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Im just gonna be honest no men really care about your job. Its performative, the same way women will always console a man if he opens up but then uses it against him later, or tells her group chat that her BF is soft. I promise you no man actually cares about what you did at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:40 PM
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dont mean it like that. just saying alot of guys would be happy just having a women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:59 PM
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I'd say women objectively care about looks way more which is proven IRL by tinder swipes/Cold approach vids. IRL women literally don't register average men as humans. Look at most women, they all want a guy thats 4x more attractive than them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:12 PM
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Reminds me of a "600lb life" episode where a mom basically enabled her 24yo son to reach 900lbs in bodyweight, not have a driver's license nor ever graduate high school. She just keeps feeding him. Our Moms' words hold supreme until we wake up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:56 PM
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Shout out all the orphans, just more proof of promiscuity as most orphans are products of ONS/Hookups/FWB/People that shouldn't have kids. Even foster parents can be pretty bad like you say. Point being: Parents can influence the odds of their son becoming an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:41 PM
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I’d say most boys struggle making friends in Hs. Turns out when you “be yourself” you don’t fit in with others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:50 PM
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Im talking about more nuanced stuff, like learning how to wear phsyique-fitting clothes (HUGE), Leanmaxxing, Learning the basics of small talk and social rules around women. Most teen guys struggled like me due to no nuanced advice that actually helps in 2010s-2020s. Big part was wearing form-fitting clothes and talking slowly, loud, showing interest but not too much. I lost out on a potential good chick a while ago because I gave her a handshake instead of a hug
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:57 PM
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Thats true genuine pure attraction, men literally just like women without any degree/IQ needed tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:47 PM
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Yea i mean this is intentional by her lol. No excuse for that level of irresponsibility even if she had schizo, you have to be serious about having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:44 PM
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Uplifiting and encouraging? Where's that energy for men lol? literally only top 20% of men are getting any action because women literally view men as success objects
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:31 PM
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Yeah, schools have gotten worse due to bad behavior. Creates a situation where women almost favor the degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:07 PM
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Yes just look at Indian men in America, they basically need a cultural guide if they wanna have any chance at dating. Western way of dating is unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:05 PM
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This works but sometimes the son isn't as attractive as the father (like me). If women were serious about their stated preferences our country would be in a much better place. Imagine if women only procreated with intelligent, emotionaly vunerable, good guys, would eliminate alot of the problems you see today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:01 PM
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Just help him self improve and get in front of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:59 PM
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Which is even more important young men aren't too sheltered in HS/College. The one time where most people meet their future wife , parents cockblock
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:58 PM
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Reminds me of those moms that rush their late 20s sons into marrying, happened to my friend. He's miserable now. Mothers over romanticize relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:56 PM
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Lol South Korean dating culture is terrible. So it's either become a doctor or be single forever ? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:52 PM
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"Figure it out on your own". this is why there's so many socially awkward young men, we have no true guidance. Just daily practical tips would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:49 PM
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>their child is struggling. If you notice that your son never gets invited out, doesn’t talk about having friends etc You should try to help him with advice, therapy, signing him up for extracurriculars if you can etc. This 100%. Alot of parents, particularly fathers, don't pay attention to their kids. Like how have you not noticed your son has no social life lol. Try to help him out lol. I believe parenting has more to do with male dating struggles these days than anything else. Parents need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:47 PM
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Exactly. Alot of Boomers were toxic people that had kids to just have them lol. My Grandpa literally told me my mom was a mistake lmao. This parenting style obviously doesn't work on neurodivergent, shy personality types, throwing me to the wild just makes me crash and burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:43 PM
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Yes, what you described doesn't happen in most households which explains why men are doing so bad. Made me realize only certain types of people should have kids, people that actually care about them as humans not just objects/pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 PM
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Exactly lol. I had a oofy doofy Gen X dad who kinda lucked into meeting my mom. He was broke. Gen X oofy doofy dads don't understand they'd be screwed today if they were single. Reminds me of my Co-Worker, he's an Oofy Doofy dad that allows his son to just game constantly and never work out, so now he's fat. Now the dumb Gen X dad is too low iq to understand why his son doesn't have a gf. He didn't get his son braces neither despite being able to afford it, then acts surprised lol. Alot of Socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:33 PM
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Women manipulate via makeup and social media. Its all apart of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:28 PM
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I’ll never empathize with FA women tbh. It’s just clinically obese/sub5 women that are delusional about the type of guy they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:22 PM
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Non obese , childless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:35 PM
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Hell no, the housing market is a good representation of the dating market. I have to make 6 figs of if I even wanna date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:15 PM
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Yep, I have a friend, he was a 28yo loser with no skills but because he was tall and has a good beard, met a rich chick that’s paying for his schooling currently
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:24 PM
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If you have to do all these extra favors to get a girl that means you’re ugly most likely. Modern women break rules for chad then make rules for sub5 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:23 PM
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Yep I’d agree 100% and your correct. Some guys have to beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:59 PM
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You live in a privileged bubble. Metro areas aren’t most of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:27 PM
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Look at facts and data
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:24 PM
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A lot of those women sell pussy/ basically do sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:23 PM
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You don’t understand. If something has a 95% failure that is basically out of your control , would you still do it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:33 PM
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That lack of self awareness is why our country will fall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:29 PM
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Convo skills tbh are not as important as people make it. I would say most guys know how to converse already, basic human shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:15 PM
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Yea a lot of women are too delusional for their own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:59 PM
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Yes. Hoeflation is real. My classmate friend became a pharmacist but she’s morbidly obese and is delusional about the type of guys she can get. This is social media+ feminism working . Western decline is real
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:55 PM
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You’re invisible to female privilege due to hoeflation. Imagine you go to 30 events and get rejected still. Waste of time. You being a woman you can’t begin to comprehend male life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:21 PM
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Stop telling guys they’re a wuss for not wanting to get repeatedly rejected 100x in a row. I guarantee if you went months with 40+ rejections your mentality would be different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:04 PM
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Most guys already do this ,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:46 PM
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It’s pointless if you’re an average guy. It’s just dating apps in real life(based on genetics:jawline, height ) and except the women are worse looking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:18 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. Guys need to stop thinking your convo skills can sway a woman😂. It’s 99% based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:08 PM
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Your overestimating the skill required to converse with a woman. If a woman is physically attracted to you, you can have a normal conversation with her without trying. Look at the 20v1/speed dating YouTube videos. It’s literally all immediate rejections based on immutable traits. Hoeflation has increased the work needed by 10x
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:07 PM
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It’s lowkey better to have any status at all rather than just be an average 9-5er lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:10 PM
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yea man IRL completely disagrees with what any woman says on reddit lol. The 22yo good christian guy is probably struggling more than a convicted felon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:19 PM
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Women run on autopilot & lack self-awareness. Narcissistic and solipsistic. Generally can't form opinions without checking what TikTok feminists say or the female herd. Complete followers. alot of cognitive dissonance & delusion You literally can't state facts around certain women because they're so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:16 PM
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Exactly lol, why does so much of the prison population have children lol. 18-25yo women would literally rather harbor a fugitive than deal with a good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:41 PM
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If tinder works for your that means =blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:40 AM
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Yea I’d say most femcels are delusional. They know their lack of self care is the true reason but they deny it because of ego
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:12 AM
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This is if the feminization agenda isn’t fully complete already. With 50% of boys being born out of wedlock it’s lowkey already over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:59 AM
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Thats crazy I wouldn't expect this study to have those results lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:28 PM
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Yea it’s pretty clear that women take full advantage of being socially uplifted. It hits different when there are men I know IRL that married chicks I had ONS with, and to think that husband may never know…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:16 PM
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>Most men stop making an effort in terms of their looks or romance, and a huge reason women lose their sex drives after kids is being exhausted from taking care of both the kids and the husband. Look at the couples you see IRL. The woman always lets herself go meanwhile the husband is more fit and trying. Women love the "chill and get fat" aspect of relationships way more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:22 PM
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Because our current society doesn't hold women accountable for anything really. I know multiple women with body counts in the 100s that easily did the bait & switch. Women truly live in a different world that I can't comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:19 PM
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Nothing tbh. Dressing nice doesn’t really do anything if your sub5 genetics wise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:31 PM
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Yes but you gotta realize 80% of these dudes are simps in real life, me included. Too introverted and shy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:41 PM
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Listen to the women around me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:36 PM
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Yep. Unless you’re a nepo baby you’re going to lose to a richer guy no matter what. It’s like accepting life as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 AM
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Think about every woman you’ve interacted with, she was silent until she started talking about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:40 AM
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Just acknowledge the facts. Ho3flation has allowed women to be terrible while men have to sacrifice everything to get a crumb of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:29 AM
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But when most young men are single it signals a much bigger systemic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:56 AM
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Deff upper middle class so the women have higher IQs, in most Lower class circles Pookies reign supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:22 AM
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Extremely selfish and self centered. Most women only care about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:06 AM
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Women will never come flat out and say “she left you because you’re a fucking loser and she’s never yours it’s just your turn. “
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:59 AM
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No point imo. Women will never be honest and admit their hypergamy/narcissm/solipsm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:47 AM
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Yea, the physical attraction makes us push stuff under the rug until it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:07 PM
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Just look it up. Dark triad traits reign supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:36 PM
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That’s in your upper class circle of prolly white friends. But in my ethnic community, the women are brain rotted from their single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:31 PM
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This is what I’m saying. The amount of guys I know personally that can complete a STEM degree is like sub5%, their brains would never be able to handle due to their poor upbringing + lower IQ. And meanwhile you’d be in a job you hate just to be in a relationship. I know guys that have done this but they’re beta af. Wouldn’t have any girls without their job .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:08 AM
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Most young men under 30 are single
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:52 AM
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Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:37 AM
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You’re calling guys lazy for not being top 20%. Hoeflation. The reality is aptitude exists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:37 AM
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“Stop being lazy just become top 20%”. There will never be a society where every man is high earning. Well there was, until we included women in it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:32 AM
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It’s just that men are shamed for being single by their own family, damn near disowned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:03 AM
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My friend group is the perfect display of this. One of them is 6’5 bearded and is lower earning , he has the best dating life hands down. Other went bald at 21 so he has to betabuxx. And I’m the guy in the grey zone that gets nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:01 AM
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Orbiting never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:58 PM
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Doesn't matter really. What you're describing is a borderline pushover. Someone thats your true friend, they don't have to do all these conditional contract-type things to prove their friendship. I can tell you from firsthand experience if you are actually nice it won't get you anywhere either. Rules 1 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:50 PM
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Right but its better off to focus on superficial things that actually get your foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:44 PM
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This makes sense but the reality is women aren't attracted to these things. A drug dealer who abuses women has a higher chance of procreating than a nice hardworking average man. Because women run on autopilot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:41 PM
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everyone knows the qualities of being nice. No guy is getting anywhere being nice. A big part of being a man is standing on business and setting boundaries. WOMEN should be more nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:36 PM
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>I dumped my ex because I realize he’s a piece of shit in a lot of ways. In other words " I like nice guys but don't date them".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:35 PM
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It’s clear as day. Any male that’s been to college in the social media era has seen it, every woman I know has hooked up with an obvious player and had an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:37 AM
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Here’s the thing , a lot of men genuinely don’t understand women, because women will tell you they like one thing when her actions say otherwise. A lot of men have been lied to by women on what attracts them, which leaves men not knowing the truth until they’re like 50yrs old and divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:47 PM
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I’d have to disagree . Most average men already have low standards. They’d willingly settle for an obese chick that never has sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:43 AM
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Of course women love it, we live in a feminist utopia now lowkey . But it’s a dystopia for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:36 PM
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Social media has increased it tenfold though, women are literally scrolling nonstop through 100s of messages which allows them to be pickier for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:26 PM
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Just look up “women’s standards have increased “ you’ll see hella studies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:23 PM
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Tinder studies on match statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:22 PM
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Yea just look at the current dating market, women are very empowered so we get to see how they only go for men they WANT. More women than ever before want Chad or not date at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:20 PM
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It’s clearly observable if you watch dating content and pay attention to women’s conversations. The standards have SKYROCKETED compared to what they provide
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:15 PM
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Provable? Men are held to the same traditional standards of 666. Meanwhile women have been empowered to be terrible. This is a common sense thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:51 PM
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“Just take better photos”. It doesn’t matter if you pay for a photo shoot or not, if your not top 10% genetically you aren’t getting matches
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:50 PM
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That’s mind blowing . This may be where I fucked up, I thought being friends with women doesn’t really help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:46 PM
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lol if you want chad you’re gonna have to actually self improve and approach him. It possible imho it would just require you to actually try
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:39 PM
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They’re in fake relationships and take out all their frustration on their boyfriend. By fake I mean they settled for a guy they’re not physically attracted and making him pay. r/deadbedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:38 PM
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Ho3flation is real. Look at K.Samuels and any dating content, our uncles and fathers never had to be a 6’5 finance bro with cool hobbies to find LTR. 300k salary is the starting point for a lot of women. Meanwhile women are objectively worse at their gender role than ever before Look at the current market:Educated mid women are opting out because they can’t lockdown chad. A lot of women want a HVM or would rather die alone,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:32 PM
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Your perception of average and hot is probably inflated due to social media. I think it’s pretty much accepted that to hook up with a girl fast, you’d have to be way more attractive compared to if you wanted LTR. Women are hypergamous and that’s why they only wanna hook up with guys better looking than them Most unattractive women I know could run circles around me hook up wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:25 PM
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Hoemath proved that women don’t see most men as people. Also you saw K.Samuels basically expose how even objectively undesirable women would never look at a normal guy. Your definition of non-chad is probably better looking than you by 3 pts, you just subconsciously don’t see truly average men. You’re trying to make women seem less shallow but everyone knows women are way pickier. IRL example: Most big chicks only hook up with fit guys, which is basically Chadlite to them.In school the chubby gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:21 PM
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Yes they are , casual hookups are literally 100% based on physical appearance. This means women hook up with guys 5 points above them. We all know one average girl who hooked up with a celebrity or someone of higher status. You know that women only like the top 20% of men and if they can’t get them to LTR , they’ll hookup with him for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:10 PM
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As a an average man that’s been with unattractive women I can assure you their dating lives are 10x better . It’s mostly unattractive women on the apps in the first place , putting up old pictures when they were thin. I saw obese chicks with 600+ matches. Yes dating is slightly harder for unattractive women but only because they always shoot too high. You literally see TikToks of fat chicks crying that the 6’5 finance bro didn’t smile at them😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:18 PM
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I’ve literally settled for obese chicks at one point in my life. Even a morbidly obese chick that lives in the middle of nowhere can have a better dating life than the average man. She can use dating apps to eventually find someone. I’ve seen a female tinder experiment where they literally made the girl ugly on purpose, and she still got hundreds of matches. I’ve seen obese woman’s profiles, last girl I talked to had like 600 matches in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:08 PM
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yea lol and tbh shes a pussy. She sd'd because " i never get any hugs". Try being bullied and gaslighted your whole life because you don't make enough money, and still overcoming it all. That one year wasn't even a spec on the pain and suffering that men experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:05 PM
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It’s whatever women’s are delusional and the government supports it . Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:21 AM
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Ask your mom to take some good ig type photos of you,with you at your most lean weight. Try to be realistic with your swipes, if you swipe right too much your profile will be hidden
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:18 PM
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oh most definely. I have lowkey mastered the apps its just once the app can tell your'e doing good you get nerfed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:54 PM
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Girls who SHOULD be swiping on you? I never typed this bro lol " I've done it. And by picky, you really should be swiping on girls that would swipe on you" You should swipe on girls that would actually swipe right on you, meaning you should have realistic standards. If your good at that the app will boost your profile for getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:42 PM
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because even if your picky with your swipes, that doesn't boost your profile lol. I've done it. And by picky, you really should be swiping on girls that would swipe on you, because the apps boost you based on how many matches you get. Main point: Yes, if you're too thirsty it will hide you. But it doesn't matter for most men because even if they were picky (they'd get no matches) they're profiles are basically invisible already.. Im saying that you're fucked already becaus you're a man thats usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:37 PM
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I would disagree, physical attractiveness is mostly objective. Hence why women all go after the same phenotype of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:30 PM
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It doesn't matter if your picky or not on the app bro, i've done multiple runs and experiments in my free time. Picky swiping for a guy does nothing. It's either you have good genetics or you just eat shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:26 PM
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Right if you swipe alot your profile will be hidden but it also lowkey dosent matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:24 PM
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Tell me about it. Men know the truth now. All the men in 25-40 know that every woman uses dual mating strategy. Thats why you see more men checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:21 PM
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Lol the reality is if you try to be picky you're not getting any matches. every guy has already done this. Doesn't work because ho3flation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:19 PM
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lol yea. when the reality is its a indirect result of including women in everything, everything gets harder and more expensive. All these issues would be solved if we didn't include them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:15 PM
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Im an average guy and I can tell you no woman would be able to handle all the rejection. It is that bad x100. If a woman had to be an average guy for a year they'd self-delete. Apps and internet revealed true female nature which is just being hypergamous as hell based on genetics. My fear is what is your son gonna do when he's 5'10 with an average face in 2034? lol hypergamy will be 10x by then lol. By that point i think they'll figure out a way to get rid of "genetically inferior" men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:06 PM
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have experienced relationships enough to know that they're not all they're cracked up to be 100%. The reality is most married guys are miserable and in conditional relationships. Men will ridicule you for being single meanwhile they're putting up with terrible women, cuckolding themselves for quarterly sex. Literally will raise another mans kid but judge you because you didn't settle down immediatly and be desperate lol. Relationships are just all built around catering to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:57 PM
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All apps already limit your swipes in the free version. Its a scammy tactic to get sub5 men to pay. Im telling you that men are already picky, those guys never get matches. All dating apps are trash for men because women are way too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:49 PM
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Yep this happened to me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:46 PM
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It doesn't matter if you swipe alot or not. Just because your picky with your swipes doesn't mean a girl is gonna like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:44 PM
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but I don't think that's true for most women. See this is the problem. Everyone knows apps are 100% based on looks, go lookup "chad tinder experiment". You could literally put "im a sex offe." in your bio and still slay. I understand that may not apply to you but you know that most women are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:41 PM
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Exactly lol. When most modern women would rather be single, gay, or be a single mom than be with a normal guy, what do you do lol. Its clear that feminist programming + bad economy has basically created a dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:33 PM
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It doesn't matter where they go. There's no solution for this it's kinda depressing tbh. This is how the west will fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:30 PM
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But I'm trying to think of how it could be better for men since the gap is so massive rn. I've spent close to $3000 on outfits, photoshoots, and premium for all the apps (Hinge/Bumble is best), and done all the looksmasking, and work in Finance. There is no solution. When 80% of women only go after the top 20%, no matter if its social circle or online apps, the average guy is invisible. Like if we're gonna be honest, its because modern women are extremely shallow. Like when you chose those guys,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:24 PM
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Men can't afford to be picky on the apps, trust me i've tried. The apps are basically 100% based on genetics. Doesn't matter what a guy does , he'll lose out to some 6'5 bartender guy with facial symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:17 PM
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So you're telling men that they should be choosing beggars basically? The reality is they have to swipe right and cast a wide net or else they won't match with anyone, because ho3flation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:15 PM
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I just don't want to live a life without my gf. It would be like death. Luckily I know she will never cheat. Slave single mother mentality. Your purpose as a man isn't to entertain your gf, Very childish desperate mentality you have. Men like you are the ones who crash out when women do cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:23 PM
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right but thats basically breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:18 PM
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Would you want your son to go back to the girl that cheated on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:18 PM
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No, woman cheating in 2024 is her saying she doesn't give af about you, staying any longer would be a cuck situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:17 PM
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Agreed, I knew an irl Preachers Kid who actually followed the abstinence rules until marriage (which shouldn’t apply to men imo because women literally are turned off by it) Problem is he waited until he was 26yo and it’s almost too late, the scarcity & nervousness seep off him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:07 PM
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That’s objectively false tho , the guys that have the most success with women tend to have the most misygonistic attitudes towards them Example: Women repeatedly getting traumatized by F*kboi types despite being well into their 30s, Tinder Swindler. Most women prefer dark triad anyways, they literally stay with abusers if he’s good-looking .Truth is only genetically inferior men have to do all the nice guy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:58 PM
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The issue is women do this IRL lol. Once again your words don’t align with women’s actions. There are tons of men in relationships with women who are using them for money etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:38 AM
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This is another reason why the West will fall soon, Feminism has successfully programmed gen Z & millennial women to never want to be married. Basically it’s entitlement/women feeling the need to be special. This is what happens when you lean too far left as a society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:34 AM
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It isn’t, a pure nice guy like your describing would be a virgin. Case in point: Guys that succeed in dating don’t do these things. Pay attention to women’s actions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:40 AM
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I’m loling because it doesn’t mean a guy is sweet, even terrible people love dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:38 AM
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A lot of guys I know are so fucked and blue pilled they just tolerate wives who don’t put out + don’t really love them. It’s getting more common these days
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:30 PM
2

Would you say most of the med students were virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:39 AM
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I tried to pre med bro, shit is hard. Gotta be High IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:24 AM
2

Do you think average earning guys have hope ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:13 AM
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Damn, so I should’ve became a doctor. Would fix all my dating issues. Life is so brutal as a man; become exceptional or just never date 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:53 AM
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Would you say most male doctors/lawyers are unattractive? This is why I fell off the med school route tbh, the only motivation was to have a trophy gold digger wife like my uncle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:32 AM
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Still, they’re some desire there because men just desire pussy in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:40 PM
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Statistics & Research has proven this false. Most women want a guy taller,richer,and more established than herself. Most guys just want a normal girl. Men are also way better at settling so this disproves your point. Look at all the beta dudes that become stepdads out of desperation/loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:23 PM
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It’s mostly their diet, people are born with certain metabolism but its up to the person to manage it Which is easier, not being obese or not balding(impossible for men)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:24 PM
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Makes women even more hypergamous financially. Example: Woman I know had a medical issue forcing her to stay with parents to pay medical bills + save for house. This woman is morbidly obese, but she’s extremely hypergamous and wouldn’t date a guy in her same situation , she actually wants a guy who already has a house,truck, etc. Men are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:49 PM
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Let’s not forget basically half of women are obese these days
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:44 PM
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I understand, bets let’s be honest 90% of the time it’s because they have no self-control
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:38 PM
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They do lol. Women are extremely insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:31 PM
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Balding is genetic mostly let’s stop ✋
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:28 PM
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I believe a man should do whatever hobby he enjoys regardless, it’s just that the reason most average guys are single has more to do with not making enough money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:29 PM
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Shouldn’t really put too much time into hobbies until you make decent money to at least get an average chick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:29 PM
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You have to be in some way, especially to get a cute gf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:37 PM
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So ridicule any guy who isn’t exceptional basically 😂. Dystopian af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:21 PM
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OP wants society to shame stepdads & average men even more than they already are 😂😂. Give us a break bro damn, you know women literally only date 2 points above, so a lot of decent guys will have to settle for chubby chicks unfortunately. Either settle or die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:09 PM
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Rarely the case, 90% of the time it’s poor mating choice by the woman then looking for a cleanup guy she can deadbedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:02 PM
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Solipsism. If you were a man you’d understand me 100%, being in a social circle doesn’t guarantee anything besides a few fake conditional friendships. If you don’t meet a girl by college as an average male you’re fucked. Ho3flation ruined everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:35 AM
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Can you stop acting like having male friends means anything ? A chad that shows up alone has a better chance of pulling than an average guy with 300 friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:02 AM
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Lmao the odds are still the same. Clubs are only good for 1 night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:56 AM
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Guys are fucked either way. Social clubs just repeat the same 80/20 rule over again where most chicks want one guy in the group. Just accept defeat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:55 AM
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Moreso when you’re an adult I notice both genders only befriend you based on conditional things, different from those genuine college/HS friendships. Currently I’m experiencing that phase where everyone just asskisses whomever is most successful in the group
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:29 PM
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but it’s true that making friends as an adult male with a full time job is extremely difficult. This 100%. I'm supposed to be striving to make 6 figures by the time I'm early 30s. can't do that working a normal 40 hours especially if I want to move to the city and overpay for Rent Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:01 PM
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Try to make at least 2x the average female median salary Have a group of friends Don’t be too clingy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:48 AM
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Making friends as an adult male is damn near impossible after college 😂. I tried and you hang out one time then they ghost. It’s all based on how much status you have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:32 PM
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Every guy I know in their 30s is married and has no friends due to being a father/husband. Maybe it’s because I live in a somewhat rural suburb as well, but no guy I know in his 30s hangs with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:26 PM
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BS, a lot of millionaires have never worked a normal job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:18 PM
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idk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:16 AM
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In cities for sure, I live in a somewhat rural area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:14 PM
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If you fish for women with money, that's what you'll get: women who like money, not women who like YOU. No woman truly loves a man for him, only what he provides. Money is the average guy's only hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:53 PM
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Talking to random women in public has a 1-5% success rate, not worth it. I would understand social clubs but even then it takes way longer to find a gf that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:49 PM
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There's literally no solution, similar to how men in the past had severely limited dating options due to lack of technology, so more men than women never procreated. This is the life of a man, men will always just have to struggle. Yes you can try to become a millionaire but even if you did everthing you're supposed to do there's a low chance you'll even make 6 figs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:45 PM
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I used to research romance movies to help with women, romance stories are extremely unrealistic. Any average guy that tries to implement these strategies will get incarcerated. Especially the ones where the men do extreme things to get a girl back, that would never work IRL because once a woman's fed up its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:39 PM
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There’s no such thing as game, a woman’s receptiveness to you is based entirely on your immutable physical attributes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:49 PM
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Dystopian af
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:09 AM
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Learning things will help long term maybe if you’re already in a relationship. For most average guys reading a history book will do absolutely nothing to help them attract women😂. Imagine doing all that to end up single still😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:07 AM
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lol all the things he mentioned are things women explicitly dislike talking about on dates😂.science, history, philosophy. Women hate deep philosophical conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:29 AM
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Women are extremely shallow and superficial. They get icks at the slightest mistake and average guy like me makes meanwhile chads can be bums forever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:49 AM
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This is reality stop running from the truth. Everyone settles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:32 PM
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Most guys settle anyway so it’s not really a problem. I’ve done it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:24 PM
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What classifies as normal? Morbidly Obese ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:09 AM
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I see this at work. One of my former coworkers was a classic Oofy Doofy Peter Griffin type dad, morbidly obese. He lets his son game all day then gets mad when he sucks at sports😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:31 PM
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Singles events are worse than tinder when it comes to female pickiness tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:46 AM
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It’s definitely a systemic social problem, most women are unattracted to 80% of men. Single women don’t go to social groups at all so it’s mostly dudes. This is what happens when society becomes too comfortable, women have their pick of the litter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:34 AM
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I’m gonna just be a cheater then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:32 PM
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Women give fake compliments bro. All of it is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:27 PM
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You’re fucked. I’m normal but I’m ethnic 5’10 average earner, I might as well be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:42 PM
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Sad truth is most men are settled for and we can’t do shit about it. Average men are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:17 AM
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You’re not special, you’re gonna have to socialize like everyone else or face the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:12 AM
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All these TikTok trends are successfully dividing us. We’re doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:21 AM
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All I hear is excuses. Initiate interactions or eat shit and die alone. That’s what men have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:13 AM
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Go to a meetup group and just compliment a guy and ask him random questions. Women dont need to have game
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:12 AM
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I knew it was all lies. 90% of women I know don’t have any hobbies meanwhile I have to join 6 meetup groups just to have a chance at finding a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:02 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:59 AM
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This is extremely depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:55 AM
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I have to have low standards due to hoeflation bro, once most of these guys leave college it’s be a stepdad or get with obese chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:24 PM
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It’s 90% because of your looks. You can see in those IRL smash or pass videos that women literally react differently based on a guys look
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:21 AM
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Most likely due to immutable facial features. Top 20% can really be boiled down to genetics and social status, mostly looks imo. The money is just rents women, I’d rather be the Chad getting real arousal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:01 PM
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This needs to be redirected to women mainly. Women settle but make the men pay by being terrible, whereas when men settle they still provide value .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:43 PM
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I’ve done it and it’s pointless. It’s no different from video games imo once you rack up bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:10 PM
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Most autistic women procreate while autistic men have a much lower chance of procreation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:09 PM
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I personally believe this 100%. Dating is 50% out of your control whereas if you’re self disciplined you’ll go far in any career field
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:07 PM
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They wouldn't care. Being high IQ hurts you as a guy IMO; being more neurodivergent makes it harder to relate to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:49 PM
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This is true, women want a rock that can conquer anything, they hate indecisiveness. This is why I just fake it till I make it with women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:42 PM
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Well I’m fine with that, as long as we split bills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:09 PM
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Only women can afford to do this. If every man thought this way society would crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:52 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers. Y’all want a provider but also want him to be home more which is impossible; it’s as if modern women don’t understand trade-offs & compromise. You just want everything and then some. why is it so hard for modern women to be traditionally feminine? If your man is providing you should handle most domestic duties. Why do men have to be traditional but women don’t ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:47 PM
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American men demand the most from women without offering much. And demanding we settle for them? Who's dating requirements list is longer, men or women? Which Gender usually has to bring more to the table ? I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:10 AM
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Excited to see your post. I think BBucks isnt even worth it anymore either, you're getting the worst version of the woman, and any modern woman who settles for me is gonna constantly compare me to men on social media. Just a slow burn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:05 AM
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Men are asking too much and offering too little. Same can be said for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:59 AM
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Yea like at what point does “working on yourself” stop? That’s what I hate about monk mode, you can’t become the perfect person before trying to date or else you’ll die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:22 PM
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Yes! My 21yo cousin who's 6'3 settled for a single mom with 4 kids. As a matter of fact, most of the dudes I know are dating down SIGNIFICANTLY. Shit gets really bad in the rural south
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:36 PM
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Women should disqualify guys who sell drugs/scam/ do illegal things for money, and guys who’re felons. Would be a lot more active fathers this way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:50 PM
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Womanizer would win for sure since men are better at not caring
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:46 PM
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Sounds like you want a gay best friend lol. This is why these Matchmakers quit working with yall. Can your partner watch sports ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:14 PM
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I couldn’t imagine being that picky 😂. Does he only have to watch Bluepill stuff? this guy you’re describing sounds like a weenie Any guy that changes what shows he likes to cater to women is not a natural. He’s a simp who’ll keep getting walked over by women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:06 PM
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I’ve committed to sacrificing everything to find a mate but standards keep increasing every year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:02 PM
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Both yours and society
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:01 PM
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Wanting every guy to ‘step up’ and make $150k isn’t gonna happen simply because of IQ variability among men + most men these days grow up poor due to being raised by single parent. Basically asking every guy to be perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:00 PM
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News flash: most men still make more money than most women so you’re looking in the wrong places or you’re not as attractive as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:31 PM
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Better for what? What is he getting in return? A woman that’s 2x more obese, masculine, and insane than women 100 yrs ago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:26 PM
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I can’t settle for obese(I’m fit) because it’s a high probability they’ll be lazy and I’ll end up with 3 things: Dead Bedroom (from I chick I’m not a even really attracted to) Uncles/Aunts will talk bad about me behind my back for settling Having to bathe them and help them get out of cars and shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:07 PM
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I get where your coming from but your 'stated' preferences are different from your 'revealed preferences'. If you meet a 6'4 Finance Guy that's a stud, you're not gonna care if he watches Joe Rogan or some stupid shit. At this point women are just shitting on any exclusively male space. Your saying all that but most women have actually dated misogynistic, narcistic, abusive men who're felons, even taking care of them. Women will offer their loins to felons while I'm evil because I watch a dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:31 PM
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These could pass just for any average man lol. #1 rule of all manosphere content is never talk about it around women so as long as guys follow that they'll be good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:19 PM
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They invite all types of women on the show from PhD to Escorts, they just exposed how most women’s’ preferences are universal across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:04 PM
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Men have to lead every interaction and be interesting for women to enjoy being around them, that’s where “dancing monkey” came from, those dudes who’d do anything to make chics laugh. It’s a common dynamic men face when dealing with female friends; if I don’t provide utility via leading convos or being entertaining, she’ll ghost me “
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:00 PM
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Modern women view men as ATMS/ personal comedians these days too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:30 PM
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Being an average white man in most surburbs in the US gives you more dating options than an average black man. Most women want white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:26 PM
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hen I've attempted to talk of my deep convo interests, I just get joke responses and/or nods and blank stares. Its been well known in the manosphere that women aren't into philosphy, history, nerdy stuff at the same rate as men. Women are more basic, which is why they all love titktok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:12 PM
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Had a female “friend” straight up tell me that she loved going out with me because she knew I’d make sure she got home safe Men are only valued on the condition that they provide something, especially for women. When you get a girl comfortable she'll always show her true colors lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:54 PM
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I see what you're saying but this is anecdotal. You gotta be honest, most women aren't helping their male friends with anything lol, they're just using them for attention or resources. The moment he stops hitting them up or providing his attention its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:40 PM
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but they don't like me unless I cater to them and basically be their free personal comedian and emotional tissue. I have this same experience, I think its because women just enjoy talking in itself and can be on facetime for hours whereas men can't do that with their friends. Its like every female friend wants to talk constantly and its emotionally draining because they themselves aren't funny/interesting, you have to lead the convos or else it goes nowhere. With guys, they don't demand extreme …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:29 PM
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Very rare lol. Statistically insignificant. And even if it was the case, most men aren't gonna keep a female orbiter around especially if their unattractive unlike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:07 PM
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When I see a sausage fest I assume they are either socially awkward or gay. I sure don’t consider dating men who are dedicated to their all-male group. These modern female standards are weird, you know most men throughout history didn't have female friends right? In some cultures it wasn't even allowed, back in the day men had to work all the time and work was their only social space. Having female friends has nothing to do with how good of a partner a man is imo. If anything it shows the dude i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:50 PM
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You're an outlier. Most Sports groups are 80% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:45 PM
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Yea this proves how they're full of shit. 'Oh my male friends, I don't ever reach out to them first, men are supposed to pay for everything and lead.' I thought women were all about equality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:39 PM
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So what do men do then? Keep being the only one that initiates convos+ hangouts until something happens that proves she never really cared about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:37 PM
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I feel like lesbians don't count especially if they are super masculine, its basically a male friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:30 PM
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I would've left her scarf lol. I've been in these situations with women too many times to count. Something like this wouldn't happen with a male friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:29 PM
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Every friendship with women is orbiting. You're aways giving more than you get out it. While I'll say you have to put in more effort in the beginning to start a friendship, with guys there's always more understanding of reciprocity than with women. Women will accept favors continually without giving back which is disingenuous of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:22 PM
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Okay this one time i failed to help you you ghosted me, did you count how many times I helped u in previous 3 years? No idea, what cost/benefit analysis she did that day. This is the main reason I don't intentionally try to become friends with women, every woman's ego is 10x due to hoeflation and makes them generally uninteresting (not trying to be misogynist, just generally women have no real hobbies).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:19 PM
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I don't get this lame high school, frat-boy type mentality. What if I genuinely don't try to be friends with women and its just never happened? All the guys I knew that had female friends they just were too pussy to shoot their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:55 PM
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If naturally I prefer male friends, then needing to be friends with women in order to get other women feels like a kind of deal where I do favors for them and they give me social proof. This is what gets me, I naturally prefer hanging out with guys so I'd have to change my entire personality on top of being fake to attain a group of female friends. This is why dating is just kinda fucked for guys, you have to sacrifice your time and personality just to get access to women. Also even if you find …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:42 PM
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Most men that behave naturally aren't going to have female friends because we're too different. Before I learned about social circle game and how having female friends helps with dating, I never cared for them because girls will use you for attention while not reciprocating. Best example is every time I've tried to make a female friend, I'd have to carry every interaction and plan everything as if she's my GF meanwhile she's putting in no effort. Also women don't want actual advice or solutions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:10 PM
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Get to healthy Bodyweight and try to get lean muscle gains mainly in your upper body. Career Max to the Fullest!Making a lot of money is literally your only option to land a 7+ chick as a wife. Social Circle game will be your bread and butter. You better be the most charismatic SOB in your city, and bring the party wherever you are. Also get a cool hobby like traveling+ sports
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:28 AM
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lol nah I actually racked up 7 bodies last year. I don’t really believe there’s anything wrong with me on that level. I have socially awkward tendencies but you have to get out of your comfort zone with meeting women, so it’s more of me just learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:27 PM
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Thing is you can have everything in order, finances, health, social, but if you have 0 sexual+ dating experience, I'd say 90% of women will ghost you once you tell them. Even women in the church
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:52 PM
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which type of woman do you think is best for a late bloomer? Any advice on how to not be overly clingy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:48 PM
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Late Bloomers wouldn't be the bottom tier though in their 30s, they were bottom tier in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:44 PM
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Lol yes but definitely not if it's with a Single Mom, you're a cuck if so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:43 PM
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What women don’t get is that in order to become the ‘Popular’ guy with a big social circle, you have to lose your individuality via fitting in with other people. What if I just have different personality traits that limit the amount of people that’ll like me? What if I prefer small friend circles with 1-2 people? Notice how women’s preferences basically force you to change your identity, you can’t ’be yourself’ It proves that women are definitely more shallow than men due to them preferring the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:48 PM
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Meanwhile, baby-momma can drop the kid off at the grandparents to go party and fuck Chad. Literally had an aunt who did this lol, the problem is she would stow her kids off to my mom despite her being 40+yrs old lol (my aunt is the 40+yrold one). She would leave her kids with random relatives and expect no pushback, and she wouldn't get any because she was in a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:38 PM
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I absolutely cannot imagine ignoring or being unkind people I think are unattractive, but it sounds like you are saying that's the case. Most people do this subconsciously, we don't have any control over it. Offering someone gum is a normal gesture but most women NEVER intiate interactions with men unless they're attractive. In this specific context, it was because of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:27 PM
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As long as they don't communicate desperation through their behavior they'll be okay. Telling most guys to 'stop worrying about dating' doesn't work because we never meet women organically in our day-to-day lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:23 PM
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If he didn't have good looks you'd never have given him the chance. That's all we're saying. Your initial interaction was 100% superficial which proves the OP's point. sorry if it sounds mean, its just the way my male brain communicates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:19 PM
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Yea, I have a theory that some women know they'll never keep chad or any man so they choose to selfishly have a kid to post on social media for validation. They know the government and their family will watch the kid since she's a 'struggling' single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:52 PM
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Agree 100%. Superficial things get you way farther with women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:00 PM
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That's because those men, despite being trash, are giving the women what they want whether it be excitement or emotional rollercoasters. Only reason they're with those trash men is because of being more shallow when it comes to looks. Usually they'll let some cute fuxkboi destroy them mentally because it's exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:54 PM
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most people are just looking for someone they’re compatible with. unless you’re a complete buffoon, someone will accept you. Not true based on literal research. Most women want a guy that makes 50% more than they do + has the same homogenous physical features that other women prefer. Proof of this is the fact that 60% of young men under 30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:52 PM
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He is an extremely shy introvert. It was especially bad with me. He would literally freeze up and stare at me like a deer in headlights if I even said hi. Yea if this guy wasn't top 10% genetics wise he would never find a wife/gf due to being that shy. His looks saved him here, not his personality, you're just in the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:48 PM
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% I still don't understand how having a seat at a conference that happened to be near a sound booth and offering gum to the guy sitting there is me "approaching" him, romantically. Its because 90% of guys have never been offered ANYTHING by a random woman due to not meeting the genetic threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:46 PM
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Men are just logical and like pointing out facts. Fact is, most women have an easier time dating thats all we're getting at, even if she's shy or has a deformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:40 PM
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Even mid women want chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:37 PM
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No one puts a gun to womens head and make them do all the housework, if she's dissatisfied she can just monkey branch. You do that to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:34 PM
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But most men irl have fat partners even if they're fit themselves, because fat women overinflate their RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:30 PM
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Most of the bbw's n my family domme hot /mid guys, even the elders. My current partner is always lamenting about how arrogant bbws have become, no more easy lays. This is what I see 100% in the south lol. Big mid chicks think they're 10s after poking their butt out on IG meanwhile if I approached any big girl in person I know I'd pull her. Social media inflates their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:28 PM
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These Men with fat wives are super comfortble lol. They know ain't no man of value coming for his girl, only chance of infidelity is if she's just super promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:08 PM
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Sorry you had to go through this. I have a hard time believing the average dudes didn't treat you better? Do you like toxic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:04 PM
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No its not lol. Women can coast by on genetics and dodge accountability because of Society. Women can literally just live off men if they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:01 PM
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Ah yes because most guys in high school are getting laid lol. 80% aren't getting any action at all until they reach mid 20s-early 30s because that's when they make decent money (#1 most important resource for most women). Just look on reddit, most dating advice posts are guys asking " Why did she break up with me? Where did I go wrong? She says I'm boring ?" ​ you don't see women get involved with self improvement because guys accept the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:58 PM
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No. Men are expected to make sacrifices for their wives/gfs whereas 3rd Wave toxic feminism allows women to avoid all accountability. She can just make up arguments because she's bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:50 PM
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You're forgetting that 90% of the Zoomers/Gen Alpha Men in this sub just want a normal loving companion, despite what the sensationalized posts say. Most men in here are desperate af and just want a steady gf really, whose not insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:41 PM
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Im actually surprised lol, most women are delusional but you aren't. Nice. Just date with intention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:23 PM
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Lol see this is how 90% of men feel deep down but they just settle (something I'm gonna have to do soon). Worst part is when you have a Fat GF, your family will judge you and not give you as much attention vs if you had a non-obese gf. Like you know your uncles low-key lose respect for you when they see you bring a fat chick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:02 PM
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hell even the 2s and 3s want 7s lol. Thats the league I've been dipping in for casual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:59 PM
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Imo, most women are delusional about the type of guy they can get, and it's increased due to social media. ​ EX: Lizzo said this in one song " I ain't F**k Drake yet but I will " despite being 5'10 305lbs. I see it firsthand, I have a 'homely' cousin with 2 kids out of wedlock and she'll be complaining to me about guys not making 100k+ lol. An obese Woman can post dirty mirror selfies hiding their gut and get 300+ likes lol. Now she thinks she can get 'flown out'. Very illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:55 PM
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Height & Weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:50 PM
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I beg to differ. Go to the bible belt, your gonna see hella dudes settling for obese women that can't cook, bad attitude, and 2-3 kids out of wedlock lol. Hell, I'm talking to a single mom now even though I would NEVER prefer to be a step dad. I have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:41 PM
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There’s always extreme expectations placed on men lmao. “ You got rejected 20 times last month? Stop being a bitch and try harder! You must be socially awkward or something.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:39 PM
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Bro, women reject 80% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:35 PM
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I was exaggerating lol but any guy can vouch what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:14 PM
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lol it sucks bro. I live in a small town so church is literally my only option or rot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 PM
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So we’re socially inept because we experience sadness after rejections ? So this once again is proving that in 90% of situations, the guy isn’t creepy he just has bad genetics. You’re literally calling guys inept for feeling bad after getting shot down 20 times, something that good-looking guys won’t experience as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:16 PM
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They aren’t, it’s been scientifically proven that 2 men could approach and say the same thing with the same body language, yet women will have a different response to each of them. Even in a warm approach setting, women always respond negatively when sub5 guys approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:12 PM
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Damn, guess playboi carti show is a no-go huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:06 PM
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I was just at the Drake+Jcole show, couldn’t have been more antisocial lol due to people just being glued to their phones and group
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:44 PM
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Just her being nice, this same thing happens to me all the time at food markets, events, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:09 PM
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> Have had to girls recently show interest and I just can not be fucked to flirt back because I’m so exhausted and emotionally dead from getting fucked around. This is me currently. I know I'll have to join groups but I hate the thought of doing something I hate to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:47 PM
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> Parties, cookouts, bars, clubs, festivals, shows, concerts, sporting events, restaurants, town squares, clubs, activities, hobbies Imagine trying to socialize and meet women at a concert lol, couldn't think of anything worse. They all come with their boyfriends. Go approaching random women in restaurants and see where it gets you lol. hobbies is the only viable option
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:30 PM
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yes, social atomization has ruined organic ways to meet people. No one goes to church or volunteers anymore, just all dopamine rushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:25 PM
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Yea I can vouch, my 6'5 friend and goodlooking friend both strike out religiously downtown. It's like they don't even give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:23 PM
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would you guys consider approaching in a bar cold approach? Im like 5/10 (due to my race and location) but still scored a lay with a mid chick from a bar once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:11 PM
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The only hope for average guys to find a woman is social circle game, any other method is basically useless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:46 AM
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Both can be loyal. But the reason why most men cheat. Is cause there in a sexless marriage. I could deff see myself cheating if my potential wife voluntarily withheld intimacy out of spite (not because shes actually going through something, you can tell the difference). Especially if I'm pulling my part in the relationship which has to happen or she'll leave. For me getting trapped in dead bedroom is a nightmare lol. Imagine puting in 10k hours of mastery to provide for wife solely to be sexless…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:46 PM
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Do you walk in the real world ? Most relationships I see are an average bmi man with an overweight woman( not trying to be disrespectful). My friend who’s 6’4 21yo, good looking, committed to obese chick with 1 kid already. Most men have no standard and are willing to raise kids that aren’t theirs for intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:12 PM
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lol of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:01 PM
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Most men on the planet literally couldn’t cheat if they wanted to. You are only looking at 1% guys lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:00 PM
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I’d have to disagree here. Most men want a stable nice normal woman. These IG girls are girls we chase solely for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:58 PM
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its all so fake, just because I take cool photos with my friends doesn't mean anything. Just because me and the boys haven't had a cool beach photo has no bearing on anything. You can do all this and still struggle with women. This is why I hate social media
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:16 PM
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Your son is wasting alot of money and potentially putting his credit score at risk by living with roommates instead of staying home, saving all his money and commuting. I've seen so many fresh 18yrs room with their friends just for one of them to stop paying and get evicted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:10 PM
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Its fine by me, soon as I hit 6 figs Im going to act the same way about weight+dating history
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:02 PM
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Yea its like those girls that say they won't date dudes who watch JRE, she's not going to curve 6'2 bearded dude because of a show he watches. Its bs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:00 PM
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Lol of course, you being financially independent makes no difference really with women. Like to them its 6 figs or your broke
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:56 PM
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Where are you guys meeting these friends that magically introduce you to women+love to go places? Most dudes don't have a secret list of hot chicks they can introduce you to. Also making friends from mid 20s onward in a new town is extremely difficult due to social atomization. 30+ is almost impossible because most of your friends would have to be younger than you. I agree with you mostly, I feel your being disingenuous about having social circle though, this doesn't magically help you meet wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:54 PM
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Not too long ago I tried to small talk with a new female hire and she looked at me weird, showing obvious signs of discomfort .Meanwhile my 6'2 Former D1 athlete coworker does the same exact thing and I can hear them laughing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:58 PM
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Basically. A couple bars banned men from approaching women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:57 PM
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Most men don’t cold approach anymore due to rumors being spread that he’s a creep (when he’s actually just genetically ugly) . It also has a 10% success rate for most guys All those “Is this your man“ Facebook groups also have women over exaggerating awkward encounters to spread rumors. Women can be brutal. You’re gonna have to meet men organically via groups, that’s your only option. Also just download hinge and be intentional with your dating boom problem solved. You could be a deformed woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:51 PM
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thing is I don't see sub5's doing this, why would they fight for a country where they can't succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:39 PM
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I can see this, still only accessible to the top % of men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:26 PM
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Heard it was socially unacceptable to approach women over there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:35 PM
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Yes but how can a society thrive if all the men are single and have nothing to care for. We’re all just gonna be hikkimori
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:34 PM
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You're 6'5? Easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:50 PM
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That’s a boldfaced lie lmao. This is why you see women consistently marry men older than them, because they prefer men with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:33 PM
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Let’s stop playing games man. No girl is gonna fuck a guy because he has a cool shirt if he isn’t already attractive. Most guys know how to dress normal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:56 PM
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Lol the poster does admit she’s a blue pill woman 😂 so no surprise there. I’ve just been so de motivated to money-max anymore because while it will improve my chances, I know I’ll be at risk of betabux since my wife wouldn’t really be attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:53 PM
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Taking care of yourself isn’t going to win against women’s insane standards lmao. An average obese US woman thinks an average looking fit dude is ugly because he doesn’t have male model facial genetics. Your solution is worthless because men have been doing this for centuries and still end up losing because men’s physical attractiveness is mostly determined by genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:53 AM
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Jesus Christ your so out of touch it’s insane lmao. This is just the life of being a man, we fight and sometimes we still lose
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:49 AM
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Another delusional out of touch take. Most young men take care of themselves with lotion, haircuts, grooming, dressing normal. Men can’t fucking use makeup to hide everything. Being physical attractive as a man has like 80% to do with your facial symmetry and god-given height And no. Women are lazy as hell, average women is obese and wears too much makeup but she gets hella attention due to the dating market being fucked cuz of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:40 AM
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Why do you think these problems would still persist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:20 PM
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I'd disagree. Studies show men generally our earn women at all ages
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:30 PM
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This is my problem with "levelling up". If every guy leveled up the dating market would be the exact same. Add on the fact that becoming a millionaire is extremely difficult even if you followed the right steps. It's like men are either winners (6figs) or losers (avg and below ) with no in between lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:28 PM
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Yea I actually got my own place and have a decent finance job along with being fit. It's changed nothing really lol in terms of dating. I'm 5'10. Having a place and a car aren't gonna magically make a girl like me which is what I used to think a year ago. It's all about how women perceive you physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:38 PM
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I can agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:24 PM
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We just end up like japan just less weird. Everyone is alone and talks to no one. Old people dying in their homes and no one finding out until weeks later. Economy collapses because there's not enough young people to upkeep it and produce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:50 PM
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That's what the article should've said. "The rich men that I hold out for don't treat me well. I shouldn't have to make compromises while being with a 10% man"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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so basically your saying men still have improving to do regarding the relationship duties. I see where your coming from. The problem I think is most men that would meet the financial standard probably wouldn't make good partners lol, because their so focused on their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:53 PM
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Why would I (as the hypothetical average wife) choose to be a wife sitting at home, knowing my husband is watching porn and staring at other women on the street and jacking off to my friends’ pictures on Facebook I see how this can be hard for a woman to deal with. Never thought of it from the wife perspective. Ngl porn is extremely hard not to look at for the married men I know lol. Especially since sex isn't as consistent as they want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:47 PM
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So your saying no in response to which question exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:41 PM
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This is a theory I've been stating for awhile now. In a utopia where everyone was financially comfortable, I think hypergamy would be solely based on looks which would create an even bigger gap. But also every man not worrying about money would indirectly cause them to be more confident and social imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:40 PM
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I agree. Since dating is a completely free market, you will get the best that you can catch. Its just the narrative that is spun in the media keeps saying men are socially awkward and trash basically, which I feel is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:32 PM
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Interested
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:36 PM
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See a motorcycle is actually a big flex that women like so I see your point. But lets be honest, me having a unique hobby is not gonna make or break my interactions with a woman. And most redditors have introverted hobbies that we truly enjoy anyways that wouldn't even be a SMV boost. No girl wants to be in my D & D group. I hate faking to enjoy a hobby just to impress a girl.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:46 PM
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Classic logical fallacy that guys love to use on this sub, which is "just listen to what women say they want". That's the root of every guy's problem in this sub, because we have tried to become what women want based on their opinions and it turns out women have cognitive dissonance. Women have made it abundantly clear that they don't want men to approach them even at bars! Women always encourage guys to "just wait and live your life normally" as if a HB10 is gonna randomly approach you out of n…
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:39 PM
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Can we stop acting like being the "most interesting man in the world" matters to women? When is the last time a girl decided to date a guy because he goes hunting every weekend? This whole concept of maintaining some unique hobby just to seem like a catch is delusional because finances, looks, and social status outweigh having a hobby. Most guys who actually have hobbies aren't even the best with women because they have true outcome independence since their lives are fulfilled.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:21 PM
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Of course the woman loves it. You get another free male orbiter to boost your ego with OP's advice lmao. "Hey bro, just stop trying to initiate interactions with women. Things will naturally happen". I can tell you as someone who has struggled with social anxiety that just chilling will result into nothing. Women are passive and NEVER approach, so you gotta man up. Being friends with females is easy. I just don't understand OPs strategy of just using her to meet other women, it's all fake.
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:08 AM
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Women have cognitive dissonance meaning their actions don't line up with their words. Women also have been trained via evolution to say anything to hide promiscuity due to fear of judgement. What a woman says vs what she does in real life are 2 different things.
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:37 AM
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The post encourages polite behavior. The underlying assumption of the post is if at anytime the woman shows disinterest and bad body language, you should end the interaction, which is inherently assumed throughout this sub. I don't see you condemning the FDS subreddit when they actively discourage cheating/lying so stop trying to act like your a good person. You would probably date a sex offender if he was attractive enough like most women.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:03 AM
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Lol you contradicted your initial point. You just told me to go talk to women yet demonized it a couple comments earlier. We can still respect women's boundaries while still approaching a large amount of them. I know you think this isn't possible but trust me, it is! I've done it. This whole approach format is not weird at all, how is this considered not treating you like a person?
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:46 AM
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You are acting like such a woman right now its crazy. You are letting your emotions get in the way of the main goal which is to find a gf. NO ONE in here condones stalking or raping/assualting women. We condone approaching women the right way. If a girl gives us a bad look or bad body language we just stop the interaction and leave! What are you nagging about?
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:41 AM
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Bro you are literally telling guys to stop trying to use women for sex? Who are you ? God? I bet you dont even go to church! Stop trying to gas light! TONS of guys have had success with approaching so I want to try to in a safe way. Just because I stop being misogynistic doesn't automatically mean I will get laid. Some of the most misogynistic men get laid all the time!
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:37 AM
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Look none of us condone rape/harrassment/ actual creepy behavior! We are not objectifying women. We are trying to improve our lives.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:34 AM
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As long as a man doesn't do anything that can be considered harrassment or rapey he is ok.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:32 AM
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You need to stop being delusional. Most men are looking to get laid so I don't see why thats so hard to understand. If chris hemsworth approached you you wouldnt be saying any of this.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:31 AM
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DATING IS LITERALLY A NUMBERS GAME! You must not know what it feels like to be an unattractive male out of college. You don't know what true loneliness feels like. Me approaching multiple women isn't dehumanizing them in any way (women definitely objectify men too) as long as I am being respectful.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:27 AM
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You, like most women, are not giving any practical advice. You are encouraging guys just to quit cold approaching when tons of guys have had success with it. Get out your feelings.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:24 AM
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Please stop virtue signaling. There is nothing wrong with trying to approach women you are interested in, the same way there would be nothing wrong with women approaching a man they are interested in. Let me guess, I should approach women for their personalities right? How can I approach someone for their personality if I don't know them. Dating is shallow just accept it. Side note: Most girls are attracted to the dark triad personality types anyway so there is no point in me trying to not treat…
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:22 AM
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It doesn't matter! Even if I was in the same volunteer group, class, or social club as a woman I would still have to approach her and initiate a conversation. You are getting your feelings too involved here. Dating is like a game, and similar to a basketball game the opposing team isn't going to lighten up to make the other team "feel good". You have to approach multiple women in order to get dates plain and simple. If a woman cries because I asked her how her day was going, so be it.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:17 AM
2

Good so just give up and don't ever try to cold approach? I can tell you're a woman because women LOVE telling guys to just stop trying, "wait for the right one", and to just give up on initiating interactions with women. I can't live my life without taking any risks because I will never get what I want. I want to have a gf/wife! Its not wrong for me to want that, and the only way to get that is to socially interact with more women. I pray for when you have a son that struggles in dating.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:12 AM
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whats your rationale for this? Just wondering because part of me feels like its okay to text her for maybe like 10 minutes or so within this time period so she doesn't feel like I ghosted her.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:48 PM
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How would you format the text that sets up the logistics? Like "Lets meet at 7pm at X"?
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:45 PM
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you make a good point. My AFC mind is trying to avoid contacting her too much because I feel If I talk to her too much she may lose attraction.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:44 PM
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