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I’m about the same height. Mind elaborating on the build and how you carry yourself? I don’t think I have any major issues in these areas but just curious about you since we’re the same height
/r/seduction26/07/26 06:57 PM
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What if you came from a family where confidence was looked down upon? Is it still possible to build confidence despite both parents having zero confidence and thinking that people who had it were “full of themselves”?
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:28 AM
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Find something wrong with them. A physical flaw.. a slightly crooked tooth.. a slightly disproportionate part of their body, a little flat chested, strange voice, there’s always something. No one’s perfect. Of course, don’t dwell on it. We all have our flaws. And it’s important to remember that she does as well.
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:12 AM
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That makes sense. Do they actually agree to go back with you when you mention family? And is your fam usually nearby wherever you guys are chilling?
/r/seduction27/06/26 01:35 AM
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Cool cool, and they don’t respond negatively or anything when you mention living w/ family?
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:00 PM
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Makes perfect sense. Do you ever happen to meet up with them again? Just curious if they ever care about “going to a hotel again”. Appreciate your insights
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:00 PM
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Cool, good to know. Did you happen to mention anything about your living arrangements or nah?
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:20 PM
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Would you mind sharing a little how you lead into the alternative areas? Just curious how you go about suggesting a hotel, car or her place. Do you mention that your home is off limits for some reason or another?
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:19 PM
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Can I ask how you go about making the alternative suggestion to book a room vs your place? Do you mention to her about your living arrangements?
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:12 PM
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Would you mind sharing a little how you lead into the alternative areas? Just curious how you go about suggesting a hotel, car or her place. Do you mention that your home is off limits for some reason or another?
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:04 PM
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Just because they have conditions doesn’t mean they don’t like it. I kind of get where you’re coming from, but to say that women don’t like sex is a bit hyperbolic.
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:39 PM
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You don’t think women like sex?
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:04 AM
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Work on yourself. The women will show up.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:54 PM
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Sounds like you're doing something right
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:46 AM
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I love it. Dating gender roles be damned.
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:15 PM
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I’m beginning to think that this is probably the way to go
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:50 AM
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May I ask what country you are from? I may need to go there
/r/seduction03/09/17 03:28 PM
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Well I don't really approach much and I haven't actually approached the girls I speak of. I'm just asking for general approach advice. Why would it be necessary to emulate other guys? How would I even know what types of guys they're attracted to in order to emulate them? I'm not bad looking or overweight or anything, I'm really just curious how to approach these average type girls who artificially inflate their value from time to time
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:37 PM
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Not really. I'm asking how to address these types of girls who get a dramatic confidence boost upon letting it all hang out sometimes. It's like they just took a confidence pill and have empower themselves to be extra selective about who they interact with since they're "hot" now I'm asking how to bring them down a few notches cos who the f*ck are they all of the sudden
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:58 PM
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Tbh he sounds like a bit of a loser who just happened to walk into some money. I would have broken up with him too if I were that girl. People who are religiously frugal, whether they have money or not, are supremely obnoxious. It also seems like he is probably ashamed of his wealth since it was inherited
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:53 PM
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Going to play devils advocate on this one. I think it's okay to make her feel a little insecure especially if she is the overconfident type.. It may give you a little leverage.
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:54 AM
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Agreed, complacency with anything is not good.
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:41 PM
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That seems a bit of a generalization. Many girls seem to lower their guard a few notches once actually in a relationship. It also assumes that the girl sees the relationship itself as a game.
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:02 PM
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Indicator of Interest, I think
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:46 PM
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I suppose Jared Kushner was a bad example, as well as Mike Rowe since he is actually a smart dude. Generally speaking, I'm not sure why so many girls are into guys who are just good at literally getting their hands dirty and little more. It's the equivalent of a guy only liking a girl because of some arbitrary feminine quality
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 10:29 PM
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I think you might be in the minority in opting out of the so-called successful types and going all in for the 'manly' mechanic types. I know more women that would rather scoop up a Jared Kushner than some dime-a-dozen Mike Rowe type (nothing against Mike Rowe).
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 02:44 PM
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You probably would've gotten a better response with "Date rape" than "Hate fuck". Christ
/r/askTRP20/05/17 09:50 PM
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Fantastic and highly inspirational. Appreciate you sharing it. Goes to prove that they really do want sex much as they try to hide it. Out of curiosity, what do you think made her "submit"? Were you particularly aggressive?
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:03 AM
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Interesting story. Did you guys end up having sex?
/r/seduction18/05/17 11:27 PM
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I have a sneaking suspicion you wouldn't date one of these so called feminine men if you are seeking an alpha
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:41 AM
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Isn't it a bit out of place to ask if she has a boyfriend right off the bat? I would imagine most girls assume you just want to bang them if jumping right into those requisite questions
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:27 AM
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Makes perfect sense, but does it not make the assumption that you'll say something dumb? There has to be some communication (...eventually). And how about if you actually like her?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 04:09 PM
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I must say, I have tried the closed book mysterious thing on and off and lots of girls just lose interest after awhile, thinking that you're weird. While I don't doubt that it works, how exactly does it maintain her interest? How do you prevent them from just assuming you're not interested since you're "not trying to get to know them"?
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:55 PM
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Every time I try the tactics you've outlined, the girl assumes I'm not interested and flakes. While I don't doubt that they work, how do you actually prevent her from flaking if you actually want to see her again? Edit: Specifically delayed texts and 1-2 word replies
/r/askTRP14/05/17 03:49 PM
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What about all those feminists online who write stories on Cosmo about "bad sex" where "he just kept ramming me like a jackhammer"? While I agree they want to be dominated, isn't it a bit much to assume that they just want to be completely used for sexual pleasure?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:45 PM
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Meh, there's a place for positive thinking. The stoics were a little too obsessed with "frame".
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:37 PM
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Perception is most definitely not reality, contrary to what OP states. We are our own worst enemy more often than not and what we perceive others to be thinking about us is not always true. Humans have a negativity bias. What others think about us should not matter. Why should it? It's rather blue pill to think it does.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:24 PM
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I don't know that women dig cynics. Many find it a bit weird, they'd rather be with someone uplifting.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 08:08 PM
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This is also the same dude who thinks that girls in their 20s are mostly a bunch of social media-obsessed idiots. We're in our early 30s, and I couldn't disagree with him more. He pretty much hates "normal" pretty girls in their 20s who aren't up for discussing the Syrian refugee crisis because "white privilege" or whatever. I actually feel that he'd let some judgement slip if my next girlfriend wasn't at least 31 and into politics, arts and culture. To be honest I've often thought about just le…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 07:35 PM
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Do you mean "you" as in me, or the girl hahha
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:42 AM
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What's funny is that he's "warned" me about the "dangers" of connecting on a solely physical level (recall that he's a philosopher/scientist/social critic and tends to strongly believe these things). I disagree though, I think sexual attraction is -most- important and subsequently leads to other forms of attraction, vs the other way around. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:21 AM
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Are those two events mutually exclusive?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:12 AM
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Well, he's never said those words verbatim, but that's the general gist just through years of knowing him. What's funny is that he claims to support feminist rights and causes (he is very left leaning), however your average "hot girl" he just tends to look down upon, possibly due to the fact that he's never been with one. He'll often pass judgements as to their likely intelligence. Basically, he generally favors people that give off an 'aura' of intelligence like him (always carrying a book, etc…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:01 AM
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I agree with most of what's been said here. While he is technically my friend, I have found myself falling out of favor with him in recent years due largely in part to the over-intellectualized bullshit that tends to flow from him more often than not, to say nothing of our differences in core values. He is basically a cuck through and through, I just happened to become friends with him before I swallowed the red pill. But yeah, he'll often judge attractive girls as being stupid/flaky/shallow, et…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 01:23 AM
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He's actually married to a black girl about 6 years older than him (he's white). She literally had no friends when they met, and they both had and probably still have very low market value. I occasionally wonder if he married her through a combination of politics and pity.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 11:00 PM
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His idea of intellectual overlaps with left-leaning politics, philosophy and science. In small doses, I suppose this could signal intelligence, but probably useless in high doses. As for background, he is a left-leaning philosopher/academic beta type, but occasionally I consider what he has to say.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 10:07 PM
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So then why are they attracted to men if men are taking the risks?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 03:12 AM
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That seems a bit oversimplified. Not everyone feels the need to put on a performance. Being yourself has merit.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:01 PM
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Stop dating shitty women
/r/askTRP11/03/17 07:30 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with going into a more intricate subject if the conversation naturally leads to it. Who's to say a girl couldn't be enthralled with your intelligence on a particular subject? Intelligence is generally perceived as sexy to most girls who aren't complete idiots themselves. My advice is to stop going for these boring-ass idiot girls who just happen to look nice. Brains are not so bad in a woman, and they are not mutually exclusive to looks. Find a balance of bot…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:42 PM
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I think you both mean LCD :)
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:31 PM
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Agreed, but what would you actually prefer?
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 12:14 AM
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"especially since she got into a college in the US and now Hitler is the President of the world." I think you've been hanging out with your SJW friend a bit too much
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 05:56 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction26/02/17 04:27 AM
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Care to elaborate? It's possible that I'm just misperceiving, but seems most "attractive" girls have their guard up so high that it doesn't even seem worth it to try. I realize I sound very cynical, and I'd love to be proven wrong.
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:31 AM
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Many super pretty girls carry themselves in a manner which screams "don't talk to me" or "I'm taken back off". How does one even begin to penetrate that invisible wall? (no pun intended)
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:35 PM
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Unable to love before they have children? Sorry, that is a stretch
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 04:45 PM
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Of course, challenging a woman's point of view must mean that you hate all of them
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 04:37 PM
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This topic has been on my mind a lot lately as I've been going through the exact same thing.. Most of my old friends are very status quo, and yet I've changed significantly to where these friendships just feel very obligatory at this point. As far as I can tell my old friends don't really believe in self improvement since their cynical mindsets tend to associate it with "self help scams", or they will dismiss it based on some harebrained scientific reasoning. It's really just excuses and it is n…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:28 PM
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Ask him if he has any original material
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:03 PM
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Hmm, any recommended readings on the psychology of fear?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:47 PM
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That was a waste of two and a half minutes
/r/seduction30/01/17 01:57 AM
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I think it's important to show that you're the prize and all of that, but I don't think most girls see much attraction in the guy who "just wants to be friends". I think they could see right through it. Of course, you don't want to overtly show signs that you only want to bang them either. I think a happy medium is ideal.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:40 PM
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Except most guys don't approach girls to make new friends. Think about it.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:47 PM
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At the risk of sounding like a beta, this does not sound like a strategy for a real relationship. Figuring out how to play the game is great, but if he's just looking to bang a girl he's in for a rude awakening when she eventually decides that she needs kids.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 03:48 AM
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There are some awful "learnings" in here described via the social dynamics of people who are generally considered the worst of us all. Carry on.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 01:37 PM
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I used to be an intellectual deep thinker, but I've since adopted more of an action mindset. Honestly, thinking too much is often a very bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 01:08 PM
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"Most of the "hate" is really just misplaced envy." 100%
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:30 PM
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Is it so bad if he has bettered himself? Are you sure you're not playing the role of an envious friend? How does he think he is so amazing?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 11:29 PM
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So I don't disagree with the premise of the article, I am just philosophically opposed to any reductionist explanations on matters of life and living. Ironically, I actually practice some of the things that the article discusses. For example, most "entertainment" bores me and I see it as a waste of time which could otherwise be put toward something productive. But by the authors logic, that which I would rather do such as read a book may in fact produce dopamine. So is this a bad thing? That sai…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:23 PM
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The fact remains that the human experience is more than just brain chemicals.... it would also seem that many agree with this assessment as well
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 02:45 PM
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Way too reductionist for me.... while bad habits should be moderated, this post reads like a serious oversimplification of the human experience
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 04:35 PM
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She probably expects you will stop talking to her, so all the reason to do the opposite
/r/seduction10/07/16 01:46 PM
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What are some ways to practice this? How does one not let their emotional system override them in the midst of a super attractive girl?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:51 PM
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Interesting point, but do not all of us want to spray our seed all over most slutty girls? Some are pretty f*cking hot as dumb as they are
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:37 PM
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If we are created by the conditioning of those around us, how exactly do we "go our own way" and align our purpose more with the person we want to be? I'm skeptical that the self is purely 100% environmental.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 12:26 PM
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I sometimes can't tell if girls do this as a nervous tic or because they are feeling attracted. Is there any truth to the first one?
/r/seduction11/06/16 03:10 PM
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