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| 2 | Is it possible to win back respect, or is respect gone once lostYou can win back respect for yourself but it’s harder to get it back to over people once lost | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Maybe don’t ask directly just mention to a girl your dating with that you’ve never had that. And if she decides to do one for you be sure to compliment her and let her know it makes you feel good etc…. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Nice try OP ;) | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Scheduled a phone call. She didnt pick up. Texted back saying she was busy..?If your mindset is “put her in her place” when she misses a phone call with you. And you go with that option she will likely just think you are crazy / a red flag and ghost you. Sometimes people are genuinely busy or they are just unreliable. If them missing a phone call with you for whatever reason is a deal breaker for you then just move on knowing they aren’t right for you. I can relate though it can feel like they are disrespecting you. Had a girl miss scheduled phone calls 2 times in a row … | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 34 | Therapy is super underrated for seductionI agree, therapists are so easy to seduce | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else feel that the book, "How to win friends and influence people", advices people to be overly kind and fake which comes across as extremely inauthentic?Doesn’t a most of the book emphasise the point of being genuine when you do the things in it? Been a while since I read it | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Why the requirement of seduction?I used to think in a way like “you have to learn so much to be able to date etc...” or if it didn’t work out I’d question “what I did wrong / I need to learn more rules etc..” these days I feel I’m more secure and natural with it. My advice would be keep learning however just use what works with you, is natural and makes sense. Don’t let it make you into something your not because it won’t work. There’s a lot of toxic advice out there (along with the good advice) and it’s hard to know which is w… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Women(or men) how do you feel when you just know a guy(or a girl) that you like but you're afraid not liking him too?Need more context. Are you dating him? Is he a friend? Are you wanting him to ask you out? What things is he doing that give you the impression he doesn’t like you? What do you want out of him? | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I’m doneI’d take it with a big pinch of salt, however at one of my lowest points with much similar thoughts this old YouTube series really helped me out of it and after I started having more success with people: https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL717B88636529A92D A lot of the guys on there make some pretty interesting and thought provoking points on the whole seduction thing. It is old though so some of the things might be outdated today. A point btw the first guy on there in a later series changes h… | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | I (27) met a girl (27) via an anon chatting app. Pretty long and flirty convo, but she was also nervous about her husband finding out. She feels trapped in that relationship and wants fun. Is Snapchat safeguarded enough from him potentially finding out?And my axe! | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | IMPORTANT QUESTION I want to understand why when I’m with close friends I can be my full self expressing talking in a confident manner , while with other people I’m self conscious not fully being myself more reserved talking in a soft manner ,Experience my friend, get more of it. And always remember: There are no such things as mistakes, just opportunities to learn and grow. Small print: (Of course the exception to this rule is when those learning opportunities are in fact illegal and reprehensible but you need to be a right douchebag asshole for that stuff so dw but it’s important for me to add!) | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Girl lost interest, how to get it back?Have you tried turning it off and on again? | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 16 | I took a small amount of acid last night and that one saying really came into light for me is..I also took a small amount of acid last night and that one saying that really came to light for me is: Feeding the donkey sponge cake.. you are the sponge in your feeding. Stop giving a donkey and go get the lamb sauce! | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating.Could be a lot of things but I personally feel very similar and I believe it’s a lot due to the current state of affairs and a slight bit to do with where I’m living. I’ve definitely noticed a change in the amount of effort people in online dating are seeming to put out lately and my favourite ways of meeting people are a no go right now. So I too keep thinking why bother?? But at the same time there is an annoying nagging sensation that tells me I need to keep trying. Might seem a little crude … | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 179 | What do you bring to the table?I bring Doritos, dip, celery and breadsticks | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What are things other than exercise to make myself attractive during lockdownIve not read a huge amount but I’m currently reading / listening to the classic “how to win friends and influence people” it’s free on yt: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VPXrt0WWSbo Others I have read are: Neil strauss’s “the game” also free on yt but parts are missing from the full book And deida’s “the way of the superior man” also free on yt: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0yq-3qwiWBw I’ve gotten in a habit in the last few months of going on hour walks with my headphones on with one of these au… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What are things other than exercise to make myself attractive during lockdownWork on your self grooming routine, and if you don’t have one make one. Wether it be new ways of styling your hair, facial cleansing, how you shave and so on. Also read self help books on social skills / interactions, work on your body language (Only way I’ve thought so far is styling yourself like a seductive actor in a film / show but that might be counterintuitive) and reflect each week on your interactions (online and offline) with people and what you could do better. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.Comment | /r/seduction | 16/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongFair | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a nice guyI agree with this, but only by what is stereotypically defined as a hashtag “nice guy”. You can still be a decent human and not make these kinds mistakes or flaws to work on. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 06:31 AM |
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