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And high status female doesn't mean shows the same high status markers that men show when they are high status. In other words, men don't care about your career or your income or your degree. They care about your empathy, your thoughtfulness, and your level of responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 05:29 PM
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Good luck to you and your fellow face-shape-admiring alpha friends.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 01:20 PM
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My greatest red pill role model is my now-dead grandfather. He was a tank commander in the Korean War and later became a pipeline welder. I have no problem with buying some nice looking clothes, but the whole concept of male fashion is antithetical to red pill in my mind. I can imagine my grandfather's reaction to the idea that the guys in the videos above are badass alphas. He would have looked at you like you were a fucking idiot and walked away. I guess it might be because I'm almost 40, but …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 12:26 PM
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So are animals. They have societies and cultures, same as us. I guess I don't understand your assertion that what makes us different from animals is being civilized. I think we're better at tool use, we have written language and opposable thumbs. But we are also quite uncivil to each other at times (especially in groups).
/r/askTRP31/03/15 09:54 AM
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Lactic acid is not the cause of DOMS. DOMS is caused by eccentric movement under a load. And the best cure is the same movement. The lactic acid theory is an older theory that is no longer supported by the evidence. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_onset_muscle_soreness
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:50 PM
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Why are you wasting your time trying to argue and convince people? Why would you want to be the Jehovahs Witness of TRP. Quit knocking on doors with your copy of The Rational Male in your hand and get back to work on improving yourself. You have let yourself get distracted from your mission.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:51 PM
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I just finished reading So Good They Can't Ignore You by Cal Newport recently, and it addresses your question very well. It deals with a passion mindset vs. a craftsman mindset. It has really helped reshape my perspective and find more fulfillment in my current job.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:21 AM
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faze\ˈfāz\ : to cause (someone) to feel afraid or uncertain Full Definition transitive verb : to disturb the composure of : disconcert, daunt <nothing fazed her> Other forms: fazed; faz·ing Examples Nothing fazes her. You'll never succeed as a writer if you let a little bit of criticism faze you.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:58 AM
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In answer to your question, I would recommend a book called So Good They Can't Ignore You by Cal Newport.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:32 PM
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My intent was to help you not sound like a submissive beta in a subreddit created to help guys become men. Striving for conciseness in your writing will improve the clarity of your thoughts. Learning how to take criticism is another skill that is an essential part of self-improvement.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 07:52 PM
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Hey guys I wanted to ask for What are some good examples of masculine body language?
/r/askTRP14/02/15 05:58 PM
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tenant: a person, business, group, etc., that pays to use another person's property : someone who rents or leases a house, apartment, etc., from a landlord tenet: a belief or idea that is very important to a group
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 11:51 PM
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Yes, I do. Having a full inbox on my office phone and not setting up my voice mail on my cell sends a clear message: text me, email me, or hope I answer the phone.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:25 AM
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Disagree. My hatred for voice-mail supersedes my desire to hear what anyone has to say.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:23 AM
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And in case you're too lazy to look it up, "wary" means cautious (as in "beware"), and "weary" means tired.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:16 PM
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"Toeing the line" doesn't mean what you think it means.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:20 AM
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Fazed
/r/askTRP13/12/14 02:34 PM
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Don't mess around with girls you work with. Ever. It's only a liability for you. Ignore them. Go do other things with friends away from work and find other ways to meet girls. Work is NOT the place to meet girls.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:38 AM
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Maybe you should just read it first.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:19 PM
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No arguments here.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:03 AM
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I agree generally with what you are saying here, and I agree that school is designed primarily for girls. It's my personal belief that co-education also plays a role. That being said, I want to take issue with your comments regarding ADHD. I was recently diagnosed with it at the age of 38. Getting proper treatment and medication has changed my life dramatically in just a short time. Many things that I just thought were quirks, along with genuine problems that affected my personal life and work l…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 10:12 PM
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In college. I was very religious at the time. So was she. I had had sex before getting married, but she had not. Married to her for three years. Between the lackluster sex life and me losing my religion, it didn't work out.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 02:37 PM
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As someone who married a virgin, I wouldn't recommend it. There were physical reasons the sex ended up being less than stellar, and on top of that, we had vastly different levels of sexual adventurousness. In other words, our sex life was very disappointing. Would have been very easy to dodge that bullet by having a sexual relationship before getting married.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 12:24 PM
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"...without showing she fazed you, of course."
/r/askTRP16/11/14 03:25 AM
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In that same scene, when the guy licks her egg, and Brad just trades with her and keeps eating, I thought, "Holy shit, that was alpha as fuck!" No matter what those guys did, he completely maintained frame.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:18 AM
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Take a different girl, but don't tell her who's going to be there. Just say you're going to an after-party with some friends. Be very non-chalant about it. Then cash in on the huge social value points you'll get when you walk in and they greet you as a friend. You had the right idea before, but I think the early reveal of who was at the party was where you lost all value, especially when you followed up with "are you going with me, or to see them?" So beta dude.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:46 PM
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Current height: 5' 11". Current weight: 206.2. Current BMI: 28.9. Fuck. I am not average in any other area or category in my life. Now I know what my top priority needs to be.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:03 PM
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Get off of Facebook and do something meaningful/productive/fun instead. Let people live in their delusions. You can't change them.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 11:53 AM
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Watch John Wayne westerns mixed with Clint Eastwood westerns.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 12:08 PM
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Whittled
/r/askTRP02/10/14 12:22 PM
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Tarzan (in the books) vascillates between red pill and blue pill more than any other character I've ever seen. It's pretty interesting, because it has the predicted effect on Jane.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 03:08 PM
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I agree that men care about looking good. My point of contention is that any place that includes the word "fashion" isn't the kind of place to get advice on looking good. It's a great place to learn how to look like a fucking douche. "Where can I find a non-blocky boot for under $300?" Are you fucking serious?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 06:47 AM
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Fuck malefashionadvice. The world doesn't need any more metrosexuals. Redpill is about embracing being a man. Men don't give a fuck about fashion. Fashion is a woman's game.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:26 AM
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Maybe try not jacking off so much. Or maybe stop death gripping that shit.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:32 AM
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The most effective way to learn new social skills is through practice. Prescription: Conversation with 3-4 strangers daily. Find a club that suits your interests. Join it. Talk to people. All kinds.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:47 PM
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Don't set it up with him. Don't announce it. You attack him randomly with no warning and no hesitation. And and you attack him relentlessly. Preferably when he is isolated.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 06:51 PM
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Anxiety sucks, but is very treatable. If you are in university, you probably have access to free counseling. It's worth it. My whole life has improved dramatically since I decided to talk to a professional.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:00 PM
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When it comes to someone shit talking to you, the best thing is to agree and amplify, or just ignore it. Trying to say, "I don't like that. Please stop." just fuels the flame and puts you outside the group. Don't take yourself seriously and especially don't take what they say personally or seriously. Pretend they're just some little kids on the playground and you're a teacher. They're trying to rile you.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:46 PM
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Sounds like you are on the right track. Don't lose heart. You will make a lot of mistakes. That's fine. That's actually good because at least you're trying to change yourself and change your outlook. I was a natural alpha until about age 21. I fell into major depression and anxiety, and it was a long road out of that hell hole. It all started when I said "it doesn't matter anymore who gets hurt. I don't care who leaves my life. I am getting nothing but rejection, misery and isolation by trying t…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 04:44 PM
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You acknowledge nice things she does for you (yes, like cooking for you) but here's the advanced part: you reward it randomly. Sometimes you just silently eat. But occasionally, you say, "I really appreciate how much time you put into making food for me. Thank you." This will create a random reward system, which is the best way to ensure that the behavior will continue. What makes gambling addictive is that the next card/spin/dice throw could be a winner. Most aren't, but our brain remembers the…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:17 PM
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I laughed heartily at this. Spot on satire right here.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:17 PM
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Provoking her intentionally is not alpha. That's a sign of insecurity. Teasing is one thing. That's cocky funny. But provoking someone into an argument is generally just an insecure person trying to throw their weight around. Remember: amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:07 PM
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Well, it depends on the relationship. If I understand you correctly, this is your grandmother, right? So you call your grandma out of the blue. You send her a card or a present. You plant flowers in her yard for her. You weed for her. I don't know your grandmother, but it sounds like at first you'll be doing more ignoring than rewarding. If she starts acting up, don't try to reason with her or even argue with her. Just ignore her. She'll settle down.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 11:25 PM
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Ignore the behavior you don't like. Reward the behavior you like.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:42 PM
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No idea. Don't really care. You can't save all the starfish.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:29 AM
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Most insightful post in this thread. Shit like this is why I hang around TRP.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:12 AM
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My instincts and my experience with my wife (a very strong and independent woman) leads me to believe #1 is the issue. You are still young and you should really try dating some older women. I think it may change your perspective.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 07:06 AM
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Women are also attracted to ambition. So even if you are at the bottom, but you've got hustle and you're working toward something, your SMV will be fine.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 12:37 PM
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How much time have you spent around men? You should get a job in construction for awhile. It will help you toughen up physically and mentally, because the shit-talking is nearly constant.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:29 AM
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Learn to play guitar. I've been using Rocksmith and having a great time. Read. Meditate. Take a martial arts class. Hike. Fish. Shoot guns. Drink whiskey. Write stories. Learn fabrication. Learn to weld. Take an online course. Learn photoshop. Learn a computer programming language. Make something with arduino.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 08:54 PM
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I used to be a Mormon. Even served a full-time two-year mission for that church. I am now an atheist. The process of awakening from that was gradual (with a few punctuated moments along the way), but very difficult and painful. For me, it was having the courage to wipe everything off the board and start over. It was very disorienting and difficult, but I have never regretted it.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 09:55 PM
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I can't get over her opener. That's your best lead-off? That you have three kids and you like kids? Seriously how do chicks not understand that is one of the worst possible boner killing openers. This chick needs to work on her game.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:44 AM
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Ain't nobody got time for dat.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:29 PM
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It's like a reset button for your nervous system.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 12:26 PM
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NEXT
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:13 PM
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High school isn't really important, but spelling and grammar are important. I am involved with the hiring process at the company where I work. If you have any spelling or grammar errors in your resume or cover letter, then you already have two strikes against you, especially if you say you are detail-oriented in your resume.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 05:15 PM
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Tsst - South park S10E7
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:11 AM
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Unless you go to work in construction. Or the energy industry. Or you learn a trade. Or you do about half a million other jobs that don't require a college degree. Don't buy into the nonsense that you have to have a degree to be successful. 65% of college graduates are currently working in a job that does not require a degree. And we haven't even started talking about beginning your career with student loan debt.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 05:38 PM
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Unicorns still don't exist. This one doesn't even come close. Keep practicing, young one.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 05:11 PM
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I read that book. I started working out and losing weight. I also started adding "soft dread" teasing. As in, "you better give me a kiss or else three other women will swoop in and do it for you." Or, whenever she does something I like, I say "well, that will keep you in first place a little longer." Always smiling and teasing. I still cannot believe how quickly my wife has responded to this. We've been married for 11 years, and our sex life is more passionate and more frequent than it's ever be…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 11:51 AM
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Also added to the reading list. Thanks for the help. I definitely know that I need to cut this shit out, but it's hard to even recognize in myself sometimes.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 11:58 PM
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I will pick that book up. I really appreciate you taking the time to tell me about it and to share that anecdote. I can definitely relate.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 11:11 PM
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That's definitely on the list. I hope it turns out to be that simple, but I have my doubts. I suppose just trying to be more aware of the behavior patterns and noticing them earlier is a start in the right direction, but I'm looking for a bit more to work with. If you have any resources, I'd appreciate a point in the right direction.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:17 PM
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weary=tired. wary=cautious or aware or leery.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 01:39 PM
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If you think Dante did not make up his books or the concepts in his books, or if you think I should respect them because of tradition or because they're historical, we're not going to get very far. Tradition does not necessarily warrant respect, nor does it imply that something is useful.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:07 AM
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The seven deadly sins were so designated by whom? Somebody made that shit up. I see no reason to pay any attention to any kind of claim to authority by the "seven deadly sins".
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 03:05 AM
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I say, "Well, you're still in first place." Seems to work. Implies that there's a race and she better keep running.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 06:29 PM
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Tarzan novels. The movies are all shit and never really do a good job of portraying Tarzan the way he's written. He's a consummate bad ass, but also shows how an alpha can get sucked into one-itis and turn into a beta orbiter. I re-read the first several books in the series recently, and it's fascinating to read them from a TRP perspective.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:40 PM
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Was this written by a 15-year-old?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:35 PM
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Next time don't tell her what restaurant you're taking her to. Just pick her up from work and drive her somewhere. Don't even tell her while you're driving.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 03:32 PM
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For cold reading: Full Facts Book of Cold Reading by Ian Rowland is considered the bible of cold reading by many. Also good: Emotions Revealed by Paul Ekman, What Every Body is Saying by Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins, Read 'Em and Weap by Joe Navarro and Phill Hellmuth. I would recommend taking a public speaking class. Hopefully there's a local chapter of Toastmasters. I would also recommend training/reading in the Sandler Sales Method. You will learn much about framing, negotiation, body langu…
/r/AlreadyRed30/04/14 04:58 PM
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What is MMSL?
/r/AlreadyRed30/04/14 04:44 PM
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Here's a great practice mode: have three conversations every day with strangers (preferably women). And it's easiest to start with people who are paid to be nice to you (waitresses, girl cutting your hair, baristas, etc.) This will help you get more comfortable just talking to anyone. Once that becomes second nature, I would really recommend a public speaking class. It's a great way to learn confidence in the face of fear. And it's not easy for anyone at the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:03 PM
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Speaking from experience in both realms: once you get your frame straight, and learn how to maintain it, the other party will fall into line and be happily submissive in 99% of cases. They get all agitated, anxious, and bitchy because you aren't filling your role as leader, so they are trying to step up into leader role and everything is all out of balance. If this sounds like some Dog Whisperer crap, it is. And it works. (except in 1% of cases where the pet or chick is mentally unhealthy or jus…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 09:51 PM
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I worked in an environment that was majority women. Everything had to be a consensus. And pretty much had to be unanimous. The leader (a woman) didn't make decisions. She would present them to the "team" and everyone would voice their concerns and worries and hold hands and eat chocolate, and some sort of consensus would be reached, and we would do whatever that consensus was. I had my own little department that I created and got funded myself, so I was largely immune from that environment, but …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:17 PM
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On a side note, Try the Tarzan series. There's never been a good movie version, but the books are great. Definitely TRP. However, Tarzan does go into beta orbit for Jane because of severe one-itis. Great to read from a TRP perspective. Highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 10:10 PM
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Don't talk about alpha. Be alpha. And don't apologize for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:43 AM
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Rugby. It's a legal fight club. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:17 PM
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e.g. US military
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:52 PM
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The point of the advice is this, and it's timeless: you don't need permission. You don't need to explain. You don't need to say anything. Do. Your. Thing. You are a man, living life. And no one else needs to be kept apprised of your every move. Not your government, not your neighbor, not the cops, not your priest, not your wife. You answer to you. Period. That doesn't change with cell phones. You are not obligated to answer the phone every time it rings. You are not obligated to answer every tex…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 08:13 PM
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Thanks. Lucky guess on my part. I just checked reddit, and I'm already 40 pages into Damnedest Thing. I'm really enjoying it so far. Thanks for recommending them. BTW, it's very similar to Byron Katie's message. She basically had a nervous breakdown and everything switched. She knew language, but had to learn a lot of things over again. Her book, Loving What Is, is really just designed to help people strip away their arguments with reality. Arguing with or protesting or thinking it should be som…
/r/RedPillBooks15/04/14 09:17 PM
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There are several documents there. Where do you recommend starting?
/r/RedPillBooks15/04/14 06:04 PM
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Sounds a lot like Byron Katie.
/r/RedPillBooks15/04/14 05:04 PM
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I caught part of this when I had to run an errand this morning. I thought the guy definitely had an axe to grind, and I'm glad some callers were able to make it into the queue with some rationality to bring to the discussion. Wish I could have listened to the whole program now.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:13 PM
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The Tarzan books are excellent. There has never been a movie version of Tarzan that does the books justice. Tarzan was a consummate bad ass. Talk about "do instead of talk". He couldn't speak English, but he could write it. So instead of talking about what kind of bad ass he was, he just did bad ass stuff all the time. Great series.
/r/RedPillBooks14/04/14 08:52 PM
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How does Mckenna define "spirituality"? The term raises my hackles and puts me on alert for "woo".
/r/RedPillBooks14/04/14 07:49 PM
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My reflections on your list, with a few additions. Overrated. A lot. Most of the Old Testament is genealogies and a lot of wrath and just crap. New Testament: 85% of it was written by Paul. Paul never met Jesus. He had a vision one day and started traveling around and ranting/making shit up as he went. Book of Revelation: hallucinogens had to be involved. agree agree We already mentioned the Bible, and I think it is drivel. But I do agree with Ecclesiastes. That's a great book unlike anything el…
/r/RedPillBooks14/04/14 07:41 PM
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Anyone who makes a big deal out of "date rape drugs" being slipped in their drinks, or who are paranoid about it. They seem oblivious to the fact that another shot of tequila is more dangerous to them than someone slipping them roofies.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:41 PM
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Strategy! I like it. Know your enemies and all that. You've changed my perspective, and I appreciate it. Now I have a new way of reading this book.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:45 AM
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I realized that after I wrote it. Thank you for setting the record straight.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:38 PM
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That's an interesting point about our grandfather's generation. You had to take responsibility for your own life at a very early age back then. The Depression showed them that the world did not give a fuck whether you lived or died, so if you want to live, you better learn to handle your own shit. We have been coddled more and more ever since.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 12:11 AM
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That means a lot to me. Thank you. He was a tank commander in the Korean War. He trained race horses, made his own wine and beer, drank whiskey all day every day, and had fists the size of a grapefruit. He had a sixth grade education, but could do trigonometry and could rebuild an engine by himself. It was an honor to get my first lessons on being a TRP man from him. He wasn't a perfect man, but there's no question that he was a man's man.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 11:46 PM
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For the record, this is a direct rip from Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe. It's also in Practical Programming by Mark Rippetoe.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:55 PM
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Many people confuse activity with accomplishment.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:13 AM
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And there are no bacon commercials on Oxygen. No reason to watch.
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