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0	What injuries have you endured at work? Stress and anger can actually cause very real physical changes to muscles and nerves due to mild oxygen deprivation over long periods. Look up John Sarno. It's worth considering at least as part of your overall treatment. Edit: downvoted for stating a fact.	/r/MensRights	12/10/17 04:03 PM
2	What injuries have you endured at work? Were you highly stressed at work beforehand? It's possible that your pain isn't physical in origin.	/r/MensRights	12/10/17 07:36 AM
3	It's only creepy when men do it. Women are the biggest creepy weirdos ever. They're just stealthy about it.	/r/MensRights	18/07/17 02:29 PM
2	"Only women face unrealistic beauty standards." It's to make him look larger/taller.	/r/MensRights	10/01/15 01:46 PM
6	If you're hit by a female, can you restrain her? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVSlE28hOgI	/r/PussyPass	24/07/14 03:47 PM
3	Boy become men when... they put up with abuse?.. They probably would be. Apparently most people's brains aren't fully developed until their mid/late 20s.	/r/MensRights	05/06/14 06:58 PM
0	How ironically sexist... What a fresh and original reply to a repost! /s	/r/MensRights	14/07/13 03:20 PM
0	"Can a man be a victim of rape?" Your comment is a load of bullshit. Why? Because turtles.	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 01:26 PM
2	Should have known better, but I wanted her to understand what she was really saying. OP, you should link her to this thread.	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 01:19 PM
8	Should have known better, but I wanted her to understand what she was really saying. Put on your fucking big girl panties and figure out that blaming everyone else for your shortcomings just makes you a vindictive little shrew. People are dicks. This is the problem with some people. They think because people have been dicks to them in the past that it justifies them being dicks to others. And so the circle of dickheadedness continues.	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 01:14 PM
44	Shit like this pisses me off Ha.	/r/MensRights	08/06/13 04:06 PM
3	Friend posted this on FB. It's nice to know some people respect our right to like different body types. Has anyone ever said anything like that to you IRL?	/r/MensRights	11/05/13 11:01 AM
11	Gender equality. I had to say something. You're not doing anyone any favours by going around calling people ugly. And that has nothing to do with this subreddit being super serious, it's just a fact of life.	/r/MensRights	03/05/13 11:26 AM
-5	What causes girls to lose interest so quickly? She found someone better looking.	/r/seduction	10/02/13 07:58 PM
2	Is the idea that everyone deserves great life/great life partner/beautiful women a self-delusion? There is no 'deserving' or 'undeserving' for most things in life. You keep trying your best and you keep hoping you'll get what you need and want. If you do, great. If you don't, well that's just the way life goes sometimes. The important part is to keep trying and to not get bogged down with mental-masturbation. However, as far as beautiful women go, one could argue that beautiful men are genetically entitled to them. Whereas average/ugly men are not. That's why it's so much harder for average/…	/r/seduction	03/11/12 11:26 PM
1	Just Facebook messaged a girl I had a serious crush on from about 3rd to 5th grade but never talked to. Unexpected response. Yeah but just because you do one supplicative thing, doesn't mean it's okay to keep doing it. You can get away with a little supplication here and there (keep it to a minimum though), but doing it constantly will fuck you up.	/r/seduction	09/07/12 02:16 PM
2	WHY YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT IOIs Sure. It's about the vibe you give off more than the words you say. If you're confident and playful you can say some really off the wall shit and she'll think it's funny. I mean, if you're constantly bullshitting, fucking around and she clearly sees that you have a sense of humour and aren't taking the interaction too seriously, then why would she be creeped out? It goes to a point though. Don't always try to say shocking stuff, because too much of anything gets old. Don't be a one trick pony. M…	/r/seduction	09/07/12 02:11 PM
2	I have a hard time openly hitting on girls, not out of fear for rejections, but out of fear of looking like an idiot. You don't need to open with a fancy 'line'. It's all about giving off that confident, playful, slightly sexual (not too much too fast) vibe.	/r/seduction	08/07/12 05:13 PM
1	Hey Seddit any good seduction speeches on the web ? Sinn - The secrets of natural attraction	/r/seduction	28/06/12 09:12 PM
8	[FR] Day 1 of weekend in Amsterdam. 1 f-closes, 1 k-close. Is it true that if you cut your ear off at the door, you can get in to the Van Gogh museum for free?	/r/seduction	23/06/12 07:19 PM
1	How to have more interesting conversations That's an awesome way to do it. I'm the same. I listen a lot and throw in an opinion/statement/joke about whatever subject we're talking about every now and again. But of course, it can never hurt to be knowledgeable and be able to carry the conversation either.	/r/seduction	16/06/12 10:01 PM
1	Going bald - an insignificant circumstance or a significant handicap?? But my hairline is receding and I'll be bald eventually. I won't bitch about it though because there are far more important things in life to spend my time and energy on.	/r/seduction	12/06/12 09:53 AM
0	I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit. Wow. Which subreddits banned you? Please answer.	/r/seduction	08/06/12 08:43 PM
2	Seddit you have me worried I'll never be able to just chill with women With knowledge comes power, so YOU have the power. Keep reading and improving yourself all-round, follow your goals with intense passion, enjoy life, become comfortable with who you are instead of always feeling you have to 'entertain' and the women will be lining up to marry you. But don't expect this to happen over-night. It'll take a lot of time and effort. Good luck!	/r/seduction	08/06/12 08:16 PM
8	Started breaking out of my shell slowly, kind of creeping people out. Not sure what to do in this situation. Any advice? Try not to over-think things in social situations. That's one bad habit you need to break. You need to condition yourself to remove all these bullshit 'people will think I'm weird and get creeped out' thoughts from your head. Then you'll no longer be over-thinking everything and you'll start acting more relaxed and 'natural'. And no more of this 'what would normal people do?' line of thinking either. The fact that you even have these thoughts and that you're self aware is what MAKES YOU NORMAL a…	/r/seduction	05/06/12 03:12 PM
29	Do women find intelligence attractive? It's definitely a bonus if you have alpha traits. But raw intelligence won't get you far if you're a socially retarded beta.	/r/seduction	15/05/12 09:29 PM
2	When in doubt, radio silence is the best response. I actually did this naturally before I even knew about game. In person, too. When a woman says or does something you don't like/doesn't fit into your reality/you don't care about, just straight up ignoring them is always an option. Then you can start talking about what you want. Just stay chill, don't let her behavior affect your mood and you're good.	/r/seduction	14/05/12 09:39 PM
7	A word of caution The important thing is that you're here and looking for help. That's the first step. Here's what I think you should do: Eat at least moderately healthily. Exercise and stay in shape. Keep your mind sharp and keep learning. Read a lot and get out of the house a lot. Don't sit in front of the TV all day like a zombie. Have a hobby/hobbies you're passionate about. (Finding them might take some time and experimentation.) It's actually okay to change hobbies too. You don't have to stick with the same…	/r/seduction	14/05/12 08:27 PM
8	A word of caution Dude, women cry all the fucking time over trivial bullshit. They love the emotional roller coaster. Not that I'd purposefully go out of my way to make a girl cry but when they do, I honestly don't even care. You can't let people with fragile emotions change your behavior and goals. You should know exactly what you want and go for it with little consideration of what some girl thinks/says about you. Don't let her mess you around. Stay strong, dominant and keep pursuing your passions. Best of luck…	/r/seduction	14/05/12 08:00 PM
1	What to do & what not to do Nice list but a couple of things. Talk a lot! I'd say 'talk as little as you can get away with' (This might be talking a lot, it might be talking very little. Depends on the situation). And do the rest with kino/body language/facial expressions/eye contact etc. But I suppose this comes down to personal preference. Try and get her to laugh as much as possible. You can make her laugh, but don't be a dancing monkey just because you're around a girl. Do and say funny shit because it's who you are, b…	/r/seduction	12/05/12 08:27 PM
1	what is wrong with me? Women alone can't make you happy dude. You probably have some other issues in your life that are making you feel bad? If you think you're bipolar, you should go see a doctor.	/r/seduction	12/05/12 06:16 PM
10	What to do when a girl says "I like X" and you're not X You did the exact opposite of what you should've done. Don't listen to what she says. Pay attention to how she acts. If you're kinoing and she's clearly liking it and is into you then she says, "you're too young for me", just nonchalantly say "okay", laugh or ignore her, then change subject and keep kinoing. If she brings it up again but she's still obviously into you, make a joke about it, then change subject and keep kinoing. Gotta plough through bullshit like this. Don't let one little thing …	/r/seduction	12/05/12 06:08 PM
2	My dad was beta and I am scared I will be just like him. My dad is alpha. A decisive leader. Strong body language and every time he talks his voice is strong and resonant. Almost never a hint of nervousness or hesitation. Also, he smokes cigars. Fucking cigars, yo. Fuck your pussy cigarettes. Problem was that my parents split up before I was a teen and I ended up living with my mom. Also, being the youngest of four kids and the only son meant I was mollycoddled/overprotected as fuck. And I was generally so shy and un-talkative that I never really had …	/r/seduction	10/05/12 09:18 PM
5	How is "guess" the alpha answer for "how old are you"? "What's your name?" "Batman." "No really." "Well if you insist... Robin." "How old are you?" "A million. Some people say I don't look a day over 998,534." "Where are you from?" "The future." Don't ask me why I just wrote this.	/r/seduction	10/05/12 04:29 PM
6	Seddit, thank you :D Seddit is awesome. (Reddit in general too.) I also absolutely love the transition the pick-up community has made from being almost totally canned routine-based game to inner-game and overall sell-improvement. Such a help with life overall, not just women. It's amazing stuff.	/r/seduction	09/05/12 05:54 PM
1	4 year Friendzone break out help needed What you need to do is better yourself as a person, gain confidence, change your attitude then pursue lots of other women. Then maybe, just maybe she might start to be attracted to you and you could take it from there if she's still in your life. But don't count on it. Besides, there are other cools girls out there. Stop focusing all your attention on this one.	/r/seduction	07/05/12 11:03 PM
3	Don't Judge, Bro. Actually, Tyler has told stories before about how he's called girls out on their bitch behaviour, kicked them out of his apartment and went to find more females to talk to that night. What he means by 'don't judge' is that he understands that anyone can behave like a retard sometimes. And you shouldn't let that stop you from getting on good terms with them in the future (Obviously, if they always act like a retard, then kick 'em out of your life completely and move on.). But yeah, you should hav…	/r/seduction	07/05/12 10:46 PM
1	How to... have courage? That's an awesome attitude to have. And actually, the most successful people are usually the ones who've failed TONS more different times than the people who are actually full-on failures. They're just so driven and focused that they learn from their mistakes and keep pushing themselves. As opposed to shying away from making a mistake in the first place, which will lead to overall failure due to inaction. But you probably know that. Just putting it out there for others to read.	/r/seduction	06/05/12 10:15 PM
1	I was a 25 year old virgin and tonight at 27 I got two booty calls. Here's what I did! That's the perfect time to use it. Just keep it light.	/r/seduction	05/05/12 10:31 PM
0	Is being emotionally enthusiastic and showing feelings a good thing sometimes? You don't have to be super smiley/positive all the time but yes, smile and laugh with people and show your positive emotions. Show negative ones too sometimes. But not too much to the point where you're just being a negative little bitch/not having consideration for others (Most of the time, other people don't want to hear your negative shit). If you're going to be negative about something, try to do it in a light way. You can even be negative while being funny sometimes (Like using dry/deadpan …	/r/seduction	04/05/12 11:23 PM
5	Club Bitches Absolutely nailed it. Nice post.	/r/seduction	30/04/12 07:59 PM
2	some advice,please... Stop trying to get in touch with her. Pursue other girls.	/r/seduction	30/04/12 02:58 PM
3	How do I break the ice with the ladies? I find an ice pick to be quite effective. But seriously, there's no real 'magic pill' / quick fix. It takes work. Work on your weaknesses so they're not deal-breakers, then enhance your strengths and play to them. And remember, don't come at this from a 'I want people to like me because I'm insecure and need validation' mindset, but a 'I'm improving myself for my own enjoyment of life and to get what I want' one. To get started, read the side bar. Best of luck!	/r/seduction	29/04/12 11:09 PM
1	Can I get a diagnosis? Looks like rape is your only option. Message Im_a_rapist for some pointers.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 10:46 PM
2	How do I segue into playing a guitar to turn on a girl? Don't play a romantic song, lmao. Play some hardcore shit.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 10:43 PM
1	Is there any hope for an introvert? Yes, of course there's hope for you. Anyone with a brain can achieve almost anything if they keep an open mind, a positive attitude and work at it hard enough, so try not to pigeon-hole yourself. You can learn to enjoy socializing, you just need to be true to yourself. Just be sure to do it because you absolutely want to. But that's up to you to decide. You may want to pursue other things now and then come back to this stuff later on. Just don't stagnate. Prioritize and work towards the things y…	/r/seduction	29/04/12 01:46 PM
12	My take on eye contact with strangers- I would say it'd be good for a beginner to hold eye contact with almost everyone, just so they get used to not being 'afraid' to lock eyes with anyone. It's a fast way to desensitize yourself. Then scale it back a bit and find a nice balance.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 11:53 AM
1	How do I "Not give a single fuck"?? I agree with Hawkeye. Get some practice in with random people here and there. Generally force yourself to be slightly more social every time you leave your house. Push yourself out of your comfort zone more and more and more. Once you become an experienced conversationalist you can clear your mind and the words should flow naturally (The opposite of over-thinking things, which is what you're doing now). You'll be totally relaxed and in-the-moment. Then you can start having some really fucking fu…	/r/seduction	28/04/12 10:52 PM
2	So ive been fucking a coworker of mine. I think she is catching feelings, what should i do? Break it off and get her fired later that day so you don't have to deal with the backlash. In all seriousness though, don't fuck co-workers from now on.	/r/seduction	28/04/12 06:16 PM
54	Girls like me these days, but I'm a 22 y/o virgin... Embarrassment/insecurity/anxiety prevents me from losing it. To be blunt: Stop being so negative. Stop putting so much value on what other people think of you. Break those negative thought loops now or else that kind of thinking will plague you for the rest of your life. You're making an issue out of nothing, seriously. Some people just take longer to lose their virginity than others, it's natural variation. It happens. Don't put yourself down. I used to have a gaming addiction and lost all my friends but I don't beat myself up about it, it happened and I…	/r/seduction	28/04/12 04:53 PM
3	[FR] Nothing Too Crazy, But Went Out Solo We keep at it for a few minutes, but eventually she gets bored You probably already know this, but be the first to break rapport. Or do some random shit to keep her interested. Don't let her get bored. But thanks for the FR. I'm gonna start going out solo pretty soon. Been a while since I've been out and I need to re-acclimate myself to the club/bar environment. Should be interesting at the very least.	/r/seduction	27/04/12 04:34 PM
0	Some texting tips compiled after 100 sets of number closing. Follow a girl's lead? Nevaaaaaarrr! ;)	/r/seduction	27/04/12 04:20 PM
3	A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2 Another thing that can be used to calibrate is some really light self-deprecation. Just say in those rare situations that you take the teasing too far, you might tease yourself just a little or bring up one of your own dumb 'vulnerabilities' to show that you're humble/not being too harsh. Obviously self-deprecation should only be used very sparingly and a little later into the relationship. Awesome guide dude.	/r/seduction	27/04/12 03:48 PM
3	A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 2 But if you make teasing people a part of your personality, you're being genuine. If you start off the first interaction throwing some teasing in here and there, then that's just part of who you are. No? Of course, as you said, you will also have to be serious at times to show you're actually human. It's all about knowing when to do what, keeping a nice balance and not overdoing one or the other.	/r/seduction	27/04/12 03:32 PM
10	I'm moving in to a bachelor. What are the most important things to have that will make everyone love my place (girls especially). Keep it clean, obviously. Have some interesting shit lying around. Maybe get some paintings to hang up on your walls. Conversation starters etc. Get a really comfortable rug and put it in front of a sofa so girls won't be able to resist taking their shoes off after a night out in heels. Then you can sit beside 'em and chat/escalate w/e. Maybe have a coffee table there with a laptop or magazines on it or something. Have a lamp with a dimmer switch in every room (especially the bedroom) so it isn'…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 10:07 PM
0	The Influence of Alcohol Personally not a big fan of alcohol tbh. It's fucking expensive, you need to constantly take a piss and binge drinking is just straight up bad for you. Never mind the hangover the next day. Also for me, it has a negative affect on my game. If I'm feeling it I might buy one drink at the start of the night, one in the middle and just sip slowly. That's about it. Most girls I know don't go and get blind-drunk to the point where they're falling over/don't know what's going on (I wouldn't hit on a gi…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 09:53 PM
1	REALLY important lesson learned tonight and some thoughts on anxiety. Or you could pretend you see someone you know then leave and start a convo with someone else (preferably girls). Or be like "I fucking love this song, I'm gonna go dance. See ya." Then go back and talk to her later on. If she's still acting uninterested you should probably give it up and go hit on other girls. There are probably a few other things you can do too. Just whatever you do, don't let her affect your mood or make you needy (Remember, you don't need her for validation. You want to tease…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 09:24 PM
2	Are there any Guides on Teasing? I suck at this... Nice advice. One caveat I'd give about the sexual teasing part is to do it as little as possible. Otherwise, you can come off as too horny or desperate.	/r/seduction	26/04/12 08:15 PM
1	I don't use routines, but GODDAMN... I beg to differ. ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9HxK7YGzFU	/r/seduction	26/04/12 07:51 PM
5	has anyone here actually been hit, or beaten up, by an AMOG or jealous bf? Fuck that. You can be all those things and still take dudes to court for assaulting you. It's nothing to do with being 'in charge of your own well-being', it's to do with not letting dick heads get away with totally unacceptable behaviour. If some dude hits me in a bar (or anywhere else), he's going to court, end of story. Yes, I've been in a few fights before, won some, lost some, and will defend myself if I get into another one. Doesn't mean I'm not going to take action afterwards. Especially …	/r/seduction	26/04/12 02:18 PM
8	REALLY important lesson learned tonight and some thoughts on anxiety. Just want to add something semi-related: Keep in mind that sometimes when you're gaming a hot girl (One that clearly knows she's hot) she'll go quiet and stop giving you any IOIs for a minute or two for no reason. Even if you did nothing 'wrong'. It's a shit-test to see if you start getting nervous and freaking out, or whether you remain cool, confident and non-needy. Also, sometimes if you see it's not going well it's best to just leave the set, flirt with other girls in front of her (build a j…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 02:02 PM
3	How important are clothes in attracting women? Yes, take care of your appearance. But don't become obsessed with it. :)	/r/seduction	26/04/12 01:48 PM
1	Can we get some advice on how to be alpha around other guys? Here. http://members.iinet.net.au/~aaronbosma/PDF/	/r/seduction	26/04/12 10:33 AM
1	People seems to run away from me. If she doesn't want to, pull down your pants and ask her what she DOES want. jk jk - don't do that! Fuck. So that's where I've been going wrong. I knew I had a sticking point somewhere but couldn't quite put my finger on it.	/r/seduction	25/04/12 06:40 PM
20	Can we get some advice on how to be alpha around other guys? Be relaxed when standing/sitting/walking. No nervous tics. Not just to 'look cool'. Actually being relaxed is fucking awesome, as we all know. Hold eye-contact. Smile often, but only when appropriate, obviously. Don't speak too softly. Don't speak too quickly. Don't speak monotonously. Be in good physical shape. I would recommend reading a lot of self-help/practical material that'll help you become more knowledgeable about life in general. You can also read some obscure stuff if you want. Just i…	/r/seduction	25/04/12 06:24 PM
1	If I genuinely don't give a fuck about balding, should I shave it? Shave and get some sick hats. But don't always wear a hat to the point you look like you're insecure about your baldness/scar. Actually, don't be insecure about that shit at all. If it's an issue for you, she'll pick up on it. If you own it, she won't give a fuck.	/r/seduction	25/04/12 05:58 PM
3	[FR] Wait, so it's just that easy? Are you freakin kidding me? #close That's the weird thing about stepping out of your comfort zone. You build it up in your head like it's this massive deal but once you do it, you wonder why the fuck you were so scared of it in the first place. You even laugh at it like "it was that fucking straightforward all along?" Nice one dude. Keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, learn from your experiences and stay positive. Success awaits.	/r/seduction	24/04/12 06:59 PM
20	Those super confident alpha females Don't let her shit faze you. Stay confident and relaxed. Smile, hold eye-contact and say something like "You're fiery, I like that in a girl." Then nonchalantly transition into a conversation like nothing happened. This should disarm her and attract her at the same time since you haven't crumbled under the pressure normal guys do. You've seen it all before. You can deal with any situation. Nothing fazes you.	/r/seduction	23/04/12 01:19 PM
11	A cute girl who works at Verizon put her number in my phone. Is this standard practice or something more? You need food. You need water. You need sleep. You do not need a girlfriend. Learn to be confident and happy while single before you start going after women. Work on yourself, find your true passions/talents and realize that you're awesome and that life is enjoyable as fuck even without a girlfriend. You should then come to the conclusion that you don't need an emotional crutch to hold you up. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Don't focus all of your attention on one girl. Let go of the …	/r/seduction	23/04/12 11:41 AM
11	The Question we are all asked 100 times a day: How are you? How about this: "How are you?" "I'm AMAZING!" "Why? What's up?" "It's a secret." walk off lmao	/r/seduction	23/04/12 10:49 AM
1	How do YOU get into a talkative mood? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNbExvU42q4	/r/seduction	22/04/12 07:43 PM
3	Anyone want to help a brother out? Self-esteem issues I can't seem to get around. I love Tyler Durden's material on core confidence and self-esteem. Check out Transformations, The Blueprint Decoded (notes here), and the stuff on his Youtube pages: rsdfreetour, RSDTyler, RSDJulien, RSDJeffy etc.	/r/seduction	21/04/12 10:24 PM
1	The most dreaded words: You're Too Nice. Start treating her like you treat every other girl you meet from now on. Don't try to 'make up' for being a nice guy in the past. That'll just come off tryhard. Forget about her, don't try to 'do anything' to get her. If you just stop giving a shit, she might notice how you've changed and become attracted. But don't get your hopes up.	/r/seduction	21/04/12 11:08 AM
1	Gaming random girl on Facebook Just say "so why haven't we fucked yet?" Then take it from there.	/r/seduction	20/04/12 06:50 PM
4	Help on getting over inner sexual tension Outcome independence. Don't be attached to the outcome of trying to get one girl. That will fuck almost anyone's behaviour up and they'll start acting needy and start making bad decisions. There will always be another girl. Just try to relax and enjoy the moment, don't over think what you're saying/doing and just let go and HAVE FUN. And remember that no single interaction defines your worth as a person. Don't be too hard on yourself if you can't do this straight away. It'll take time. At the sa…	/r/seduction	19/04/12 02:03 PM
2	Hey you. Stop trying to cure your approach anxiety. Stop that shit. So true. To quote Tyler from RSD: "A negative emotion is not a reason not to do something you know you should do. Just take right action regardless."	/r/seduction	18/04/12 08:36 PM
2	RSD Free Tour video on success - Failure is the fucking default if you don't take action! This is GOLD. Seriously love Tyler's work.	/r/seduction	18/04/12 08:30 PM
2	What is the best compliment that you ever received from a woman? Had a girl I hardly ever talked to say to my face "you're so hot" on a couple of occasions. She also said "woah, you have perfect teeth" when I laughed before, lol. She was actually very cute and I would've no doubt fucked her if I weren't such a socially retarded bitch back then.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 08:34 PM
1	Lovedrop's guide to apartment makeover He lovedropped off the radar.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 09:51 AM
1	Going to the bar with a bunch of girls and just me. Need some good tips from you guys. Alabama Fried Chicken	/r/seduction	16/04/12 07:03 PM
1	I'm not sure what to do anymore :/ It's important to get the inner-game/core confidence aspect down first. I would recommend internalizing this: http://www.scribd.com/doc/39472609/Blueprint-Decoded-NOTES-De2e Then with that as a solid base, build the rest of your life and pickup techniques on top.	/r/seduction	14/04/12 10:17 AM
2	am I just fooling myself? Try not to over-think things. Go for it. Get the experience. If it works, great. If it doesn't work, no big deal. There'll always be more girls. Just remember to not take it too seriously and to HAVE FUN. Good luck.	/r/seduction	14/04/12 09:52 AM
2	How do you guys see human conversation and interaction? If I act in certain ways that make me awesome and people like me for it and I end up interacting with them a lot as a result, it isn't manipulation. It's a mutual relationship. Also, be internally validated and you won't have a problem with self-esteem. Have values and standards for yourself and other people to live up to. Don't try to entertain others. Crack jokes and do shit that YOU find funny, and most other people will think you're funny/like you (if you have a decent/good sense of humour) …	/r/seduction	09/04/12 07:38 PM
1	My obstacle is that I'm very confident up until the moment where I ask a girl out. How do I fix this? You're only 19, so you have TONS of time to get better, and you'll have tons of opportunities with other women. So chill. Don't let one girl stifle you. Don't let her 'rejection' of you fuck with your head/your self-esteem. Don't put her on a pedestal. Just ask her out. If she says yes, great. If not, doesn't matter. The important thing is that you stop building it up in your head as some 'big deal' and just do it. The more you over think things and the more importance you put on it, the more li…	/r/seduction	07/04/12 12:05 PM
1	A metaphor that baseball fans will love. Same goes for life in general. Live near your edge, take some risks here and there, grow as a person.	/r/seduction	07/04/12 12:00 PM
2	Life changes (xpost from AskReddit When you're interacting with people try not to over think things too much. Try to be less logical/'inside your head' and more 'in the moment'. If you feel you made a 'mistake', don't get too down about it. No point getting too annoyed about petty things that happened in the past. Just try to learn from it and move on. Sure, you should probably study positive habits and how to carry yourself in social situations when you're at home (to better yourself as a person, not to impress others). But the …	/r/seduction	06/04/12 11:34 PM
3	Life changes (xpost from AskReddit Negative thinking is not only useless, it's poison. It'll do nothing but destroy you from the inside out. Every time you notice you're thinking excessively negatively, think about something else/change activity to take your mind off it. Remember, a positive outlook/attitude should come before all else. Positive thinking > positive emotions > positive actions > better life > positive thinking. Plan for the future. But live in the moment. Try to enjoy your day to day life all the while improving y…	/r/seduction	06/04/12 10:14 PM
36	"Guys never feel like having a conversation until they are in one" Right. To add a little to that: No matter where you are, make yourself at home, chill, fuck around and chat with people. "Blend in" to the environment. Approach people and chat with them like they're already your friend (almost everyone at a club is open to conversation with anyone who carries themselves with an air of confidence). Joke about and most importantly, HAVE FUN (no fun, no point). You might have to force it at first, just to "prove to yourself" you can do it but eventually, it should…	/r/seduction	06/04/12 04:04 PM
1	I've got a reputation as a flirt now Agree and amplify or play it off like no big deal (because it really isn't) and say something along the lines of: smile "Yep. I love to joke around and bullshit with people."	/r/seduction	06/04/12 03:52 PM
3	My life altering declaration. Please read Don't have time to read the post but I'll leave this advice: Don't make your goal in life 'getting women'. Find a passion/have goals OTHER than women and pursue them. All the while working on yourself, your social skills and becoming a well-rounded person. Do things because you genuinely want to and because you enjoy them. Not for external validation (other people thinking you're awesome/cool). The women will follow. Good luck!	/r/seduction	04/04/12 03:39 PM
1	Basic female advice from a girl Decent effort. But no.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 11:06 AM
1	Dance with her. Being in decent shape + having fun dancing (even if you're not even that good) = instant interest from tons of girls on the dancefloor. I actually had two friends tell me that every time I dance girls are looking in my direction/facing me wanting me to go dance with them. I was just too socially retarded at the time to to realize it (Actually probably too drunk too. lol).	/r/seduction	03/04/12 08:39 PM
8	Knowledge is power You don't know shit about power. http://media.comicvine.com/uploads/0/7666/1559280-ingsoc.jpg	/r/seduction	03/04/12 03:43 PM
3	[FR] Five approaches EVERY SINGLE DAY for the entire month of March. Woah. Well done!	/r/seduction	02/04/12 03:40 PM
3	Kinoing tall girls Yep. She's just another girl. And if you're insecure about your height around her, she'll probably pick up on it.	/r/seduction	01/04/12 09:19 AM
3	3 Rules I Live By Everyday Good post man, and so true. It's important to get yourself into good mental habits and your emotional ones will follow suit. Then set out a physical set of goals. Try your best to achieve them. Then once you start to see results, you'll feel even better. Then do it again. From there it's simply an upward spiral of awesomeness. Never underestimate the power of thought. If you can control how you think, you're in control of your life.	/r/seduction	01/04/12 09:08 AM
3	FR #2, HB8 date Nice FR. I like how you didn't try to git sum after just one night out. I bet she likes you even more for that.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 06:14 PM
0	[FR] Umm. Holy Fuck. F-close? That was funny as hell. What a bitch lmfao. You handled it well though.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 05:47 PM
2	Looking people in the eye as they walk past. Isn't it kinda a part of that far-Eastern culture to 'keep to yourself'? I'm not sure, but if it is, then it's not like it's your fault they're not looking at you. Also, even if they were rejecting you, who cares? They don't know you or what you're about. Stay positive and confident.	/r/seduction	31/03/12 01:50 PM
7	Noob To Bar Scene : How an Introvert's First Night At The Bar Went The thing about introversion is that pretty much all introverts also have an extroverted side. And vice versa. So introverts may be 'in the mood' for socializing less often, but when they are, they can be just as fun and outgoing as an extrovert. Congrats on forcing yourself to go out. From here on, the only way is up!	/r/seduction	31/03/12 01:38 PM
2	Men, how the fuck do you take care of your skin? I remember reading somewhere online about a guy who had bad acne/spots, tried all types of different products to improve his skin, but nothing was that effective. Eventually, he stopped using products COMPLETELY. He washed his entire body with water only. Apparently, his acne/spots improved a ridiculous amount. Not saying it'll work for you, but it's worth bearing in mind as a last ditch plan.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 11:41 PM
2	Conversations seem dry? Relax. Try to be positive, banterful (Not a word. Take that Oxford.) and on the edge of laughter a lot of the time. Throw in the odd tease/statement/witty comment and you're golden.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 11:32 PM
17	[FR] First time daygame, big realizations Thanks for sharing dude. I'm close to doing my first day time approaches, and if I can finish 'em with the same nonchalant, don't-give-a-fuck attitude you ended yours with, I'll be more than happy.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:43 PM
4	What the hell is wrong with us? Why do we need all this stuff? For me it was an extreme lack of self-confidence that stemmed from always being a 'shy' guy which then led to gaming addiction. That then led to becoming a social hermit. And I doubt most people here NEED all these techniques. They just give you a better chance of bagging a pretty and interesting girl. On top of that, the techniques help you in life in general. Fuck it. If most people don't want to study them, then that's their loss.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:15 PM
1	Eye Contact Right. Maintain an overall dominant and confident frame while keeping the intimidation to a minimum. You want her to be attracted to you and to respect you, but also feel comfortable around you.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:09 PM
1	Eye Contact Learn how to smile. Practice in the mirror. It will make you seem open and friendly and studies have shown will most likely also improve your own mood. The point of strong eye contact and body language is to show you're a strong, confident person. Pair that with a slight smile and a generally friendly attitude and you'll be a lot more attractive and less threatening. Especially whilst approaching/opening a woman.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 05:02 PM
1	How to improve yourself each day, become outcome independent, and love life no matter what it throws at you. Everyone who wants to get better at life and with women should look to improve themselves in as many ways as they can and gain-unshakable self-confidence and self-worth. Here's a sample list of priorities: Wake up before 9 EVERY morning and actually do shit throughout the day to reach goals. Learn how to cook. At least the basics. Learn how to drive. Learn a musical instrument to a high-standard. Read a book every week. Learn game/get better at conversing/improve general social skills. etc. Get …	/r/seduction	30/03/12 04:50 PM
1	What's your problem? Addressing the route causes of your lack of success with women rather than just the symptoms Thanks for the kind words. Much appreciated!	/r/seduction	30/03/12 11:09 AM
2	[FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :) Awesome FR!	/r/seduction	29/03/12 01:12 PM
2	What's your problem? Addressing the route causes of your lack of success with women rather than just the symptoms (Long ass post incoming) Good article. Getting some girl with some canned technique most likely won't make you happy in any real sense. You need to change yourself and become something that makes you happy... then you should naturally get the girls. The route causes of my failure with women (and in life in general) were/are quite deep: It started with a general dislike of my personality/my lack in social skills and enthusiasm for social interaction, which caused me to become very bitter and with…	/r/seduction	29/03/12 11:00 AM
3	The other half of the equation. I'll check it out. Thanks!	/r/seduction	28/03/12 03:25 PM
1	Anyone else having problems approaching in the day, because they don't know if the girl(s) are around the same age as you? "Gimme your number and I'll call you in a couple years." Just kidding. Just nonchalantly say: "Really? I thought you were older than that. Oh well, see ya."	/r/seduction	28/03/12 03:19 PM
1	Read alot of stuff, watch the DVDs, butwhen it comes time whet I'm sitting by a cute girl I still don't know what to do Relax and don't 'over-think' things. Just approach. Approach as many attractive girls as you can but have a opener/story or two ready to go before you do. Learn from that experience. Then learn more openers, stories, tactics etc. Rinse and repeat. Build up your confidence and game step-by-step. Good luck!	/r/seduction	28/03/12 12:31 PM
1	Good place to start? To be honest, you sound like an interesting guy who has his shit together. You shouldn't have any problems. Just be confident and happy in yourself. Joke and laugh about everything and have a nonchalant, relaxed attitude towards life. Of course you should plan seriously for the future, but live in the moment and enjoy yourself. Your new job as a bartender should help you to accomplish just that and give you plenty of opportunities to work on your social skills and bullshit/banter with tons of di…	/r/seduction	27/03/12 08:29 PM
2	Shutting Up I was thinking about this myself. I think if done in the right way and at the right times, staying 'quiet' can convey a great amount self-confidence. As opposed to people who have to talk about everything all the time. One of the most annoying things ever imo.	/r/seduction	27/03/12 05:28 PM
1	Sunday Reflection. What did you learn this week? I am by no means an expert but to get over that AA you just need to approach a lot of women. The worst that can happen is her saying 'no'. Then on you go to the next one! If you don't want to do it in your home town where people will recognize you/ don't want your friends to see you do it, then my advice is to get a train to a nearby city every so often and just do a ton of approaches. Good luck!	/r/seduction	26/03/12 09:38 PM
-3	What to answer to girl who says shes really good in bed? "Liar."	/r/seduction	26/03/12 08:27 PM
2	Yet another inspirational example for those of you starting literally from scratch [huge story] That was a long figurative walk. I'm tired. Inspiring story though. And as someone who has also suffered with intense anxiety and depression, I can relate.	/r/seduction	26/03/12 09:23 AM
11	Currently sitting next to hot chick at coffee shop. I will act like a robot if you tell me what to do. Meanwhile, in hot chick's head: "There's some dude sitting near me laughing to himself. He seems crazy. If he approaches me he's getting a boiling hot latte in the face."	/r/seduction	25/03/12 10:30 PM
2	Let me say thank you, seddit by sharing my amazing (long) life story that you have helped shape. F*ck yeah.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 05:09 PM
1	Pickup Is Unicycling Awesome read. Very informative. Also, I've been looking to work on my self-esteem and 'inner game' so I'll definitely take a look at those two books when I get the time. Thanks.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 04:47 PM
5	I'm married with two kids, and I study Seddit and various PUA material. I thought you might be interested in why... Nicely said and very true. Almost everyone who wants to learn pick-up does it for a bigger reason than just 'f*cking lots of chicks'. Most learn the techniques to feel less awkward, less worried and more relaxed and comfortable in social interactions and in life in general. I know that's why I'm learning it.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 11:22 PM
0	Picking up shy girls Well that's the plan. But you need to get her into bed first!	/r/seduction	20/03/12 11:10 PM
3	Eye contact is incredibly important. Works best if you're a human fly. I hear Jeff Goldblum was boss at womanizing.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 10:17 PM