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| 1 | Friend (20f) sexted and send nudes for a while ghosted me, I wanna be fwb with her. HelpWhy would a feminist tell him how to get her out of the mindset she is in though? 😂 Wouldn't the typical femnazi be at my throat for that one? Shame on me for telling him how to turn this around only to take advantage of her by addressing her underlying emotions... that can and will lead to a better outcome, right? 😉 | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Friend (20f) sexted and send nudes for a while ghosted me, I wanna be fwb with her. HelpAnd if he won't do the work and doesn't want to make a woman feel secure with him, he isn't leading and will encounter this problem again and again. FWB's are much more complicated than people imagine, so only those whom are experienced with leading in the emotional department should attempt them. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Friend (20f) sexted and send nudes for a while ghosted me, I wanna be fwb with her. HelpI realize that, but even still the situation can be turned around, you don't get it cause you aren't there yet. But really to turn this around all she needs is to feel secure and entering a committed relationship with them isn't the only answer to this. Him wanting to be fwb is irrelevant. FWB's can still be healthy and fun relationships as long as both parties are getting their needs met. Women have emotional and sexual needs to be met even in a fwb. If you know how to satisfy a woman's emotion… | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | My curse is that I love women too much - how to manage?Ask yourself is it really a passion? Or is it just the external validation they are giving you? Then ask yourself if you get caught up in a dry spell (it can happen to anyone and does) what then? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | My hookup broke down in front of me? Knew him for 4 daysRun lol | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | be chad!Three girls on a beach with one dude sounds like a trick not a Chad. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Lingerie and sexy clothes for fibroids/ pregnant looking bellyBody suits and fishnet body stockings. These hide flaws. Chemises and slutty dresses. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Friend (20f) sexted and send nudes for a while ghosted me, I wanna be fwb with her. HelpShe feels guilty and ashamed perhaps even used (and it's not you, it's her) It happens. Womens sexuality has been demonized for centuries. If you could be patient with her and show her you aren't just after sex, and talk about it like "sexual expression is healthy but not the only thing we need to get into" it can turn this around. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble arranging a fuckSometimes women really are just that busy. That shouldn't be that hard to accept, it's not always a hard to get game. She is still showing a lot of interest. Keep on keeping on, don't ask again or you'll look thirsty. Enjoy the moment. You're attached to an outcome and that's what the real issue is here, not her or the timeframe. Not true that girls that want sex will always meet up right away either. Since you met her and y'all got frisky at the bar, she prob wants to ensure that you're getting… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you text after cold approaching?Whatever you do, don't start with "hey beautiful" Do keep it funny and light After some texting to get to know her better, then you invite her out. Don't ask, invite. Give her a time and a place, say you'll be there. Text here and there but not too much between here and the date. Day before the date, tell her it's still on. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Always wants friends aroundSince you already allowed her to take the lead as well it's going to be an uphill battle. If men don't lead from the start, women lose interest in them. Hence why she may want to invite friends. They will all size you up. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Always wants friends aroundWomen offering to pay isn't a good sign. It's a reversal of the roles (not progressive) even with the roles changing with the times. She is leading by offering to pay. She is leading by making the plans, and she is leading by getting groups together. This girl is operating in masculine energy. She read one too many bad dating advice sites that told her "women, take the lead, ask him out, plan the dates" these women are controlling, play games, and are pieces of work. If you continue on you have … | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl who Ghosted Me Saw Me in Person Again and Texted me back After a Month (need advice)She didn't want to talk exclusivity cause it's not serious enough and she doesn't want it herself. She is hanging with another dude, my dude. She hit you up cause it didn't work out, or she's bored with him now. You're just an option. Move forward. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Is this really a red flag?Lol people on TikTok talking shit about people on Snapchat. Do you see the issue here just in general? Same coin, different sides. Only two things I can think of .. 1) Snapchat is old news now that TikTok is the next biggest thing. 2) Lots of adult industry workers on Snapchat charging dudes for pics and video. But social media dwellers talking shit about social media dwellers, laughable. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | I tell her to take just the tip...What's this accomplishing exactly 😂 | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Guys what are good first date ideas I’m 21 and in college tbh i just want to invite them over to my dorm but I don’t think that will work with some girlsWomen need to feel safe to even think about it. A dude saying "come to my place" is a red flag, lazy and will rarely work until you reach super player status. If you can build rapport, and make her feel safe with you during your initial interaction you're golden. But since you have asked this question you're not there yet. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:56 AM |
| 7 | What's that move that some girls pull off, like they stop very close to you and turn the other way when you look. Then, when ignoring them, they start looking again?It's called they aren't interested, and you're overthinking. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | She agreed tone date and I sent the details butGive her time to respond. If she doesn't, don't bother. Agreed it only takes a few seconds to at least let you know she will be there. But maybe it was too much too soon. There seemed to be little flirting involved, no convo just a place and time. That's too cold and like making a doctor's appointment. You gotta warm women up a little. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Missed opportunityYou can always run into her on campus as well. And that's even better, gives you a reason to strike up a Convo with her. "Hey you're in class here with me right? What's your name?" | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:44 AM |
| -1 | Missed opportunityLocation can make a difference but these women aren't in their 80s. What you think you know about women (with a lack of experience with them) and what women really do are two different stories. Most girls do just go around having sex my dude. That's why these groups exist. It does happen and it happens more than you can ever imagine. The issue is, you think that women who do go around having sex are sluts. When, it is absolutely normal female behavior. And women? Don't want to be sexually judged… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Always catch girl looking at me then she looks away immediatelyDon't act. Ask her "whatcha looking at" in a joking way next time. Then tell her you'd like to be looking at her with a drink in her hand and mention bar, and time see if she is avail. Go from there. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:25 AM |
| -2 | Missed opportunityThis is theoretical. Don't really know. But if you're worried that she's having more sex than you she more than likely is cause you're relationship guy. Whatever you do, don't ask her the body count, it screams male insecurity. I do understand that though, I have had my phases but prefer ltr's. That said, not everyone is going to save themselves for relationships so to assume women are is ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasWomen don't want a man who has more followers then she does. That means you have more options and attention than she does. Think about it dudes. Be bored with it if it comes up for you. Unless she is in business she really shouldn't care that much either. Do you want your dates interrupted with "let me take a selfie" every hour on the hour? | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasThey have nothing now lol. Social media fame is the exception, not the rule. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasMost women with a lot of followers completely ignore the losers in their dms, unless they are in it for sugar daddies/only fans and or the dudes have status/money/image. While they may be attention seeking, likes and comments gets them more attention. Answering individual Dm's doesn't Garner the same attention and is mostly full of "hey beautiful's" no women reply to that. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Should I follow this girl on Instagram?Yes she is interested. If you follow on IG after she gave you a clear signal, and didn't even say yes to being her partner, you're going to end up friend zoned, ig follow makes you look like a cyber stalker. Get partnered up if it's not too late, and all for the digits and ig from there. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:57 AM |
| 12 | Missed opportunityWatch this mode of thinking. Women who are sexually active and express their sexuality with different partners aren't sluts. Don't fall into that old school mode of thinking. This is and has been normal for women. People with this mind set just demonized female sexuality because of their own sexual hang ups and inadequacy. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Missed opportunityThis just gives you 3 weeks to experiment in your other classes. Talk to other girls, get them laughing, socialize, and look your best. Show up to the next class with a new pair of kicks, looking better than she remembered and funnier than ever. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Should I try Alcohol to get enough courage during cold approachingThis isn't going to help you at all. Stay true to you or your just going to end up with women who bulldoze you | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Asking out someone from workNot a good idea, never was. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Believe me it's not as thrilling or enjoyable as people are making it out to be. I don't understand why ass eating has become such a fascination. Oh wait apparently cuck is the new gay. Maybe that's why. Side dudes only allowed to eat ass, the main dude owns the pussy. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Depends on the dialog. If he is like "Mistress, my queen please let me taste you!" Yes it's more submissive. But if he is like "let me get a lil taste of MY pussy" that's another story. And when a dude is secure in himself (not worried about sounding like a beta) he will say things like "I'll do whatever it takes to make you cum" and it's the hottest thing a man can say to you when he is between your legs. Also, we all know by now dudes love it when a woman does lead in the sex dept, so what's w… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No hell no. Any dude that tells you that must have some cucky sexual hang-ups. Women will never look at a man who eats pussy like it's the last meal on earth as a cuck. They look at dudes who don't that way, as sexually inexperienced betas. This mind set comes from men who look at pussy eating as a chore or something she only gets on special occasions, and she will begin to look at giving head the exact same way. Return the favor, give and receive. If you won't lick it why stick your dick in it?… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:23 AM |
| 3 | My curse is that I love women too much - how to manage?Well that my friend is because they were in business and had to maintain a persona. They are burned out and do not have any work/life balance. They are too old for the club scene and the party lifestyle has caught up with them. They may have gotten laid a lot, but actual healthy relationships with women were minimal. They are not well rounded men but a one night stand wouldn't care. Well now at this stage in their lives, women definitely do. Men need to have established themselves in more ways t… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Always catch girl looking at me then she looks away immediatelyNever avoid the eyes of other men. Masculine men stare back and if you avoid eye contact or look down first, you've lost. It's a show of strength and to look your opponent square in the eyes until they look down. Then you give them a nod. Cause they know what's up too. If you go out with a woman and she sees you avoiding eye contact with other men, or diverting your gaze first she will lose confidence in you. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Always catch girl looking at me then she looks away immediatelyIf you don't act on this, she will lose interest. It can be a test to see if you approach, do something that piques her interest, etc. Getting caught staring is never good, unless you take action. Your chances are getting more and more slim. Act, or watch her exchange glances with another dude, never looking in your direction again. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.Women are very intuitive. When men try too hard or are putting up this psuedo alpha act like students of PUA's, it's obvious. The only thing that helps? True masculine men are rare so many women haven't encountered/dated/hooked up with one. The only alphas they seem to encounter are the ones acting the part. But once they do, there's no turning back. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.It's definitely a woman. And gatekeeping implies she actually has the wherewithal to do so and you're easily had. She doesn't. Please tell me you know better. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.No shit Sherlock, a seduction sub reditt with men talking about picking up women. It can't possibly be. Gasp. Cringe. If you were the least bit secure within yourself, you definitely wouldn't be posting this or be the least bit concerned and not even the slightest bit offended. Only an insecure, attention seeking person would join a group about seduction and react this way. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.I wouldn't doubt that much of the bad advice is coming from women and men who hate on pick up | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.I'm intrigued by this. Why do you feel women despise you? | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.Look up self actualization and personal development. It's pretty straight forward. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.It creates a state of lack, for sure. It's quite a paradox in the PUA scene. You can't be in a state of lack and effectively get girls all at once. Yet, trying to get girls puts one in a state of lack by default. Work on you, for you, and you'll get girls. That's really how it works. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyNo response is a response. She's fishing for a reaction and response. If you respond at all she's "winning" in her mind. Not worth it to respond at all with these types. The only way to win at this game is not to play. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyIn short, no it isn't just normal behavior for women, it's borderline or histrionic. In my opinion we all swing one way or the other when it comes to personality disorders, even "normies" will have traits higher in certain PD's. Normies are simply more adapted and have experienced less trauma. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whyThere are other personality disorders that are rooted in narcissism you're overlooking, cluster b personality disorders. Men are mostly diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, but women are mostly diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. It's pretty much narcissistic personality disorder with externalized emotional dysregulation and higher levels of empathy (toxic empaths) These are the victim tales you've read regarding narcs, whom blame their sense of empathy for attracting na… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The untold story of rsd SarahThe self improvement spheil is secondary. The basis of pick up is exactly what Sarah shared. If you're a student and you don't think so, you've been a good RSD sheep. Believed the lies they fed you. Hopefully you didn't spend too much money to figure out the obvious. Going to parties, binge drinking and doing drugs will get you laid, but caught up with all the wrong people, women included. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:13 PM |
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