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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:03 AM
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So you provide the incentive for a lifestyle you think devalues women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:34 PM
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Do you go to strip clubs? Do you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:26 PM
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Do you go to strip clubs? Do you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:25 PM
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Two options: Be single and sleep with lots of partners to get sex. Get a boyfriend and be seen as not damaged. Social status elevated When I was younger, I always had a boyfriend bc that was the only way I thought I could get laid and still be respected. As long as women perceive they can’t get laid and not be considered damaged without being in relationships, they will seek relationships for sex. But since they can get sex while single and be denigrated for it, they’re really seeking relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:23 PM
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How would there be consequences if I didn’t take intentional action to hurt him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:06 PM
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How is it not? Tons of women do this. Judgment of single women is a huge reason why women seek relationships. It’s why disagreeableness is the number one correlate of sexual permissiveness in women. Only women who don’t care what people think can even get laid while single. People in this thread keep insisting that women seek casual sex for validation. I’m saying that’s not how it works and it doesn’t make sense. Women don’t seek casual sex for validation because it is not validating. Women seek…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:57 PM
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Based on what? Btw I have neither and definitely not BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:37 AM
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I do. There had to be consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:02 AM
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Correction: someone who was telling me he loved me and talking about our kids blocking my number. I did what I could do to hurt him bc blocking is not okay. Neither is ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:00 AM
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How is it crazy? You think the definition of “crazy” is “abnormal”? That’s actually not what it means ...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 12:22 AM
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I enjoy having sex. I have far less sex while single than in relationships, which sucks. What exactly is harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:19 PM
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How is it crazy? I already wanted to share it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:18 PM
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Not sure what you think I said isn’t true. Maybe I should not share my personal life on here. My point was that my ex fucked up and I would have pair bonded more if he cared more about my orgasm and was more appreciative and supportive. If guys don’t treat me how I want to be treated, it makes no sense for me to stay with them. He was also saying he loved me and talking about our kids by the second week. Too fast. Yet at the same time, he wasn’t being as supportive as I’m used to guys being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:56 PM
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Not trolling. Just think you should be more articulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:53 PM
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Thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:52 PM
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Ghosting is never okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:51 PM
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Yeah that’s not true. I’m a high n count women and I always have plenty of guys interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:50 PM
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I tell all guys who ask me and sometimes I tell guys who don’t ask
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:48 PM
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You don’t think it’s relevant to getting to know the person? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:47 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:45 PM
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What exactly do you think I did that was crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:44 PM
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What exactly is crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:43 PM
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Most of the guys I hook up with are happy to be taught what I like, so I don’t know what you’re talking about. I only share my sexual history if guys ask. I suppose the guys who ask are typically on the same page and have a fair amount of experience. But I still teach everyone what I want specifically and most men are teachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:43 PM
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How exactly am I damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:41 PM
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Oh I only notice if guys I’ve gone on dates with and/or slept with ghost me. If it’s just strangers, I don’t really count that, though I do find it annoying. It seems like I usually get them to answer by being aggressive though. But once a guy I hadn’t met in person said he’d text me and didn’t. He did this not once but TWICE. That really made me mad. So I figured out his last name based on assessor records for the building where he lives, tracked him down on social media, and commented on his e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:36 PM
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Crazy how? I just did what I wanted to do without regard for his wishes or feelings, which is what he did to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:32 PM
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Umm what? The guys I shared it with are guys I trust and have shared stuff with me. One got Forbes 30 under 30 (has more to lose than I do if I share stuff with him). One is an ex. It’s not like I shared with just anyone and it’s not like our faces are in it. I personally enjoy sharing pics and vids. The only reason to not share it was out of respect for him. The point was I betrayed his trust and hurt him by doing it, bc he betrayed my trust and hurt me when he blocked my number. I won’t tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:52 PM
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So you’re saying you think it is healthiest for people who are dealing with trauma to remain single and you also shame them for having multiple sexual partners? That makes no sense. Sex is a basic human need. The only way to get laid frequently and efficiently while single is to rack up a high number of partners. If you’re recommending people dealing with trauma stay single, then you are also recommending they have many sexual partners. The alternative is celibacy, which is not reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:47 PM
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What exactly do you think makes me “damaged”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:45 PM
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I’m not insane. Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:44 PM
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Based on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:43 PM
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I personally do not mind teaching at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:35 PM
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So true. The main reason my relationships don’t work out is bc the men aren’t good in bed. Guys who are good in bed don’t have to worry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:34 PM
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What you have to realize is casual sex isn’t actually validating for women. It’s actually the opposite, considering how prevalent slut shaming is. The fact is that low self esteem is not correlated with high sexual permissiveness. The number one correlate of sexual permissiveness isn’t any kind of psychological “damage.” The number one correlate of sexual permissiveness in women is DISAGREEABLENESS. The reason why is pretty obvious. It takes a disagreeable woman to do what she wants without cari…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:19 PM
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This is true. I don’t know any men who hate women like this irl. Some guys have expressed that they think it’s hot how I do what I want and don’t apologize. You know like one guy I have been seeing on and off (but he has kids and an ex wife, which I don’t really like) likes that if I want to get laid, I have no shame hitting up whoever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:15 PM
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My n count is over 100. I don’t hate men at all. Most of my friends are men. Most people who support me in my life are men. A lot of my exes are really great people who I am still friends with. I even stay in touch with some one night stands. The main thing I hate that guys do is ghost or block. This is a recent thing that has been happening more since I moved to CA. The first time I got ghosted permanently, my n count was already at least 60 or so. So I feel like this has to do with changing cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:10 PM
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But don’t you think it is sometimes healthiest for people dealing with trauma to be single? I personally have felt this way. It was about protecting my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:01 PM
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I personally have a high N count bc I’ve gone years of my life not wanting relationships and it’s less emotionally risky for me to have casual partners than to get into relationships. Maybe some of my reasoning has been flawed so I’m starting to date more seriously. But a lot of the time, if I can’t find a guy I want to be in a relationship with, I will still want to get laid. And getting laid efficiently while single takes a lot of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:55 PM
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I think people like this simply have more control over their feelings. I can pair bond with a small subset of guys I hook up with, who meet a certain set of parameters I desire in a long term partner. I don’t pair bond with the rest because I don’t consider them viable long term candidates. That said, guys should be wary about moving too fast with me before I am happy with our sex lite. My last boyfriend moved way too fast and made me agree to be exclusive way too soon. I felt trapped and resent…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:46 PM
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Actually women typically wait longer to sleep with guys they are romantically interested in. Just ask Ali Wong. Lol. Recently when I was looking for casual sex, I tried to tell a baby daddy candidate that I didn’t want to go out with him at the time. I wanted to save him for later. I don’t think he understood. I personally feel like it’s harder to get laid than to get a relationship. Never in my life have I ever felt like “I want a boyfriend” and like I could not get one easily within a tolerabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:06 PM
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Just look at the other response to my comment. As long as there are guys like that out there, women need filtering strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:27 PM
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Uh I mean try dating guys worth over 10 million or so. You will see. I have a lot of experience with this and am qualified to have an opinion. What relevant experience do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:27 PM
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Yeah it does. I can agree with that to some degree. That’s why I get so annoyed with super rich dudes. They always think they are so much greater than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:25 PM
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Tbh one reason is bc so many guys are just trying to manipulate women to have sex and then treat them poorly. If dating culture changed so that men were more respectful and honest, then it would make more sense for women to pay the whole bill. As is, I used to be into splitting, but now I let the guy pay on the first couple dates to prove himself. It depends on the guy though. If he’s younger and I can tell he’s sweet, then I pay half. I pay the whole bill for male friends who have earned my tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:19 PM
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Ugh I feel like a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 01:17 PM
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He just went through a really tough divorce so not Dream life exactly. I will say that he is not so into having women hook up with other guys when he’s not there. He prefers to be there. Anyway, most guys I hook up with are similarly privileged. And there may actually be a correlation between success and enjoying open relationships. I’ve only had one MMF threesome personally. And I cannot say if either of the guys were into me. It didn’t work out with the one I liked, who is 6’5”, went to Stanfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:15 PM
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In this question. The boyfriend is faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:06 AM
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If you’re a woman, there is a lot more status associated with having a boyfriend than being single. Especially if you have a boyfriend other men look up to and respect, they see you as more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:27 PM
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I know a guy who is into cuckolding and was into it with his ex wife. He is 6’6,” worth at least 10 million, and is extremely handsome. He went to Yale and Princeton. He says, “Why would I get insecure? I’m richer, taller, and smarter than everyone else.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:24 PM
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Perfect relationship. Duh. This would be perfect for me bc most of my relationships in due to sex problems. Either I want more sex or I want better sex. It is very difficult for me to be exclusive. In terms of evolution, this definitely serves the female imperative best. It is the only scenario that allows the woman to procreate with as many different men as she wants, maximizing the genetic diversity and fitness of her offspring, while also ensuring she has a dedicated partner with whom to rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:19 PM
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Hmm maybe you’re right. But I tell guys right away lol. It’s just to get the match. Some guys have age ranges restricted in search criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:36 AM
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Acc to how-old.net, I’m 20-28. But I’m 33
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:52 PM
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I lie about my age on apps now. I’m 33 but I say I’m 31. I might change it to 29. I’ve seen men lie about their age on apps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 06:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 06:34 AM
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Define “Chad” Also define STR. The average guy I’ve dated has been 6’4” and very good looking. One was signed with Ford Models (so ridiculously good looking). Most are still friends. The average height of the total sample of guys I’ve hooked up with is 6’3”. I consider at least ~95% of the guys I’ve hooked up with hot (at least at the time I hooked up with them). In my experience, there is no correlation between how good looking a guy is and how nice he is, especially if you control for age (you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:43 PM
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High n counts mean someone is not as emotional about sex. It means sex doesn’t mean as much to them necessarily. This has no relevance to relationship compatibility as far as I’m concerned. However, it does mean they are more likely to have HPV or other STDs. Low n count means someone is more emotional about sex. This might mean it’s harder for me to be open about my sexual history and fantasies. They are less likely to have HPV or other STDs. Men with low n counts are easier to control bc once …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:45 AM
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I can’t feel oral bc I have clitoral nerve damage. So that is not possible. I’m the opposite. Usually I am asking, “should I do this or this? Why?” “Where did you get your couch?” “What neighborhood do you think is the best?” “How do you think I can avoid getting canceled on the Internet?” Or I’ll say, “I’m really tired Bc it’s so loud in my apt.” The ideal guy for me will not say, “That sucks.” He will say, “Try Indow Windows” or “try these earplugs or noise canceling headphones.” When guys alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:02 PM
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Well I think I expressed some dissatisfaction with some of those. Oh actually I had sex with a guy in December who I kind of regret maybe. He was super handsome, charming, successful. We had great chemistry until his dick was small. But I just kept going with it bc I didn’t want to blueball him in his own bed and then sleep over. Normally I bail out or I have home court advantage (which entitles me to do whatever I want) in these cases. I felt kind of crappy about that bc I felt like a flesh lig…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:11 PM
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I mean yesterday I met up with a really hot guy from bumble. We got coffee, walked, talked, and spent a couple hours getting to know each other. Then we had sex and it was awesome. The previous time I got laid before that was also same day sex. I had simply wanted to get laid and had gotten impatient with previous dates not working out. Long story short, I was very efficient. But the second time he came over, I listened to him talk about how he didn’t really want casual sex. I gave him advice ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:32 AM
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If I’m single and I go out, I’m always looking to meet guys. Always. Am I looking to get laid that night? Probably not. Am I looking to eventually fuck whoever I meet that night? Definitely. When I was younger, I almost never slept with men I met the same day. Since shedding cultural restrictions on my “sluttiness,” I do this more often. However, I tend to be extra cautious about making decisions while inebriated. I prefer to decide who to sleep with while sober, so I am more likely to have same…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:30 PM
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Effect sizes are only ~<.3 for most differences. That completely invalidates dichotomous roles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:28 PM
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All distributions for gendered personality characteristics and aptitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:29 PM
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So obviously weight is a big predictive factor of perceived attractiveness. It is unreasonable to say weight isn’t a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:13 PM
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Women outside that range are less attractive than women inside that range. Peak attractiveness occurs at a BMI of 20.5. Women with BMIs over 25 and under 17 are not as attractive as women with BMIs between 17 and 25. Overweight women are less attractive. Very underweight women are also less attractive. What is strange is that the attractiveness curve is left shifted relative to healthy weight standards, so that underweight women with BMIs of 17-18.5 are just as attractive as healthy weight women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:07 PM
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Uhh what? Studies of perceived attractiveness show that women with BMIs of 17 to 25 are most attractive to men in countries with high GDP, like the US and England.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:01 PM
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What do you mean? Your subjective empirical observations, clouded by confirmation bias, are not a valid basis for conclusions regarding gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:54 PM
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Entrepreneurs are the hottest, especially if they have an engineering background. I like them best because they think like engineers but tend to be more socially competent and more risk taking. After that, I like engineers. Mechanical engineers seem to be the hottest. Software engineers seem to be the smartest. BME and EE are cool too (that’s what I studied in college). After that, I like lawyers and doctors, especially if they have a background in engineering. I prefer people with engineering b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:27 PM
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There is no data to indicate women feel as their base form of thinking except maybe MBTI. I think maybe slightly more women are F. But I’m not sure that’s what “F” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:04 PM
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Since when do feminists not care about guys being hot? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:01 PM
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I was with you until “fat or short doesn’t matter.” Lol are you serious? All the men I date and/or hook up with are tall (avg 6’3” for hooking up, 6’4” for dating), handsome, thin (men I’ve dated weigh 170-215, they are a lanky bunch). I don’t think men and women have identical nature on average. But I think distributions are mostly overlapping so gender roles are bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:00 PM
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It was not an all female team, nor was it ever. Leadership at this company is actually all male. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/was-all-female-responsible-bridge-collapse/ Consider how many all male teams have built bridges that collapsed.
/r/MensRights06/08/19 04:52 PM
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My boyfriend (or ex? I think we broke up) says sex and the the city is his favorite show.
/r/MensRights06/08/19 04:42 PM
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Not sure why it’s so hard. to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:49 PM
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No. No mental blocks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:46 PM
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It’s not really. I have clitoral nerve damage from a botched surgery performed without my consent. It’s hard for me to enjoy sex because I just can’t feel much. One reason I go through so many guys is bc it’s pointless for me to get into an exclusive relationship with someone unless I love the sex. Too often I don’t. Even with my filters, half my relationships end bc of sex problems. Guys with large cocks who know how to use them well are really like angels to me. They make me really happy, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:18 AM
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You are blessed, my man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:14 AM
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Money doesn’t really matter unless you’re buying her stuff or she’s planning on marrying you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:09 AM
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Yup. If a guy is great at sex, I will put up with all kinds of bs. If a guy is great at sex, I don’t even have to like him, I’ll keep having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:08 AM
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Bc women don’t have resources. Oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:06 AM
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But that has nothing to do with waiting to be in your 30s. These guys on the Internet act like it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:05 AM
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So true and bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:05 AM
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In my early to mid 20s, I was not attracted to men over 30. I dated a 32 yo when I was 27. That seemed quite a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:04 AM
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There are stats predicting the longevity of relationships based on age difference. 0-3 years has best chance of longevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:03 AM
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Setting sexual desirability by age seems like a bit of a joke to me. I sometimes feel insecure bc I’m almost 33. I’m also in the worst shape of my life bc I haven’t been working out for a couple years now. But I went out the other night and realized among all these 20 something women, 95% of them will never get to be as pretty and skinny as I still am today. It seems so weird to think about. So it’s like do I really have a problem? Maybe I should stop using being old as an excuse and hit the gym…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:02 AM
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The wall thing is a bit of a joke to me. I sometimes feel insecure bc I’m almost 33. I’m also in the worst shape of my life bc I haven’t been working out for a couple years now. But I went out the other night and realized among all these 20 something women, 95% of them will never get to be as pretty and skinny as I still am today. It seems so weird to think about. So it’s like do I really have a problem? Maybe I should stop using being old as an excuse and hit the gym. It’s like I just stopped c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:57 AM
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When my ex was 34 he acted like he couldn’t get younger women. I was 30. It came up that I’d hooked up with a couple 22 year olds, two of whom picked me up irl. I felt a tad weird that I kept attracting them. He laughed. He made a comment that he never matched with women under 26 or so. He said it’s like younger women think older men are creepy but younger men are just like ready to go. He is 6’5” and very classically handsome. Blonde hair, blue eyes, lawyer. Then again, my much less attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:48 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:44 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:44 AM
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Damn. I need to stick with the younguns
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:43 AM
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Not even close. Way to low key brag lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:40 AM
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I could never say that if I didn’t have one though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:19 AM
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Yeah I don’t have experience with excuses bc I can’t lie 😂🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:17 AM
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Yes I agree. But tbh I do respect persistence lol. To a point. One guy told me, “But I have an 8” dick” after I rejected him. Not going to lie, that made me think twice and also laugh my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:16 AM
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Yes but if you plot my height preferences over time, they did not change with apps. They have been consistent over time with maybe just a slight increase, which I think mainly happened bc my main college boyfriend was 6’4”. So I just kept going for the same type. My main high school boyfriend was 6’3” though. I was 27 by the time I started using tinder, so my habits were already pretty set. I am a height queen and a size queen. Now that is hard. Went on a date with a guy last night who is 6’4”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:02 AM
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In my experience, other women are more influenced by game, social competence, and status signaling than I am. They also prefer more sensitivity. I like tall, nerdy, lanky, goofy dudes. Haha. I prefer guys who lack “game” and have sort of hyper-masculine personalities (very straightforward, direct, not too sensitive, likely to be engineers). They are all very handsome though. One guy I dated actually lied about his height. He said he was 6’4” but he was 6’5.” He felt “too tall.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:51 AM
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Hmm I think that’s implied. It’s implied that they should stop being a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:48 AM
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I’m 5’8”. And I don’t know about other women. My average height for guys I hook up with has been pretty consistent over time. Recently I had a really big crush on a guy who is 5’10.” I don’t know if he knows. We banged at his party randomly. Then I was out of town when he wanted to hang. Then he was seeing someone else and I didn’t want to be anything less than cool because he is a friend first. On one hand dating apps increase access to guys. But on the other hand, dating apps where height isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:36 AM
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I guess so. In chronological order: 6’4”, 6’3”, 5’11”, 6’2”, 6’3”, 6’4”, 6’4, 6’5”, 6’4”, 6’5”, 6’7”, 6’4”, 6’, 6’8”, 6’4”, 6’7” Oops that’s 16. Hmm whether 6’ counts is debatable. What is larp?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:34 AM
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Yeah tbh that’s why I made it lol. Also bc I thought it was funny. I made a histogram, scatterplots of age and height preferences over time, sluttiness over time, etc. I like to put random things into excel. Also, bc this was before I moved to using mostly The League and before Bumble had height. I needed a way to not feel like an asshole cutting matches. My sluttiness looks like a step function that increased 5x with tinder. My height preferences have gone up just slightly with age but have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:09 AM
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The average guy I’ve hooked up with (n>100) is 6’3.0” (actually prob more like 6’3.2” now, need to update spreadsheet). The mode is 6’4.” The range is 5’10”-6’8”. The average guy I’ve dated is 6’4.0” (n=15). My longer term fwbs also tend to be taller. Yes I put it into Excel. Height is correlated to the number of bangs/dude. So basically it is most prudent for me to stick with taller men. Being under 6’ basically doubles the probability of being a one night stand. I am not sure why that is but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:53 AM
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Wait what? People need to have thicker skin. People have gotten way too sensitive. If a guy has negative feelings when I reject him, that’s on him. He needs to manage his own feelings. It’s not toxic to tell people to toughen up. People need to tell people to toughen up more. I am so sick of snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:48 AM
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Yeah. :( I feel like such a dumbass. I guess I thought it was funny. I should have definitely bailed at that point. He kept claiming he wasn’t drunk. Also, he had several friends there saying he was a great guy. My poor romper. I’m so sad about it. It’s amazing. I get compliments from at least 2 people every time I wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:44 AM
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Nope. Why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:42 AM
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Oh I don’t think I’m tactful lolol I’m just extremely blunt. No one ever really gets bothered. If a guy ever took it badly, I didn’t notice or thought it was funny. I don’t get hit on much and am probably too open to approaches. I accept most approaches. Prob need to be more careful. The other night this guy was hitting on me. He had walked up saying, “How about you help me make a girl jealous and I’ll help you make your guy jealous.” I thought that was funny and it also made me self conscious a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:59 AM
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No. The chance of persistence is more like 50%, but imo it’s not a big deal. You just reject them again. Personally, it makes me laugh when guys keep trying after I’ve rejected them. I respect persistence and also find the shamelessness funny. It doesn’t bother me bc I have no guilt issues with reflecting. The chance of a dangerously crazy reaction from a stranger is probably like 0.001%. I agree with that. But the chance of just a crazy reaction is higher. But I laugh at those. I’ve never had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:52 AM
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How are they any less likely to pester you if you aren’t direct? I would think they would pester you more in that case. I never have trouble getting guys to leave me alone and I’m always direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:49 AM
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I’m a 32 yo woman. I never have problems rejecting guys directly. I don’t mind pushiness. I just reject them more harshly if they keep trying. It always works. No public freak outs. I’ve never even been insulted by a guy I rejected upfront. How are they any less likely to pester you if you aren’t direct? I would think they would pester you more in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:47 AM
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It’s difficult only if you’re a weak ass pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:46 AM
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I am always direct with guys and I’ve never had a rejection go badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:45 AM
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That would make me so mad. It is so disrespectful to you as a person. Men do this too. I can’t stand when men are not upfront and honest with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:44 AM
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Breast cancer affects far more people and far younger people. If you look at the sum total of funding for male specific cancers versus female specific cancers, you’ll see what you are saying here is not true. It is not accurate to call male circumcision mutilating. Rates of male sexual dysfunction are not higher among circumcised men. Women actually make 3% less for the same job. The other numbers are from studies company incomes of working men and women. The reason the numbers vary is because, …
/r/MensRights04/08/19 09:21 PM
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The men I’ve dated are higher quality on average than the men I’ve just banged. Imo it’s harder to maintain high quality partners for casual relationships bc you have to have so many to get sex frequently. Getting laid twice a week in a year will require only 1 boyfriend. But it will require about 15 casual partners. Also, casual partners have to be optimized for convenience, safety, and control. Men don’t prioritize casual partners, so this adds difficulty. If you try to convert a guy you are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:56 PM
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MRI studies of genital vascular engorgement show women get physiologically turned on when looking at erect penises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 06:26 PM
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Yeah I don’t know. My point was I’ve never been slut shamed by women and there must be a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:48 AM
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I guess. I was “popular” in high school and in college (before transferring). My current boyfriend literally called my crew at Vandy “the hot, popular girls.” I guess my body count was only 4 going into college, but I used to take a lot of guys back to my dorm to “hook up” (make out plus hand stuff, lol). The first time I got laid at Vandy, I got congrats from all my friends. It was a guy id known for months but had tried to just be friends with bc his ex was kind of crazy. After that, I dropped…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:31 AM
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It would have taken a while for the rest of the world to get access to birth control. The difference between 1950s and 1960s is insignificant. A steady decline after the availability of bc is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:12 AM
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That doesn’t mean the fertility rate increased, especially in countries where women have access to bc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:02 PM
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Hmm that’s not consistent with this https://vitals.lifehacker.com/here-s-how-much-sex-everybody-is-having-1795561168 Looks like men need to eat more pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:51 PM
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Hmm I've basically told guys my ex is hotter than them. He was signed with Ford models. It is unlikely another partner will beat that ever because he's easily the second hottest man I've ever seen. So what? He wasn't even close to my favorite. And with the one guy I've met who was hotter, I told him I could only hook up because I was too stuck on this other, less hot guy. The guys I get the strongest feelings for typically aren't the best looking ones. There are other qualities that matter more …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:34 PM
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Yeah. The key with casual sex is to only have it for the sake of having sex because you desire it. It sounds like this woman has been having it because men wanted it. Some women may also have sex with the expectation that sex will lead to a relationship. For women who don't desire casual sex just for the sake of itself, they shouldn't be having it. I'm sort of different bc guys tell me I make them feel used for sex. lol. k my bad. But I find it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:27 PM
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What source shows the population beginning to spike at 1960? None of the data I presented shows that. Rather, it shows a sharp decline starting in 1960.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:23 PM
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Slut shaming occurs all the time. Just look at the content of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:22 PM
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people can set whatever sexual standards they want. no man has to date a woman who won't give him head. if head is important to him, he shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:22 PM
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You make good points regarding gay men versus lesbians. However, you are sorely mistaken regarding the evolutionary advantages of producing genetically diverse offspring. Getting the highest quality sperm is important, but so is diversity. Having two offspring with two high quality males is preferable to two offspring with the same high quality male.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:20 PM
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See shoe shopping analogy. If I want to get laid ASAP on a given day, I'm going to have limited options relative to if I have time to shop around for a boyfriend. The only times women can have higher standards for casual are: 1. She is not very attractive and cannot get high quality men to date her, so the bar we are comparing to is low. 2. She has casual sex when men initiate rather than when she wants on her schedule. 3. She only has casual sex rarely. To have causal sex on a frequent basis is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:43 PM
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More so, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:41 PM
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Untrue. Look at data on population growth in US. https://www.billkingblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/US-Population-Growth-Rate-2-1.jpg Here is another plot, showing similar pattern with dated "milestones of family planning." https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm4847a1.htm What's unclear is how birth rates were decreasing in 1920s and began increasing again in 30s and 40s. The steep fall off in the 60s is obviously due to the birth control pill being approved by the FDA in 1960. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:22 PM
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That's not what she is saying. She is saying she is making a commitment to herself to wait until she feels comfortable before having sex. If this were a manipulative play, she would have a set timeline. Instead, she says,"weeks to months," indicating she isn't sure how long, but that she is self-aware enough to know she wants time to get to know them and be comfortable. I'm very sexually permissive and have no qualms about being seen as a slut. However, sometimes I need time to feel comfortable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:11 PM
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All my relationships have been modern except maybe one (in 15). The outlier is the CEO of Craiglist. He paid because he was worth so much more than me. He laughed at me when I tried to split the bill on our first "not a date because you are too old for me." Also, he was much older. I was 29 when he was 53. Still, I called the shots because I had the more dominant personality and he was more into me that I was into him. In that relationship, I started feeling like I wanted to be taken care of, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:56 PM
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If you need to be eaten out and he won't do it, just tell him he needs to do it and like it or you are going to leave him for someone who will. Also, if a guy was telling me his ex was more attractive, I would take that as disrespectful to me. He would have to explain to me how I am better in some way (smarter, funnier, or something) for me to be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:48 PM
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Slut shaming is a thing. Tinder is not just a hook up app. Many people find partners for relationships on Tinder. The perception, by some, that Tinder is a hook up app may be why it is less popular among women than men. Apps like the League attract a higher percentage of women by marketing themselves better as dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:40 PM
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What evidence is there that female standards are rising? Last I checked, female sexlessness was more common than male sexlessness in young people. There may be other cultural factors involved, such as porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:34 PM
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What I fundamentally never understand is, insofar as sex is a commodity that women have more control over, how would women not have had the power to make their partners pull out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:34 PM
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That is certainly one explanation for why slut shaming occurs. However, I don’t think it is the only explanation. Curiously, though I am very promiscuous (n>100), I have never been slut shamed by women except one time on the Internet, after I told the woman’s boyfriend that no woman of quality would ever fuck his misogynistic ass (lol). I have, however, slut shamed other women, which I regret. Based on my experience, I believe that when women slut-shame, it serves the following functions: To reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:08 PM
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What do you believe defines “female sexual nature”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:57 PM
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I disagree. The reasons this pattern has emerged is because women are biologically limited by being smaller and having to bear the burden of pregnancy. The male need for paternity certainly incentivizes actions to control and suppress female sexuality. That is why in societies where women have more power and control, they are much more promiscuous. In those societies, women are not shamed for sexual permissiveness. Brain development is actually highly influenced by culture/environments. Sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:49 PM
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Hmm what are your views on casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:26 PM
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No. I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:17 PM
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Men spend a lot more time at the gym. Most men put more effort in than I do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:17 PM
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No. I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:17 PM
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I think the issue is also that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:16 PM
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I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrect it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:15 PM
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No. I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:14 PM
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No. I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Also, Playgirl didn’t show any erections. Women need to see erections (based on fMRI studies of female genital arousal). Anyway, try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:13 PM
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No. I think the issue is that women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There are 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:12 PM
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I think maybe is bc women are slut shamed so much. Try this thought experiment: There 100 women. You can have sex with 50 of them. When asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Now imagine you can only have sex with 5 of these 100 women or you will be severely penalized and shamed. Now, when asked to rate who is and isn’t attractive, how picky will you be? Women have lower sexual desire on average, yes. This is a fact, regardless of how politically incorrect it may sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:04 PM
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First of all, you are repeatedly using the term “vagina” when you mean “vulva.” Secondly, this post is extremely misinformed. My labia minora were completely removed when I was barely 18. As a result, I suffer from chronic irritation due to an exposed vestibule. This is consistent with reports of women with FGM involving removal of the labia minora. I am more prone to yeast infections and BV, as there are no labia minora to protect my vagina. This actually puts me at greater risk for getting an …
/r/MensRights02/08/19 04:26 AM
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Okay. And I tend to think that’s a problem in need of solving. There is a need for women to build companies that solve female oriented problems
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 08:31 PM
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It depends. In studies on gender differences in empathy, where definitions of empathy include caring for others, women score significantly higher than men. Here is one. For each of the statements, participants answer strongly disagree, disagree, agree, or strongly agree. 1) I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation. 2) I prefer animals to humans. 3) I try to keep up with the current trends and fashions. 4) I find it difficult to explain to others things that I understand ea…
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 06:14 PM
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This view is not supported by the data. Women, on average, have more empathy than men in general. Women, on average, have more empathy for men than men, on average, have for women. According to all data on gender differences in empathy, it is men, not women, who lack in empathy. Effect sizes found in studies of differences in empathy are quite large (.5+).
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 06:00 PM
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Men have significantly less empathy than women. Women are not lacking in empathy for men or for humans in general. It is men who have less empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:57 PM
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The man who delivered this baby, Dr. Robert Gunby, mutilated my clitoris in a surgery performed without my consent when I was barely 18.
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 04:49 AM
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So? What would be the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:25 PM
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It’s art. For consideration: https://metro.co.uk/2017/10/01/girl-4-is-encouraged-to-touch-naked-man-for-weird-art-performance-6968535/
/r/MensRights28/07/19 12:01 AM
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Can you define red pill, blue pill, and purple pill again? My parents are worth 8 figures. My aunts and uncles are worth 8 figures. My grandparents were worth 8 figures. My great grandparents were worth 7 figures. My generation is pretty lazy I guess. But we all went to highly ranked universities. But okay you get it. I feel like I’m blue pilled. I grew up in a very gender neutral household with the idea that everything was supposed to be equal. When I was younger, I dated men with less money an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:43 PM
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I’m still confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:45 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:44 AM
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I’m confused about what you mean. I’d look 3 times in a meat space? I look at every guy on apps ... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:52 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:51 AM
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Wait what? No. That’s why online dating is better than jerking off to porn. There are much hotter guys on apps than in porn. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:42 AM
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Yeah I mean there are some average differences in spatial ability but distributions are overlapping so the effect is not as significant or dichotomous as he’s implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:31 AM
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Uhh I cant remember ever seeing a building shaped like a vulva/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:30 AM
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That’s bc the artists were men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:15 AM
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I have 99th percentile spatial skills. I’ve scored in the 99th percentile on all 3 spatial reasoning aptitude tests I’ve taken I don’t think you are right about how female brains work. But only women who like casual sex are ever going to be picking guys based on physical attraction alone. If the goal is a relationship, there are many other factors that get priority. I think when women get stuck in this relationship mindset, they just don’t sexually objectify guys based on appearance as much. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:05 AM
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I love men’s bodies. I don’t know what the deal is with other women. It is honestly hard to find pics of hot guys on the Internet. It is easier to have guys I know send me what I want. This is a bit strange in principle. In my opinion, there’s an unmet demand. But then maybe other women aren’t like me, and the demand just isn’t there. My ideal type is 6’2”-6’6” and like 170-220. I like guys who are muscular but kind of wiry/lanky. I love it when guys’ bodies feel hard. I love six pacs, pecs, bic…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:59 PM
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That’s not what it meant. It just meant I liked him so much I wanted to date him but I wasn’t ready to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:07 PM
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Neither is okay. I’m just saying it doesn’t only happen to men.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 06:45 AM
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To be fair, female rape victims do get blamed and laughed at, especially if they don’t come off as sufficiently broken
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:41 AM
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No offense to anyone but I’m wondering how he was forced
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:11 AM
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I think there should be equal opportunities and that stereotypes should be discouraged. I think there will probably never be as many female engineers. I personally see cultural barriers to women pursuing TE in the US. It is possible that differences in means for interests and aptitudes are amplified by culture, even when women have more power in society, because of peoples drive to systematize, categorize, and act in accordance with what is expected for their social group. It works like a sort o…
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:50 AM
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The woman in the OP said women were “under represented.” She didn’t say they ought to be equally represented. In my opinion, the merits of female engineers are assumed to be lacking because of gender stereotypes and that this limits opportunities. A lot of people in college seemed to assume I was stupid when I got top 5-10% on our exams. I wasn’t just a woman. I was a pretty woman who wore makeup and heels to class and was like, “Yay Matlab is so fun!” I had a 100 in Matlab. I also got the highe…
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:34 AM
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I am aware. I don’t know why that would be and I find it strange. I personally feel I was steered away from engineering and towards other interests like fashion because of my gender. However, I still think we need to stop saying “STEM” and start saying TE as there is equal gender representation among young scientists and doctors. I don’t see what choosing to pursue social studies over engineering has to do with discipline. I chose engineering mostly because I didn’t want to take a language, writ…
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:29 AM
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Actually the data has shown that it is significantly more difficult for female founders to get funding. What you’re saying here regarding the ease of getting funding is not supported. It’s not really believable that women have worse company ideas than men do. I personally have tons which a biotech ceo and a tech mogul both complimented me on. Execution is a totally different story. Meanwhile, I have known plenty of guys with idiotic startups. One was an app just for finding different kinds of oy…
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:19 AM
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Less women pursue TE. STEM is no longer correct as there are more women in medical school than men now, and there are plenty of women in science as well.
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:13 AM
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Her opinion is that it is a problem. I share that opinion. However, people need to stop saying “STEM,” as this is now only relevant to TE. There are plenty of women in science and medicine now, thanks to efforts to attract more women to those fields. The entry of more women in medicine has had a beneficial effect on female patients. That matters. While there may always be more male engineers, due to gender differences (very small differences in population means, not dichotomous, but still signif…
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 12:06 AM
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Wow. That is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:35 PM
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What are you even talking about? It’s not clear that either of those men ever rejected me for a relationship. But yeah I agree I acted crazy and that it wasn’t cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:25 AM
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Yeah. As a woman with a high n count who has actually ranked my partners and done data analysis in excel, the men I have dated are better looking and also 1.2” taller, on average, than the guys I have just slept with casually. When picking casual partners, I prioritize efficiency and convenience. For example, “This 5’10” guy is here right now and is the hottest guy at this house party bc it’s 2 am and most people have left.” So yes I’m going to bang him bc he’s right there. I’m going to have fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:38 AM
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No. Wtf? This differences arises in the first place bc of slut shaming. When I was younger, I always had a boyfriend bc I thought that was the only socially acceptable way for me to get laid and maintain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:34 AM
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No. IMO it’s bc of slut shaming. When I was younger, I always had a boyfriend bc I thought that was the only socially acceptable way for me to get laid and maintain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:33 AM
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IMO it’s bc of slut shaming. When I was younger, I always had a boyfriend bc I thought that was the only socially acceptable way for me to get laid and maintain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:33 AM
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I don’t understand why there aren’t more commitment phobic women and women who prefer multiple partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:32 AM
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This is ridiculously misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:00 AM
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I don’t know any men who want a lifetime of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:59 AM
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That’s not true at all. I try to “spin plates” for as long as possible, though I really don’t like sleeping with more than 3 guys at once bc it causes me anxiety about STDs. Most guys I sleep with aren’t guys I’d consider for relationships. I’m typically not evaluating men for relationship potential and am just trying to get laid and have fun. Sex is hard for me so I’m often just trying to optimize the sex component. It’s very difficult for me to find a guy who is someone I’m into romantically a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:54 AM
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How do you know that’s actually what was going on? Maybe they just weren’t wanting a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:44 AM
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That’s not what it means. What if he just doesn’t want a relationship? What if she just doesn’t want a relationship? With the guy I’ve liked the most in the past few years, I texted, “I can’t get involved rn bc I’m insecure, homeless, and unstable.” By “homeless,” I meant living in a $4000 a month air bnb. But still. I followed up with, “I hope we can still bang. If not, let me know so I can forget about you ASAP.” So he said he didn’t think we should see each other anymore and blocked me on Fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:31 AM
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Okay. Well I’m a woman, and I know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:39 AM
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Guys don’t want unwanted touching from random strangers either, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:05 AM
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I think it also stems from sexual shame and guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:44 AM
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To be fair, it’s extremely hard to go without a bag because women’s clothes typically don’t have big enough pockets. And women’s clothes don’t have big enough pockets because there is financial incentive to get women to buy handbags. Also form is prioritized over function in women’s fashion due to the sexual objectification of women in society. You could also argue they need those big bags to carry layers for those male-set thermostats.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 01:39 AM
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1500 BMR? That might be how much I burn if I lie in bed all day. If I’m active (like 10.000 steps a day with some cardio), I need 2500. But yeah I’ve always had a high metabolism. When I was younger, people thought I was anorexic when I was eating at least 2000 calories a day. 2000 calories a day got me to 5’6” 90 pounds. So I got sent to nutritionists and it was hard to gain weight. They made me record what I ate and were like wtf. So then they told my parents I was bulimic. I was never bulimic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:54 AM
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Bc if it’s their fantasy, they are in control and wanting it. By definition, that’s not rape. It’s more like consensual non-consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:53 AM
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I said men are afraid of women being physical about sex. The idea that women would have the same physical sexual desires as men is threatening. I wrote these https://www.quora.com/What-does-science-know-about-the-differences-between-male-and-female-sexual-desire/answer/jessica-pin-2 https://link.medium.com/grZNogM6AY Yeah so you need to actually read the original research (by Buss and Meston) on why humans have sex. It looks at those 200 variables for both men and women and concludes women do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:41 AM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:21 AM
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There is actually a lot of research that indicates that stereotype is not supported. I can send links if you’re interested. Imo that stereotype arises due to the male need for paternity certainly and resulting incentive to suppress and control female sexuality. The idea that sex is physical for women and that women have non-emotionally based desire is threatening to men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:47 PM
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I would argue that most of those fantasies aren’t really rape fantasies but rather of consensual rough sex, and the distinction matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:31 PM
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They can show up with whatever standards they want. They don’t deserve criticism. If their standards keep them from finding someone, it’s them who will pay the price. Making women feel insecure about what they can and can’t get doesn’t help anyone. All it does is make them feel like they need to settle for relationships where they are unhappy. You also need to consider that many single women are single by choice. It’s up to them if they want to be single or not. Now if women are complaining that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:52 PM
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Uh no I’m extremely sedentary though I guess I walk at least 1 mile total a day acc to my health app
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:42 PM
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The quality of the guy is actually proportional to the longevity. Lowering standards has the reverse effect you think it does. Also I’m attached for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:41 PM
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I agree. They’ve shown that men who get turned on by rape porn report a higher likelihood of actually raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:08 AM
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Lol no one claims women are never violent
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:45 AM
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Isn’t putting her hand over yours more than subtle? My guy friend told me to do that. It’s easier for me to just smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:43 AM
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I’m 32 and single. As long as some guys say I’m a 10 and a smoke show, I’m going with those guys and not the ones who say I’m not. This is my preference. I guess I’ve had a lot of baggage that has caused me to not want to date. I mainly just date to get laid. The latest guy made me agree to be exclusive. But the romance isn’t really there for me yet. With the last guy I really liked, I got mad at him unfairly and was not nice. That happens a lot. Usually it’s about feeling like they are a bad in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:34 AM
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I’m 32, 5’8,” 110 pounds. To maintain my weight, I have to eat at least 2000 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:03 AM
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I’m 32, 5’8”, 110 pounds, and I don’t have an eating disorder. I eat a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:01 AM
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I eat out or order delivery for all meals and haven’t been working out for past year due to some life problems. On top of that, when I’m stressed, I binge eat carbs. I’m 5’8” ~110 pounds. If I work out, I can get down to 105 and have to work to get and keep weight on. The highest I’ve been, as far as I know, since getting off meds that caused weight gain is 113. So speak for yourself. I spent my youth being accused of having an eating disorder and even over exercising. I really don’t appreciate …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:57 AM
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lol no. Women who have are naturally skinny will likely always be naturally skinny. Look at their moms, aunts, grandmothers. Pretty straightforward. Meanwhile, your girl who has to work hard to stay thin is going to blow up when she stops. If she has to be on a diet to maintain, how is she going to lose weight after pregnancy? lol she isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:40 AM
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What exactly is crazy? And what are you calling transphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:37 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:12 AM
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I don’t care at all if they are in touch with people they’ve had a sexual history with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:12 AM
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Does it really help them though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:09 AM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:51 AM
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Why would you call me a fame whore? I clearly indicated I don’t pay attention to what guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:42 AM
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It’s in my profile. People typically put their alma maters in their profile. It’s a way to gain followers. I’m 32 so that’s too old anyway. But I still get asked if I’m a model on a regular basis. I don’t really see why your opinion matters because I’ve always been able to attract guys I like to date me, despite being “crazy” like you say. I have a very high popularity ranking on The League. What is hard to do is get laid frequently without getting into a relationship. Getting consistent casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:10 AM
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Excuse me? I haven’t named dropped my school anywhere. What are you talking about? I disagree. It’s not actually that easy to get laid. This is the main reason why I’m not single rn. I had to agree to be exclusive but I can get laid whenever I want with a guy who checks all my boxes. So it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:58 AM
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Many of the wealthiest men in SF didn’t actually go to Ivy League Schools. A lot of them went to U of Illinois. Most of them do not show off their wealth in how they dress. It’s the opposite. They dress casually and wear a lot of the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:50 AM
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I have consistently made the point that they won’t and that it is easier to secure a relationship than an FWB. I am not crazy. And Wash U is not a ghetto school. It was ranked #11 when I went there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:36 AM
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Hmm the high quality guys I attract disagree. And who exactly are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:20 AM
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No. You can google me. I’m Jessica Pin No. 2/3 to turn me down have been less attractive and 4 inches shorter than the average guy I sleep with. The 3rd was pretty typical of the look I’d date. But prob not someone I’d date because he was kind of volatile which is why we aren’t friends anymore. I don’t mind at all lol. Some guys just want to be friends and don’t like to fuck friends. One guy I went on a date with recently said he only wanted to be friends. He said bc he “knows how I am with guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:32 AM
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Yeah so I disagree. It seems more like 20%, which is very frustrating. Even guys who super like me ignore me sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:18 PM
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A lot of guys aren’t interested in casual sex though It’s actually easier to secure a boyfriend than an FWB. This is the reverse of what men assume
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:49 PM
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I could not have stopped him prior to penetrating me bc I could not have guessed that would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:48 PM
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No. I think I was just sharing and saying she probably didn’t mean to hurt him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:43 PM
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My standards for casual hook ups are lower than for dating but it’s still not easy. I even made a separate tinder not showing my face saying I just want to get laid ASAP and it didn’t work that well except in Monterey. It is significantly less popular than my main tinder. I go to concerts by myself all the time. Sometimes I even go to clubs by myself. Almost no one ever hits on me. If I approach, I am not often successful. If I do get approached, which happens rarely, the guys are higher quality…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:38 PM
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I had no way to predict that he would penetrate me without any warning. I was on my stomach and trusting him to give me a massage. I had previously said I do not have sex without condoms. I had no way to see what he was doing or to stop him. That’s not okay. It’s no different than penetrating someone while they are asleep naked in your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:26 PM
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Do you actually feel traumatized by men who hit on you persistently?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:36 PM
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Imo it’s not that easy for women to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:35 PM
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I have had that happen literally 4 times with men, where they penetrated me without my consent when I said “no.” But I fought 4 of them off me. I am only 110 pounds so it is clear to me that if they really had wanted to hurt me, they could have held me down. They gave excuses like, “I know you said ‘no’, but you were so wet.” And, “I know you said ‘no’, but we had sex before and you liked it. So I thought you would change your mind.” And, “I know you said ‘no,’ but that was so hot. Didn’t that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:30 PM
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Imo it is more difficult for a woman to sexually assault a man because, in general, men are stronger and have more ability to resist and extricate themselves from the situation. However, in cases where the circumstances are equivalent, such as when the victim is weaker or drugged, it should be viewed the same. In cases of unwanted sexual touching, it should be viewed the same. However, people need to be more realistic about how this is defined, as it is possible to misread social cues. I have ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:08 PM
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Just logically think through your feelings. Take a step back, ask yourself why you feel how you feel, ask yourself if it makes sense based on the data, ask yourself if it’s useful. Try not allowing yourself any feelings that don’t make sense. If ever there is an equally valid (based on the data) but more useful feeling, feel that instead. That said, also recognize that your sensitivity is a strength. It probably means you are more empathetic. This will make you more appealing to women. Learn whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:49 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:31 AM
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If they are interested in dating me then yes. I would never ask a man to wash my car. But if guys do thoughtful things like make me food, bring me water, take time to give me advice, and check up on me to see how things are going, I see this as good. If these things are not done, my interest decreases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:49 PM
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I’m saying that I’m more likely to want to date guys who do things for me I typically do things for people I care about. This dynamic is definitely stronger in romantic relationships than friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:06 PM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:05 PM
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That’s friend zone ...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:11 PM
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Guys friend zone me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:11 PM
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What do you mean by shared intimacy? I’m a woman. I make friends based on who wants to do the same things and likes the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:03 PM
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Why wouldn’t that be the best strategy for women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:01 PM
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Why wouldn’t that be the best strategy for women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:01 PM
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I like when guys do things for me. My love language is acts of service
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:00 PM
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I like guys who are super nice and caring. I have trouble being nice and caring. I bust balls too much. The cockier a guy is, the bitchier I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:58 PM
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This is why I get so frustrated with women insisting women have as much sexual desire as men do I personally am attracted to a lot of men at least enough to sleep with them. But I’m pickier about dating bc I hate being trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:58 PM
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Sometimes guys friend zone me. I have male friends who won’t hook up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:53 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:51 PM
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Maybe zone is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:51 PM
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Sometimes it is effective though. I sometimes end up sleeping with male friends out of convenience. I got a crush on one. But bad timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:50 PM
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Hmm I mean that’s just who I watch. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:38 PM
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I think a lot of porn stars are really pretty. Anita Blonde is my pick for most beautiful porn star of all time but she’s kind of vintage. Tori Black, Stoya, Brigitta Bulgari, Nessa Devil, Aletta Ocean, Angel Dark, and Gloria Gucci are gorgeous. I also like Gia Di Marco, Jessie Rogers, Taylor Rain, Juelz Ventura, Tarra White, Molly Mae, Sasha Rose, Misha Cross, and Sophie Lynx. I’m sure I could think of more, and I only know of porn stars who do pretty hardcore stuff. I’m honestly annoyed you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:10 AM
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Wow. Killed it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:57 AM
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Men have to continually desire her pleasure and be devoted to turning her on and getting her off though. Selfish men really kill my desire. I will want to fuck other men if I don’t think my partner is truly about my pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:54 AM
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Do you mean 2 in vagina and one in ass? Imo it’s her problem if it hurts. Imo there has to be someone genuinely into that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:50 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:46 AM
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I love getting jackhammered. Younger guys can do it for pretty long periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:46 AM
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Guys who do a good job say they think I’m like a porn star and I ruin porn for them. Guys who don’t do a good job tell me I’m difficult and demanding. Men who bring it get porn star me. Men who don’t get a few tries where I’m basically a dead fish who complains. And then I’m gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:45 AM
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You are not doing any intellectual heavy lifting. In fact, you have not cited any sources to support any concrete statements. Most of your comments are personal attacks on me rather than your articulated beliefs about gender differences. I stated only facts about the wage gap so I don’t see where your problem is. It seems like you’re just being emotional.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 10:23 PM
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I didn’t get my period until age 15. The average age of menarche is still 13. I am very sexually open. My n count is around 100. I did not lose my virginity until age 18. There was no discomfort or pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:21 PM
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Imo the defloration myth is common due to women historically often becoming sexually actively prior to puberty being complete. Initial penetration may not be pleasurable in cases where there are ignorance about how female sexual function works. The clitoris is the primary organ responsible for female sexual response. Adequate stimulation needs to occur before penetration takes place. Women should feel relaxed and comfortable with their partners, rather than pressured to perform an act to please …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 08:13 PM
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There’s no empirical evidence you can cite that hasn’t been debunked. But you can go ahead and try I guess. And I will address them point by point with published scientific research.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 08:09 PM
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No. The research indicates that the difference in clitoral stimulation accounts for the disparity of sex quality. The research also indicates that women are not more emotional about sex than men are, as you assume based on antiquated stereotypes that arose to suppress and control female sexuality and no data whatsoever. What matters is that the anatomy isn’t considered, as I explained. I’m not sure why you’re not getting it, but I’m realizing you are to unintelligent for any further engagement t…
/r/MensRights20/07/19 11:34 PM
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What happens if you and your husband get divorced? How long will you go without sex? Relationship sex isn’t worse with everyone. But you have to land a well endowed top performer. That’s how my main ex was and why I dated him the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:19 PM
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Hmm all the high n guys I know are sex positive and not scumbags. I don’t hook up with scumbags. There might be one exception, but I don’t think his n count is that high. For one year I was hooking up with him, his roommate told me there was no one else. His roommate had no reason to lie bc he like me too and was trying to poach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:17 PM
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That sucks. But it’s cool you found someone special.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:55 PM
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I don’t remember. Probably a few years after menarche. But it varies from woman to woman. In some, it never does. I think some might even need surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:54 PM
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19 is extremely young. I lost my virginity at 18. But I didn’t have an orgasm until 21, so I didn’t have much desire for sex before then. I don’t think it’s a stretch to wait to a reasonable level of maturity before having sex. But if you have to force yourself to be in relationships in order to get laid as an adult, that’s impractical. You know nothing about casual sex because you’ve never had it. Some of my best encounters have been casual. My main ex was probably the best of all, but that’s w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:48 PM
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Look for yourself https://scholar.google.com Here’s a start, to get an idea what’s going on: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0003122412445802 https://theestablishment.co/the-insidious-reasons-doctors-are-botching-labiaplasties/index.html https://link.medium.com/zodGzb3usY https://link.medium.com/MbSjVvmvsY Try comparing articles on labiaplasty techniques to articles on techniques for other cosmetic surgeries. Understanding how trailing and privileging works involves talking to resid…
/r/MensRights19/07/19 08:15 PM
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How did you go so long without wanting to have sex? Don’t you feel like you missed out on a good 10 years of good sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:47 PM
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No. Look up research on hymens in virgins versus non virgins. They are indifferentiable. A fully estrogenized hymen should permit a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:44 PM
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How old were you when you met him? Why didn’t you desire sex before meeting him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:43 PM
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According to research, men feel less responsible for their partners orgasms than women do, especially in casual encounters. There is a double standard here where women feel obligated to please men but men don’t feel the same way as much of the time. I agree that women need to be asking for what they want. However, the problem is culture-wide, and both men and women contribute to the orgasm gap and to ignorance of vulvar anatomy and female sexual function. I grew up learning that all I was suppos…
/r/MensRights19/07/19 04:10 PM
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She said she lost her v card at 14. Maybe she’s 18 now, which would be a more appropriate age to be taking to her dad about sex
/r/MensRights19/07/19 04:08 PM
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No matter what, people have relationships that don’t work out. And it’s generally not healthy to rebound right away. Also, not everyone is ready for or capable of a relationship at all times. I’m not saying it’s impossible to jump from relationship to relationship. I’m saying doing so is problematic. It doesn’t matter if you’re the most desirable woman around (not that I am, but I do okay). It can still take time to meet someone special who you connect with. I personally didn’t date for a few ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:30 PM
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Well women with 21+ partners didn’t have a statistically significant difference in chances of being “very happy” than women with 1 partner. So I’m in the clear. Geez just multiply that by 5. One of these charts seems to indicate that women with 11+ partners are happiest. The graph makes the general pattern look the same for men as for women, with men actually benefiting more, percentage-wise, from being virgins at marriage. Women actually experience less of a decline with increasing partners acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:55 AM
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Dude I didn’t even notice you were a man Also I’m pretty sure I’ve argued with her before and she’s not worth engaging with. But I copied and pasted the same thing in reply to her after you pointed it out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:17 AM
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Uh and what do you think the reason is? I’m extremely slutty. It’s really hard for me to commit bc I like sleeping with different guys. And a lot of the time, the quality of sex goes down for me with time. Or maybe my expectations go up, In any case, I get fomo. I just asked to get out of an exclusivity agreement for this reason. I think things were not going that well on both sides. Calling myself “trapped” and asking if I could send nudes to other guys was probably a bad call. But when I’m sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:46 AM
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It isn’t about how good the sex is for you. That’s irrelevant to this discussion. Women with huge n counts are probably more likely to be selfish in bed in casual encounters because they give 0 fucks if it’s good for you. The point is that women with high sex drives aren’t going to be able to go months without sex. And if they do, then they’re depriving themselves of something they really like. And why would they do that? The women who experience low quality casual sex encounters aren’t the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:39 AM
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Uh yeah it really does. There are only two ways to get laid frequently as a woman: Be in relationships all the time. Slut it up. 1 is impossible unless the woman is not picky and jumps from relationship to relationship with little time in between. So the only way you get sex a lot, as a woman, is by being either of the following: Not picky about who you get into relationships with. A slut. The alternative is to not have sex a lot. And if you can go long periods without sex, that’s because you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:00 AM
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Yeah fine with high n for relationships but more cautious going in. Less likely to sleep with high n guys the first night. But there are trade offs bc when guys are super hot, it’s hard to care. However, two guys otherwise equal, I’d take the low n guy for casual sex, might even compromise a tad for the lower risk and greater likelihood of getting more casual sex from him. There wouldn’t be as much of a preference for long term. With long term, it’s just about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:45 AM
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Yeah the irony is sometimes I go for low n men for casual sex bc I see it as like free sex. Those guys are very low risk for hpv. One time I slept with a guy who wasn’t that attractive bc he’d only had 2 partners total. That’s about as safe as a dildo. I’m more likely to hold high n against guys in casual encounters bc the risk/reward ratio is too high. If they are a relationship candidate, there’s more potential reward so I throw it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:20 AM
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Most high n men are sex positive and don’t judge high n women. Some high n men are actually more into women with high n.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:16 AM
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Where’s the data on high n count men and divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:15 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:14 AM
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2 weeks maybe depending on the reason. Without a good reason, 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:09 AM
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Omg Lol
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:53 PM
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Hmm what’s a normie? I just feel like they have some mixed up ideas that need to be confronted
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:48 PM
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Nothing about sleeping around makes anyone an asshole
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:47 PM
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Women didn’t even have access to education.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:45 PM
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Its not a myth. Women have historically had less rights. Women’s autonomy was restricted severely and women’s access to power and resources was severely restricted. You might as well argue that African Americans were never oppressed by slavery. That is false.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:44 PM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:39 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:38 PM
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Generalizations and stereotypes are harmful. However, when I talked about gender differences, I specified that I was talking about differences in means. I acknowledged effect sizes are low and even linked to a paper on the gender similarities hypothesis. But just because differences are small doesn’t mean they don’t exist. I explained how they get compounded by culture via a sort of positive feedback mechanism. But I don’t think the effect of biology is 0 for all gendered characteristics. I also…
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:35 PM
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You have a point. The reason women who have been harmed don’t speak up is because it is too traumatic and they are ashamed. I know because I have tried to mobilize other victims. I don’t know why I can’t get women to care. They object to my tone. I am very combative. I of course also got in a lot of trouble do saying women have less interest in sex and in their genitals on average. So they do insist that sex is a priority for them. It’s honestly a mind fuck. Hmm I think they would have objected …
/r/MensRights18/07/19 07:21 PM
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Fgm is beyond horrific to western women and outside of the scope of what most can relate to. There’s a disconnect when atrocities occur in other cultures. There is genocide, starvation, etc in other countries. But people are more motivated to fight what affects them personally. Women in the west get more up in arms about rape because it affects them. And if they haven’t suffered personally, they’ve seen a friend or family member suffer. I think everyone in their right mind opposes fgm and laws i…
/r/MensRights18/07/19 06:35 PM
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Women are judged and valued based on appearance more than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:53 PM
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That’s not what I said. I said I’d rather get gang raped 100 times than have no sensation in my clitoris. You need to stop drawing a false equivalency between male circumcision and FGM. Are you saying you’d rather lose sensation in your penis than get raped? I seriously doubt that. In studies of combat veterans, men have said they’d rather die than lose their penises.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:47 PM
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That’s not an okay joke
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:18 PM
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There is no excuse for treating someone badly. It doesn’t matter what they look like. Everyone deserves respect and consideration. People are not “above” others just because they are more attractive. Also, beauty is very much subjective. One guy’s 7 could be another guy’s 10. And an asshole is going to be an asshole. I’ve dated a perfect looking actor/model signed with Ford Models who was a total sweetheart. Meanwhile I’ve had much less attractive men treat me like shit. There has definitely not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:18 PM
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Your comment was more offensive than hers. Also, I think I’ve argued with that woman before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:17 PM
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Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:12 PM
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You just said uggos shouldn’t be surprised if they get treated like shit. No one deserves to be treated like shit. Period. If you don’t like or respect someone enough to treat them nicely, you shouldn’t be sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:34 AM
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There is no excuse for treating someone badly. It doesn’t matter what they look like. Everyone deserves respect and consideration. People are not “above” others just because they are more attractive. Also, beauty is very much subjective. One guy’s 7 could be another guy’s 10. And an asshole is going to be an asshole. I’ve dated a perfect looking actor/model signed with Ford Models who was a total sweetheart. Meanwhile I’ve had much less attractive men treat me like shit. There has definitely not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:18 AM
1

No. That implies the only value in women is appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:12 AM
2

Yeah that’s prob why I said 1%. That’s consistent with how many people are legitimately sociopaths. Maybe make that 2% for rapists bc of how many people get off to causing pain/suffering. Why the fuck did I just get downvoted?
/r/MensRights18/07/19 03:04 AM
1

No that’s not true. First of all, there’s no research quantifying the number of nerve endings in the clitoris in humans. The clitoris is equivalent to the ENTIRE external penis. I’m not sure why this is hard for you to understand. Where you get this nerve endings number from is beyond me. Try citing original research. Maybe you can find it for the foreskin, but you won’t find it for the clitoris. Just based on the size of the nerves going into the clitoris, it’s abundantly obvious the clitoris h…
/r/AntiFeminists18/07/19 02:06 AM
1

I don’t think 1 in 5 lifetime prevalence for rape is unrealistic either.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 01:47 AM
-2

1 in 5 for sexual assault during college is realistic, especially if random groping from strangers counts as sexual assault. If a stranger at a club grabs your ass, that’s not okay.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 01:20 AM
2

I agree. I’m a bit on the spectrum too so I think that’s probably why it doesn’t make sense to me.
/r/MensRights17/07/19 09:22 PM
3

I don’t doubt it. Is there a source for that?
/r/MensRights17/07/19 09:20 PM
1

FGM robs women of the primary mechanism for sexual response. It is equivalent to removing the entire external penis.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/19 08:58 PM
2

Female circumcision is equivalent to removing a man’s entire external penis. Male circumcision is equivalent to only removing the distal, free end of the clitoral hood, leaving the clitoris and it’s innervation intact. As is, doctors struggle to perform clitoral hood reductions on adult women without accidentally cutting the part that is shaft skin and denervating the distal shaft glans. This actually happened to me. I have essentially no external sensation at all anymore and cannot even feel cu…
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/19 08:51 PM
3

A direct female on male approach really is less well received than an indirect approach. With the best looking guy I’ve ever met in my life, I was successful with an indirect approach. He is also the most popular on The League dating app in San Francisco. I simply took off my jacket so I’d look sexier in my silk tank, and I walked past him smiling. As I walked past, he caught my eye and said, “Hey you’re tall.” So that’s how we started talking. With a less smart, less good looking guy I saw at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 03:57 AM
2

I agree
/r/MensRights14/07/19 08:08 PM
1

I agree. Non verbal signs are never clear unless they involve explicit resistance like actually pushing away.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 07:35 PM
11

How is he violating her boundaries?
/r/MensRights14/07/19 03:58 AM
2

Yeah when my ex said no I asked to fuck other people. Then the last time he said no I said I hated him. So he left permanently after that. It’s honestly really hard being with someone who has a low sex drive.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 03:43 AM
16

Her feelings are on her. Just because it’s a shitty situation doesn’t mean you can call it assault.
/r/MensRights14/07/19 02:59 AM
16

Okay but that’s a far cry from assault
/r/MensRights14/07/19 01:41 AM
1

That post is fucking insane. I am a feminist, but that woman’s boyfriend clearly NEVER assaulted her. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 10:14 PM
3

I have a short male friend (5’8” or so) who is super manly. I’m not attracted to him because of his height and hairiness. But a lot of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:33 PM
5

Yeah I agree. But I’m confused. Do you think women are saying short men are gross and not manly? That’s obviously not okay either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:53 PM
3

Oh you should initiate more! Women get turned on knowing men want them. Tell her how sexy she is and feel her up at random moments. If she wears a short dress, for example, tell her, “Damn you look amazing. Could you bend over for me so I can see your ass in that?” Then start feeling her up. If she isn’t wet in like 30 seconds, I’d be very surprised. That stuff turns me on. All the chivalrous type stuff turns me on as well. I like feeling like a guy is there for me and looking out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:06 PM
13

What are you talking about? Shaming is not okay. But having preferences is. Both men and women can have whatever physical preferences they want for romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 06:01 PM
3

I don’t think leftists have a problem with men doing their own thing and staying independent if that is what they want. The problem is with the misogyny expressed by members of the MGTOW movement. For example, branding all women as moochers and users is misogynistic. Branding women as incapable is also. A feminist/leftist has no issue with the independent bachelor who just doesn’t want to be attached, as long as he respects women. A man like this would have female friends and treat women as equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:58 PM
1

Yeah sounds like she doesn’t need toys. Well maybe since you live together and have sex a lot, there’s no need for her to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:51 PM
3

Then buy her some toys. Jesus. I am how I am at least partly because once upon a time, a boyfriend took me to buy toys. Before that, I’d never had an orgasm. Now I just feel annoyed at women for not masturbating more. It’s really hard for me bc I have clitoral nerve damage. I can’t orgasm without a vibrator and can’t orgasm easily without a specific one. Since it broke, I am averaging under or around 4 times a week maybe because it takes so long, and also it can be hard to stop, so I’ll waste ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:33 PM
1

Actually it’s almost good you got to have a kid before getting too old. That will take the pressure off relationships moving forward. In my opinion, the wall is bullshit. Do you really feel like you don’t have options? Even my grandmother had plenty of options in her 70s.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:07 PM
2

If he’s in love with any idea of you, you should be able to get him to do whatever you want in bed. You just need to tell him what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:05 PM
1

Tell him what you need. Tell him it’s not going to work out unless he steps up his game. If he doesn’t, next.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:03 PM
1

No fucking way. I’m not going to conform to regressive gender roles. Also, fwbs never works out. It either progresses to dating or ends. That’s exactly why it’s hard to get laid while single, like I’ve explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:59 PM
2

Yeah I’ve never had that problem. I think this is not a problem for women with high sex drives. Maybe pay attention to how often she masturbates. I also personally keep seeing guys unless the sex is really good. So if a guy lasts long enough for a real relationship, I’m not going to get tired of him. I don’t think sluts necessarily have reactive sex drives. It takes a lot of work to find lots of new high quality partners. Personally, if I sit back and make no effort, I only get hit on about once…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:46 PM
1

Nope. Not without accumulating too many new partners. Even 15 new partners per year is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:26 PM
1

The problem is if they are also spinning plates, they won’t always be available.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:46 AM
1

Yeah one guy dropped out bc “you don’t give me compliments,” “you use people,” “you didn’t thank me for sex” (lol wtf), “you talk about other guys,” “I’m looking for a serious girlfriend, then wife, and don’t understand how people can just date without a goal.” I have no filter. Sucked bc I decided I liked that one right before he blocked my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:44 AM
1

I typically cannot handle more than 2-3. In January, it got up to 4, and I was a bit overwhelmed. I had to deactivate The League for a few months. I was sending my matches (via copy paste), “Hey I am saturated right now, but can I save your number for when the next drought hits?” This was not smart. Hard to figure out how to save people for later. I never want to ghost anyone. One night in March though, I texted 10 guys. None were available. It’s bs bc guys make time when they care. I guess 3 di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:35 AM
1

My standards are lower for hook ups than fir dating. They aren’t that high. The problem is my casual sex retention rate is very low. I only get about 2-3 bangs per dude, on average, unless guys get emotionally involved. It’s very inefficient. I am not sure what you mean by spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:17 AM
3

Yeah TONS of men stay with women who don’t fuck them. Imo this is caused by men picking women who have lower desire in the first place. Men who favor sluts for long term relationships don’t have this issue imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:34 AM
3

I disagree. A monogamous relationship is the most efficient way to get frequent sex if you are a woman. While single, I can only get laid about 30 times a year, even with significant effort and multiple partners. This usually requires flirting with at least 100 guys on apps and irl, 30+ dates. It’s a lot of effort, and the casual sex retention rate is low. Typically I only get about 2-3 bangs per dude. While in a relationship, I get laid at least 150 times a year with very little effort. Recentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:20 AM
1

Well then what’s a player
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 05:16 AM
1

Yeah I think men do disqualify women based on WTH ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:41 AM
1

Height is the number one physical correlate of perceived attractiveness in men. It’s like WTH ratio for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:18 AM
1

I got banned for asking why a rape victim didn’t ask her rapist to stop or resist. I was genuinely wondering because I get confused by these stories where it is plausible the “rapist” had no clue.
/r/MensRights12/07/19 03:15 AM
2

Eh I think he flirted and/or went out with a lot of girls. He was hot and popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:57 AM
1

What’s a comfort test
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:31 PM
2

That’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:12 AM
1

Yeah I guess you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:11 AM
4

Not everyone is looking to build a life. Not everyone is able to. I still haven’t gotten settled in the city I want to be in and I’m 32. Plenty of “chads” are looking to build a life with someone. I’m pretty sure by “chads,” you mean desirable men, right? Also, stop thinking that women don’t have a line of exes or ex fwbs who still want to build a life with them if given another chance. It also can be preferable in many ways to have the attention of multiple men instead of just one. This amounts…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:15 AM
2

Hmm I feel like guys are more assertive when they bring it up so it’s harder to not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:14 AM
3

That implies women have no other value as people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:13 AM
1

Yeah so you are smarter than me. :/ Wait why does you wanting to fuck other people mean it’s over? I’m currently trapped again and I have told my dude I want to fuck other people. But that’s against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:11 AM
1

How do guys avoid agreeing if an exclusivity talk comes up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:06 AM
10

No. Women warn each other against players. Such warnings kept me away from my ex longer that would have happened otherwise. He just was very persistent and kept trying even after I dated two of his friends first. He just kept being there. I actually can’t remember how we ended up together. But he’d liked me the whole time. And he held a torch for me for years afterwards. 8 years later he told me he considered me out of his league but if I ever wanted to get married, he’d be down. Lol. He was one…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:58 AM
1

Yeah but I’m also almost 33 lol. Thanks. I’ve just had a lot of problems. It’s hard to even be open to relationships. I find myself pushing guys away a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:54 AM
0

My ex called me entitled because I told him I deserved closure after he just ghosted me in a break up. He didn’t even inform me we were breaking up for 10 days. He just didn’t answer. I didn’t know where he was because his place was getting worked on and he was supposed to be staying at mine. After 10 days he texted that it was over. He told security to stop letting me up (I had a key). He said I was “entitled” because I wanted to meet and talk things out in person so we could end things on good…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:46 AM
7

Maybe they are just trying to get laid. About half these so called “Chads” stick around and express serious interest and/or are available on an ongoing basis. Some of them are still there for support and advice years later, essentially as friends. Usually if I don’t have sex with a guy again, it’s because. (In order of frequency) 1. I didn’t like having sex with him. 2. I decided to focus on someone else. 3. He decided to focus on someone else. 4. I was an ass to him. I wish I could say “5. He w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:39 AM
1

I attract high quality guys all the time and scare them away by being a psycho bitch. Working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:32 AM
1

This doesn’t make sense. Both men and women are choosers. Women may be more picky. On some level, this simply makes things more efficient. I’m a not very picky woman. The result is I am usually talking to way too many guys and it’s hard to commit to just one. Often a lot of these guys are just jacking me around and aren’t seriously interested. My problem isn’t about entitlement. I don’t think I deserve anything in particular. In fact, I tend to think most guys I go out with are out of my league.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:31 AM
2

Really? Others haven’t worked the same for her? Bc the vibration is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:44 AM
2

What I literally just told you is gender equality is correlated with how many people are getting fed. When women have more power, more resources go to helping children and those in need. So hunger would be more addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:19 AM
3

Yeah I guess that’s why I agreed to be exclusive with my current guy but I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:57 PM
4

“Why would I get jealous? I’m taller, richer, and smarter than everyone else.” I don’t personally get it. I tried a foursome with that one and really didn’t like trading because my date was hotter and younger. His dick was better than the woman’s boyfriend’s. I get so paranoid about STDs that I wasn’t that into it. And she was younger. It was a rude wake up call realizing how much my skin has changed since my early 20s. I am starting to have older skin. I’ve never had that “soft” look some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:46 PM
2

But gender equality is globally correlated with GDP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:43 PM
1

You lost me with the first part. There shouldn’t be paternity uncertainty fear mechanisms arising because paternity testing is available. I don’t know how people in swinging couples manage this. I assume they just have unprotected sex with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:34 PM
3

Maybe. But what I’m seeing more and more among male socioeconomic 1-2 percenters is a fetish for cuckolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:31 PM
2

Can’t science guarantee men paternity? Women can still take on lovers as long as they only get pregnant with men they are faithful to and paternity tests can confirm the real father. Or are you going to say that’s not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:39 PM
3

The need for paternal investment means there’s a need for paternity certainty. Where a need for paternity certainty exists, there is incentive to possess and control women and their sexuality. Patriarchy persists inevitably. Cultures where parental responsibility is shared in the community are more matriarchal. There is a correlation between female promiscuity and female power and status in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:36 PM
1

Yeah I know. Need to work on this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:07 PM
3

Hmm I’m very talkative but my conversation style has been labeled “masturbatory.” I actually use guys on apps as my “pretend therapists.” Like this: “Blah blah blah everting is going wrong. I wish I had rented this other apt but instead I rented one with carpets bc it was $400 cheaper and I had new laminate floors put in but I’m thinking I should have gone with hardwood. Now I’m allergic to my floors. This happened that happened. I can’t decide what sectional to buy. What do you think? Left arm …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:38 PM
1

Financial humiliation? Yeah I wouldn’t know how to get into that. I’m 32 btw. The only rich guy I currently talk to is too nice. And I am trapped by another guy currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:35 PM
2

No. Men do things like ghost, block, etc. Frankly men who act like that are pussies and should learn to stand up for themselves. But if the guy is the type to stand up for himself, he usually isn’t one to get offended in the first place. He simply asks directly for what he wants and I do my best to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:34 PM
2

They act like that bc they get better results making you work for it than by indicating obvious interest. I’ve actually been told to be more like that. I’m more talkative and aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:27 PM
2

I disagree that a woman need only exist to get dick. It’s actually hard to get laid frequently and consistently without a relationship. I think women are 100% shamed for being single, far more than men are. There is a huge double standard where single women are seen as pathetic. Single men, by contrast, are just men who prefer to be single. It’s as if people assume a woman would never be single by choice, which is so obnoxious. The main reason I even get into relationships is because sometimes I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:11 PM
2

No. In those countries, they espouse the “woman are wonderful” sentiment more. The women they stone are the exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:56 PM
8

Not at all. Sexual power is a lame source of power. It’s the cheapest and easiest. Just sleep with a tech mogul. You can say, “Do this, do that.” And he does it. “Go look at that 10 million dollar house (for sale). And he does it. There, you have power. You have his power for as long as you keep his attention. But maybe you don’t want his attention. You don’t love him. And then it actually feels degrading because it’s a reminder of how little power you actually have. Ick ick. I need a shower. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:33 AM
1

Yeah I know. I was agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:01 AM
1

Wait what? Russia is not very gender egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:00 AM
1

Wait what
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:55 AM
2

What data supports that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:53 AM
-1

What? Pretty sure alphas have more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:12 AM
1

Lol no it doesn’t. “Chat up” isn’t sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:11 AM
0

Hmm maybe I complain too much about the guys I date for this to ever take effect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:10 AM
1

I can’t imagine why any man wouldn’t want to fuck me. I’m me, duh. AWALT is usually used to endorse some kind of sexist sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:09 AM
2

“Same for women though.” Yes, my main incentive to date comes from wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:06 AM
2

I go on 22-33% of dates purely for free sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:03 AM
1

That’s reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:01 AM
2

Really? I need to try getting offended
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:00 AM
11

Here is the definition of a RED FLAG
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:00 AM
2

Yes I’ve heard of this. Yes. When I signed up for Tinder, one friend said, “I just use it for free meals and practice flirting.” Note whether she offers to split the bill. Also try just getting coffee or drinks on the first date. Yeah kinda. Guys, give girls who buy you food some credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:56 AM
4

Yikes. I’m hoping he just writes this stuff when he’s wanking it and is not really all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:54 AM
6

No it really doesn’t. It just means men are the dominant gender in society, which they are. They control the most resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:51 AM
1

No that’s not feminism. The “women are wonderful” attitude is actually correlated with the level of gender inequality in different countries
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:50 AM
1

No. I didn’t understand what had happened within the 2 year statute of limitations. I was a virgin ay the time, didn’t understand my anatomy, thought it was my fault, and was told “that couldn’t have happened.” I also maybe was in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:50 PM
1

In a clitoral hood reduction performed without my consent during a labiaplasty. Most of the clitoral hood is clitoral shaft skin. The nerves travel just beneath. I’ve dissected 12 clitorises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:04 PM
1

“I’m not banging other people bc you told me not to.” “I told them I’m trapped.” Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:46 AM
1

Lol yeah kind of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:09 AM
1

I think women who are single and not getting laid are missing out. If women are in relationships, they’re probably good. For me, it’s hard to enjoy sex because I have clitoral nerve damage, so I think it’s a bit different. A lot of my sexual encounters are basically shopping around. And a lot of them happen because of issues I’ve had with being afraid of relationships. Even right now I’m seeing someone, and though he’s great, it’s killing me that I can’t see other people. It’s hard to have one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:57 AM
2

I take the lead all the time. Now you’re just making me feel like I shouldn’t. The biggest issue is how physically hard it is to rape a guy. But the affirmative consent thing is bogus. I’ve def pressured guys into sex. Pressuring is acceptable everywhere else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:21 PM
2

No. I’m arguing even in our past it wasn’t. Women just aren’t that fertile. How do you know women were historically more choosy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:32 PM
1

Not true. A guy might want to use a condom. A guy might want to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:31 PM
2

I literally can’t get casual sex as much as I want and maintain the same quality as I do with dating. As is, guys I just bang are 1 inch shorter than guys I date. That’s just one metric of compromise As I’ve been explaining, slut shaming is a huge culprit. I don’t think I behave much differently from the average guy you’re imagining. Anyway I’ve had plenty of guys turn down casual sex with me. If you want, make a catfish girl tinder and see how easy it actually is. If you say “hey want to come o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:34 AM
2

Women have never slut shamed me. There might be one woman on Reddit who has. Women never say anything negative to me about being promiscuous. But actually now that I’m 32, an older girl friend is on my ass to be more serious about dating. Anyway I hate being exclusive. It’s flattering at first and I felt like I had to agree bc oh gosh this great guy who checks all my boxes wants to date me seriously. But the reality is I feel trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:27 AM
1

My ex had over 200 matches on tinder and he was pretty picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:22 AM
3

Most of the guys I’ve dated can get sex when they want it. For some it is “almost too easy.” In fact, I often feel like the men I’ve dated have an easier time getting laid than I do. Among guys of a certain quality level, their number can range from ~10-100+ based on their preferences. Not all guys will choose to have a lot of casual sex just because they can. I don’t think desire and predicted pleasure are closely correlated. Predicted pleasure has more to do with whether the man gives her what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 08:04 AM
2

I sleep with a lot of guys. The guys I date are higher quality on average than men I just sleep with. Even among the casual relationships, the higher quality guys stick around longer, take me on more real dates. This isn’t bc I’m less slutty with them btw I’m aware of this narrative but I find my experience perplexing. My retention rate is directly proportional to attractiveness, height, and education
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:56 AM
1

Why did it change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:54 AM
1

My male ex was like this too but I’m the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:53 AM
3

Yeah except most sex isn’t really reproductive. How early do you think humans figured out the pull out method? Like 10 thousand years ago? 100 thousand years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:52 AM
1

Tbh when I watch porn, I just fast forward to like pounding it doggy. Might watch some throatfucking also. I loved Tumblr bc I could collect all the gifs of just the parts I liked. No story though clearly. But I guess I did like captions. Nothing too long though. Just like “take that cock like a good girl” to a gif of some doggy style pounding. Focus on mental image >> orgasm. One thing I like is to get guys to send me dirty texts of their fantasies or what they want to do to me. And it bothers …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:46 AM
3

I think on average, women have lower sex drives. However, I’ve had a higher sex drive than many, if not most, men I’ve dated. But I’m also quite promiscuous. I’ve also had more partners than most men I’ve dated. I think that women are less open to casual sex and are have higher sex drives in a relationship context. I think female sex drive is more contextually dependent in this way. In studies of sex propositioning, gender differences nearly disappeared when researchers controlled for safety and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:35 AM
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I find a lot of men attractive, as evidenced by my hundreds of matches on apps. Each match means “yeah I’d do him.” I wonder what methodology other women are using with the swipes. But yes I agree partly. However I think slut shaming is a huge reason for pickiness. One thing is you can get away with being a slut around other women if you snag super hot guys because they are so impressed that you get them rather than judgmental of the behavior. This is how I’ve been such a huge slut but no woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:20 AM
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Actually no. Women have less desire on average. Just look at the higher rates of sexual desire disorders in women. Higher standards are caused by less desire. If you’re easily turned on by the opposite sex, you don’t need a 10. Also, do girls get all crazed if you tease them? I don’t. Maybe some girls do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:18 AM
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Normally I only commit with there are no problems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:51 AM
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Lol yeah it does suck apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:48 AM
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I literally just explained how they do. First of all, they motivate reproductive behavior. Additionally, they strengthen the pair bond between two people. Before I had orgasms, I never bonded with anyone so I’d just cycle through guys. I’d just get bored after a month or two and dump him for a new one. I also wasn’t as interested in having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:38 AM
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The chemistry is different if there’s a person around. How the brain responds to chemicals released during orgasm is context dependent. But I think there’s a reason lime green became my favorite color after my favorite vibrator was that color lol That last question wasn’t clear. Your understanding of male reproductive strategy is flawed. Men don’t just need offspring to spread their genes. They need successful offspring. Offspring have a lower chance of survival without paternal investment. As f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:22 AM
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“Flashlight” implies pleasure is not mutual. It sounds like the only person who is a “flesh light for men” is you. You’re clearly dissatisfied with the sex you are getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:20 AM
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Yeah but I still like him a lot. I just wish it didn’t feel like such a compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:18 AM
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My standards are actually lower for casual sex than for relationships. With casual sex, I optimize for safety and efficiency. With casual sex I do optimize for attractiveness only and don’t worry about intelligence. Men I date are over an inch taller on average than men I just hook up with. They also tend to be more successful, more affluent, more educated, funnier, and skew slightly older on average (versus younger for casual).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:12 AM
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The affirmative consent thing is ridiculous. That said. It’s supposed to be gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:09 AM
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This is really stereotypical sexist bs stemming from the suppression and historical commodification of female sexuality. These guys see women as sexually passive and lacking in desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:02 AM
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They say everything violates tos
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:59 AM
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Well they always ban me anyway. And tbh Jim is exactly the type who wouldn’t care about some stupid reddit admins. Neither do I. Reddit is pretty useless. I’ve just used it to channel traffic elsewhere and now to see how it works. It doesn’t look like there’s a way to build popularity or influence here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:31 AM
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Yeah don’t really care. If he wants me to not talk shit about him on the Internet, he should reach out and let me know that. Maybe he should have reached out and let me know we were breaking up instead of just disappearing with a bunch of stuff still at my place. He took 10 days of going dark to let me know we were broken up, via text. Just because it wasn’t working out doesn’t mean it’s okay to end things like that. He couldn’t get it up. He refused to take viagra. He has almost no sex drive. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:51 AM
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That’s funny bc my actuary boyfriend is laughing at you. Basically he does is math for a living
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:46 PM
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No he’s not seeing other people. What do you mean re he won’t commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:50 PM
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Not if I want to keep seeing him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:39 PM
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I personally believe women who have the g spot orgasms you describe are inevitably getting some indirect stimulation of the clitoral body and glans. The biomechanics of the vulva make an absence of clitoral stimulation with penetration virtually impossible unless the woman has been mutilated in some way. I do get some weak contractions from penetration and I squirt occasionally but it isn’t the same. I don’t consider those real orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:42 PM
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Lol I guess it’s just not that easy for me. I have clitoral nerve damage and am difficult to please. The biggest thing is I want him to be into me orgasming with my vibrator but he isn’t. This is a huge buzzkill for me. I also prefer to be fucked harder than he fucks me generally. I know I can get on top. But I guess sometimes I just want things a certain way. I’m not getting exactly what I want. It’s close but as long as it’s not as good as what I can get from other guys, being trapped is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:30 PM
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I mean I agreed but I’m not happy. I am not read to be committed bc the problems in our relationship haven’t been ironed out. Commitment is something that normally happens when I am sure and no longer wanting to see other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:02 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:45 PM
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I am craziest in the beginning bc it’s a filtering mechanism. I guess I need to stop doing this. I just want to scare anyone away who won’t fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:45 PM
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That must be how I got my engineering degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:06 PM
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If there are more straight women than straight men, that means men get get more sex on average. It’s simple math. Try this thought experiment: 2 men. 2 women. How do you have the women getting more sex than the men? If woman 1 fucks man 1, man 1 is also getting laid. If both woman 1 and woman 2 only fuck man 1, the men are still getting the same amount of sex, on average, as the women. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:04 PM
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It’s better that he confronted the behavior and asked for what he wanted directly. I wish more guys did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:02 PM
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Lol what a great guy for confronting you directly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah my 32 yo boyfriend did this. I hate it and feel trapped. Now he’s saying we aren’t yet boyfriend girlfriend but I’m still not allowed to date or hook up with other people. This does not seem legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:01 PM
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This is what my guy has done. I hate it but I don’t want to lose him. I am not happy sexually though and he’s not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:59 PM
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What do you mean? Men need to be good at sex? I am very direct with guys when they are not pleasing me enough. But my current guy isn’t stepping up his game. Not sure what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:42 PM
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I dated a rich and powerful man (Jim Buckmaster, CEO of Craigslist). We broke up bc he wouldn’t fuck me close to enough. Well, I asked if I could fuck other people and he said, “I don’t want you not to out of some sense of obligation.” But he was upset when I did. Then one night when he wasn’t in the mood, I said I hated him. And after that, he left my place, took his stuff, told security to stop letting me up to his, and texted that I did not deserve closure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:37 PM
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Laws regarding child support and alimony are gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:36 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:29 PM
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Lol. No I think you are. If there are just as many straight women as straight men, which there are about, then men and women have to be having the same amount of sex on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:29 PM
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No. It’s actually not lol. Chemicals released during orgasm facilitate pair bonding. Maybe you feel like it’s “horse shit” because sex isn’t working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:43 PM
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How is that relevant? And what do you think you get by not “fucking half the town.” Maybe if you did, you’d find a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:42 PM
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You’re saying you think low libido is caused by low quality sexual experiences. I would agree with you that it can be. That is an argument I’ve used with OB/GYNs about why knowing detailed vulvar anatomy should be relevant to treating sexual dysfunction. They’ll argue anatomy is irrelevant bc FSD is usually caused by low libido. But even if the patient presents with a desire disorder, the cause can be physical. And even when there is no treatment (yet), patients want to be diagnosed, especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:41 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:36 PM
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It is just as relevant as discussing reproductive purpose. Female orgasm does have just as much reproductive purpose as male though. Male ejaculation doesn’t have to be pleasurable. It is so as to provide positive feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:36 PM
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It is mathematically impossible for men to be getting a lot less sex than women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:34 PM
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I am so sorry. Thank you for telling your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:33 PM
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No. ~15% is the number of female victims found in the NVAVS (hope I got that right). Imo rape is very common. And I’m not including bs cases where the women never said “no.” 7% is the the number of men who self report having raped a woman. Most rapes are not reported to the police due to fear of secondary wounding and of being unable to prove what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 07:47 AM
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I almost never get hit on. When I do get approached, the guys seem out of my league (best looking guy I’ve ever seen in my life, 6’5” album of both Harvard and Yale, 20 something yo founder of multi billion dollar company, etc). But actually maybe I’m starting to get hit on more. I’m 32 and starting to get hit on by Lyft drivers if I complain about my boyfriend. It makes me worry I’m getting less attractive. Still don’t get hit on much otherwise. The exception is if I stop and ask a guy for dire…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:58 AM
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Women with higher sex drives will place more value on qualities that affect the quality of sex: physical attractiveness (including height), athleticism, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:43 AM
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The lack of interest doesn’t mean it’s less good. Women typically lack desire more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:09 AM
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Most sex isn’t reproductive. It’s to maintain pair bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:38 AM
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Are you a man or woman? Kind of feel bad for you if you’re a woman ... I have clitoral nerve damage but even I don’t put up with sex that is “not so great.” If it’s not so great for you, make it better. Find a new partner. Get some toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:36 AM
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The female orgasm is necessary for paid bonding. It is arguably just as necessary to motivate reproductive behavior. There’s no reason for male ejaculation to be pleasurable in order to be effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:34 AM
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I like jackhammering
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:32 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:31 AM
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Women have less sexual desire than men on average. This is very clear based on the prevalence of sexual desire disorders in women versus men. It’s also apparent in how so many women can go without sex for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:29 AM
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I would be even sluttier than I already am. But I’m already basically at the maximum. Other women would be more slutty too. This would make the biggest difference because then I wouldn’t be judged badly by comparison. I would date more much older men and more much younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:05 AM
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Yes I know of a couple that was married. But they got divorced. I know of another open couple who has been married for 5 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:51 AM
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I have no trouble saying “no.” I just need guys to listen and understand no means no. It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:32 PM
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Just because I take my clothes off doesn’t mean I want to have intercourse. Often I am just teasing them, want them to finger me, or want to cum with my vibrator while they watch. I like being naked. I look damn good that way. Guys are usually like, “OMG.” I love that reaction. Plus, I need them to get hard so I can assess their equipment, the size of which I prefer to know early on, so I can move on if it’s not going to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:11 PM
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I disagree as my rape-while-fooling-around (after I said no) incidence has decreased significantly over time (2007 was first incident) and with moving to a more liberal area (Dallas to SF), despite me becoming more promiscuous and often teasing men. I have an extremely large sample size to speak from. Younger guys are, in general, lower risk than older guys, showing how much changes in education have impacted things in a positive way. While the average guy who has technically raped me is 3 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:01 PM
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No. For me, it’s the opposite. It’s dirty talk, which turns me on. “Do you want my cock?” = huge turn on Even better: “Do you want my cock in your tight pussy?” One time a guy said, “Do you consent?” and that was adorable. That said, I don’t agree with affirmative consent and/or enthusiastic consent being a legal standard. It’s unrealistic. “No” means “no” is a reasonable legal standard. If I say “no,” a partner should never just do what I told him not to do. That’s not okay. I’ll also add that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:44 PM
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How is it self defense if the person is not under threat? There’s nothing to defend from in that case.
/r/MensRights04/07/19 03:38 PM
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A lack of sexual subjectivity is actually correlated with sexual dysfunction in women. Sexual passivity is generally a result of slut shaming. So yes, it is better for women to take a more active role in sex. I initiate all the time. As long as you listen to “no,” I don’t see the problem here. But penetrating someone after they say “no” explicitly is rape, regardless of what cues you think they’re sending or games you think they’re playing. “No sex” means “no sex” even if she’s naked and fooling…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:54 AM
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Legal rights and criminal charges shouldn’t depend on the ability to read cues. Period. If you don’t want “sex,” you need to say “no.” If you feel harassed, you need to tell the harasser to “stop.” I personally have been raped and had the rapists claim my “cues” meant I wanted it, after I had said “no” multiple times. These weren’t even bad guys. They were not trying to hurt me. “No” means “no” is a sensible standard. Fuck this cue business. As long as you are relying on cues, there will always …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:30 AM
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Yeah I’m a feminist but according to the enthusiastic consent standard, I am both a harasser and a rapist lol. I believe in the “no” means “no” standard. Many men still struggle with that. Why move the goal post? If I say “no,” that means “no,” unless you somehow turn “no” into a yes. Personally I don’t mind pushy people bc I have no trouble holding my ground. I do mind some asshat penetrating me after I told him “no sex” multiple times. He said, “I know you said no and yes you were clear. But w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:19 AM
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I agree. But two wrongs don’t make a right
/r/MensRights02/07/19 04:18 PM
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Uhhhh Lol
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 07:06 AM
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It has nothing to do with identity. I always identify as a feminist. But I learn more from arguing with people who don’t agree with me. On Quora, I tend to cater to the asker. I have my own ideas about things. So I don’t really fit any political groups.
/r/MGTOW202/07/19 01:02 AM
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110 x 1.5 = 165. So yes, a 175 pound man is over 50% bigger than me. I don’t think math is your strong suit.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 12:31 AM
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“Excessively provocative.” How so? I don’t know what you are talking about so I can’t possibly meditate on my emotions. In my experience, some provocativeness gets views, engagement, and followers. I think I do what works. But also, I have an extremely independent mind and combative personality. I think for myself and tend to have unique perspectives while other people are mostly sheep. I’m also disagreeable, which comes with a lot of advantages. For example, I have no problems being assertive. …
/r/MGTOW201/07/19 11:46 PM
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Yeah I’m not the type to ever get subtle cues lol. In fact, it makes me straight up angry if a guy won’t directly tell me he’s not interested.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 11:32 PM
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Hmm I see. Well I feel like men listen to me.
/r/MGTOW201/07/19 10:39 PM
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The video isn’t loading. I saw a part where a man was beaten. So what do you think he needed as far as support to avoid this or extricate himself? I think maybe it’s like this, as far as serious domestic violence is concerned. There are two types of DV. Gendered DV. This comes from the traditional subjugation of women. In interview studies with male perpetrators of intimate partner terrorism, they espouse misogynistic attitudes, say the man should be in charge, the man should discipline the woma…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 09:22 PM
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Again, this is on you. What power do you think I have to change this? If you had a concise message to share somewhere, I’d help you. Then again, I have been deplatformed from both Twitter and Quora. My strongest following was on Quora. If I get back on, I have a fair amount of reach with 7200 followers. So you can answer a question on Quora, and I could share it for my followers to see. If you write it well, I can get it 100k+ views. That’s how many a lot of my answers have gotten. But rn I just…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 09:08 PM
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Emotional labor is total fucking bullshit. Whether you do emotional labor depends on your personality. And it’s ultimately a woman’s own fucking choice if she wants to do it. Personally, I love when people tell me their problems. I feel no burden because Often men don’t feel as comfortable talking about their feelings with other men. This is a problem with cultural constructs of masculinity. So they turn to women. They trust women more to talk about their issues, insecurities, whatever. Is this …
/r/MGTOW201/07/19 08:56 PM
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It’s not self defense if the attacker is not a threat. Just because someone hits you doesn’t mean it’s okay to hit them back. This is really basic stuff. Ethics 101
/r/MensRights01/07/19 08:46 PM
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Read my Medium article. I just updated it. What’s insane is how I got blocked by some of them just for asking why women don’t ask men to leave them alone. There are stories of “harassment” where they never even ask guys to go away. What the actual fuck? There are stories of “rape” where they never tell men “no.” So im like “how can he know he’s a rapist?” If I agree with a feminist group on 90% of issues, that banish me as evil. They block and silence me. Meanwhile, I disagree with girlwriteswha…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 08:24 PM
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I actually did just tell you how to solve the problem. Twice. It seems like you are just ignoring me. Again, I recommend you take action. Your arguments against me, which btw are not compelling, wont make a difference. You need to work on what will. This post and many of your comments seemed aimed at arguing “women are more violent.” If your language is getting misinterpreted, maybe you should ask yourself why. This is your cause. At some point, you need to realize it’s on you go figure out how …
/r/MensRights01/07/19 08:02 PM
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Dude I’m just telling you how to solve the problem. If you don’t want to solve it, then just keep complaining without taking any action towards a solution. It seems like you just want to complain. But if you actually want to have an impact, you need to think through how to make things happen. This requires figuring out how to influence people and getting them to take action. I’m telling you how to do it, but you are just blowing me off. You guys can sit here and keep complaining in your echo cha…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 07:10 PM
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Just bc there is violence doesn’t mean it is serious enough that men are in danger or need assistance. You need to provide more compelling evidence on par with the case studies of female victims. That would be more compelling. Violence doesn’t indicate a need for assistance. What’s keeping them in these relationships? Can they leave? Are they suffering any actual harm? These are questions you need to answer.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 06:59 PM
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I actually agree with you on some of these points and have been similarly frustrated. However, I am still a feminist, and I certainly want autonomy. That said, a feminist group recently caused my ban from Quora. I had 7200 followers (and climbing) and at least 15 million views. I was getting 3 million views per month for the past few months. Many of my answers were feminist. I talked about the orgasm gap. I talked about gendered double standards in the treatment of sexual response. https://www.q…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 06:05 PM
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Wtf? He told me I could. So no. If you invite someone to punch you, it’s not okay to hit back. A 5’10” 175 pound guy is over 50% bigger than me.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 05:43 PM
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Where is there any evidence that men need assistance? If you want support to change, you need to start showing people the need. The point is that men clearly are significantly more violent.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 04:40 PM
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This is interesting. It sounds like I need to be friends with men who like sex. :)
/r/MensRights01/07/19 04:09 PM
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It sounds like you’re arguing that male on female intimate partner homicide would be reduced if there were more resources for men. Then I think you should work on demonstrating the need. One thing is that people don’t respond that well to statistics, especially because context is not readily conveyed in statistics. People respond better to stories. I think if you get a collection of stories of men getting abused and needing help, that could have an impact. For example, you could make a documenta…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 03:51 PM
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The men I date are literally twice as big as me. My current boyfriend is 6’7”, 195. I am 5’8”, 110. The last guys I slept with before him were: 6’5”, 230, 6’6”, 210, 6’4,” 200, 6’4”, 180. You get the picture. I believe the average man is at least 20% larger. Is that not true? I once punched a 6’2”, 200 pound guy in the face. He said I could. I gave him a black eye, and he was impressed.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 03:41 PM
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I said just bc they perpetrate 70% of unilateral IPV doesn’t mean they perpetrate more total violence. One thing you need to consider also is context. I’ve never been hit by a guy. But I have punched a guy in the face. He obviously didn’t punch me back. Why did I punch him? He literally said, “Don’t cry. Why don’t you just punch me in the face or something?” So I had permission. So you’re saying they perpetrate more total violence? Okay. But what matters, when it comes to support, is who needs i…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 03:28 PM
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There’s no evidence I’m aware of indicating that women initiate IPV. The 70% number does not indicate that at all. What percentage of IPV do women initiate?
/r/MensRights01/07/19 06:38 AM
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The history of how men treated women should be irrelevant to how modern women treat modern men. We know power corrupts. It’s very simple. Humans always exploit those with less power. Men do so more due to higher prevalence of ASPD.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 03:08 AM
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Oppression isn’t a matter of who has it better or worse. It comes down to who has more human rights or autonomy. Do you think children have it better than adults? Sure, in many ways they do. But they don’t enjoy the same autonomy and freedoms. An adult human with only the same rights and opportunities as a child is obviously oppressed. Is it okay to have slaves if you spoil them and treat them super well. Is that not better than poverty? No, it isn’t. Because people deserve basic human rights an…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 02:37 AM
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Fighting a smaller person is not equality
/r/MensRights01/07/19 02:24 AM
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Probably lower. Female on male intimate partner homicide has shown a steady decline since the 70s. Its gone down by over 50%. However, these numbers could indicate decreased female on male violence. But they don’t necessarily say much about unreciprocated cases. In fact, the majority here are retaliatory responses to “intimate partner terrorism,” based on research in female on major IPV. The term “non-reciprocal” is key here. It is possible that have men become more socialized to not reciprocate…
/r/MensRights01/07/19 02:12 AM
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