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CMVjintana/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:48 PM
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Advice to women is how to stay safe. Advice to men is how to exploit women
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:17 PM
2

I’ve recently stopped smiling to be friendly because of an overwhelming belief that I am sexually attracted if I do so, or that I even want to be approached. If I make eye contact and smile, I am trying to be friendly, but not necessarily anything more.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:51 AM
1

Her dressing up for her is best case scenario
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:06 PM
3

Seducing this person is more like bidding on eBay for a toy, not trying to build sexual tension and chemistry
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:05 PM
2

Many of them are artists.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:03 PM
3

“Here’s this thing others want. I want it.” 😕
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:02 PM
1

This applies to anyone who is overly concerned with how they look.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:00 PM
259

Sounds like a case of toxic shock in several ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:15 AM
42

One in each nostril to deal with the nosebleed he’s not gonna stop having with those big thoughts taxing his brain so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:13 AM
117

Wait. Men complained about being at a disadvantage because women received a med box with blood sopping-up supplies? And men on this fucking site have issues with women getting, like, smidgens of blood on their sheets (and washing the sheets in a panic). We’ve established that men in general feel that women should be dolls sans bodily functions, and can’t handle anything resembling women having thoughts, dreams, feelings, or power. Men? I know it’s not literally all of you, but please speak up fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:11 AM
37

I can handle the jokes about genitals… I can’t handle the truly ingrained dogma (and subsequent repetitive validation) about women being lesser beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:45 PM
18

He’s my husband once removed, hence ex, hence baby daddy. He’s family for the kids’ sake. He would not be family if the kids did not have a stake in his well-being. I don’t labor for him anymore and I keep an emotional distance. All of my service is for the kids; any labor I do is in the kids’ interest. All that being said, I’m also a strong proponent of not needing to maintain a relationship with family just because they’re family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:01 AM
2

Gendered slur/insult aside, this is absolutely the truth about people who are model-hot, male or female. That’s why personality matters.
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:17 PM
73

I’m just trying to understand. In my area, if you discuss what you make, you use the gross. If you’re discussing paying or splitting the bills, then you discuss the net.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:10 AM
17

>expecting men to magically change Digressive... gee, men *can change* something. They ought to. /sick of hearing about how women can *chaaaaange* our weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:45 AM
54

You know one place women really learn helplessness? Family court. Yet another topic which deserves examination (and revolution).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:42 AM
48

That motherfucker could possibly be released in 2025?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:48 AM
19

Charity work… my big fat ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:07 PM
20

A true Vic’s Secret body can only go up to DD boobs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:06 PM
125

That’s totally a post by a woman describing how men treat women, but reverse-gendered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:51 PM
3

Regardless of whether you agree on the issue - if you can’t be yourself and own who you are, it won’t be a pleasant relationship for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:30 AM
9

Yes, on the waiting. Actually, I waited. Turns out he wasn’t attracted to me. Future-faked an entire relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:26 AM
1

Sir, this is r/seduction
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:35 PM
15

Wasn’t that recent AITA with the big brother and the tweens the WORST?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:53 PM
145

They can’t even handle that women have bodily functions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:07 PM
43

I just realized that when the cleaners I had with my ex sent men, I never saw the men working very hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:05 PM
18

So much recent marriage triggering. In my memory: a literal bed I had to clean in the middle of the night, and not being stuck by when I needed help with figurative shit. Fuck it. I love single life. So much less SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:03 PM
8

What about daughter(s)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:35 AM
51

I’m gonna go with anything tattooed on the penis, unless really artfully done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:32 AM
8

This makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:49 PM
6

EW. Just want to put out there that I have a male therapist and he would absolutely never say that shit to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:20 PM
20

I always envision this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:23 PM
4

Even silicone and padding aren’t without mass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:40 PM
71

I’m about 215 and my underwear is size 16. No way I want that partner, in any fashion. Plus, thankfully, I’m waaaay too old 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:37 PM
13

So ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:36 PM
10

Sounds like this could’ve been the best case scenario for the marriage I was in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:54 PM
1

All right, so stop fucking talking to normies when you don’t have to. You’re a weirdo? Pursue weirdos. You’ll have a better time dating someone weird like you; you need to be yourself to make genuine connections, and masking is fucking exhausting. She will feel likewise to have found a weirdo like her. You have your special talents and interests and shit you’ve done with your time. Fucking hasn’t been one of them but you’re now keenly aware of your interest. Ride it now. I’m sure you’ve seen “I’…
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:51 PM
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The conversation may have been great to you, but there’s a strong chance she was putting on her “customer service face” and really wanted to be left alone. Even if she was also a customer herself. Even if she participated in the conversation. It was less costly to her to participate than to rebuff, because she was afraid. You’d be making your day. Not hers.
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:43 PM
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They looked fine. Our country is strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:28 PM
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There’s obviously nothing respectable about those women, if they should actually exist! No wonder you hold that opinion. Bye bye, self-esteem crisis.
/r/seduction12/05/21 08:49 PM
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Go be a bee and seduce a woman. (Did you call me uneducated while using “ur” and mispunctuating? Laugh. Okay. Heathcliff, Heathcliff...)
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:51 PM
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You sound like you belong in a sub where men go their own way and don’t worry much about how to seduce women at all. I enjoyed the Heathcliff show as a child. I have the theme song in mind right now.
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:35 PM
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I mean, 100 times zero is zero... you could insert any number up to and including infinity there and still mathematically get the same result.
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:42 AM
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Right? If it be like that, then all jerks gotta do is be taller than 5’9” and make more than $30,000 per year. It do not be like that, jerk.
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:40 AM
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Which probably means “You should want my D more” in disgusting, entitled, patriarchal-ese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:58 PM
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That’s the reality of how society views mothers. Deadbeats even when doing far more than what’s required by a guy in the literal same role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:46 PM
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You’re not going to want to be sexy to randoms, right? You’re going to want to be sexy to someone who is sexy to you. And you are and will be - hair or no hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:57 PM
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Ew. I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:55 PM
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The good thing about being a woman is that these morons will still behave like trash and therefore the trash will take itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:54 PM
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I’m doing an experiment with this concept and my daughter. She’s 9, has a significant amount of body hair already, and is well into puberty. I let her see me shaving sometimes, and tell her what I’m doing, and that it’s optional. I also only do it occasionally. So far she has zero interest in altering her own body hair and I hope she keeps on keeping on. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:52 PM
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You sound pregnant what with how expectant you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:41 PM
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I absolutely don’t have to accept toxic behavior and boundary crossing as the norm or just suck it up. I don’t have an obligation to be a certain weight to earn my worth in the world. My worth is constant. Pretty and slender aren’t the rent I pay to exist. A lot of assumptions have been made by different people in this post about my motivations to gain weight, rather than my observations at different weights. Have fun with your fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:14 PM
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LOL, people go on there to learn how to avoid people who speak like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:13 PM
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“I respect women but women have only contempt for men.” “Take that bitch to the pool...”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:11 PM
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Where contempt is defined as “no, I do not want you to stick it in me, thanks!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:10 PM
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Someone with more value than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:08 PM
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I think your head is in a turtle shell if you’re unaware of the daily hassles women are put through by men if men find them sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:02 PM
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Imagine if those were the steps I had to take to escape patriarchal/male entitlement, because I find it too traumatizing and/or distasteful. It seems like you kind of get the magnitude of what I’m trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:26 PM
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It’s really the very last point that causes it. If women won’t accept any man who comes a’ wooing, there will be butts a’ hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:44 PM
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You’re aware that men have a bigger conniption over the height thing than women, right? Some women are strict about height, but the real ask is usually “taller than me.” The whole 6’ thing is in response to the bullshit about weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:43 PM
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No lie: being overweight is when I get a break from thirsty men trying to conquer my pants for a 4-session relationship. It weeds out insincere arseholes. If you want to fuck with me while I’m overweight, you’re already my friend and not as likely to ghost. It’s my vetting system and my chance to avoid being the target of so much of society’s misogyny. So... there is glory for me in not being part of these “standards” - it’s sort of like being freed from a daily chore of wading through shit (i.e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:39 PM
5

Cue Peter Griffin wearing a shirt that says “No Fat Chicks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:37 PM
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Supermodels shouldn’t be treated like supermodels. It’s disingenuous and fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:36 PM
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You are correct. It’s men, or the patriarchy, or the fucking red pill trying to control the power that women have by trying to label their value based on, well, porn standards, without labeling their own that way. Fat women (and men) and single moms (and dads) are just fine. Women (and men) are people. People have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:34 PM
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Lololololol you literally can’t. You literally cannot. I can’t begin to describe the scene this comment brought back to my memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:48 AM
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It’s a form of violence to demand access to sex, especially when done insincerely. Take that, double standards and stereotypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:49 PM
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Emotional/mental/physical labor diggers, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:13 AM
1

Due to the fact that the men they date choose to be dishonest, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:04 PM
1

“Along with enter a relationship” is disingenuous. That simply means fuck her until she becomes attached. You’re excluding many women in your “but women can have their privates touched, so why can’t I?” rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:02 PM
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You don’t have to love him, though. And his interest in you is likely interest in being validated by you rather than genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:59 AM
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How to repel any sort of men? Isn’t it either “be fat” or “desire a serious relationship?” I’d think a really clingy act might do the trick. Then said men wouldn’t feel the woman was “up” and lose interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:56 AM
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Not every person is eligible if chosen, regardless of who they are. Brad Pitt isn’t every woman’s dream. Beyoncé has been cheated on. Everyone gets rejected. How would I know if a man was kind if he was angry at me for rejecting him while I didn’t know him? Honestly, that doesn’t sound all that kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:48 PM
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Kindly. Not nicely but kindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:04 PM
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I will disagree with what I choose; “don’t you dare disagree” is crap. Your post is funny. So if we go with the “men can be more violent” angle, which seems to be a potential argument of your response, we can get that men can be victims, too, and domestic violence isn’t just a women’s issue. Here we have blame upon the women for “doing the stupid shit” of taking beatings and being cheated on. Or we can go with men choosing to consume excess alcohol and make stupid choices, and get that alcoholis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:18 PM
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Sometimes breakups happen (dun dun dun) when the kids are older. Sometimes they happen (dun dun dun) for other reasons. “Nice” CAN correlate with “kind,” but “nice” is very often a code of behavior which conceals a core of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:05 PM
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That’s not what sexually direct necessarily means. Try getting a woman and then making your attraction to her clear, and then initiating and having good sex with her frequently. Learn how her body works. Take the time to make her come, and do that at least 50% of the time before you come. If you come in 3 strokes, take the time to learn desensitization. Lay off the porn and have a real relationship with a woman. Be reciprocal. Teach her how you like her to initiate sex with you without that turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:55 PM
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Literally what? Guys always forget that women are just as fucking stupid as they are. (True.) In a different way (False.) Domestic violence fetishist shit regarding women (WTF!?)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:51 PM
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Enjoy the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:50 PM
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What is a flactuation? Do you mean fluctuation? Like the thing women are accused of suffering to excess? That’s what we “want” in men? No, we don’t want boring or “nice” guys. “Nice” isn’t equal to “kind.” “Nice” has an ulterior motive. “Nice” reveals its true crazy once he “gets the girl.” “Kind” wants an honest relationship. “Chad” wants a good lay. Yes, sexually direct is infinitely better than sexually inept, which is usually what we get with “nice.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:44 PM
2

Poor guy sounds like such a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:29 PM
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I agree. In hindsight, I believe that's what gave me insight into my present situation in advance, without giving any further details on a public forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:07 AM
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"Hit the wall" is another way of saying "can see through my bullshit and is no longer tolerating it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:04 AM
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“I meant I get to be open - you need to remain monogamous!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:47 AM
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Regardless of either of their income levels, for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:46 AM
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Your projection is showing. So’s your misogyny. Go your own way. I’m sure that women will be happy to take all of these opportunities with people other than yourself. Win/win situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:09 AM
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You are chasing your tail. Go back and read if you want to continue this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:05 AM
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Attachment at a very early stage of a relationship is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:13 PM
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Except that this perception is based in sexism, religious expectation, and a hefty dose of good old projection. Women are able to get laid more, so we should judge women more harshly? Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:12 PM
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None of those possibilities sound good for men's character, either. ​ isn't good unless y'all have been friends for a while first. ​ Otherwise, this double standard and its perpetuation can shove it. Either everyone stays chaste or everyone may feel free to be knee deep in genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:58 AM
5

Red pill, incel, MGTOW, etc. misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:55 AM
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A)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:07 PM
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Peter Griffin, Doug Heffernan, so forth. It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:11 AM
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Then stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:42 PM
0

Incels could just fuck each other and solve all the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:41 PM
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Because you’d like us to lower our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:37 PM
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By men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:33 PM
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Maybe men should offer more or better instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:33 PM
1

F - being pregnant and giving birth. Breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:26 AM
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Did you read the whole sentence that you quoted from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 07:42 PM
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Voting Trump is how your username became reality. I’m with your mum on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:21 PM
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People are obligated to form relationships with people if they desire to relate to and with people. But those should be reciprocal relationships. Men and women should both stop when there’s an expressed lack of desire to continue relating or relate in a particular manner. For crying out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:17 PM
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Wouldn’t one made of gold feel fairly uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:14 PM
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The woman who wrote that article is expressing dismay that men aren’t behaving like rapists anymore. She’s an asshole. End of story. And for everyone who’s insistent that men must approach... how does that explain lesbian relationships? How do they ever decide to get together?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 05:09 PM
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We don’t want to be caught by predators; we want to make friends with sexy fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:31 AM
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“Young, exceptionally skinny, artificially superficially attractive women whom I’ve decided I want to fuck without considering much of anything else about whom they are...” Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:06 PM
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There are men who talk shit about fat women on a regular basis. There are fat men who do that. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:04 PM
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I wish that men who were like this would just wear labels so that we could avoid them and let them go their own way... like they want to. Be open and honest with it. You don’t want to change your beliefs. And for a man out there who isn’t like this... many of us enjoy sex. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:03 PM
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Nice fantasy. A) Typical men don’t want to be around typical women 24/7. That’s only the case while the woman isn’t affirming the man’s desire to get into her pants. Once the woman gives in, the man quickly loses interest. B) Because the man lost interest after a strong pursuit, the woman quickly wises up to that tactic and becomes repulsed by men who behave in that manner. “Orbiters” become repulsive. That’s what the “friend zone” entails. True friends, i.e. men who actually value a woman’s fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:28 PM
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The ones who aren’t capable of empathy aren’t capable of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:13 AM
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Suspend your belief in the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:26 PM
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“Let me personally attempt to insult the person making a complaint, because I really, really wish a particular shitty paradigm could be true, and I could pick any woman I want while any flaws in my own appearance and character could be ignored.. but that doesn’t work, sadly, and women have personal agency, to my chagrin.” - you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:23 PM
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Apparently only men are allowed, because women are objects which only exist to please men. Le sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:08 AM
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Feminism is about social equality. It is impossible to have magical social equality after making the conscious choice to forgo a career to support children at home, thereby boosting the other partner’s career far beyond what it would have been without the career-sacrificing partner’s action. A wage-equivalent job does not just happen in a year after a divorce. Do you want to hire someone with a long gap in their employment history? And people absolutely are thrown out on the streets due to this …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:25 PM
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Most of what red pillers are bitching about is their own behavior. If that’s a bubble, I’m happy to live in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:10 PM
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No one owes anyone anything, but it’s still a rude, irresponsible, cowardly, and shitty way to break up or cease contact, which is best used for last resort situations, not conflict avoidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:50 AM
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Squeak skitter skitter skitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:10 PM
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The hamsters are strong within this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 05:47 PM
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So, it’s women who are “hypergamous” and “ride carousels,” eh...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:23 AM
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5 minute flop? Too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:18 PM
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Chimera like the two-faced kitty, or the woman whose kids “weren’t biologically hers” because she had 2 sets of DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:03 PM
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I’ve heard the saying “women are crazy because men are stupid” somewhere before. While sexist as fuck, I’d say it delineates the RP hypothesis about mental illness in women succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:53 AM
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Li’l bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:50 AM
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Virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:14 PM
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I prefer the “thing” in me, not the men..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:14 PM
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So you’re trans. We support you starting estrogen. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:02 AM
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My bad for assuming rather than cross referencing. Terping -> The Red Pilling -> TRPing. I stand by my assertions otherwise, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 07:58 PM
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In reality, fat women are women and should make friends with whom they are mutually attracted who are male (or female, or other) just like any other woman. This person is Terping hard, and has some shit logic, and probably believes that he’s entitled to someone who fits his own criteria. And we all know what those criteria are. He’s literally arguing that men should be permitted to rape women. And anyone who thinks men should be permitted to rape women should be cool with it going both ways. Oh …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 07:38 PM
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By your logic, a fat lady may also be forward with any man she desires, as her “undesirability” is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 06:43 PM
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Well, person who makes the sociopath’s argument, she may change her mind about wanting to fuck you if she feels valued and cared for by you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 05:20 AM
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Well, sociopath, she may change her mind about wanting to fuck you if she feels valued and cared for by you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 05:20 AM
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The problem with your paradigm is that men like this want sexual validation, not to deliver. It’s a narcissistic fantasy. Show women men who are actually good at it, and not salty that women partake, and I’ll bet more women are game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:55 PM
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A lot of men assume that women lie about everything and treat us with that kind of disregard/disrespect. Does it make you feel happy if women lie to get into your wallet? Should that kind of bad behavior be normalized or accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:26 PM
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2) That’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:25 PM
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I want to fuck a man who wants to fuck me... I don’t want to fuck a man who is just desperate to fuck and doesn’t much care who he is fucking. I value men enough to care about the individual even if it’s not going to work out on a romantic or sexual level; hence “let’s be friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:24 PM
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Men are people. Move on romantically; be a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:21 PM
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Occasionally for energy/social reasons. Not for market reasons. Have never met anyone from one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:13 PM
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No. Male sexual attention from strangers is not pleasant. Even if they’re hot. And I feel creepy as hell flirting with someone I’ve just met. I don’t need casual sexual interest to validate my self worth, and intimacy requires trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:03 PM
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Women should look for a 5 but men should look for a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:56 AM
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Hygiene is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:53 AM
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That’s how we get incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:42 PM
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Except that like 45 of the 50 get pissed off that you’ve tried any of the others, and you need to try them all to find the keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:19 PM
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Is it possible to be white and disabled, or are those mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:55 AM
2

Having a lot of options for unfulfilling sex is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:52 AM
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Ain’t no one stopping your dumb ass from wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:38 AM
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Some regions of the USA - take Long Island, NY, for instance - have a shitton of guys who are 5’6” and shorter. Italians.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:01 AM
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I’d reject a 6’5” guy for height alone way before rejecting a 5’6” guy for height alone. But I wouldn’t reject either for height alone. I’d reject both if they expected sex before I was feeling chemistry. You know.. the creepy RP routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:59 AM
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Something between the men’s aggressiveness and the women’s sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:13 AM
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Cocky swagger. Pun most certainly intended by original writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 07:21 PM
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Compensation. Kind of like fancy sports cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 07:20 PM
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Joke's on them. Spectrum proud and loving my trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 03:49 AM
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Oh my god, you utter fistfuls of assholes up the ass of the patriarchy but unwilling to just go buy your own sex dolls.. Some of us like SMART people. Some of them like PRETTY people. And so forth. Some people get by without being pretty. If you aren't one, be less shitty. Or be more pretty. But maybe both? But what woman wants to fuck a man who whines about this shit? Literally who finds this kind of talk a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 03:41 AM
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Mmhm. Woman doesn't want to be glorified sex doll; wants sex; wants to choose partner. Therefore, woman is crazy and has body image problems. Thank fuck I'm not attracted to "men" like you. Ewwwwwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:30 PM
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While I'm fucking someone, it does indeed need to be about me. At least half! So NOT sorry, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 09:20 AM
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Or maybe it's a way for we women who don't experience primary sexual attraction to find company we prefer on our own terms. Asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 09:13 AM
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Cheers, friend. I had a huge "boys are stupid" moment today, so I can relate. My attempts to clear a miscommunication were unappreciated because these attempts caused a Pavlovian response. FML.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 09:01 AM
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You assume I intended to take responsibility for that. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:13 AM
1

Everyone has opinions. And everyone can make their fate. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 03:10 AM
1

Hand flapping is for happiness and overstimulated excitement in most cases. Sort of like how you feel on a roller coaster, but it doesn't have to be nearly THAT exciting - it can be as mundane as the way leaves look with the sunlight against the blue sky while the wind is blowing. So I'd be bouncy and hyper around awesome people with cool energy, but usually not flat out flapping. I'm convinced that many people who can "sense energy" very sensitively to the point of telepathy are on the spectrum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:12 AM
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Interpersonal skill is a skill, and thus learnable. :) The rest of management is strategy and accounting. Very easy skills for autistic folks. Fear of rejection is the biggest self growth killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:32 AM
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Pfft. Before we had pattern matching on traits sufficient to generalize diagnosis, we of the spectrum were most certainly working grocery checkstands and fast food joints for a total of 8 years. And managing them, much to my foolish chagrin. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 11:36 PM
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I'm not a psychotherapist. I'm more of a behavioral therapist. And who says we can't become psychotherapists? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:44 PM
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Who knows? But I posit this statement, which is something I developed as a therapist. You can decide for yourself otherwise. "Develop solid self esteem. Discover yourself as an individual. Learn your personality and your traits and social boundaries and quirks. Do not use whether another person accepts you or is attracted to you to measure your positive feeling about yourself. Figure out your opinions and speak them, even if they earn you insults and disagreement; you can disagree with insults a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:31 PM
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Your post reads like a dystopian novel. I'm so sorry that your experience has affected you such. Most natural deviation from gender norms is simply a wish to not be pigeonholed. (For example, it's ok for men to be strong or weak. Or women to be pretty or ugly.) Some people feel much more strongly and cross the line straight into the other sex or gender or whatever the fuck you'd like to label that as. But most people remain "cisgendered" and would merely like to define who they are, not who they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:09 AM
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You're crazy in a much better way, gratefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:21 PM
2

Giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:20 PM
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Cuckoldry is originally with consent. There's nothing wrong with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:20 PM
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No human is owned by another. Therefore, the title is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:19 PM
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Cheating is lying and betraying. That is bad. Sexual intimacy with another during a concurrent relationship is fine as long as it's open and accepted by all involved parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:18 PM
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Tickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:17 PM
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Major props for this intelligent and sane response.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 12:52 AM
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The more you learn. (With that animated star graphic)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 09:10 PM
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Actually, are you aware that control is violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:53 PM
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Gladly. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:19 PM
1

Less fun than your meat!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 07:54 PM
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You're welcome to your opinion, and I'm welcome to not change my behavior because you feel uncomfortable. Love and kisses, assmunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 07:10 PM
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Not changing my behavior for you. Love!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 07:09 PM
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Men fantasize about obtaining sex, but men in reality can choose as much as they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 03:50 AM
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They should.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 02:53 AM
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Arrrrrrrr Ayyyyyy Peeeeee Eeeeeeee What's that spell?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 02:40 AM
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Society is comprised of people. People are comprised of.... Quick, women and blank. (Some of us liberals will also give credit for "other" or "neutral" or the like.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 02:38 AM
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"Can be" and "potentially" are so motherfucking gentle, too. Because this dynamic ruins every goddamned marriage it exists in. Not to mention psyche of each individual man. And hope of each individual person who is attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:19 AM
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It's harmful and actually VIOLENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:17 AM
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Are you reading to understand or just to reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:17 AM
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Many men believe that men are always ready for sex and that they desire it with any partner who possesses a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:16 AM
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Applause!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:15 AM
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It is R A P E T Y M C R A P E, as well as rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:14 AM
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Toxic masculinity is how a man may wake up at a party, hard, being ridden (raped!) by a woman not of his choosing or consent, and expected by others to tolerate and enjoy the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 07:57 AM
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TRP is entirely "how to make sure your woman is submissive." It does work. And it destroys the woman, or ensures she bitterly chooses to spew vitriol. It also destroys the man, because he has to work so hard and he's still so unhappy. Choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 05:42 PM
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I never found any value in keeping female friends because they simply can't or won't offer me the same level a friendship another man offers. There is too much of a difference in perspective for there to be any meaningful friendship. Do men offer better blowjobs, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:04 AM
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So if women sit down and shut up. Got it. Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 11:30 PM
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All people should vet the people they allow into their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 08:36 PM
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Won't there be a say when women can just be women, and not have to be structurally defined by what the fuck men think of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 08:36 PM
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I owe you nothing. I'm shaped like something you desire. Negotiate, fucker. You post in this place because you feel lonely, deprived of attention from beautifully shaped "sex objects." I behave as I do realistically so I receive compassion as a person. Similar principles apply. Men like yourselves think you're entitled to free attention from women without investment and that women don't deserve attention themselves! It's magical! shakes head in pity Solipsists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 04:41 AM
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I'll be happy to get back on if a single Terper converses with me rather than pukes. My child was sick recently, and I held a vomit bag for him. That is THE extent of my holding vomit bags for men, aside from my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:28 PM
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Ew. Me: Your job is to not call them names. You: This reinforces that we MUST date them, and this is unacceptable. Noooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 11:25 PM
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Thanks for taking offense and using acronyms to invalidate yourself. I literally can't hand you offense. Close your hands. Examine your own awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:55 PM
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"I take offense. The women I'm attracted to treat me that way." Bitch... own yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:55 PM
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Wow. You really live in an alternative dimension where you don't acknowledge that women have identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:19 PM
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"Fat acceptance" actually means "don't fucking be CRUEL on a daily basis to people because they happen to be fat." For fuck's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:17 PM
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I have the right to insist that a man not prefer me if my preference isn't him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:17 PM
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Have you ever considered supporting yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:16 PM
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Women have our own problems and our own victim puking issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:15 PM
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You need to accept yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:14 PM
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AFK taking a shower, covered in puke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:13 PM
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Nope. If I told you to learn how to shit better, you'd know it was your responsibility to find a doctor and expand upon it, not to blame me. Consider the same now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:12 PM
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Educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:15 PM
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I hope you consider for your own health whether that's wise. See also: don't refuse to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:15 PM
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Shitting only helps while you're on the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:14 PM
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So does the shit I give. As I'm married with kids, I'm not trying to date. But thanks for the heads up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:14 PM
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"For being young masculine testosterone filled young men" is filled with weasel words. Minimizing, denying, and blaming for stereotypical male objectification of women. Males, females, and persons who identify as neither are balanced people who have masculine and feminine traits. Do not use the word "feminism," a word that describes women's fight to own *rather than be *owned as property, to victim puke about failing to take accountability for knowing your own emotions and owning your own choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:34 AM
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Confusion about feeling empathy vs. being "required" to act a macho role to be accepted. The dichotomy of worlds. The falsity. The availability of firearms. The prevalence of violence. The general societal rejection of drug use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:05 AM
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I won't fuck a man who does not cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:03 AM
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Feminists want people to be healthy and to choose among masculine and feminine traits. It's ok to be violent and aggressive. But not within society. Only during scheduled fighting matches or other approved activities. And so forth. It's mandatory for all people to be aware of and in touch with their emotions. Aside from anger, which is a secondary emotion. Crying is a bodily process for purging emotion. It's as important as shitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 04:02 AM
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This is an utter victim puke. All people are a balance between masculine and feminine traits, and toxic masculinity or femininity is an expectation that a person conform to solely masculine or feminine ideals because of the presence of a penis or vagina. Did you know that men being taught not to CRY is emotionally akin to being taught not to SHIT? Learn how to cry. Stop being constipated. Your parents and society fucked up hard. Undo it. Shut up about being victimized. Unite. Feminism is called …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 03:56 AM
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I agree. This is a television/movie trope that is believed literally by TRP, internalized, and released upon real people with the bitterness of a thousand beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:01 AM
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That's called a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 06:01 PM
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I met my husband online. We moved closer together in real life and had very real children together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 05:14 PM
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"Women" don't have many shared interests with each other, either. But I'll bet you have plenty of shared interests with a woman who is either geographically near or cybernetically near.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 04:39 PM
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This is what happens when you don't see women (or men, if you were a woman speaking of men) as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 07:47 AM
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It's ok if men consume it, as long as men can remember that women are people. Women can remember that women are people, and don't require a restriction on viewing other women. If women consume some sort of rampant fantasy that makes them expect all men to be millionaire providers and then become abusive when they fail, thus objectifying them, perhaps men could see the parallel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 04:20 AM
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Zero. Feminism is about glorious choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 04:45 PM
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It definitely depends on expectations and beliefs about women, men, relationships, and sex involved, in addition to variables about the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 09:07 PM
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I came in wondering why and with a friendly comment. I can plainly that you earn your treatment via your behavior and that you're no victim. So, what did you interrupt the women doing? To address your original question, the answer is: N o. It's also no. Negative. Nah. Nope. Nyet. Not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 09:25 AM
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They sucked for the dirty looks but didn't owe you a hello, and it "being about your looks" is what's in your head, and not anyone else's responsibility. I'm sure you didn't need me to explain that, either. :) But you're going to get a lot of unwanted advice when you put out a post trying to validate your own projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 08:12 AM
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Your responses here? They're emotionally the same as a woman who has been raped by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:55 AM
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"I don't even like you. Why didn't you validate me? Fuck you, too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:54 AM
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FYI: civility is basic human decency. Neither friendship and sex count as "basic human decency."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:54 AM
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Do not become a contestant to win all women. There isn't a contest. It will fuel your bitterness if you feel you're instantly rejected; the truth is that the contest doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:52 AM
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It would be nice not to dislike women... What do you dislike about women? Find that, and find women with different values in those traits to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:51 AM
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The incel community is not logical. It suffers delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:50 AM
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If you treat all women with hostility, they'll treat you likewise. Then your complaint is simply circular. True, but circular. It's your own doing and receiving. I am an unfamiliar woman to you. If you began an interaction with me cruelly, I would become familiar and negative. Currently, I am neutral. Your choices can affect this or not. You must give off the energy you'd like to receive. The world cannot perceive that you need nurturing when you exude pain; it just receives pain. I wish you hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:49 AM
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1: agree 2: agree 3: agree 4: agree but we should examine tribalistic assignments 5: agree but history class needs to do better at teaching about it in high school 6: agree as long as it's done with moderation and bridging 7: agree but forcing the issue can only be done so much; not forcing assimilation by other cultures is mandatory 8: unsure if natural or cultural 9: agree but everyone read it carefully Tone: sounds calm and thoughtful to me. Doesn't evoke anything emotional to me any more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:41 PM
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I identify as demisexual - only having sexual attraction to people I also have a bond with. I've wondered if it's related to being on the spectrum for a long time, but I've recently begun wondering whether it's also learned behavior on my part due to the expectation of the role of women. (I was aware of it with my best guy friend at age 8, though, so I think I'm just attracted to guys I trust.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 02:27 AM
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What the fuck? Deserve? I'm a person, not a prize. I want to be with my best friend. I want that person to be someone who loves me as much as I love him. I only want to fuck that person, and because we enjoy fucking each other. I don't want to pay anyone for attention in sex or sexual exclusivity. I don't want to be part of a sexual market or sought out for my appearance. I'd much rather strange men leave me the hell alone, as I'm fucking autistic and I'm not interested in the sort of relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:00 AM
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Have you behaved with charisma?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:37 PM
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I haven't seen a lot of it in real life, just a lot of bitter (that's why, btw) men who complain that they're perpetually single because they're not winning women as prizes. (Bad thinking, as well, but that's another post.) But why would a woman go back to an asshole character? High charisma. High attractiveness. Same reasons men go back to asshole characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 05:36 PM
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The irony is that it actually was not an insult! Because men are allowed to be weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 03:10 AM
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And only the first one is relevant in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:31 AM
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Without women to codependently physically lead you to embalm their own bodies, you'd have "sexbots" for three days. Then you'd have maggot filled corpses, lots of dead men, and no more humanity. If we killed all men, new ones would be born to currently pregnant women and society would be reestablished in the next few generations. We would train this bullshit misogyny the fuck out and fix shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:29 AM
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My guess, based on this thread, is that the men who aren't being shown how to do this by a woman at the time, can't figure out how to register and vote because it's all women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:26 AM
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Men want more power! Men make choices. Since men like fucking, it's allllll women's fault. See?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:25 AM
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Men are allowed to be weak. Example...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:24 AM
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Thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:23 AM
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Curation isn't objectivity, but cool for analyzing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 05:03 AM
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OH, so the female equivalent of TRPers. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 08:15 AM
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That is indeed how to. The entire point of alimony is to provide for someone who's made dependent to come be someone else's spouse in their household, and then suddenly relieved of that household.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:38 AM
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The PUA part is based in animal behavioral science, so it's possible to get more sex using dread and all of that bullshit. The rest of it is a bunch of alt righters, mild incels, douche bros and wannabes trying to use this idea to validate some extremely sketchy misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:35 AM
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If both are drunk, neither is the rapist, and both were violated. The same way as if two 11 year olds fucked. (This is going to be my last response on this. You're being deliberately obtuse.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 01:49 AM
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They're in the same position and condition to consent as two children or two very developmentally disabled adults are if they're both drunk. Which is not able. But since they're actually both adults who put drinks in their bodies, they're the only ones who can do things differently. Alcohol can't. Their parents can't. I can't. You can't if you're not one of them. Society can't past the promotion of different norms and beliefs. The law can't unless people choose to follow it. (Maybe I'm not addre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 11:46 PM
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Are you telling me that alcohol overrides people's beliefs? And that the article you linked is proof? There's the sea; get in. If two people are that drunk, they're being quite irresponsible and vulnerable being in public, but they're aware of that. It doesn't mean either asked for or deserved to be raped. Rapists rape. Vulnerable people are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:22 PM
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People deciding that they will have sex is the biggest factor in date rapes. In other words, raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:07 PM
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People should both dress as they wish and take responsibility for their own arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:05 PM
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Yes, women most certainly have been taught to be entitled to sex whenever we want. We have been taught that men always want sex, are entitled to have it whenever they want, and that men not wanting sex from us at any time that we want it signifies a failure in our attractiveness or value. However! This is a fallacy, a set of false expectations, and adherence to it is a surefire way to premeditate being disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:57 PM
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Leagues.. eh, I'm in a pretty "low" one myself, which would be the reasonably non-deformed and somewhat attractive, able to pass/blend, geeky/nerdy HFA/Aspergers folks. Settling has involved dating men who were not able to pass/blend/behave as an adult, were low in intelligence, had physical traits well apart from the norm (such as a weight near 500 lbs), or were abusive or incompatible. Other than the appearance stuff, it's a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:27 PM
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If by can't get hot dudes you mean don't want douchebros?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:29 AM
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I assume they're not even buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:27 AM
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None of them are "my type" in the least, but since I'm demisexual, given the circumstances (including if I were not married), I'm equally likely to fuck any of them or none of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:27 AM
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On the topic of Asperger's, I'm heterosexual and very androgynous, and so is my husband. I'm already positive for reasons that we're both on the spectrum. I'd be very curious about a study attempting to correlate or establish causation between autism and rejection of the assigned gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:14 AM
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rAmen, madam or sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:06 AM
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It never bothered me. Thinner than me did, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:05 AM
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Responding to mainstream media/sitcoms/tv, because that's what interests me. That is sold to us as entertainment, and we buy it. We may consume and enjoy it, but using it to justify "how it is" is parallel to blaming commercials and grocery stores for our obesity epidemic. We know we are watching trash, and we should think critically about why it is trash while we stuff it into our faces for entertainment - kind of like that pack of donuts. Part of me wants to debate your perspective of feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:26 AM
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I'm a BP woman who notices that being a woman carries inherent social privilege, but also: A: inherent social marginalization B: the pedestal, which isn't by any means real superiority C: some radicals, as quoted in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:20 AM
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Attraction is weak and unstable. It's powerfully motivating, yes. But it's a poor factor for selecting a lifetime mate. It's mutual attachment you'd want to pursue for a lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 12:59 AM
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What u/hyperrreal said. And don't fuck women whom wouldn't make loyal friends. Also, don't shame women for being very sexual if you are trying to get women to be more sexual with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 12:30 AM
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Well, this guy can see his fantasies in women's eyes.. I can see it in their eyes. "Why didn't you move here sooner? That way I could have tried my luck with you, instead of being committed to my current husband/fiance" "If only I had waited a little longer and held out and been a bit more patient... "I wonder what it would be like had I decided to go with you instead of him" Otherwise, he (and everyone else) is describing the shit with the honeymoon phase wearing off, which happens to men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:09 AM
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Cats. My argument is.. cats. They'll take what they can get as long as he can get a boner looking at her. Ok. Here's the solution. Masturbate before work/school. Masturbate after work/school. Masturbate whenever you feel the need and you're located appropriately. Then behave accordingly. Please check your hair for unauthorized "hair gel." =^..^= meow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:50 PM
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That's those women's problem to deal with. They keep seeking validation, so they look for hotter men. As they will. They get to take responsibility for their fantasies, and not blame men for that being a problem for them. Thus, they're not available. Unfortunately, that's your (general) problem. If you insist on holding out for validation from these hotter, unavailable women, you have to take responsibility for those fantasies and not blame women for that being a problem for you. If one wishes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:24 AM
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I agree that men should never give women power to control them via sex. (Replace "men" and "women" with each other at will in that sentence.) And I guess women just can't - or find it incredibly difficult to - relate to scarce mentality and being undesirable You may not hold the belief that many women can empathize with feeling undesirable because many men also feel undesirable, but that's a shitty argument. Many women can't get the guy they choose. Many women feel like there are no guys they'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:12 AM
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Ah.. as rare as a 10/10 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:01 AM
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Security for the kids. I can definitively tell them that there is a legal binding between their mother and father. Prior to that, just the legal privileges. We lived together as if married and had already owned a house together with both our names on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:13 PM
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BP woman here - my heart has been broken, and I have broken hearts. Rejection sucks, but it sucks a lot less than a lifetime with a shitty partner. Relationships come with no guarantee of success, and part of my philosophy is to always be learning/self-improving. TRP is a victim-mindset echo chamber aimed at turning dating into a sports game using teams of men vs. women, and winning via exploitation, subjugation, and trickery. Healthy relationships are two people vs. the world's problems. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:05 AM
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SHITCODE RELATIONSHITS If Heterosexual { While (adultWoman) & ! (childGirl) { Require (adultMan) & ! (childBoy); } adultMan = hasMoneyToSurvive; adultWoman = hasMoneyToSurvive; } /* Human mating stereotyping: 1) Humans of similar social classes (e.g. middle class) tend to ultimately mate together. 2) Humans of similar attractiveness levels (TRP calls it SMV) tend to ultimately mate together. 3) Males are more likely to mate downward in social class than females, and vice versa is true (males for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 06:08 PM
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I'm both, bitches. * sashays showily * According to society, I've received more Social Opinion Credit for my intelligence than my beauty. I prefer it that way. I can fake beauty with fun paints and powders and stuff! You can't do much to put on an intelligence cap or drink an INT Potion in real life. I selected all of my mates for intelligence first and beauty second.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 01:34 AM
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With a preference, I may list it on my "pros" or "cons" list if I have to make a logical decision whether to proceed with a relationship. With a requirement, if not met, I will turn down the opportunity to have a relationship in the first place. (I never did the casual sex thing. Either I'm demisexual or I internalized Catholic Guilt well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:21 PM
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I'm married, and I don't plan on dating like, ever. Even if I'm single again in the future. Anyway... My height requirement is: *not insecure about it. * THIS IS MANDATORY. You just don't get a choice in your height. Some heights are great and some just suck. You have to make the best of the body you have. One day, height reassignment surgery may be a Thing. For now, we just have our beliefs to work with. Now, the petty "preference" stuff. My height preference is: taller than me (I am 5'2") What…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:52 PM
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Maybe. If so, it's about relative sexual dissatisfaction, not absolute. People who have to win (subjugate others) as opposed to get along (be socially equal) are likely to be dissatisfied when they're not winning and take inappropriate action.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 07:58 PM
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It reminds me of how we all feel a little freer when being taken care of; when the people around us "got this" and we don't have to do the planning, decision making, supervising, so forth. I see it with men and women who play roles where they're required to lead, e.g. parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:50 PM
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There have been times I liked or even loved a man, but I didn't want the responsibility and commitment that a romantic relationship entails, so either I opted out (happiness) or I wished I had opted out (I'd eventually wake up one day miserable).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:45 PM
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Agreed. I don't want alpha animals feeding their dicks and pissing everywhere (literally or figuratively) around. Additionally, wanting to explore different roles with regard to power in bed is not the same as wanting to dominate or submit socially in all circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:44 PM
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What are the implications of behaving like animals? There'd be shit everywhere. There'd be bodies everywhere. There'd be trash everywhere. There'd be no such thing as a workforce. A barter economy may exist if enough people could cooperate. The class system would reorganize. Our possessions would reschedule in value. Our diets would change. Traditional courting would disappear. Social skills would increase drastically in value. Modern weapons would mean that a "men strong, women walking vaginas"…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 09:40 PM
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We honestly have to examine societies untainted by religion and socially enforced repression of and/or hyperfocus on sexuality to know what we'd naturally do as animals. Also, men and women exist along a sexual spectrum or two sexual spectrums, however you choose to see it. Sexuality is fluid. At different times in their lives, different people want to fuck different types of people, at differing frequencies. We can't speak for men or women (or people who identify as neither) without alienating …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 05:31 PM
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Defending someone who is being victimized is just plain right. It should be done because we are human, and not because we feel that someone is peeing on "our property." True Alphas invade the pack, kill all of the men and children, and take the harem of women as their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:33 PM
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..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 03:33 PM
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You're stuck in untrue beliefs and you kind of don't deserve a partner until you trust that she will love you as you are, not be a walking stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:23 PM
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The validating of "men are people and women are here to please men" in this thread makes me hope another planet opens up for occupation soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:09 PM
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I'm not going to address most of your swishy validation, but: A women lying about being a virgin to get a one night stand is similar to a guy lying to get a one night stand. Who in the fuck tells people they're virgins in order to score a one night stand??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:08 PM
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1) an increase in sexual partners and satisfaction Unilaterally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:03 PM
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Do you want fish to know you're a fisherman? TRP: women are prey TBP: women are people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:01 PM
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Pal, your projection is showing and overflowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:59 PM
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Explain. What does that have to do with picking a girl for an one night stands? What does bitterness have to do with it, and why would bitterness prevent it from happening? Do YOU want to fuck a pissed off, wanna-be sex object whose whole schtick is how rejected they feel? More so: would you want a relationship with that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:58 PM
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You are under pressure from yourself to conform. If you're into women who don't like who you are, you need to reevaluate your criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:56 PM
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Heres what the bloops will say: lifting good, confidence good, dread game bad, less sharing of all feelings bad, cold approaching semi-bad, amused mastery/agree and amplify/maintaining frame/general PUA strategies bad+"easily detected" by the flawless sleuths here at PPD. Generally agreeable. Basically, look better but don't modify your behavior into something that feels adventurous or might draw somebody in (because ugh I dont want to be fooled by a guy who didnt come out of the womb with perfe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:14 AM
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Genuinely like yourself Genuinely like the people you interact with, or start interacting with people you like better Don't rescue anyone and don't expect to be rescued You do not need the approval of your friends or society regarding sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:11 AM
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There'd be a lot of kids and adults going without food, possibly killing them or prompting them to turn to a life of crime to survive. They're probably going to be more emotionally damaged and less likely to respond positively to social pressure to conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:08 AM
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He deserved hard jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:13 PM
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I wouldn't give a shit, as long as there's frankness and openness between us as a pair (as opposed to drama and secrets).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:51 PM
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Even Barney Stinson had an abysmal success RATE, but he managed to get laid, making said rate irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:42 PM
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The physical attributes you listed don't matter. The social actions you listed are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:41 PM
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Charisma is real. The power to persuade is learnable. Men and women can have the ability to coerce people into making a choice that benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:40 PM
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1: If you're asking red pill men what they think about feminism and/or rape culture, you're gonna get an answer that justifies/validates disrespect for feminism and denial of rape culture. 2: If you ask actual feminists (male or female) about rape culture that actually exists in first world countries, you're going to get a vastly different answer. 3: Rape culture happens when any given group of people feels sexually entitled to the bodies of any other given group of people. It happens when egos …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:36 PM
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Peyton and Dakota have the privilege of having people in their lives to cover up their crimes and make sure they can live "a normal life" when they've just finished "20 minutes of action" on a girl who didn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:30 PM
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1: Male top 20%: Have an education up to or past a bachelor's degree Have self confidence; do not need your ego fed constantly Have a job where you're trusted Be able to drive and own a car Do not have an extensive criminal record Be emotionally stable, and/or willing to work with and improve your own flaws and improve as a person Be noticeably more physically attractive than the average guy your age 2: I think so, since I just listed them as such. I can give a non-pedantic or non-snarky answer …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 04:08 PM
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Sure. Any time a guy was very adamant about wanting a romantic relationship with me without me feeling any sort of chemistry, I felt unheard and objectified, and wasn't interested in fucking. The fact that contact stopped only validated my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 01:10 AM
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If I'm attracted to the vain, I expect them to be vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 06:01 AM
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From this description, I'd believe that there's a crowd of all the women orbiting only the really hot men. Or just the really attractive women, women you'd yourself consider? People who put a lot of effort into looking hot do tend to gravitate toward other hot people. Just like you, if I were in a meat market situation, I'd seek out someone I was attracted to. I wouldn't look down the bench and try to rescue a sad faced, woe is me, I hate myself type of guy - any more than you'd go to the fattie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 09:03 PM
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When it's mutual and not done for manipulative purposes, game is called chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:58 PM
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If I were ever to have had a one night stand, it would be because I wanted to a) have a one night stand and/or b) obtain acceptance/validation. Therefore, if a man had really wanted to fuck me just once, he'd have either a) been available and reasonably my type and/or b) someone who had good enough seduction skills that I believed the shit spewing from his lips in order to get into my lips. You can't be a thirsty actor to do seduction properly. It needs to be believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 08:57 PM
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Because feminism means that we women get to choose what "kind of woman" we wish to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:02 PM
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I don't get along well with angry and bitter people, unless it's a sarcastic/acerbic sense of humor. That being said, if a woman told me "I'm a feminist" without the rest of the context, my response would be "me, too!" If she mentioned the context you mentioned, in the context of "these are my beliefs," cool! (I personally agree with those.) If she mentioned the context you mentioned, in the context of "fuck you if your thoughts are different," then forget her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:13 AM
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There's an autistic child in my house and his ass is never, ever stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 10:38 PM
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A majestic 5'10".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:25 PM
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I'm not dating as I am married. I've always selected my partners based on their personality traits; if the guy I married were 5'8", I'd be, well, married to a guy who was 5'8".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 09:25 AM
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When women are against fat shaming or slut shaming she's not saying guys need to date her. She's saying that they shouldn't be bullying her over it, and that they should just shut up and find someone they do like. Said again for the people in the back!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 11:40 PM
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Women labeled as "sluts" are assumed to always be wanting it even when they don't, which leads to rape culture. This hurts men, too, as men are often portrayed as "always down to fuck" and thus rape cases against men are downplayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 11:39 PM
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That depends on your individual goals in life. Having charisma and the ability to seduce others? Useful. Being taken seriously and assumed competent? Useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 12:20 AM
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15-19 if terpers; half their age plus seven if not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 12:11 AM
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He dumped her at one stage, plus her behavior is universally trashy, its beautiful how it overcomes communication barriers :') Correlation conclusion: they did not have a perfect relationship, and she behaves outside social norms, therefore one "causes" the other? I would say in the case of both genders that isn't true, guys that don't get dates are seen as lesser/somehow deserving for example, also I cannot really see her having any value. Women who can't get dates are also looked down upon. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 08:23 PM
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Thus you know your taste, not her partner's. :) (Also, women don't need to be dateable to have value as people!)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 08:05 PM
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Makes and females (in societies with Abrahamic religions, at least) have a rigid set of gender role rules, right? Women should be submissive, men should be protective, and all that shit? There are a lot of those rules, written and unwritten. Most of them are shite and give zero regard to a specific individual. Anyway, that female code.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 08:04 PM
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You know her public image, obviously, but do you know how you and she would get along due to personality chemistry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 08:02 PM
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Probably the man who enjoys having a relationship with said woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:31 PM
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She's not so very Korean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:30 PM
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Who says they don't? The Female Code definitely preaches more discretion for women. Whether individual women behave with discretion is up to them, but the curriculum is heavily pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:29 PM
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The word 'game' has multiple meanings here, and I don't like to play games with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 04:30 PM
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So, if you were at a job working 60 hours per week and being shorted overtime pay, fuck you because people in China have to work for pennies per day. Oh, I thought we were taking turns invalidating people's very real reasons for working toward change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 02:16 AM
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The reason she struggles with guys should be obvious in the first 5 minutes of the link. She's what we call a Debbie Downer in the UK. Nobody wants to date or interact with someone who is not even sure they want to be alive. Could this be the Terp revelation? No.. they're not that introspective. But if you're introspective, you can learn something from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 12:30 AM
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I'm a woman.. and I don't know what I think of someone's fuckability until I know what's inside that mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 12:28 AM
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I'm proud of the MEN and WOMEN who were out there protesting. I'm stoked to see the large number of men who care about equality and don't have their egos threatened by it. I agree with the issues being highlighted and am happy seeing our society band together to say it loud. I didn't have the best time trying to cross the street with kids at the time, but it was an awesome protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 04:47 PM
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9 priests? Come again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:32 PM
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If the word 'patriot' literally meant "war supporter," you'd have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:26 PM
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Because etymology is funny like that, and it's not a logical equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:26 PM
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Switching perspectives shouldn't cause this much confusion. If behavior is ok for one group of people, it's bullshit to gatekeep it for other groups of people. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 07:28 PM
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Then why this fucking thread?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 11:12 PM
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As serious as the Terpers who believe women's sexuality should be limited because they feel they don't have the same opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 08:56 PM
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The male ego must always be stroked. Anything that suggests that one should put their ego aside for any reason is pure travesty and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 05:13 AM
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I've never fucked a Chad. Therefore, I am standing up against men fucking Stacy. If I don't get mine, no one should get theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 05:09 AM
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Ooh, maybe in Men's Lib, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:12 AM
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Isn't the Red Pill an instruction guide and support forum for "How to Become Chad - 101?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 07:03 AM
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When the same weight gain happens in men**, who are hormonally predisposed to burning more calories as well as, you know, them not experiencing shit like pregnancy and periods... What's your excuse then? ** Men who assign shame about women's weight gain, that is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 09:51 PM
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Lemme tell you: I went to my 20th reunion several years back. The women looked like themselves, some with additional weight. The men looked 45, because many of them went bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:47 AM
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Even the "What's Your Excuse?" lady experienced some Real Life and has settled down on her opinion after Actually Experiencing This Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 01:07 AM
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It's great to have an ethic of maintaining personal grooming and dietary habits expected; however, people inevitably age and often reproduce and frequently experience nasty stress, all of which have a negative effect on appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 12:36 AM
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yet they still feel unfulfilled, disappointed, pissed off, and full of resentment That's about how I feel when I see this complete cognitive dissonance. morally depraved, and sick, because they want to have sex with women they are attracted to When the women you want to have sex with don't want to have sex with you, you feel shamed like this. FALLACY. A relationship goes two ways. That's something men want to do because their biology and nature drives them to do it. You know that men have differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:54 PM
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Having sex with only the perfect Red Pill man (who of course has sex with all the women who let him), and no others. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:48 PM
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Most women are finding it very hard to marry the second or third guy they ever have sex with. Data?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:46 PM
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Because then they'd have to admit their behavior sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:45 PM
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FAIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:44 PM
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And they had problems forging relationships as women in their 20s and 30s. So do men who do the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:42 PM
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I'm sure he likes it just fine as long as the women he fucks don't ever have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:40 PM
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Oh yeah. I'd fuck Tyrion (if allowed within the confines of my relationship or if I were single.) That fucker is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 05:10 AM
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All "Chad" means is "guy who was able to fuck you" to these types. If these types want to put their dick in someone and the someone doesn't feel the same and/or accept said dick in them anyway, it represents an Ultimate Failure. (Hint, assholes: it doesn't represent a failure; that attitude does.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 05:08 AM
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Congratulations! Everyone, including and especially oneself, is a hypocrite! You get a piece of hypocrisy, and YOU get a piece.. Seriously. You, me, and every other person out there? Hypocrites to someone or other whose worldview we do not fit. Roll with it, and try not to be too much of an asshole about your own, all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 11:31 PM
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Men are bitches and women are bitches. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 04:41 AM
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The "woman code" that keeps it sort of euphemistic has to do with the pressure to save virginity, or only discard it if there's really love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:00 AM
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I agree with your sentiment as is. But women like the chance to fuck around and find their unicorn, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 11:52 PM
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Unsuccessful men invariably refuse to lower their standards and look down on using aggressive cold approach game to get their first few successes because they are blocked by morals which have been acquired from a largely bluepill upbringing. So, men aren't worthy in your eyes unless they're willing to put their dicks ahead of being a decent human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 11:51 PM
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As far as you're concerned, I look exactly like my aforementioned celebrity crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:04 PM
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The worst part of dating as a woman was when I found that a great, geeky guy I'd been friends with for years and then dated was a fucking Terp type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 02:16 AM
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Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:24 AM
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How much sex a person has had or has not had shouldn't determine their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:39 AM
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Or any clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:19 AM
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Not wanting your partner to have a trait and thinking all people who have that trait are shameful? Apples and oranges, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:17 AM
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Which is because it's illegal, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:14 AM
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I have an aversion to the idea of a partner of mine having utilized sex workers. But I'm pro-prostitution, legalized/regulated. I think that's it: that it can be inherently gross without good protection all around. But I also admit to liking when potential partners are into me specifically and not just fishing for sex. Paying for sex is the ultimate in fishing for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:11 AM
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The "upper echelons of men" don't necessarily get laid as much as they wish they did and they convince other men they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 01:57 AM
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Aside from the 3rd wave/name, feminism would seek refuge for men who suffer, because men and women are socially equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:05 PM
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They're going for "I'm anti-radical-feminist" but stating "I think women are less than men."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:03 PM
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Don't call people you obviously hate your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:02 PM
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There's space for emotions. There's no space for contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:01 PM
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I just assume people who reject feminism haven't been to much college/university. Then I avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:00 PM
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Heebs, dude. Not my style. Yum: http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/gamegrumps/images/8/84/Mg_1673.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20160429081452
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 04:59 PM
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You call it "Chad" when the same phenomenon happens to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 03:20 AM
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People have differing tastes. If we didn't, how would "undesirables" pass their genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:02 PM
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There are incel women. The popular stereotype suggests you'd find them on Tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:00 PM
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Sample size, sample homogeneity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:59 PM
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That extremely attractive people have an easier time coupling with other extremely attractive people?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:58 PM
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I think he's ugly, but because his attitude is better than yours, I would indeed suck him off before sucking you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:57 PM
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That's a toxic as fuck expectation for men. Men do have individual tastes; many are afraid to admit this as it violates the "man code."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:54 PM
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You're claiming knowledge about an entire gender of people based on your experiences and filters. People are people and neither men, women, nor any other possible gender are ALT. I'm sorry, but this sounds like what you red pill folks call "hamstering."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 07:52 PM
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Sluts are great as plates, not for LTRs or mothers. 1) Woman who has experience before you is defined as experienced, not a slut. A slut has a different modus operandi. 2) Holy fuck! My parenting ability is correlated with or even affected by how much sexual experience I've had?! (Hint: it's not.) 3) You deserve nervous starfish-style sex if you prefer women without experience. Being a provider sets a negative image Agreed. But real friends share shit. So a real friend will pay for his friend so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:50 PM
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I prefer my men heavier than lighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:40 PM
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HEAS http://www.acronymfinder.com/HEAS.html No, I'm the Harvard East Asia Society! eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:39 PM
2

"Plating"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:36 AM
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Consent is an ongoing process. If you lend me your car, and then say "oh, fuck, actually I can't lend it, I need it back," would it be ok to keep it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 04:34 AM
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If you actually bluepill, you'll discard beliefs that make your personality unattractive to women.
/r/MGTOW07/12/16 12:14 AM
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You're having trouble getting laid because you're a perpetual victim.
/r/MGTOW07/12/16 12:13 AM
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TBH even if an average woman asks for sex in the first sentence most males would at least give it a good thought if not accept immediately. Men are taught this behavior; it is toxic. It's ok for men to a) be selective about partners and b) be selective about timing.
/r/MGTOW07/12/16 12:11 AM
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I'd like to see how this abundance mentality translates into women not being judged for having a sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 12:06 AM
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There are more for men who follow your ideology: don't have a history of sex with other men; women are ok, though don't want gifts or any potential usage/combination of your money/resources ever unless she provides everything don't actually have a job where she earns more and can provide things actively looks sexually attractive at all times does not ever challenge the man's opinion is much less intelligent than the man must want intercourse on the man's schedule, regardless of literally any oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:38 PM
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Fat is unattractive. If you believe it is. shrug I wouldn't bash any woman for rejecting a man for his weight, because i would never date a fat woman myself. Ugh, dear god, then shut the fuck up about women and their standards. If you wouldn't date an undesirable, desirables don't have to date you. 60% is seriously being pulled out of your ASS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:37 PM
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I said "often" in the original. Read carefully. As in, don't always reject your partner when they try, or don't always reject someone who chooses the time and place. Ragequitting like that I've been married for 10 years. I'm uncertain as to what you mean by ragequitting. Also, 60% == pulled out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:36 PM
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"Overweight" is merely a placeholder for whatever men consider "undesirable." If you doubt that "overweight" in women is viewed like "short" in men for many unhappy people, read some Reddit. The point being, nobody needs to lower their standards; they need to get with the people they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:30 PM
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No, not unless that's our arrangement as a family, then don't whine that we're not taught to approach, and yes you can if your ego isn't so huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:29 PM
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Projecting their failures on men, blaming society for their loneliness etc. So, parallel to the Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:24 PM
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is if women lower their standards How come men don't lower their standards and seek overweight women when they feel this way? Only women must lower their standards. Men's are fine. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:23 PM
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I'm in shit posting mode today. Yeah there aren't a lot of high value men around. cough Ok, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:22 PM
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They want the man to be masculine, ambitious, earn more than them, pay for the dates, approach them, take control and be assertive. Masculine in terms of fucking, yes. Please have and use a penis if you're a cis-male and not in need of accommodation. The rest? Ambitious enough to be an adult. Earn enough to be an adult, not pay for me per se. If you want to be approached, don't rebuff me often when I try. Take control and be assertive enough to be an adult. Oh, and smart enough to not feel threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:19 PM
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I agree that the need to control others is weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:45 AM
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I know I'll be fine. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:29 PM
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Now if women were like friends that you make just by sharing an occupation How aren't we? Because men want to put penises into us? Can I say the same thing about going out of my way and jumping through hoops to impress a woman? "Impress a woman" is code for "convince a woman to touch my penis." If you have to convince anyone to touch your penis, you're misinvesting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:10 PM
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we use it to get our way Depends on what your way is. It sounds like your way gives little consideration to what others' way is, especially if those others are women. "We have to be jerks to get what we want, and I laugh when women are driven nuts that when we are jerks." Ok, pal..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:08 PM
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Unfortunately, the suppression/subjugation of women is a key aspect. It's great that you're learning good information whilst wading in poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 08:38 PM
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I insist on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 02:07 AM
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Women are not a "thing" you acquire, like a house or a boat. They are people you choose to spend time with. True that. They sell plastic ones for those just interested in holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 04:52 PM
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As a woman, I support my own investment into my life. Hoping that maybe, just maybe some girl with touch your penis. This makes me wonder if men are worth the investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 04:50 PM
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Yeah. As a woman, I assumed it was the other way around. I can't handle a man who doesn't play nice with most animals and people. The "nice to waiters" rule applies. I hear a lot of anecdotes about men who stayed with women noone at all, especially themselves, could stand, because they were hot and gave an ego boost during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 06:50 AM
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Here's the part where as you get older, you discover social hierarchy presentation was all a lie. It might take you a few more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 06:41 AM
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So happiness to you is to have other people think you're cool? Why don't you take care of thinking you're cool instead of worrying about what other people think about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 06:38 AM
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Trope definition: Something recurring across a genre or type of literature, such as the ‘mad scientist’ of horror movies or ‘once upon a time’ as an introduction to fairy tales. Similar to archetype and cliché but not necessarily pejorative. Why am I bitter to hear that women are shallow? The same reason you're bitter to hear women (e.g. me) state that men are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 06:36 PM
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I thought it was the paycheck. Isn't that what the tropes say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 06:31 PM
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You may be right my personality might be getting in my way. But then again I may be right that my looks are a huge disadvantage. So maybe we can both be right. Perspective. Only thing is this: I gain nothing to be right or wrong about your life. You gain nothing by being more right or wrong than another internet person. If there's anything to be learned from my ramblings, take it, and discard the rest. I have learned from yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 02:21 AM
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Not every. Read the poster above me's comment, pretending you're a woman, and see if that doesn't sound bitter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 05:02 PM
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I don't really know what to tell you anymore. You are stuck in your failures without seeing much room for yourself to improve or change. Because in your mind, you are doing it right, damnit, and should have found your results if there are results to be found. In Models, and several other books, there are lessons to be learned. Whether the lessons help improve your life kind of depends on who is learning them. If you're Forever Alone, that is repellent in and of itself. The only way I can explain…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 05:01 PM
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Because it's such an incredibly low bar, it would mean you'd be willingly to "provide a man with with pussy" to everyone who can act like a decent human being. I've seen men writing in these subs who become completely livid when they do not receive sex for being civil. I do not know as many irl because I tend to dislike that type and stay away. You can't read men minds, so you unless you're talking to an incredibly thirsty man, you really won't know how they feel about women. You make a good poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:23 PM
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Because you judge yourself on your intentions and you judge others on their deeds. It's how we as humans typically view the world, but it's not helpful IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 07:17 PM
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I'm not trying to bring you down. You have no fatal flaws. You may have work to do or therapy to get over the life experience you have had. somehow women that ignore me when I approach somehow read my desperation despite the fact I have no expectations I don't know. I'd have to see you in real life, or watch a video. "Approach" could have something that a therapist can address. "Desperation" definitely does; it's likely why you're not getting dates via networking, but again, I only know the beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:54 PM
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Maybe it's the sign of a sure lay? Sometimes women want a sure lay, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:46 PM
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I like cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:45 PM
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But he is telling you his height give him a lot. First pick. Why trying to say something else Because your beliefs are the single biggest influencing factor in your behavior. beautifull woman can get away with a lot of stuff because she is attractive, she is seen as "good" because people want to see her as "good". I wish men would quit doing that, really. Whether or not I am currently beautiful. I have been both beautiful and hideous. I prefer how men treat me when I'm hideous. Tall = attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:44 PM
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I'm an Aspie. We are far more awesome than the muggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:41 PM
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Being the subject of desire happens in a mutually fulfilling, relatively slowly and carefully developed romantic relationship. It happens when you're valued for who you are. Being the object of desire is less personal. It's somewhere along the lines of being objectified. I'm arguing semantics and shit, not for any good reason other than to help you see that I'm a person and not a set of ideologies over here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 06:28 AM
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Buddy, YES, read Mark Manson's Models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 06:24 AM
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I've not been any less circular than you've not been.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 06:23 AM
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If you've read any of his previous material, you'd see that he has platonic friends. ಠ_ಠ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 06:17 AM
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Ok, dissection. I know you mean well, but I read your stuff and, well, here are my thoughts. During that same breakfast one of the women who is much older and married told a story about me and how every time I tell her she can do something she believes it and how much confidence I give her. Another married women at breakfast told a story about how much it meant to her that during a full marathon we were both running that I stopped in the middle of my race at mile 23 to talk to her when I see she…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:36 AM
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How many guys with no success with women can be that. Add to that they may be a minority, and not even conventionally attractive. None of this pertains to sex, right? He means how much he really wants platonic friends to notice his attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:16 AM
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I find him more sexually attractive than a "10/10" in appearance man who has a poor attitude. Men actually want to be wanted. We want to be found sexy. We want to be the object of desire. I know it's a popular TV/movie trope for men to prefer being "used" as a sex object but the real life men I've known wanted first to be treated like a friend. These sorts of men are fine with terrible personal relationships as long as they're getting their dicks wet, and kind of deserve the gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:13 AM
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More like treat them with general respect and as a human. You'd be surprised how many men completely leave this out when dating and trying to acquire sex. (And then wonder why they cannot do so successfully). More because I seen too often what my height gives me socially. When you believe in it, it will remain true (as opposed to a fluke case where someone fetishizes you). When you believe you have an advantage because you have proven success, you will engage in good behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:11 AM
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"Don't give a fuck" and "self-confident" are attractive. "Angry," "bitter," "asshole" are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:09 AM
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Women like me have other things "wrong" or "different" and did not ever participate in the "marketplace."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 05:08 AM
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Yeah, I'm gonna have to lemon law you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:41 AM
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Height and race mean not first choice of hot white chick to bang. They do not mean banging a chick is impossible. She might also need to be Asian, or a little heavier than guys typically like, or not his first choice. He may need his personality more, so it's extra important for him to not be bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:15 AM
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You may also possibly treat them well if you're successful. Are there any correlations?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:13 AM
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None of those mean shit if the demeanor is bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:13 AM
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Attractive as you see it or as you believe everyone envies you for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:12 AM
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If your height is the only deal-breaker she wasn't sold on you to begin with. Or she's a female Chad type. Either way, try someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:11 AM
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It is true that you don't get to automatically be "team captain" but you can certainly find some players.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:11 AM
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Married that guy, but it didn't work out because I learned that he didn't value me the difficult way. He may have been slightly taller, but generally "little taller, not much."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:08 AM
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Agreed, generally. It's the bitterness that keeps you from getting laid. No, you don't get your first pick based on appearance if you're short unless you have better charisma than the taller guy. Women have the same issue if we are fat and/or exceptionally tall. But you're capable of befriending a vagina-person and convincing her to let you put it in even if you're Peter Dinklage's height. I bet he gets laid as often as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:07 AM
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I've seen the other way around as well. Lived it, in fact. Dated several guys seriously who were very close to my height. I'm 5'2".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:05 AM
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None of that impresses me as a woman and would make me inherently want to provide a man with pussy.* What would matter is whether the man valued me as a person and not just a willing participant in Women Are a Sex Shop, First Come First Serve, Pun Intended. Whenever I encounter a guy who is bitter that he's not currently sticking it to me or anyone else with a vagina in the vicinity, my vagina becomes extremely dry. I'm 5'2", so even if I take the common value of "shorter woman, taller man" seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 02:00 AM
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The way some people speak about it here, you would think that every casual sex encounter involves some incredible alpha seducing a helpless woman, who involuntarily lubricates herself as soon as he comes near her, and she's dying to have his babies there and then, but of course he's got 27 other bitches on the go and dumps her as soon as he's banged her. No shit. Also, that "alpha" is called a slut. You'd think men would understand why some people enjoy sex with sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 06:06 AM
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always lead to commitment, and I'm sure that they don't always want this, particularly at college. When they start wanting this, they give sex away much less easily. As a mystical woman, I'd define "giving sex away much less easily" as trying to meet people I'd like to know as friends as well as possibly a compatible long term relationship partner, rather than focusing my time on enjoying sex with people I'd rather not otherwise know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 06:03 AM
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If I hadn't experienced it, I might believe that women never choose to enter casual sexual relationships for their own pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 05:59 AM
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I've seen a lot of "You don't want to fuck me immediately on sight but you like my personality? Offensively friendzoned!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 05:57 AM
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The truly hard to believe part is that that particular person had several potential "side bitches" including one with a long-time crush who was really mad at me for getting their intended partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:00 PM
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Congratulations! Women and gay men put together outnumber you, making you less relevant as a group than you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 03:52 PM
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I chose not to. Not because their value is less than mine - it is equal - but because I didn't like the personalities of men who slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 03:50 PM
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Some former partners: A: 475 lb, not otherwise attractive, initially neutral to repulsed, extreme chemistry B: Cellulite belly, face looked like Toad from Super Mario Brothers, initially repulsed, healthy chemistry C: Beautiful face, trim but not skinny body, long hair - ideal in appearance, initially attracted, repulsed over time due to treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 05:08 AM
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Some of both women and men have high standards and some have low standards. How do sluts "happen" otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:36 AM
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It has in my experience, 75% of the time (ish).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:35 AM
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The word "you" is general. You're welcome to choose partners. Thanks, modern world! That means your preferences are your own, even if others would disagree with them. You can think women who have lots of sex are gross. You can marry a virgin. But.. A: Your dream of who you are and what you like doesn't determine another person's value, just your preference. So that doesn't make high n count women inherently gross; it means that you believe it. Having a belief in common with many others, as you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:32 AM
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I'm a little grossed out by owning a sibling's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:21 AM
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That goes in both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:20 AM
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It's a male fantasy, and so many men hate women who do that. What a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:19 AM
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Other vaginas are gross too, unless you have one as well as like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:18 AM
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What's the value of the town carousel horse? Is he considered marriage material? I find that gross, too, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:16 AM
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It's to satisfy your ego and what you believe others think of you. It's not a kind way to treat a human. It's objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:15 AM
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It does make sense from an evo psych perspective, but we as humans are highly socialized and domesticated. We have the intellect to determine that if there hasn't been another dick inside her in 10 months, she can't be pregnant with someone else's babies. The "too many dicks" statute shouldn't over last 10 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:14 AM
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As in, you're scared of being called gay as opposed to being afraid of actual gay people you encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:11 AM
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Human sexual and romantic preferences are often based on visceral reaction (whether reaction to physical appearance or charisma or something else like n-count) rather than objective measurement of value. A strong visceral reaction with little regard to objective measurement of value is a giant waving red relationship flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:11 AM
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If he is grossed out by the thought of a penis having touched a spot before, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:08 AM
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Which is so misogynistic it's hard to read. What I mean is that in many places, men accuse other men of being "gay" as a way of humiliating/emasculating them, and that sense of emasculation associated with gayness may be the real fear for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:07 AM
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These kinds of men panic because their egos can't handle not being seen as the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:05 AM
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You're picking up on how you feel and assigning it to me. That being said, chatting isn't working for me anymore - take the best of care!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 09:53 PM
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I don't think of you as representative of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 09:04 PM
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Ooh, let's see your projection: :) Lol (I'm pissed, dude. The lol proved it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 08:25 PM
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I believe maintaining civility is required. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:32 PM
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Sweetie, I'm married for 10 years, but you go ahead and think I'm worried about being passed over by men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:32 PM
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Your post is what is called "word salad." Extra dressing isn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:15 AM
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Insecure what now? I'm showing you my ass because I'm lacking and sad about it? No, sweetie. I'm showing you my ass because that's the only thing you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:14 AM
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Can confirm that the higher-value men I've dated were not petty creeps who cared who/what I did before I chose to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:55 AM
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Buddy, you are projecting and justifying a storm load. Calling you insecure is the polite way to say what they think of your behavior. Someone thinking your behavior sucks and stating such doesn't necessarily make them a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:53 AM
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Calling someone "insecure" is actually saying "you behave poorly, displaying an overly insecure person's patterns of behavior." In other words, they're calling you (or your subject/object here) a dick. Not everyone is a dick because they feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 03:51 AM
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It really depends on why the mom is single. There is the usual scenario plus myriad sub possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 07:44 PM
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am I just about that Incel life Wouldn't it just be 'cel' since it's voluntary at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 05:53 AM
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You can put your own needs and wants first if you remain single/childless. Attempting to/succeeding to cheat that somehow makes a person a horrible human.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:58 AM
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TRP is pretty much using seduction technique to get laid while assuming the least possible personal responsibility for being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:03 AM
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So, girls who behave crazily when guys are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 01:44 AM
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Of course women aren't perfect. Are men? For fuck's sake. Women are people. We are not property. We are not a man's entitlement. We are not walking, willing accessible vaginas. Get in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 01:42 AM
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Do You even know how the TRP started? Long-story short - Feminisation, Women on pedestal, guys not having a spine nor frame... aaaaand. BPD. So: men's behavior and women's desire to be treated like people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 01:41 AM
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People respond to mutual chemistry. Some people are narcissistic enough to believe there is mutual chemistry when it's just their own wet dreaming. Some people were taught that it didn't need to be mutual and that their own chemistry was reason enough to take action. These are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 03:52 AM
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C) she figures out that he's an asshole and it's a deal breaker; he doesn't care if she's an asshole as long as she puts out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 03:48 AM
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That's about as feasible from "you" as me becoming a Jessica and collecting male paychecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 11:31 PM
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It should "take a village." I'm a commie and all. The scheme you're describing with extended family - there's a lot of that where I live. But most folks in this American city are from everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:34 PM
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Nope. It's not just who wins the bread. It's whose time and body and sweat and tears are in there. With such little value on a non wage earner's work, consider paying people for sex instead of a traditional family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:31 PM
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If there are kids involved and she invested all the time everyone acknowledges is invested into their care, she damn well "fucc"ing paid. Being employed by a capitalist scheme is not the only way to determine value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:29 PM
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If there are kids, the house belongs to them as well, and if the mother ends up with custody, she will be the primary supervisor of said house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:25 PM
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And then men who whine about the possibility of women contributing less also think of women as less and support paying them less. It's almost like women are considered second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:23 PM
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Good news! You, too, can stay single TODAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:21 PM
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Jewish what now? Women? So... Women changed it. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:09 AM
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Just the other dads on the block.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:04 AM
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Unless you have a scientific study with a large, random sample of women that experienced it, you mean subjectively. I can submit a survey about shrimp fried rice that gives the same level of "objective" results. If women loved life that way, why did they change it? It wasn't the patriarchy who drove them to it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:44 AM
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Yes, it counts as misogyny if "sexual strategy" includes tricking women into having sex they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:42 AM
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Sadly, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:38 AM
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So you think women didn't cheat in the 50s and pass their lovers' kids off as their husband's? Maybe more so because of the lower rate of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:38 AM
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Just because it was portrayed that way on TV doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:36 AM
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Sounds like that person is pro-chattel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:32 AM
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The study you quoted says that it's true for children, but they don't know about adults. "However, the picture for adults was less obvious. Swinburn and colleagues had anticipated that they would be about 10.8 kg heavier, but the real figures showed the weight gain was only 8.6 kg, suggesting that while eating too many calories was the predominant reason for the gain, there must also have been an increase in physical activity over the 30 years or the weight gain would have been even bigger." Lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 04:00 PM
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You don't know how many people fall under "normal" or "exceptions." You only know your thoughts about the people you judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:33 PM
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The subject you're looking for is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:31 PM
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It's easy to say that, but have you ever met people who were fat yet eating like an anorexic would? Have you ever met people who were fat yet could exercise harder than you could? You do not know how others' endocrine systems function, unless you're educated enough to diagnose them when anomalies occur. An example of a condition that could cause someone to be and remain fat unnecessarily is Cushing's Syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:00 PM
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your snarky comment to me We're all just movie stars, here. Maybe my comment was snarky, maybe it wasn't. You don't know that by just assuming. We women certainly have the choice to go out and get laid on our own terms. We have the choice to do the pumping and dumping, or the pumping and respecting. Shitglobs.. we have more of the choice because of how desperate many men believe they are about the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:31 PM
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So, you're Doctor whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:29 PM
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Any sane culture lets women make their own choices in life. Because women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:28 PM
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I'm sorry to say this, but it's not that difficult to see the type of women who just want to use men for their money and provide absolutely zero sex at all after they put a ring on it. Not sure what you mean by "being tricked". Should women feel ashamed for having a standard of living and demanding money from their partners? Is it the women's fault if you fail to develop yourself to their level instead of relying on your money for the attention? No, it really is not. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:27 PM
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Username checks out as lowlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:25 PM
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First of all, I in no way represent ALL women. I represent ONE woman. Second of all, judging a group by one member is pretty low thinking. Third of all, for some people it is and that is not for you to judge. You do not inhabit their bodies. You do not have their endocrine system. You can speak for one person, and that is yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:25 PM
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As are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:11 AM
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Riddle me this: why is it bad advice for a woman if you don't think it is bad advice for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 10:17 AM
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How are women damaged by men's cruelty? rape sexual assault that's not precisely rape being tricked into having sex being treated like a child or incompetent being valued for boner inspiration and not personhood I could go on, but you're kind of a (insert nasty word here that insults you).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 10:16 AM
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If you are a woman, you can have an opinion on what it is easy for a woman to do. I'm sorry, but you're a malingerer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 10:14 AM
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Kind of like how women are made to feel worthless if they're not: skinny, under 30, performing uncomfortable sex acts often, or hiding any opinions of their own. People suck. But not everyone subscribes to this shit. I reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 02:58 AM
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This may be news, but women also "begin life filled with good intentions, love, and respect" and are damaged by "men's cruelty." Women are people, not an entitlement of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 02:54 AM
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This will blow your mind, figuratively, but.. Women like sex. Women don't like being raped or manipulated into providing sex they are uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 02:52 AM
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I think it's a bad idea to seek validation or teach others that we should seek it. But I also think it's great to celebrate someone else's self confidence and acceptance. I 'like' every single one unless it's obviously a joke. Therefore, I have mixed feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:46 PM
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If they were truly GTOW, they'd just fuck other men and leave us women the fuck out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:30 PM
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A realistic human being balances expectations with their own values. Even though let's be honest - it's her problem. Last I heard, it took a man to help get her that way. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 05:13 AM
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a bad attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 05:10 AM
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No, in the sense that guys want to have sex, guys like seeing thin, fit, and attractive women wearing very little, etc. How dare they ask those girls out? How dare they like video games that have sexy women in them? How dare adolescent male schoolkids get boners over their female classmates wearing skintight leggings? What I don't get is how TRP's strategy to deal with this is to demonize women who like similarly physical attributes in men and hate them for daring to have been attracted to the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 05:09 AM
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It is the appropriate thing to do to let anyone experiencing physical discomfort and or impossibility at standing to have a seat. A pregnant woman is manufacturing someone and her body feels like crumbled ass much of the time. An elderly or physically disabled person has a body that feels like crumbled ass much of the time. This is not a gender but an ability based expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:59 AM
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Oh, you're so cute. This is the first time I've noticed a "mainsplainer!" You took my splainginity. You are just as unlikely to affect your weight over long periods of time (i.e. yo-yo dieting) as you are to experience a sudden 6" growth spurt at age 21. But women still fuck short men and men still fuck fat women. Neither gets to be on top of the mating chain unless they're charismatic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:37 AM
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A: you're reaching, B: depends on the country (research Israel), C: progressives generally want this changed to equal risk/chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:34 AM
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Weight isn't strictly self control. Not every fatty fats it up. Many skinnies fat it straight the fuck up. It's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:28 AM
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so that irks you Your assumption of what irks me is purely a projection from your own mind. quite clearly DOES demean and put down men for being, and acting like, men In the sense of behaving as if sex with women is their right? Or?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:27 AM
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Hmm, considering incel men are men who hate society because they're not getting sex they're owed, as opposed to being competent animals and procuring the sex from a willing partner.. You can feel as guilty as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:25 AM
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Please cite what social expectations having a penis or a vagina make absolute, aside from biological processes. Men can not give birth, woman are also smaller and weaker than men. These are direct real differences that can never be handwaved away as "bullshit expectation" so stop regurgitating what you were told in gender studies class by politically correct morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 04:18 AM
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Because there's a bullshit expectation of social behavior matching animal reproductive functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:59 AM
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A man being underheight is treated similarly to a woman being overweight. Neither are great litmus tests for overall compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:59 AM
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A vast majority of women is also dealing with guilt over wanting sex in the first place, let alone daring to engage. There is no reason to apply similar guilt to men. Both genders have Sexist Privilege Unfair Shit going on. I'm gonna do it differently as a woman rather than being pissed at all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:57 AM
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Not all men like to be objectified. Not all men like as much sex as they could possibly ft into a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 01:51 AM
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They want to be seen as the more civilized, virtuous gender that doesn't see sex as an urge but as some kind of spirtual, cherished experience bestowed upon a special man of virtue. Yeah. I'm a woman and I don't want that. But sure as shit, RELIGION in society teaches exactly that. naturally incites irritation in men You don't know how men naturally feel; you know how YOU naturally feel. And you are totally within your power to change the belief that a woman sleeping with someone who is not you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 06:14 PM
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Men can have all the opinions about female sexuality they want. But men don't get to hold women responsible for their own opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 10:53 PM
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Let men be different types. Don't pigeonhole their sexuality. I've been in several heterosexual relationships where sex was scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:13 AM
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If you engage in a pussy-as-currency trade, you get women who participate in a pussy-as-currency trade. Ergo, you get the relationship you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 01:10 AM
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You must know more about being a woman than I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 04:20 AM
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Sex is a perk of a healthy relationship dynamic. Pussy isn't earned by one's virtue of following the rules. Nor is pussy a good idea as currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 12:00 AM
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What world does everyone live in? Neither male nor female sexuality fits the stereotype reliably. Males have an average and females may have a different average; this says jack shit about any given male and female pairing. We're all animals but we have the fortune of having variability in our sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 11:59 PM
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It depends on your local economy. It makes sense to have a parent stay at home unless there's extended family/close friends available to help with pickups/dropoffs and after-school care - the typical business day including commute is several hours longer than the typical school day. If no (or insane, etc.) extended family or close friends are available, the cost of day care can rival one spouse's paycheck in some areas and make the effort feel entirely futile. This is independent of whether an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:35 AM
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You're this guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:51 AM
1

Can't speak for other countries, but females are actively discouraged from pursuing their intelligence fully in the USA. Because it makes people feel bad. Because men AND women have preconceived notions of what males and females can and may do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 04:21 PM
2

Just plain video gaming nerds are plentiful, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 07:43 PM
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I'm a female that fits the description of "likely undiagnosed HFA." I choose nerdy men. And I tend to meet them in ways that let us know whether we like each other's personalities before we're aware of each other's looks, e.g. in online games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 07:42 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 02:54 PM
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Men who look like jocks. I prefer a stockier body type and/or a nerdier face type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 10:05 PM
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Intellect and emotional chemistry have always meant more to me than physical appearance. I was maybe 8 when I realized that my romantic feelings would never be for the "hot" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 10:40 PM
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By that logic, fucking Chad with abs raises her SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 03:39 AM
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This depends on how you define "laws" (of the country you live in? Of "natural traffic patterns" that defy all laws known to government? Other?). Anecdote time! In 2004, my car was hit by another driver. I was going the speed limit; no higher (just got a fucking ticket that day! Didn't want another.). It's 2016 and that hasn't happened since; I'm also a lot more "drive for conditions" than "drive for law."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:57 PM
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Can't say that anecdote CMV just like that. But if you don't mind, what steps did you take to become "less beta?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:54 PM
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It's ok to not want to date someone who's damaged, but yes, it does make you a bit of an asshole. Why? Because you expect someone else to be cool with the damage you've sustained. If you can find one who hasn't survived rape, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:52 PM
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Untrue. https://rainn.org/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:51 PM
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I'm done giving you the time of day. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:32 PM
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Terribly sorry that "swimming in pussy" is more important than "fucking someone who wants to fuck in the ways we both agree on fucking."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:27 PM
2

How are women physically beautiful and sexually desirable? Performance. We who opt out of that bullshit aren't seen as complete women by some. (Generally, these mystical "Alphas" who seem to get all the pussy they can meow at.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:25 PM
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So.. not being rapey makes you a beta? I LOVE BETAS. ...women will do just about everything sexual with Alphas, but will put limits on what type of sex she'll do with beta boy (her rationalization is that she's 'matured', or Alpha Boy 'pressured her into it' and she was never REALLY into those types of sex acts to begin with). Betas are expected to just pretend this doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:23 PM
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The former. I knew that about myself as young as 8 years old. The "hot" and coveted guy was nasty to me. I wanted the nerd. I could see having a primal reaction, but I'm personally sapiosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 05:09 PM
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Men can wear makeup. There are women who like that. Other men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 05:05 PM
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Men are more than welcome to wear makeup as well. Only men (usually one's self) disallow men from wearing it. Men (and other women) also have a choice as to whether they prefer women who use it or women who do not. Men have a choice to behave like a woman should be some sort of mystical fuck goddess or, you know, a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 05:02 PM
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My failed close relationships, whether romantic or not, have the dynamics of being around an ex. Consider whether this is true for you by some possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 04:52 AM
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