jimmycm123 Archive

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–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc There’s a concept I dub ‘effortless cool’. It’s the idea that you do what you want regardless of what others think. If you do, you create dependency on them which is lowering. It also insinuates that your confidence is due to a lack of fear regarding others’ approval, because you have options.. abundance, non apparent value. In addition, men are typically perceived as utilitarian objects. This is why certain fashion archetypes such as motorcyclist, lumberjack, cowboy are all ways men can look mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:41 AM
6	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Both in a way. You can be a proactive person putting yourself out there just to meet reactive people all day long, who are satisfied to just text forever. A large amount of people complaining are reactive, but some of them aren’t and it’s hard out there. So the key is really trying to find a likewise person in the trying department/see what happens	/r/seduction	28/05/26 01:50 AM
20	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Not op but probably not making plans, flaking, fears, etc. On both sides. Instead of a let’s see what happens, it’s instead rationalized away. Instead of waiting for life to happen, proactiveness is making or accelerating plans to happen. A huge issue with dating is that people are just not willing to meet irl, the inhibition of people are too high. Once that barrier is broken it’s much easier.	/r/seduction	28/05/26 01:25 AM
1	How To Graduate From Incelhood: The Guide The actual way is to remove a victim mentality mindset, and replace it with a ‘player’ mindset. Hateful rhetoric and stagnation comes from a victim mentality that views failure as an injustice as opposed to viewing it like a video game where you’re encouraged to improve yourself rather than rage at the game which will never change The only drawback is that the a player mindset will remove hateful behavior but make life feel more fabricated and strategic. Whereas you treat everything like a game …	/r/seduction	12/05/26 07:11 AM
18	A detailed guide on how to set up Instagram in order to utilize it as a secret weapon in dating Starting an Instagram account after high school is rough, back then it was mass adding. Now it’s pretty hard to match the follower count from scratch post college.	/r/seduction	26/03/26 09:01 PM
10	When You See Couples and Think “Why Not Me?” I can attest to that. My older brother is 30 and has minimal aching to find a girl, just a very passive mindset. No pain in him, just work and vidya. The most important thing is hope you’re getting better, not stagnating.	/r/seduction	15/03/26 06:38 PM
10	Attainable Mid Syndrome (AMS) Started reading your other posts, good stuff. I read Rollo a long time ago for basics and now just pattern recognition other concepts naturally, like becoming your own teacher. Now I can go back to student and read your stuff.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/26 04:20 PM
1	Something's missing from my manhood - I feel unfuckable. So you basically fused love with chaotic bpd elements, because all your relationships involved those. Your attentiveness, emotions, and self-blaming nature makes you initially attractive to those girls, but you devalue your caring, ‘boyfriend material’ moments because it’s not scarce or valuable, this goes both ways. Those girls don’t just like rollercoasters that only go up, they gotta go down too. Push n pull stuff, too much pull is bad. I found this random article about push and pull here, ri…	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/26 05:25 AM
1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men I think confidence in a romantic sense towards girls can matter for certain people, you would agree if a guy was super attractive but totally shy, it would matter for him because it's the last missing piece. Now if someone is ugly then yes confidence doesn't matter, period, because there is still a missing piece. Wanting to be desired is a feminine trait and men need purpose, yes true. And yeah, a guy visiting multiple escorts versus 1 pity fuck is better, that's logical. I was thinking that bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 04:30 PM
1	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men Yeah I agree, if it's like what OP said of something like autism, severe ADHD, height, then it doesn't matter. But my point is that, the hookers route is not an escape because people care about being desired not sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 03:59 PM
4	"If a woman has a crush on you in a workplace, chances are, other women there do too" Do you believe this? I heard that girls are actual MASTERS at hiding that they like someone. They can literally look at you once for 10 milliseconds, turn away, and are already in love. Same thing with talking to you, seeming totally platonic, but they aren't inside. They're too good.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 10:27 PM
355	What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on? Frame. Narrative. Entering your 'world' rather than you entering hers. Your story, your book... You being the author with the pen, her wanting to read more, craving the next chapter.	/r/seduction	13/08/25 12:18 PM
1	Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging….. Have you ever shit talked with your best friends before? Almost everyone has, it's push (neg, shit talk, playful tease) and pull (smile, just kidding, disarming laugh) You wouldn't like it if your friends were pure nice to you, it would be boring, it's the same concept here.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 12:46 PM
14	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men What most people really want is to be desired, that's why I believe virgins who go to hookers who think it will solve their confidence problems are often disappointed. But? I totally agree with you that if you give up, escorts are better than nothing. After all, most guys are already in some sort of provider/transactional relationship as opposed to genuine desire anyways, so what's the difference?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 10:31 PM
2	Think i fumbled badly. im very depressed Overt means you are blaring a sign saying "I like you, and i want you to know I like you, please like me back.". Covert means "Hey, I'm talking to you just cause I feel like talking to you and don't care, this is my world and you're just a part of my day, what's up?" The problem with being direct is that you immediately place her into a mindset of evaluating you as a candidate, because by being overt you are essentially handing over a resume saying I like you, please tell me if I'm good enough f…	/r/seduction	06/07/25 03:09 AM
3	Think i fumbled badly. im very depressed You ask these questions because you believe that if you start flirting with a girl that isn't interested, you feel like she might reject and humiliate you publicly, or you might jeopardize the current relationship. You can bypass all of this overthinking by just doing one thing. Flirt covertly, never overtly, at least at the beginning. Let her decide in her mind if you're flirting or not, make her decide to step in halfway. Personally? I only flirt covertly and never compliment girls, especially…	/r/seduction	03/07/25 11:50 AM
4	Think i fumbled badly. im very depressed She started chasing you after the rejection because you probably seemed unbothered and nonchalant about it. You seemed like you were the catch and had options. She was attracted by that and never got closure, a open loop, which is why she contacted you a month later. Her initial attraction to you was because you acted like you were the prize, and so when you started testing the waters with sexual stuff and doing memes, she didn't feel the same dynamic of wanting to chase you because you started …	/r/seduction	03/07/25 10:19 AM
10	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Got no clue why people don't understand what you're saying, and I'm a guy. It's just simply sexual polarity, Yin and Yang.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 12:28 PM
0	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder Yes it should. Sex is treated differently than violence in media forms because it's relatable, violence is not relatable. No one is going out there shooting people in real life, while sex is happening. This is why it's uncomfortable to watch a sex scene with your parents... because... it's relatable... it hits too close to home, it's real, it feels like something that can happen to you. Now compare violence, that's not gonna happen to you and you're not gonna do that. It's extremely disconnected…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 11:33 AM