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/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:33 AM
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I wish they would accept that it’s okay for men to have high standards as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:32 AM
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This is a fair expectation, however you can’t expect a strong man if you’re also not willing to keep up with your appearance. Women are supposed to be the one that attracts the man, therefore you gotta look good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:13 AM
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I think that’s what we think because we’re taught that humans are social creatures so there’s a little bit of societal conditioning to believe that’s the root cause. We’re taught it’s normal to have a SO and things of that nature. I believe humans are social but I don’t think we need it as much as we’re led to believe. I’m pretty sure most of the people who struggle with loneliness are either doing something they hate doing with their time or not doing enough during the day. I used to be lonely …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:55 AM
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Loneliness doesn’t come from lack of human contact, it comes from lack of mental stimulation. If you’re busy doing something you love you won’t be lonely even if you are by yourself. If you’re not busy enough or if you’re doing something you hate that’s what makes you lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:44 AM
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I think it’s because social media makes it seem like they do, they’ll have a ton of followers and as a man you kind of feel like an insignificant dot in a sea of fish. So you assume they get whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:25 PM
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Meh, maybe I just thought they had it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:13 PM
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All that’s true it’s just that they don’t normally get rejected. The attractive woman is usually the one who does the ghosting and the rejecting, she’s not immune to that happening obv but normally they wouldn’t be on the receiving end of that. And no it’s not the only important quality, idc if a woman looks like amouranrh if her attitude sucks I lose attraction personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:00 PM
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When attractive women experience rejection you can’t help but laugh a little cause I’m sure they thought it wasn’t supposed to happen that way, and that they were supposed to be doing the rejecting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:18 PM
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The thing is though I don’t want to participate in hookup culture because it doesn’t fit my personality, I only want a serious LTR. Always assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:30 AM
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That isn’t why I called them low quality by the way. I’m not the type of person you think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:02 AM
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Yeah that’s fair, they’re not sex toys and they shouldn’t have to give men complete power. There’s never going to be a world that’s completely one sided, it’s all about a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:30 AM
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There’s a lot of assumptions being made here. 1. I didn’t “miss out on” sex on tinder because I wasn’t attracted to the women’s personality on there anyway. It’s not like I wanted them. If women reject men they’re not interested that has no effect on me and them being more choosy about who the date does hurt men as a whole because there will be more rejected men. It’s not saying that women don’t deserve liberties, it’s saying that the chain reaction to that is less men having options. It was a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:11 AM
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Yes, of course they care, they’re the ones who’d have to deal with it. There isn’t any “moaning” this post was a general observation of the current dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:01 AM
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I used to use tinder but found most women on there low quality so I deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:53 AM
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I personally don’t care if they are stuck with them or not because that’s their business I’m just explaining how it is bad for the majority of men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:45 AM
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You’re a rare woman these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:37 AM
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Everything has to have a top and a bottom, even if the “suboptimal” men stepped their game up there’d still be a top that would be picked over them. Why do you think men are suboptimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:41 AM
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Should’ve explained, it’s bad for the bottom portion of men because they won’t have any chances for sex on a dating app. It’s good if you’re in the top 25% of men. But for the majority of men, you’re not in the top 25%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:33 AM
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I think it slightly lessens the chances in the sense that they can be more selective. If they’re more selective they can weed out the ones they don’t want right? In the past pretty much every man got married because they had less options, this was good for men as a whole but bad for women, now it’s sort of flipped if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:19 AM
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True but this made it much easier now they hardly have to leave the house. No but for men as a whole it’s worse because less men will have that opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:14 AM
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Unfortunately Yes and that makes it worse for us
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:14 AM
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Tbh, I’m all for men not pursuing marriage with the risk of alimony and how women get bored faster and I agree with the premise that divorce and especially child court are heavily against men. but I’m so tired of men thinking just because they turn 40 they’ll be able to get young hot women. That’s only if you actually build up a status but if you’re broke and not attractive you’re not going to be able to just pull young baddies like they say. It’s more of a resource thing that just being old. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:59 PM
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I don’t think so either, I’ve seen around 20 or so women comment that exact same scenario in this thread alone. Didn’t realize how common that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:28 PM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:33 PM
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Maybe I should try it one day, I’ve never actually asked a woman out before. I think I’m pretty good at keeping conversations going but starting them is the hard part
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:48 PM
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The problem is women aren’t receptive to being approached in public anymore because they’re also more antisocial. Unless you go to a bar I suppose but I don’t really like going to those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:35 PM
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No I never have, might be worth I read. I’ve given up already though but if I ever get back to trying I’ll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:02 AM
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This is what my parents don’t understand I’m a 22 year old virgin because my era is the hardest era in history to get a GF my dad’s era was way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:56 PM
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You know though, I’ve also seen this with my parents. My dad works a lot so he isn’t at home and doesn’t spend much time with my mom. And my mom complains to me about how they don’t do things together and go out anymore. Sometimes I tell her to do it herself but she says she wants to do it with him, so I can see this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:40 PM
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It seems like men who do that aren’t really looking for a human connection with women they’re just looking for a female presence and consistent sex. I think people need to understand that a relationship is going to be more work than a friendship and the work doesn’t stop after the initiating stage. That stage is more difficult for men and we do have to put in effort but obviously it doesn’t stop there. This kind of pisses me off a little bit because these men are making it harder to get a GF and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:34 PM
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Ask yourself this, why do women initiate breakups at such a high rate compared to men? And then answer this, what’s easier to get rid of a car that your dad bought you (you didn’t put in any effort to get it) or a car you saved up for for months (you put in a lot of effort to get it)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:18 PM
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You made me wish I was Eastern European lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:52 PM
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I do think men have to give effort throughout the relationship as well and it doesn’t stop after you initiate it I’m just telling her what often happens to those men. Men have to put in 80% of the effort for the relationship to be successful. Women really just have to look pretty and not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:47 PM
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That’s actually true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:56 PM
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Have you ever looked at him as a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:47 PM
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It just sounds fake, how can a breadwinner who has a ton more options just for being a woman be less likely to cheat. You’d have all the power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:26 PM
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I disagree, I think when women are breadwinners they tend to see their husband as a loser and a burden more than an actual partner. Women generally lose respect for men if they make less than them and the reason for this is simple. Women have a nearly infinite amount of options, why would they go for someone below their economic level when they could be going for someone above them or at their level since it would make their lives easier. I don’t think I’ve ever heard of a woman still being attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:17 PM
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Yeah it seems like women are better off not in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:20 AM
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Basically don’t be a boring unambitious person or you’ll be just a side piece until she’s bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:20 AM
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I don’t think I even truly realized how bored women get in relationships. Before this conversation I was pursuing a relationship but honestly that gave me second thoughts since I’m not the type of guy who really goes out very much. I think in general men are more easygoing, we get very comfortable with routine and with just relaxing at home. Women like to party more and are into going out, they wanna be seen and have attention thrown at them so that’s why I believe they’d rather go out than be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:46 AM
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Well said, in order to maintain a successful relationship the man has to put in so much more effort than the woman not only at initiating but even maintaining the relationship. It is a never ending battle for men. I always say the dating game isn’t fair, it’s mostly a woman’s game since they have the unfair advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:27 AM
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Being the initiator is taxing because you’re very unlikely to have been the first girl he initiated with. You’re probably one of many and just the only one that said yes. When you’re a man, in order to get a relationship you have to actively seek them out, unlike women, NOBODY will EVER reach out to you or message you showing interests, the average woman could easily get sex from men, but no woman gives a fuck about the average man. You have to get it, and 95% of the time you’ll either be reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:23 AM
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I think it’s possible that men get lazy in relationships, I’ve definitely seen stories of that happening before on here but I think my point still stands about emotional investment being greater from the man’s POV because we’re the initiators. The laziness may be due to the fact men have to work so hard for it to start in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:13 AM
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That’s essentially what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:11 AM
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Most women get praised for their looks on social media if anything, those onlyfans girls couldn’t exist or even do their job without male approval or support. I’m not saying women don’t get made fun of for wearing makeup but I don’t think that’s a very high percentage of discourse behind it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:22 AM
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Women humiliate men in the gym by trying to ruin our reputation and make us look like creeps for social media content. We all deal with the same shit but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t workout partially to increase my chances of getting a woman because we have hormones which make our lives harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:00 AM
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I sometimes question if women even like men, they’re so quick to have this chip on their shoulder and be super defensive against men that I wonder why they don’t all just be lesbians if they hate men so much. If you say you wear makeup partially for yourself and partially men then that’s not vain a straight woman is trying to get men. I workout partially for myself and partially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:17 AM
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You don’t if you did a lot of men would’ve became gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:57 AM
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It’d be so easy if that was all it took. There’d be way less competition too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:52 AM
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I see a lot of Instagram girls with average looking boyfriends all the time when I’m on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:41 AM
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It matters but not as much as men think. I learned this first hand because I used to be a fat guy but then I started working out a lost a lot of weight (250 to 175).I’m not a bodybuilder but I’m more fit than most men and you can definitely tell I have muscles with a t shirt on, women will be a little bit nicer towards you. They will hold the door open, more smiles at me, sometimes I notice me and a woman across the room keep making eye contact but trying to look away. But they’re not gonna swar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:37 AM
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If men became gay they wouldn’t have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:19 AM
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This is why I’m trying to figure out how to get cold approached by women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:36 PM
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I agree you shouldn’t assume a woman is a slut for dating a lot of different people in her 20s but it’s also fair to assume she’s the problem. Saying men are just boring or have no dick game makes it seem like they’d be the only problem. Imo, if someone has A LOT of failed relationships that’s a bit of a yellow flag either way imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:27 AM
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TBH what I’d do is just cut that friend off if I grew feelings overtime but maybe I go about it the wrong way idk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:14 PM
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I don’t think that happens often for women at least, once a woman decides you’re not attractive enough to be with there’s really nothing you can do to make her think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:05 PM
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I mean that could definitely be a benefit if she tries to set him up with friends but I don’t think female friends are a drain, I can’t really say anything to make you feel differently about that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:16 PM
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Because they think you’re just there for a genuine friendship and wanting something bigger makes it come off as you using the friendship as a gateway to get with her. That’s what I’ve been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:20 PM
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Yes it does, having female friendships is fine and I think beneficial but if you like a girl then make it clear you want a relationship at first. Women usually get upset when a friend says he wants something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:36 PM
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It’s at bare minimum admiration wouldnt you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:41 PM
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I disagree that a woman’s love is fleeting and temporary, I’ve seen some women on other subreddits basically take care of a man child who doesn’t do anything in relationships. So that part of red pill rhetoric is BS, I think women put up with more crap in relationships than they’re given credit for. As far as the physical urge thing, do you not think sex is a physical urge for women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:38 PM
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Think of it this way, at any given moment, there’s an army of people who want to give you pleasure. We don’t have that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:03 PM
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It’s a little different. The gym is just strength. Everyone wants to be loved and the fact that women can get that so easily while it’s so hard to get as a man can be a little bit tough mentally at times but we have to just accept it because that’s how the world works. The same as women accepting they have to be more cautious than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:00 PM
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Just have to accept it and realize there’s nothing we can do about it. No reason to get worked up about them having a lot of sex, it can be an uncomfortable thought sometimes. Edit: when I was younger I used to get uncomfortable thinking about how women were having a lot of sex and I was a virgin despite working hard to look good, but overtime I just got over it because it became normal. You’ll learn to accept it with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:52 PM
0

Women want commitment from men better at life than them to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:26 AM
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I wish more older women would date younger men. Cougars are too hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:18 PM
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Yeah it is bad, I was exposed to it at an early age and on top of that I used to be red pilled because I was homeschooled and grew up in a mostly male household. It’s kind of sad to me how it made me believe most women were just around fucking tons of guys. I don’t like how it gave me that perception of them. I’ve learned a lot about women from Reddit believe it or not from r/nothowgirlswork. Turns out they’re not as different from men as I thought and they’re still human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah that’s true. I know I could easily get a lot of men if I was gay, I’ve actually been sent dick pics (unprovoked) before by gay men and I’m a straight guy so that shows you how easy it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:12 PM
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What stops you guys from doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:52 PM
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Yeah to be honest, I thought women basically had a ton of guys on their phone that they could just call and have sex with at any time in the drop of a hat, but that page really changed my perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:07 AM
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This made me think that porn is pretty bad because it makes you think women have many sexual partners lined up at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:01 AM
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That legit blew my mind not even gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:53 AM
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Oh wow so you were taking a cheap shot then when you asked if I have no girl friends smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:55 PM
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But you know your comments made me think about something. I feel like the whole “cock carousel” that red pillers say women ride is only a very small percentage of women. I think men who have sex have more sexual partners than the average woman. But there’s a lot more virgin men than virgin women. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:49 PM
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If you don’t just make a Tinder and you will
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:43 PM
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I mean women literally have thousands of men to choose from, it would be true if they only had a select few but pretty much any type of man they could ask for is at their fingertips due to this thing called tinder. If you’re a man, the woman you “choose” almost certainly won’t choose you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:31 PM
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Men cheat more than women because sex is a system of the haves and the have nots. The haves have a lot of sex and the have nots have none of it. Women are less sexless then men because it is easier for them to get into relationships than men. The dating game is a woman’s game and women are in control of it because they’re the ones approached. The ones who are approached will always be in control because they decide if things start or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:08 PM
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Red pillers hate attractive women the most because they control the sexual value market
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:19 PM
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When you’re a young boy it’s hard not to fall into the red pill rabbit hole. I did, I was about 15 when I did and it was even more effective for me because I was homeschooled and raised in a largely male household. When you’re young and don’t know anything, how are you going to avoid not falling into it completely if you see this type of content. The red pill community gets a lot of things right about women BUT they make it seem like all or even most women do it. They should say some and use it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:57 PM
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I might be pathetic for this but I’m simple, if I like the way you look, am interested in your personality, and you like me back and don’t cheat on me I can date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:07 AM
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Yeah because they’re too scared to do it. This is slightly different but my mom even said when she was in her early adulthood she would sit down at the mall with her friends and try to look good hoping a guy would come to her and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:48 PM
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If my biggest problem was people only want to have sex with me that’s a lot better than “I can’t even get a first date”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:02 PM
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The problem is that doesn’t work either because men don’t get very many matches. I only used tinder before I didn’t use bumble. But I got ghosted by my matches and that made me pretty angry so haven’t gotten past the angst do deal with that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:56 PM
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If I was a woman I’d just do OLD since I don’t get out much anyway. I’d get hundreds of matches and just only message the ones I like the most it make take a few days but I’d easily get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:50 PM
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As men, we’d be lucky if that was all we had to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:13 PM
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It does make them nervous but they’re full of shit for saying that’s the only reason. Women like the fact they’re in the driver’s seat in the dating world. You can’t blame them but it’s true that the dating game isn’t a fair one and women like this advantage, they’re just not open to saying this because most women try to keep a clean image so they won’t tell you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:08 PM
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I think it would be better if people approached by personality type than by gender. I’m a man who’s pretty introverted so I’m not going to go up to a random person and start a conversation, it’s just not in my comfort zone/DNA. So it would be better for me to be the one approached by women. Some people are better at being the approachers, some people for better at being the approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:11 PM
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This is exactly why women don’t do the approaching and let men do it. They understand by approaching they’re giving men the power. When you approach you’re the one who has to impress. Women disguise it as being nervous about approaching but that’s not why they don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:53 PM
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I mean they aren’t fun that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:52 PM
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Funny you say that, look at my recent post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:18 AM
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I’m 6’1 and can’t get women either it’s impossible for anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:38 AM
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If she has a PHD and is a CEO then she’s smarter than me and I don’t know if I could handle dating someone smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:26 AM
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He changed the flair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:19 AM
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100% it’s better if the woman approaches. It’s much easier for guys to come off as creepy because men are physically threatening to women, women aren’t physically threatening to men. Also if a man thinks a woman is cute or hot there’s really no way she can come off as creepy even if she tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:02 AM
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NO! The process of dating women sucks!!!! As a man it is EXTREMELY hard getting someone to like you, half the time you’re ghosted. So you don’t even have the opportunity to get someone to know you. Also, being ghosted and ignored all the time is extremely frustrating and it’s very easy to feel irrelevant/unimportant. Being with women that you like is great, but the process of dating women is fucking awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:53 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:07 PM
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I’ve noticed this and as a pretty masculine man it’s slightly annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:57 PM
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When it comes to the sex game you have the haves and the haves nots. I’m a virgin so I’m obviously a have not in this case but I’m rich so I’d rather be rich than be poor and have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:32 AM
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