| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 184 | REPOST from /Tinder .... Hannah isn’t with the dumb shit | QUEEN SUPREME | jess_611 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:41 AM |
| 184 | I’m disgusted by the excitement surrounding this. NEVER TAKE A MAN BACK. He looks PATHETIC | RANT | jess_611 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:59 AM |
| 53 | RP from /trashy IDK how about you just don’t be a shitty LVM...I hope she still leaves his ass | MALE DEPRAVITY | jess_611 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 41 | Fuck Ben | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | jess_611 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 31 | REMINDER: block him sis “Why It Took Me 7 Months to Unfollow My Ex on Instagram” | REMINDER 👑 | jess_611 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:52 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?The last time I had casual sex I got pregnant too. He was surprisingly supportive and spent the termination with me. It was still traumatic, I can’t imagine being alone too. I know my outcome is rare which is why I stopped having casual sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:30 PM |
| 26 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬Thank you for sharing this! This has opened my eyes to SO MUCH. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 05:29 AM |
| 38 | LostFrom my experience with SSDI they don’t hand it out to everyone. You have to be proven without a doubt disabled and unable to work. I wouldn’t be too worried about a fancy attorney being able to persuade a judge you could work when the government agency had determined you ARE disabled. However, I’m sure it is a good idea to have some type of representation. Have you asked your attorney about payment plans, or low cost resources? They may have resources to direct you to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 3 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I’m curious how one moves from say Newbie to Ruthless? Is this outlined our known? I did search the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:33 AM |
| 67 | Thanksgiving red flagsToday my Mom and Grandma cooked a huge meal for just us 3 plus my kids. Not a single LVM in sight. However, this is only due the fact my mothers “boyfriend” is the lowest of them all. He refused to attend, so she left after cleaning up to take him food and spend the rest of the day with him. Watching her serve this piece of trash has really helped me embrace my single life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 20 | Thanksgiving red flagsThis is my goal when my kids are all over 18. Sorry kids, I’m over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 07:49 AM |
| 9 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.I read this last night and died. Today as I’m getting ready and saw my eye holes it came to mind, I just cannot with these scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 08:24 PM |
| 5 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Don’t let a woman come to him with birth control side effects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 34 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpThis is such a great comment, perfectly summed up. I always wondered if these people vent to other partners about other partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 24 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpSo glad you’re here, Sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 28 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens.Seattle restaurants charge a sugar tax. All McDonald’s drinks are $3-4. I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:14 PM |
| 6 | My new definition of BDSMHe likely didn’t know the first thing about making a woman cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 08:39 AM |
| 26 | Happy Mother’s Day FDS!Happy Mother’s Day Ladies! The amount of sad women posting on Reddit is disappointing but not surprising. I’m still learning how to have good holidays single & alone…but I’m 10000x happier than being with an abusive scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 23 | The kind of thing that I don't remember being mentioned in all those articles about population declineI just quit my job last month. After 13 months my kids needs could no longer be met with me working full time from home. I’m a single mom. I worked my way out of poverty, doubling my income from 2018-now. I can’t stop thinking about how poor we use to be. I don’t want to do that again. I really hope schools reopen as normal in the fall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 15 | Why we don’t do clapbacksThis is the sign I needed to block someone 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:47 AM |
| 16 | A wholesome change of pace! Society consistently stereotypes single mothers as "lazy", while praising low value, bare minimum behavior from fathers. It's cultural misogyny in action.I’ve been given A LOT of shit from my own friend a& family for keeping my kids from their dad. He went to jail more than 5 times during the time we were together for DV. He had a job less than 5% of the time we were together. I also couldn’t count on him for daycare, so my kids went to daycare while he slept or played video games all day. I guess I missed the things he has to offer in my kids life. Once I was done and left I then focused on protecting my kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Restraining order servedI’m so proud of you! There are truly so many difficult things you still have yet to face, but you will get thru it!! Please please please make sure you keep up with the order. Usually a temporary order is served first for ~14 days and you go back for another hearing. Be prepared for the courts to question you at every turn. My ex was a master manipulator, and I was a broken version of myself. The courts failed me over and over. Looking back I wish I had reached out for legal representation. If y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:32 AM |
| 13 | When a man marries his mistress, he marries KARMA. $800 Million & NO prenup.she is only 7 years younger, yet looks decades younger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 26 | Ah, 38yo lecturer who does not want to call it a 'date' when he asks you out (but is on an online dating app). Also somehow makes friends along the way and sets his age range down to 25.The first answer outraged me as well. I can already hear his gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:16 AM |
| 11 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......This reminds me of my children. I don’t need another... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:06 AM |
| -7 | Hangman!I hope you didn’t hurt yourself reaching | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:17 PM |
| -8 | Hangman!It’s just another low quality meme bringing this subs value down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:47 PM |
| -13 | Hangman!I’m sure I’ll get down votes but this is childish and immature. Low quality meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 8 | Why highly educated does not mean high value! Black man graduates from a law school were only 50% of graduates are employed. He has 2.5 GPA and hasn't passed the bar exam after multiple attempts yet he totes he is the prize. He then goes on to degrade black women in his description. 🤢🤢🤢WTF is going on with his beard in this pic?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 6 | Leaving my negative value situationshipYou got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:48 AM |
| 18 | When you put 60+ hours of prep into your bf's birthday, only for your toxic bf to whine about how nO oNe NeeDs hIm. I don't really understand why men do toxic shit like this and spoil things for themselves, when their girlfriends already pour their life and soul into their relationship.He sounds like a terrible fucking person. He is a low value person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 7 | Men on dating profiles without a photo?Every single one of them has turned out to be a weirdo. Hard NO from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | How Much is He Costing You?I’m into my 4th year and finally feeling myself. You’re doing amazing sweetie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 05:09 AM |
| 9 | Why men really don't like single moms...I would say this is more true when speaking about the relationship with the father of the children. Sure, when someone else becomes involved it can get this way too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 12 | Boyfriend Watches Porn EverydayI agree with the posts that you shouldn’t try and change him. I wouldn’t bring it up now, however I would absolutely be trying to catch him in the act. I’m also curious about the computer thing - do you guys not share any passwords? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:41 AM |
| 16 | REPOST from /Tinder .... Hannah isn’t with the dumb shitNo, he is being a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 65 | REPOST from /Tinder .... Hannah isn’t with the dumb shitExactly. He thought she was being a bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Oh no girl...Copy pasta ~ Guy I’m dating asked me if he could hire a prostitute in Amsterdam. What do I do? I’ve been dating this guy for a month or so now and he’s away with his friends. He messaged me saying “I can’t remember if we talked about this or not but I’m assuming you wouldn’t be very happy if I hired a prostitute in Amsterdam? 😂😂”. We hadn’t even spoken about anything like that and I’m so angry, I just said “if you’re asking that, it says it all.” He then said he was joking but the way it was wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 9 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Love this so much! At my lowest I almost got my nipples pierced. I didn’t really put it together in the way you did until this moment. The guy I was having sex with at the time said he wasn’t into it and I didn’t do it. Tbh I’m kinda thankful for that comment or I would have likely done it. So happy you’re here! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend changed tune and respects me more now!How’s it going sis? What did he plan for tomorrow? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:29 AM |
| 66 | Boyfriend changed tune and respects me more now!He respects you more now? How do you know, it’s been less than 24 hours. He will revert but go off sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:08 PM |
| 29 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮Quiver from puking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 8 | I’m disgusted by the excitement surrounding this. NEVER TAKE A MAN BACK. He looks PATHETICI saw a bunch on hype on Instagram. Memes, comments by celebrities. People saying they were lIViNg for this. It’s not more then a friendly passing, sure. The way people are acting like they want them back together pissed me off. Jen deserves SO MUCH more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 02:40 PM |
| 21 | I’m disgusted by the excitement surrounding this. NEVER TAKE A MAN BACK. He looks PATHETICI was looking at 2000 Jen and she hasn’t aged! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:12 AM |
| 55 | I’m disgusted by the excitement surrounding this. NEVER TAKE A MAN BACK. He looks PATHETICThank you for the history. I always forget how old I am! I was just reading his divorce has not been finalize yet. So, here he is a married mad, again. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:11 AM |
| 69 | 21 year old woman gets ogled by teenage stepbrother and her biological father. Stepmother decides she is the problem.As a teen I had huge boobs. I remember one time I was wearing a t-shirt and likely a bra, I was around 10-12. I caught my UNCLE starring at my boobs continuously and his junk was hard, showing through his shorts. I can’t imagine this being my own FATHER. This family is trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:49 AM |
| 25 | Reminder to never tell them about past abuseBut did she leave??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 56 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.Men can’t handle women that are OK with NSA sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 12:34 AM |
| 10 | Don’t let this be you in 2020 - Block & Delete ladies!Blocked 2 guys this week. Not worth my time anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 7 | When you discover FDS too late, what do you do? 27f in “engaged” to 37m we have two kidsIn just a few years your kids will be in school and you’d be separated from them anyhow. Your children won’t suffer because you’re a single mom. This December marks 4 years since I left my kids father. Similar situation except I was working full time, everything was in my name, I held all the power while he stay a stay home piece of shit. My children still went to daycare because I wanted them to have structure and didn’t trust him. Leaving is really fucking hard. Being a single mom is reallyyyy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for thatSo, your therapist validated your concerns this man is abusive and you’re still considering marrying him? Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:29 PM |
| 4 | PSA Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you in his IG viewed-my-story list. Reciprocate energy back to fuckboys. Low-effort gets ZERO attention.I’d remove him tbh. Why keep reminding yourself of him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:10 PM |
| 15 | LVM happy he can finally be a total piece of shit in peace with his brand new “downgrade” PickMeishaI can’t imagine dating a man like this. Can you imagine the text he would send. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 08:54 AM |
| 4 | How do I feel worthy of a HVM when I was raised by an awful LVM to expect LVM behaviourMy dad was a LVM as well. It gave me a lot of confidence issues. My mom was also so unstable that her marriage my step dad became toxic. I work so hard to stay clear of both extremes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 07:04 AM |
| 1 | LVM tried to sneakily set up different dates with me & my friendAgreed. If he didn’t know you were friends how can you expect him to respect that? It’s also understandable he is dating other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 06:44 AM |
| 21 | Hoping to be a Queen, feel like a ToadI’m going to guess you’re being overly hard on yourself. I use to say things like this about myself too. That was until I understood the power of just being a woman. It’s about how you carry yourself through this world. Confidence is a skill, learn it, practice & use that shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 07:54 AM |
| 10 | I’m so sick of beardsA guy took me out to a nice restaurant for my birthday and wore jeans & FLIP FLOPS. I was 150x over dressed and it ruined the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:56 AM |
| 7 | “I’m not like other girls”I have been that chill girl. This post is 100% accurate. I don’t really know how else to be. How do I fix this? I’m legitimately not sure how to approach men in a different way without feeling needy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 04:50 PM |
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