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| 20 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better? | Question For Women | jimmy1245 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:43 PM |
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| 1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Just wanted to thank you for your constant source of rage bait. Your posts (in general, not this one specifically) have been immensely motivational in my suicide. Whenever your feeling down, I want you to know the amount of men you've helped push over the edge is higher than 0! Tomorrow I'm going out via an exit bag, and I'd like to thank you for the constant consistent stream of motivation. I really don't think I could do it without you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?Oh I guess imo what your saying is stupid. But in all fairness the expectations your trying to live up to are stupid. I guess I don't have the expectations that a woman's has to do any of those things to be a good partner. Same as I don't think "offering to pay" on a first a significant gesture worth anything either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsRussians on the battlefield are their own choice, but I highly doubt Koreans or Japanese people are going to cease to exist. Both have relatively flat population lines. It's also normal for first world countries to not have as many kids as developing countries. Developed countries often have lower fertility rates due to factors like increased access to education and contraception, less requirement to work in the farmers fields. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?If women think things being purchased for them is a priority, yourself or otherwise, my question is why stop at a coffee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsWell which races are about to die out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?Mostly your statement about coffee, like it's a priority that things are purchased for you in exchange for your time. Edit: If that's what's important to you, why stop at coffee, go for the big bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Reasons for men to decenter relationshipsI'm guessing her statement stems from the xenophobe right wingers screaming about how white people will be a minority? Probably while also claiming that racism doesn't exist anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?What makes you think I want that? If i wanted prostitutes and cleaning ladies, I can afford both. I prefer neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:19 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menWould the 35% of women be as happy, if they had to actively look for partners? I think the idea of knowing that they will have as many opportunities as they want if they so choose would boost that happiness factor, Where as those 35% of men see it as a personal failure that society tells them they have to overcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman?So sell yourself to the highest bidder, what's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad.This subreddit is not all about statistics. It's about peoples warped views and shitting on the other gender. I personally think you're goal is to get more men to commit unaliving themselves. I also think your good at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your cutoff for sharing a high value man?There are many many men who do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:52 PM |
| 5 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad.I like how this response is a "I was caught in my bullshit, better deflect" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality.Can I ask, how did you get married without either proposing? Just like a mutual, what do you wanna do today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyYeah much more mature of an outlook. I'm not sure if OP is saying women should settle for subpar sex, or if she is saying men should accept being terrible in bed? eitheway I'm out in those scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexually43 days 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyAll the more reason I don't want to be on a planet with you people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:30 PM |
| 3 | What it means to be settled for sexuallySpare them the lie of pretending and move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyThe way I see it, two scenarios 1) She lies to him about her attraction. She does "duty sex". he doesn't know, lives blissfully unaware of his dissapointed wife. The relationship is built on lies and false premise. 2) Tell the truth, he's crushed, doesn't want to be with you anymore. At the very least no longer wants sex with an unwilling partner. Eitherway you have a shit relationship as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.I'm not convinced your even a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.Guess we're all nazis now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.You would know your a trump supporter! These sound like your favorite people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.'paraplegic, have you tried being happy?". person with depression, have you tried being happy? Oh your parents died, have you tried being happy? Thanks I'm cured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Rarely have women meet men that are truly unlucky with women. Its usually something he’s doing wrong.You don't know the 'ordinary' man and it shows. Do you feel good about the men who have probably killed themselves over the bullshit you post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyReplace does the dishes and secure job with. "have good jokes and are kind to waiters". Should these women be honest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyDo you suggest these women be honest with their partners? "I don't like the sex. Its nothing like when i had a hot asshole boyfriend, but i like that you do the dishes and have a good secure job. So get it over with because I feel like it's my obligated duty". Can't imagine hotter dirty talk than that /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youreddit cares is a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youNo, but i still plan on killing myself on April 11th | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youNot even that, think of the reverse. How many people die well before ever finding someone. Could get hit by a bus tomorrow or accidently fall into a noose neck first well before any of that happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is funny ironic statement from a female trump supporter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youActually I want to give you a real answer. Even from a young age, younger than I knew what sex was, what I wanted more than anything was to grow up, be desirable, have fun, with lots of women. Is that stupid? Absolutely. Did I do it consciously? No. Did I want to be rich? Yes, so I'd be attractive to women. Did I want to be buff/fit sexy? Yes, so I'd be attractive to women. Did I want power? Yes, same reason. Intelligence? Yes, your probably noticing a pattern. So, I trained in combat sports, ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youGood sex would be a step up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck youLol how about i just kill myself instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.I fundamentally disagree with you on incentivising people to do the bare minimum. I disagree that when people are provided access to Healthcare as a human right, that they do less. I believe the opposite. They are free from the burden, and then free to focus on the things they can do for society/improving their lives. You seem to think socialized medicine is bad, and capitalism in Healthcare is good, except for all of the safety guards. (so kids can have it sure, okay so can disabled people get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.So your okay with socialized Healthcare, for kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.I'm hardly going to blame a 6 year old with leukemia on their diet. Nor am I going to say they don't deserve Healthcare because their parents are poor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.So all of this is just defend that insurance based, for profit Healthcare is better than socialized Healthcare? You can eat whatever you want regardless of the above. Will what you eat and your lifestyle factors affect your health, ofcourse. Does that mean paying more, seeing your doctor less, and risking financial burden is better? I can hardly see why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.I thought I edited well before your responded, so not intending to sneak one on you. Also taken straight from the summary of the link you posted: "Low-income groups tend to rely on foods that are cheap and convenient to access but are often low in nutrients.10,13 Fresh fruits and vegetables and other healthier items are often more expensive at convenience stores and small food markets than in larger chain supermarkets and grocery stores" Do you think if people can't afford vegetables and fruit, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.So your argument is that doctors and Healthcare has minimal link to health outcomes. Didn't answer any of my questions regarding your insurance though, did you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.So your argument is Americans are too stupid to follow doctors health advice? I don't see how any of your concerns wouldnt be better off by people being able to see doctors and health professionals easier and more often, regardless of their income level. Do you like paying for insurance. What's your monthly costs and deductibles? what would it cost you if you were diagnosed with cancer tomorrow? or had a heart attack? could you afford the lost wages, would your company keep you around if you nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Gotta call out bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:25 AM |
| 5 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.I'm just asking for logical consistency of OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 8 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.What level of worth are you attributing to the fact requires multiple women to agree on the desire ability of a man? Is more women in agreement therefore better? IE hundreds of women liked Charles Manson, and very few like the elephant man. At what point does it stop mattering how many women find what desirable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Alright lets talk; Are you implying that in other countries, they cannot or do not smoke, have restricted to healthy diets, and mandatory exercise? If not, are you implying that the correlation to health services and access to healthcare has no impact, and it is solely up to personal lifestyle factors? If you are implying that other countries do not smoke, eat healthy, and excercise, what countries mandate and require this? If you do not believe that access to healthcare impacts health outcomes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 11:29 PM |
| 3 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.You make baseless claims all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Your very guilty of this yourself. I mean considering your incorrect stance on Canada supposedly euthanizing homeless people. It's probably the only way your brain can fathom that Canada has half the homeless per capital of USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.I'll bite. Why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.You should probably stop spouting lies. Like that homeless people are being euthanized in canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 08:32 PM |
| 6 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Like this is a straight up lie. You need to educate yourself better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 08:07 PM |
| 5 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.That's so fucking false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:54 PM |
| 9 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Canada. Most of Europe. Most of the Scandinavian countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 3 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Or they could also be orphans, or immigrants, or abuse victims, or lots of other reasons, but it's nice to dehumanize people if it makes you feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 7 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.That's a really good way to justify looking down on people. Apparently 66.5% of people In the USA who file for bankruptcy cite medical bills as the primary reason. https://www.ilr.cornell.edu/scheinman-institute/blog/john-august-healthcare/healthcare-insights-how-medical-debt-crushing-100-million-americans Sure not everyone who gets a medical bill goes bankrupt, but most bankruptcies start with medical bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 9 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.The number one reason for bankruptcy in USA is medical bills...Not drug addiction.. But go off on blaming less fortunate so you can more comfortably look down upon them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 06:46 PM |
| 36 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Does this somehow reinforce the idea, that if lots of women like a man, its because he's inherently worth it? Ie, and man with no options deserves none. A man with lots of options also therefore deserves them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.I respect women too much to interrupt their life by having to acknowledge my existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I don't know. Shouldn't I be the one crying after our interaction not you? Do I now get to claim conservative women tend to cry when I talk to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?She sounds like she's racist and she is proud of when people have disgusting reactions to things she says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?Not OP, but curious. What have you done or said that made them react by crying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Men dont care about men’s issue.And empathetic men who do care, don't limit their empathy to just other men. So they are likely to also be involved in spaces that help broadly, in human rights, minorities, even feminism spaces. The men that "only" want to help men, are probably red pillers because they don't see women as equal people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Men dont care about men’s issue.By and large it seems so. They are too busy competing with each other. Of course there are men who care and do things, but not successfully. Any group that gets traction ends up getting co-opted by red pillers eventually. Too many men see another man struggle and feel better about their situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about men’s issue.MenNo one cares about mens issues. Fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:50 PM |
| 7 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyJust look at Japan as an example. Big market for virtual girlfriends. I think your right that the demand will only grow as technology increases but I don't know if it will really be as big of an impact as your describing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:58 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menSo let me get this. You voted in the American election, with the goal of hurting America? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:22 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menWon't someone think about the yatch owners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:19 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menTrump screws over everyone. The people who like him just like that he screws over people they don't like, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I agree that actions speak louder. People can not control what feelings they have, they can only process then and decide how to act in response. Ie. no such thing as thought crimes. It goes both ways I suppose, good intentions with harmful actions are still harmful actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?In many ways I agree with your husband's sentiment. I don't blame women or the world. I know my problems lie with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Isn't that sort of what I was asking? Also this was more so directed since OP was downplaying the importance of attractiveness. But when challenged, it still comes down to, of course he's single if he's ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.It's a complaint because she doesn't want to hear it. It's fine for men to suffer, so long as they suffer in silence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Not hearing a disagreement from me. I think my point was against OP downplaying the importance of attractiveness. But when all other avenues are pursued, it's deferred to, well of course he isn't successful, he's ugly. Kind of makes all the rest of it seem irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Honestly I'm just exhausted. I'm tired of the rise and grind mentality. I'm tired of the endless goal of improvement to be worthy. And when you've had enough of the game, you want to just stop playing. Everyone else can enjoy themselves when I'm gone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Doesn't everyone fake confidence to some degree? Imposter syndrome is widely reported. It takes risk to put yourself out there in any format, and success builds confidence. You sound like you define it in innate format of you are weak, or you are strong. Without room for change or growth. No one in my real life knows that "I'm weak". They'll find out after I've already killed myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:25 PM |
| 2 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Probably all the other high quality things he has going for him in his life. I know it's easy to say lose weight, eat healthy ect, many people struggle with it. I'm sure he'd prefer to lose weight. Atleast two or three times a week his lunch is a small salad. I don't fault the guy for it. I guess I don't like people saying he doesn't deserve until he loses the weight. In my opinion he does regardless, but at the end of the day that comes down to the choice of his dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:54 PM |
| 3 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I guess. Isn't the point of OP to downplay the impact attractiveness has. But when all else fails, it's still okay to defer, well ofcourse he's single, hes ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Weirdly never got prompted at your reply. I'd say he's intelligent from having a good education, and intellectually demanding job, varied interests from sports to politics and ect. We do crosswords, and he has an eclectic varied knowledge that i find constantly impressive. Hes very quick witted, and when I say his jokes land, it's not with a specific demographic, he seems to be able to joke with everyone in the office. I'm talking wide array of cultures ages and genders. Hes tall, and has a bell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:20 PM |
| 4 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Maybe, is your suggestion that his standards are too high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:14 PM |
| – | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.lol thanks. I'm sure he will be fine. I just wanted to point out it Flys directly in the opposite direction of OP's post. But she doesn't respond unless she can argue against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?End result be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I wouldn't think he's shallow enough to exclude one, but i do want to point out that this sounds like "he should lower his expectations". Which in gender reverse, is frowned upon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Do you care how they go out. It was worded like vanished but that's only because I didn't want to put off themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?One is cheaper and more accessible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I get the point and am not opposed. The only thing is i think it would be noticeable. Probably peaceful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Lol okay. I'm not opposed to a Joe rogan missing poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.I agree it's not his top priority. But to OP's point, it shouldn't be. Hes doing all the things he should be doing, and other than being ugly, it would work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Yup. Im just saying this falls far from the OP of men who are unsuccessful are lazy, not ugly. This dude is just ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Correct. He makes a few jokes here and there about being lonely which is why it came to mind. The jokes don't reek of desperation, they're always context related (ie people talking about valentines day) and generally the jokes land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?So are you saying you do not personally know any "lonely men" and or red pills. So there existence or lack thereof is indecernible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:16 PM |
| 4 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Honestly, I've seen him flirt, I don't think that's the issue. He seems good with women, and is very quick witted. I'm probably not going to ask him if he'd date someone like Fiona after the transformation, It's really not my place. I was just curious, if there is ever consideration that guys exist doing everything suggested, but hit the barrier of appearance. At the end of the day, it also sounds like your argument is that his standards are too high. But on a gender swap discussion, that's frow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 0 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.Well sure. I doubt the old ladies are pushing him very hard. But i think the point is, his only flaw is appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Yup. Insecure mess online (because well honesty) and I'm a stoic professional and husband in my day to day life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I do not claim to be a smart man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:04 PM |
| 13 | The biggest dating issues for men is laziness and unrealistic expectations.What would you say to a man; Good job (makes enough to support a family but is single) Is the president of an international professional committee Is intelligent and has a good sense of humor Has a good group of male friends and female friends Goes out frequently with said friends and colleagues Well traveled and goes abroad 3-4 times a year Frequently takes care of his niece Works out (well he does spin, and yoga with the seniors ladies) Is built and looks like Shrek (For the record I'm talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I don't think it's going to be easy to change men being vulnerable. Even just in this thread, there are women saying that weak men deserve hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat.I think that in many ways people are a sum of their actions. I can't always know if someone was kind or mean for genuine reasons. But if they are always consistently kind, I will remember them as so until proven otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Sure, but the original premise was, would they prefer if they all disappeared (was my more politically correct way of saying offed themselves) And while there is always a variety of opinions, it was not without some that would be happy if they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I can see where your coming from. Less men = more competition for women for the remaining men. However, looking at many of the posts from women here, the men that would be removed, are already removed from their mind in the dating pool Mathematically like, If X(weak men) + Y(competent men)= All men in your theory, All men - x men (no pun intended) = smaller pool for women to pick through. My take from women are that the X group of men are irrelevant, whether they exist, complain, or die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Hm, I'd say you took a high probability guess there based on this sub reddit. But it doesn't really apply to me that well. I don't want or need someone to care for me romantically, any more than people currently do. I don't even want people to platonically care for me, then they already do. I just like coming here to read stuff that makes me feel inadequate, insecure, and suicidal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?How do you mean? I don't quite follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?That's a nice sentiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Fair. I don't think it's based off anyone person, or any one stranger. Just a lifetime of accumulated experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I don't think I'm anything other than typical, but I don't harbor hate for anyone. I'm lonely man in plain sight. I think you would consider me weak. If your response to people like me, is hatred, I only feel that you reinforce my feelings of isolation and inadequacy. Which, overall is fine as I have plans to deal with things anyhow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Does all weakness manifest in hatred and lack of accountability or is it possible for weakness to manifest in other ways? Does everyone not have some sort of weakness? Does everyone deserve hate in response? Is it only "male weakness" that is a problem, so it's a gender spefici problem that men should not show weakness? Are you saying that compassion and empathy are weakness or not desirable traits in a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?How do you define weakness? And I also don't see why someone competent is required to hate weakness. Why can't someone competent feel empathy, or compassion for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Curious to why you hate weak men. Previously I think you said you don't care about them at all. Hate is beyond indifference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Thank you for teaching me a new word. I'd never heard of Alexithymia, and to some degree I'd say that applys to me. It also explains why I was told to do mindfulness exercises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?When you say waste your time, it sounds like, good outcome but not worth the effort. Or are you also against them culling themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?So it's more indifference than even a complaint about men like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:56 PM |
| -1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Sure. But I've heard from some that claim to be "the honest one" finally telling men like it is, and it's along the lines of no one cares about you ect, get used to it or get over it kinda thing. If those are the "honest ones" Can't help but feeling like the world would be better off if I offed myself. I mean it's not just from those but it's still encouragement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I went for over a year, even had two therapists for each session. Maybe it just isn't for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Interesting point. Unfortunately I didn't find therapy very helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Sure, I guess my line down this way was it seems that a dead red piller is preferred to an alive one. If that's the belief, why not actively support and advocate for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?great point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Thank you for your thoughtful and thorough response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Why should it be difficult? It's very easy to do. Plastic bag and a draw string, xanax and a bottle of whiskey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?I guess if the outcome is less of them = better. I don't see the difference from saying it's great they die in war, or it's great they hang themselves in their basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?What about legalizing and encouraging assisted suicides? I would also say, many men who come back from war come back far worse than they left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Obviously it's hypothetical, if not generally impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Would you limit it to war? Or are other variations of the same outcome equally beneficial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Would you advocate for them to get rid of themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Are you saying it would be better off if they died in war? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?Would it not be considered a change to not have to ever interact (in person or online) with any man like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 28 | Many men losing interest in womenHaven't lost interest in women. I've lost interest in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat.It's almost like we should stop talking about niceness in general, since it seems to have no impact on anything. Even then, describing someone as genuinely nice, or fake nice, isn't even realistic. Most people think they're nice, because they're nice to who they want to be nice to. They're not nice to people they don't want to be nice to. They all think they're nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:45 PM |
| 60 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know ItWomen have more opportunities, they take advantage of those opportunities. Even if they don't take advantage of many of their opportunities, they know there will be more. The men your describing likely have few opportunities, and if they don't act on them, they may not get another opportunity for some time, and possibly never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.For some reason your post with the valuable honesty is showing deleted. I wouldn't want anyone to miss it. "Look, I'll be honest with you. We KNOW male friendships aren't as close as our friendships. We KNOW you're lonely and outside of romantic relationships, you don't really get closeness to anyone. We KNOW you're in pain. We don't give a shit. If you're the kind of guy that suffers from loneliness, isolation, and most importantly, a lack of romantic interest, them no one cares about what pain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.SquirmingAddict, why would your get rid of you very honest post? I'm sure it would go a long way in helping some men whose existence is irrelevant, become non existence. I see this as an ideal outcome as you don't like hearing that these people have complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Thanks for your advice! I will be going away permanently! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.I also love the honesty. And your totally right, no one cares, definately not on this sub. Can't wait to kill myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.I can tell you why I'm here. Because it's almost guaranteed I can see a post dunking on men mostly for just existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.I'm gonna you can't make an exception, there couldn't be enough room on your wall if you set a precedent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Actually, yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:38 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Maybe the last message I'll send today, but, I'd like to make a request. If I can convicne someone to send you my obituary, would you be willing to frame it on your wall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:48 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Reddit cares is no fun. I'm just helping work towards your goal! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:40 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.Do you only engage with those who disagree with you? You don't respond to any of the men you've converted to believe like you do? I'm all on board with less men thinking thr way you despise. And sometime early April, there will be one less of them! Don't miss an opportunity to say hello to your fans! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:35 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.There's something really nice about knowing I can consistently come see your posts and know that somewhere out there, there's Lilithofbabylon, who hates people like me for just existing and not living to their standards. That every problem in my life is my own fault. That society has no faults, only i do. And that now that I'm done playing the game, I'll be happy to just stop playing and exit. I'll probably read your posts and top controversial on April 11th. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:31 PM |
| – | This subreddit gives less attractive men the halo effect and underestimate the importance of personality.When I'm feeling really low and suicidal, I like to come read your posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:06 PM |
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