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How is this comment so far down? The Red Pill sub on this site is vile. I care deeply about men's rights but there is no way I'll associate with anything that ties back to that type of thinking. Men and women should be working together, not fighting to make the gap wider.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 05:26 AM
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Well...it does. I'm a woman who had it happen. I think it's despicable of either gender to steal someone else's property and investments. Always did feel that way.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 07:41 PM
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Don't live with anyone either. At least, not without checking common law legislation in your area. Because if you live with someone long enough, that's as good as being married anyway.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 07:39 PM
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Disgusting. I sincerely hope you get justice against the officers who responded to the call.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 05:53 AM
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As a lady, I think that there are some good points, but the problem is that there are no easy answers in the dating game. None. I couldn't tell you what attracts me to Guy A over Guy B, unless it's glaringly obvious. I couldn't tell you why Guy A did or did not call back, or how to know if Guy A really was the right choice at the end. I think we're all winging it, so making a list of "Rules" is kind of pointless. My "rules" are completely different and my priorities in a mate are completely diff…
/r/MensRights17/06/13 08:38 PM
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Honest question: if they can't take the time to fill out a profile, why do you reward them with messages and attention? I would honestly ignore them entirely, which solves the lack of starting information problem. :)
/r/seduction13/06/13 06:39 AM
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As a woman, this article is pretty much spot on. There are some quibbles here and there, but for the most part, I can say most of these issues affected my sex life (and the lack thereof) with my ex. Not that they were all his fault - but in his mind, it was all MY fault. So yeah. Listen up ladies and gents - BOTH of you are responsible for your sex life and what it becomes.
/r/seduction12/06/13 11:05 PM
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Here's one I got today that I am about to respond to: Hey [me], I liked your pictures! Did you notice you spelled groomer with 2 letter g's. so how's the running coming along? I took up running 2 years ago and love it! I've done a couple of 1/2 marathons and 2 full marathons. How about you, have you done any races yet? Maybe you'd like to go for a run sometime? [him] What I like is that he actually addressed something in my profile I talked about (being a new runner), and suggested a potential a…
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:49 PM
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No, even without your explanation. I don't have to prove anything to you or anyone else. I dunno, I guess I just can't be bothered with someone who would ask something like that - it's basically being accused of lying. I'm also 31, and my responses now are much different than when I was 21. Another thing to consider. So it's not just to do with knowing about "pick-up", it's just a different mentality. YMMV. That's all I'm saying.
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:57 AM
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See, as a lady, I would completely ignore YMMV for sure. Not everyone you message is looking for validation - I don't care if some internet stranger doesn't believe that's me or that I've done X, Y, Z. And I ain't alone! Just keep that in mind.
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:28 AM
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I think you're the problem, in some regard. Either you are approaching the wrong women, or you have a problem with appropriate communication - as in saying the right thing at the right time. For instance, if you only try to set up a FWB situation when you've been drinking, or without any lead-in, then you are probably going to be rejected flat-out. It's all about your approach and timing. Without knowing the whole story, it's impossible to know where you might be going wrong. So yes, it could be…
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:10 PM
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It blows my mind that women are things to be kept "interested" rather than human beings to build a relationship with (of whatever kind). I certainly wouldn't be with a guy that continually ignored my texts and then called me clingy for being annoyed at being treated like I don't matter. How hard is it to just be up-front with someone? Does it make you cooler if you "trick" a girl into being with you by muddying the truth (and not being explicit about wanting sex only IS muddying the truth)? I me…
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:50 PM
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It's still not wholly on her though. A great majority of people will send random texts throughout a day, so you're the one being "weird" (for lack of better terms - sorry, it's early and coffee hasn't kicked in yet) in that regard. I still say you could send a quick text back - "LOL That is funny. I'm just busy with X at the moment, so I'll have to chat with you tomorrow, okay?" It acknowledges her text, which will make her feel better, yet it doesn't open the door to a full conversation, which …
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:42 PM
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I have an honest question: how hard is it to just fire off an answer to a text? You say she was upset about you not getting back to her within a day - but I think that's a reasonable complaint. You could have at least said, "Hey, sorry today is just busy. Can we chat tomorrow?" rather than ignoring her texts. I mean, it's over now, so whatever. But it's something to keep in mind. Ignoring someone - even if only for a day - is not polite or kind, and you should change that part of your behaviour.…
/r/seduction05/06/13 11:46 PM
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In the example you've posted, since you kept up this "I look suave" act for the rest of the night, that would come across arrogant. I would try to scale back a bit, and try to make it much more clearly a joke - "Are you saying I don't usually look suave?" Then wink and give her a light nudge with your elbow and laugh. Then go back to your nice normal self. You don't have to MAINTAIN a cocky attitude to come across as confident. Just be a little bit bolder - smart ass remarks here and there, but …
/r/seduction09/04/13 10:22 PM
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I know you said those things, but I still don't come away with that overall impression of the article. Just my interpretation though, so take it with a grain of salt. :)
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:08 AM
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Ugh,I love when people blame THEIR issues on other people instead of accepting that THEY screwed up. It is not my fault (or anyone's fault) that someone what couldn't muster up the courage to just make a move. I too have had issues when dating - communication problems, worrying about poor reactions, etc. I do not blame the other person for that, because it was something I had to figure out for myself. Too bad you didn't learn to be bold until after a few failures, but guess what? EVERYONE loses …
/r/seduction12/03/13 08:03 PM
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The article is interesting, but skated over the most important fact, IMO. If you don't push for an intimate relationship, you are likely to get friend-zoned. There is a balance, of course - you can't immediately get hands-y or lay on the sex talk immediately. But you can definitely give off a "romance" vibe rather than a "buddy" vibe. Nothing is worse than developing a relationship, and wondering how he feels - and if he isn't clearly in the flirting, dating zone, I am going to assume he just wa…
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:52 AM
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Or maybe he can take responsibility for saying, "yes,I will go to that concert, please buy me a ticket". You know, because that's what happened. If you do that and then back out, and then act surprised when the person you told it to is upset, you're an asshole, plain and simple.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:35 PM
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LOL True that!
/r/seduction25/02/13 10:07 PM
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Or a male cat. Seriously. It's a male cat.
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:27 PM
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Or the "Crazy-Hot Scale".
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:00 PM
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Um. Isn't that what I said? Without getting to actually know her and her history, you can't assume that any type of relationship she has with an ex is an indication. Yup. Yup, that IS what I said.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:55 PM
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I still wouldn't judge solely on that reasoning - she could have bad luck with guys. Or, like me, maybe she just couldn't bring herself to break off a bad relationship until it reached the point of no-return, therefore creating animosity on both sides. Get to know her before you entirely judge her.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:43 PM
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It was a trend that I ignored a couple times, but couldn't take it anymore. He wasn't hot enough to put up with more bullshit, if I can be so crass.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:41 PM
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But...a tomcat is a male cat. So you want to have sex with a male cat, if you think having a tomcat in bed is awesome. An ALLEY CAT would be a better term to use. Or a WILD CAT. But tomcat? Not so much.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:41 PM
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That could be, but who knows? He left it wide open to interpretation.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:39 PM
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Male cats in the sack?
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:01 PM
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MAYBE. What if the ex was a manipulative jerk? What if the ex cheated on her? What if they really liked each other, but she wanted kids and he didn't (or vice versa)? What if they just didn't click in the bedroom, but the friendship part was awesome? What if they didn't click as friends, but the bedroom part was awesome? Without getting to actually know her and her history, you can't assume that any type of relationship she has with an ex is an indication.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:59 PM
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At what point is it acceptable that she brings it up? By your words, NEVER. So even if you date her for twenty years, she can't bring it up once. Yay for sweeping generalization statements!
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:56 PM
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I agree - often "crazy" isn't crazy at all - it's someone who has tried to tell you something and you are too thick to understand it or to even try to understand it. Or you've made a promise (intentionally or not) that you have broken, usually more than once. Every time I've lost it on a guy (like a "crazy" person) it was because I gave him my expectation, and he let me down in one way or another. For instance, I told a guy I was seeing in October that I was buying tickets for a concert at the e…
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:52 PM
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So she's automatically low self-esteem or fishing, but a guy doing the same thing is humble? Wow.
/r/seduction18/01/13 04:58 PM
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Some people are just shitty - gender notwithstanding.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 06:50 AM
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