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Why is no one mentioning that the most important relationship in the house for the kids is the marriage? I’m a family law attorney and it amazes me how many people don’t realize that that helicoptering around their kids while deprioritizing their spouse (typically, yes, the ladies, and typically, yes, they have good intentions) is one of the worst things you can do for your family. The husband and wife’s relationship is going to determine and model how safe and secure those kids will be in the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:51 AM
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You just want to say: "read a fucking book"
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 01:39 PM
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Turns out hiking can be hard. Unlike telling people you like hiking. That's super easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 01:38 PM
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Also, women--as a group--are far less likely to organize.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 12:56 PM
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To OP: read the link. Really. I'm saying it again: read the link. It is all right there. Why would he seek out the redpill and change his behavior if everything is going well? Random chance? No way.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 09:36 PM
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"If we have our own why in life, we shall get along with almost any how. Man does not strive for pleasure; only the Englishman does that." Nietzsche, "Twilight of the Idols" Nietzsche....didn't care for the English.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:00 PM
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I don't want to get too tangential, but can you tell me why you believe machines are useless? I've been lifting for a couple years and I'm happy with my results--from 170 to 190--but about half is on machines. Should I move to all free weights?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:53 PM
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Yes. And search for fun. It could be worse. Thank god that most attractive women just want drugs, booze, and just fun TM, you know? If they wanted something like "more land" we'd really be in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 08:33 PM
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This was a real response from John Updike in an interview with a female interviewer. It inspired the line in the script. EDIT: source
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:38 PM
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It would be difficult watching a brother flounder. I imagine. I don't have a brother.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:59 PM
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This is the only one I balked at. It's true that some are better than others, but I have never known a woman who didn't try to pass blame. Even when they admit "my bad," they don't really believe it themselves. They "know" whose fault it was/"why" it happened.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:27 PM
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Absolutely. And once they see the weakness once, it may just stick. You may always then be weak. Best to move on and find one that only knows your strength.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:41 PM
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If you have to sulk, do it out of sight. I have a similar rule about letting women see you do housework.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:37 PM
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I read a book recently, by a biologist--and I'll look for the cite--that suggested otherwise. The reason being that if humans don't divvy up one man to one woman, who gets left out? The lesser males. The high value males are left with many, many mates, while the beta males are left in the cold. It makes sense. Men (probably lesser men, together) invented monogamy to ensure that everyone gets laid.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:20 PM
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There's a reason that traditions like marriage--which was built by men (who were in the ruling class)--made monogamy vital. They knew the force behind the female biological imperative.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:43 PM
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But not in front of the child. The sad thing is: this kid is probably pretty fucked regardless.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:51 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to make that brilliant post. While we hear "AWALT" all the time, this is the best explanation and defition for the "T" that I have come across. Succinct and well stated. I will say that to some extent, it helps me to explore some of my own emotions and feelings within my own body to help me understand "AWALT." Do I feel/act differently when I'm tired or hungry? What about when I'm horny? Do I do things I otherwise wouldn't do? Now take those conclusions and multiply…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:49 PM
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Wrong. If you read a book, you'll get it. I recommend John Stuart Mills. Or maybe those idiot federalists who found the confederacy lacking. I'm glad you feel like part of the winning team though. Shine on, you special star.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 01:33 AM
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Absolutely. These guys aren't idiots. Some of the brightest men in the world are beta as fuck. They're being rational. "Women are humans. You should be able to take them at face value, and put faith in what they say they want/need." It just turns out it's all wrong.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 01:15 PM
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This guy gets it. Let's see what Noah Webster has to say on "self-improvement": "The improvement of one's knowledge, status, or character by one's own efforts." Sound like what we read on the red pill?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:36 PM
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I'm downloading those. I appreciate it. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:15 PM
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You got any recommendations for literature?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:00 PM
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Well said. I agree with a lot, but not all of it. But well said.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:02 PM
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Hey, that's fair. No reason to post "qualifications." Only reason being that Marx is such a politically charged figure in the West that to mention him without ridicule gives people the impression that you're an idiot. I'll edit them out of the comment. I stand by the rest of my comment though. There is no reason to politicize the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:44 PM
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It's rooted in "traditionalism"? I thought it was rooted in biological imperatives. There's a reason you can't apply the red pill to things like tariffs, race relations, international policy, preemptive strikes, and torture. The red pill is an excellent wake-up call for men living in a world that has assassinated their sexual identity. It is not an all-encompassing world-view--and that's ok. I read red pill every day because there is a ton of value and wisdom in it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:37 PM
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My comments come without pride. If you think that TRP should be a place for political discussion, tell me why. You mock me, but I'm not alone in thinking that a forum for a sexual strategy for men shouldn't be a place where we discuss whether being liberal, communist, republican, green, fascist or otherwise is "best" in terms of "sexual strategy."
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:58 PM
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I don't disagree. However, I've also happened to notice that more people in TRP use more formal writing skills and proper grammar in their posts and comments. Would it be appropriate for me to start a thread about "proper grammar" because a lot of "proper grammarians" happen to identify with TRP? No. Or a discussion about whether aliens exist or who should start this week for Denver or, or, or, or...
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:51 PM
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What's the best country in the world for business? Not the U.S. Why is it "socialist" Denmark according to Forbes magazine, you ask? "One of the keys to Denmark’s pro-business climate is the flexible labor market known as 'Flexisecurity,' where companies can easily hire and fire workers with out-of-work adults eligible for significant unemployment benefits. Unemployed workers are also eligible for training programs. It creates one of the most productive workforces in Europe. 'The model encourage…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:16 PM
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Why is it so important to guys around here that their "red pill" thoughts--a sexual strategy--folds in with their political views? Are guys so simple that they need a "one size fits all" way to think? It's right on the side-bar, fellas. "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." I've said it before: telling an ant how to be a good ant doesn't tell you what makes a good anthill. Find and validate your political opinions somewhere e…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:11 PM
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"This is just the most extreme manifestation." This sounds like something people say to sound smart. Pseudo-intellectual bullshit. Like top post says: this isn't some data-point on a fucking college professor's spreadsheet. Your daughter just GOT something for hitting someone: positive feedback from her friends and a party from you. Parenting, at its most basic: when your kid does something like this, you TAKE something away.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:57 PM
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Obviously, we all know that women don't--can't--love men like men expect/want to be loved. I think men get so desperate to be loved this way that they start going "all in" on their children to "share" something with their lady that "loves her children." Of course, that doesn't work, she'll just keep on loving her children in a way you won't ever see. I think some answers are (1) spend more time with men; (2) Give your children something to respect you for--and that thing that they are going to r…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:56 PM
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I agree. If these guys had sex to look forward to when they got home from work, I really doubt they would shoot up a mall. Let's face it, it's never "beloved boyfriend" or "popular local football talent" that shoots up the mall.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:46 PM
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You're missing my point. This isn't the forum. Nothing in your response has anything to do with "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." Politics is a divisive topic. The red pill is a self-help community. I don't want to talk about what you think about Jesus, God, or Muhammad either, or whether you believe that makes you more or less "red pill." What does the "red pill" say about religion? Or religions? Let's keep some perspect…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:38 PM
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I see a lot of guys trying to validate their politics on the "red pill," which confuses me. It's a self-help resource, which is focused on yourself as an individual. Telling an ant how to be a good ant doesn't explain what makes a good anthill. I'm leftist on the political spectrum. And I read the red pill everyday. Like many here, I was "blue pill" until I learned some hard lessons, but I'm no idiot. I graduated from law school with distinction and honors. Let provide a little example to demons…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:11 PM
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To bring in some Nietzsche. Zarathustra dismisses “wretched contentment” as an ideal. Also revealing that it was precisely “the last men” — the “most despicable men” — who “invented happiness" in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 09:50 PM
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A group of men working together can take a beachhead. A group of women working together can't decide where to eat.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:12 PM
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I've got to agree. 54 college age girls self-reporting as a study is pretty meaningless if not just plain misleading. "Are you more or less likely to have an orgasm if you find a man physically attractive?" "Are you more or less likely to have an orgasm if his family has money?" Even if the information is obtained more creatively than that, the basic approach to obtaining those self-reported results have to be some variant of the above. The hypothesis of the study may well be true, but it's pret…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:12 PM
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While you're working pretty hard to convince me that your certain philosophy is the best, I'm trying to have a different discussion. Look, I'll level with you, I'm an attorney who's working on his masters in business administration while practicing. I've read a lot of philosophy and my bachelor's degree is in political science. I only mention these things to demonstrate that I'm probably not an idiot, and that on these topics, I know a little bit more than most. So can a man still be responsible…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:58 PM
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See, I was with you until you went political at the end. "Too bad some supposed Red Pillers support their ideology of big government is better than small." What does that have to do with making yourself a better, more masculine human being? Becoming a man that other men want to be and that women want to be with? How does a man's "political philosophy" factor into those considerations? Was Jefferson more of a man than Adams? Lincoln more of a man than Roosevelt? C'mon. Leave the politics out of i…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:33 PM
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It's great that you have found something that resonates with you, but I'll mention that I've found the opposite to be true. Frankly, her writings seem more ideological and personal than philosophical. I'm not taking anything away from what you or anyone subscribes to. I bring this up because a lot of guys around here seem to think that they must subscribe to a certain philosophy or political ideology (objectivism/libertarianism/anarchy, etc.) to be in line with TRP. And a lot of downvotes come f…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:17 PM
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Though I understand that there is no excuse for being overweight, I disagree that 20 percent body fat categorically gives you a "bloated face and unaesthetic body".
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:05 PM
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They are out there. But I'll add this: a woman holding herself accountable is even less likely than a reasonable woman. If you find a woman who has accountability, I believe you have found a unicorn.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 05:39 PM
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That shit is fucking hard mode. Some days it feels like you go to battle for two days just get laid. But if you don't get up and go to battle every day? Your relationship, your marriage, is fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 05:31 PM
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Lawyer here. The answer is: not the way you're probably thinking. In most states (common law), property in a divorce is going to be considered either "marital" or "premarital." Marital property is divided--usually in half--while premarital property is kept by the person bringing it into the marriage; HOWEVER, if that premarital property is "commingled" with other assets, it can be transmuted into marital property. You brought that house into the marriage, but made improvements to it during the m…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:13 PM
1

I have also noticed that, but it may just that, that we've "noticed" because we're looking for it. There may be no statistically significance to it.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:39 PM
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That's why it sucks to want children. A lot of guys here would say: "Fuck that." But if you want kids, the only way to do it in a way that's fair to yourself and your children is a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:24 PM
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I agree. It makes little sense to shame guys for choosing to get married. I come to TRP to (1) learn how to be a better man, which naturally leads to (2) becoming attractive to women. There are a lot of good points--critical things to know--about why a guy should be very cautious about getting married. A lot of guys around here (I'm divorced) got fucked over. But guys that are "alpha" get married, and some are happily married. Can't deny that bit of evidence.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:56 PM
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Sucking in as much male attention as possible, and then hurting those guys becomes part of the excitement. Otherwise, they would just simply go around fucking without giving the appearances of "wanting to settle down." Cue BP wonderment about their hurt feelings.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:58 PM
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Lawyer here. The answer is a nearly unconditional "no." Student loans are considered personal, non-alienable debt for the very simple reason that you can't alienate (transfer, sell) your college degree.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:43 PM
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Oh yeah. The hamster is hard at work here. "If only you were just emotionally available, I wouldn't have to ask for space. Also, if you were emotionally available, I wouldn't have these tingles for Chad at work. I just need some space to explore these feelings for Chad."
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 02:17 PM
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That's not her problem. That's your problem. It's your emotions you've got to own. Letting her see you angry about not getting laid is giving her power over you in addition to inviting her to see you as weaker than your own emotions. If you can't handle it, just up and fucking leave. You don't need to tell her where you're going. Read a book in a parking lot. Jerk off into a field. Whatever it takes to maintain frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 01:46 PM
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Think about Frame. Create a reality in which she wants to be a part of, and that means basically doing whatever interesting shit you would do if you were single (outside of fucking other chicks)--while still quietly taking care of responsibilities like children. Trust me, she notices when you are angry. I suspect you want her to know when you are angry--and you are a little pleased when she reacts to it. This has got to end. You are dispassionate towards her rebuffs and simply go do something mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 01:43 PM
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If I had a nickle for every time the nazis looted my gold coins, but they took my nickles, too.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:49 PM
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I don't disagree with any of that. I, myself, made the mistake of believing that a woman could love a man as a man expects to be loved (based on culturally created expectations). A lot of us have. But the anger has to be, as you suggest, directed at oneself for making that mistake. We are all just collections of cells and genetics and biology that was crafted over millions of years. It is complex; it based on a lot of brutality and hard living; but it isn't bad or good. Women are not good or bad…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:00 PM
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It's all the generalizing women as inferior to men. It's an unpopular opinion around her, but I like women. I think both genders bring a lot to the table for a lot of different reasons, which is why men and women have been getting together and forming pair-bonds since--oh you know--humans have been around. But I also love reading TRP because our culture, for myriad reasons, has stamped out a lot of masculinity. Men are confused, blue pilling all over the place, and most men in America--including…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 07:39 PM
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