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| 8 | I ended a date early on principle and am regretting it. Do I still have a chance?She was testing you cause she wanted to sleep with you. I would have told her to not speak to me about those things the moment it comes up, but that’s an instant turn off and usually I begin to plan my escape shortly after. We don’t need to tolerate these things, men. That’s weirdo behavior, and it seems every day more and more women act like this. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Oh brotherrrr | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life?1000% yes and whoever disagrees can’t honestly say they have a good dating life or relationship lol. I’ll die on this hill. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 166 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?I’m 5’7 lol still was cleaning house there. Tall women short women etc didn’t matter. They just saw me as the bartender and that was enough validation for them to pursue | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:29 PM |
| 177 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?I am attractive, and also fit, but I’m also not tall lol | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:24 PM |
| 739 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Bartending was that job for me. Literally every day I’d have a new girl or group of girls giving me there number, coming out to see me, waiting for me to out with them after work etc. The better I became at the job, talking to people, the better it translated to dealing with women | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss.Y’all hating on this man, yet 90% of you haven’t kissed a women in months. The beautys in the basics and a lot of you don’t even know how to talk to women, let alone how to just be around them. | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 05:11 PM |
| 31 | Old School Tip: The hand test & determining the perfect time to kiss.Yes I’d just do it anyways, but the “excuse” can be cute so I’m gonna keep that one in my playbook too. Of course she’ll know it’s an excuse, that’s the point | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to find masculine traits in women attractive? And how can I go about it?I workout, I like girls who workout and have nice strong shoulders. If that makes me gay so be it lol | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Kicked on to the couchFucking with the wrong women | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 0 | It’s better to assume a girl is not interested than to assume they are interested, saves you a lot of timeWell whatever you assume about others is true anyways | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 18 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Hookup with dudes for negative effect | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesLast night I took an L, today you bounce back | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | but how do you flirt for casual sex?Be bold like my man said | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Pulling girls at an arcade barYou tipped him what?! | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Depressed because lack of sexAnd when you get sex? What? You’ll finally be happy? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meIf you don’t want to date girls who hook up then you shouldn’t be dating to hook up with girls. It’s ok if that’s what you want, but don’t be a hypocrite. Walk the path you want someone else to walk and it’ll be easier to find that person. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm a socially boring person...Do things | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?What does that even mean | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 78 | Made out with two girls and fucked one of themBro wanna know what the 1 thing that has gotten me those things in life i never thought I’d have is?Audacity. Tell the one you hooked up with already you want both her and her friend. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is TO touchy with my assSo do you want your ass ate or what? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 10 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youGet ripped | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women?I like the raspy ones | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | any medication to help me get better at talking to girls?Testosterone | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?Idk why you’re getting so much hate but here’s some actual advice: No more porn, or masturbation (matter of fact take a day or two to fast from everything to get your dopamine up again lmao) 2 start working out rn, literally rn start cranking out push ups and make it a habitual thing to move your body Hydrate Invest in L-Arginine, L-citrulline and maybe some ashwagnda. Pop some with some fruit an hour before you smash | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I want to cheat on my girlYou don’t need to break up with her like everyone here is saying. Realize that you’ll always have this feeling of more, I want more, no matter wether you’re single or in a relationship. Sit with it, meditate on it and realize that it’s a 3D desire that you don’t need to act on. Or break up with her if you really want it | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 16 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?Bro being ripped is the god damn cheat code, and especially at the gym with women you see frequently. That plus some self tlc, a good haircut and confidence and you’re golden. 5’7, so I get it bro, just stay consistent! | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Boring Replies from Girls in Dating AppBecause validation | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls reject in a super rude way?Society has conditioned women to think they’re above men and that they can talk to you as they please and unless you stand up to it they’ll Continue to | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Hitting it and never talking to them again makes me feel better | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsBro that’s me doing that watch | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsNo | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsGo to bed bro | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girls(you) | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsL | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsBro with anything in life sometimes you gotta tell YOURSELF to stfu. You see a pretty girl and you think “damn”. The longer you spend waiting between that damn and taking action, the more you lose. What I’m saying is take action as soon as the thought comes up, and let it come out. You’re gonna fuck up, Just like you fucked up at the gym your first day there. but take action and let that lead, not your brain. We are men, Penetrate the world bro, the rest will come | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsIdk man, either I try more and have really worked on myself, my body, and my game…or girls secretly like short kings | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsBro being short has been nothing but amazing for my game. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.Take the L and move on. Most won’t admit but wil, been there done that. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 06:27 AM |
| 38 | I can’t never get hardStop watching porn and masturbating | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Talk me out of this; Taking one girl to another girl's showThought I read barbecue | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Stop watching porn, stop dopamine , rewrite brain | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]If she taste/smell good I’m going to eat it like an all you came at Chinese buffet my man. Personal hygiene is a standard, I keep up with mine, so should she | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Is there anything to do when a girl says you are handsome and smart but even she doesn't know why you two aren't in a relationship?She insecure and it’s a shit test. Tryna see if you’re a player most likely | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Workout, this probably not allowed but msg me if you want a direction to go in | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]Lay off the porn and masturbation | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Fuck no | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Sex with lights on or off? Under the covers or over?Dim lighting and over the covers unless already cuddling in bed | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | my milf neighbor wore a leopard print nightgown with no bra when i brought her suitcase in for her a bit ago, should i go back and ask if she wants to have a drink or something?Truer words have never been spoken | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Fuck buddy acting crazyNext | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | I(21M) have gone on dates with a girl(20F) for about a month. Is it weird if there’s been no physical affection?Damn she’s using you cause you keep taking her on dates and she doesn’t have to put out lol cut that shit immediately and find you a girl who wants you | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My suggestion? Never wear a shirt. OR cut the sleeves off all your shirts. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 6 | [Field Report] Gym sessionYes sir! Gym definitely works. Here’s a tip for men who aren’t so fit: if you’re new to a gym, don’t start shooting your shot immediately. Give it a week or so, stick to your schedule and focus on you. If you start shooting your first day there, and girls WILL notice if you’re new there, you’ll come off as a thirsty. Once women realize you’re not there to get laid/chase ass, they’ll be more open to you shooting your shot. The idea that the gym isn’t a place to approach is because of this. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Woulda kicked her to the curb after the 2nd time | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Why is being social media inactive a huge turn on for womenRight but we’re not talking about men | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Why is being social media inactive a huge turn on for womenBecause women are insecure | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?A lot of girls will not say no, lead you on, give you you their ig etc Call it cringe, do what you want tho man | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 11:40 AM |
| -8 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?I usually say “thank you for your no, have a great day” with a humble light hearted smile Even had girls change their mind and try to pursue me after that line | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 12:50 AM |
| -1 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.It’s not. And that’s why you get none (: | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 08:51 PM |
| -3 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I know, the truth hurts mate. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Haha don’t if you don’t want to ruin your “friendship” man. Sounds like you both like each other, maybe you should risk ruining it to see. Only you can decide. Been there, done that. Didn’t work for me, but that’s doesn’t mean it won’t for you. Be transparent and communicate how you feel always | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Don’t | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Quit the porn is step 1 | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Cute cashier slipped me her snapTHIS. Unfortunately is becoming my reality | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Cute cashier slipped me her snapUnwavering* | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Cute cashier slipped me her snapGet her? He hardly knows her! | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?Sexual discipline | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Vanilla & not so vanilla.I can see where you’re coming from, but that’s an opinion and I think it’s wrong haha. But hey whatever works for you jay. Just my 2 cents | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Vanilla & not so vanilla.No problem and best wishes OP! You’ll make the right call | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 12 | Vanilla & not so vanilla.Porn ≠ good in bed and I bet a lot of you on here think so. Porn is the worst thing for young men when it comes to irl sex. Porn makes men uninterested in real women, porn can (and will if you keep at it long enough) pied, porn is also pretty bad for your brain which means less dopamine for real sex | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 11 | Vanilla & not so vanilla.Do not watch porn with him, porn is horrible for relationships (just my two cents tho) Do not keep biting your tongue Communicate what you want, and perhaps give him an ultimatum. Doesn’t have to be cruel, you can just say something along the mind of hey rn the sex isn’t what I want it to be, we can change that, but if you’re not willing then this won’t work for BOTH our sakes Know when to move forward with your life, don’t stay in a relationship that isn’t fulfilling people it’s just a waste of… | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Perfect Present for a Guy Who Has Everything?With another woman lmao | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:29 PM |
| 6 | 15 tips on how to become a better dating candidateStep 1. Count the victim mindset 2. You’re already self aware (most people aren’t, good for you) what’s the first, easiest thing you can start working on right now? | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you have to really convince yourself to do something it’s usually a hard no from your soul…do what you want from that | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Would you continue to seduce and go on dates with a girl that’s somewhat physically attractive but you’re not into at all mentally just for the sex?I could but I probably wouldn’t man…I’m at the point if I don’t really want her completely, then I really don’t want her at all | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 2 | This Is Literally UnexplainableVery sus | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | quick, I need a response for "Are you always so funny?"Shhh he’s a dating coach | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | When spinning plates, how do you approach handling when one plate sees you out with another?Honestly, I rather them see. They should expect me to be dating, and I don’t care if they are. Plus every time a girl has seen me out with another it’s always caused her to purse me even harder. Women like to compete with another women maybe | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:14 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Wong sub, mate Pretty sure the healthier the erection, the more it points up vs straight But don’t take my word for it. I just know my way around my own. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:59 AM |
| 2 | She mentioned this dude that she is datingYou’re a grown man now, nothing is implied until it is communicated | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | She mentioned this dude that she is datingWhat this guy said | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 01:16 AM |
| 39 | She mentioned this dude that she is dating1st. Unless it’s her bf, you’re not stealing. It’s dating, no one belongs to anyone lol 2nd. It was a shit test, depends how you reacted you may have passed or not 3rd, who cares about her other options? Remember girls always have options, but you’re the best and I want you fellas to adopt that mindset. Who cares if she’s dating around? You should be too | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Even the fact she’s telling you this is cheating bro lmao trust me you don’t want a woman like that I. Your life | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bruh a girl that’s tryna cheat on her there year bf deserves to be hurt lmao. but I hear you brother. Best to just be a real bro and let her be. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hit it but be a real bro and let them man know. Or not | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 12 | Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghostedBruh she’s probably embarrassed and it has nothing to do with you. Great story tho haha | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well time to do some soul searching. Get off your phone, dopamine detox, get tf out there and stop whining. You want attractive women to join your life? Go out there and build a damn life then. Feeling sorry for yourself and using the excuse that nothing interests you is simply an excuse. It’s really not hard. Work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]“I’ve gone to five different places…haven’t seen a girl I find attractive..” why not just go out for yourself? Wether or not your intention is to get laid, if you’re going out there with the mindset that you’re looking for women, you’re gonna fail. This what the subs tryna show you fellas. Build a life where you’re not going out solely to find people to talk to. Pick up a hobby because you’re genuinely interested in it and I promise you you’ll start finding what you want, if not better. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Yeah man, just go make some friends; women or men or moms 🤣. If you’re going out there with the mindset “I’m going to talk to a new girl I find attractive every month in order to get laid” you’re not going to accomplish anything. It’s very telling when a man is on that mindset. Just go and do and experience and learn. It’s a skill, sharpen it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get someone to stop being a cum rag?My pleasure brotha, power to you. Remember mindset is everything! | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get someone to stop being a cum rag?I wouldn’t even do it slowly if she’s making you feel so bad man. But, if that’s what you want I suggest the ole pull back method. Less texts, no making plans, less enthusiasm. Next time she’s texting you around night time, let’s say tomorrow (cause Thursday is the new Friday night) interrupt the conversation out of nowhere and tell her “hey I’m actually about to going out with a friend of mine, gonna be off my phone for the night. Talk to you soon!”. Then don’t hit her up till she hits you up. … | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get someone to stop being a cum rag?Scarcity mindset. It’s just a girl, like all the rest of them. The one? Sounds like you don’t even know her, or what you want. I suggest getting clear on what you want: sex/fwb or a relationship. Also, just drop her if she’s causing this much frustration. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Mention it verbally and watch her lose interest. It seems to me that women find over flashiness/compensation as effeminate or insecurity. They really can read us like books. Like other have said. Let the way you dress, walk, and communicate do the talking | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you rank yourself in terms of attractiveness?maybe not haha you can follow my social media tho brotha! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 6 | How do you rank yourself in terms of attractiveness?Actually feel like I’m extremely attractive to the point that women hardly talk to me, or just assume I’m a shitty person. Constantly get stares and followed around but as soon as I try to reciprocate interest they’ll shy away or act as if uninterested. Matter of fact! Had a girl follow me around the gym the other day to each area I’d go to. At one point even tried an experiment to see if she’ll follow, she did, but the second I made eye contact she rolls eyes at me and crosses her arms. What’s … | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsLevel up and move the f out. Get your priorities straight and what you’ll want will come. Yes it can still be done but the correct answer run is grind my guy. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Out of my league hookup/fwb potential. Need pointersYou don’t have to, but women enjoy drinking wine and being invited over for a glass instead of being asked to come over to “chill”. And it helps set expectations | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Out of my league hookup/fwb potential. Need pointersMy bad brotha I meant not! | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Out of my league hookup/fwb potential. Need pointersShe’s not outta your league Beach date those have implications so make sure to escalate! Think sun screen, playing in the water with her etc If by end of this date you don’t close, I’d give her some space and next time she hits you up set up a more intimate date at your place. My go-tos are cooking + wine (cause I’m a great cook and have to eat anyways. She’s just lucky enough to be invited to join) or you can do a paint night (again with wine) and then close. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:25 PM |
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