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Referring to women as bitches when he’s angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:32 AM
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Spirituality is what helped me learn boundaries and saved me from pick me mentality. Where I confronted my shadows and embraced ME for the true essence of who I am. I have never felt more empowered than I do through my spiritual practice. How I learned to balance my masculine and feminine side, embrace my femininity and sit in my feminine power in such a masculine-driven world. Men (masculine) are grounded here in the physical, while women (feminine) are inherently more connected to the non-phys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:41 PM
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I had a guy once tell me we were twin flames 😂😂 he knew I was spiritual and was trying to manipulate me lmao 😆 instantly blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:08 PM
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Right. They compare her to Ted Bundy who used to repeatedly rape the corpses of the women he brutally tortured until they were too decomposed. I cant think of a female serial killer that we know of who has been even close to being that brutal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:53 PM
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My ex overinflated his expenses to justify charging me half of his $1200 mortgage (mind you he was making over six figures and I was making 35k/year as a single parent) and all groceries/household supplies. He’s an idiot and a bad liar but when I caught him in the lies he did the same thing this guy is doing. Just go, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:34 PM
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If he has a pattern of lying and gaslighting like this, he likely has deeper issues. Time to run. Get the marriage annulled ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:33 PM
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Or have literally zero to offer anyone except for the money lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:35 PM
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Why do they even allow this!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:18 AM
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If most women do want a fwb I've found it's because they've been emotionally traumatized in a previous relationship and are feeling intimacy starved. I would argue that women don't engage in sexual relationships to "get off" as the majority of women report not orgasming during sex. They can't make us cum, we can do it much easier ourselves. Women are not doing it for physical pleasure but the need for validation, attention and physical/emotional closeness and/or because they've been socialized a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:54 AM
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I mean there was a meme from Twitter going around about "what would you do if there were no men on earth for 12 hours?" And a lot of women said things like "take a midnight walk". We are afraid to even go outside at night time bc of them. Even when men think or fear getting robbed or having a violent crime committed against them, they typically don't envision a woman being the culprit but another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:49 AM
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I disagree with the creepy pedo thing, I think she's just become worse w it now as her 15 minutes dwindles. She's always had that innocent child look with those big puppy dog eye look, the way she styled herself, the way she talks, how she did her makeup. That blushing cheek makeup look she made popular. Lots of these trends are rooted in pedo-like mentality imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:18 AM
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How and why did she think this was okay???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:16 AM
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I think the most I've ever gotten for Valentine's Day was a dinner date. Lol no flowers, chocolates, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:11 AM
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Um this is insulting and she's bragging about that? I'd be embarrassed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:08 AM
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Yeah I stopped using OLD. It's just a bunch of f boys on there anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:07 AM
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Curious about the pics of yourself bc I had a guy recently ask for a pic of my face - mind you I've known him for like seven years, we decided to link up and go on a date. Finally told me he thought of me while masfurbating (ummm huh) and I can't help but wonder if that's why he asked me to send him a pic lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah. I recently mentioned on snapchat that I was getting a mommy makeover - something that I've wanted to do for myself for years for various reasons. My MALE coworker had the nerve to swipe up and ask me if that included a boob job and how many CCs was I planning on getting? like....excuse me??? we are not even cool like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:06 PM
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A guy I was seeing was super insistent about requesting me on Facebook. He kept mentioning it and eventually found me and requested me. Reviewing his profile, I noticed that he didn't have any photos with friends or family. Just himself. I also noticed that he didn't have any comments from men on his page either. I then went the extra steps to look at his likes and saw that ALL of his likes were women, not one male. Mind you he had over 100-200 likes on some pics. I immediately felt suspicious a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:02 PM
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Hugs to you too!!! We are truly the strong ones honestly. Good riddance to all that toxic energy. I always said to myself when I knew I had to get out, id rather be happy and alone than miserable and in a relationship. It's more important for my daughter to see her mom happy, even if it means her parents aren't together, than to see her mom being emotionally abused and struggling mentally because of it. I've literally leveled up my whole life in the last three years. I've doubled my salary, foun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:44 PM
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Any undercover signs they subscribe to The Red Pill or any other toxic masculinity theories. For example, they regularly refer to other men as "alphas" or "betas". Talking about their distaste for loud and outspoken women. Using any other lingo from RP. NEGGING - I REPEAT - NEGGING!!! Backhanded compliments, basically. For ex: I had a guy finally come over my place after a few weeks of dating, passed all the right tests. Only to neg my place half the time. Mind you, I live on the nicer side of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:11 PM
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Also agree. Be careful with this because some men (especially undercover RedPillers) will try to make you "earn" a date or make you think "if i do xyz, he'll take me on a date." Then when he does ask you on a date, he doesn't communicate specific plans. Really, it's his way of leaving you on the edge of your seat so that you feel grateful and relieved when he finally comes through (if he ever does).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:08 PM
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These days, if they like Trump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:07 PM
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Honestly, the tell-tale sign is that he won't integrate his relationships with Cassie and Jane. Why can't Jane hang out with Cassie? Wouldn't you want your friends to like your girlfriend? If you're truly in love with Jane, and there's only platonic feelings for Cassie then this would be a no-brainer. Yeah...it's a no for me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:05 PM
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I bet you this is the same guy who uses emotionally loaded language like "I love you" and "I miss you", intentionally manipulates women emotionally and leads them on w/ promises of a relationship - ALL so he can just have sex with them consistently - then shames them for wanting the same relationship he dangled in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:00 PM
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I'm just saying I dont know one single lady that owns a cat, let alone multiple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:50 PM
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What is that??? Like an instinct to spread their seed or something?? Now that I'm an adult and not a little girl, I find it so bizarre. It's not a compliment. Basically, you'll stick me with a huge life responsibility without committing to me and that sounds like a lack of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:43 PM
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What is up with their pregnancy fetish? Pretty much every guy I've slept with in my adult life has made these types of comments. The last guy I slept with made this comment the FIRST TIME we had sex. He was like "I see why your ex wanted to get you pregnant" and then he was like "your daughter could've been mine". chillleeeeee the DRYNESS. like ew!! Also literally had a fling look me in my eye at our last hookup and tell me he was fertile and would be happy to give me a baby. So you'll make an E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:17 PM
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Same. This was literally my ex. I knew I had to leave when he came home one night and insisted on waking my daughter up who I had been trying to put to sleep for 45 minutes. She was JUST about to drift off. This was after I'd come from a 12 hour work day - working as an Assistant Director of a childcare facility to which my daughter came with me daily. He just casually rolls in from work, wakes our kid up, and then has the nerve to get mad at me for being upset LOL. That was the night I was done…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:12 PM
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YESSS!! Also be wary of guys who want to do this too soon or too often. A guy I dated did this. He wanted to be exclusive the first two weeks we were seeing each other and even bought me a promise ring. I was 21, young, and just out of a TERRIBLE relationship. I thought this is what guys were supposed to do if they really liked you. I had no idea what love bombing was. He wanted EVERYTHING posted on socials, would get mad if I didn't want to post something and accused me of cheating, etc. Every …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:05 PM
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You have to train yourself to do the same things they do. Keep yourself emotionally distant, do not invest your emotions until they offer you commitment. Even then, only give half of what you want to. See other people if not in a relationship, stay busy, don't communicate with them a lot. For me, a huge thing is not communicating with them much in between dates and saving the majority of our communication for face-to-face conversation. That helps me a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:58 PM
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They do it for the validation. Stop analyzing why he consistently texts you "I miss you" but never makes plans to see you or take you on a real date. Most of what they say and do is to keep you around as occasional emotional and vaginal support on their terms without actually really investing anything themselves. They want the most they can get, for the least amount of work it takes. Don't let them have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:55 PM
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So I started by taking about 6 months off of dating to find me. I took time to grieve my recent heartbreak that was pickmesha induced. I spent time figuring out who I am, what I like to do and relishing in learning how to enjoy being alone. Like truly enjoy and LOVE being in my own company. I did a lot of inner work, healing, meditation, trauma work, etc. I also did a lot of journaling at this time too and of course reading and studying various dating theories (where I found FDS). . Once I felt …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:56 PM
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They don't - it all depends on the standards you set for yourself. Not all of us are bitter here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:37 PM
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I mean I do date people I'm attracted to. Everyone's standards are different. The thing about FDS is that you don't have to follow EVERY single thing to a T. The core principles should remain the same but you can apply them however you want. Create your own standards and stick to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:32 PM
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I start out in the first month seeing them about once a week. After the first 30 days, things should start progressing, you should start seeing more of that person. We should be seeing each other 2-3 weekly by the time we agree to be exclusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:26 PM
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For me, 1 month is a little too fast. 2-3 months is more so my pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:24 PM
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If after 2-3 months, you don't want to put a label on this...I'm a phantom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:35 PM
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Yes! Pretty much. Any dating app is the same. Drives me insane. wasn't this bad before the pandemic, I never really had issues getting a date up until recently. Now all the fuck boys wanna use this as an excuse not to put any effort into dates. Meanwhile there are men sending boxes of wine for zoom dates to women. I'm convinced there are a lot more high value women than high value men which is why it's so hard for us to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:10 PM
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Same. What she's describing sounds like dysphoria which is common in depression. She needs therapy/meds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:56 AM
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Submission is EARNED, I don't know what they don't understand about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:53 AM
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Lmao that they wanted to have a baby with me (why do so many of them think this is a turn on?) 😂😂 When I was younger, a guy I had been crushing on since childhood told me he loved me only to get into my pants. Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:34 AM
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It's all of them tbh I have yet to find one guy who makes plans on his own lol. They all say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:26 AM
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Some guys are good at hiding it. Personally I stopped dating men who had crusty drawls. But tbh I don't find it truly speaks quality bc my daughters father was always pristinely dressed, including down to his boxers and he's still a jerk so 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:25 AM
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Lmao this is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:07 AM
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Hey, I mean I'm here to learn and still learning. it's been hard to gauge who's a fuck boy making up excuses va people actually being semi conscious about the pandemic. Win some lose some, oh well, not sweating it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:06 PM
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because I'm an adult and can control myself. I also knew in a platonic context for about two to three years, we recently reconnected so it's not like he's a total stranger. Definitely didn't sleep with him though, I didn't even shave 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:50 PM
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So I started talking to this guy. Seemed to be good starting off until we made plans to have dinner. The day we are supposed to have dinner - mind you I'm in the midst of all my womanly preparations - he calls and asks if it would okay for me to just come over instead of going out bc of "Covid". Covid and quarantining has been the perfect excuse for fuckboys to get women over to their place right away. anyways, i went - of course he tried, I declined. During the time I was there, he basically ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:34 PM
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It's such a silly way to think but makes sense as to why I have so many 2s and 3s in my DMs as a solid 7 or 8. honestly, physical attraction is so important in a relationship. like - I couldn't date someone I don't find physically attractive. The next step would be figuring out if they are emotionally intelligent, responsible, successful, etc. Which is probably while I'll be single forever but I'm honestly fine w that. I'd rather be single than settle for someone that isn't gonna do it for me ov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:04 PM
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yes!! I will never move in with anyone again unless I'm married. Mind you - the man makes 3x what I make. They're disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:55 PM
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I needed to see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:53 PM
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That's so cruddy. My ex did something similar - we were moving in together and he suggested I pay $200 more per month than what his brother was paying? Mind you, I gave him porn STAR sex, cleaned, cooked, did his laundry. He also lied abt his expenses to make it seem like he has more bills than he really does. Lol bye Felicia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:51 PM
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1000%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:49 PM
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Most true thing I've ever read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:48 PM
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It's the sex positive movement. Unfortunately it hasn't actually been positive for women and actually made men value us less because they want most (sex) is easily obtainable. so much so they expect it. If you don't want to give it, you're stuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:43 PM
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Yeah I dated a very similar guy. He was actually so overly concerned with being perceived as "nice" that he would flip out if someone questioned his behavior. Tbh I think he was lowkey a covert narcissist and I decided to nope out of that situation once I realized. Someone who has to repeatedly say they're "nice" or a "good person" probably isn't one. Because nice people do shit just because - not because they're looking for a cookie afterwards. Of course once we broke up, I was all of a sudden …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:32 PM
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Ummmmmmmmmmmmm ????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:25 AM
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I always find the schoolgirl fantasy disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:23 AM
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But I watch porn 👉🏽🥺👈🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:19 AM
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lol wow. "why won't women let me stick my body parts inside of their body parts without talking to me first?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:37 PM
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Yeah exactly. I love when people say men don't do this. Yes, they do. ive had many sexual partners do manipulative shit like not pull out and keep going just to hide the fact they already came. And then deny when I ask afterwards (only bc you can feel it coming out and it has a very specific smell). My ex did this to me as well after we rekindled and that's how I had my daughter. Same guy who proposed three days after I caught him cheating for the 80th time. Men babytrap more than women imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:48 PM
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Yeah my last boyfriend would do this all the time. He loved to throw what he "did" for me in my face and overinflate his expenses trying to get me to pay for things. Mind you he made about 3-4x more than what I did lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:34 PM
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Aww...he finally chose you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:04 PM
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You are manipulating women. How to be chosen is not by lying to people saying you're a sugar daddy when you're not. Courteous, decent people attract other courteous decent people. Guess that doesn't really matter when your main concern is quantity over quality. Maybe stop viewing women as being on a pedestal of which u have no control over. Actually get to know who someone is, take interest in them. Try improving your social skills maybe and learn how to talk to people IRL. And be honest about w…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:43 AM
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Wow you all talk about women as if we are some type of object or "thing" to conquer and manipulate. All that for a nut? Jesus
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:35 AM
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Yeah my ex raped me a bunch, one time violently, the other several dozen times while I was asleep. I explained to him many times I didn't like waking up to oral sex or actual penetration. I didn't really view it as rape until recently. Idk what his deal is with raping sleeping women but it's a thing for him. He doesn't see it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:21 AM
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