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Red Pill Theoryjgraham704/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 10:35 PM
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Red Pill Theoryjgraham704/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 03:56 PM
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Sciencejgraham704/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:16 AM
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Red Pill Theoryjgraham704/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:46 PM
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jgraham704/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 02:04 AM
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I dated my ONEinitis for about a year and she was arguably a 10. When we were out and about random strangers would come up to us and tell me she was one of the most beautiful women they've ever seen. She also was raised in a conservative house so she was feminine. But even still, I was more miserable with her than at any point of my life. That was due to my belief that she was perfect and I'm great for snagging her then realizing she wasn't all that special and she didn't make me happy. This eve…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:56 PM
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Perfect. You're in.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 04:15 AM
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I wouldn't be able to say. She could of thought you were playing hard to get or some stupid shit which is a good thing. Keep in mind man that she's just a girl. Whatever happens there are a ton more around the corner. Keep approaching
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:33 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:22 AM
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Don't ever listen to a woman's advice on how to get other women. Terrible, terrible idea. But in this case think about the dynamics. She asked you first, which is itself odd, but shows she's interested. You can ask for her number over FB and what immediately comes to mind is she had the balls to ask you in person, why couldn't you do the same? she may very well say yes over FB. Probably she will. But those sexual dynamics come to mind immediately later on down the road where you didn't put your …
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:07 AM
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The reason asking someone out over the internet is more appealing is not just logistics but rejection is easier to swallow without face to face interaction. Don't go the easy route. Wait the week and ask her out in person.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 02:56 AM
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Get away from her. Exit gracefully if you can since she's in the hospital but if you can't than that's fine too. There is absolutely no reason you should be around this girl, even if she didn't cheat on you she's clearly unstable. Keep improving and you'll quickly realize she's nothing special.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 07:50 AM
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I personally know a guy that is in his 50s with about 12% bf. He's recently divorced and he's fucking killing it with women. He just swallowed the Red Pill too, so it should start getting real interesting for him.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 10:03 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't care if you were married 18 years.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 03:01 AM
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lol it's hilarious that he may have actually GAINED support from women after that hahahahehehe
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 06:13 AM
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They already hate us. Let's be a little more objective than that. The idea that women need to be feminine and men masculine is not a popular idea regardless of who is president. That idea needs to continue to gain ground. Hell, a lot of the alt-right influenced the election just based on these ideas. We're winning here. We'll see how well Trump does, but to actually call it a year out, I think is pre-mature. He proved a lot of people wrong last night.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 12:10 AM
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Man, so much to unpack here that it's insane. Everything good in my life has almost always occurred when I was strictly not masturbating. I was actually thinking about this recently and I came to the conclusion that not masturbating isn't a magical pill that makes one's life better. You still have to do the work, and get out there, however, your motivation to do so is much higher. I try to put myself back in time maybe 60 years ago, before endless access of porn was available or the structure to…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:52 PM
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I've lost lifetime friends because of this. I even toned the confidence and assertiveness down a little around one of my friends and his family, and he approached me one day and said he was worried about me lol I guess I was pretty beta before because he didn't even know the half of it. Next thing I know he never returned my calls or talked to me again .. that was 7 months ago. I don't care honestly. I've made new friends and I wish him the best but I (we) can't stop improving ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:35 PM
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"Bad Genetics" is a catch-all phrase to either discredit someone's superior looks and to reduce one's responsibility for their own shitty diet and workout plan.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 04:25 AM
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I feel for you, man. I really do. My father doesn't have the same marriage yours does, but it's not perfect either. I remember growing up seeing how hard it was for him to try and make a blended family work. He struggled a lot. Ever since I became Red Pill, my appreciation for him has only grown. A lot of guy's our age take for granted our access to different ideas on the internet. My father didn't have that same privilege. He did the best he could with what he had. I hope you take Rollo's advic…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:23 PM
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Yea if you're having suicidal thoughts on a calorie deficit then something is off hormonally. I'd get some blood work done on that. Don't be depressed about slow gains, it takes a long, long time. The best way is what you're doing: Having periods of calorie surplus, then calorie deficit. You'll slowly start to see changes in your muscle development. It takes years. 5x5 is popular on the Red Pill, because it's such a easy way to start, and it helps gain strength which is fundamental to muscle gro…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:26 AM
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I don't think you're in a bad spot, but I'd suggest not isolating yourself. The reason you're at school is to get your degree then move on. If we're going to apply Red Pill truths, then you should already know you need to be working hard in your 20s so you can enjoy having the highest SMV possible when you're in your 30s. Doesn't mean you still can't go to the bars, but the underlying goal should always be to finish the degree and move on. Eventually you're going to graduate and move on anyways,…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:52 AM
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Go approach more women. Go get rejected, then learn from your mistakes, then do it again.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:45 AM
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Accolades are useful only in their potential to actually prove them in front of other women. For example, she doesn't give a fuck if you're the best guitarist in your city, unless you can actually prove it's merit to her in front of other women. By playing in a band for example that actually has people wanting to see them play. The same with sports. It's worth is determined by your ability to leverage your skills and confidence with the best women. These are not accolades but if you're going to …
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:40 AM
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Listen to that. Every time a woman has been overly eager, where she ends up pursuing you and not the other way around, something is broken with her. Watch for red flags on the date, I'm sure there are plenty.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:39 AM
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It's funny, but leading people that have no obligation to either follow your lead like your friends or family is much harder then leading at work where they have to follow you. However, good leaders understand that with friends and work, the best way to lead people is by influencing them enough that they have genuine desire to do so. Your friends have no obligation to follow your lead. So make them want to follow you (not by overtly saying "I'm the leader.") But by being someone they look up to …
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:25 AM
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Leadership is a funny thing. I believe you only get better at leading by actually being in situation requiring you to lead, and making mistakes, then learning from them. You'll make mistakes, it's inevitable. You can learn faster though with some external help. I've been a leader in some capacity ever since I was 18 when I joined the military. I've led teams as small as 1 to a large group of people at a time. Some times people decades older then myself. I've also lead different teams in sports, …
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:02 AM
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Could be a number of reasons both mentally, and physiologically. I'd recommend going through the side bar, and looking for answers to some of your focus problems. Also, maybe consider getting some blood work done with your doc. The only reason I mention this is because I was also having problems focusing on school, work, and everything in between. I took a blood test, and found out I was extremely low on Vitamin D3 levels. I take some vitamins to up those levels every day, and I've seen a massiv…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:16 AM
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Women are incapable of feeling empathy of a man's burden of performance. That may sound like a knock, but it's not. Women are biologically incapable of understanding the sacrifices to be a successful man, they can't fathom it, they just know it's either there or not. So when you have a man at the top of his game, suddenly get in a life-altering accident, they can't fathom handling both her own problems, and extending that care to her partner's on a long-term basis. We're used to hearing women as…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 02:38 AM
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If by evil, do you mean not being crucified by woman's feral sexual strategy, then yes.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 02:08 AM
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The 1st and 3rd reasons don't really seem to be that big, since most women buy into that shit nowadays. The good news is, just because she blindly agrees with feminist beliefs, usually she can just as easily be kicked out of that phase by following a masculine, confident man. The 2nd point is more serious, and I think you should seriously take consideration of her depression. This can spill over into other areas you thought were good with her.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:03 PM
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Wow what is with these cucks invading this sub lately??
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:52 AM
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You're missing the point by a mile in the larger context of the Red Pill. No, she's perfectly free to do whatever she wants, that's not the point of the OP's post to throw shade on her if she was in a relationship. The point is to make men aware, that often women who go on these adventures "to find themselves" are really going to go get fucked by about 30 exotic men. Girls like these should be plated at best, but not committed to. Of course there are outliers, and of course you're going to say "…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:39 AM
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If you're going to keep telling men in this sub that their experience with women are invalidated by YOUR single experience "as a women", then do us a favor and look up the term solipsism in the side bar glossary. Or probably more likely, you won't, and you will continue to tell men here that universal truth is based on your personal experiences/relationship, and that invalidates everything else. If so, thanks for the RP confirmation. See solipsism
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:32 AM
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This is some chick that stumbled upon the Red Pill and is clutching her pearls that such a sexist thing could exist.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:14 AM
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I don't know does the bf routinely go on a vacation and get fucked by over 50 dudes in a 3 month period? Or did you not read the OP and are a troll? Edit: Can you believe this OP? She's so brainwashed that she's even DEFENDING some rando chick that just got plowed by over 50 guys. Wow! Talk about confirmation of the RP. "No matter what, defense of the spinster-hood is absolute."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:12 AM
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Ever since I've learned Game, and how to push the right buttons, women's feral nature depresses me. I've had women that just got married begging me to fuck them. Nothing surprises me anymore.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:44 AM
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On an individual level, yes, The Red Pill will work in Sweden. Remember, the Red Pill is a response to the feminized primacy that is displayed in mostly Western culture. By not adopting this feminine primacy (that goes against your interests) you will be a in a much better capacity to control your own life.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:32 PM
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It's definitely a gamble unplugging someone, you just never know how they're going to react. It's riskier at work, but you're around some of these guys more than most so it's sometimes effective. I've tried at work with little success. To weed out the ones that are close, I like to drop hints by making fun of feminists and see their reaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 12:51 AM
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We'll see if Asa Akira has the introspection to realize this is completely, 100% her fault, and not the misogynistic men that don't want to commit to someone who has a self-title "The Anal Queen." In reality, the odds are strong she will not accept responsibility, and tell women to not go into porn, and marry at 22-24, she will blame our society's insistence to "slut shame."
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:11 AM
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Thank you. They're not good looking. When I was in the military deployed on a air craft carrier, the same thing happened. All the ugly chicks suddenly became bangable to a large majority of the men on the ship. These girls that have never been noticed before if they were on land, went through 30 to 40 dicks in a 9 month deployment. They're absolute trash.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 11:01 PM
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There are some good answers here that in one sentence tell you to not to listen to her bullshit and keep lifting and being "attractive." Listen to those answers. I've also written a small paragraph in case you're interested to know the mechanics behind why she is saying what she is saying: While it's almost paradoxical, there is a strategy for her reason to limit your self-development. She needs to know that she has locked down a man that has a higher SMV than hers, while at the same time, limit…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:17 PM
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You misunderstood that part, I said that the man has a chance of leaving if his SMV is too high for her, and he knows that he can find a better women. This is her motivation to limit his self-development. This level of drama, and a culture that doesn't remotely encourage women to control it is sometimes the reason LTRs may not be worth it. Knowing that one should leave anxiety alone actually limits these emotional rollercoasters from getting in the way of your goals is beneficial if one decides …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 03:35 PM
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Using the word "control" is risky business, depending on how one is using it. Invariably, everyone already controls emotion every day when you wake up and don't want to go to work. We realize it's something we have to do, regardless of emotions, we still have to get up. I'm not advocating for control in the sense it's indentured slavery to reason, but simply reminding men that being ruled by the emotions more associated with a beta man have negative connotations with your perception as a man who…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 08:32 PM
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When I first heard of a 25 year old billionaire marrying a 33 year old model, I was just as skeptical. However, it got me thinking, and while it may look strange because of the age difference, in reality there are some basic Red Pill truths. Being a billionaire does not inoculate you from influence of the Feminine Imperative. Spiegal could still have the same desires of a beta male as any other guy growing up in Western society. The only difference that makes him unique is he has 2 billion dolla…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:54 AM
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True, she has always worn a shit ton make up. She's disgusting. She represents modern American women.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 04:54 AM
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Nah, I tried the whole bro bloat thing, and I get way more attention when I cut about 20 pounds of fat off. I lost strength, but it gives the illusion of being stronger then the guy that has his muscles hidden behind a layer of fat. I agree with the compound lifts though, most suffering from bro bloat don't do compound lifts so that's what makes them ascetically disproportional.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:11 PM
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Not a fair assessment at all. I've been reading TRP for a while, and I can only say 1/2 of it was informational, the other part was just emotional whining. Can you really make a quantitative guess on this? It sounds like you have a problem with reddit/Redpill, and not so much The Red Pill as a sexual strategy. r/ redpill simply takes posts from any user, and they are voted for or against as those that view it at that particular time. Obviously with this design you're going to get a great mix of …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:04 PM
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I think the reasons you listed as to why you're not going to approach this girl is a buffer in case you get rejected. By observing her over the past 8 months You've thought about her a lot. I agree she will take a lot of your time, however, I don't see why you just can't walk away from any relationship with her in the first place. It just seems to me that if your SMV right now is at the top 5% wouldn't you want to test that theory out and Game this chick?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 12:54 AM
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The Feminine Imperative requires male sexuality to be squashed in every instance, while simultaneously demanding uncontrollable female sexuality. That's why there is a instantaneous uproar if a school requires girls to dress appropriately, and not as if they are going to a rave. "Don't tell my daughter to dress less promiscuity, tell boys to not objectify her!" Same thing with this gym: women are optimizing their sexuality by revealing extremely suggestive clothing, cheered on by the FI, and men…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 12:42 AM
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I don't really remember. I just remember seeing some articles online, and being really butt-hurt about it. I'd digest it and claim women really can't be like that, and wouldn't go back to RoK for two weeks, then find myself back there reading more.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:53 PM
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I have a theory that with this massive shit-show from the media about RoK's Meetup, that even more men will eventually leak here. I don't think it will happen immediately. After all, Roosh rebranded his slice of pie as "Neomasculinity" which is basically the Red Pill with just another name. Everyone is trying to find out about Return of Kings now, and even if a small slice of people start to follow Return of Kings, they may in time follow the trail to the original source, which is the Red Pill. …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:45 AM
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Shit. Your brother said you triggered him? Is he using Tumblr? Worst thing imaginable, prepare for the worst if so. Sounds like you guys are on completely different spectrums. But I think you're justified in being angry with some of the things being said. Have you been mentioning RP overtly to them? Remember what's obvious from our perspective is completely foreign and insulting from a BP perspective. That's the only thing I would not do in regards to your situation. Other then that, it sounds l…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:23 AM
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Well done. To be able to recognize then walk away from a imbalanced relationship is more then most can say. This also proves you don't have a ONEinistis and are confident you can attain other options.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:15 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:04 AM
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Yea, they just started it. Only two episodes so far. Quintis Curtis does it.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:54 AM
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The fact that men have to deal with this shit is absolutely enraging. At any time, she can claim rape, and destroy someone's life. Where's the justice?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 12:29 AM
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Has it been recent (3 months or so) that you have swallowed the Red Pill? If so, you may be going through some of the emotions of having to acknowledge the death of your Blue Pill strategy. These emotions anger, depression, acceptance will pass in time. Being aggressive while also being new to The Red Pill could be due to overcompensation on what is perceived Alpha traits (being the asshole). Or as stated above, anger of finally understanding how woman truly are. To be honest, I think you're jus…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:05 AM
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Tom Torero, Return of Kings, Niko Choski on Youtube (more MGTOW, though he and Rollo Tomassi will be doing a monthly discussion)
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:45 PM
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You met her on Tinder. 16 partners before 18. Has been raped. Hyper sexual. Abusive ex. The number of red flags on this girl exceeds that of a Communist rally in former Soviet Russia. Plate at best. Edit: Don't forget possibly BPD. Actually, I change my mind, I wouldn't even plate her. Just saying. The way she is being clingy as well makes me think she'll "accidentally" forget her birth control. NEXT
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:44 PM
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Suffering is the ultimate form of honest feedback that we have. Without pain we wouldn't question our environment and whether that environment is increasing our ability for survival. I think that's why pain is a necessary component to be Red Pill. I talk about it here
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:37 AM
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You're addicted to affection. You need to be careful as this type of behavior, especially coming from a strong desire as you describe it is indicative of Beta behavior.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:14 AM
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The Red Pill sexual strategy doesn't advocate that one specific path or ideology must be followed in order to be Red Pill. The Male Experience in the 21st century is that men are vastly unprepared, and set up for failure in regards to marriage and relationships with women. The Red Pill simply acknowledges a woman's "mysterious" sexual strategy and allows one to act accordingly to better play the Game. Whether that is marriage or not, it's up to each individual man to decide for themselves. If yo…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:10 AM
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To be honest: You're 18. The women in your age group don't really care if you're a manager at a local grocery store. You need to be applying Game in your social context, where women in your age are specifically geared towards Alpha Fucks right now. If you want to work there, then take it. But don't expect them to come chasing you over this. Do it because you want to earn the money. However, side note, 37k by the time you're say 23 is not a lot at all. What are the long term benefits for this job…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:58 AM
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Yes, being Game-aware allows a Hawthorne like effect to Game where she is aware she is being observed, or in this case "Gamed." Any man that subsequently tries to Game her, she will know what he is doing, which reduces her ability to ensure that this man "Just Gets It." If she can not naturally react to Game, then real, tangible desire will not take place between her and a man's natural, dominant form of Game.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:46 AM
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I agree with Rasalom in regards to the vegetarian diet. I think the Red Pill deserves a lot of credit for encouraging evolutionary psychology in explaining human behavior at the biological level, and it just so happens we evolved to eat meat. I normally wouldn't give a shit, but you're asking about how to gain weight, and increase muscle mass, and meat has a lot to do with it. I suggest reading and applying The Perfect Health Diet to learn more about how meat and safe-starches can literally fuel…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:41 AM
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Took the words right out of my mouth. This can all be avoided with simply approaching more women to confirm that there are other fucking women out there.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:17 AM
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I think the real value that the Red Pill offers to men is actual intellectual articles about the true nature of men and women. Elaborately explaining why women do the things they do, and how to act accordingly is worth more in gold then a hundred articles telling men to "man-up" because women demand it. I can tell the difference, I used to follow the mainstream manosphere blogs like the Art of Manliness before finding the Red Pill, but that "man-up" advice is what got me into a mess in the first…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 01:09 AM
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Definitely interact with women especially as you enter college here soon, but as you seem to realize now, commitment should be a last resort. If you do fall back into your old ways, then unfortunately you may have to get burned badly before you come back to the Dark Side. However, enough pain in a man's life, forces him to examine his environment, and whether his sexual strategy is correct when it comes to securing intimacy with a woman. If it's not, then he'll reexamine and wind up here. My poi…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:14 AM
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Safest easiest way is to put that money in a Certificate at your bank. They usually have a rate of return of about 3% There are tons of investing options in regards to the stock market. However, research before you just dump your money into a stock that your buddy said would be worth it. A good rate of return could be 8 to 14% yearly. However, there is more risk. Overall, a thousand dollars isn't going to get you much in return immediately. Investing is a long-term game. Read a investing book by…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:58 AM
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If you want to enter the IT field, then I'd recommend getting a degree in Computer Science. I'm in the IT field with that degree, and the Computer Science degree has much more weight when it comes branching out to different disciplines in regards to IT (computers/electronics). You can go System Administration, Cyber Security, IT Hardware, Software Engineer, etc. One thing they all have in common is they all want a Computer Science degree. It allows you to have more options. Also, once you narrow…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:50 AM
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You just said what I said but in another way. The Feminine Imperative means that women's sexual strategy is dominant. Yes, men are still required to fulfill their role and that is why they are shamed to marry women at 30 years old after they are done riding the CC. As you said, women not only refuse, but to even suggest such a thing is scandalous. Thus, "It shows that even in the church, the Feminine Imperative is alive and strong."
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 04:36 AM
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People are here because they want to learn how to get sex easier or pass on what they've learned. Most people who are content with their sex lives don't come here. The focus is sex. This is a massive generalization to justify your supposed moral superiority. Are you really sure that every person here is here simply because their entire focus is about sex? How can you objectively claim this? Virginity in the context of religion is a subconscious sexual strategy. There's nothing subconscious about…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:49 AM
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The idea that sexual strategy is needed is rejected by the bible. Where is this rejected? Even Christian men that have never gone on a date, or kissed a girl have a sexual strategy. Their sexual strategy is to present themselves as a chasteless virgin to a Christian woman. I'm not bashing that strategy, but it is A strategy. Every man has Game, it's whether it works is the question. Here's where I disagree with you the most though. The Red Pill is amoral. Acknowledging that women have a sexual s…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 02:45 AM
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hmm something about your comment, and bunnylajoy8's makes me think you guys are the same person... Anyways. Good luck with telling men about the Red Pill over the internet. It's pretty much the only way to do it unless you want to be ostracized by your friends.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:23 AM
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She just left, refused to speak to him, got him removed from the family home, took half of his estate, pushing a million or more. What. The. Fuck. But he was so dedicated to the concept of marriage and the Christian things to do to keep the marriage strong. Correct me if I'm wrong, I wonder if his marriage could have been saved if he was Game aware..
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 01:42 AM
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I think it's a disadvantage for women to understand Red Pill to the point they can spout off theory from the back of their hand. Not that women shouldn't know that they should limit their hypergamy. But understanding Game from a male perspective sets them up for a Hawthorne like effect to Game. Where they know they are being observed so they alter their behavior to Game. Since they become aware of Game, they are now expecting it from a man that may or may not be Red Pill aware. It's been said be…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:29 AM
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Any more details as to why she just left? Was she having an affair?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:47 AM
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You're right, they're not different. I think you're at a specific time in life where you're going to run into the "born again virgins." I'm not saying that some of these chicks may be worth a relationship with, but most of them have ran on the cock carousel and then they "got right with Jesus." I've heard of sermons where the pastor shamed men to "man-up" and marry these women. It just shows that even in the church, the Feminine Imperative is alive and strong. Edit: I also think most Christian m…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:41 AM
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I also agree that Christian men need Red Pill awareness. The Red Pill is amoral in that it simply unveils the "mystery" of a woman's sexual strategy. It's neither claiming that a woman's sexual strategy is good nor bad, it's simply acknowledging how women intrinsically are. I believe any ideology can successfully adopt it. As long as that ideology, whether political or religious does not make it's beliefs as a foundation for Red Pill awareness. If I said you have to vote a certain way in order t…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 10:32 PM
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Yep, and then he got married to another women that had two kids of her own. Sigh Even still, no one deserves that.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 06:48 AM
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Didn't happen after I took the pill, but seeing it now with a Red Pill perspective solidified AWALT for me. A couple years back I had a buddy that went on deployment on an aircraft carrier. His wife was a worship singer for a local church at the time. By all respects, she seemed just like any hardcore evangelical Christian woman, innocent, pure, feminine, and sometimes a stuck up bitch. He goes on a 10 month deployment, and around month 6, this pure Christian woman, the worship leader, the SAHM …
/r/askTRP03/01/16 06:37 AM
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This was me to a T before I found the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 01:45 AM
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"if" she liked you then she would have told the other guy she's taken. I'm sorry but I put more weight in actions then words. I'd advise you to do nothing. If you have made it clear that you're interested in her, and she has yet to do anything about it, then do nothing. Ultimatums are risky business. If she rebuffs your offer for a date or whatever, more then twice, then you need to walk away and let her decide. This idea of walking away will allow her to believe you have other options whether r…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:04 AM
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I agree with that. I'd say he should just extend an offer for a date. If she rebuffs the idea twice, then he should walk away.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:54 AM
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If she is already holding out for another guy then she has already shown her disinterest. What will allow it to change in the OPs favor is to be able to walk away if she outright says no. Not deciding, is not a neutral position, if she has yet to decide in the OPs favor then that is indicative of disinterest.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:39 AM
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The strongest negotiating position is to be able to walk away. Allow her to choose, and don't bitch about it if she doesn't choose you. Say okay, and move on to other girls. Literally say "okay" and walk away. This alone will create attraction, and at the very least respect. If you were applying these Red Pill truths, gym, Game, etc. then it will be a no brainer for her.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:34 AM
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It's a fucking epidemic. I can't believe how many wives cheat on their husbands when I was in.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 10:13 PM
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You should have told her "Good. I was afraid you were sexually objectifying me in the first place" with a wink and a smirk. Then you change the fucking subject. It was a simple shit test, and you failed it. Probably not over, but look at her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:10 PM
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Rejection is better then regret. Get that in your fucking head. Approach, approach, approach, and approach intelligently. Find out why they're not calling you back when you get a number. If they don't call you back then they didn't see a lot of value in your initial approach. Improve on that, but never stop approaching. Make rejection meaningless to you. The anxiety will always be there, but make it meaningless. The reason you have Oneinitis is you have little to no options right now. Don't cont…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:07 PM
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Ex-military, I've seen a lot of this happen, and there is a recurring pattern. The most successful deployments obviously start at home before leaving. Does she have any friends, that are female? Boundaries are the best bet, every time I saw a wife cheat on her husband while he was gone, she had very little female friends, and she had a orbiter or even a male friend of the husband that she was familiar with. She got bored, or lonely, and next thing you know... Under no certain terms once the husb…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 09:38 PM
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Share your concerns with like-minded men. A man's insecurities and fears turn women off and these narcissistic bitches certainty won't help you. I learned this the hard way. Never show vulnerability.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 03:19 AM
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Good point. Yes, initially letting her even get me to that point was a loss of frame I'll admit. I always showed her respect, but she seemed to have missed the memo.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 03:13 AM
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Definitely not brother. It's good you're putting yourself out there to seek some help. Read the sidebar, as there's so much you can do to get started. I want to point out that your obesity will be a major problem for your confidence, so you'll need to take care of that now. As the weight starts to come off then your confidence will begin to increase exponentially. Start a strength training program. I recommend 5x5 Strong Lifts, and also EAT RIGHT. I swear, so much of your physique is due to heal…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:13 PM
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I do feel that many men go something like this after the anger phase. I know I did, and it lasted months. However, this isn't a stopping point and you do in time need/will get over this. Taking the Red Pill is obviously bitter, but it's a much more realistic worldview then when you had the idealism of the Blue Pill. That idealism I believe is what you're mourning. Men derive so much motivation for their happiness on the hope that a woman will ultimately love you the way you love her. She can't. …
/r/askTRP01/01/16 07:56 PM
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Anger is the natural response to taking the Red Pill. The reason that you're so angry is that you have been deceived about the true nature of women. We've all been raised that they will appreciate you for being just you. They're not built that way, and having a realistic view on hypergamy will eventually set you up for realistic expectations. Yes, being angry over all this is natural. It will pass...in time. It may be replaced by despair, but eventually you're going to have to learn to understan…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:25 AM
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The Red Pill does make some men embrace isolation. When you take the pill your new lens of seeing a more realistic way of the world makes you enter at first a depressive worldview. I believe this is due to the loss of those blue pill hopes and dreams. You know, the ones we've been sold from all those Disney movies, about a woman's ability to love you the way you love her. You need to find some sort of hope that is beyond the dreams you pined for in your blue pill condition. I believe solitude ca…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 02:42 AM
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