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60ies is pushing it already, I would say 50ies. I also agree that the best time to snatch a quality partner is in man’s 30ies. Damn, I planned to fuck around till my 40ies, but I met very hot / smart / relationship-oriented girl in my mid-30ies. It’s such rare where I live, thus I married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:54 PM
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having sex with many different girls is fun. if you are girl, then i don’t think you will understand it, lol. sadly, monogamy is not vastly compatible with it. therefore, we need some other excitement. like I often say: if you want healthy children, then marriage is the best way to go if you don’t want children, then non-monogamy is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:44 PM
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THIS it’s very true - there needs to be fun, otherwise why stay together?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:36 PM
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My record is four girlfriends but it was very draining. Three girlfriends are already like second full-time job, but it’s manageable. However, it wasn’t ethical non-monogamy and only one (uber-slut) knew about others. That one created lots of drama but she deserved it (by cheating on me), lol. It was fun but I am not proud of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:32 PM
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ok, so you have two choices: cry how undesirable you are and do nothing with it try to do something with it I chose the second option. It was hard path but it did work well for me. which option is yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:55 PM
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Damn! That’s finally a good explanation. I read about this effect, but never understood why it was working. That makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:25 PM
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First of all - you are completely right I am average looking dude. And it’s not like women were fighting over me, lol. However, I learned to cold-approach, I have decent career and I worked on my fitness. It wasn’t easy, but I banged some hotties. Wifey told me once that I was only temporary boyfriend for her. But the sex was good, we travelled and her mum liked me. Yes, I played my marriage card to nail down a hottie. I have very good game as well. OK, as for baby mamas: Anne de Paula - check h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:06 AM
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If you dated for a few years in current environment, then you were rejected, ghosted, told you have no dating value, etc. Your emotions were hurt a lot and now you just protect yourself from being hurt again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:13 AM
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you read too much Red Pill it’s different culture my friend even if i get divorced at least there will be children out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:44 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 you should really go out and start dating. you are reading too much Red Pill, lol. those athletes’ baby mamas aren’t that hot and surely aren’t that smart at all :) what you see on Instagram isn’t that real i dated maybe five high quality women in my life and they are very very hard to impress. As for Lucy Liu - i don’t know her, but she sounds crazy, i.e. her sex with ghosts, etc. Please point me to those athletes’ baby mamas. i want to see if they are hot / smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:18 AM
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i don’t think it’s the sole purpose - in her culture it’s what people do. but like you said security, i.e. assets splitting, surely played part. nevertheless, marriages are transactions and there is no point of hiding it - i am getting hot supportive wife and children with good genetics, wife is getting decent supportive husband and security of marriage. i guess i am getting short end of stick here monetary-wise, but this is how current dating market is. also, i am not a looker, but hopefully ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:56 PM
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my family is on other country. we visit them twice a year, but no family reunions. i lived my whole life just by myself and i am ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:23 PM
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for her security. if shit hits the fan, she doesn’t want to be single mum without money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:22 PM
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i agree that it’s possible to stay together without marriage and that would be me preference. but wifey won’t be with me if unmarried. thus i decided to take this risk. she’s that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:06 PM
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sorry, but i don’t know answer to that yet. that step is still before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:05 PM
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of course she’s giving cold shoulder to any dude now. she’s a decent family-oriented woman. i think you don’t understand how it works. i did fuck around a lot, but once married, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:33 PM
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i disagree. if children aren’t in your plans, then you can get lots of single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:21 PM
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no woman wants to be single mum. high quality women just have leverage to press guys for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:20 PM
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because you need stable two-parents family to brought up children in the sanest way. Single parent girls are gold mine of same day lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:18 PM
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hahaha, I don’t get the joke. pls explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:46 PM
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100% agree he needs to go gym, dress up, work on being confident and funny, have career, etc. just age doesn’t cut, but that’s where he is maxed out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:11 PM
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that’s true. some of my exes were uber-sluts banging Chads. however, all of them settled with beta boys. Girls aren’t stupid. Even slutty ones know that Chad isn’t for marriage. Even wifey thought I was somewhat nerd, while I had colourful past. I made sure she didn’t learn it early, lol. Nevertheless, this chart is still very accurate, i.e. women desirability curve is much different than men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:30 PM
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this is good chart: http://www.andychalkley.com.au/books/Girl_Power/OEBPS/images/graphs/Desirability.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:22 PM
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I cannot imagine wifey simping to anyone 🤣🤣 she dumped some tall lawyer (partner-level) because he started flirting with some waitress. 8 and 9s are the league on their own. You need really different game to get them. Common tricks don’t work. I got wifey in bed fast (i have good game :P) and banging was good. Later she told me I was temporary boyfriend after that lawyer dude, but we clicked in bed so days became weeks and weeks became months. Then we travelled and had more adventurous experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:01 PM
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i guess in small/mid-size city reputation matters much more for girls. in large city, like NYC, you rarely meet the same person twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:57 PM
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hahahaha, really? Women have the most dating firepower in their 20 (especially early 20ies). Men have the most dating firepower in their 30 (especially mid-30ies). Yes, thanks to hookup culture both genders take damage. I was very fucked up after my cheating hoe ex. But I was already self-repairing via therapy, books and physical activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:42 PM
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fertility and attraction is big part of ltr-worthiness for sure. but even if we remove it, the image is blank. i dated some 30yo, but they had issues like thinking of their exes, bad experiences with exes, lack of trust, etc. some 30+ were hot, but there was always something. a girl has to be really hot and smart for you to consider if it’s worth time/effort to iron those mental blocks. Therapy is damn hard and time consuming. btw, wife is from law school. like mentioned above i really had to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:28 PM
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Online dating isn’t worth it. The best thing is social circle, the second best thing is cold-approaching everywhere, i.e. street, public transport, etc. Your peak attractiveness is around 30-40 and this is the age where you should look for long-term relationship (if you want kids). To be attractive: hit gym and pump iron, learn to be confident, learn to be funny, dress better and have decent professional career. If you mix confidence, good career and fitness, you are golden. Once you have experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:14 PM
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Most of marriage-oriented girls are gone from dating pool before they reach 25. Why? Because they want to have family. You can still find some good unlucky ones around 25-28, but they are very far in between. There is usually a reason why they aren’t married yet and you need to find it out during dating. In my example, wifey wanted to be ‘successful’ and ‘have career’ before children. It took me three years and lots of arguments to set her straight, but she got it at the end. I haven’t seen a qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:41 PM
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In my experience it’s very true. In almost all my relationships girls still was communicating with her ex-boyfriend for 1-2 months before cutting him out. It applied to both ‘good girls’, ‘uber-sluts’ and everyone between.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:36 PM
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Generally high-quality women want to get married and they have enough leverage (i.e. options) to get what they want. Lesser quality women (i.e. not that hot, not that successful and old) might agree for partnership. I am of opinion that if you are having kids, you should aim for the hottest / smartest / best genes you can. those girls want marriage to protect themselves and can get another hot guy to commit. If dating is like a card game, the marriage is the last card you want to play. During da…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:23 PM
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The only reason to marry is to have a children. Children need two-parents for the most balanced upbringing and psychological stability. Other than that, the risks are just too great and you lose sexual variety. If you aren’t into children, then spend your money on yourself, travel and keep a harem of girls. You won’t die alone if you have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:42 AM
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I think that hot guys just don’t want to date promiscuous girls, therefore they can get only ugly guys to commit, lol. For ugly dudes it kinda works too because they can bang above their league. I attended those sex clubs only a few times, but I got a few girls messaging me for drinks, etc. I am not a looker, but I am quite cool and have decent career / money. what do you mean by ‘evaluate common expectations of women sexuality’?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:15 AM
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I dipped my toes in that too. It’s a completely different and alien mindset they have. I would even call it ‘brainwashed by sex-positive’ media. Both men and women in that are the same, and I haven’t met anyone well-adjusted. e.g. I fucked one girl in the front of her boyfriend - she was moaning like in porn and he was cheering. I think they kissed afterwards but I just grabbed my clothes and run away. It was the most bizarre experience I ever had. You are right that women are genuinely shocked …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:08 AM
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10% are good looking, i.e. tall / muscular / handsome face (pick two). 10% are very confident and have game 80% don’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:58 AM
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in smaller cities - yes, 20ies are looking for ltr. in larger cities it’s completely opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:19 AM
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