jerrygarciesisdead Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How Important is a Prenup for those going through the process? Depends. If you have assets that need protecting prior to getting married. Kids ? Business you own ? For a 2nd marriage later in life ? 100% required or walk away	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/26 09:45 PM
0	Divorced dads: I can’t imagine leaving my wife even though our personalities are polar opposites and the marriage is slowly killing me (M35, F33, 1 kid) You will be divorced when she cheats. She probably feels unloved , unliked and unappreciated. If she hasn’t already she will have an affair partner in her 40s and you will cheat. See a therapist and see if it can be fixed. If it can’t divorce and enjoy life. PS. If you are miserable so is she	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 08:41 AM
5	What were the signs you wished you paid more attention to? She rarely initiated sex. I worked full time she was stay at home mom yet I did a ton more of the duties with the kids	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 08:36 AM
3	Any insight? Get a lawyer. Get your financial house in order. Passwords / credit cards / you name it. Depending on the state you live in infidelity can affect alimony / child support. Be there for your kids. Double down on being a good dad. Document everything. Nights she goes out and leaves you with kids. Keep a journal online. Daily notes about her stuff she is / isn’t doing Get out as soon as possible and start living your life. Take a year before dating again. Kids will need extra support from you.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/26 06:31 PM
4	Just beginning journey through divorce The 50k will be an issue. Talk to your attorney asap on that	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/25 01:10 PM
11	Sad today, trying to focus on the long game My soon to be ex doing the same things. Focus on your kids your good friends etc. the loneliness gets easier. There will be time for others at some point	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/22 04:45 PM
1	Separation question Depends on the state. Even if separated in va if you have sex considered adultery and can nullify alimony. Depends entirely non your states laws	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/22 02:19 AM
2	Are choosing not to pay off your mortgage and 401k funding considered need for alimony? I’m most states here inheritance is not a marital asset unless you guys commingled it with existing accounts.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/22 05:08 PM