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jgrand99/r/MGTOW207/01/21 04:38 PM
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Shed no tears, brother. I guarantee you she's been seeing the other guy for a few months, long before you broke up. Yes. OP needs to hear about monkey branching. They don't let go of one branch till they secure a firm grasp on another. Maybe she wasn't physical, but she definitely started something with the friend before the breakup. All the drama between OP and his friend is just a bonus for her that will boost her ego. OP, she was never yours, it was just your turn. Now move on with your life.
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 10:53 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. No amount of therapy or "self discipline" will work in the long run. She'll string the nice guy along long enough to get him invested (money, house, kids ...) then go back to the chaos, because that's what she craves. But we already know this. That's why we're going our own way.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 11:58 AM
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Wow, I would understand if it’s just for lesbian couples with the donor having no parental responsibilities, but what man would volunteer to be put on child support? For a child he probably would never even raise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 07:56 PM
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This is a typical modern woman who bought the feminist lie that after focusing on their career and riding the CC in their 20s, Mr. right will be waiting for them in the end. Now that reality has smacked her hard in the face, she’s trying for a buzzer beater. She could go to a sperm bank or adopt, but that won’t get her child support. Now that she’s got baby rabies, she’s high risk for sperm jacking a random dude off the street and putting him on child support
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 07:49 PM
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Yes! I couldn’t take my eyes off that couch, lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 05:02 PM
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Classic projection. They want higher education and earning potential in men, so they assume men want the same things in women. Truth is, educated, successful (blue pilled) men would happily marry a high school dropout if she’s attractive and pleasant to be around. All that career stuff might actually count against her, or would just be a bonus at best
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 04:58 PM
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You think she'll be truthful about her body count?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 03:55 AM
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Found the real life "Busted Pillsbury biscuit can"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 09:00 PM
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Kevin Samuels is referring to “high value” or “marriageable” men. If you think of it that way, what he is saying makes sense simply based on the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:13 AM
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He gave her the tingles and she thought he would change for her because, you know, she's special
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 12:52 AM
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No one wants to fight the ghosts of boyfriends past, let alone pay for their mistakes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 12:51 AM
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Came in here to say this, but you beat me to it. She doesn't give a f*** about anime, but she knows some desperate young dude will get roped in
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:40 PM
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Right. Single mothers have first dibs on subsidized housing and other assistance while men don't. In fact, the baby daddy has to pay her additional money. That way she can be independent and "have it all"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:38 PM
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I found you, Kevin! It was you who stole my girlfriend 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 03:03 PM
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What's even worse is that she's keeping track of all the money she's wasted for many years. And the poor loser who ends up keeping her will have to pay since, in her mind, he owes her for all the effort she put into other men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 02:01 PM
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In the beginning she says she does all this because she likes it. And in the last paragraph says if I spent this much to get ready for you, you need to pay. So which one is it? I think the truth is she spends money to look good for attention and external validation, which in turn makes her feel good. So she's actually purchasing self-esteem. Problem would be solved or she didn't base herself-worth on an external source, but that's asking too much
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 01:54 PM
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Perks, cash back, build credit, easier to dispute unauthorized charges without tying up your own money, emergency funds if money is tight. Only catch is to pay balance in full each month to avoid interest payment
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 06:52 AM
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I think that's how they talk over at FDS. They view relationships as purely transactional, where they try to fetch the highest price for as little value as possible. Little do they know that they are marketing a depreciating asset. Like asking for sticker price for a beat up 1997 Honda Civic with 100,000 miles on it, lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 06:36 AM
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lol, good one. I was using voice-to-text and it converted "she would" to "should", so I wasn't to disagree with you. Great come back though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 04:34 AM
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I get there are some people that can have full-on relationships with dolls, but I think those are outliers. Maybe if they integrate AI with the dolls, those people might benefit from a simulated relationship. But for the vast majority it's not going to work.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 03:39 AM
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No. If the idea is to simulate human connection, that's what friends are for. If they develop an AI and just give it a female voice that would be pointless because at the end of the day it's still AI
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 03:29 AM
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Where do these people come from? Are they concocted out of some toxic sludge somewhere?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 03:27 AM
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That's Dave Ramsey type dogmatic thinking which is outdated. There are good debts like a mortgage which will allow you to build wealth and take advantage of a tax benefits. And you can manage or even take advantage of the bad debts if you are responsible.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 03:23 AM
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She's talking about branding, her dates lowballing her on price, etc. She's unironically characterizing herself as a product on the market to be sold for the for the highest bidder. Feminism has come full circle
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 02:22 AM
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Red pills are about seeing the world for what it is. And in this world, your score determines the types of loans and interest rates you can get for everything, be it for business or mortgage. We all have to play the game
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 02:15 AM
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I'm guessing you got a secured credit card. To build credit fast: Download Credit Karma or Experian app to track your credit and to understand what factors affect your score Wait at least 6 months before applying for another card. Every credit inquiry will ding your score temporarily, and if you apply too frequently it gives the impression you're irresponsible with money and you're likely to be denied Apply for 2nd, 3rd, 4th card at 6 month intervals to increase your score faster, but choose the…
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 02:08 AM
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I just keep it friendly, casual, professional depending on the setting. Following the rules will only attract unwanted attention
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 01:37 AM
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Yes, it looks scary. But a wise man once said "Time in the market beats timing the market" Valuations can stay elevated indefinitely or crash next week or next year. You never know. If you wait on the sidelines holding cash, there is opportunity cost. But don't go all in at one time, dollar cost average. Keep buying on the way down, as well as on the way up
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 12:44 AM
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Should correct you and say that she's a "Free Spirit"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 12:36 AM
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"Business owner" means no stable income (other than child support), no savings, or retirement plan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/21 12:34 AM
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I wouldn't wait for a crash. Market can be irrational for a long time, and you can miss the upside. I'd diversify domestic and international ETFs and dollar cost average. And allocate small percentage for a long shot gamble like crypto. Agree with everything else.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 12:27 AM
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Love it. Similar sentiments with stoicism
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 12:21 AM
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Even though you're not overly thirsty, you don't find it impossible to have sex with women, so you're not an incel. You still concern yourself about your relationship with women, so you're not MGTOW. Yoi have blanket disdain for women as a whole (not specific behaviors or opinions) and see them only as a utility for sex. However you got to this point, I think you're just straight up misogynist. Depending on what you want from your life, you can try to fix it or live with it. But I don't think it…
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 07:53 PM
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Do you define your self-worth based on female validation? If so, and you’re unable to get it, then maybe you’re an incel. But it sounds to me that you are comfortable in your own skin but you have difficulty relating to women due to your childhood experiences and your relationship with your mother. That doesn’t make you an incel (stupid term, I agree) since your problem isn’t difficulty finding someone to have sex with, but rather building a functioning relationship with them. I would recommend …
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 06:32 PM
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Right. Only a woman can red pill a man
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 04:23 PM
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If you mention "red pill" or "MGTOW" and he sees a news article the next day about the manosphere, then you immediately become a hateful misogynist who was radicalized online. I'd just drop a red pill here and there depending on context, and see if he takes interest on his own
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 11:24 AM
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This is some schoolyard BS. Don't let her see you upset
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 12:56 AM
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She's young, so she'll admire your confidence, accomplishments, wealth etc and enjoy the lifestyle so she'll give you 5-7 years max. But get ready for the complaints of feeling like she's "missing out" on life and the fun (read random dick) that her friends are having. Then she'll rewrite history saying she was immature and you were manipulative and controlling, then hit you with divorce. I say have your fun with her then find yourself a 27-30 year old with not too many ghosts of boyfriends past
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 12:49 AM
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Yeah, I found subs on the list I never knew existed, lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 07:14 PM
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Absolutely beautiful! Imagine how many hours he was working to make 700k, all the while missing out on his time with the kids, leisure and free time etc. He was a classic betabux deluxe. I'm glad he finally woke up
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 04:32 PM
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I don't have similar experience, but it's crazy that false accusers just skate away. If anything, she should be held accountable for wasting law enforcement resources on some BS. Even simply calling 911 for frivolous reasons has some consequences. Hang in there
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 04:23 PM
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Work more, earn more, but also spend more. The true metric of comparison should be leisure time, disposable income & savings
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 05:16 AM
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hmm... so they were co-parenting while in a long term relationship. I still don’t see the purpose of involving the government in this arrangement if it was working fine. I’m glad it worked for you, but I don’t think this is a viable option for most people
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 02:38 AM
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Right. Men tend to skip regular check ups and ignore small health problems. But I’m not sure if the studies differentiated between divorced men and those that were never married. I would think divorced men live much shorter and poorer lives after living through the meat grinder of family court
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 02:26 AM
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huh? How does that even work? Why even sign the marriage contract then? No financial benefits since both partners pay for each household. No benefit in raising a child in a two parent household. Easier to cheat. I don’t see the purpose of getting married
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 01:35 AM
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Wow, the more I hear these things, the more I believe society enables women to never grow up. In the old days women were still women, but at least they behaved like adults. But now with no one telling them no, and any criticism for bad behavior being labeled as sexist or misogynistic, they are never forced to grow up. In this setting they never come out of their childish and solipsistic way of thinking
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 01:23 AM
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Are you trying to control what she does with her time? Off to jail with you
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 12:53 AM
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I think that’s the point. Make seemingly minor offenses criminal on paper, but enforcing them selectively.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 12:47 AM
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A feminist who wants chivalry? Sign me up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 01:23 AM
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If it was just long distance, you can't be sure you were her only contact on the line she was reeling in. And you're right she's in her epiphany phase, so good on you for side stepping that 🪤
/r/MGTOW227/03/21 03:19 PM
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This looks fake. No woman will have this level of self awareness, let alone articulate it to someone else. She would have stopped sex with her boyfriend and cheated, justifying it in her head any way she wants. But it still stands to show, women will break rules for the alpha, and make rules for the beta
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 03:13 PM
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Why do you care? Do your own thing. And you better get used to seemingly incompetent people skating through the cracks and getting to high places. Life's not fair like that. You know what they call a doctor who graduated bottom of his class? They call him Doctor. So stop giving a f*ck about other people. GYOW
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 12:58 AM
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Wow, Chad branded her like a piece of meat. I bet she was happy to get it too. It's made her feel special
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 10:59 PM
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People tend to follow heard mentality in those situations. If the mood of the class is laid back/complaining about the subject or lecturer, most people will just do that to fit in even if they don't feel the same way. I attended every lecture and disengaged from the crowd, but kept 2 or 3 people close so that I don't miss out on important information like schedule changes, exam content, important notes from seniors, etc. Otherwise I pretty much went at my own pace and simply ignored the general …
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 10:54 PM
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Delusion 💯
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 10:41 PM
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What kind of f***ery is this? Is this for one institution or national guideline? And do they have similar restrictions for female sterilization?
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 10:38 PM
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I heard somewhere that women are looking for Frankenstein's monster. By that I mean Dr Frankenstein went to a cemetery and took the bones from one body, the organs from another, the arms and legs from another etc and created his monster. In the same light, women want this guy's confidence, that guy's money, another guy's looks, a different guys dick, etc etc and go their whole lives on the CC collecting parts of the perfect man, and in the end getting disappointed because they can't find everyth…
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 07:17 PM
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She's not psycho. She just said the quiet part out loud. I bet this what most women think when they feel they're not getting the attention they think they deserve
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 07:00 PM
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Because it's propaganda. It's not meant to be analyzed or questioned. It's meant to be repeated until it is believed
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 05:55 AM
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Yeah. They actually spelled it out in France. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/16/world/europe/paris-too-many-women-fine.html
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 06:13 PM
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In my 20s during my farewell party before traveling to the US, my uncle pulled me aside for a chat. This man was in his 60s, had traveled the world in the navy, and was married with kids. But he basically told me to stay on my purpose, and not let the "wrong" type of woman in to my life. I thought that was a weird thing to say at the time, but little did I know that the default settings for women basically makes them the "wrong" type. Nothing can derail a man's life faster than a woman
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 04:08 AM
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Remember the adage that says most MGTOW are a good BJ away from returning to the plantation. You're not the first one to fall for the honey trap, and you won't be the last. Be glad you got out clean
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:39 AM
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Yeah. A lot of the time it's not just about the money. They want to watch you hurt. Be it losing your child or something else you love/value. If you're content without them, they take it personally and go the extra mile to make you miserable
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:34 AM
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Do what women do and tell them that you’re focusing on your career, and you’ll let them know when you’re ready to settle down. In the mean time, avoid toxic friends and build yourself up to get out from under your parents thumb.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 03:16 AM
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The definition of "abusive" has been expanded so much, that today in 2021, I think it's defined as "Making a woman feel bad"
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 05:09 PM
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I think you're deluding yourself if you think the "good feminists" are somehow concerned with problems men face. They have no power and are nothing more than background noise when they tell you "not all feminists are like that". Meanwhile, the crazies with all the funding and political influence write up laws and form policies that actively harm men
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 04:57 PM
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It's the definition of gynocentrism. "Men are being mistreated, and it's bad for women." Similar to the article a while back that said "Men are falling behind financially, and it's bad because women can't find eligible husbands.”
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 04:48 PM
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We will still be alive 10 or 20 years from now when this thread is blasted with articles of how these women's only fans came back to haunt them in one form or another. I think very soon these sites will introduce features to block a "creator's" content geographically. That way, no one in her state/country can view her content, removing the social consequences entirely. I'm surprised they haven't done it already. But the good thing is pretty soon, too many women will start to do it, and it will b…
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 08:13 PM
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I am in the same boat. I have a childhood friend who moved to a different country right after high school and we lost touch. About two years ago I got invited to his wedding, and heard their story. She’s quite pretty and experienced, and he was the stereotypical nice guy “backup plan”. I heard how she would tell him about all the horrible guys she’s dating, until one day she suddenly realized that he’s always been there. They have a kid now, and I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. I keep my …
/r/MGTOW207/01/21 12:53 PM
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What about divorced men? They live longer too?
/r/MGTOW207/01/21 12:31 PM
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Beware the bait-and-switch. (and the common-law marriage rules where you live)
/r/MGTOW205/01/21 12:33 AM
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I think the whole set up and methods used in therapy today don’t take into account the unique ways in which men communicate. For example talking while facing each other versus both parties facing the same direction, talking while engaged in another activity like walking, drinking, or working, etc. and the “How does it make you feel?” Question. I’m not in the profession, but if I want to talk with a guy I wouldn’t sit him in a quiet, empty room and pester him with questions about his feelings.
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah, I’m pretty sure the dude smashing that girl OP likes wasn’t hanging around in the discord server
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 01:33 AM
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You don’t battle against it. The girls in their 20s are now at their peak. They can have anything and anyone (for now). For you, now is the time to build yourself. Your mind, your body, and your finances. Men usually start lower on the totem pole, and if you take the right steps right now, in a few years you’ll be in an upward trajectory, and the tables will turn. Most importantly, stop caring what others think, and stop seeking validation from others. And if you’re here to learn how to find a u…
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 01:23 AM
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Woman gets abused => Lets give her more stuff Woman abuses => Oh, let’s give her more stuff
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/21 09:26 PM
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Further proof that the father is seen as nothing more than a walking ATM in the eyes of the family court
/r/MGTOW201/01/21 06:11 PM
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Please don’t refer to it as a “movement”. Movements seek to advance a particular social/political agenda, but MGTOW is more of a lifestyle choice made by each individual man. I personally believe the systems today are damaged beyond repair, especially in the current gynocentric society. I’ll look after my own well-being by sidestepping all the traps that seek to extract resources and sacrifice from men. You won’t find me attending a political rally or campaigning for a politician.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 09:50 PM
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Is it time for yet another hit piece already?
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 07:56 PM
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