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Same reason women don't communicate what turns them on sexually, because a Real ManTM should automatically know exactly what to do and how to do it without being told anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:37 AM
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I agree in the sense that unless you're very fit, and you dress and style yourself with a ton of effort, you don't really have a 'right' to complain about your dating woes Being fit, not average, but fit/athletic and a solid sense of style is 90% of being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:22 AM
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Vast majority of women who met their husbands in real life would NOT have given the same guy a shot if she saw his dating profile, yet here they are, happily married Tells you everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:38 PM
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FYI There is no epidemic outside of Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:15 AM
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Women of Reddit who scream the loudest about never wanting to be approached, never get approached in real life anyway They instead imagine what it must be like, creepy guy blocking her path as she's busy trying to get somewhere, won't take no for an answer Then they come on Reddit and decide to speak for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:28 AM
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Lot's of self hatred
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/23 05:36 PM
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Ah yes, the world famous Reddit worthless contarian to the rescue The point genius is his behavior is toxic as fuck and you would assume women would be repulsed, yet we see the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:25 AM
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High school bullies were always very successful with girls Yet another chapter in "what they say were their actions vs what they say with their words" playbook
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:15 PM
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They don't No one cares either way, I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:21 AM
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Montgomery Burns?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:23 PM
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Girl at work does exactly this. Flirts like crazy, the second I flirt back she pulls away. After a break, she starts doing it again I've stopped flirting back for awhile now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:23 PM
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OLD has already ended this discussion, right? For all the talk of unfair beauty standards from men and how much more open minded women are, online dating has proven that men are attracted to a much, much wider range and it is not even close Statistics are very clear on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:34 AM
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The woman in the How can she slap video was playing the part of a dominatrix too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:08 PM
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Any man who even hints at a desire to be a SAHD in the beginning is 100% undatable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:06 PM
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They want to be taken care of in the more challenging parts of life too, investment portfolios, planning for retirement, housing investments and upgrades, management of the house, ensuring appropriate medical follow up and so on. Oh and they LOVE to submit sexuality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:06 AM
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Something about how the government pays a single mom more money to be by herself than to live with a man It sounded weird, he never explained it exactly but I think it was some type of welfare reference Sounded like an idiot tbh
/r/MensRights24/08/23 03:23 AM
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Ok you win That upper class white woman and her servants staying at home is officially oppressed Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:04 PM
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Yes, they married their high school sweetheart and and kids very young I keep forgetting we're on Reddit This isn't the same as casual sex by today's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:15 PM
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Sorry, I forgot we're on Reddit. I forgot to add "rare exceptions aside" or something similar. All better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:03 PM
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Yes. Open the entire time. It just wasn't the norm. Like men didn't typically become elementary school teachers either, but there was also nothing stopping them. Good news, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:49 PM
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50s were a very rare time period. WWII had ended, the USA was booming as a new super power. Growth and prosperity everywhere (for a short time). It was here that many middle/upper class white women had the luxury and the privilege to stay at home parents. Most just married their high school sweetheart It's funny, for decades this pampered upper class white woman was the face of feminism and "oppression" because she stayed at home in spite of numerous careers available to her. Nothing prevented h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:42 PM
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So many teen movies all had sexual active teens: Fast Times,16 Candles, Last american Virgin, The Sure Thing, Little Darlings, Porky's, Risky Business,; etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:31 PM
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1950s kids were rarely having sex, doing drugs 1980s think hair metal concerts, every drug, constant parties and with regard to sex, no one was saving themselves for marriage, every one I knew were sexual active as teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:25 PM
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It's almost never said in the real world vs 'although' The few times it comes up in the real world, the person saying it is a bit weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:00 AM
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9 times out of 10 it's money related
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:23 AM
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Do you say "albeit" in the real world? Probably not, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:11 PM
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It's fascinating how women of Reddit cut and paste the same responses over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:58 PM
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one woman's opinion I know, but this part seems like a stone cold fact and not an opinion: "cold approach is fine unless ur ugly in which case the real crime is that ur ugly not the approach real talk" Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:42 PM
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You're referring to a completely different subject
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:55 PM
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Exactly All this extreme caution because their Match.com date is going to kidnap them at a busy Starbucks surrounded by people and cameras
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:39 PM
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I believe everything they say with their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:18 PM
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It's like saying "1 in 6 breast cancer patients are male" It's meant as a way to bring awareness because it's outside the normal demographic Times of Malta? That's quite a long stretch to find a way to be a victim
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:17 PM
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The risk is microscopic either way and in no way matches the world famous hysteria from women of Reddit on this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:12 PM
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Refreshing honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:00 PM
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The "if I say no, he will assault me" are so exaggerated Like, don't drive a car because you will get in an accident, type hysteria
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:58 PM
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Women don't realize they're lying because they honestly don't see the massive contradiction between their words and their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:17 PM
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How do you think men feel when they try to engage with all the best intentions and a woman responds by acting like she is going to vomit at the mere thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:10 PM
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The "it's only creepy when they persist" is a lie women tell themselves to appear less shallow. Men get that "ew" face solely due to appearance and not beha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:50 PM
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Ok
/r/MensRights11/08/23 09:07 PM
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Yeah, I know It's still annoying
/r/MensRights11/08/23 08:56 PM
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Why is the term "unpacking" so annoying? You unpack your luggage
/r/MensRights11/08/23 08:37 PM
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It's true and not just for top tier men Once she's selected him, he's passed all her tests and she wants a committed relationship, now the power shifts to the guy and his willingness to commit or not She has already decided, now she has to hope he feels the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:01 PM
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It had a compelling men's-empowerment message to it. how so?
/r/MensRights10/08/23 12:45 PM
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They’re consistently very selective using the exact wrong criteria. If this weren’t the case there’d be much less complaints from women about dating online and otherwise. This is an excellent point. If you read between the lines, OLD should be an oasis for women, like a kid in a candy store, a buffet of very attractive men just waiting to wine and dine them. Except... they hate OLD. But why? Why do they hate it considering all their advantages? The answer is because women just can't help themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:09 PM
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Complete fantasy I disagree. Take the height thing for example, in real life a woman will absolutely give you a chance "as long as you're taller than her" but with online dating, it's the exact opposite. Even short women screen out men under 5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:06 PM
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She is doing the very well documented playbook of using her sex appeal to her benefit as a young woman, then as she ages and her ability to leverage her beauty wans and her career struggles, then she shifts gears into the victim of Patriarchy, victim of men, victim of beauty standards, champion for all the young girls struggling, etc. Rose McGowan and many others have done the exact same thing. The mainstream media plays along as always
/r/MensRights10/08/23 11:54 AM
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You ignored this part: If a man were to say that he wants to be with a woman who is shorter than him because that makes him feel more masculine, society will say that he's an insecure loser incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:10 AM
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How many jewelry commercials do you see encouraging women to buy an expensive gift for the man in their life? Zero, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:35 AM
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Vast majority of homeless men refuse the long list of government and charity outreach programs available. Refuse treatment, refuse employment, even refuse housing often Edit: downvote all you want, I know this first hand from years of working with homeless
/r/MensRights08/08/23 12:16 PM
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Sure, they try Doesn't mean it's even an option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:08 AM
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If it's a tradition they like such as paying for dates and engagement rings it's called "chivalry", for all the traditions they don't like, they call "patriarchy"
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:46 AM
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Better pro-Ukraine propaganda if you use an attractive young woman. The article was gender neutral otherwise and she's a real victim so why not. Remember, the reason you are seeing her is to gain sympathy, support, demonize the enemy, etc. Textbook groupthink manipulation for the sheeple. I have very little optimistism you will grasp this point
/r/MensRights03/08/23 01:28 AM
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If a woman has 500+ matches and is so overwhelmed that she can't possibly keep up with all these guys, so many to choose from, many, many, many good candidates.... Why does she keep swiping? Tell me please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:42 PM
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I once made this exact point (swipe less) on a dating sub and was downvoted like crazy. No replies, just downvotes. Women of Reddit didn't like that point, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:15 AM
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And the range is much wider and it's not even close - tall, short, chubby, all across the spectrum etc Plus they're not punished nearly as much if they live with their parents; don't have a great career or the right car, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:50 AM
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Plain Janes still have their pick on OLD They have a ton of options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:48 AM
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Tell me again how the expectations for men and engagement rings is fair and equal Or deflect again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:44 PM
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Just pretend that the 98% of women who will judge you harshly for it don't exist, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:37 PM
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Yet, they had more than enough time and energy to address mansplaining and manspreading, right? Non-stop activism for years on these super urgent issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:35 PM
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Lol "the left" It's not a political issue, it's a gendered one Women overwhelmingly reject men who don't conform, this applies to all sides of the political spectrum Men have to either play along or deal with the reality their options will drop by 90+%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:58 PM
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Men are shamed big-time if the ring is too inexpensive Very few women ever reciprocate, you know, because of tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:48 PM
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It is rather odd how feminists barely utter a word about engagement ring inequality Every other tradition and gender role they want to abolish Oh, paying for dates too, they'll keep that one too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:01 PM
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I appreciate their honesty Refreshing vs the constant virtue signaling denials that women of Reddit are world famous for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:44 AM
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Fascinating the way women never accept responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:17 PM
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It's even less difficult for her to communicate and simply guide him, tell what you like and don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:23 PM
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Imagine if a man said, the reason for my erectile dysfunction is because women need to perform better, they need to be more attractive and more sexy in bed" Crazy, right? Yet that is exactly what women do with their sexual problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:19 PM
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Fathers tend to work a lot more after a child is born, sacrificing for his family Mothers tend to work a lot less in favor of more family time and caregiving Of course this is spun as the woman being the victim solely because her income is less at the end of the year
/r/MensRights25/07/23 07:31 PM
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Just like so many other double standards, women are allowed, men aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:21 PM
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No, the woman will always resent him Her friends, mom and sisters too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:40 PM
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I see your point. You're saying yes, of course there is shame and judgement, especially in the beginning stages of dating but eventually life happens, circumstances change and new life roles emerge to where the disappointment becomes manageable and the judgement from female friends and female family members lessens considerably I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:29 PM
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That friend of yours, let me guess, her first reaction was confusion, right? Not quite even understanding your point because no one has ever challenged her before on this? Certainly nothing in the mainstream. There really isn't a social penalty for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:19 PM
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All those jealous friends, if a man put ANY interest in being a stay at home parent a dating profile he would be instantly screened out, not even a first meet. Any mention of this on a date means there is no next date Why do their actions say something so different than their words?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:10 PM
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Of course, but they say the real truth behind her back, right ? Remember feminism never once to this day has made any effort to convince women (not men) that their views on gender norms need to change too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:07 PM
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Imagine a group of girlfriends sitting around a table having lunch. One of them asks the other what does your husband do for a living? All their faces turn as she nervously answers with shame as she announces he's a stay-at-home dad She instantly senses the utter disgust from all the other female guests at the table Sad, really Enormous social pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:39 AM
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Do you think women realize that they're giving you 'the look'?
/r/MensRights21/07/23 12:03 PM
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If it makes you feel better, women are mostly lying to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:13 AM
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Online dating stats give the honest answer, right OP? They prove everything you wrote is completely inaccurate. Hard to dispute, the numbers are right there in black and white, who gets swiped on and who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:54 PM
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Counterpoint: A lot of men start a Cold approach as normal everyday banter solely because they hope to escalate When they see that oh so familiar get the fuck away from me look, the guy then switches gear and was just being neighborly, hey what's her problem? Posturing, plausible deniability, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:15 AM
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r/noshitsherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:39 PM
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Where do you live, Detroit? Oakland? Harlem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:29 PM
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Yes and planes crash all the time, car accidents too, oh and hit by lightening. Best not to leave your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:27 PM
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For Biden's 'Build Back Better' plan (which didn't pass), for one gender, to qualify for funds you simply had to be a "woman" that's it. You're in. Ivanka Trump qualifies for aid. No qualifies of any kind regarding income, class, education. For men, you had to be a _______ (veteran, disabled, non-white, non-Asian, certain income level, etc) It's amazing how feminism and the mainstream still lump white women in the "oppressed victim" category
/r/MensRights03/07/23 03:19 PM
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The top guys are hooking up all year long, I promise you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:15 AM
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Not only were charges never filed, but the authorities determined he left the party 30 minutes before the alleged incident. He wasn't even there yet he is still a free agent without a team
/r/MensRights24/06/23 12:32 PM
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The thing is that men treat each other just as bad online This applies many times at work too. "We want to be treated the same as men" except when they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:36 PM
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Men view unattractive women same way they view other men This is actually a great point. When women talk about being invisible because they've aged or because they're very unattractive... what is actually happening is they're being treated more or less the same as how men are treated in society. Men interact with her the same way we act with other men we don't know. She isn't treated any worse than your average guy who is out there trying to make his way, I promise you. However, she sees the Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:14 AM
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Yes but you would agree that the range of what's considered attractive to the opposite sex is significantly easier for women? It's not even close, right? Tall, short, busty, flat chested, BBW, thick, obese, etc, etc. Now compare that to what women find attractive. Not even close. Also, a 4/10 woman has roughly the same activity level as a 7/10 male with OLD. But yes, I will agree that a 3/10 or below woman will struggle too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:08 AM
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"They assume all women have the easy way out which is cringe" Incorrect. The assumption, and it's 100.00% true, is that women have it easier (not easy) than their hypothetical exact male counterpart. Online dating proves this everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:05 AM
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The only thing that contradicts anything is her post about her wonderful boyfriend and her other post saying she's going to leave him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:02 PM
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Yes. IF a man shows up with a good lawyer AND makes a very convincing case, AND he proves he is capable, AND proves he is worthy, then yes, the judge will very likely give him a fair custody ruling. For women, the default is she simply has to show up. That's it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/23 12:18 PM
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Why is this article on a "men's rights" sub? Why exactly?
/r/MensRights01/06/23 01:29 PM
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I'm walking home alone after a shift at night after the buses have stopped...if a predator sees me I will be seen as an easier mark than another man. Again, these are rare occurrences vs. the other 97% of the time where you're at work, at the mall, at the job interview, at the doctor's office, etc, etc and, overwhelmingly, people are much more friendly to you, much more accommodating, no one sees you as a threat, people are way more likely to help you and so on. I think most women are blind to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:26 PM
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Valid point. Question for you, why do women acknowledge the second part of this double edged sword like you did, but never acknowledge the other part, where they are treated better/nicer in almost every situation? Men take a much softer tone with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:54 AM
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In other words, play the long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:34 PM
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Any young man who is fit, well dressed and can pay his own way in life will never, ever have trouble dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:13 AM
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Men have the exact same options, right? To reject women any time for any reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:24 PM
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I know this is blasphemy to women of Reddit, but even if self-identified ugly women posted an online dating post with something like, "Hi guys. I'm looking for some casual fun!" even her will get a long list of decent looking guys lining up for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:16 PM
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here definitely, the word women specifically means "conventionally attractive women" I would say the word refers mostly to women in the 4+ range, which covers the vast majority, but you and the OP are correct, the 3 and below women definitely have their struggles too, exceptions definitely exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:10 PM
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Disagree with OP Take any male struggling with dating. Have that person get jacked fitness wise, not just "above average" but jacked in terms of muscle and body fat % and make a serious effort to upgrade your style and you legitimately put yourself out there doing hobbies you really like I 100% guarantee you, you will have very little problems dating, yes... even the ASD OP and so many others on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:35 PM
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Let's say you have a set of 18 year-old twins, one male, one female. The male gets sent off to war somewhere and is currently in a freezing cold bunker covered in mud and ice and shit, while getting shot at for the last 14 hours. The female is home taking a bubble bath while drawing a coloring book. Did you catch the sexism above? If you answered the women is the real victim here, you answered correctly! Their answer is, 'Yes, because they view her as too weak to join the military". To which I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:24 AM
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People are just nicer to me. People don't call me creepy and scary for being socially inept. When I cry people don't call me a pussy. If someone is openly sexist towards me, I'm so much more likely to have someone come to my defense. Very well said. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:17 AM
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This should be the top post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:16 AM
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It's necessarily related to dating either. A 50 year-old woman who is a stranger walks into a room, a business, a retail store, etc and people are going to be much more friendlier as a whole. Everywhere she goes vs. her male counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:11 AM
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She has ADHD and dyslexia and never had any help or support through school. As a female, nearly 100% your teachers growing up would have also been a female - role models, representation, etc. AND... you are much more likely to be diagnosed and receive help for your ADHD and dyslexia
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:09 AM
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Some will probably call the older divorced woman a slut So odd how this lie always gets repeated on Reddit. We don't like in small town 1800s religious America/Europe anymore. Who would call her a slut? Her pastor? The other members of her church?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:24 AM
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Most men process women hitting on them as free sex! That is a fact. 100.00% incorrect What you're really saying, and we both know it, is that you're too afraid to risk rejection and come out of your comfort zone, so instead you sit back, do nothing and rationalize all this in your head so justify your cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:50 PM
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And then they'll cry about men they're not interested in approaching them after misreading a signal That's the interesting part. Women who are single and looking, they absolutely want to be approached in public, including the gym, including the grocery store. And yes, they want to be checked out, noticed how hot they look, turn heads, etc. They LOVE it. However.... They only want that attention from Hot Guy they're attracted to. For him, all the rules are not only put on hold, but enthusiastical…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:24 PM
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She is literally holding the door open for you and failure to walk through is squarely on you. Hypothetically, a woman just sitting there, making no effort of any kind to signal interest is definitely NOT doing what you wrote above. She is being neutral at best, certainly not the invitation you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:04 PM
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How is different? Let's say you're out a beer and wine festival or something similar. An attractive guy initiates conversation with you, things go well and you exchange phone numbers. Suddenly, you have all the control? You have all the power? Same exact guy, same exact place, only instead you initiate the conversation, again... things go well, you exchange phone numbers. Now, suddenly, you lose all this power? You're at his mercy? Makes no sense. You vet either way. The guy who approached you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:01 PM
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then i would assume hes just not attracted. Or.... even in social situations.... He could easily assume that it's YOU who is not attracted and/or interested because you give off no indication otherwise. No eye contact, no smiling, no open body language, certainly no initiating the conversation - everything closed off. Yet, he's still suppose to approach anyway? And if he doesn't, "It must be because I'm not pretty enough"!? I promise you, there is a TON more that goes into it vs. "Am I attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:55 PM
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So you're standing online at a grocery store or someplace similar. The guy behind you is REALLY attracted to you but you're busy, putting out groceries, rummaging through your purse, checking messages on your phone, giving no indication of any kind that you're open and interested, not even looking at his direction. And in this scenario, when the man DOESN'T approach, your conclusion is, "he must not have been attracted to me, that's the reason he didn't approach me". Not to mention the endless m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:20 PM
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Let's say for the next 30 days, you were to have sex with 40 different men (which you could do very, very easily, like ordering a pizza easy with OLD) Who would ever know? Your friends? Coworkers? Neighbors? No one would know unless you told them. Oh, and the "making him wait" part is bullshit too. If he likes you, sleeping with him early won't make him like you any less. Likewise, if he doesn't like you, making him wait won't make him like you any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:24 PM
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Can we stop pretending that slut shaming is a thing in current year? Who are these mysteriously people who are saying all these horrible things? Who exactly in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:31 PM
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they have to IMAGINE what it would be like And they always get it wrong too. They imagine themselves on a busy day trying to get somewhere and a random stranger rudely blocks her path, starts following her like a psychopath, won't take no for answer. When in reality, 99.999% of cold approaches happen naturally at the dog park, while you're waiting in line or for a service, while both shopping at the same spot at a store, etc, and the conservation develops naturally. Either way, this isn't a prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:25 PM
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My sister-in-law is divorced. She told us recently how she had some contractor guy over and was giving her a quote for a roof repair. As she's telling the story, she keeps going on and and on and on about how hot this guy was, she couldn't stop staring at him, butterflies, tingles, etc. As a joke (not really), I asked her what would she have done if he just straight up asked her for sex right then. What happened next was weird. Her entire demeanor changed, her eyebrows tightened and mouth opened…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:09 PM
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Women of reddit fascinate me. They scream to the world about "stop approaching us in public!!" meanwhile, 98% of them never get approached, ever and they act like this is some crisis to solve. They also act like there is this huge quality gap with online dating. Like the women are all beauties with high end careers and hobbies and not the obese, purple hair, addicted to social media types that are by far and away the norm (this picture nailed it, lol). Oh, and the virtue signaling. Hello? You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:56 PM
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I think the actual reason is because the thinking in the mainstream is that the guy must have been neglectful in the relationship in some context and this lack of meeting her needs was what drove her towards the affair, thereby shifting most of the fault towards the man. Similar when a woman destroys a man's property after a break-up. "He must have done something really bad, right?" This is the default setting until the poor guy can prove otherwise.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 12:19 AM
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This "historical oppression" argument is their ace in the hole to justify their double standards and hypocrisy today. Men and boys punished for past crimes they've never committed and women and girls receiving reparations for offenses they've never experienced.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:17 PM
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You really think it's a minority? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:44 PM
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as if women could do something about it. If women, as a whole, spoke out about the boys education gap half as much as they screamed about the women in STEM gap, there would be a huge amount of attention and resources brought to address the issues vs. what we have now: exactly nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:43 AM
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I think most normies would simply say it means being a responsible, functioning adult vs. the stereotype of the young man who won't leave his parent's home, won't make geniune efforts at establishing a career, not self sufficient, etc.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 05:35 PM
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It's a tactic called "no platforming" where they paint you as some version of a Nazi so that anything you say, no matter how factual or non-controversial, is to be instantly dismissed.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 12:07 PM
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Most CEOs and leaders in government are male never mind that these men already govern primarily for women with so many gender based pro-discrimination policies. It amazing how feminists think because these CEOs are men, this maleness somehow benefits the Average Joe on the street.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 01:47 PM
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So you must restrain as much as you can. Do you ever notice this doesn't apply to men? I saw a video on Reddit where a drunken idiot who looked like he weighed 140lbs was badgering this giant bouncer, 6'3"+ 325lbs at least outside a nightclub. After tolerating his antics for a few rounds, the huge guy smacks the shit out of the little punk and sends him flying away. Not a single comment about "restraint" and the smaller person being "much weaker". Instead, nearly all the comments where how the s…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:21 AM
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But what do men inherently offer? There is a huge answer to this that is never discussed openly which is, YES, women do need men in many, many instances if life. Little things. Assembling furniture/fixing things around the house, changing a tire on the side of the road, setting up a new wifi in your house, shoveling the snow, dealing with emergencies, dealing with an angry confrontation from someone, dealing with service workers in your home, dealing with mechanics, most women hate the idea of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:43 PM
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Also, it's not necessarily limited to hook-ups and FWBs. Each of these has the opportunity to develop into something serious. The pool of available suitors is so one sided. It's fascinating the way women refuse to simply acknowledge something so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:44 PM
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This is where women of Reddit will tell you that having unlimited access to sexual partners, at or above your attractiveness level, virtually at your fingertips, to fulfill each and every one of your sexual wants, sexual needs and fantasies/fetishes.... is in fact, NOT a privilege at all. They have zero interest in being so wanted, so desired. According to women of Reddit, sex and intimacy and the feelings of being desired ONLY count as 'real' if you're in a long-term committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:01 PM
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and the reverse is fairly standard from women Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:34 PM
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Women, too, get equally flamed for having ridiculously high standards. They do? It's the exact opposite. The messages are "never settle", "you deserve the best", "if a man doesn't meet your requirements, that's his problem", etc, etc. Never criticizing the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:33 PM
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These are perfectly reasonable, and some blue-haired liberal does not jump out of your phone and start shrieking when you swipe left on a woman whose weight you can't bench. That really isn't the point vs. what's considered 'acceptable' and 'unacceptable' in the mainstream media. Watching movies, TV shows, reality shows, dating shows, dating apps, social media, commercials, etc. In these mainstream examples, there are many instances, over and over again, where you see men being mocked for being …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:31 PM
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when his own father literally abandoned him? In the vast majority of these instances, it's due to the mother's inability to be attracted to the type of good men/nice guys who would make good fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:15 PM
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I think what many feminists are guilty is thinking everything bad in life is due to gender and the patriarchy. Think of all the miserably things that happens to everyone in life - asshole boss, rude employee, bad service, unfairly passed over for a promotion, bullied at school, teacher who seems to hate you for no reason, doesn't get along with a few coworkers, etc, etc, etc. The list goes on forever. When these things happen to men, their solution is to tell men to stop complaining and deal wit…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:30 PM
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"you must be gay or something" This is the number one response when you turn a woman down.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:38 AM
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It’s a list of excuses from a very weak man with a toxic mindset trying to bring others down to his level, so he won’t feel as bad about himself. This. "cold approach" doesn't mean interrupting some poor stranger on a busy day vs. out somewhere like at a dog park and you're making pleasant conservation small talk naturally because your dogs are playing together and you're reading body language and take a chance by asking for a number. Just normal people acting normal. You haven’t done any of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:43 PM
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Would you be in favor of encouraging young women to avoid college as well for these same reasons?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/22 11:15 PM
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It's been this way for decades. Any statistic where women/girls are struggling in a society-wide problem that must be addressed by outreach across the entire mainstream. Any statistic where men/boys are struggling is due to the short comings of that individual who simply needs to do better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/22 03:15 PM
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Men leave their sick spouses at much, much higher rates than women do. When that gunman opened fire on that crowd of people in Las Vegas, it was only men who shielded their women from danger, right? It never happens the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:39 PM
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Not to mention that tiny, tiny % of men at the very top CEOs, senators, etc. already govern primarily for women anyway in terms of policies, laws, pro-discrimination bias, etc. The fact that these men share the same gender as the average Joe on the street has no direct and tangible benefit to other men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/22 05:09 PM
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Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:58 PM
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That's not the point. The point is you have the option available at your fingertips to very easily have all of your kinks and fetishes (no matter how unusual) played out in real life with only minimal effort and certainly no cost financially. Oh, and no creep shaming either. HUGE privilege for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:57 PM
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Correct. This applies only to the top 80-85% of women. The bottom 10-15% have a similar struggle as an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:46 PM
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It’s taken me a long time to find a man capable of fulfilling that Post a profile on Fetlife and you'll have hundreds of men (literally) begging you to life out your EXACT fantasies and, unlike your male counterparts, you won't be labeled a creep or a pervert. Good news, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:44 PM
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I haven't met a man who is okay with a 2 men with 1 woman threesome Again.... create a profile on Fetlife in detail explaining what you are looking for. Out of the 100-200 or so replies you'll get, a very large % will be attractive, fit, desirable, etc. You will be overwhelmed with so many options.... oh, and you won't be labeled a pervert either. Good news, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:43 PM
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Woman thinking all mens orgasms are equal This topic should be it's own thread. Women think the fact that you ejaculated means all of your sexual needs have been met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:20 PM
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Wrong. Out of your 100+ replies, I would be willing to bet you a ton of money that a very decent sized % will be men who are very fit, into weight lifting, attractive, younger men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:14 PM
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If they communicate clearly about sex and their needs, instead of hoping that a man will guess and understand. Think of how many women complain that a guy they were having sex with "couldn't find the clit" when the solution to this problem is she simply spends 30 seconds showing him exactly where and how she likes to be touched. 30 seconds and the problem is solved, yet women instead choose to say nothing and then complain the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:50 AM
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nothing prevented you from insisting that he satisfy you first That would require them to communicate, sorry mate... you're asking too much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:42 AM
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If men were better at sex, women would be having way more of it and giving it away instead of selling it. Men could be instantly better at sex if women would simply communicate. That's it. It's fascinating. Something so simple, yet so few do. So many women think a Real ManTM should automatically know exactly what buttons to push to turn her on and when he fails to read her mind, of course it's his fault things didn't go well. They are too embarrassed to speak up. Faster? Slower? More rough, more…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:39 AM
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why cant we just be normal and beautifully flawed humans? Because Hollywood faces the wrath of feminists if they do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:17 AM
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Just saw your other post. You hate how women are portrayed in the media? Interesting. The last 30 years or so, women in the media are almost always portrayed as the voice of reason, the smartest person in the room, always brave, always talented, never the dunce, never the buffoon idiot character, never character flaws, always positivity. Night and day different vs how men are portrayed. It's still not enough, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:05 PM
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Guys are fine when it’s men screwing people over. They only have a problem when it’s women screwing guys over. How did the wife get screwed over? She got a huge, huge, huge divorce settlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:47 AM
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Hypothetical situation.... Let's say a man is in a room with 100 age-appropriate women of a similar demographic. A man would look around and say, "I am easily attracted to 78 of these women" and "Of these 78, I would be very happy if I had a shot at any of them". If you reverse the genders a woman would say, "I'm only attracted to that tiny handful of the hottest guys over there in the corner" and "I would rather go home alone if it means having to settle for the other men". Fascinatingly, the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:26 PM
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the complaint from men isn’t that women do this, but that they deny this is happening /thread The complaint is for women to simply be honest and stop virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:43 PM
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The only way you can believe misandry isn't systemic The response then is to deflect with the "yeah, well, it's men who are in power and control everything" deflection. Apex fallacy and victim blaming all in one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/22 12:58 PM
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legal system, or the draft, or schooling, and you'll see men are systemically discriminated against. Exactly. The "systems" of government, education, media and corporate worlds all have a long, long list of policies that favor women and girls solely based on gender. I don't know how you can get any more "systemic" than that. Decade after decade. It never ends. "They're oppressed. We need to help them". By comparison, when you read the complaints of of today's feminists , it's very vague, ambiguo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/22 12:49 PM
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