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Calling them out just confirms that they have power over you(r thoughts), which makes you less attractive. Eject and have fun with other people. Demonstrate that their actions have no effect over you and they just missed out on an awesome guy.
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:04 AM
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As a girl on okcupid, bored out of my mind by the "hi how are you?" messages, I wish EVERYONE would message the way you suggest. Great advice all around!
/r/seduction16/01/13 06:39 PM
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I'm crazy busy and my time is valuable, you are not a flake right? "Why, do you date flaky girls often? I've been busy too, maybe another day would work better." (You just annoyed me and gave me an excuse to bail) I don't know if this is going to work out... "Um... Ok then" (I would assume the date is off at this point) You: "Don't wear high heels. See you <date/time>", "Be sure to bring a jacket", and etc I really like this because you are confident (of course no one would forget a date with aw…
/r/seduction15/12/12 08:03 AM
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Check out the Playette FAQ: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=8&mn=1261566993592678
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:44 AM
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Yay! I love it when girls are brave enough to post here _^ Basically, what puaCurveBall said, but I just wanted to provide more insight and resources specifically from a girl's perspective. How do you know if a guy is hitting on you? You don't notice because most guys are terrible at flirting (just like us...). In my experience, I only notice if someone is flirting with me if a) he's drunk/just not socially well-atuned, therefore has no inhibition, therefore is really cheesy and obvious, and the…
/r/seduction01/11/12 05:38 AM
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"Sounds like fun, I'll try to drop by for a little bit after x" Or if it's a fixed time thing (like a play or something), just say "aw man, I have to do x then, what are you doing afterwards?" If nothing works, just say "let's definitely hang out next week", and now you'll have next weekend planned =)
/r/seduction27/10/12 09:05 PM
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If she likes your good morning, then she already digs you enough for you to text any way you want. If she's not into you yet, get to the point or she won't have a reason to reply.
/r/seduction12/09/12 03:59 AM
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Short answer: no. Long answer: only if you own it. Like saying that you can't sing while singing off key and loving it.
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:03 AM
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I believe that advice actually means be teasing. For example my friends tease me about not washing my car. It would have been mean if they were serious, but since they don't judge me for it, it's more of an inside joke that builds rapport.
/r/seduction08/03/12 06:26 PM
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What the heck is open body language?
/r/seduction04/02/12 07:53 AM
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I subscribe to both and when this happens it's like mommy and daddy are fighting :( I'm sure I'm not the only one.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:19 AM
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Instead of saying "I'd like a double grande cappuccino", say "I'd like a Friday lunch with you at Quiderpno's" and be ready to record/give phone # in super speed. Takes the same amount of time as ordering and signing a receipt. You'll be 1 coffee short but, hey, priorities, right? Edit: if she really can't keep her eyes off of you like you said, you don't need to build more attraction, don't waste time.
/r/seduction13/01/12 11:16 AM
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I start by explaining that saying hi to a pretty girl is not going to get you maced. Once they're interested, I feed them some less controversial material that is relevant to their skill level. Then I find out if they think this is soulless/superficial/immoral and explain how it's about contributing value to others. Once they understand that I'm less guarded about what material I show them, though I still filter by relevance.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:47 PM
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Show that you love your mother despite her various flaws. It's the same way you deal with AMOGs: if you let it phase you, you lose. You should read that other seddit post about embracing your vulnerability.
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:33 PM
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Is there a tldr version?
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:20 AM
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Female here. I won't ask if you don't talk about it. But if if you bring it up and your number is in the high double digits, I'm going to be pretty concerned about how serious you are about the relationship.
/r/seduction06/12/11 07:43 AM
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No but if you ask, it's very awkward to say no. I've advised friends to give out google voice or to get the guy's phone number to avoid having to screen calls later, so watch out for that too :-P You can somewhat mitigate this problem by asking for the number as a way of contacting her to do something specific (e.g. We're going to this party next week, gimme your number so I can tell u when). This way she can reject without awkwardness just by saying she's not free, and you've already put the id…
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:15 PM
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It depends on the frame of your face. I don't think any form of glasses would be a deal-breaker, but make sure ou get the type that compliments your personality: if you need to appear more mature, get a more traditional frame, while if you want to stand out, get something funky.
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:10 PM
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Your disadvantage is that older women are used to guys who are more mature. Your advantage is that younger guys are more fun. So demonstrate your maturity without being boring. It also depends on the woman. Some are more traditional and wouldnt go for younger guys while others don't really care. As you get older, more of them fall into the latter category for obvious reasons.
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:07 PM
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I think one reason it seems so male-centric is because some specific strategies don't conform to the societal norms for women, so they wouldn't produce reliable results for women. But just as you said, the underlying concepts applying to everyone. I read seddit because I get to see a different perspective in such an honest light. I love how everything is analyzed down to a science, and sometimes seddit even enlightens me on why I or my friends do/feel/say certain things!
/r/seduction04/12/11 08:17 AM
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Most girls a really bad (read:subtle) with their IOIs. Just ask. She'll either say yes or give you major respect for having the guts to ask. Also, you got eye contact in the double digits.... any more and it would be called "too obvious" >.>;;;
/r/seduction28/10/11 06:23 AM
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If you said that to me and my friends, we will definitely get away from you. Nobody wants to talk to a nag. Something that would work better is like "oh good, because I have a very important question for you. [a hilariously stupid question]"
/r/seduction28/10/11 06:13 AM
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Hell yes! The toughest part is convincing her to go in.
/r/seduction08/10/11 04:23 AM
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You seem to have a computer and internet. Watch Hulu.
/r/seduction30/09/11 03:17 AM
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She's not as interested in you as you are in her. However there could be many reasons she has lunch with your other coworker: they're working on something, they know each other, her friend likes him, etc etc From the info you have it's hard to tell if she's lukewarm or just not interested at all. You should give it another try before nexting her. Don't make such a big deal for missing the last lunch though, that just makes your crush too obvious.
/r/seduction16/09/11 05:03 PM
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I had to explain this to my friend recently: Just because women check out guys, doesn't mean they're judging you by your physical features. They're judging you by what your looks convey about your personality.
/r/seduction13/09/11 06:24 AM
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Happens to me when I dress nicer, and I have the same "am I just imagining it?" doubt. Who cares? It's awesome! If you interact with them as if they're paying more attention to you, they'll start paying attention even if they weren't! (That and I'm pretty sure it's not just your imagination)
/r/seduction13/09/11 06:15 AM
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Don't apologize for (or even mention) not having a chance to talk. It's not your fault and mentioning such a minor circumstance sounds clingy. And don't give her the note in front of other people, it's gonna be really awkward for her to explain to the people she's talking to.
/r/seduction10/09/11 11:48 PM
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try to see through the lenses and look at their eyes. Chances are, they aren't actually staring you down When I wear sunglasses I stare people down because I feel like they can't see me, even when they're looking straight at me. You should whip out your own pair of shades, then you can have a sunglasses staring contest with them!
/r/seduction07/09/11 03:36 AM
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It's true. Looks, in a literal sense, don't matter. What your look says about you matters, a lot. (exercise: check out r/ladyboners and try to find what all the posts have in common)
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:42 AM
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Haha, you are so evil. Awesome thread btw!
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:30 AM
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I don't think a lack of postings by nice guys is a valid rubric to measure with. Nice guys wouldn't post about how they got girls as if they're trophies. I still disagree with the rest of what you said, but don't have anything non-repetitive to add so I'll just shut up and go away now.
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:21 AM
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Here are some off the top of my head, not in any order. Obviously these are specific actions that manifested because of confidence and a congruent personality, so don't take them literally. randomly imitating an animal in public (frog, gorilla, etc.) pretending to be cool through some really clichéd action (on purpose) be excited when I'm not, try to convince me with super exaggerated facial expressions and/or sound effects when we're walking back and forth trying to decide where to eat, just dr…
/r/seduction30/03/11 02:46 AM
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I got a little peck in, but she kind of turned away. Was it because her friend was there and watching?
/r/seduction26/03/11 11:32 PM
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me too! Some of them were actually pretty hard to distinguish. I think some of it also depends on the person's personality (more serious people's genuine smiles had less pronounced features)
/r/seduction26/03/11 11:04 PM
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she apparently didn't have a phone That was probably the first clue.
/r/seduction13/03/11 09:08 PM
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Ok, I assumed that OP was giving him advice on getting in a relationship with this girl, but now that I read it again, I think I might have inferred too much. Still, you want to do these things because you really don't give a fuck, not because you're doing this for someone. If this is OP's plot to get him to forget that girl without realizing it, though, it's pretty brilliant.
/r/seduction06/03/11 03:24 AM
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It's not about the lack of "romance" in that approach (I assume that's what you mean by Disney movies). This model is unsustainable unless you continue to induce those feelings in her during the relationship. Long-term jealousy is not good for a relationship and I doubt someone with one-itis can go through with it anyways.
/r/seduction06/03/11 02:34 AM
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Came here to agree with you. This advice sounds pretty douchy, with the only goal being inducing jealousy-motivated actions from her.
/r/seduction06/03/11 01:43 AM
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