| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | A PUA "guru" in my city got called out by a local news organization. There is such a thing as a bad publicity. | jerema | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 09:40 AM | |
| 1 | Repost from r/videos. I'm sure you guys will appreciate. Explanation in comments. | jerema | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 07:21 PM | |
| 1 | HELP! | jerema | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 08:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Does height matter?Only if you believe it does | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | How I succeeded in datingExactly. These are the real magic tricks you all should be learning. | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.You're my hero. Solution: travel outside your fucking country to have a chance with a decent woman. Or learn seduction and all that noise. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Captain Save-a-hoe does a cold approachI can see this a personal win for you, but overall you fucked up, unless there is more to the story. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Pamplemousse Field Report ;)))))))))))))))))IOIs from the urinal. Nice! The rest makes me think you're in a whole other country than me. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 12:35 AM |
| 0 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?Lol you're pathetic beyond human boundaries. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 05:37 AM |
| 2 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?That's pretty much the plan. I'm referring to "approach anxiety" OP feels. It's there and tough to block out. Looking through recycled advice here can be both stimulating and depressing though. It's effective to a point. To keep track of a million things about tonality, body language and so on leaves little room for the brain to be present and concentrate on the person and conversation. I realized that to attract the type of woman I desire, I need to improve quite a lot of things in my life. I g… | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 05:36 AM |
| -1 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?I hope your unvaccinated ass gets measles, you one dimensional, sheep fucking hillbilly | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 03:23 AM |
| 0 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?Plenty of thc maybe, asswipe | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 03:14 AM |
| 0 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?Lol women gave up on you though. And it's not what I meant, but your tiny brain hasn't got the capacity to understand. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 03:02 AM |
| -1 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?Pathetic moron who thinks he alpha | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 02:56 AM |
| 2 | You know what's worse than not approaching a girl?I gave up. All the efforts are costing too much money. Going out is expensive; going out alone and sober - depressing. After wasting all my available income for years on going out in hopes of meeting the right girl only set me back financially and prevented from achieving my financial goals. This is turn hinders my ability to become the best version of myself. Unable to provide financial security, I'm unable to become confident in my future and my goals, and thus myself. It now feels like a perp… | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 11:51 PM |
| 1 | [HELP]😭😭Go read a billion threads about this already made. If it's too much work, then ask those girls directly. They will know what you need. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop being the weak pathetic nice guy who pleases people to like him and doesnt like him self? And improve my self?Seems legit. This is what a desperate, pathetic person might do. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop being the weak pathetic nice guy who pleases people to like him and doesnt like him self? And improve my self?Google it. Lol. It's a close contact sport. If there is a magic pill to achieving what you seek, it's close contact sports. They just get it done. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop being the weak pathetic nice guy who pleases people to like him and doesnt like him self? And improve my self?Start doing jiu jitsu 3 times a week | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:45 PM |
| 19 | I would just make girls like me but after that I would realise that I dont like her, I just like being liked.Fuck. Well, at least I'm not alone who felt that way. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Deleted Tinder a while back.. much happier now!I've arrived at the same conclusion | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?My best advice to almost anyone is to join a wrestling or bjj classes instead of gym. The effects and benefits are surreal for building confidence and rapport with pretty much anyone. You get extremely conformable kino-ing, expressing yourself. Overall, you become alpha as fuck. I myself find to have a lot of the same obstacles that people share in this sub and so far bjj has been the most effective way to naturally achieve the results being sought here. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.Then try meditation. It should help with the inner conflict you're trying to resolve. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 05:14 PM |
| 6 | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.It's good to know I'm not the only one dealing with this shit. What I think is that "attractiveness" - specifically compliments on your good looks - doesn't mean you have all the necessary ingredients for being "sexy", or "desirable" to women. They want to see masculinity, strength and ability to carry yourself well. Some of these things can be acquired. I can't stress enough how much physical sports help you project those other things. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 04:03 AM |
| 24 | Asked out the girl at the pharmacy yesterday.Kush de Dank! | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Best guide on how to eat pussy...PERIODI never thought it would be a big deal until the period was within arms length and .....oh...my....God!....the smell was awful...gag inducing really...I can't imagine going through with it now >.< | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion. Tinder and cold approaching is too fast for me. Friends before dating?I agree. Gyms are more of a solitary activity. The ROI of contact sports was much higher for me. I'm not saying I'm slaying girls left and right, but I've definitely stopped feeling anxious and became pretty upfront about what's on my mind. | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion. Tinder and cold approaching is too fast for me. Friends before dating?yeah finding the right gym is important. i found a bjj/mma one where they have plenty of fundamental classes. i realized there isn't a lot of focus on individual skills and most of the learning comes from sparring higher skilled members. but the overall effect helps. I noticed fairly quickly I felt more relaxed, at ease and even more firm when talking to customers. Helps get my sales up I guess due to increased confidence. This all, of course, leads to better rapport with women. they pick up on … | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion. Tinder and cold approaching is too fast for me. Friends before dating?I understand it but is this subconscious or are you hiding some insecurities? With different people i form different connections. I guess the other's person energy directly plays a role in how our communication is built. If they are able to laugh at themselves, it is easier for me to make fun of myself as well, thus helping me open up. However, if body imagine or social status are some of the reasons why I feel uncomfortable, then addressing those areas of my life helps me feel better and boosts… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion. Tinder and cold approaching is too fast for me. Friends before dating?Why? | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion. Tinder and cold approaching is too fast for me. Friends before dating?Well I guess as long as you surround yourself with girls, I'd say do whatever. You can always play around with it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.Yeah, flexibility was improving real fast as well | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.I can see nothing wrong with OP, and we aren't properly informed to judge you on anything other than your looks. So whatever it is you need to fix, I bet this suggestion is most likely will be of help or at the very least - leave you right where you started, but healthier. Why? It's human to overthink, to get nervous in any social interaction. Even once you get to know someone, making a relationship out of it involves doing some work. But our interactions aren't only what we say to each other, b… | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 10:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.No one ever listens to me when I give this advice, but it works. Do hot yoga. i.e Bikram | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 08:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend.Same. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: good looking guy with ZERO self-confidence with womenI think me and you are very similar in this regard. I am going to assume you're not really a fighter type. What helps me be more "alpha" is engaging in physical contact sports like BJJ, wrestling or whatever, even hot yoga does wonders. Bonus question: is your posture perfect? Plus, saying what I actually think, helps to keep conversation more entertaining. Throw in jokes that are borderline inappropriate (but not insulting or whatever). No edits, for the most part. Don't try to figure out what … | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How to Embrace Your FlawsThis advice comes at an opportune time. As I'm recovering after an extremely embarrassing double date, I have these amped up angry emotions directed at people that put me through this. I started analyzing how this could hey own fault and the harsh, honest answers are too painful to live with and even more painful to overcome. The sad reality I'm facing is nothing new, but I hoped to have had risen above it. I haven't. Thank you for giving me a boost by reaffirming that this is the time for growt… | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 05:31 AM |
| 4 | Day Game Super Challenge - 50+ Missions For NewbsI feel like there is a huge leap between steps 12 and 13 | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 06:29 AM |
| 1 | A PUA "guru" in my city got called out by a local news organization. There is such a thing as a bad publicity.It seems the whole concept evolves that way or at least that's what people seek from it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 12:23 AM |
| 1 | A PUA "guru" in my city got called out by a local news organization. There is such a thing as a bad publicity.I just started reading "Models" and really enjoy it so far. Mark begins by addressing flaws of many PUA tactics, referring to them as short lasting band aid tactics rather than resolutions to deeper problems. It's something I was feeling myself after reading "the game". The conclusion I've come to was the same as his and yours: it's about self-improvement first and getting good with the ladies last. I was reminded of this guy and thought people might appreciate to learn from his faults. | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyI've had worse. Still don't like to approach so directly, so I usually just land a seat next to them in class and try to make good conversation. Rarely gets me anywhere romantic, but I did end up making tonnes of friends that way. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna go now"It's less cruel than it seems)) | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 06:26 PM |
| 4 | "I'm gonna go now"Sure. It's not simple though. Backstory: I met a girl at a party who turned out to be in my class later. We became friends and went for drinks with her group. We hit it off even though she had a boyfriend, who was in Chile (building houses or something). Our conversation led to us pretty much agreeing to getting it on at her place. I ended up walking her home, contemplating what should I do on the way. My main concerns weren't based on moral grounds. I had an early shift next day. My phone was d… | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 09:13 AM |
| 22 | "I'm gonna go now"I've done that and I still can't figure out if I regret it. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 08:58 PM |
| 0 | How to not be awkward when cold approaching?When I am edgy, my smile comes off looking fake. Hard to relax and make it natural if you are up in your head thinking about all the wrong things. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Did you read the free book, A Thousand Tiny Failures, I gave away last week? I could use those reviews now pleeease.I have not read it yet, sitting on my desktop. But I would love to give you a review afterwards, it only seems fair. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindknowing where to get it is help enough. I dont mind paying for something worthy. I have lots of time to listen to audiobooks while driving at work, but not so much to read actual books :-( | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindCould you please link where can i get it? | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 10:42 PM |
| 2 | the overlooked quality: female self esteem, from a woman's perspectiveYou are right. But you haven't burren on a date till 20!! You remind me of my close (girl) friends: you may be a great wife material, but for casual dating I wouldn't keep you in my book. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Repost from r/videos. I'm sure you guys will appreciate. Explanation in comments.This guy deserves karma How to perform: Prior to approach: sign your name to the same card that is second from the top of the deck, fold it and palm it in right hand. After she signs, fold up her card, switch that card for the palmed card. Place the card you signed before approaching in her mouth. Sign the card which is now the top card (identical to the one in her mouth), fold it up, switch it with the palmed card (her signed card) and place it in your mouth. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 07:26 PM |
| 4 | The first 30 seconds of this video is something every guy needs to see and internalize.Wire me 300$ and I will send you the coat. Me isn't from Nigeria. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 04:59 PM |
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