jgottlander Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How to make a move?? Approach and talk to her. Don't think that you need some fancy opener, just start talking and take it from there.	/r/seduction	23/06/17 05:25 PM
1	How to react when girl smiles many times when you met eyes with her? You're worrying about things that haven't even happened yet, if they're gonna happen at all. It's only awkward if you think it's awkward, it's only in your head. I can literally strike up a conversation with any girl I've had sex with because I don't think it's awkward.	/r/seduction	11/04/17 10:56 PM
1	Can a 32 male date 18-23 year olds? I'm 32 go to school with people that are about 10 years younger than me, Music conservatory. I've always studied with people younger than me and was really age conscious in the beginning, now I don't care. I feel like I am one of them, a little bit (lot) more mature and stable personality but age is just a number. Most of those people are a lot not mature than I was in their age. But as I hang out with these "young" people I also date young people. You have of course the (age / 2) + 7 years form…	/r/seduction	10/04/17 10:00 AM
23	Is opening up a Tinder account a good idea if you're just starting out to learn seduction? You could, but you don't really develop your personality with Tinder. You should just go out there, talk to women, crash and burn, stop caring of the outcome, read some books, get some experience. Learning by doing :)	/r/seduction	23/10/16 02:26 PM
3	How can I stop putting my crushes on a pedestal? Don't think about them. I used to fantasize a lot about my crushes, hitting on them, kissing then, sleeping with them, etc. Which leads to more feelings getting evolved, more expectations, and it all leads to you associating that person with more feelings which all blooms up at a very inconvenient time; you seeing/meeting that person irl. The best remedy is to be in the moment, not think about other things that doesn't matter. When the thoughts pops up, just let it go and think of something else…	/r/seduction	06/08/16 04:59 PM
2	Should I be feeling like a loser right now? There's no point in feeling that way, it doesn't help you. Do what you really want because you want it and don't care what people may or may not think of it.	/r/seduction	02/08/16 02:14 PM
1	Asked out a 10 Good work. And about the rejection, it wasn't about you, it was about her boyfriend. Things don't always match in the real world and it has nothing to do with you, it's just chance. Don't think about it, it's just how things are. Be confident about yourself and your ability to ask a gorgeous woman out on a date.	/r/seduction	10/07/16 09:44 AM
3	Talk to everybody I'm sorry you aren't adaptable enough to see through a signle typo!	/r/seduction	26/06/16 10:39 AM
12	Tinder game: how do you keep it casual? The pictures that mostly come up are those ready for instant hookup, not the normal ones. Don't have an exact ratio but I believe there's at least 10 normal ones for an "instant" one. I also think women choose what they want with a guy according to the profile. If you are a hot one, bare body pics, muscles, stating what you want then I believe they see you more as fun/fuck material rather than boyfriend material.	/r/seduction	08/05/16 02:58 PM
1	How do I get a girl to come back to my place? Have you seen this one? Richard la Ruina - The formula for night game	/r/seduction	10/03/16 05:02 PM
1	How to regain that post-workout confidence Love that feeling, it's awesome. It's chemically triggered by endorphins and testosterone, I guess, so you can't be feeling like that all the time, then it would be a peak. No hills without valleys. But I think the key is to limit your anxiety, which can be done by a mantra going all the time, when something happens, when you are about to do something. And it could be something like: "I know I'm good, I don't need people's validation. I do things because I want to do them, and it doesn't matter …	/r/seduction	08/03/16 10:59 PM
2	What's wrong with me? /r/nofap	/r/seduction	20/02/16 02:02 PM
1	Should I just move on? Been there, done that, one to many times. Sure it hurts, but you'll get over it. Think of it as it's not the end of the world, you'll be alright. If I get to invested in a girl nowadays I just remember the past when I was really hurt and remind myself that I actually did get over it. So just move on, and try to channel your thoughts on other things, other girls being a perfect example. You'll be alright :)	/r/seduction	06/01/16 09:31 PM
1	Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no game Actually realized this as well, was at big festival resently and talked to some girls but never closed any and was to afraid to approach when not in mood. And I also really got that I actually am afraid of how people see me, and that's when I started reading models. I just have to get rid of my fear of getting rejected by being rejected :)	/r/seduction	23/07/15 01:01 PM
1	How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman? Ask her out for a beer/drink. Everyone knows what happens when you've had a couple, she too. She'll know what's up.	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:45 PM
3	Everyone (including me) find drunk me more fun, outgoing, charismatic, and awesome. How can I make drunk me into real me? One method can be talking to your self, aka self-talk. And don't use don't because your subconscious doesn't understand it. Ex. "I'm independent of what people think of me", "I do things because I want to do it". I've heard the best book in this subject is Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. Haven't read it myself but it's on my list. Can also recommend the book I mentioned above, No more Mr. Nice Guy.	/r/seduction	04/05/15 02:35 PM
7	Everyone (including me) find drunk me more fun, outgoing, charismatic, and awesome. How can I make drunk me into real me? I'm mostly the same way, and its all in your head. I become my real self when I'm drunk. Don't care what people think of what I'm doing or saying, just doing it because I want it in the moment, not thinking before. After started reading No more Mr. Nice guy I've started to become more of my real self, not thinking so much what other people think of me. That's what real confidence is, not dependent on what other think of you :)	/r/seduction	04/05/15 01:42 PM
1	How to decline girl's favors like "can you get my phone for me" without sounding like a douche? Well, out if the blue I realise it sounds a little creapy but if you already have built up some sexual tension I guess it would work, if you say it right.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 03:18 PM
-6	How to decline girl's favors like "can you get my phone for me" without sounding like a douche? "And what do I get for that?" wink wink :)	/r/seduction	03/05/15 02:32 PM
3	Smiling Changed my Life Good you you. One reason for this is that the mind and body are connected and act hand in hand. If you're happy you smile, if you smile you get happy! Simple as that :)	/r/seduction	30/04/15 08:00 AM
3	How to Instantly Get a Deeper Voice You get about the same feeling in your throath when you yawn, as mentioned in the video. Opening Up The Voice	/r/seduction	28/04/15 09:17 PM
65	How to Instantly Get a Deeper Voice Classical singer here: The two factors of a deep voice is your vocal cords (non changeable) and the resonance space from your vocal cords to your mouth (changeable). Mostly the length from your larynx to the mouth is the factor. See it as a tube, the longer the tube the deeper the sound. This is what you use in classical singing to get a bigger and richer sound (timber). Take a fast deep breath, as if you were surprised. Just let everything drop, your jaw, your larynx, your stomach. Heard of the…	/r/seduction	27/04/15 01:37 PM