good will come from it, it will paint you in bad light given the atmosphere we have, and may cause issues for you later. I will say deal with it privately, and move on. It is not easy, I wish you strength during the ordeal and all the best.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 01:02 PM
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What country are you in? Could you possible get the kid to relatives to avoid danger to him as per your comments. Also, doing this before declaring your intentions. This is dicey and she may go crazy if no access to the kid. Asked your country if there are some services you could call in to help with kid. If she is threatening self deletion, she may harm the kid to pain you. Be careful with the planning, and ensure the kid can be protected.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 02:22 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Do you speak czech? Hoping to visit Prague in the future, but I think one needs to know the language? Is that correct or you could get by somewhat with English?
/r/seduction08/04/24 02:13 PM
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Is she a local Czech lady or foreigner?
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:34 AM
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The alimony value is 7K, and that is per month? Child support is 3k. So the alimony part id 7k per month for the rest of her life or remarries?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 12:05 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. To add to other commenter, it wasn't clear if it was yours or not. But i guess, you guys are in court for another reason then..
/r/MensRights05/11/23 04:39 PM
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Thanks for replying back man. In that case you did good. With Narcs, nothing can be salvaged and it's best you left once you saw the traits. Been with a few, these days i bail early once i notice disrespect behavior early on, gaslighting, etc. It sounds like she grew up under difficult circumstances, and as men, we always think we could help or rescue. Given what i know, if the person does not want to change, there is nothing we can do and will just end up wasting time, energy, money, resources.…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 10:48 AM
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Was the passion erosion and mental wreck before or after cancelation, trying to determine the reason for cancellation and if that was the result in her afterwards. Or she was like that, then you had to cancel. Thx
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 03:03 PM
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Any more context, anything to add. Most will not have any context to offer advice.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 04:19 PM
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I wish you well brother. By the way, where is she from? You said she can't speak English.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:21 PM
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What about his resource going to take care of his own biological kid in the future? If the kid turns out not to be his, then he was cheated on and then you are saying he should be happy taking care of someone's kid.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 07:52 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I can say you aren't the only one that went through this, and tried to dave things. The sense of entitlement they possess and the man risks being decimated in divorce court, so he wants to save things and keep his family together. But the other party doesn't keep their vows, so you have nothing, and and often would end up much worse that you came in.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 05:55 AM
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Sorry for the situation, sometimes there is no reasoning with them as they embark on their journey to "eat, love and pray", and discover themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 04:40 AM
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Thanks for reply. Relationship these days are complicated and for some reason the women don't want to put in work. If they wake up on the wrong side of the bed, they want to blow things sky high, always comparing with others, not saying this is your situation. Why are you not doing this like so and so. They can't be satisfied and you'd work to save things but if othet persons does nothing, you can't win. From the posts here, you can see things are getting crazy in many places.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 04:36 AM
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Is she originally from that same country? It's not clear but seems so. Also, she plans to move back at some point? Is this an ex?
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 03:46 AM
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Get out of there as fast as you can.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 10:16 PM
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He said Gatwick airport, so I am assuming UK not US.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 06:52 AM
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Sorry to hear, wish you the best!!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 02:50 AM
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Yeah, I see where you are coming from. It's wuite a difficult situation because if you givr more, they'd probably just spend it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 12:27 AM
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I see. Thanks for the reply. So how do you intend to proceed with this. She knows you earn higher than others i presume? So she wants to extract as much as possible
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 12:12 AM
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She had two or more kids with two other men before you? Is that correct? Where are the other guys?
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/22 11:51 PM
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You didn't mention location? A lot depends on that. So, where are you based? US, Uk, CA, India or another country ?
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 07:21 AM
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Ok, good you send money and she has a good job, so finance and their wellbeing is not an issue. By define "the relationship", I actually meant to yourself, like how you would want it to be. I imagine the kids are young amd they won't understand much anyway but for some reason dad is not around or whatever she tells them as the reason. Unfortunately, you can't control the narrative she feeds them. So defining the relationship is how you want things to be henceforth and that can span or include th…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 02:21 PM
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I see. So she has citizenship there too. Do you have to send support financially? Howw is this arranged going forward. Hence my question if she has relatives or suport in the down under. Maintaining relationship will not be easy given the distance and phone or video calls can only goes so far. Another thing is that this could make it difficult for you to move on, if you'd never see them except through video or phone. Then if you have a new family, the challenge increases if you have to go down t…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 12:08 PM
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First off, a few questions? Are you Lebanese? I assume so. What about the nationality of the wife. Is she Australian or Lebanese? If the latter, she has family or relatives there?
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 11:52 AM
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Oh I thought you meant you are married and planning to divorce. So in your view no good pakistani americana...genuinely trying to understand
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 07:41 PM
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Do you have kid from the first marriage? What state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 04:26 AM
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I am sorry man. I understand what you are going through. Look up r/bpdlovedones. Also r/narcissisticspouses (spelling may be off). There is also a book that could really help: " Stop Caretaking the Borderline Or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get on with Life Book by Margalis Fjelstad" Look up that, you will understand a lot and why the madness may never end. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 04:40 PM
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I really appreciate you sharing this. As someone that has dealt with people with BPDs (knew after the fact what it was), I can tell it's a sh*tshow dealing with them and the everyday shifting goal posts and illogical arguments, threats, etc. The combo illness yours had: bipolar, bpd, schizo..., it must have been a lot to deal with. Brother, you have done enough and don't blame yourself at all. Most of the time, these people can't be saved and there isn't anything more you could have done that wo…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 01:35 AM
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Thanks for your reply. I had to ask to confirm, because it's really dumb to expect to get half and walk away, half of what? If you don't mind sharing, did things fall apart after buying the house or there were signs before. If it's after, not much you can or could have done. This will help others to be able to discern some of the signs.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 12:36 AM
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Did you mean December 2021?
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 11:04 PM
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I am sorry. I advise to move on. Also look up Briffaults Law, in case you don't know about it. The law explains a lot of the behavior you are seeing now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 05:08 PM
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Do you care to share what she did after being served others can learn from this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 01:13 AM
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Thanks for your response. I felt it didn't make sense also, certainly in the west. When I heard religion excuse, I was thinking of some non western country. I agree, if he is the bio dad, he ought to take action to see the kid, no matter what the mum says. Since the husband has been in jail when they met, of course the husband will know she is not his kid.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 11:27 AM
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That's weird. It is some native Americam culture thing or some other religion. I meam you are the bio dad eventually she will have to know and meet you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 10:01 PM
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Ok. The child is not your biologically you mean? As in she is your step child?
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 09:18 PM
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What country is the other child in? You mean religion forbids you from seeing the child? Why is that, If you can share so others can learn and be aware.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 06:52 PM
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True. That way he starts doing something that is good for his health and mental focus, and the lawyers and using the time to start the papers. He gets back, boom, puts things in motion.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/21 10:25 PM
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Good book. I bought it a few years ago and I am currently reading it again. It's a good read. For one, men musr learn how to set proper boundaries In relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 01:01 AM
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Lol. You got me at non-existent asses. Is that the same as "flat ass" or much worse.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 04:09 AM
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First if, Happy cake day. Second, thanks for clarifying. I am guessing this is her only child and if you guys have been together that long, she is a bit older and why is she suddenly ending everything? Is there someone back there? Or the mom needs help given she is older? Or as some do, are just tired of being married and wants to just end everything. With time things will get better.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/20 03:12 PM
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When did she travel? Recently? I thought with this lockdown, travels are restricted. Also can you share what continent she went back to? It's possible she may have a rethink at some point and want to see the kiddo.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/20 10:22 AM
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500 years joke was funny. Real madness. And the explanation he made about kids leaving the home at 18 but you have to take care of a grown woman forever. Good point he made. Utter madness!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/20 07:35 AM
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Trash
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 02:35 PM
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Thrash....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/20 04:29 PM
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You can get a cat and it will get used to you in that 2 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/20 07:50 PM
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Trash
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 08:43 AM
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Question is what is she doing to him to make this possible. It is probably systematic and gradual eroding his identity and lowering his self esteem. It is safe to say she runs the show in the relationship.
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 08:28 AM
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The gall on these women only seems to increase with time. Really, she is on a pedestal and you have to approach her only if you agree and are able to give her the 3 stabilities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/20 03:37 AM
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The thing move away almost as soon as she leapt off. Very funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/20 07:01 PM
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Did you enjoy the liaison at least.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 10:48 PM
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From where?
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 11:09 AM
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Literally also. You need to get the gas first most times to go get the other
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 11:08 AM
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Good dude.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 10:22 AM
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Are these people delusional or something is really wrong in this society. Why would a sane hardworking man out up with this. Why? For him to engage in a relationship where he knows he will be used from day one. Eff out here with your package deal and the guy coming last really. So now men are just relegated to ATM roles and they should accept and be happy. Oh terrible times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 08:12 AM
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The gall on this one. Better to stay away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/19 07:09 PM
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Yeah real madness. For no benefits whatever. The audacity these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/19 04:33 AM
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Very funny comment. Thanks for the laugh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/19 11:55 PM
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Get off your page or deal with all your baggage. The audacity these days. A man is supposed to sign up for this madness to get what exactly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 09:03 PM
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Watched this a few days ago. Shocked too. He has some very good videos and binged watched most of them.
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 09:07 PM
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Seal operator in Call of Duty.
/r/MGTOW08/10/19 04:02 PM
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No, there are none. Maybe some, but none for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 02:48 PM
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I agree. Thought of Colombia too. Was in Medellin.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 03:28 PM
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Just read the article on this. Very impressive young man. He also helped truckers that were stranded with water and food.
/r/MGTOW23/09/19 06:43 AM
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So in 4 years she popped out more than one kid. She kept busy. Is it age related to have the kids before she is older or just didn't give a damn about the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/19 03:07 PM
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Delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 05:25 PM
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You are better off moving on and looking out for yourself. You will lose respect if you go back to her. Just move on without her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/19 01:42 AM
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Not at all bro. Not at all. The audacity is insane. I guess there are men that will put of with this type of situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/19 05:27 PM
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Stacking paper...
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 12:49 PM
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Yeah right. With all that baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/19 09:57 AM
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The man is like what the fuck is this. Hahaha. And men are supposed to fight along side women.
/r/MGTOW12/06/19 04:56 AM
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Why would you want to be with her again in the future, if she leaves now, does what she wants to do and return back. You would lose a lot of respect now if you agree to that now, and it would most likely not happen in the future. If things are beyond redemption, then you are better off starting to deal with the reality than to prolong the pain. You know the situation better.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/19 02:05 AM
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Good laughs. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 02:47 PM
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Bp as in the oil and gas company?
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 11:25 AM
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I am happy for you brother.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 01:41 AM
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Plan to move on. Nothing to salvage here. It could be hard, but once betrayed like this, you really can't trust here again.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/19 04:52 AM
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Walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/19 07:28 PM
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Closure gets you nothing. You are thinking it will. It's one thing if a buddy told you she was cheating. You found out yourself. So, no need for closure. No contact after initial one to exchange stuff. Stay happy, smile, don't get fazed, do exchange and immediately move on. Her seeing you happy will fuck with her mind. Her seeing you broken, will make her feel good. Don't give her that power. Keep it moving bro, and i wish you the best.
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 08:56 AM
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Thanks for the info. I assume you met her here. May be she got empowered. The rise and prevalence of social media doesn't help as women have access to other many wanting to be with them. So they start acting the fool. If there is no way to accept them, aka, fewer options to monkey branch, perhaps they will work on the marriage. Not much you can do. We can control how someone acts, especially if they have taken so called vows.
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 02:54 AM
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How long was the marriage? Also what continent if you can't mention the country.
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 07:01 AM
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He meant from the bottom ( last statement) then upwards to the first statement
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 02:19 AM
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I like the idea but how to you keep money for yourself - the name or process.
/r/MGTOW14/09/18 12:29 AM
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Good idea. I may be starting one new role soon. I guess that should also help fend of questions about the relationship status, i.e., married vs, gf, live-in, etc. Well, without a ring, it's not married for sure, but I guess you can say you are engaged, then they want you to come to company events with her.
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 08:20 AM
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Perhaps you should share so others can learn, especially from the signs or red flags. Hope you are better now.
/r/MGTOW01/09/18 02:29 AM
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I don't recommend asking if she wants to be friends too. That option should not be on the table at all, it means you are not of what you wanted in the first place. If your objective is to sleep with her, stick to that instead. Being friends will get you nothing. And if she doesn't dig you, my advise is to keep it moving and focus on someone else. When she sees you with other women, she may even come around. She may not be sure about you, but when you start seeing other women (proving your sexual…
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:23 AM
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Happened to me 2 days ago. Girl was always cat catching my eye for several weeks, then came to use adjacent machine close to me. I started convo, small talk what she is working on, etc. She was very happy i finally talked to her, she told me about her job, work, Etc. Saw her next day, said hi, small talk and then said I would like to speak to her later. Guess this part freaked her out. I don't give a rats ass though, i am there to work out amd will not change my schedule. But i will still smile,…
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:57 AM
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Nice.
/r/seduction03/04/18 03:40 AM
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That is fine. You can just post it for the social proof. What I meant by how the rest ends is that, once you get a woman to be jealous and you haven't slept with her, most of the time it will happen. She didnt know I played her - the whole thing, push, pull, disappear, etc, was set up. You will do fine.
/r/seduction31/03/18 05:24 AM
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Man, I am not sure how old you are, but I will say, you will benefit more from giving less and less fuck. Do not worry about what others are thinking. Remember, Express yourself, not Impress. Focus on what you can control and not worry what others think. This is an advice I would give to my younger self. It will come with age. I am not expert but I try to improve daily. With women, when you are focused on your goals, etc, they will want you, not when you sweat them or act like they affect your d…
/r/seduction31/03/18 04:38 AM
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It will usually work in your favor because of social proof. Women want men that other women want. They will actually get jealous and want you. I have used this trick on a few intentionally.
/r/seduction31/03/18 04:03 AM
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Sure. In.
/r/seduction26/12/17 06:03 PM
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What part of town are you in and what areas do you frequent mostly?
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:30 AM
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Never be friends with a woman you intend to have sex with. It is very hard to turn it around if you start by being friends. Go with the intent of having sex or sth serious, if the woman turns you down, no worries, you just keep it moving but at least you made your intentions clear. How do I know, this. Experience. Used to be friends with women, but that just takes longer and your intent is not always clear to her. The guys you see her with were direct to her from get go. I have gotten girls bein…
/r/seduction18/12/17 03:34 AM
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Yeah i know bro. She is insane, how can u expect me to pay ur bills when u r running around. When they start acting crazy for no reason, they have just completed the monkey branching process. Problem is we live close by, and would most likely run into her, but it's better to stay away and avoid any contact.
/r/MGTOW30/10/17 03:42 AM
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Ludakrit, You are so right bro. The second sentence in your first paragraph may as well have been written by me. Just got out of FWB if you will, where the girl complains non stop about an illness and was accusing me of not caring while I keep saying, find away to treat it once and for all, I just got tired of listening to excuses everytime I wanted to see her. She said she does not want to see me again that I didn't care for her illness and was not paying her bills. This is someone I hardly see…
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 10:58 PM
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