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jimjam80/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:20 PM
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jimjam80/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:16 PM
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You have to consider that these are her instagram photos, i.e. the best photos that she has to share, i.e. she doesn't look as good IRL as she does in the photos, and she's pretty rough in the photos to begin with. Notice how she keeps her mouth closed when she smiles? It's because she's got scary ass teeth. Look at the photo of her being silly with all of those crawfish on her fingers . . . heinous!!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 08:01 PM
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Yep. It's being held hostage and it's total BS. And I'm guessing the number of people who follow through on the threat is negligible.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:57 PM
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Did you take it as an insult at the time? I would have taken it as a compliment when I was full BP. "This is great, she understands that I would never cheat so she knows I'm worth it and she'll always stay with me." So happy to have taken TRP. I also think it's funny how BP men pride themselves on being monogamous and "would never cheat." It's pretty easy not to cheat when nobody wants to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 04:50 PM
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She is way below average in looks . . . my god. And the title of the article . . . the reference to "The One." ARRGHH!! Every wall-approaching woman is searching for The One. So annoying.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:16 PM
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Eg drama, pregnancy, threats, etc. If he really wanted out, he'd just leave. This is my brother. His wife threatened to kill herself if he ever leaves, and he acts as though he's carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders, sacrificing himself so that he doesn't have blood on his hands. The truth is that he has assigned himself zero value, thinks he could never do any better (couldn't do much worse IMHO - fat, lazy stupid, annoying wife) and actually likes being with her. I told him that i…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:49 PM
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It's an easy one to make, too . . . she's responding well, there is a good dynamic . . . let's keep this going! They typically won't give you an indicator you can work with to escalate, and all of a sudden it will dawn on you that you already fucked up. The conversation gets stale, it's awkward, and there's nothing you can do to get it back.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 04:29 PM
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Completely agreed. Going radio silent is my new favorite trick, and it's non-defensible. To even try and end things with a concise, non-emotional text will open you up to drama, and you can't win an argument with a woman because they aren't bothered with pesky things like logic, common sense, social etiquette, or fairness. I read a quote I like on this board: "Arguing with a woman is like wrestling with a pig. You get covered in mud, and they love it."
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 04:17 PM
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Thanks for this post. Here I am almost 1 year post TRP, and I'm on my way, but not quite there yet. I noticed early on a desperate, flailing need to proclaim myself alpha, and would do so after minor triumphs only to have my house of cards come tumbling down. Only then was I actually able to swallow TRP. The ego is a tricky little bastard and will play all sorts of tricks to view itself how it likes. Now I'm meditating that little bastard into less significance while I slowly transform my body a…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:16 PM
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Here's my $0.02 - I had saved your post on addiction and was able to look at it mine a new light (everything comes with a spike of dopamine, some more than others, we gravitate toward the greater spikes to our own detriment) and have had an incredibly productive 24 hours since gaining this new perspective. Helped it click. I've struggled with addiction my whole life and it's my biggest impediment to living a free TRP life.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:28 PM
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Yes, and this has hit epic proportions in the age of social media. It still floors me to this day that women think people actually want to see daily selfie-updates and photos of their meals. Or bathroom mirror selfies complete with duckface and a peace sign. Or incessant close-up selfie photos where then essentially end up with exact same photo of themselves, over and over again.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:31 PM
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We both know the truth, and we both know I won't be committing because of it. Awesome. I've never heard it put this way, but this is exactly what I do. Don't ask, don't care, don't commit.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 10:04 PM
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I've noticed I have a bad habit of building up something into a task or problem much greater than it actually is . . . for bigger things (projects at work) to ridiculously smaller things (taking out the trash). I'm starting to dig meditation, as simply observing your thought patterns takes the severity out of the meaning you assign to them. In the back of my mind, a voice will say, "fuck, you still need to take out the trash" and repeat it every now and again, adding one more drip into a bucket …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:07 PM
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Agreed. Post TRP, I think I would feel less shame than I did at the time I cheated. But it would still be an unpleasant stimulus because of that conditioning and I'll avoid it for that reason, although I understand that sexual strategy is amoral and I don't give a shit when other people do it to each other.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 03:57 PM
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Had a friend tell me once about cheating . . . "even if she doesn't find out and could never find out . . . YOU still know." I've done it before, and the shame was overwhelming.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:13 PM
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I imagine I'll do the same when I get some plates of my own.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:50 PM
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I may understand . . . if a girl is willing, for the most part, my dick is going in. She could be fat or annoying, but if I have access, I will go for it. Then, the moment after I nut, the emotions that run through my head involve shame and regret, as well as anxiety about getting this low value woman away from me. I don't need to bottom feed like this and aspire not to.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 03:25 PM
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I considered myself liberal before I moved here, and this city is so over the top that it's pushed me in the exact opposite direction. I had a woman call me racist for wearing a sombrero in one of my online dating profiles. Aside from the SWJ bullshit, it's also a clique-y, cold city where people get married younger. I'm going to look for jobs in NYC.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 08:05 PM
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Seattle is also wrought with SWJs and feminists, I would have never moved hear had I known.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:40 PM
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Right? Dumbest thread ever. It's nothing like rape at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:17 PM
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Now that you put the word 'understand' in italics I do. That was really helpful, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:46 PM
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Get the point now? I get that women want the benefits of the marriage contract without having to uphold their end of the bargain. I also get that the word "rape" is being used as click bait to elicit more views and reactions in this post. I understand that women aren't attracted to their husbands and don't want to fuck them as well, but I won't empower them as victims by using the word "rape" to describe this phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:45 PM
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Did you see that I quoted text from within the body of the post?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:31 PM
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Because in a sense, these women are being raped. Not legally, obviously. And not really. If it's not rape, then why call it rape? Are you trying to further contribute to the rape culture myth? He might as well be holding the kids at knifepoint and forcing her to fuck him. This is total bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 08:28 PM
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The one with the IUD got it while I was 'seeing' her. She's also a nurse, and would send me updates after the procedure about how she was feeling sick, about when she'd be able to bang again, etc. So for her to be pregnant now, she either: 1) was lying about getting it in the first place, which would be insanely psycho giving the amount of acting involved, 2) had her IUD removed within a year of getting it in the first place, either with or without this guy's knowledge, or 3) the IUD failed (whi…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:51 PM
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3 years ago (pre-red pill) I dated some desperate mid-30's women . . . still party girls. Both of them fucked on the first date (one I met at an after-hours sex party and banged her within 60 minutes of meeting her). Both pretended they were cool with something casual but were immediately jealous and controlling. Both also told me they were on birth control (one on the pill, the other an IUD). We remained facebook friends after communication stopped, and I've since learned that BOTH ARE PREGNANT…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 08:03 PM
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Thanks for the head's up, it sounds like my instincts weren't unfounded. I hated the actress who played Supergirl's character in Glee (the virgin holdout who won't be pressured into sex, religious) as well . . . another showed ruined by feminist propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:33 PM
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I met a few from OKC in the past and they are rock solid entitled cunts.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:48 PM
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a LTR today is a golden prison for females to keep men as if they were exotic birds. I agree with the cage metaphor, but replace 'exotic bird' with 'rat'. Women would have way more respect for an exotic bird than a man.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:44 PM
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I refuse to watch Supergirl.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:41 PM
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A common tactic is also to do such a shitty job and be such a pain in the ass that you simply stop expecting them to actually do their job. I can say this applies to ALL women I work with . . . 100%. "Administrative Assistant" is the new euphemism for "secretary", and we churn through them because of their total incompetence. There is one 40-something lady in my firm who's a form of "Senior Admin", as she's somewhat competent . . . keep in mind the "somewhat" part. You should see her stride arou…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:39 PM
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My ex (raging feminist) now uses some cute euphemisms to describe this . . . she's simply "dating with purpose" and "looking for her forever person."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:22 PM
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I took a girl out for drinks a night last week and then out on a boat over the weekend. It seemed promising after the night of drinking, but on the boat day I realized that she viewed me as an endless resource of fun things for free for which nothing would be required of her in return. I knew I was breaking all the rules by providing too much, but since I was going to be boating by myself that day just for practice anyway, it was actually better to have a hot chick with huge tits in a bikini on …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:37 PM
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All women are like this. They just hide it from the public. I guaranty that if any of us were privy to the many 'honest conversations' women we've dated have had with their friends or family about us, all of our anger phases would be reactivated. Ever notice how your girlfriend's friends seem more distant and start being more cunty toward you as your relationship goes south? That's because she talks incessant shit behind your back, gets all her friends to hate you, and then uses the fact that he…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:22 PM
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I'd rather have AIDS than kids.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 04:24 PM
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She probably didn't even intend to touch his dick, but when she passed out, she probably fell in such a way that her hand just so happened to land on this guy's crotch. AND, it sounds like she didn't consent to this dick-touching, either. She should speak to the authorities and file charges for sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 04:17 PM
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No need to pay for dinner/drinks, buy her shit, etc. No promises of commitment or marriage. After all, I'm being myself, and spending time with her, that should satisfy her, right? Ha . . . recently, pre-TRP, my male hamster would think this to itself as justification for my covert contract. "It's okay that she's basically planning our wedding in her head . . . if she really loved me, she'd understand that there has to be an equal give and take before I'd ever give her a ring." That shit works b…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:18 AM
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Are there any Canadian women who haven't yet died their hair purple? Because I know that 100% of them have nose rings.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:12 AM
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The system doesn't reward "bad behavior" within the religious community either. So now we have to endure religion in order to have LTRs with 'quality women'? You do realize that dating religious women is it's own separate horrible burden, do you not? I'd take a CC riding washed up skank over a bible thumping self righteous religious lady any day. They're different manifestations of female crazy, and both are worthless.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:10 AM
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Women think that their time and their companionship is what's valuable. That "loving" them means wanting nothing more than to bask in their shitty personalities. Not only that . . . I read a comment on TRP a month ago that resonated with me . . . women consider it a privilege to allow you to pay for them! Today's your lucky day, you GET to pay for me!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:05 AM
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This woman is hilariously insecure. It makes me smile how weak she is. I actually let her FB friend me, really as an experiment. I suppose she wanted to do more research on me. I used to date a really hot girl and figured all the legacy photos would be good for dread. This girl freaked out when checking out my profile and emphatically asked why I hadn't deleted all the photos posted by my ex (they were several years old) and then deleted me as a friend. One month later, she sent me another messa…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:08 AM
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Also, the usernames have universal truths to them as well. For example, any username containing the words "cute", "hot", "pretty", or "4u" always have jacked faces. For example, "cutiePi4u" . . . she has a busted face. "Beautiful_Moment" weighs 268 pounds. Any usernames containing words to describe a state of contentment, such as "happy", "fun", or "loving" are all bitter cunts who want to take revenge on mankind through you.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 12:01 AM
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Not only do they not give a shit, but they also seem to enjoy rubbing salt in your wounds like a pig enjoys mud. ZERO empathy . . . the caring side they showed you in the past was a act. And post break-up, the amount of time they wait until they fuck a different guy? Hold your breath the moment she leaves the room, and by the time you have to take a breath she will have another dick in her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:53 PM
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This is actually a very polite profile by dating app standards. Typically there is a laundry list of rules regarding who is and is not allowed to contact them and why. I saved the text from one particularly obnoxious OKC profile because I thought it was so insane at the time: 1. Don't send me a message commenting on this disclaimer, please. Thanks. I get about a billion emails a day here; it's genuinely overwhelming. Just be sincere. That's all I ask. The rest is confusing enough as it is. ;) 2.…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:10 PM
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I can relate to this, and the only thing that makes me feel better is having slept with a legitimately hot woman, which is more challenging at age 37 but I have plenty of inspiration on this board and continue to pump up my SMV. The next step for me is meditation, to separate myself from my incessant thoughts about needing to get laid. I place to much value on sex and depend on it for validation, but I sense that no amount of women can fill this hole. The moments when I distract myself and feel …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:00 PM
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I gotta go, the, ugh . . . Christmas tree is on fire.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:33 PM
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What a great post. Saved it. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 05:32 PM
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Ha . . . awesome. "Etchings." I don't even know what that means necessarily but I'm getting some and pretending I made them.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:21 PM
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If you're looking for only ONS dress like a scumbag. Go as edgy as possible. Never thought about it this way. I'm dressing too preppy to convey me = sex.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:00 PM
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Can confirm. LA is filled with alphas already, hard to compete.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:42 AM
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What about the paying for wine part? Would you have paid and chalked it up to the best thing to do at the moment, or would you have split the bill when it came? Seems like a way they could say they don't have any money and bail, so you get left with the tab and zero girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 04:32 PM
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We're all animals and none of this matters anyway. Grog from 3567 BC was a dick to Helgafelg and guess what . . . nothing
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:13 AM
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On vacation, ha, no harm no foul . . . it was an attraction almost like zip lining. Costa Rica fuunnn!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 06:42 AM
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The ghost flies at midnight.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:00 AM
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Some women get off on it, and nothing else will get them off. I dated this hot total slut (she was turning thirty, my career was just starting to take off at age 31) who was pretty open about having ridden 4 cock carousels already. I was such a beta . . . she was the hottest girl I had ever dated so she had me by the balls and liked to make me jealous by talking about past sexual escapades, and I let her. Interesting part is when I'd fuck her, she would tell me to call her a dirty slut, a filthy…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:38 AM
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I imagine a nice guy 3,000 years ago was like a pet. He makes sure to let you know that you're dominant over him so that you don't see him as a threat and let him survive and maybe even share a few resources and offer a little protection in exchange for letting him live as long as he entertains you and also does all the bitch work so the alpha doesn't have to bother. Today's beta works 60 hours a week at a tech job to buy his wife a Range Rover for her to fuck two different men during the same n…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:28 AM
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This is gold, I'm doing this. Because there's a conversation going on in my head that needs to be blocked or overridden in that moment.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:18 AM
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you don't have to want to hook up with them That's a good point, I just realized that I've been using the fact that girls aren't hot enough as an excuse to not chat with them. I'm talking like on the elevator or in line for lunch . . . just opportunities to practice social interaction and get some awkwardness-avoidance training in what is otherwise wasted time.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:16 AM
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Right? This is almost incomprehensible to me. Two different men? In her own car? It would be one thing if a guy talked her into fucking him in HIS car. But twice in one night, both in her car, means that SHE is the one who suggested it (or teed it up for him to suggest it . . . same thing). How many times has she done this? Certainly hundreds, probably 500 if you extrapolate (say she does this every two weeks on average, so once a week since two in one night . . . 52 men per year for 10 years). …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:07 AM
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Simply saying 'no' feels like a beta trying to be alpha instead of an actual alpha . . . it implies an emotional reaction. Sounds like losing frame relative to the "here's why this is bullshit and you know it" approach that conveys the same message in easily-absorble-for-women format.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:01 AM
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Funny how quickly you switch from top human on the planet to world's biggest lowlife.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:38 AM
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Do you think that perhaps a way that a man can let go of his anger is to vent in one of the few forums where men can be honest about their feelings without fear of social stigma you'd get anywhere else? You're a white knight for having the knee-jerk reaction of "someone mentioned hitting women, I must step in, I must correct him, it's never okay to hit a woman." You're white knight for deliberately taking this out of context . . . "duh, I'm white knight because I don't hit women?" Nobody here is…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:53 AM
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Anger fades with time and so will this anger. Until then, there's nothing I can do about wanting to slap her across the room and laughing while I do it. Take your white knight bullshit somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:06 AM
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Trust that if given this opportunity, I would hire an MMA expert and personal trainer to maximize my strength and teach me how to deliver the most devastating blow that physics will allow.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 12:35 AM
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I would pay $500 to punch my ex girlfriend directly in the face as hard as I can.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:54 PM
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Thanks. Rollo actually mentions this in The Rational Male, and I'm sure there's tons of references to it in this sub over time . . . everyone is morbidly afraid of rejection, and rejection isn't an actual threat to our survival. We limit ourselves . . . intensely . . . for fear of something that does not actually harm us.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 10:49 PM
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Do you remember where you were hanging out, and in what context did you meet these women?
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:25 PM
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It couldn't have more sjws then Seattle . . . even if it's an equal amount, it would be an improvement if it's full of young, hot, single women. Seattle is certainly not that. My favorite quote about Seattle women . . . "even the Asians are ugly."
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:51 PM
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I think it's bad everywhere, but slightly worse here in Seattle. People in general don't like it when you approach them and speak with them if they don't know you, so you can see how that would be a difficult environment for gaming. I don't have roots here in Seattle so I don't need to stay (lived here 3 years now, 10 in Los Angeles before that). Never even heard of an SWJ or encountered a feminist the entire time I lived in Los Angeles. I'd move back there, but already been there, done that.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:50 PM
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They never leave, either. They want to milk the experience for all they can.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:30 AM
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Let's not forget about the content of their profiles as well. "Don't contact me if . . . " insert everything under the sun here. Not looking for hookups, looking for just friends even though this is a dating website, please be patient with me, I get 1,000 messages a day, only contact me if . . . .
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:28 AM
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I suppose it should be no surprise that even trying to boil down sex to a very direct transaction . . . I'll just pay you for it . . . is still wrought with deceptions and pitfalls. I've also learned to confirm their menus in advance, because just because it's shown in her profile, doesn't meant that she's actually willing to do it or not up-charge you for it. It's definitely worth doing the homework in advance to get a good one, and it's hard to not act impulsively when you're shopping through …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 09:12 PM
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I've learned, it's NEVER worth it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 08:05 PM
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Ha, I'm right there with you. This is a slippery slope . . . the escort world has it's own extreme version of deceptions. I've learned the hard way that women who advertise as 'thick in all the right places', and their pictures seem to support it, are actually morbidly obese hogs . . . the kind I don't want to even look at much less fuck. And the women who look thin are actually too thin or have no curves on their bodies. Bad complexions are common as well as fucked up teeth. There's almost alwa…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 08:05 PM
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Yep. And what a decline . . . I keep scrolling through profiles on dating apps and find the same progression every time: first photo is attractive, the next slightly less, the third even less, and the 4th is a swollen pig face version of the rest, and even that one makes them more attractive than they really are. EVERY TIME. All girls are standing sideways, wearing sunglasses, the photo is conveniently blurry, weird angles . . . a horde of fat fugly bitches all posing and acting like supermodels…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:56 PM
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I'm trying to focus on that feeling of rejection . . . it happens in life no matter what, and I avoid it like the plague, but why? It's not physical suffering, it's all ego-driven. I was rejected by a girl last week and it burns . . . my boss treats me like I'm stupid because he's a dick and it burns. Now when I feel that burn, I try to explore that space for a bit. Is this really so awful? Is this more awful than the myriad of opportunities I've missed because I've been avoiding this feeling? W…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:14 PM
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Glad to hear that the rational brain has moved on. Be thankful that her behavior pushed you toward TRP. Now you can educate/improve/protect yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:09 PM
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I actually want to fuck fat chicks (specifically, girls with fat asses. I hate fat guts, but you can't see them when bent over). I think it's because all of the women around me when I was growing up in the midwest were fat moms, and I would look at their huge asses while developing as a boy. Don't get me wrong, I think it's gross that they let themselves get so fat, but that's part of the reason I like fucking them if I put my Freud hat on. Like they're so much lower than me, they must submit to…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:58 PM
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Plus the sexual marketplace is already fucked . . . your drop in a bucket (not fucking fatties) will never matter. That's like going vegan to save animals. Billions of animals are still totally fucked.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:51 PM
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I've actually got this point down pretty well. I fucked up last week by trying to continue the friendly jibes and teasing, because she was reacting in kind and it was fun. Until it wasn't any more . . . all of a sudden it felt like mental sparring and we were both tired of it. I took it too far and lost attraction. Kicking myself for it now . . . I should be banging her by now. Abundance mentality, abundance mentality, abundance mentality . . .
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:48 PM
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I like the one nice to two Alpha move ratio, that can serve as a guide. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:46 PM
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Yep. She was pushing 30, and was trying to override her pussy with her brain. "I have to stop banging losers and find a good quality man." I just wish I could've overridden her brain with some tingles of my own, but that's not the category she put me in and it was an uphill battle to get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:29 AM
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You know what the most annoying thing to a smoker is? Another ex-smoker telling them how much better life is after they stopped smoking. My brother is a smoker and told me he plans on quitting . . . once he finishes this last CARTON. He also told me that he's planning on divorcing his wife . . . after X, Y, Z, etc. He's never going to do either of these things and will die of lung cancer, still married to his fat, worthless alcoholic wife. She's such an alcoholic that she will drink vanilla extr…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:25 AM
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In my opinion you seem intent on trying to view your relationship in such a way that prevents you from seeing it for what it is . . . it's already fucked and you should bail. To much drama, too much history . . . dread game is a requirement for sex? Attraction is gone. She needs to WANT to fuck you, not do it out of fear of consequences. I recognize after all these years you are attached and leaving the relationship sounds too painful, but now you know too much and there's no turning back. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:16 AM
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My sister tells unbelievable stories, but the reason they are unbelievable is because they aren't true. I'll listen to her tell a stupid story about an event that I was present for . . . you can tell when she doesn't think she's getting a good enough reaction because all of a sudden new fictional elements get layered into the story to make it more interesting. She doesn't even consider that I was there at the time . . . doesn't even cross her mind. "Never lets the truth get in the way of a good …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:47 AM
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Forget about men being guilty in the eyes of everyone after a false rape accusation . . . men are guilty to everyone after a false ANYTHING accusation. Not only that, but women will tell their biased view of events to all their friends/family, make their friends/family hate you, and then try and use the fact that these people hate you as evidence for you being wrong. All from her story alone. You couldn't interject your version of events if you wanted to . . . all of those conversations happen b…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:44 AM
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It's impossible for me to respect women post red pill. The best compliment I can give one is "doesn't seem to be a cunt at the moment."
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:39 AM
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Excellent points, thank you. I guess I get so pissed when women are cunts about rejecting you. Any pointers on how to let it roll off your back when a woman goes out of her way to insult you while she rejects you?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:23 AM
1

It's like instead of WWJD, it's WTMHPW? (will this make her pussy wet)
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:14 AM
10

Thanks, good point. It's the outcome independence thing . . . the moment I realize that I like them and really want to bang them, I try to simply not screw it up . . . hence the beta behavior. And my attempts at alpha 'not giving a fuck' via text or dating app aren't congruent with how I'm acting in person, so I'm sniffed out as an imposter that way.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:12 AM
3

This is my brother, and it is in fact cringe-worthy. He's so proud of his 'trophy wife' . . . married her at age 30, straight of the CC, and now they have 4 kids. He posts photos of her on FB with captions like "I married well", beaming with pride, and everyone chimes in to agree with him.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:08 AM
1

I went on a few dates with a cute DITZ (far before my red pill days). I heard that she had been banging the bouncer at the bar we met at, so I thought . . . hell, if she bangs him, then she'll definitely bang me. Nope. I wasn't in the alpha category, I was in the beta bux category . . . she became a born again virgin all of a sudden and wanted to "do it right." Even in my blue pill days, I said fuck that after the second date and she never heard from me again. I was totally blue pill at the time…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:06 AM
3

I've noticed that I will come up with any excuse on the planet to not approach a girl. My SMV isn't high enough yet, I'm not in the right mood, I'm too old for her, she's too hot for me . . . I weed myself out as a non-contender every time. I realize now that there is no possible way to develop game, whatsoever, other than suffering rejection. There is no avoiding it, there is no adequate amount of preparation.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:56 PM
37

I'm good looking, and keep fucking up the interest I spark up by immediately reverting to beta behavior. Paying for things, acting like the gay friends instead of the badass alpha. It's because I don't practice enough, and when in the field I panic and revert back. Gaming is a skill set, and since it takes rejecting 30 years of beta conditioning to do properly, is going to take a lot of practice.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:52 PM
6

He looked out for the person that looked out for him, and I'm really grateful for that. This happened to my dad and my great aunt. She was never wealthy but as a product of the depression she squirreled away money her whole life which added up to around $350k by the time she died at age 93. She was a negative person and sucked to be around, but my dad cleaned her house and bought her groceries and took her to doctor appointments for the last 2 years of her life because she needed help. She left …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:11 PM
1

one guy actually said: "whatever baby wants baby gets" This made my stomach turn. No wonder women are so awful . . .
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 05:59 PM
1

I think her pussy stank as an extension of her horrible personality. She weighed in heavily on the psycho end of the spectrum . . . actually had an elaborate, unbelievable lie she told of why she didn't want me to go down on her. She said when she was a kid, she was climbing a fence and somehow fell when straddling it, injuring her pussy somehow, and she was embarrassed about a scar on her pussy, or something. So I would look for what she was talking about the few times I did go down on her . . …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:56 PM
2

Have you ever licked the business end of a 9-volt battery? If not, you have to try it to get the analogy. It gives you a little shock and tastes like metal. The experience of licking a hot girl's pussy and getting that first little taste of . . . we'll call it 'tang', is a similar experience. Delightfully shocking.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:48 PM
6

Spunk aside, there's a whole ecosystem going on down there. Hygene is of course the number one contributing factor to how 'pleasant' a woman's vag is to play with, but some girls naturally taste and smell better than others regardless. I dated a hot chick who's pussy just stank . . . there wasn't much she could do about it other than clean it, but the cleanliness never lasted long. Her pussy either tasted like soap or like mold. Others tasted and smelled awesome almost every time. Now, I won't r…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:40 PM
2

Why do you need to back them up . . . do they somehow disappear on your phone over time? Or is this just in case you lose your phone?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:27 PM
7

I used to like her, but now I just think she's a cunt. The first season of Inside Amy Schumer was hilarious. The second season was un-watchable.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:55 PM
1

You say you are fat . . . implementing some self discipline in your diet should lend itself to some decent weight loss without too much effort. Start lifting and dieting. On the list of traits attractive people have, not being fat is number one.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 07:40 PM
5

What's funny is the moment you told her you were leaving, she probably got lots of tingles. "Oh, boy . . . drama!" Her favorite. I'm done being nice to girls as well. No humans who aren't royalty have been treated as well as them historically, and they completely take it for granted. I'm going to use my anger to stay slightly more hostile in my conversations with them. I'm fine with crossing the line and pissing them off . . . I have always erred on the nice side. Much like paying for them, I'm …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 11:15 PM
1

The conditioning you've experienced pre-red pill was beat into your brain through repetition far longer than the amount of time you've been exposed to TRP. Personally, I notice my thoughts reverting to blue pill from time to time, and nothing sets me straight better than coming on TRP and reading some logic and truth in a world that's gone insane.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:09 PM
2

The question is: how do I get back on it? You're asking for the silver bullet, and there isn't one. I recognize that you're suffering . . . not only has everyone here been there before, but it's also the reason why we're all on TRP. This board already contains all of the information you need, but it takes a while to absorb and internalize, and even longer to become the attractive, swinging dick man who doesn't give a shit about hoes. Start with the side bar, read the posts every day, and know th…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:15 PM
2

I've been working on this . . . I catch myself rambling, speaking without authority . . . not worthy of being listened to. This is a part of "be attractive, don't be unattractive", and attraction is non-negotiable. Less is more while you figure out how to assert yourself vocally.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:09 PM
1

but your assumption she was a delicate flower differed extremely from the fact she sucks dick in toilets for cuddles and now you are trying to process this. I'm learning that most delicate flowers do this . . . or at least far more than we've all been led to believe.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:07 PM
15

You don’t need an excuse to treat them badly, think badly of them, or fuck them and leave them. You don’t need to feel bad about this, just because they’re human like you. This is where my head is at lately. I went a few dates with a few different women from online dating and ghosted them after they got too annoying, which happened almost immediately. I felt guilty at first, but then I thought, fuck this . . . these women deserved it. They thought moment that they had sex with me, I was lofted i…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:03 PM
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Are they so spoiled and delusional that they do not even look out for their own self interest anymore? My latest ex started a blog about her love life (think: her own personal Sex in The City blog, only she can't write and isn't funny, just unbelievably self-absorbed). She didn't get graphic, but she described all of her motivations and reasoning in the most unapologetic feminist context . . . anyone with half a brain who reads it will consider her the bottom of the barrel in terms of female nat…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 03:44 PM
11

I'm at the hospital and my friend comes through asking what's going on. I tell him and again not 20 seconds later he's talking about not being able to be alone, he's having a hard time etc. Holy Christ . . . what a prick. Can you imagine being THAT self-absorbed? Did he ask you for money next and then fuck your girlfriend? People suck.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 03:38 PM
6

However I find that some people are "serial losers" and you could help once and then ten minutes later they have screwed up again I tried in earnest to convert my brother (married for all the wrong reasons, says he hates it but does nothing) to TRP, and it was a frustrating waste of time. He agreed with every word that came out of my mouth and was ecstatic to have someone actually take an interest in his life and his decisions. We worked on the final plan of how to best leave his wife and protec…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 10:00 PM
5

0% of the favors I did for my struggling friends in college were ever returned in anyway shape or form. I can say the same. It came as a relief to understand that the world, myself included, is full of selfish assholes, and to expect 100% of all people to act solely in their self interest. I stopped judging others and myself quite as much.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:42 PM
18

This is why, when I feel guilt creeping into my thoughts after blowing off a female, I remind myself that females have blown me off for far less, or for no (rational) reason at all, and are able to do so completely free of guilt. I also remind myself that if sex has occurred, there remains no change in my obligations to this woman. One time my cousin's neighbor joined our party, noticed me, and effectively threw herself at me. Waking up at hers the next day, she admitted to feeling slutty, havin…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:36 PM
2

Some people can control it in moderation but alot of men can't. My latest red pill revelation is that I have an addictive personality, all the way. If I drink, I get plastered (biggest issue of all at the moment). If I smoke weed, I smoke until I fall asleep. And jerking off is my nemesis . . . I actually injure my wrists from beating it too much. Even when getting laid a lot in an LTR, I'd sneak out of bed early and go fap in the other room. Drinking and smoking weed and fapping all go together…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:09 PM
2

Her actions and suddenly stopped loving me destroyed me more than I could handle It's like they flip a switch. This is why we can only look within for validation . . . when we look outside for it, this is what happens. The only thing that helps me feel better about this kind of stuff is increasing my personal discipline so that I can improve myself faster.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 03:48 PM
1

Going radio silent denies the woman any opportunity for being a cunt or creating drama. All they can do is send you messages about how you're a fuck for ghosting her, but the moment she does, she now appears to be a low value psycho. I consider it to be the path of least resistance . . . you don't owe them anything, even if you've already had sex. They pretend that they've opened up to you and shared something deeply close and special with you, but the reality is that sex actually carries less m…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:40 PM
4

Kid Rock: If you walk around acting like you're the shit, people are going to think that you're the shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:25 PM
1

So do those Cambridge scientists!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:02 AM
14

I dunno. If it's on her birthday with all of her friends, and her declared status to them is that she friend-zoned you, I think she'll treat herself to the ego boost of specifically not fucking you in front of her friends. Or better yet, bringing a new love interest to watch you squirm. Wouldn't the first post-breakup fuck be more likely to start with a private meeting with just the two of you as opposed to on display in front of her audience?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:52 AM
5

I also feel that the level of disingenousness on the part of the females has gotten worse too. Misleading photos are the RULE. Each woman has her own strategy for how to optimize the order of photos such that you will never meet the person you were hoping for because you took the bait. I've fallen for all of them . . . fatness of course the most common, oldness or bad complexion (same thing . . . fucked up face), and huge or misshapen noses. You'll notice that any woman 35+ never shows a clear p…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:42 AM
1

I feel like whatever experiences I have now will pale in comparison to one that some fraternity brother or football player had in college. I'm haunted by this as well. While everyone else was banging (or trying to bang) other coeds while I was in college, I was in my basement writing songs trying to start a band so that I could use that to score 'REAL' pussy. I used music as my crutch forever as I had so much invested in it . . . 'any day now'. Nothing ever came of it, of course, because I was l…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:05 PM
7

It's all drama from now on, I'd bail and focus on new options.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:47 PM
2

Allowing every single breakup to be a drawn-out dramatic mess of nonsense. I would have done 100% of them differently now. Wouldn't have LTR'd any of them in the first place, either.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:13 AM
1

Awesome, thanks. Makes perfect sense. I always rationalized 'oh I don't mind paying' but you're right, she's done nothing to earn that and I just immediately look like a bitch even if I was smooth the rest of the time. It's the exact opposite of what we are 'trained' to do. I always thought paying would be the cherry on top for her but it's the kiss of death. Good call on the penny pinching as well. Shows it's more just equality than cheapness.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:04 AM
1

Excellent point . . . about bragging how much $$$ I make. I'm hardly rolling in money, but I do fine, and women view me as good marriage material, i.e. beta bux. And I play into it due to conditioning. That stops now. I'm not even going to talk about work at all, and if they ask I'm going to play it down. I can't play both cards.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:38 AM
1

Good call . . . so simple. Wait it out.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:37 AM
1

Just wanted to add that I realized I skip ahead too far . . . I had decent success one time surprising a girl with a kiss and now I'm too eager to kiss. I haven't met any cheeks yet, but I could sense the discomfort while they minimized the kiss to the extent possible, and then started pushing away. You can't skip steps. I think the skill is in the building . . . not rocket science, but there's definitely a trick to it.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:28 PM
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