jetseta Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Today I negotiated my salary to +300%. I want to thank this sub for giving me the confidence and making me a better person! Come on man, he's asking you elaborate. You haven't given any details about your experience. Stop being a tease.	/r/seduction	11/11/14 11:18 PM
1	Should you compete for a girl? This goes back to what I said about building reference experiences. You HAVE to know how to deal with guys, and avoiding it is going to gimp your game.	/r/seduction	10/11/14 01:53 PM
3	Should you compete for a girl? Being dismissive towards a guy who's trying to take your set won't always work. One situation is if the guy has a wing trying to distract you. This set up is really effective because guys are super afraid of looking try-hard and won't take enough action to stop it. If she is attracted to you, she won't just leave with someone else, she won't even give him much attention. If she does, she either wasn't that into you (i.e. you failed already and should move on) or she is shit-testing you and will …	/r/seduction	10/11/14 01:52 PM
1	How to followup after no response after initial text? It sounds like you didn't build any sort of physical connection when you met her. Flake/ignore rate is much higher when you don't have both an emotional and a physical connection with a girl already. And even then it can be high. I would wait a day and send her some value-add text about something you two connected on. Word it in a way that doesn't have an expectation for a response. Think of it like self-amusement in the field.	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:23 PM
5	Just Wait For Her To Text Back I agree. I'm not seeing the value added with this post. There isn't enough context for it to be useful advice, and even if there were it seems to be coming from an odd frame.	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:13 PM
2	All the girls in my class think I'm a player but at the same time think I'm the sweetest guy.... I've had similar experiences to this one, with women calling me a player or something. Pet theory alert: I think the chain of thinking might be "I think he's attractive, therefore other women must think he's attractive, therefore he must gets girls." End pet theory alert. Take the feedback for what it is, a sign that you're conveying value. Girls will give you shit tests because they don't want to be just another girl to you, so shit tests are a way of saying you need to do more to make them com…	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:09 PM
17	Should you compete for a girl? I'm going to disagree with the other commenters and say that there are situations where you should definitely compete with other guys. The most obvious situation is when a guy tries to steal the girl you're talking to. If you try to stay in a "buyer mindset" or decide it "isn't worth your time," the only thing that'll happen is you'll lose the girl. You HAVE to take action here and engage the threat. Now, if guys are trying this on you often then it's likely your game is flawed and you're not es…	/r/seduction	09/11/14 10:27 PM
3	Seducing a shy girl It sounds like she thinks you're attractive, but isn't comfortable around you. Similar to what Nepherus said, I think you need to just be cool and interact with her a bit more (physicality might not be needed). Just chat for a bit and ask her out to coffee after class. The broader concept here is that girls need a balance of value and comfort from a guy. Too much comfort, not enough value = "just friends"; too much value, not enough comfort = your current situation.	/r/seduction	08/11/14 04:39 AM