| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How Do They Turn It Off So Completely?Bro yes to all of that, but enjoy the single life. It’s going to get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/23 03:53 PM |
| – | A woman being promiscuous benefits men more than herselfLet women enjoy themselves without judgement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Role Reversal Arguments are ALWAYS ValidOperation Give Them a Taste of Their Own Medicine | /r/MensRights | 17/07/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Women have total control of the dating marketTotal control, no. The initial upperhand, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Feminists are waking up to a world without men and boys adhering to strict male gender roles, and they don't like it! Solution? Redesign masculinity to be more gynocentric.I’m good, thanks for asking ladies | /r/MensRights | 11/07/23 03:07 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?We all are too picky and quick to not give people a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:23 AM |
| 3 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldCan be, absolutely. Majority of the time though, younger is hotter. I’m 43 and noticed a significant drop from 39 to now in the type of women I’m attracting. Getting older unfortunately limits our options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:58 AM |
| 11 | What dating advice would you give to women?Put in the effort to have better conversations to pre-screen, then pick a few to date and focus on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them?I’m six foot one, handsome, $100k+ job, house in a city, nice car (not luxury), smart, kind, and mostly funny. I don’t spoil women and I’m not faithful or committed unless she’s making $100k+ also and is better looking than at least average. Impossible to find, so I just do my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Jonah hill controversyThey both suck. She leaked private messages. Of course he looks bad, but I’m sure she’s withholding any that make her look bad. What’s the purpose of her putting him on blast to the world like that? And she’s playing the victim and most people on Reddit are giving her the “you go girl” treatment. If the genders were flipped, women would freak out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedTrue, but the inverse is true as well. Women have it easier at the start, but men generally hold the advantage in the relationship (until marriage). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:46 PM |
| 10 | Are average guys really “struggling”?The way women act. Just because I’m lucky with women doesn’t mean I’m not sick of their entitled behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I’m not struggling nearly much as I like to vent and complain 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:53 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenNice write-up bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 2 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.Fair and yes lol. I come to vent and to challenge my biases, beliefs, the way I feel and think. Trying to understand others and improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.No one is exempt from criticism. It’s why I come to Reddit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.I have a lot of experience and have been lucky in love and getting women. I come to Reddit to vent lol. Even though it’s relatively easy to get attention from women, man…women are tough. I’m 43. It’s harder than it’s ever been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:15 AM |
| – | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.You’re correct, but you’ll be met with nothing but defensiveness and whataboutism. Fact is that men are obsessed with appearance, myself included. That alone makes most women angry at us, and I can’t blame them. We’re all shallow. I wish we could all put down our biases, preferences, and insecurity to communicate. I’d love to fall in love again. It’s just a cold dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Whats the stupidest reason you've been called an incel?For pointing out gendered stereotypes and differences men are treated (ie: showing emotions that cause women to look at you differently) | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsIt’s a hellscape for us all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:39 AM |
| 2 | ‘Toxic masculinity’ is toxic terminology — The Centre for Male PsychologyWorking up the nerve to do it on day. I know no one gives a fuck about me, only the times I could give something. I was born to young parents and shipped off to my grandparents, whom I was a burden. Somehow I actually did well in life despite this. 43 now, two divorces, I’m defeated. It was a good run. I’ve reached out for help. Have gotten help. I have a young son I adore, which is the main reason why I probably won’t do it, but my soul is dead. I don’t blame women, but it’s a colder world for … | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Young men are not being "indoctrinated." Young men are simply disgusted by feminist rhetoric and want nothing to do with you.I’m close not having restraint | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Young men are not being "indoctrinated." Young men are simply disgusted by feminist rhetoric and want nothing to do with you.It’s exhausting | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 02:43 PM |
| – | Young men are not being "indoctrinated." Young men are simply disgusted by feminist rhetoric and want nothing to do with you.I’m a middle-class, middle-aged white man. Many women hate us just for that. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"It’s tough for everyone and it really shouldn’t be. Feels like everyone is looking for that ideal person, but no one is close to perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:50 PM |
| – | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenDefinitely a cope and projection for most. I feel most women don’t care about us, only what we can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 17 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I admire the complexity of women. Women are also physically the most beautiful part of the world. It’s easy to be in awe of a great woman. In many ways y’all are the better sex. Drive me nuts at times, but I love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakAll experiences are different for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:08 PM |
| – | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakIt’s not hard for me for those reasons. It’s hard because so many women only offer an entitled, controlling, rude attitudes. It’s hard for women too, for reasons stated over and over again. I can sympathize with them. I just feel if women truly want a real connection, stop treating men like we’re beneath you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:36 PM |
| – | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.This is all sadly and mostly true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Everyone would be much happier if they treated bad opinions about sex and relationships the same way they treat bad opinions about most other topics.Agreed. I’ve had a lot of success in dating, been married twice for a combined 17 years, but ultimately I have come to experience most women (and maybe men, but I wouldn’t know) are the worst versions of themselves from selecting, matching, communicating, dating, and into the beginning stage of a relationship. Time is the best factor of all. A slow burn, having a roster, and just accepting most women are just not quality to engage with are facts better to accept quickly. Enjoy the ride and don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:08 PM |
| 2 | What is an advantage that single men have that taken men don’t ?I don’t have to deal with the emotional instability women inevitability will offer in a relationship. I get to enjoy time with my son. Work overtime without feeling the anxiety of having to come home to a mean wife / girlfriend. I can cook anything I f**king feel like and enjoy it. Take a solo vacation. Randomly hit a bar or club. Keep my money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | This is the key difference between men and women's thinking that causes conflictMost people, regardless of gender, don’t want to compromise / take responsibility / do the work to make a long lasting relationship. Even when healthy and the beginning, it’s very difficult to grow together. People change. People are mostly selfish and terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | I divorced my dying husband — he wallowed in self-pity and killed my vibeMany women will weaponize therapy. Female narcissism is rarely discussed. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/23 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Men with few options usually screw up the few options they hadThis is all mostly true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Do men really care about anything other than a woman's looks when it comes to attraction?The kinder, funnier, and smarter she is, the less I care about her looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Women, children, and animals get more empathy in society than men. No one cares about us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:50 PM |
| 10 | An innocent dad was tortured and killed by a group of chainsaw-wielding 'paedophile hunters' - after his wife falsely accused him of molesting her daughtersBelieve women, right? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/23 05:18 PM |
| – | AWALTI’m not angry. Reality is that women are very different than us and often don’t have our interest in mind, ever. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/23 02:22 AM |
| – | AWALTMWALT, women can’t help being the way they are, whether it’s nature or nurture. It’s annoying and frustrating. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/23 01:47 AM |
| – | Most men have no trouble getting relationships/datesMost women want to date a man who’s better looking, has more money, and has more going on for them than they do. And unfortunately for many men, they can. Also, women tend to be much more flakey and quickly move to the next faster, due to the constant pool of men online and IRL. It’s not easy for women too and they clearly have their own struggles, just very different than the average man. I think most people, including myself at times, tend to overvalue themselves and shoot way out of their lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 06:21 AM |
| 3 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesMen are fairly easy to understand and women are generally impossible to understand. Always been, always will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Women put virtually zero effort into dating, and certainly far less than menYup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 01:04 AM |
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