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| 5 | A Word on "He's Just Not That Into You"FYI- his co-author for HJNTIY is Liz Tuccillo, who was also a writer for Sex in the City, and then later went on to write the novel How To Be Single, which also went on to be adapted into a movie. So not exactly an invisible slouch being out shadowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 35 | A Word on "He's Just Not That Into You"Okay now. While I don’t disagree that we should support women authors, just a few details here worth noting...each book he’s written was co-authored by a woman, so avoiding those texts is also avoiding women authors too. Next, I listen to a lot of stand up comedy. One of his bits specifically discusses how HJNTIY came about because the women he worked with on Sex in the City were ranting about there relationship woes and he stayed out of it until specifically asked his opinion, after which point… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSEven if it’s British and the spelling is correct, it’s still not used in the proper context. Antagonizing is irritating someone on purpose, more like what Adam is doing to op here by tracking her down on Reddit, with a baiting line about closure as an attempt to reel her back in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 17 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSOkay can we talk about ‘instead of just antagonising people who’ve caused you pain in the past’? I just...don’t get it. He’s attempting to make a point about why he sees FDS to be as bad as MRAs, but then doesn’t understand the meaning of antagonize or even how to spell it properly. So his weak half assed attempt to explain why he’s gone so far out of his way to internet stalk you completely fails, and he’s sad that you’re getting good advice from a community of helpful uplifting ladies who clea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 0 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!Oh I saw it. Some of it makes good points. But some of it could be wildly twisted into an abuse of power for no reason. Which leads to people like more poor best friend, who did none of those things, or anything untoward in fact, being banned for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!And that’s why automatically banning someone you just don’t like or agree with isn’t a good idea...just saying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.You’re not wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.My shining example of a great FOB is my brother. He has twins with his wife, and despite his absolute lack of experience with babies, he really stepped up when my nephews were born. He took a month of paternity leave. After he went back to work (full time with a 45 minute commute), every day when he got home he’d do all the dishes from the day, get dinner for him and my SIL situated, help with baths and bedtime, and then straighten up the whole downstairs so she could go to sleep early. He’s alw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:40 PM |
| 34 | Can We Talk About Lesbian Pickmeishas who are always outraged on behalf of men and have “advice” for straight women that’s always about settling for less? They are NOT your friends.Hmm a little digging shows me her profile says bisexual....so not exactly representing honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 07:19 AM |
| 8 | Advice to get rid of PUA types! Out weird them! Make them want to avoid you!Oh I like you. A weird, ginger Jew from Florida...my new friendship goal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:47 PM |
| 12 | It's not Men vs. Women. It's High Value vs. Low Value.This is a perfect description of what this sub should always aspire to be. I concur that it should be pinned for all lurkers to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 10:51 AM |
| 15 | It's not Men vs. Women. It's High Value vs. Low Value.Exactly this. My wonderful high value bf would see this sub as helpful to all its users because it’s never occurred to him to treat women as anything less than deserving of high value treatment. He’s watched his mother and sister be treated terribly for years. He would never say that any woman should be used and abused for trying to better themselves and expect more from their partners. Even the ones who have taken advantage of him and treated him terribly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 10:50 AM |
| 7 | get off r/SkincareAddiction and dump himHaha best rant ever. Very wise tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:27 AM |
| 12 | get off r/SkincareAddiction and dump himNot to mention...when was the last time he replaced his pillows...ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 10 | Why don't Men Realize that Not Caring about Women's Sexual Pleasure will Cause Women not to want Sex with them?This reminded me that my ex had the attitude that it was all my responsibility to make sure that I had an orgasm when we had sex. I was with him 8 years and we always had sex frequently. I think after a certain point I just figured with the law of averages that I’d at least end of satisfied some of the time so I settled for it for way too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | One of my proudest moments: my ex threw a temper tantrum when I told him the full extent of my sexual historyNo one should judge you by how many or how few people you’ve had sex with. In the long run it doesn’t matter. But it should particularly be avoided because it’s been proven that women who have been sexually assaulted often go through periods of promiscuity in an attempt to reclaim their sexuality. And considering how common it is to know someone who’s been raped, the chances that you’re unfairly and harshly judging someone who’s been through an awful trauma, and compounding that by slut shaming … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | One of my proudest moments: my ex threw a temper tantrum when I told him the full extent of my sexual historyps- I highly recommend the books if you’re a reader. So good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Some redpiller sent me this DM after my last post. He talks about his totally real, definitely not made-up wife as though she's a dog 🤢The most hilarious part of this is that he thinks that his evil nefarious plan to convert all the white men and significantly diminish the dating pool for ‘women like us’ could actually work....completely missing the point that if any man, white or not, could be so easily swayed to this awful misogynistic way of life then they are by definition already not part of our target demographic. Go on with your delusion, racist LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:31 PM |
| 11 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!Exactly this. Random pain during sex really throws off my groove. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 8 | I stumbled upon FDS a few days ago & let me just say that my mindset towards dating/relationships is forever changed. I have promised myself to guard my heart. So is this a red flag? I just started chatting with this guy on bumble.Hmm let’s break it down a bit. ‘Try and be happy’- like he thinks it’s impossible. ‘Break free from the horrible thoughts...’- implies he has a problem having good thoughts. ‘Get away from negative people’- sounds as if he is surrounded by toxicity. And on top of all this you don’t know him well at all and were just having a basic small talk conversation. Unless you had previously connected deeply on mental health issues to have this sort of conversation, not exactly appropriate. So he comes acr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | HVM behavior 😉😘🥰I was with my bf for maybe a month when he heard my favorite band was going to be playing in the city. A few days later he texts me a confirmation of the special VIP package he bought for me, just because. And he said he didn’t assume that I would be taking him, that I could take whoever I wanted. Just one of the many reasons I always tell him he’s the best. They’re rare but the HVM are out there, so stay strong and be patient ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 11:04 AM |
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