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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 72 | The bar is several meters below hellDon't date men who travel for work. The chances are too high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 30 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄This. I did. There were other horrible factors making me miserable as well, but it played a large part. Male lurkers, hyper-consume all the porn you like while in a relationship if you’re prepared to deal with the damage it causes your partner. (This, they’re okay with. They’re just not okay with how damaging their partner impacts themselves.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:00 AM |
| 65 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?I’m probably going to get downvoted for this but in high school, looking back, probably at least half the guys were cute. Now almost all right swipes on dating apps (which are so rare) are accompanied by thoughts like, “He doesn’t look like a misogynist asshole so, okay, I guess, even though I’m not really attracted to his appearance otherwise much at all.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 24 | Why do I feel like this fits here?Too real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:50 AM |
| 11 | Boys learn disrespect towards women thru their fathers and the media.It’s so much fucking worse to me that guys can be gone for ten minutes and knock somebody else up without you ever knowing. At least a baby will eventually show features that belong to the parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Boys learn disrespect towards women thru their fathers and the media.If you learn his father was violent with his mother, leave him. Even if he appears self-restrained and respectable, chances are he’s learned misogynistic views from his father which you may not see revealed until it’s too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 9 | Why have I never heard about this woman until now? She helped 600 women get out of forced/abusive marriages before divorce was an option!Here’s another: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Giovanna_Bonanno It’s remarkable that these women went down in history. The ones doing more positively notable things during that time were just oppressed and silenced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 122 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021Same, girl, same. The term “making love” sounds so foreign to me because I associate sex with him taking out his hatred on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:03 AM |
| 70 | If a man says he can't think of you sexually because he respects you too much, RUN!🚩🚩🚩🚩Lmao this is so true. My ex said exactly this about certain women he didn’t try to sleep with and to explain why he slept with other women. He is most definitely a misogynist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Queen Energy!!There is a recent third film. They just changed the angels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 22 | Why do they LIE LIE LIE?Girl, our stories are so, so similar. Narcissists love to gaslight others and that can really fuck up your sense of reality, your moral code and your trust in yourself. I wish these personality disorders were taught in high school so we could have avoided them in others. More men than women are narcissists, so naturally, it'll never happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:37 AM |
| 64 | Why do they LIE LIE LIE?Yeah, you really shouldn't ignore gut feelings. I know a lot of people will fear they're being paranoid, but if you keep getting that same sort of feeling with the same person in different contexts, more often than not, there is something to it. However, sometimes it's not even a gut feeling. Sometimes, it's just a passing thought that seems extremely out of place given how you feel about him and the context. I don't have a great memory, but I remember a specific thought in a given moment becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 43 | “Men fake entire relationships”If he was telling the truth, it kind of sounds like he was a narcissist and you were his narcissistic supply. Maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 17 | A man's body count does not matter, it's the mindset that he has with sex that matters.Maybe I should rename /r/nonsluttymen to /r/nonsluttynonpornaddictedmen but it unfortunately doesn’t quite roll off the tongue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 14 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.Omg, his lies are so fucking stupid and he probably is older than he says. He’s a manipulative predator. Your friend should block and delete him ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 39 | Another person said it. Never allow porn in a relationship if you want a healthy relationship.It also fucking sickens me how they always expect the WOMAN to do new things or let herself be discomforted or hurt by him in order to give him a dopamine rush from the novelty. It’s like, dude, if you really wanted to make sex better for the both of us, you’d be spending YOUR money buying a sexy fireman costume for YOURSELF and putting on a show for ME. YOU would shave your nasty ass hair and nairing your back hair. YOU would be watching what you eat a little bit instead of getting drive throug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:07 PM |
| 95 | Another person said it. Never allow porn in a relationship if you want a healthy relationship.That is narcissistic abuse and it can be subtle. It could be him asking you to do what they do in the videos to the point of undesired discomfort or pain. It’s him clearly being bored of regular sex without something new after not having had that much sex together relative to the possibility of being together for the rest of your lives. Like if he is asking you to be a sex circus monkey two years after you both lose your virginity when you still live with your parents, what is sex going to be li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 196 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.I wish we could start an outreach program to teen girls everywhere and teach them about basic FDS principles as well as the stuff FTND.org teaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:53 PM |
| 57 | Can’t turn a headache into a husband. 🤷🏻♀️“Communal dick,” hahaha. /r/nonsluttymen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalWe’re just walking tits to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:22 PM |
| 17 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalWe should have a stickied thread about why being single rather than being with a LVM is better, and this should be one of the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:19 PM |
| 21 | Always check who they follow on social mediaMy ex had a sports forum account that didn’t interest me. I should have read his posts at the time. I would have seen the time he happened to mention me in a post included a lie about me for no good reason, and made me look way more ignorant than I was about the sport. Discovered years later he is some kind of compulsive or pathological liar with the biggest “nice guy” front ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | “porn is healthy”I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to discover within a few short days all the medical conditions that porn addicts inflict upon their own dicks. Peyronie’s is another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:54 PM |
| 8 | “porn is healthy”TIL: Paraphimosis is when the foreskin is pulled back behind the tip of the penis and becomes stuck there. The retracted foreskin and the penis become swollen, fluid can build up, and the foreskin is unable to return to its original position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 14 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️It’s convenient that she’s a neurosurgeon because he needs a lobotomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 16 | Where are the hot men?If all I had to go on physically was a guy’s eyebrows to get turned on, I’d rather not have sex at all. I can make myself orgasm every time and my imagination won’t disease me, hurt me or knock me up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 10 | Where are the hot men?Most men are hotter when they’re 22 than 32 because most barely take care of themselves if at all... I don’t know who obsessed over Aaron Carter besides 12 year olds when he was 15 in 2002. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 22 | Where are the hot men?Objectively hot men are very rare. No shade, but how did you manage to have sex with men you weren’t attracted to? I know this happens a lot, but I wanna make sure I get it. Would you get into it simply because they made you feel attractive and that compensated? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 146 | Guy admitting that he lied about liking a girl so that he could have sex with herNever in my life would I have ever dated someone wearing a backwards cap. It’s such a small thing but it is seriously a telltale sign of him being a human garbage fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 274 | I really hope his gf leaves him over this. How is she not supposed to take that personally? Of course he won't answer the question.This is how they all think, just in varying degrees. The quickest way to get body dysmorphia is to get a boyfriend. They don’t think of women as people. It would be one thing if it was about weight gain due to excessively unhealthy habits, but looking too old in the face at 27?! What is she supposed to do about getting a year older?! I give up. Men are not loveable. It’s time for us to collectively use them like they all use us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 48 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened.They get off on our suffering and inflicting pain on us. Why do you think so many straight men are obsessed with sticking their dicks in a hole that is not only not able to take a dick, but is literally full of shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:55 AM |
| 53 | Another wonderful reminder!It’s all valid. Getting physically cheated on can make a woman feel physically undesirable, too, and that’s not a petty reaction especially given how much men primarily care about our looks instead of more of who we are as people, like women do for men. You should check out FTND.org. They echo that these are all valid reasons. They can often be interconnected, too. Like, say a male porn viewer knows that the porn actress is likely getting abused and hurt, but still watches what she’s in, anyway,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 47 | Another wonderful reminder!Literally my life story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 17 | He wanna spank my ass but he don’t want me to stomp his balls?? Now I only use Tinder just to laugh at these dummies w my friends.We should come up with memes, one of these days, that echo this sentiment of reciprocity of sexual abuse more succinctly, then have it passed around the depths of the internet until this hypocritical depravity is stomped out of these brutes. How convenient for us that their most prized possessions, their wieners, are on the exterior of their bodies and are so fragile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Girl, I’m so fucking jealous of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 64 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornMy millennial ex destroyed my life with shit like this. Literally every area of my life is destroyed because of the paths he insisted on for us. Everyone thought he was such a nice guy. He wiped out my self esteem. He was insidiously misogynistic, manipulative, even (usually) covertly abusive and it took me many years to discover he is a pathological liar, too. Disrespect will take its toll, especially when it’s years of disrespect that you tried to ignore and then one day it just comes to a hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 41 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornEveryone needs to share this article with others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 49 | Any advice going into my 20’s?Focus on your education, hobbies, including physical hobbies for your health plus creative/social hobbies, and platonic friendships. If you don’t know what education you want yet, work full time first and save money to later put a down payment for an income property (like a studio condo you rent out). You need a best friend who isn’t a boyfriend who you can trust like a sister. Do not become overly dependent on a man for any weakness in your life. He can seem like an angel for years and then tur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 12 | Reading fiction enhances empathy, emotional intelligence and tolerance. This explains a lot. Some men only read non-fiction (or eNtRePenEuR books) and refuse to "waste their time" with stories. This mentality is then applied to their relationships. Rings a bell?Some men even with an advanced education refuse to read any books outside of what their schooling necessitates at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 57 | As a woman whose never given birthI would absolutely lose it. He would never see his kid again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 106 | As a woman whose never given birthI know, right?! I feel the same way. Then, how cheating and abuse skyrockets during pregnancy. Fuck that. No woman should have a guy’s kids unless he worships the ground she walks on. I and a lot of women don’t even want kids that much when we’re single and not in love. The idea is nice, but only when you think of it as a stork bringing the children along to us. That’s the reality to men, though. We’re storks to them. They turn a blind eye to our sacrifice and pain, which is not just pregnancy, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:02 PM |
| 16 | Husband brings home new gf to meet his 14 year old daughter 3 WEEKS after his wife’s deathIt’s a boy. It says 14M. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:00 PM |
| 30 | Husband brings home new gf to meet his 14 year old daughter 3 WEEKS after his wife’s deathThe kid is a boy. It’s at least a little good to see that a male teen has a moral compass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 30 | Husband brings home new gf to meet his 14 year old daughter 3 WEEKS after his wife’s deathJesus Christ, it’s the MOTHER OF HIS CHILD OR CHILDREN and he acts like this? A car crash, too, so it’s not like it was something that had been coming for years - it was very sudden. This is why you don’t ruminate on “what if” thoughts of lost male love interests. The possibility that their “love” is this shitty is too high. The stats and stories are ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 11 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendThe exact same thing happened to me. Combined with other things, it led me down a very dark road. Like, to the point of my life being ruined. I hope this post prevents a few other women in similar circumstances from doing the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 20 | Do not ever, ever put yourself into the situation where your last friend is your boyfriendSomething similar happened to me. My advice is to have different friend groups that never interact with each other. Even if it’s not your fault, you may have a snake of a “best friend” who talks badly about you behind your back to other close friends that you both share to increase her “rank” with them, even if those things are not true, are half-truths based on your secrets or are purely subjective. You often don’t know you have bad friends until it’s too late. Don’t ask me how to make new frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 307 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳All too common in today’s age. At least he was honest. No real life woman can please him, now. He’s damaged pornsick goods. I just can’t believe it only took a few weeks to get this bad. Wow. If a guy consistently isn’t tripping over himself to have sex with you when you offer, unless he’s sick, it’s game over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 11 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)Yup. If he uses excuses of how he’s too busy studying and/or working now for the future (for the “both” of you) to see you more than about once a week to get his d wet after scarfing down some junk food, and he’s not your fiancé or husband, move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:36 AM |
| 44 | Canadian Article on 65+ age Women NOT Wanting Live-In Boyfriends or Husbands. Queen vibes.So, so much more is expected of women in relationships than men, it’s ridiculous and the narrative needs to change faster. A man expects a woman to birth and breastfeed his baby? Okay, then he does ALL of the cooking and cleaning for a long time, and it should not he praised, it should be EXPECTED. Shit like that. I’m glad that even older women brought up with a lot more misogynist bs are starting to see the light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I would no longer call him my father if I were you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:28 AM |
| 12 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I wish a lifetime of pain upon your brother. Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:26 AM |
| 169 | Am I the only one who is heterosexual and would - in theory - love having a loving partner and a family, but after seeing all the degeneracy of men, has just given up on it completely and deemed men in general to be undateabl/unwantable?You are far from being the only one, but FDS has a lot more women like us than the norm. We have been sold a lie about family life as children and also grew up in the most pervert-creating era that has ever existed. Not to mention the undercurrent of misogyny and how men can literally buy sexual experiences. Some guy on another subreddit literally told me today that it is male nature to hurt the physically weaker gender, women, to feel powerful. Also, the stats of male violence towards women don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:26 AM |
| 5 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesI remember being 9 years old and my semi-stepbrother at the time hiding under my bed to try to watch me undress. I cannot imagine living in this era with this type of porn being rampant and having a stepbrother like this, much less not even being able to tell a parent. Imagine life for kids 5, 10, 15 years from now. This is so sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 2 | I see so many discussions of women complaining how difficult dating is and constant experiences with low effort men and bullshit in general. Could this be the future?Really? What country are you in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:13 PM |
| 26 | I see so many discussions of women complaining how difficult dating is and constant experiences with low effort men and bullshit in general. Could this be the future?Or just adopting. I’ve never understood the appeal of destroying your body not just aesthetically but probably functionally when there are so many orphaned babies out there. Just to pass on your own genes? Your DNA is probably not the best. Someone mentioned maternal urges. I do have maternal urges. I had a breastfeeding urge once, but never had my own baby. Nonetheless, even with such instincts, pregnancy seems especially unappealing when the probable father makes little or no sacrifice for you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Summary of that book's archetypes (not gonna mention the name of book cause bots think I am a scrote)Look at Robert Greene’s body of work and you’ll figure it out pretty quickly. I have a few of his books. They’re generally immoral, but I guess it’s good to read if you’re naive in the world of dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 80 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.Reddit attracts the worst men because it is primarily a porn site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:02 PM |
| 6 | I’m so tired of men harassing and trying to intimidate me in publicGet your license and a car if you don’t already have these. Pretty much all the instances where I was bothered by strange creeps when I was young was when I was on a commute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 4 | I’m so tired of men harassing and trying to intimidate me in publicThere are some online ones you can get started with before going to a real class. https://www.udemy.com/topic/self-defense/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:04 PM |
| 9 | I’m so tired of men harassing and trying to intimidate me in publicTake some self defence classes. Strength train and practise striking. Walk with your keys in between your fingers. Walk with an aggressive confidence and with a resting bitch face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:07 AM |
| 17 | Summary of that book's archetypes (not gonna mention the name of book cause bots think I am a scrote)Most people don’t fit into a box but Robert Greene sure does know how to present ideas to sell books. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:38 AM |
| 15 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?He frequently turns conversations to sex or to things he’s seen in porn. With my ex, when I would type WTF, he would respond with a “joke” of “What Titty Fu*k”? He also would randomly, constantly bring up his dick as some sort of stupid punchline to irrelevant subjects. His humour was regurgitated pornsickness. Sex always had to start with me blowing him. Always. He was not interested in fondling my body first as foreplay because clearly, it did not measure up to pornstars. There are tons of oth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎I hate that women will so easily drop porn use out of guilt for hurting their male partners but the same behaviour from men for their female partners is more rare. Is it a lack of love or a lack of moral character? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Nathaniel Branden (psychologist) said it best. Misogynist are automatically insecure and have low self esteemI’ve had this book forever and never read it. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | I screamed lmaooYeah, let’s not shame male virgins. I like /r/nonsluttymen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | It's not difficult to decipher after deep diving in the mud pool of datingThe birthday thing so hard. Literally the only way that so many of them consistently “appreciate” you is in a sexual manner, and you know they see that as “dominating,” “conquering” and “using” you, so it doesn’t mean much. I suppose that leaves them paying for things, but I can pay for myself, especially if you add no other value to my life besides being a human dildo, thank you very much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:07 PM |
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