jeremyjack33 Archive

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1	How do i overcome the feeling of doing everything forced? Do shit you wanna do, and ask girls to join you. If they bail you still have something to do.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 09:13 PM
2	Actually like a girl I’ve been hanging with for a week. Making first move? Go for a walk on campus.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 06:25 AM
7	Conversation skills Cut your game time down and replace it with news, documentaries, movies, and books. When you get done watching a movie, reading a segment in a book, or reading the news, reflect on it and form an opinion on it. Go somewhere by yourself and speak your opinion for a whole minute out loud.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 06:17 AM
1	Being asked if I am gay "If I say yes can I play with your tits?"	/r/seduction	23/02/18 01:41 AM
1	How do I balance between being too passive/nice and being too aggressive/creepy? Make your intentions up front. That's the difference between a "nice" guy and a "nice guy".	/r/seduction	21/02/18 06:56 AM
4	How to wingman my female friends? Approach sets and make new friends.	/r/seduction	21/02/18 06:31 AM
3	Problems with erection Don't do aderall or speed. You may have just drank too much. If it's none of that stop masturbating.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 04:47 AM
2	"Girls will make it easy if they like you" Most girls I've dated that came onto me first, cheated. Just throwing that out there.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 03:17 AM
1	This dude in my friend group gets so many women and it makes no sense to me at all. He either has drugs, or you're off on something. He's probably setting sexual expectations upfront. If he is sleeping with as many women as you say, he has an abundance mentality, whether he realizes it or not. He's at least communicating it to these other girls he's sleeping with that there's always someone else on the horizon. Stop letting it get to you. It seems like it's making you bitter and holding you back. If there's something you can learn from him, try it.	/r/seduction	14/02/18 12:32 AM
1	10 Psychological Life Hacks One bit of advice here is literally to get tattoos. No thanks!	/r/seduction	13/02/18 10:06 PM
8	[M 20y]I got cheated emotionally and lied by my girlfriend [F 19y] She probably slept with the guy and he dumped her, or she realized they didn't have the same connection. In the future I'd advise against any kind of "break". Its basically an excuse to cheat and not feel guilty about it. If a girl brings it up, end it right then and there and cut contact. If I were you, I'd focus on your career and school. Hit the gym and find some new hobbies. Seems like this was a serious relationship, so you may need time to grieve. Take some time off from girls.	/r/seduction	13/02/18 06:03 PM
7	Having trouble with women once in bed with them Use your hands. Look up dicarlos escalation method. Light grazes on the arm and side of the torso, teasing zones like the inner elbow, and arm pit. Kiss her, amp it up, makeout, while still using your hands on her body. Take her shirt and bra off. Kiss her neck. Lick her ear hole and then blow on it. Start rubbing her tits and and teasing her nipples. Graze her belly and tease towards the pubic region. That should get her going. Start licking her nipples and rubbing her pussy and lightly grazing…	/r/seduction	09/02/18 11:09 PM
1	What is generally the best way to respond to long apologetic texts? "Let me know if you need a study buddy. I'll keep in touch." Then ask her out again when you plan to do something fun.	/r/seduction	09/02/18 10:02 PM
2	Having a hard time not coming off as needy You're supposed to initiate. I've met women that text first, initiate plans, but for the most part you need to lead. Now as for being needy, it sounds like you're bored. Get some hobbies, hit the gym, read a book, go out and meet new people. If you're already doing that, when setting something up for a date, have something FUN to do that you would otherwise already be doing. Once you send that text, ignore your phone. Do NOT double text in this instance. Find something to do that'll keep your mi…	/r/seduction	09/02/18 09:56 PM
1	Basic social skills Look up conversation threading. Don't just ask questions, make statements, have an opinion on things and be ready to express it fluidly. You should really consider reading that book, though.	/r/seduction	09/02/18 04:42 AM
1	What questions do you have about attracting women? Get some hobbies. Go out and do interesting things. Read books, watch movies you otherwise wouldn't.	/r/seduction	03/02/18 10:16 PM
2	What questions do you have about attracting women? Start approaching women. If you have your shit together(ie know who you are, comfortable with yourself, hit the gym regularly, good hygiene, decent fashion sense) there's really nothing left other than going out there, meeting new people, and striking up some conversation. Look up "conversation threading". Make sure to mix in plenty of statements, and opinions so it doesn't seem like an interview. Put together some interesting stories from your life and flesh them out, rehearse them at home. If …	/r/seduction	03/02/18 10:14 PM
2	Well see, girl told me when i asked her when she is available, does it mean the end for me with her? Wait a couple days. Plan something COOL to do (bowling, darts, go carts, a local event) than text 'Hey I'm doing x on x day at x time. You should come." If she flakes on that, just back off.	/r/seduction	30/01/18 10:29 PM
2	Shit test question No dude, you failed. If she wasn't feeling good you should have just expressed disappointment, but let it go, and left. Getting all fussy about it is needy behavior. A simple "damn, it really sucks you're not feeling good. I'll head out and talk to you later."	/r/seduction	27/01/18 09:29 PM
2	How can you max out your looks? What are the best things to do? T shirts and jeans are fine. Just not all the time.	/r/seduction	24/01/18 08:32 PM
6	How can you max out your looks? What are the best things to do? Get a good haircut, from a salon. Hit the gym at least three times a week. Wear clothes that fit your body. Not just t-shirts and jeans/shorts. Check the current trends. Basic hygiene.	/r/seduction	24/01/18 08:39 AM
1	Am I doing this wrong? You have to set up something specific, or tell them you'll text them with details later. Otherwise you won't get the date. You have to lead.	/r/seduction	19/01/18 02:04 AM
1	Is it honest (in Manson's terms) to be playing games? You shouldn't be doing anything intellectual through text. Text is for logistics, and light hearted teasing or jokes, funny things that happened to you. The whole point of being honest is building a connection. You can't do that through text. If you want to demonstrate you intellect, you need to do so in person.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 09:37 PM
1	We're having sex now, how do I do my part in keeping up the attraction ? Keep being yourself. Hang out with the boys, workout, pursue your hobbies, and work on your career/school. Don't stop being the guy she met.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 09:31 PM
3	Texting girls after setting up date on Tinder Just send them a funny meme or gif, or mention something funny that happened to you. Just keep it light hearted, None of that "how are you?" stuff. And don't over do it, save the best stuff for in person.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 05:50 AM
1	So, why would she feel offended and not be able to take a compliment in the following convo? Too many assumptions in a row. I could see how she got annoyed.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:33 PM
1	I was dumped this morning after three dates because the girl didn’t feel a connection, this keeps happening. How do you create a connection? Sounds like you aren't happy with yourself, so you keep trying to prove yourself to women, through supplication. You're afraid of being polarizing, and precarious. Read Models by Mark Manson, and No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. This will give you introspective, into why men get like that and how to change.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 07:30 PM
3	Girl is asking to see my FB profile after I asked her out. Am I the only one majorly turned off by this? Please CMV about this I'd love to know why this isn't weird. Did you meet her in person? If not, I'd say it's pretty reasonable. Just tell her you don't really participate in social media.	/r/seduction	05/01/18 07:26 PM
2	How do I get started? Mystery method is old and most of the techniques were exposed years ago. It's pretty much worthless at this point. Models helps people build a solid frame, and develop their own inner game. Outer game means nothing, if you don't build a solid frame.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 07:52 PM
2	Ex-wife of 4 years cheats. I realize how much of a loser I am with woman. Take some time off. You need to separate and grieve. You're wife just destroyed a relationship you spent years building together. Let it all out and get some therapy. Then worry about rebuilding yourself. Other girls should be the last thing on your mind. If you need a lay, consider an escort.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 07:11 PM
6	How do I get started? Yes. Mystery method is basically about putting on an act and being someone your not. Models focuses on getting in touch with yourself and becoming genuinely attractive and confident.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 06:33 PM
23	How do I get started? Read Models, by Mark Manson. It's the only book you really need.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 05:31 PM
1	How can I have STR, FWB and casual sex "without going out of my way"? (Male/20) Find some hobbies and join clubs at school, and local Meetup groups. Women aren't going "out of there way" to talk to strangers either, especially the attractive ones. You're gonna be lucky to get a girl once a month without putting yourself out there, and finding ways to do things with women who have similar interests.	/r/seduction	26/12/17 08:35 PM
2	Got rejected a second time by the same girl because she's "too busy" to be in a relationship, but she still messages me and I still see her pretty much twice a month. How do I deal with this situation? Have you hung out one on one? If not, let it go. She's giving you an excuse.	/r/seduction	26/12/17 08:14 PM
10	Girl always says yes but never pulls through It could be anything. Have you gone out one on one? Regardless state you intent, set up a specific date and if she agrees than flakes, move on. If you see her call her out in a polite way and tell her you like her but you don't play games and don't appreciate people who waste your time. Right off the bat.	/r/seduction	21/12/17 08:42 PM
1	New to St Louis How old are you? What do you like to do? What kinda girls are you interested in? The party scene is mostly downtown(Washington Ave and ballpark village and clubs nearby). The hipster, artsy people hang out on Cherokee, or the Grove. Central West end is also an option.	/r/seduction	18/11/17 04:48 AM
1	How can one come out of a temporary fight or an awkward silence? Act like it never happened and you're still best friends. Send a funny GIF or meme.	/r/seduction	03/11/17 06:37 PM
3	What the fuck am I doing in my life Turn off the video games and TV. Go get a job at a restaurant bussing tables or at a bar barbacking. It forces you to be around people and socialize and provides a flexible schedule when school starts back up. Get to know the people you work with and build a social circle. Find a watering hole bar and befriend the staff and regulars. Instead of watching sports at home, watch them at a bar. Find a Meetup group that does board games. Pickup a recreational sport like bowling, darts, or billiards an…	/r/seduction	02/11/17 08:19 PM
2	Advice on quitting tinder? Get off tinder, dude. The attractive girls that do meetups from tinder are probably banging random dudes every night they're horny. If you're looking for a quality relationship, online dating isn't where you're gonna find it.	/r/seduction	02/11/17 08:09 PM
4	Talking over messages, running out of things to say. If you text everything you have to say, you'll run out of shit to talk about in person.	/r/seduction	21/10/17 06:20 AM
4	What are your favorite cold approaches at a bar? "What are you gonna be for Halloween?" is a perfect opener for this time of year.	/r/seduction	30/09/17 08:09 PM
7	Guys, please do not delete your post after your question gets answered.... Pussies. Use an alt.	/r/seduction	26/09/17 05:10 AM
1	Old fart needs help Chat up everyone at the bar. Other bartenders, patrons, servers etc.	/r/seduction	22/09/17 06:13 AM
1	Asked girl out and got rejected with"idk, i'm just so depressed, sorry :(" "Maybe later(?)" You should make a plan to do something and TELL HER to come. It'll be so much fun and you won't have to think about anything.	/r/seduction	03/09/17 05:33 AM
1	How do you react on set when another dude approaches a girl Don't become a jealous bitch. Join in the conversation have fun with it and build rapport with both of them. Being a dick about it, or turning it into a dick swinging contest, is only gonna show insecurity. If you don't wanna deal with it take her by the wrist and whisper " I don't like sharing your attention, let's go somewhere else" in her ear.	/r/seduction	02/09/17 07:26 PM
1	Can't seem to make girls feel safe in my presence, have an easy comparison so I know it's me He either leads a very interesting life or he's probably just really good at digging deep into other people's interests and making a connection instantly.	/r/seduction	25/08/17 06:51 AM
1	How do I initiate sex? Do something physical on the dates where you'll constantly be brushing by them or touching them. Pool, darts, even something like a thumb war. It makes things a lot more natural when you start to escalate.	/r/seduction	18/08/17 05:40 PM
1	Girl flaked on me after following me around all day and into the night, explain this shit Text her "when are we kicking it at this festival?". Be a leader. Stop conversing through text. Use texting for meet ups only. If she doesn't reply, move on. You should have set up the date first thing when she added you on Facebook.	/r/seduction	12/08/17 07:07 PM
5	Meeting a girl at her house for the first time & escalating Questions game, dicarlo escalation ladder. Don't put on a movie or some shit, put on music and talk for a bit. Smile, maintain eye contact.	/r/seduction	02/08/17 09:29 PM
5	Women are more attracted to men when they are uncertain of his feelings, research finds. So, the old dating advice about ‘playing hard-to-get’ may have some scientific basis. Yeah. Breaking contact entirely.	/r/seduction	30/07/17 08:34 PM
68	Women are more attracted to men when they are uncertain of his feelings, research finds. So, the old dating advice about ‘playing hard-to-get’ may have some scientific basis. I'm currently nexting a girl I was in a relationship with. It fucking sucks, but almost everyone I've done it to in the past, ends up blowing up my phone within a week. The shit works. And when it doesn't, by the time I realize it, I'm already over it and talking to new people.	/r/seduction	30/07/17 04:45 PM
1	People of r/seduction who were once bad with girls and are now drowning in pussy, what did you do to get to where you are today? Relax them. If you need to put your thumbs in your pocket. Crossed arms convey being closed.	/r/seduction	21/07/17 07:58 PM
11	People of r/seduction who were once bad with girls and are now drowning in pussy, what did you do to get to where you are today? Body language- Posture, dont cross you arms, facial expression(smile with your eyes and have a constant slight smirk), and eye contact.	/r/seduction	20/07/17 06:57 PM
1	Favorite place to go on a first date? Activities. Bowling, pool, darts, shuffleboard. Leaves ample opportunity for kino, and good conversation.	/r/seduction	20/07/17 10:22 AM
3	Still having trouble stirring conversation. Thanks for sharing. Putting the pressure of building the conversation on the girl is something I honestly never thought about.	/r/seduction	29/08/15 04:29 AM
1	Kind of a boring guy. Need help Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People". The key to not being boring is to be genuinely interested in people. Find out what are interested in and build the conversation around that. Hobbies are great but really only important if someone is asking about what you do for fun, or if they relate to good stories about yourself.	/r/seduction	23/10/14 07:53 PM
2	Already have a girlfriend, but what techniques are most important for building "attraction" in other areas of life? Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People." That book changed my life and its an easy read.	/r/seduction	28/09/12 05:21 PM