| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | [xpost]R4M Bullet Dodged!What does this have to do with men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/11 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Man found guilty of 36-year-old 'he said/she said' rape claimsThen why don't you just avoid suggesting that someone should be raped because it's kind of a shitty thing to do? Even if everything this women said was a complete lie, she does not deserve to be raped. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"This incident wasn't even a full blog post for the original woman involved. She merely mentioned at the end of a video that "Hey, guys, asking a woman you don't know to join you in your hotel room at 4 AM is probably not going to work, and make the woman feel a bit uncomfortable." I don't believe that this proves that the atheist community is full of depraved misogynists. However, I am a bit confused as to why so many posters here are calling an action which is ineffective and off-putting a good… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"That's definitely a good point to be focusing on. It's a troubling cycle as well, because mistrust tends to breed mistrust. I cringe every time I see an antagonistically framed argument about how men are mindless automatons trying to rape everything with a pulse and a few things without. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"No one is stating that we ought to legally forbid people from posing such questions. However, seeing as such questions are likely to be ineffective and make the recipient feel uncomfortable, is it really controversial to label such actions foolish? Are this one man's actions evidence that all atheists hate women? No. Were his actions kind of dumb? Yes. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"I agree completely. This wasn't even close to sexual assault, and it's offense to real victims of sexual assault to suggest as much. My issue was with the statement in this post: Any behavior, including no behavior, could conceivably cause someone to feel frightened or insecure. I can't be accountable for that. I disagree with the claim that the man's behavior was rational because no one could ever even conceivably know how someone would react. We can understand how others might react to our act… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"Being asked out for coffee in this case would probably be welcome, and not uncomfortable at all. Really? You think a woman would appreciate having a complete stranger in an elevator at 4 AM ask her if she would like to come back to his room for coffee? I have no problem with the man in this scenario posing this question. However, the vast majority of women receiving this offer would decline it, and feel somewhat uncomfortable. This shouldn't be surprising -- going to a private residence with som… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"I claim that his actions were misguided, not that "I'm uncomfortable" can be used to silence someone, or forbid some action. How does this have anything to do with that? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"I think you might be misinterpreting what I'm saying. I claim that his actions were misguided, not that "I'm uncomfortable" can be used to silence someone, or forbid some action. I'm simply stating that many would be made uncomfortable by a complete stranger inviting them to a private area. The man did no wrong, in a legal sense, and I have no problem with the idea of someone politely asking to spend time with someone. However, his approach to this would likely be both ineffective and discomfort… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 05:06 AM |
| -3 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"Any behavior, including no behavior, could conceivably cause someone to feel frightened or insecure. I can't be accountable for that. Does it really take that much effort to see that hitting on someone in an elevator at 4 AM might make them uncomfortable? I have no problem with saying that this is not an example of sexism, but I do think the man's actions were misguided and inconsiderate. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Inviting a girl to coffee is "potential sexual assault"Seriously? Being awkwardly hit on in an enclosed space would make someone uncomfortable. Hell, even I (as a male) would be uncomfortable in that situation. Being hit on in an elevator does not in any way prove that the atheist community has a misogyny problem. However, that doesn't mean that it's a wonderful thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/11 04:32 AM |
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